Today we're gonna be a taking a look at how to not handle rejection after proposing for marriage with a Lamborghini Twitter: / xenoshot Twitch: / xenoshots
If he's willing to act like that towards her in public when they're not even married, nor probably in a serious relationship, then how he is going to act if they are? She dodged a missle.
@ljeans531
3 ай бұрын
Bruh, he gonna kill over a slightly burnt steak in private😅😬
@indoora
3 ай бұрын
Well said.
@NickyQuesne13
3 ай бұрын
Here's a general rule of thumb: If you aren't 100 percent sure the answer is yes, don't ask the question. Especially in public...
@joonsmelodie9927
3 ай бұрын
You took the words right out of my mouth….although this adult toddler was probably counting on that as just one more thing to push her into saying yes.
@almamater9346
3 ай бұрын
You would think this was common sense...though I'm inclined to believe he knew the answer would be no, so he tried to make the situation so she couldn't refuse. Big 🚩
@NativeNYerChicHK
3 ай бұрын
They make a public spectacle purposely to pressure the woman to say yes. Thats why he had the reaction he did, his intimidation and bullying didn’t work. He seems like the type that never hears the word NO.
@lindabonesteel364
3 ай бұрын
3 months ? You can't buy love. He a spoiled child
@tu_lei
3 ай бұрын
I doubt. If he was Russian she would said yes
@paranoid__sleep
3 ай бұрын
nah og commenter was right. You cant expect someone to fall in love with you that fast just because they buy you nice things, no matter where in the world they came from. @@tu_lei
@jam6876
3 ай бұрын
wait until you find out arranged marriages are more successful than non arranged marriages
@bigrob4840
3 ай бұрын
Ah man you a straight hater
@juliagahan1499
3 ай бұрын
@@jam6876 only because of obligation, you before apes person, you!
@Lima_luna-nob
3 ай бұрын
Public proposals are the worst
@johnbradbury8610
3 ай бұрын
They're only for attention-seeking narcissists
@particlextheory7480
3 ай бұрын
Agreed. I can maybe see why some people find it to be a grand and romantic gesture, but personally, I'd like something quiet, intimate, and personal. It should be about us in that moment and not a crowd of strangers.
@mystic006
3 ай бұрын
I agree. For me, that's something I'd want done in private.
@ReikiontheRun
3 ай бұрын
Yeah. It's weird. I live in Mexico on the beach and there's a service here that puts out a red carpet, rose petals and HUGE "Marry Me" letters on the beach. It's always awkward and often accompanied by their friends waiting in the wings. 😮
@tyrantgregcagkaiju71
12 күн бұрын
True, but man do they generate some of the most watchable videos online 😅.
@K3NN3DY_101
3 ай бұрын
Crazy how some guys say women only like them for their money but then these same guys probably pull this and get rejected 😂
@mztweety1374
2 ай бұрын
That’s how you know it might be your personality that keeps them away
@MHKyo1132
3 ай бұрын
I speak chinese and he's just saying he can buy her anything she wants please marry me pretty much
@DarkPhoenixSaga
3 ай бұрын
Thank you for translating
@isaacmettle
3 ай бұрын
By your content on your channel you’re telling the truth.
@chrislovitt46
2 ай бұрын
He needs to do this. You should know men in China have competition to get a woman.
@isaacmettle
2 ай бұрын
@@chrislovitt46 they STILL have that one child law so they kill or send the female off for adoption cause the man can carry the family name?
@anneshirleyduncan
2 ай бұрын
Ty
@college87
3 ай бұрын
I would rather be alone than have a man like that
@josephh891
3 ай бұрын
Don't stress. you never will. He's rich.
@lapris7380
3 ай бұрын
And that’s all he brings to the table it seems. Most people prefer significant others with more substance. You can’t buy love or a yes from a sane person.
@josephh891
3 ай бұрын
@@lapris7380 Agreed, but tell that to the average "modern" woman. Most seem to prefer money over love and stability. They think true happiness comes from"stuff". I feel really bad for them, but it seems like thefeminism lie is working. The number of women over 30 who are depressed and medicated is increasing daily, while the number of men going overseas to find wives is on the rise. give it another twenty years and the only women in the USA will be cat ladies.
@Unknown-px6lm
3 ай бұрын
@@josephh891 LMAO
@em.415
3 ай бұрын
@@josephh891 Seems the guy doesn’t have who he wants either despite being rich. So where do we go from here?
@4789slydax
3 ай бұрын
She made the correct choice.
@mztweety1374
2 ай бұрын
Yup, good for her. Even money can’t fix a crap relationship… And it’s way too soon dammit😂😮
@Artyom_K.
Күн бұрын
Get back to your basement. Mommy won't bring you your Taco today
@johnub4
3 ай бұрын
WHEN are people going to learn that love has NO price tag on it?!!! It does NOT!!! If she accepted the car and started a relationship with him that would’ve been a horrible one. I am just glad that my fiancé loves me for who I am. It’s not what I have that impresses her. It’s who I am really.
@Findpepperbridge
3 ай бұрын
Idk about that.. what’s why there are sugar babies 😂
@ladycobrana852
3 ай бұрын
@@Findpepperbridgewell yes, but is very upfront relationship, that is a talked and agreed arrangement. What he did is not good. The average person won’t want to get with someone if they havent known each other for over 3 months and bought something so extreme, PLUS a public proposal when you haven’t talked about marriage. Unless you are offering to give said luxury and they reciprocate such extremes (accepting), it will feel like too much.
@ericp1139
3 ай бұрын
Maybe money can’t buy love, but it certainly can buy marriages. Quantitative aspects still rank high in Asia. A man needs to have good income, a car, a house, and can buy her LV bags.
@Oldschoolnana
3 ай бұрын
I agree with you. Money can't buy happiness either. Sounds like you are both keepers. Wishing you two all the best.❤😊
@nachocheeba
3 ай бұрын
If this were me i would be mortified. This would be way too much. Him grabbing her after she refused was incredibly disturbing. This is the moment when you let her go when this happens and you take the L and learn not to do this again.
@ReesieandLee
3 ай бұрын
My husband went all out for a proposal… he rolled over in bed, looked at me and said “we should get married” It was everything I ever wanted! 😂 The 18th of this month is our 36th anniversary ❤
@dinabaughman8731
3 ай бұрын
I proposed to my husband over the phone while he was out of state for 2 months for Air Force. He said yes, but wanted to move the date A year sooner. 34 years and going strong.
@daveblackman816
3 ай бұрын
I think being in the middle of a large crowd was the main issue. But this dude is on total simp behavior.
@jeaniebird999
3 ай бұрын
Maybe was hoping she would feel obligated to say yes to avoid embarrassment in public.
@jenniehughes6927
3 ай бұрын
I would have been so embarrassed if I was her. @jeaniebird999
@juliagahan1499
3 ай бұрын
Zero excuses. He just showed his true self. I don't want to deal with THAT for a lifetime. Let's stop making excuses for ridiculous behavior, yes?
@brookelynnwu8016
3 ай бұрын
The gifts too. Like trying to pressure and buy her.
@jeaniebird999
3 ай бұрын
@@jenniehughes6927 Me, too! It was such a manipulative move. HUGE red flag!
@eritta
3 ай бұрын
Poor guy. Accidentally bought a bouquet of red flags instead of roses. [Edited to add]: literal red flags are used for warning of danger. In this case, him proposing after casually dating for only 3 months is a ridiculously huge red flag. Specifically this flag is referred to as "love bombing.'
@jenniehughes6927
3 ай бұрын
You win 😂🏆
@dkayflowers79
3 ай бұрын
Awesome, low key for some I bet there's gonna be some *whoosh going on asking I don't get it 😬
@eritta
3 ай бұрын
@@dkayflowers79 ! Hadn't thought of that. Gonna add to my comment. Thank you for pointing that out 😀
@jam6876
3 ай бұрын
wait until you find out arranged marriages are more successful than non arranged marriages
@eritta
3 ай бұрын
@@jam6876 depending on what you mean by successful, sure. But that's not what the discussion is about here.
@priscamolotsi
3 ай бұрын
This is in China (read: normal behaviour). A super-rich, spoilt kid proposed to his Ukrainian girlfriend. She didn’t want to marry him because, according to her, he was a bad-tempered, entitled mommy’s boy. Money cannot always buy you love. She dodged the bullet with this one. Horrible!
@hunee8
2 ай бұрын
Interesting to know she was from Ukraine 🇺🇦. Cool if she can understand him. lol
@jaredbrown3726
Ай бұрын
That might be why she's speaking in English cause he probably knows more English then she knows Mandarin
@kati-ana
3 ай бұрын
His immaturity and desperation explains why she's not interested.
@josephh891
3 ай бұрын
Well, at least we can say that this woman has some class....she aint a golddigger.
@debbieedwards420
3 ай бұрын
He's obviously has never been told no.
@jessmorgan6732
3 ай бұрын
I warned my husband very early on that I would LOATHE a public proposal. He ultimately made it in a park where other people were around but didn't have a reason to look at us. This, though? Horrific.
@neogotham2k395
3 ай бұрын
I got something to say to that spoiled brat, "Money doesn't buy everything." He needs to take a hint
@thatcookmoniii
3 ай бұрын
Him grabbing her like that was a tad bit frightening 😢 imagine what he's capable of behind close doors? Thank God she left. I really hope this was just a stunt 😂 cuz man, this mad wild. He won't be able to recover from that outlandish behavior
@machetefreddy2851
3 ай бұрын
Common drawback to rich people? Zero self-awareness. 👍 They often forget how completely absurd they look.
@MH26478
3 ай бұрын
He really thought she loved him for his money, She probably liked him because he seemed like a nice guy (at first), but he showed his true colors by the way he handled that rejection.
@alimfuzzy
3 ай бұрын
I have a few rich asian friends from high school, one is from hong kong. Hes okay to hang out with but he is a bit of a jerk. He doesnt go all out like this but his MO was to impress women with his money and then would go absoluetly balistic when they started dating if he didnt get his way. He perceives women as something he bought. He threw a chair in a restaurant once because his GF was sick and had to cancel a dinner we were going to. When were kids he was kind of like this, not as bad but when he started making his own money (his dad gave him a business to run, but hes actually really smart any way) he got worse. Hes always bragging about the women he slept with, even while dating someone, even when he had a fiance
@brownskinbeauty.
3 ай бұрын
So what she said was "I don't love you!" To which he responds "But I'm rich and you aren't going to embarass me in front of all these people." Glad I can finally put all my anime skills to use
@isaacmettle
3 ай бұрын
owari da
@raypist5938
2 ай бұрын
Stop watching anime!! Also, thank you lol
@AuthorDLTillery
2 ай бұрын
Not sure what anime would have to do with anything chinese... so yeah 😒
@isaacmettle
2 ай бұрын
@@AuthorDLTillery it’s them Japanese folks that do anime
@brownskinbeauty.
2 ай бұрын
@@AuthorDLTillery There's also Chinese anime
@gundamgunpla4685
3 ай бұрын
HUGE props to this woman for not selling herself short for a nice car like that. She knows her worth for sure
@wanderinggypsy3203
3 ай бұрын
It’s the tantrum that proves rejection was the best decision.
@althealee9375
3 ай бұрын
This is why I can’t stand huge public proposals. Basically if the woman says no she’s seen as a bitch even if she has a good reason. My husband was going to propose to me at the movie theater where I first told him I loved him but was so worried about drawing a crowd that he proposed at home instead
@MLGconcrete
3 ай бұрын
I had a sinking feeling these kinds of proposals were becoming more and more common, kinda gives the vibe of some people thinking "if I can force my partner to marry me I definitely will", eugh
@TinyRoseTamer
3 ай бұрын
Especially the ratio of men & women being very unbalanced due to the old one child policy!
@michelleanderson8370
3 ай бұрын
Congrats to the Lady for dogging a bullet. That proposal was 100% all him and clout and 0 about her. He reminds me of a stalker...corner the lady in public so she won't cause a scene out of embarrassment
@PaperPlateClorox
3 ай бұрын
She made a smart move.
@kurokumo8169
3 ай бұрын
I am not Chinese but I have watched some videos of people who are in China and the attitude towards domestic violence by the police. it is considered typically a family matter the wife is screaming and hitting the husband or vice versa things really have to get out of hand before the police will consider stepping in on domestic violence in public to a child as well.
@silverbandit721
3 ай бұрын
She dodged a Tank Missle
@MakotoKinoSailorJupiter2020
3 ай бұрын
Money can’t buy love
@jillmac2000
3 ай бұрын
Speaking only for myself as a woman, there is no greater red flag indicating a person prone to manipulation and controlling tendencies than public proposals and promposals. Because most people see it as a grand romantic gesture, the recipient is now socially required to accept even if they don't want to. And if the recipient is honest, and rejects the proposal, not only are met with the immediate vitriol of the in person on-lookers, but all of social media tears them apart as well. There is no winning. You either relinquish your choice to societal pressures or you are punished for exercising your choice.
@leilanicorbelle
3 ай бұрын
My fiancé proposed last October…where tf is my lambo?! Actually it was an amazing proposal, it was our 8th anniversary and he proposed at the Biltmore in Asheville which is basically a giant romantic house, gardens, and vineyards
@marycarter6134
3 ай бұрын
Strike one: doing the proposal in a public setting. Strike two: buying her an expensive, useless car she probably doesn't want. Strike three: acting like a three year old when she says no.
@tr3vorb438
3 ай бұрын
“I really liked you since the first time I see you” “I can buy you anything you want” “the car I already bought (for you)’”
@tr3vorb438
3 ай бұрын
“I have money” “how many car you want?”
@jonanna1894
3 ай бұрын
Great way to expose himself for future dating relationships:
@Dennis-Hare
3 ай бұрын
"Does this mean I don't get the lambo?"
@maryanimal53
3 ай бұрын
Hell, I wish somebody would buy me a lamborghini. I would have thanked him. I hope he kept the car. He's a spoiled rich guy. I'm happy she dumped his ass, but his behavior after she ran away was horrifying. I still had to laugh though😂
@Ara-xs2vg
3 ай бұрын
The guy clearly has issues, the girl was smart in rejecting him, respect for that girl for being able to give up on such an expensive car for the sake of her safety and well-being
@maryanimal53
3 ай бұрын
I totally agree. She dodged the bullet there.
@CuntNuggets
3 ай бұрын
He would unalive you during the honeymoon
@arevir68rivera
3 ай бұрын
Someone hand that man the, "Simp of the Year Award."
@PhoenixRain01010
3 ай бұрын
Some actually think that "Well, if I ask in public, they surely won't say no." And then get not only get rejected, but highly embarrassed
@breisyaispuro2410
3 ай бұрын
This reminds me of another story similar to this one but the guy was a stalker, he bought her a car and proposed to her. The poor girl begged him to leave her alone during that.
@Wongthethlef
3 ай бұрын
So basically he's saying "I got money, I will buy whatever you want, marry me" when she started crying. I'm not from China but I believe could be parent pressure him of faster getting married
@picallo1
3 ай бұрын
That is way over the top after 100 days. Thats crazy!!!
@Atrus999
3 ай бұрын
I think this is the most embarrassing video I've ever seen. 🤣
@domopyonhop2613
3 ай бұрын
This is just love bombing to the extreme. I would die inside if someone did all this for me regardless if I loved them or not. The amount of pressure to say yes is intoxicating, especially in public! I feel so bad for her (seems like 90 day fiance now that i think about it)
@frakow49
3 ай бұрын
Things like this makes me think I'm lucky to be single.
@deathbydeviceable
3 ай бұрын
I mean, if you can't accept that people will have rage fits like this including you than yeah, I'm glad you're alone too 😂
@ShEDDiNgmYSkiN
3 ай бұрын
@@deathbydeviceableNormal people do not have rage fits like this. Not even close.
@Nynaeve_Sedai
3 ай бұрын
@@deathbydeviceableif you think anything about this behavior is normal you need to get help
@deathbydeviceable
3 ай бұрын
@Nynaeve_Sedai never said anything about his behavior as normal, but it's normal to have those emotions of rage. We all do it, you're not Jesus
@K3NN3DY_101
Ай бұрын
@@deathbydeviceable uhhh it's not normal to throw a hissy fit over someone setting boundaries and saying no. if you truly think it is, I hope you never run into an unfortunate woman/man.
@tracey26reacts59
3 ай бұрын
Ummm 🤔 part of me thinks this is staged.. 🤷🏽♀️. But who knows
@jenniferwilliams9548
3 ай бұрын
MY ex husband completely surprised me when he proposed after serenading me with his guitar in a crowded restaurant on Valentine's day,. The only nice thing I can say about that man is he had a beautiful voice. The whole restaurant stopped, to be respectful I'm guessing , like servers stood there with food instead of taking it to their tables, nobody talked, everyone was looking. It's a hard position to be in, I thought him and I had an understanding and we were going to hold off on getting engaged, and the ring was so flashy and huge on my finger. He knew I was against the diamond trade, now you can find the history or check to see if stone is ethically sourced. I think I would have responded differently if there weren't 100 people watching us.
@AmbblyPuff
3 ай бұрын
I personally think that ppl shouldn't propose in public, mainly cus they feel pressured to say yes to save them from embarrassment.
@DFSLJC
3 ай бұрын
This looks like some kind of state sponsored “reality tv.”
@Informant_is_back
3 ай бұрын
Communist China for you. 'I'll acrue [be gifted] obscene wealth and use in an attempt to buy your love with stupid designer crap'.
@astriverofstrengthandknowledge
3 ай бұрын
Based on how he reacted post rejection, I’d say she made a good choice. Public proposals are one of the most unnecessary things ever. The amount of pressure and attention is so overwhelming that it’s almost like you are *forced* to say yes. You just can’t buy true love.
@em.415
3 ай бұрын
He seems like the type who would try to harm her for embarrassing him. I hope she stays safe.
@anjaxtv
3 ай бұрын
Maybe he's not a good guy....?? Considering his reaction me thinks so
@vr_9171
3 ай бұрын
When you die after a 100 days hardcore playthrough
@karenwhinesmore9347
3 ай бұрын
Dude thought he could buy her. Respect for her saying no!
@grannym2880
3 ай бұрын
Looks a little staged but if not, I hope the girl is ok.
@Allie_phelps
3 ай бұрын
Damn I got ripped, I didn’t get a limbo when my husband proposed to me. Oh well, I got a great man that doesn’t throw temper tantrums haha
@ElSantoLuchador
3 ай бұрын
She's speaking English with a Russian accent. That would make sense if that was their shared language, but he never breaks from Chinese. Beyond the short amount of time they've known each other, they can probably barely communicate. Regardless, "no" was the correct answer.
@ohthechitchat
2 ай бұрын
He had to depend on a public place, a Lamborghini and his daddies money. He just may not think he has anything else to offer.
@DollWhisperer_ASMR_Studio
3 ай бұрын
I heard that this could have been a set up by a company that was trying to sell those drinks or whatever it was that he kicked over on that randomly placed table. If this was actually a way to secretly advertise I think they missed the mark 😂😂😂
@titovalasques
3 ай бұрын
He's a rich guy and as such probably has never been told NO in his entire life. This is a learning experience. Also, buying your bride-to-be a Lamborghini in order to impress her to say Yes actually feels cheap and lazy and proves that being rich doesn't automatically give you taste, personality, make you creative, attractive or likable. Aaaaaaaaaawkward!!!!
@andresfajardo6838
3 ай бұрын
The dealership was probably "its fine if he destroys the displays, that simp just bought a lambo to get rejected"
@Blessd-savingrace
3 ай бұрын
Dang I would of accepted the Lamborghini... LMFAO 😆🤣
@debbieedwards420
3 ай бұрын
But does the guy come with it?😅
@LupinLovebites
3 ай бұрын
Here in the US? Verify the car is registered and owned outright in my name, accept in public, then ghost him, with the car, of course.😂
@Blessd-savingrace
3 ай бұрын
@@LupinLovebites we could be friends bc I think same exact way!! 😉🤣🤣
@technomage6736
5 күн бұрын
I guess money can't always buy anything 🤷♂️ Good on her for having some class!
@SynM22
3 ай бұрын
I hope she's ok.
@RebeccaJ720
3 ай бұрын
This vid is quite old (but gold). He got humbled quickly because he thought being rich alone would get her to stay.
@yakzivz1104
2 ай бұрын
I guarantee you that she told him no before he did all of the extra stuff.
@ChillRodney
3 ай бұрын
Video started and I said "O she gotta be cheating!" Video ended and i said " O she was dodging a bullet!"
@f.frederickskitty2910
3 ай бұрын
That was sad and painful to watch
@RByrne
3 ай бұрын
Who wouldn't want all his bros clapping and yelling while firing congetti canons?
@chrislovitt46
2 ай бұрын
In China, if you want to even ask a woman out, the guy has to own a house and on the first date give her jewelry or something expensive. It's to show the woman you can and will support her. Being, a lover boy or a simp isn't a bad thing. The average American men still live with mommy and hate women.
@jazzythebaker
3 ай бұрын
She done the right thing to say no and walk away, this guy has issues! Plus why proposing on public on a rainy day? 😂
@angelarviso8878
3 ай бұрын
Incels come in all walks of life lol
@sophieseverson8465
3 ай бұрын
This might be in a place like Harbin (far northern China), where Russians and Chinese have a history of mingling due to their shared proximity to the geographical border. Bc of this, many Chinese understand how to speak Russian and vice versa. As for her speaking English, I assume he also knows how to speak English. The fact she's choosing to publicly speak English may be her attempt to symbolically detach herself from him. Just my observation/opinion.
@angelamckay9548
3 ай бұрын
My husband dropped a ring box onto my lap and said "try this on for size"......its our 35th wedding anniversary this year ❤🎉❤
@marquese1960
3 ай бұрын
She most definitely dodged a bullet 😮 looks like he's part of some sort of criminal milieu...hope she gets away ok.😢
@tracyhaverstick5672
3 ай бұрын
What a huge red flag when the propossl comes with a getaway car! 😆 🤣 😂
@Zac403AMVsNStuff
2 ай бұрын
She made the right call.
@gogopogo1
3 ай бұрын
OMG LOL What an embarrassing moment for the girl. The guy too I guess but he created it so I have 0 sympathy for him KEKW
@AuthorDLTillery
3 ай бұрын
I am learning Chinese and understood most of what he said, he was saying i love you and can give you everything etc... also he most likely speaks English and she chinese. Also dating isn't the same in china and Korea like here, they can get serious pretty fast... so its not simping its a different culture, but besides that he took it bad...He thought it was a romance drama, but soon found out it was a family drama, which means there would be a lot of suffering for everyone. 😬😬
@stevecox7075
3 ай бұрын
Trying to manipulate someone in public to marry you is incredibly passive aggressive.
@alicatinak8172
3 ай бұрын
Two things for sure, she's not a "gold digger" of today's culture or she would've been working toward that proposal from date one.🤣 And she probably doesn't have an OF acct either.😂 From a mom's perspective... if she was my daughter, I'd be very proud of her for many reasons.😊 imho
@angiec3512
3 ай бұрын
He's insane! 3 months isn't lomg enough to buy your girlfriend a sports car and ask her to marry you. Now he made himself look stupid in front of his friends and all of the other people there. She definitely dodged a bullet.
@dzombie5776
3 ай бұрын
Bro she said no🎉
@WillieWeed
3 ай бұрын
It sure is a great supportive argument that our brains don't fully mature until 25!
@Re3p4rr
2 күн бұрын
-1000 social credit
@chocolateice24
3 ай бұрын
You can't buy luv like he's crazy for trying to buy her luv by buying her a Lambo💀💀💯💯 like he's really desperate
@loveycat5474
3 ай бұрын
He is controlling and aggressive, dangereous.
@GoonieLord
3 ай бұрын
The Leader of the Simps got rejected down bad
@mattmazz1373
3 ай бұрын
My names Ashton kusher, and You've been chunked.😂
@Melissa-jp8ps
3 ай бұрын
This is probably not the first time she has told him "NO"
@marrionna044
3 ай бұрын
Good way to seal that break up
@julitakamaki4386
2 ай бұрын
Straight up. Run away.
@Billcipher_fan5
3 ай бұрын
This video is almost as depressing as matpat's departure from KZitem
@retrosiren824
3 ай бұрын
Can someone please translate what he’s telling her during the proposal and after?,
@abbiereynolds8016
3 ай бұрын
If she had accepted it y'all would have been calling her a gold digger. It's great that she rejected him, money can't buy love. She has standards.
@arakano
3 ай бұрын
Were those aluminum balloons that he was kicking and pushing off of the displays? I thought they were energy drinks at first. Lol
@williambarr2846
3 ай бұрын
Certainly if he acts like this when things don't go his way, that gives you an inclination of why she turned him down; good thing she found out early on!
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