He basically wasted her time because he felt pressured. Women fake pleasure, men can fake whole relationships/marriages 😞
@brittbritt997
3 жыл бұрын
That last statement felt like a punch sis😅. It’s the truth!
@Pinkdiamond12
3 жыл бұрын
💯
@sheloves3663
3 жыл бұрын
@@brittbritt997 That’s the real Halloween spook 😳 lol
@missybella9046
3 жыл бұрын
BURN 🔥👊
@travelchannel304
3 жыл бұрын
ThanK Godah! Im sinGLE !!
@Dr.Elaine1
3 жыл бұрын
If he don’t make you his girlfriend by month 3, move on with your life.” TG
@lesliemartin2901
3 жыл бұрын
She had a lot of forgiveness for this man...I pray she forgives herself for staying so long...
@Tashamacktv
3 жыл бұрын
It’s When he say “I want to be with you AND enjoy life” instead of “I want to enjoy life with you” for me smh he playing
@nessparadis6948
3 жыл бұрын
Wow! You’re spot on! Very observant.
@nikkyshamz2696
3 жыл бұрын
Say that cos I immediately said that's that b.s
@jobossbaby369
3 жыл бұрын
The emotional and physical cheating will never end... sis protect your sanity and move on...🙏🏽🙏🏽
@mileyroe4877
3 жыл бұрын
That hiding phone thing is a dead give away for a cheater. It's not that women care about seeing the phone or snooping, it's about "what do you have to hide all the time, are you a part of the CIA?". It makes people wonder and uneasy. Leave and don't look back.
@AliveBlessedGrateful
3 жыл бұрын
Yup! My ex would always say “Trust... trust” but how can I trust when you give me doubt.
@mileyroe4877
3 жыл бұрын
@@AliveBlessedGrateful Exactly.
@ZfenProductions
3 жыл бұрын
I need to sleep. Tony: hey heyy tony gaskins here Me: I’m up!
@michellejackson1096
3 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂😂
@brittbritt997
3 жыл бұрын
Factss
@viewly390
3 жыл бұрын
Relationships R Tony 🤣 He broke this one all the way down. Take it apart like a pro.
@IamKarryanne
3 жыл бұрын
Real talk
@kikic7637
3 жыл бұрын
Every. Single. Time.😁
@denik9614
3 жыл бұрын
When she said she wanted marriage and it took him another 2 years to propose... bye ✌️
@TeeLeon22
3 жыл бұрын
My husband proposed to me within 3yrs of dating, we married a yr after engagement. He said these things to me after 1 & 1/2 yrs of marriage: he never wanted to be married, he doesn't want kid's, he doesn't think he can change, I pressured him (after watching this I learned it's probably his family and church that pressured him cause I definitely didn't) I feel like he trapped me cause he said he thought I would've dumped him is why he proposed. I have no choice but to leave, but he left so I have to see the blessing in this because it's been a nightmare I don't even really want closure cause I don't want to know anything else. I just want peace
@lovejones1897
3 жыл бұрын
Live your life. Don't stay in a marriage where it is one sided and one wanted to be there and other doesn't. There are men that know marriage is on their mind and are looking for a wife and not a live in girlfriend
@Bunzi3L
3 жыл бұрын
This is so sad I'm so sorry... OMG 😓
@blacksongbird100
3 жыл бұрын
Listen. Tony's telling the truth! I've lived this! I didn't have anyone to tell me. I'm so grateful to be out of that marriage! Omg! To the lady, Sis, be prepared for him to whine and try to get you back once you file for divorce. He's going to say all minds of crazy things but DO NOT GO BACK!! Hear me LOUD AND CLEAR. Do NOT give him another chance.
@chrissy1448
3 жыл бұрын
Yes... once the separation/divorce starts.. that’s when the crying, stalking and manipulation begins.. Every trick in the book to make the woman feel bad about divorcing them and putting them on child support etc.
@blacksongbird100
3 жыл бұрын
@EnJoy Life And Smile my ex husband put a suicidal post on Facebook that had everyone worried. I knew it was a ploy to make me come out of hiding or have someone tell him where I was. The things people do for attention.
@spedteacher2773
3 жыл бұрын
@@blacksongbird100 narcissist
@lidiacontreras9441
3 жыл бұрын
WHEN PEOPLE SHOW YOU WHO THEY ARE (THE FIRST TIME!!!!!) BELIEVE THEM!!!!!
@patriciawatkins8248
3 жыл бұрын
Absolutely!!!!
@pooh4025
3 жыл бұрын
How can he say he has communication issues but had no problem communicating with women on dating Sites or online 🤨
@sharondalewis1620
3 жыл бұрын
Bingo!!!
@SimplyFitwithJay
3 жыл бұрын
Make it make sense 🤦🏾♀️
@tisha812
3 жыл бұрын
That part!!! Like WTH? 🤦🏽♀️
@user-xw9cz8fv3e
3 жыл бұрын
Most the time that doesnt involved emotions please they were strangers.
@pooh4025
3 жыл бұрын
@@user-xw9cz8fv3e what are you talking about. I was speaking on communication not emotions
@freckledfacedbeauty151
3 жыл бұрын
Lord.. Relationships Now Days Are Just Too Much.. Too Much Sneaky Stuff Going On.. Makes You Not Even Want To Be In One.. Like How Can You Ever Be Sure?
@IAmKaia
3 жыл бұрын
Facts
@christinewarren8134
3 жыл бұрын
So true. The worry and work that it takes on top of everyday life in general!
@IshanaeS
3 жыл бұрын
You can never be sure, it’s a gamble but the key is knowing who you are & when you see the signs be willing to leave. (My opinion, even though you didn’t ask me lol)
@freckledfacedbeauty151
3 жыл бұрын
@@IshanaeS thanks for that anyways because I am drained dealing with these men lol 😂
@openheartsavagemind6443
3 жыл бұрын
Divorce. Run. Start over. He's playing with you and your life.
@sylviasalcedo8569
3 жыл бұрын
Got my life coach certification course today! I'm excited to start the journey! So much was trying to stop me. Had to kick down the doors of doubt and scarcity mindset. Thank you Tony!💯👏🏽
@asiae99
3 жыл бұрын
Congratulations✨👏
@jeneciagallimore7096
3 жыл бұрын
Wow that story is touching if that man never wants to marry he should tell her from day 1 smh women need to wise up and stop wasting time with these grown boys
@Ashley_Banks
3 жыл бұрын
I need, "GOT TA GO" ✌🏾 on a T-Shirt 😅😂
@TakishaDanet
3 жыл бұрын
Tony you read this email and the man in it from LEFT to RIGHT. When you said that all this man wanted was attention in front of the church I almost died. 😂 I cannot believe these men are copping out for marriage smh. My God. 👏🏾😌
@gloriafigueroa4865
3 жыл бұрын
Them types will waste your time... Speaks them facts
@Juju-gf3iq
3 жыл бұрын
The bacteria example 😭🤣 I work with teenage girls who are pregnant and I see soooooo many with STDs.. then they be right back with the boyfriend.. seems like they not realizing the seriousness of this.. I’m going to start being more direct like this because people need straight up raw examples. Def using this bacteria example Unk Tony 🤣
@bc1248
3 жыл бұрын
Back in the day many women felt that way. I’m not so sure about now. Right now, I consider him not wanting to marry her a blessing. Whether she’s aware of it or not. Ladies, I’m here to tell you, you don’t need to walk into that trap. There’s much better things you can be doing with your life. Ladies, please understand. I’m aware of how I sound. But I don’t mean any harm. I don’t mean to knock marriage for anybody who want that. I know there are some good marriages, though I will contend not many. That good marriages where there are absolutely no bugged out absurdities that the wife is putting up with to be married and the connection and relationship between the couple is really true, is the exception not the norm. And I personally cannot think of anything more dire and unfortunate than being legally strapped to a messed up guy. So ladies, don’t be so quick to tie the knot. Bcuz you could be tying it with Count Dracula. Where he is nice to you until you marry him and then he lets loose the Kraken. And in the daytime he’s nice to everybody in society, the swellest of all fellas, and a boogeyman to you in private. Don’t be desperate to get married.
@lambsbookoflife428
3 жыл бұрын
Thanks, Tony! Next video - Signs he on the DOWN LOW (DL) 🙏🏽
@PeaceBeStill-
3 жыл бұрын
Ooh that'd be a good one for those who are oblivious or naive to the DL syndrome!
@lambsbookoflife428
3 жыл бұрын
@@PeaceBeStill- Exactly 🍵
@drislady
3 жыл бұрын
Omg, yes!
@RUNWAYBEAUTY
3 жыл бұрын
He definitely wanted to get some attention in church 😒. I’m happy she’s got a lawyer and is taking the steps to move on from this.
@stargoldqueen5894
3 жыл бұрын
Prayers up for those who are struggling or have been there. This too shall pass.
@stilljocelyn4166
3 жыл бұрын
This is so hard to hear... may God bless this young lady. 😞🙏🏾
@4LADYSWEET
3 жыл бұрын
This DL stuff is just ridiculous 🙄... I think at this point it is best to hire a private investigator before you say "I do"
@lyfesaquarium
3 жыл бұрын
@EnJoy Life And Smile lol preach
@HOPROPHETA
3 жыл бұрын
@EnJoy Life And Smile You aint tell no lie!!!!
@empressleah2615
3 жыл бұрын
@EnJoy Life And Smile ima do just this lol let me find one lol
@ak-47intelligence75
3 жыл бұрын
"He could be meeting up with Ted Bundy's niece " 😂😂😂😂😂😂
@julissahernandez834
3 жыл бұрын
I think this is Tony's best video yet! So many eye opening things to consider. She can get through this and be strong for her and her child. Men playing dirty selfish games with women. No shame in their games.
@staceythorpe7938
3 жыл бұрын
My lil cousin he 4yrs old. He already have a vision for his life. He said he wants to be married and have 4 kids; 2 set of of twins, 2 boys and 2 girls. He already know what job he wants to do, what State in America he gonna live in and what house he gonna live in. God bless his lil heart and help his vision come to pass.
@CoachLove
3 жыл бұрын
My heart aches for her. Praying she gets the exit strategy and strength to leave and raise a healthy son. I know women sitting in relationships for over 10 years having babies and waiting to get married. Trying to tell them that the guy doesn't want them, they don't want to hear it. It doesn't take years for a man to know!
@nanaofsaintly1261
3 жыл бұрын
Yeah I'll just stay single....much easier.
@chickwitthagoodies
3 жыл бұрын
Right because these men will have you on snapped
@glendanesmith
3 жыл бұрын
@@chickwitthagoodies lol
@YourtrustedREAgent
3 жыл бұрын
Tony what he do at the church? 😂😂😂 it's the illustrations for me! I'm frowning at the remote. ***I'm gonna get me a tshirt that say "hey,hey,hey Tony Gaskins here".
@joi5787
3 жыл бұрын
“If it takes him 7 years, he doesn’t want to marry you!!!” Nasty... dirt diggler...eeew🤦🏽♀️
@LadyAngela678
3 жыл бұрын
He waited 7 years to marry her?? Child bye. 👋🏽.... Reminds me if my cousin who was with her husband for 25 years before they got married, then 2 years after they married they divorced and separated. He proposed in front of the church too. 🥱
@PeaceBeStill-
3 жыл бұрын
Wow
@geneviveross4234
3 жыл бұрын
They shouldn’t have gotten married. It’s obvious that they make better couple being in situationship than when married. Very sad..😢
@nessparadis6948
3 жыл бұрын
25 years? I didn’t think that happened. I’ve heard 10-15, and that’s bad enough. But 25 😳😮🥺😭?
@joellgilbert9588
3 жыл бұрын
@@PeaceBeStill- Yep....WOW!
@joellgilbert9588
3 жыл бұрын
@Joyful n Blessed Lol!! I like that line:. Show and tell type😂🤣 that song from the 70's :...🎵 Ohhhh show and tell...just a game I wanna playyy when I wanna sayyy I love you🎵-- does anyone remember that song? Yes, 25 yrs, 10 yrs....being boyfriend and girlfriend...smh.
@diamondinthesky723
3 жыл бұрын
Tony is on point about the 3 year mark, Ha..3 is pushing it! If a man truly loves you and wants a future with you? It'll be a wrap after a 6 to 12 month commitment.
@peaceful_and_blessed2879
3 жыл бұрын
Tony is so right about situations like this. I look back to past relationships and the men who were sincerely interested in me asked me to be their partner within a month. My ex husband proposed after four months of dating and we married 18 months later, but I realize now that he married me mainly because he knew i wanted marriage and I offered more in a relationship than his previous girlfriend ....
@Arizona_lilly
3 жыл бұрын
Let him go.. he doesn't want U and he will always keep looking for woman
@joyaparris1427
3 жыл бұрын
SMH he read this marriage from 2005 when the NOKIA phone lit up on the sides 😩. Since I found this channel -I’ve focused on my B’s & deeper in the word . In addition I’ve been saving my money to afford 60 minutes of this mans time ! So happy I found this video early 💁🏾♀️Y’all be blessed & stay safe ❤️
@amiyahjones9701
3 жыл бұрын
He proposed out of obligation, not love. Period
@Blaquedeity
3 жыл бұрын
“Didn’t nobody ask u how u met God” 🤣🤣🤣
@audreycathcart3685
3 жыл бұрын
I truly feel for this lady and I sincerely hope and pray that she let him go!! She’s young and still have time to get herself together and protect her child. Ladies, please refuse to settle with a man who’s out here deliberately taking a good woman for granted it will cause...,DAMAGE!💯
@heathermixson1265
3 жыл бұрын
Going through this currently....27 year marriage....husband has left the 5th AND FINAL time, as far as I am concerned, in the past 5 months........
@michellejackson1096
3 жыл бұрын
Wow.... Dear GOD bless your heart
@katrinabrown7871
3 жыл бұрын
Its unfortunate your having to go through that....sometimes people have already checked out mentally before they do physically. It will all workout in your favor.....stay encourage Sis 🙏🙏
@3D3LIA
3 жыл бұрын
Move on. You deserve greater!
@odettahines9467
3 жыл бұрын
God bless you thanks for sharing.Guys do give answers sometimes we don't listen and we get hurt.Some men want convenience and when we buy the lie try to make things happen that was already over before it started we end up hurting ourselves even more.I am not to judge because I know how it is . Sometimes we feel shame when get deceived and we can put the wrong time into the wrong person.Keep using your gift Thank You Tony Gaskins blessings upon you and your family.
@lsmith6718
3 жыл бұрын
I thank God every day, that we get all of this knowledge. I had eight brothers growing up. Even though I was the oldest, they couldn’t have told me Anything?🤦♀️. Tony, what you do is priceless🙏.
@arielskys8727
3 жыл бұрын
Wow! I got some clarity from this video.. regarding a man dating online and a man who gives off signs he doesnt want a woman or deals with "mens". Learning every video!
@travelchannel304
3 жыл бұрын
Yep! I have encountered one ! Although we not dating but he talking about how he coulda shoula! He knows ive never marrued! Lol hes Single did military then 1st responder. Never married. And grew up in the church too! Might be in the. Closet. My gaydar is outdated ir broke cause i got a crush & knew it needed to walk away. Lol
@RS-uv5hb
3 жыл бұрын
I absolutely agree...great video. Praying for her and they’re child and that GOD heals them all (unhealed trauma attracts itself)
@chickwitthagoodies
3 жыл бұрын
This is scary
@drislady
3 жыл бұрын
Agreed
@h.a.nicola-heather-anne1426
3 жыл бұрын
Lindsay might be Larry 😂🤣🙆🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️
@ulricka2131
3 жыл бұрын
Tony is spot on with this. He needs help at least for their son who will have to spend time with him after the divorce. May the Lord heal your heart sis🙏🏾
@chrissy1448
3 жыл бұрын
Sad to say but this type of guy won’t even be around for the kid. He’ll be too busy sleeping around with anything that moves, and will probably father more kids that he does not want.
@ulricka2131
3 жыл бұрын
@@chrissy1448 you are right indeed. Really bad!!
@bestlife9143
3 жыл бұрын
I’m dead at “BIKEteria” 🤣🤣🤣
@cristinaj.8454
3 жыл бұрын
Never been this early to a video! God bless you everyone. Stay safe! 💗
@kimsmith819
3 жыл бұрын
Back to you also 💜🙏
@Ashley_Banks
3 жыл бұрын
Thank you ❤️😊
@Ashley_Banks
3 жыл бұрын
Same to you 💓
@cherh
3 жыл бұрын
It's the read for me...Tony gives it to you straight no chaser! 🥃
@drislady
3 жыл бұрын
And it's appreciated.
@cherh
3 жыл бұрын
@@drislady fact!
@Ms.Haleyy
3 жыл бұрын
Hey now, to everyone who complains about the ads: I needed to pause this n think SEVERAL times to take it in. I have prime so I don’t see ads but this, alike most, had me hitting that pause button so I could get some reflection but still listen to the message. & I stiLL watched a feW times. Just be with me getting this knowledge ladies n never mind those ads
@alanerogers7177
3 жыл бұрын
Me too. I pause it a lot to marinate in certain statements.
@chermekarankins7295
3 жыл бұрын
I feel bad for this lady and her son. I agree with Tony. One of the mistakes she made was hanging around in the relationship too long while they were still courting. It should've NEVER taken 7 years for her cheating husband to know if he wanted to marry her and start a family with her. I always say to all cheaters whether the cheater is a man or a woman if you know that you are not gonna be faithful in a marriage, DON'T GET MARRIED. You're just a stumbling block to the person that you are with that takes marriage and family serious. And you are wasting your time and his or her time both. For her to find out that he was running around and cheating on her just a year into the marriage, that lets me know that he was already cheating while they were courting or dating the whole time before he proposed to her.
@chermekarankins7295
3 жыл бұрын
One more thing I'm adding to this is when I say you cheater is a stumbling block, what I'm saying is that you are a blessing delayer, a blessing blocker, and a hinderance to the person you are dating. What I mean is you are standing in the way of your dating partner, that wants a serious relationship, by depriving your current partner to meet and hook up with somebody else that will take marriage and family serious just like them. All that precious time your partner wasted with you could've been spent with somebody else that would've been a better compatible partner, a spouse, and a blessing to him or her and a blessing to the marriage they could've had. And you cheaters are stumbling blocks to yourselves by dragging innocent people into your mess. You are lying and playing games with others people's emotions and feelings pretending to be something to them you are not just to please them or get them to stay with you whether it's pressure or not. That's not fair to them. Be honest with the one that you are with so you can both go your separate ways and don't marry that person. Don't even court that person. I don't agree with cheating, fornicating, and sleeping with multiple partners and I don't agree with adultry either but if you know you are the kind that will cheat and not be faithful and the type somebody should NOT be married to and you still choose to have sex with multiple people anyway, you are better off remaining single with no strings attached. Don't be a hinderance to people and a stumbling block in their way cause you got issues.
@jennifersalinas716
3 жыл бұрын
Well said
@terry21651
3 жыл бұрын
Nothing to salvage. Major breakdown and a lot of wrong things done. It is basically over.
@katrinabrown7871
3 жыл бұрын
I love my Life Coach TG cuz I've been watching him soooooo long I find myself finishing his sentences...lol Stay Bless Gaskin Family
@VintageAfro91
3 жыл бұрын
Him going on these hook-up sites is not a mistake. It's a choice. He knows exactly what he's doing, which makes it even worse. I could be way off base here, but it sounds like he is cheating because he only married her out of so-called obligation. Tony is on point about the whole "shacking up" thing too because he most likely felt guilty about not being married. The fact that he waited so long to marry her speaks volumes. He was dragging his feet.
@TakishaDanet
3 жыл бұрын
Exactly sis ! He was looking for attention in church and was dragging his feet until the church start looking at him sideways 😌 smh
@VintageAfro91
3 жыл бұрын
@@TakishaDanet exactly! The whole time I was listening to Tony read the email I was like “hmmm he didn’t want to marry her to begin with.” To me it was low on his part to string her along all these years and they have a child together too. But, at the same time she should have left him a long time ago. I hope she takes Tony’s advice and gets an exit strategy. 🙏🏾💕
@TakishaDanet
3 жыл бұрын
@@VintageAfro91 I hope she finds herself and takes Tony’s advice too girl cus soon as Tony read 7 YEARS DATING I was like ooooooo nooooooo he was dragging this woman by her ponytail 😂❤️
@patricemurray6412
3 жыл бұрын
@@TakishaDanet Lort, not the ponytail!🤦🏾♀️🤣🤣🤣
@VintageAfro91
3 жыл бұрын
@@TakishaDanet spot on! 7 years 😩🥴 she can do so much better.
@jjmac5712
3 жыл бұрын
Lol, Tony so funny with his phrase, "got 2 go"!😂🤣 teehehe hoo boy!
@biancamajanja3516
3 жыл бұрын
your videos have helped so much. my pastor became a life coach with your program. be blesses
@loveyah421
3 жыл бұрын
YES I DID 4 YEARS PLAYING HOUSE WITH A DOWN LOW MAN. HES ONLY 24 IM 22. so I gave him excuse after excuse. I was there for him even after I found out and I cried with him held him. I told him God loves him still and finds him worthy. and I caught him on the grindr app once again. and I finished out our lease and I bounced out he was so sexist and just egotistical. but I was loyal and pure genuine. his sexist views destroyed my view on God somehow and I ended in the mental hospital and he got a tinder. idk I'm over dating. so many down low men its sick. especially in the black community
@chrissy1448
3 жыл бұрын
Be thankful that you got out of that situation with no kids involved. You are young and have so much more life to live. Focus on growing yourself!
@liahknowsbest5092
3 жыл бұрын
Wow, he will get his karma praying for you sista 🙏🏽
@Dr.Elaine1
3 жыл бұрын
His sexist views or his sexual desire for men destroyed your view on him or God?
@loveyah421
3 жыл бұрын
@@Dr.Elaine1 his sextist viiews were based of his view of the bible and it made me believe thats how God seen me. which God saved me from that lie.
@drislady
3 жыл бұрын
Thank you for posting this and being honest. I hope that you were able to get the help that you need and can heal.
@stephaniemarie9850
3 жыл бұрын
Batting from both sides of the plate took me out lol
@slimalinga_
3 жыл бұрын
She took to long to act 😔but she has time, God's strength and will be with her 🙏🏽
@nelfasepedosa1957
3 жыл бұрын
Its so scarry its great to be single , than ur in a relationship that u live in but he don't like to marry yet. Its an insult to treat women like that if its me I'm gonna leave that man though without turning back.
@melaniegonzalezart8506
3 жыл бұрын
I'm so glad to see you explore the possibilities for your channel and the different formats of videos; be it location chronicles, talks with Tony, answering questions, or live Q&As. I hear you keep joking with quitting KZitem though I am learning so much about myself and continuing to listen. While laughing, sometimes being shocked, and sometimes a sentence you say brings back a memory or a moment of reflection, or I think "oh THAT'S what this guy is/did/does", "oh that's what these women in my life do because of this". Be blessed Brother Tony and your family unit!!
@arionnajames474
3 жыл бұрын
Weeww Tony these videos are Raw, unfiltered, just the way I need them 🙌🏽💪🏽. Taking it all in. Keep them coming. 🙏🏽
@cathycollins1705
3 жыл бұрын
Teach That Tony. Dude is gay and using your relationship as a shield to go “in” without exposure. Listen and learn girl. Tony teaches “BLOOD RAW” truths. Listen up people.
@constanceragsdale3305
3 жыл бұрын
Thank you Mr. Gaskins...I really appreciate... your teaching....And you have such a beautiful Family....
@roja_xo5527
3 жыл бұрын
Omg I would be saying that as a baby in church "grandma don't they live together where her ring"
@lerhondajones-bates3324
3 жыл бұрын
🤣🤣🤣
@ChaeThompson
3 жыл бұрын
I absolutely LOVE these Talks with Tony. Please keep doing them into November and beyond!!!
@inarapatton1749
3 жыл бұрын
He told her that he didn’t want any of that with HER when she asked him before they got married. He just wanted to “enjoy life” with her. That would’ve been my queue to dip out. Take those context clues and act accordingly 🤷🏾♀️
@marciloni12
3 жыл бұрын
FR!
@panichidaniels346
3 жыл бұрын
Yep!!! I Totally agree with your advice to this woman ...I sure said that to myself he seems like a DL person..
@renatacrump7824
3 жыл бұрын
Keep it moving an find yourself an raise your child believe God have you
@HOPROPHETA
3 жыл бұрын
Much needed. I put up with too much for too long. Much needed. More ministry than mentoring. Thank you.
@godisgoodfaithful.803
3 жыл бұрын
PRAISE THE LORD! GOD IS GOOD. HE ALWAYS KEEPS HIS CHILDREN! 🙏😇
@selinacuffee1145
3 жыл бұрын
Tony u hit the nail on the head about the entire situation she got going on,Do yo thang Man of GOD!!!!
@dtanner70
3 жыл бұрын
Could be his family pressuring him to marry her cause they knew of his secret life and was hoping this would change him and it looks good for him to marry female
@Synquette
3 жыл бұрын
Tony Tony Tony! Thanks for doing these even though I don’t have the same situation as the writer your analysis and feedback definitely helped me connect the dots with situations I’ve dealt with in the past, with the trouble communicating & having an online dating profile. I’ve had my suspicions but it feels good to have some confirmation
@angelgreen9945
3 жыл бұрын
I’ve been there finally realizing God will send me a Kingdom Man and we will be in marital bliss.
@simonemays8413
3 жыл бұрын
Blessed Tribe. Perverted Spirit, Soulties, 😷, Whoremonger! I WILL NEVER LOOK AT MEN THE SAME! Well I didn’t after I fell in love with Jesus and started reading my word for myself. However Tony you give it real on these games grown boys play! God Bless You!
@fabiolatorres8754
3 жыл бұрын
I was in a relationship for about almost 5 years...It got to the point where I asked him if we were ever going to get married or live together., his response was that I was being too pushy and I shouldn’t rush him. I am like wait we have been in a relationship for almost 5 years and I am rushing you?? Humm...then I decided to break up with him and he blames me for ending the relationship and pushing him away. Anyway, he never came back and asked me to work things out he just let me walk away... it does really hurt.
@jennifersalinas716
3 жыл бұрын
You did the right thing. He was playing games. Straight manipulation.
@fabiolatorres8754
3 жыл бұрын
@@jennifersalinas716 it hurts to know you invest in a person that has no intentions to marry you. Oh well..😔
@jennifersalinas716
3 жыл бұрын
@@fabiolatorres8754 I completely understand. My husband left me, wants a divorce, is cheating, and a narcissist. He has been emotionally abusive and cheated the entire time. We have been together four years and have children. I have struggled emotionally, but with the help of God I will withstand all trials and tribulations. You will too 😊
@ntrasmr87
3 жыл бұрын
Better to hurt now then later
@kmarie8206
3 жыл бұрын
I understand. Been with mine for almost 9 years and he doesn’t think he’s financially ready or doesn’t think of marriage the way I do. Good man but my goal has always been marriage. They never want to take responsibility.
@nice2you164
3 жыл бұрын
Men change their mind every day
@FutureAttyInTheMaking
3 жыл бұрын
Honorary Pastor/Life Coach Extraordinaire Tony Gaskins! Your insight is always spot on! Thank You for never being afraid to always speak the Truth - Confirmation, Confirmation, Confirmation!! Stay Blessed! 🙏🏼
@diamondinthesky723
3 жыл бұрын
Prayers and healing to this lady.
@nataliellorente6619
3 жыл бұрын
Same thing happened to me. 1 time, 2 times, & 3 times. Called it quits
@katrinabrown7871
3 жыл бұрын
Good for you Sis! Life is to short
@angelgreen9945
3 жыл бұрын
You’re beautiful - Pray for a Kingdom Man
@Arizona_lilly
3 жыл бұрын
Its always a friend but a friend sbould know ur in relationship
@jeneciagallimore7096
3 жыл бұрын
That man is an addict
@ProfitEli
2 жыл бұрын
His reading of the situation was so on point
@DsCompilations
3 жыл бұрын
Tony has the best thumbnails 😅
@sierraarmstrong5163
Жыл бұрын
Geez. You had a serious point with him proposing in church and all of his reasons for it... That's just too accurate
@sharonhumphrey3137
3 жыл бұрын
Hi Tony, your on point today... This shows you have come across this type of man.... God bless you keep doing what God has called you to do.
@tomaradoss3420
3 жыл бұрын
Ok so basically ! I need to have a private investorgater to make sure my mate isn’t gay😫😏🥺
@izzylabor2606
3 жыл бұрын
Yes. This is ESSENTIAL!
@cheekscheeks5840
3 жыл бұрын
Stop 🛑 making excuses for him he told you in the beginning and you disregard the 🚩
@phurplkyxxex
3 жыл бұрын
A WHOLE SEVEN YEARS?!?!
@ebonyessence2838
3 жыл бұрын
He said FUNTY business😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
@shifeniajackson2512
3 жыл бұрын
You are right Tony. He must be doing funny business going online for hook ups.
@NAJErEa91
3 жыл бұрын
A PERSON CAN ONLY FAKE IT FOR SO LONG SMH IM SORRY THIS SISTA IS GOING THROUGH THAT SMH 🙏💕🎶💯 THATS WHY THE VETTING PROCESS THAT TONY SPEAKS ABOUT IS OH SO NECESSARY. "DATING IS NOT FOR MATING. IT IS FOR COLLECTING DATA." -QUEEN MICHELLE MCKINNEY HAMMOND 💯💯💯
@NAJErEa91
3 жыл бұрын
YUP U GOTTA PUT TIME CONTRAINTS AND STANDARDS UP ON THAT THANG MANNNN SMH DONT BE LANGUISHING AROUND WAIITNG FOR HIM TO GET A SPINE MAKE UP HIS MIND AND ASK "WILL U BE MINE" NAH HOMIE U GOT 3 MONTHS TO ASK ME TO BE UR GIRL, 12 TO ASK ME TO MARRY U AND 24 TO SAY I DO. POINT BLANK PERI-YAHHD! CANT GIVE ME THAT; WE THROUGH! IM GO'N ON BOUT MY FATHER'S BUSINESS ! 💃💕🎶💯
@christinamacbeth6697
3 жыл бұрын
You opened my eyes to so much. Thank you for this transparency.
@Arizona_lilly
3 жыл бұрын
A son won't mske him better
@veelove2226
3 жыл бұрын
Great advice Tony, I hope she receives it, and realize it’s not her it’s him and move forward with her life blessings🙏🏾
@lindaanthony6008
3 жыл бұрын
You have a true gift Tony. God blessed you with so much insight and answers to questions that no one would have thought or believed to be true. The truth hurts but it will set you free. Thanks for telling us the low down and dirty truth. May God continue to bless your awesome ministry.
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