“It’s never about winning an argument or a fight because at the end of the day, you just need to love your spouse. Trying to win an argument is not going to help you or help your marriage succeed. Take a step into maturity, loving your spouse despite their imperfections because your not perfect either.” That..that was just beautiful. 😁🥺❤️
@Kayla-fm2ie
3 жыл бұрын
Wow! Loved that quote too
@MattandAbby
3 жыл бұрын
🥺❤️
@laneyswaim
3 жыл бұрын
Was That Hard to quote?!! Lol
@mrsodair_
3 жыл бұрын
@@laneyswaim Yes! I watched it over like 10 times. 😂
@sugariehailey3339
3 жыл бұрын
Bc at the end of the day u know u will win :)
@evac6395
3 жыл бұрын
“Just know you are beautiful and you don’t need to compare yourself or say those negative things about yourself. You are worth so much...” The world needs more men like Matt tbh. You guys are awesome❤️❤️
@MattandAbby
3 жыл бұрын
You are so kind! Love you dudes!!
@abbyyyyy2312
3 жыл бұрын
Abby’s Hi was the sweetest Hi I have ever heard 🤗
@MattandAbby
3 жыл бұрын
Right?! ❤️
@mackenziefah7801
3 жыл бұрын
When Matt goes off on an inspiring speach>>>>>
@LillyBrowtteworste
3 жыл бұрын
i would love to hear more about the time(s)y’all almost broke up and how you worked through it. (unless that’s too personal) i feel like it would be so beneficial for people to hear 💗
@MattandAbby
3 жыл бұрын
Great idea!!! Thank you!
@eternalmitch7420
3 жыл бұрын
I LOVE YOU GUYS AND YOUR THE SWEETEST PEOPLE AND ARE PERFECT FOR EACH OTHER
@MattandAbby
3 жыл бұрын
Awwww ☺️ thank you!
@eternalmitch7420
3 жыл бұрын
Your welcome it’s true though
@kagisothamaga9973
3 жыл бұрын
Hi Love u guys I discovered u guys on Tik Tok and I think that u should go with 2 or 3 first
@claubit32
3 жыл бұрын
I agree!
@leannereilly
3 жыл бұрын
Matt’s inspirational speeches about woman needing to be confident in themselves melts my heart every time ❤️
@alohilanizapata53
3 жыл бұрын
Ultimately, however many children the Lord leads you to have- whether that be biologically or adopted or foster... but in your aspect, 4 is a comprise
@MattandAbby
3 жыл бұрын
I’m still thinking 3 is right on the money 😆 -Matt
@alohilanizapata53
3 жыл бұрын
@@MattandAbby lol
@alexababin9961
3 жыл бұрын
Yes!!! I totally agree!! Could not have said it better myself!!
@alexababin9961
3 жыл бұрын
@@MattandAbby 😆😂
@alexababin9961
3 жыл бұрын
@@MattandAbby I LOVE your videos Matt and Abby!!! Praying for you both as you are moving! Hawaii is sooo exciting!! And, I can not wait to see all the adventures/every video you make!! Thank you for always bringing a smile to my face!!😁
@clairepoage5680
3 жыл бұрын
So excited to see y’all’s new season of life unfold in Hawaii!! Prayers for a quick and easy time settling in! Love y’all!!
@MattandAbby
3 жыл бұрын
❤️❤️❤️
@nicholedetrie1598
3 жыл бұрын
Wait why are they moving ??
@clairepoage5680
3 жыл бұрын
@@nicholedetrie1598 I think they are just moving cause they want the adventure.
@jjkittykat3777
3 жыл бұрын
You two are so cute! You guys help my anxiety about being engaged early in life. I can’t wait for your adventures!
@brentayers3132
3 жыл бұрын
I wouldn’t let a couple that has been married 17 months calm that anxiety. Just saying.
@Chryslerdealership
3 жыл бұрын
@@brentayers3132 that’s more experience than a single/not engaged person though 🤷🏻♀️
@kayladewaard4019
3 жыл бұрын
My husband and I got married a couple days after I turned 21, and he was 20. My brother and his wife got married last year, at 20 and 18. Marrying young is normal in our extended family as well. ❤ I personally don't think it's harder to get married young, and actually getting married older might be... you have more "baggage" and might be more set in your ways. My husband and I are best friends and we have grown together. 💕 I think more people should marry younger rather than older...
@MattandAbby
3 жыл бұрын
I love that! We are so happy to spread positivity about young marriage because we love it!! And we feel so blessed to have you along for our journey! THANK YOU
@jenniferlarsson2156
3 жыл бұрын
I really appreciate both of you! I'm from Sweden and I represent the older followers to you channel (40+). I just want to say keep up with this channel and all the inspiration you both are to all that are watching your videos. I also want to say a special thanks to Matt for your kind and amazing pep talk in the last seconds of this video. I have been married for 20 years now, have 4 kids, and marriage isn't always easy. I was sitting and watching your video and was feeling really down, feeling ugly and not worthy, and when I heard your words, Matt, I literally started to cry, because that was exactly what I needed to hear. I REALLY wish all the best with everything that happens in your life and be blessed. Big hug to both of you/Jennifer
@madisonsmith4336
3 жыл бұрын
y’all are always so genuine and open. thank you guys for all the exciting content! :)
@MattandAbby
3 жыл бұрын
This is such a great compliment to hear! Thank you very very much! That is definitely one of our goals!
@bonniepaora8664
3 жыл бұрын
It's honestly great to see a couple who seem so happy to honestly say "yeah we nearly broke up multiple times". It's pretty normal to occasionally have big ass fights and step over the line and end up really questioning things. But if you still end up making up and moving on together, I think that says more about your relationship than the initial fight. So long as the problem is resolved, not just swept under the rug
@jettaupp
3 жыл бұрын
You guys should meet in the middle and have 4 kids! Fletcher and his three little siblings! 😂❤❤
@ilyssahagood8387
3 жыл бұрын
That's exactly what I said 😂
@MattandAbby
3 жыл бұрын
Great idea!!! 😂
@alexababin9961
3 жыл бұрын
That is exactly what I thought!!😂
@cerenity3578
3 жыл бұрын
Are they adopting or actually having some?
@jettaupp
3 жыл бұрын
@@cerenity3578 they said they want to have kids! Matt wants 3 and Abby wants 5.
@Abby-ht3bw
3 жыл бұрын
Dang Matt is just killing it with these answers today 😂
@MattandAbby
3 жыл бұрын
🤣🤣🤣
@savsgotyou
3 жыл бұрын
Could you guys take the Myers Briggs Personality test in a next video? I think it would be so fun🥰
@genevieperez1229
3 жыл бұрын
They should! That would be a fun video!
@sarahsingsforchrist
3 жыл бұрын
I wanna know their Enneagream! At least with the free enneapp
@aliciaharris18
3 жыл бұрын
YES JESS AND GABEEE... I’ve thought before that you guys would be good friends. 🥰
@MattandAbby
3 жыл бұрын
Yes! Kristin and Marcus would be so fun too!
@aliciaharris18
3 жыл бұрын
@@MattandAbby I love them too. ☺️
@katelyn6653
3 жыл бұрын
dear person reading this, ur so loved and worthy 🦋
@MattandAbby
3 жыл бұрын
Yes:)
@phoebejennings7103
3 жыл бұрын
You toooo
@alohilanizapata53
3 жыл бұрын
Everyone needs some alone time, in any type of relationship, or it gets toxic
@MattandAbby
3 жыл бұрын
Alone time is important and friends that aren’t your spouse are important too. You can’t rely on your spouse for everything. Community is a must ❤️
@alohilanizapata53
3 жыл бұрын
@@MattandAbby exactly
@Ncsvzmr
3 жыл бұрын
We love you matt and Abby, Wishing you all the goodness in hawaii. Love and kisses from the philippines💖
@MattandAbby
3 жыл бұрын
Thank you so so much! We are very grateful for ya!!!
@kateeye3365
3 жыл бұрын
You guys are the sweetest!! I'm from Missouri too! So happy for your move!!!
@fairieidol
7 ай бұрын
Have 4 since Abby wants 5 and Matt wants 3 that would be each of you giving in evenly. It’s the give and take that makes a good marriage. Be willing to give more than take, if you both do that yall should be just fine. Love you guys. 😊
@oliviab9584
3 жыл бұрын
You dudes make my day! You are such a sweet couple! So loving and kind to one another. Such a great example of a healthy loving relationship!
@jessiemefford8704
3 жыл бұрын
Both of them being stubborn about who is more stubborn 😂
@MattandAbby
3 жыл бұрын
True answer: we’re both stubborn 😂
@shirin3694
3 жыл бұрын
@@MattandAbby why do I feel like this is matt
@rebekahmangan4290
3 жыл бұрын
Y’all have 5 kids. So many people today just have one or two kids nothings wrong with that but it’s awesome to have huge families!!!
@A-Olivier
3 жыл бұрын
I have 3 siblings and we are best friends, even though I'm the only girl. It's awesome to be 4 buds. I think 4 is an excellent number of kids.
@MattandAbby
3 жыл бұрын
I love this!!!!
@emmabucknam933
3 жыл бұрын
Been subscribed since 20k can't wait to watch you keep growing 💗☺️
@mackenzieboyd1951
3 жыл бұрын
I love that Matt reminds us to hit the like button because I always forget! Keep up the good work guys I love the channel!
@MattandAbby
3 жыл бұрын
Haha thank you 🙏 🤩
@natashapoole4452
3 жыл бұрын
Omg, I love you guys and can’t wait to see what the future brings for you, because joy and happiness is all you guys deserve
@katieherrin4304
3 жыл бұрын
Matt’s pep talks during the video are always my favorite 😂
@mwhaley893
3 жыл бұрын
Abbys personality brightens my day!! Thank y'all for making my day amazing❤️😊
@alohilanizapata53
3 жыл бұрын
Sorry havent been here in a while, missed y'all! Hope you had a blessed Christmas!!
@MattandAbby
3 жыл бұрын
We missed you too! Happy to have ya back! haha And we hope you had a very merry Christmas too!
@abbybonilla3092
3 жыл бұрын
Congratulations to you both on moving to Hawai'i I wish y'all the best!!!😁 I just got engaged last night and I really hope my marriage is as sweet as yours!!!💞💍
@nicolekronung8367
2 жыл бұрын
I really like about Matt that he likes deep conversations and is socially clever. I really like you two together ♡
@emilytubbleville4844
2 жыл бұрын
5 kids. U guys are so adorable. U make my days!
@cee6101
3 жыл бұрын
I met the love of my life and the person I want to spend the rest of my life with July 6th 2019 and you guys got married July 6th 2019. WOW I LOVE YOU GUYS!! 💛
@ranissifleming9343
3 жыл бұрын
I loveeee the music behind all of Matt’s motivational speeches 😌
@isabelgradzewicz3751
3 жыл бұрын
Matt after every question: “that’s a good question!” lol love you guys!❤️
@emmafahrni4433
3 жыл бұрын
Abby's voice is so cute. I love hearing it. I love Matt as well. 🤣❤️❤️
@mackenziecook2576
3 жыл бұрын
Compromise Fletcher and his three siblings And the stubborn discussion just shows how much more stubborn Abby is 😂😂
@MattandAbby
3 жыл бұрын
Hahahaha true! And I love that compromise!!
@allisonsimpson4061
3 жыл бұрын
His pep talks are so great and then the theme music makes it hysterical 😆
@athaleaclaypool8388
3 жыл бұрын
We were married at 19, have been married almost 7yrs.. have 1 child.. and we were married 5yrs before she came along. Life is perfect(: it is what you make it!
@savannahdyer8
3 жыл бұрын
I love you guys so much!!!!
@amyjimenez3913
3 жыл бұрын
Love you guys!! So excited for your journey!!
@spomusmo2349
3 жыл бұрын
I just love their energy and positive personalities. Matt is husband goals 🥰🥰
@JordanSmith-xb2dy
3 жыл бұрын
I love Disney World!! Y’all are seriously the sweetest!!
@MattandAbby
3 жыл бұрын
Disney is our favorite! Thank you!
@JordanSmith-xb2dy
3 жыл бұрын
@@MattandAbby mine too! You’re welcome! Happy New Year to my favorite couple!! 🎉
@DailyTipsbyBrookeandSophia
3 жыл бұрын
I love y’all’s video! Y’all are so awesome! I lived in Hawaii for a while, (Oahu actually!) It was such an amazing experience. Hikes, the beach, SUNSHINE! ☀️ Thank y’all for all of the amazing videos that bring all of us joy!! ♥️
@maxstarn3299
3 жыл бұрын
2:38 basically, when there is a disagreement, it’s not you vs them, it’s the both of you vs the problem
@passiveincome4908
3 жыл бұрын
Hawaii is my fav place on earth. I’ve spent a few months in Hawaii and fell in love with it. Would love to move there in the next two years. Hope you both enjoy your new life there.
@uklk
3 жыл бұрын
Dear Matt & Abby, I am a subscriber and a liker cant say a sharer. I have binged watch like 10 of your videos straight, you guys are very adorable and honest that kept me going. But after a while I got little bored on the subjects you choose for every videos. as I want your channel to grow as a viewer I would suggest you to pick some other subjects too like hicking, camping together etc etc. Thankyou.
@kinley354
3 жыл бұрын
I think that is so cool that Matt and Abby are moving from Missouri to Hawaii!!! That is a huge step! I wish you guys safe travel and have a great time there ❤️❤️
@jennie_gossi04
3 жыл бұрын
ABBY YOU CUT YOUR HAIR 💇♀️😍 When Abby said that they started dating June 23 I got so excited because the guy that I like, I met him on that day😍
@WhatTheHeckMan
3 жыл бұрын
Love you guys!!! ❤️ Convince my wife we need to move to Hawaii 😂
@edenspence3326
3 жыл бұрын
Alr who disliked their video😡 There content is so good and they r trying so hard if u don’t like there vids click off of the video.don’t dislike! and why what’s the point of disliking their video it’s not like they r gonna take it down all you r doing is spreading negativity! Love u Matt and Abby.
@rebekahdopen9152
3 жыл бұрын
Yay!! I love your videos! Literally watching this 14 seconds after you uploaded😂🤷🏻♀️
@alphasphere92
3 жыл бұрын
Can you do a live stream on KZitem so people that don’t have a way to ask you questions can
@MattandAbby
3 жыл бұрын
We may have to do that sometime! That would be fun!
@finleyhill521
3 жыл бұрын
I actually started tearing up when Matt gave that small speech about how beautiful each girl is😭❤❤ I love you guys!!😊 Btw Fletcher is the name I would have been named if I was a boy lol
@sambelding297
3 жыл бұрын
I LOVE YOU GUYS
@misbahismail6241
3 жыл бұрын
Yaa a collab with Jess and gabe would be amazing gabes energy and your energies match ✨🤩🤩
@genevieperez1229
3 жыл бұрын
A collab with Jess & Gabe would be so awesome!!
@makenzieschmierer9348
3 жыл бұрын
omggg that would be 🔥🔥
@nylagodbold1367
3 жыл бұрын
love you guysss!!
@esthernicholson6686
3 жыл бұрын
I'm so pumped for the Hawaii vlogs!! There gonna be iconic, so excited! Love you Guys💕
@delta.tran69
3 жыл бұрын
IM SO HAPPY YOU GUYS ARE GOING TO HAWAII BC I WENT AND IT IS SOOOO PRETTY AND CALM AND IT MAKES ME SO HAPPY
@karlysutton7042
3 жыл бұрын
I watch videos with the closed caption and when you introduce yourselves it said “we are mountain Abby” I die every time.
@isabellachavez3332
3 жыл бұрын
Aww yay! So early! I love your guys content ❤️
@MewsView
3 жыл бұрын
It's been so long since Kyle and I saw you guys. I can't believe how well you are doing on KZitem! Good luck on the move!
@carreygoeckner9798
3 жыл бұрын
I love the Motivational Matt moments in almost every video!! They always make my day!! Thanks Matt!
@lslager19
3 жыл бұрын
Jess & Gabe are my other favorite KZitem couple! (with y'all of course) It would be so cool if you did a collab!
@taraknoble6010
3 жыл бұрын
Y’all are adorable together and y’all are so amazing!!!!!!
@hannahgreenofficial
3 жыл бұрын
“hey girlie” gotta love matt omd haha🤣🤣🤣🤣
@MattandAbby
3 жыл бұрын
Hahaha
@kristieyring3157
3 жыл бұрын
You guys should TOTALLY collaborate with jess and gabe! Love you guys💜
@purplebubbles2692
3 жыл бұрын
Why weren’t y’all eating ice cream? The video had a different vibe.
@MattandAbby
3 жыл бұрын
Definitely should have gotten some ice cream...
@emmaerickson8372
3 жыл бұрын
⚠️IDEA ABOUT KIDS⚠️: Have 3 biological kids, then adopted 2 kids!! Just a idea! Btw, love you guys so much!!🥰
@emmabemma1184
3 жыл бұрын
y'all haven't done a Q&A in a FAT minute! i've been here for a while lol😋💕
@emmarollins5957
3 жыл бұрын
My husband and I hugged right after he proposed. Glad to see there's other couples that did the same!
@hannahowen7169
3 жыл бұрын
I can't believe you share a birthday with my brother. You guys should definitely have 4 kids because Matt wants 3 and Abby wants 5 so meet in the middle and have 4. Also loved the pep talk at the end!
@ekmackanos
3 жыл бұрын
I’m obsessed with u guys! Praying for your transition to Hawaii!
@musical_prayers
3 жыл бұрын
Is it just me or you guys think believe that Abby is getting more and more comfortable and chill in the videos?
@crissimon7404
3 жыл бұрын
Sweetest, most genuine couple on social media! Hello from happiest place on earth (Disney area).
@PotterFan394007
3 жыл бұрын
Matt's pep talks are awesome!!! It's so Fletcher!
@anastasiyamyronets4513
3 жыл бұрын
omg you guys got married on my birthday!
@MattandAbby
3 жыл бұрын
That's so sweet!!!
@annawarner5800
3 жыл бұрын
@@MattandAbby you said u got engaged on June 22 and that is MY birthday!!
@oliviamcclellan3057
3 жыл бұрын
They got married on my birthday TOO!! Birthday twins 🥳
@JennyAmponsah
3 жыл бұрын
And my birthday as well!
@elizabethpowell1946
3 жыл бұрын
Omg y’all are literally the sweetest!💕 I can tell y’all are really in love!!💕💕💕💕💕💕💕
@hannahrebecca7649
3 жыл бұрын
the editing was amazing on this one
@hannahludwig3087
3 жыл бұрын
Oh my gosh you two are the cutest!! I love watching your videos, and I am so excited for your big move!! Hope you have safe travels and make many wonderful memories in Hawaii!!!
@jiannarae28
3 жыл бұрын
YAYYYYYYYY NEW VIDEO OMG YASSSSSSS
@coralarson4069
3 жыл бұрын
you guys are so adorable together 💕
@BrittanyJune
3 жыл бұрын
So crazy, we probably saw each other at the muny that summer and we didn't even know. Weird how life works.
@shreypadsumbiya2510
3 жыл бұрын
Dude I am from India and tik tok is banned in India! Please post more often on Instagram! And just for the record, you have got a fan base in India as well.
@tademlinders8022
3 жыл бұрын
Why is y’all’s engagement story the cutest❤️
@Sarah-um6tt
3 жыл бұрын
LOVE the silly energy in this video! One of your best! And you guys should definitely have 5 kids.
@megann9482
3 жыл бұрын
Abby makes me want to cut all my hair off, it’s so FLIPPIN PRETTY!!
@hollybranning9540
3 жыл бұрын
I’m so early! Love you guys!!
@emilywolenski1487
3 жыл бұрын
I'm so jealous you guys got to achieve your milestones so young. Not that I'm old, I'm only 25, but I wanted to be married to my boyfriend by now.
@skskxksnsns4506
3 жыл бұрын
Btw I always watch the ads because ik u just graduated so it might help idk 🤷♀️
@MattandAbby
3 жыл бұрын
THE SWEETEST! Thank you!!!
@skskxksnsns4506
3 жыл бұрын
@@MattandAbby THANK YOU! HAPPY NEW YEAR THE BEST WISHES
@caileighhart4610
3 жыл бұрын
Y’all and Jess and Gabe are my faves!! So I would love for y’all to collaborate!
@JohnG500
3 жыл бұрын
My uncle lives on the big island with his husband. I love visiting big island and Oahu. It’s incredible there. I can’t wait for your adventures.
@aanya.s07
3 жыл бұрын
You guys should colab with Josh and Abbie Herbert!!!
@MattandAbby
3 жыл бұрын
THAT WOULD BE SO FUN
@mihirbapatwritings1234
3 жыл бұрын
The editing on this is so brilliant 🤣👏 Hilarious tbh
@AK-ym9hx
3 жыл бұрын
Abby is so pretty!
@MattandAbby
3 жыл бұрын
Awww thank you so much!!!
@ajlott7286
3 жыл бұрын
4 kids and I have reasons why It’s between 3 and 5 It’s an even number so u guys can do teams equal U can say 4 no more 4 is great cause u will be a family of six so u can do teams of 2 .3 on 3 or 2.2.2! But it’s up to u! Because it’s ur family! Love u guys and support ur discussion!
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