“Never help a man with his finances.” “Never be with a man for more than 3 years.” TG
@reignfenty2715
3 жыл бұрын
AMEN
@officialwatchamber
3 жыл бұрын
BIG FACTS!!!
@victoria-mg5de
3 жыл бұрын
Girl you won, he didn't get you pregnant. That other woman is stuck with a fool; her problem, not yours.
@sharoncobb2547
3 жыл бұрын
You are correct! She should be 💃 dancin he has issues !
@mirandaholley9797
3 жыл бұрын
The other woman wishes she were not pregnant. She is about to get hit with the reality of this. See Iggy Banks
@shan4145
3 жыл бұрын
🙌🙌🙌
@sunflowersoul821
3 жыл бұрын
Exactly!!!
@latrecelockett4930
3 жыл бұрын
💯
@lineaalba4035
3 жыл бұрын
I was about 24 when I met my future husband. He started talking with me about marriage within the first year. He admitted to me later, marriage was on his mind within the first six months. We were married by the end of our second year of meeting. Still married many decades later.
@symartin7534
3 жыл бұрын
🖤🖤🖤🖤🖤
@winblessed1357
3 жыл бұрын
❤❤❤❤❤
@essiethebestie1
3 жыл бұрын
Congratulations ❤
@aprilest3391
3 жыл бұрын
Aww ❤❤❤ God bless you 😇😀
@roja_xo5527
3 жыл бұрын
I was just telling my homegirls, because we're black women we have to heighten and increase our standards and stay true to them because of what we're up against.
@felishapittman2778
3 жыл бұрын
Thank you! 🙏
@heyyashleyyy2669
3 жыл бұрын
If this ain’t facts!
@mymakersdaughter6041
3 жыл бұрын
Truth !!!
@lindahemmings6746
3 жыл бұрын
Exactly!
@WildWestLex
3 жыл бұрын
So sad I realized this so late. But I’m still highly blessed and favored to have figured it out!
@ebonyflowers7599
3 жыл бұрын
A lot of people don’t understand the difference between nationality, ethnicity and race Tony knows his stuff.
@reinaquisha9418
3 жыл бұрын
Meaning he doesn't date black women..... His loss💯👋🏾👋🏾👋🏾
@TiffanyFG
3 жыл бұрын
Right! His loss-- we can only be with ONE man, and my one man will love black women and who he is. I'm not attracted to black men who are that lost and CONTROLLED by WS and the affects there of, pitiful and definitely not a spiritual leader.
@roja_xo5527
3 жыл бұрын
Exactly more for my son 😂
@missj5564
3 жыл бұрын
Too bad it took her 7 years to figure that out.
@Dr.Elaine1
3 жыл бұрын
“A man who hates himself ain’t gonna be a good man.” TG
@queenk555
3 жыл бұрын
Whoo!! He needs to make a quote book. They hit hard.
@mmxw2294
3 жыл бұрын
He can’t be good to nobody and that’s for sure
@Dr.Elaine1
3 жыл бұрын
@@queenk555 Exactly! That’s why I like highlighting them.
@victoriousqueen8503
3 жыл бұрын
I've been saying this. How is he good when he doesn't even like himself?
@Dr.Elaine1
3 жыл бұрын
Almighty Soul777 Agreed! What's understood doesn't have to be explained.
@VintageAfro91
3 жыл бұрын
The moment I get a whiff that you could be either colorist or not into me, I’m out! 👌🏾 great video , Tony!
@TiffanyFG
3 жыл бұрын
Right- very UNATTRACTIVE.
@lizzyloca4439
Жыл бұрын
I can not judge I like exotic Men......like off white .....like french vanilla lololol
@survivorship4290
3 жыл бұрын
"A man who hate himself, ain't gon' be no good man." ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐
@TiffanyBTV
3 жыл бұрын
Tony you’re right it’s 2 years. Between a year and year and a half you should be engaged or married. We’re too grown
@TARLEASE02
3 жыл бұрын
Preach girl!! 2 & 3 years.....no ma'am Pam!!
@coachnatishamommatish185
3 жыл бұрын
Amen Babydoll!!! @ #TiffanyB💯%🤗 🛡💃
@TiffanyBTV
3 жыл бұрын
I’m loving this “not holding back” Tony yessss tell it like it is
@reignfenty2715
3 жыл бұрын
@Gloria Ann Same here. It blesses my soul.
@je39981
3 жыл бұрын
Go where you’re celebrated. Rejection is redirection and all that means is that he’s not the man for you. God knows what he’s doing and makes no mistakes. We shouldn’t live for the validation of others whether it’s a male or female. Black women you are worthy of everything that is good on this planet so don’t forget that, ever. ✨🌟
@aletricefort9723
3 жыл бұрын
I love it...TRUTH
@freedom123-j8j
3 жыл бұрын
👏👏👏👑
@winblessed1357
3 жыл бұрын
AMEN 🙌🏽👊🏽
@cher361
3 жыл бұрын
💯💯💯
@gabrielles8837
3 жыл бұрын
I needed that affirmation right now ❣ thank you so much!
@blah843
3 жыл бұрын
The Asian community is a perfect example on a community thats been left alone to flourish.
@TiffanyBTV
3 жыл бұрын
“Listen you know we’re not racist. We’ve had our housekeeper Rose here forever” ......lordddd
@Dr.Elaine1
3 жыл бұрын
🤣🤣🤣
@AE-106
3 жыл бұрын
I laughed so hard, but he is Right. I have experienced this first hand in some instances. 💯
@tamramitchell6346
3 жыл бұрын
😂😂
@winblessed1357
3 жыл бұрын
🤣🤣🤣🤣
@MrsEarth-pf4cr
3 жыл бұрын
I liked the way that you broke this down about the immigrant mentality versus the AA mentality living in the US.
@sunflowersoul821
3 жыл бұрын
Tony was RIGHT ON!!!
@GoodGrief101
3 жыл бұрын
Black women can’t catch a break, but we’ll ALWAYS be alright. Thank you for always breaking the lesson down. Be blessed.
@Yna-u3g
3 жыл бұрын
Yes we can, if we BREAK away from self-hating Black men and only give attention to those who know, like, and live themselves
@lashandagray907
3 жыл бұрын
Other races of men have to be a option because alot of blk men feel this way.
@GoodGrief101
3 жыл бұрын
@@lashandagray907 dated outside my race, and it’s no different. Men are going to try you, but I know what you mean.
@heyyashleyyy2669
3 жыл бұрын
@@GoodGrief101 same lol. A man is a man. No different. Just gotta stick with your values and standards no matter what color they are.
@nataliet.3023
3 жыл бұрын
@@GoodGrief101 I Agree with you and the other poster right above me. I've dated a WM before and he was no different than any other man I dated before him for the most part. And my best friend's daughter's father is one and he's no good at all. I feel like a lot of BW have a false narrative about WM being extremely great. And that's definitely not true. Men are men. Some are great and some are not. Nothing to do with race.
@GoodGrief101
3 жыл бұрын
I hate it when people that don’t look like me say that racism doesn’t exist. I had a coworker that tried to argue with me about it. This past summer, someone spray painted the N word and swastikas in front of my families place, but racism doesn’t exist🤔
@mymakersdaughter6041
3 жыл бұрын
Tony needs to stop telling people he doesn’t have a college education. It may not be from an institution, but Mr. Gaskins, you are highly educated!
@nwatson2773
3 жыл бұрын
Three years in college is something but the school of life is the best!
@jehannedufresne3998
3 жыл бұрын
Very true of what Tony said. What a great clear explanation! 👏🏿 I'm from Haiti. Born, raised, graduated HS, came to USA for sole purpose to go to college. Mind you, I had options, the other was going to France because I speak French. I left my country with confidence knowing its history; grew up seeing Black presidents and officials. We even had a female president. Here in where I live, white ppl accept me more. They see me as an exotic person. Plus, I'm an educated and thriving individual. A Bachelor & a Master degree later, I landed a great job. I'm single with no kids. Not looking down on those who have. I loooove black men. But the African American men I dated always tried to compete with me like they have something to proove to society but took it out on me. I've dated White, Asian, Latino men who seem to accept me more. I also relate more with African men. No Caraibean men in where I live. I've been trying to move. God keeps telling me "not yet". Anyway, I have some level of understanding what African Americans go through. But nobody needs to be with someone who hate his own race.
@KrystleLaughter
3 жыл бұрын
Tony giving us a whole history lesson!❤️
@mymakersdaughter6041
3 жыл бұрын
This man is educated!! His talents has no limits!!
@coachnatishamommatish185
3 жыл бұрын
💯% Real @ #KrystleLaughter !!!
@Ms.J.
3 жыл бұрын
Yes! Comical and truthful!
@lashandagray907
3 жыл бұрын
Dont feel bad blk women. A lot of blk men are mistreating their white and Latina queens as well.
@PrincessShinezria
3 жыл бұрын
Yes you spoke nothing but truth here... because eventually the thrill of another race of women is gone and they are now looked upon an everyday woman like everyone else
@pumpkinspiceeee_
3 жыл бұрын
this Is one of those stories where the woman has to realize If a man does not want you , you cannot make him. even If that Is by skin color & let him deal with his close mindedness.
@sylviasalcedo8569
3 жыл бұрын
"Love is too big, too strong and too powerful to be denied." What a beautiful picture of the Lord and His intention of sacrifice so we can know what real love is. This alone should want us to serve others towards their worth, healing and change. Thank you Tony for great wisdom and always bringing it back to biblical principles. 💯💯
@khocolateable
3 жыл бұрын
Yes ! Alot of black men glorify women from other races /ethnicities. Put them on a pedestal, and degrade, demean , and disrespect the black woman.
@tamekamacon6644
3 жыл бұрын
Amen
@staciadavis3714
10 ай бұрын
😢
@coach_donni9705
3 жыл бұрын
I hope she heals from the betrayal. We have to just take our lessons as blessings and love forward.
@RaiinbowBarf
3 жыл бұрын
there are an abundance of black men who hate their blackness here in Canada aswell 😒 the black woman slander is exhausting here.... and its not hidden they're very loud about their "preferences".
@schoolwork232
3 жыл бұрын
wow!
@IamKarryanne
3 жыл бұрын
Where in Canada? Because I only see it on the internet.. well I blocked a lot of channels.
@staciadavis3714
10 ай бұрын
So sad😢
@shellyannrichards6565
3 жыл бұрын
Loving how Tony Dropping History Gem 🇯🇲🇯🇲🇯🇲🇯🇲🇯🇲🇯🇲 in the building.
@coachnatishamommatish185
3 жыл бұрын
Ain't it Gul!!! 💯% REAL HONESTY!!! @ #ShellyAnnRichards
@beefaye6861
3 жыл бұрын
"You is BLIKE" 😂😂😂😂 Im dying...love his accent !!!!
@myhicks
3 жыл бұрын
African Americans created the opportunities everyone else was able to “come” here to obtain, but we were deterred at every turn from taking advantage of the very opportunities we created. Nonetheless, we continue to strive against all deterrents. Others can look down upon us, but we will conquer and overcome no matter what it may look like today. It’s coming.
@patwilson1257
3 жыл бұрын
Thank you for being so TRANSPARENT. There will be people who can’t HANDLE the truth. But, the rest of us can, and are better for knowing.
@LadyAngela678
3 жыл бұрын
Im sorry. I’ m not helping a man with nan. Not a nickle. If a man needs a nickle, he ain’t worth having.
@yvette-yourfavoriteauntie247
3 жыл бұрын
We were always told “don’t bring um home, if they can’t use your comb”! 😂😂😂😂😂
@winblessed1357
3 жыл бұрын
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
@farai1406
3 жыл бұрын
You wasted 7yrs with this fool, dont waste another second in unnecessary confusion.. be strong and keep it moving..
@JermaineThomas4050
3 жыл бұрын
Tony is being very truthful and honest at about minute 30 and beyond. 1. The South 2. Color in the South. 3. Parents and/or family wishes. 4. The Cream of The Crop. 5. The different point of view of the generations. *Tune in, he'll break it down for you.*
@coachnatishamommatish185
3 жыл бұрын
Yesssszzzir, Everyday Tony keep it 💯% real!!! #JermaineThomas!!! Amen!🙏🛡
@JermaineThomas4050
3 жыл бұрын
@@coachnatishamommatish185 yes, indeed. It's a good place to tune into, because it helps to rehearse responses to life.
@sadelynn2235
3 жыл бұрын
Oh yeah, right on time. My break sign went up at work. Lol 😂 be blessed.
@JustFollowthePetals
3 жыл бұрын
Lol This cracks me up.
@DawnOfKelly
3 жыл бұрын
I’m so glad I looked at this video because it was really entertaining. On a more serious note, I really appreciate the way Tony goes far and wide to try to get women to have a better understanding of why men make the choices that they do. Ultimately I think it produces compassion for what others are dealing with and gives women a more clear lens with which to view their relationships.
@personaliteeplus
3 жыл бұрын
This “mulatta” conversation has me so weak🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
@Mindsetolympics
2 жыл бұрын
FR was searching for a comment ON THAT!! XD
@alaina.81
3 жыл бұрын
I'm 40 and for 20 yrs now I've seen dozens of red hair, fair skin white men who have black wives and girlfriends so I know there's something to it.
@okaygee4132
3 жыл бұрын
Go on, Sis! Your thumbnail has you looking like a youngin!
@EytsirhcChristye
3 жыл бұрын
Redheads tend to date interracially. We don’t ever date other redheads. It’s a thing.
@alaina.81
3 жыл бұрын
@@EytsirhcChristye Thanks for confirming lol
@melaninqwn8428
3 жыл бұрын
Who thumbs down the TRUTH in this video?! As my grandma says, "Let the hit dogs holla"! And I'm from Mississippi, born & raised!
@Memphismusicmaster
3 жыл бұрын
Those haters from the manosphere as usual.
@natashafreeman2220
3 жыл бұрын
This should be viewed as a blessing. He can now be with this other woman and drain her financially.
@sylviasalcedo8569
3 жыл бұрын
Tony relayed video with power and truth. It's too real for schools and church. We don't talk about truth like this. This was 💯💯 video today. And Tony's mama?!! Respect!! She told her son truth!! 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼🏆
@mymakersdaughter6041
3 жыл бұрын
My grandmother and all of my aunts told their sons the same exact thing. My mother would have too, but she had all girls..
@teesmith5831
3 жыл бұрын
Talk to them Tony...they can’t hear you!!! Speak that truth!!! 💯💯💯🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾Be Blessed
@leesteal4458
3 жыл бұрын
The main difference between Black Americans and other Blacks in terms of marrying their own women in the US is that those Blacks, Islanders and Africans is that there is not a majority White race in the islands or in most Black, African countries. As you said, there is no master to look upon. As a result, they have a healthier self esteem.
@beefaye6861
3 жыл бұрын
"Pecan Tan" 😂😂😂😂😭😭😭 Im dead 😂😂😂😂
@ashleyhenderson3856
3 жыл бұрын
Tony keeps it real always respect him to the fullest.💯💯💯👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
@evelynkaritagoodwin-latimo1236
3 жыл бұрын
when we had land, Hance Black Wall Street they burned it down
@hypnotqgreen
3 жыл бұрын
My dad never held back on the reality of life and how people operate. I can relate to the stories in today’s video, growing up Mexican we had our version of talks our parents gave us. Tony, that is 💯 real talk you gave.
@coachnatishamommatish185
3 жыл бұрын
Amen sis!! #RaquelV💯💯💯%
@lucianafernandes1065
3 жыл бұрын
“Oloutowandey” Tony you are hilarious 😂😂😂
@ms.butterlove9394
3 жыл бұрын
It Was The Pecan Tan for Me🤣😂😅 Tony you make my Day.
@veelove2226
3 жыл бұрын
This was such a great conversation! very truthful! Tony touched on some areas some wouldn’t dare, and I’m so glad he did, and it’s coming from a man that can speak on it because of his experience, I hope the lady that wrote in, realizes it’s not her it’s him and remember the 2-3 year rule, that Tony spoke on. It’s a hurtful lesson she’s had to learn , but she can heal and grow from it! Blessings TG to you and the Queen! 🙏🏾
@salinasolis631
3 жыл бұрын
All Black people; males and females alike experience racism, barriers and harsh disparities. What’s really sad and perplexing is that Black women recognize the plight of Black men and feel responsible for standing up for them, loving them and for protecting and preserving the Black race but somehow Black males do not seem to feel any kind of connection or responsibility for their race in any way, form or fashion. In addition, how can Black men look down on Black/their own women when Black women are out here killin the game, surpassing everybody of every other race in education and in business! 🤷🏾♀️
@Traciero
3 жыл бұрын
I hollered when you said, “ ATLANTA”🤣🍑
@roxannecrowder2007
3 жыл бұрын
Yes, Tony has broken it down. My lunch breaks are so lit! Most of the women I know has been through this. I'm forwarding this video straight to them all. Tony thanks for your wisdom.
@DD-mg2se
3 жыл бұрын
When you come on this page, you learn everything, every subject..I like it..especially the Tony's Dictionary..it sounds good so we gon use it..oh how much fun I have getting all this knowledge for free..a price Tony paid for me..truly a Godly man..like Jesus talking to us..we appreciate you Tony. May God bless you with more years to do this work.
@khadi7454
3 жыл бұрын
24:30 “and I’m over here with LInDSeY 😒” 😂😂🤣🤣😂🤣I rewinded that part like 5 times
@ritamoore9792
3 жыл бұрын
Tony is really telling the truth.
@mymakersdaughter6041
3 жыл бұрын
And nothing but the truth!!!!
@coachnatishamommatish185
3 жыл бұрын
All day everyday!!!💯%
@zerona_hollis
3 жыл бұрын
This was good and funny at the same time... especially at the end! Thanks for being real Tony
@JShelise
3 жыл бұрын
Blessings needed to hear this!!
@naturallyfree01krj50
3 жыл бұрын
That self hate is REAL!!! Thanks for your transparency.
@kimpwicker8864
3 жыл бұрын
Speak truth Brother Toni in the way I can comprehend real simple.
@winblessed1357
3 жыл бұрын
This right here is nothing but the realest ever💯.Thank you for always keeping it 💯.You are much appreciated. May God continue to bless you and your family more and more 🙏🏽👊🏽
@MzSam2U
3 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for keeping it real! EVERYBODY needs to hear about this history!
@hairofstyles1920
3 жыл бұрын
This message so real, Some people will not understand this. Keep teaching tony
@m.eckerson
3 жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing your wisdom, experiences and truth...you have helped me more than you know to be a better person...God bless you and your family
@beverlycarswell9039
3 жыл бұрын
Thank you for the great history lesson. You are a blessing!!!
@staceymarques6185
3 жыл бұрын
Tony, you are such company. Your stories are giving me life. Needed this laugh. Thanks.
@brendajones9110
3 жыл бұрын
Hi Tony My lunch break sermon, just sat down.... Thank you be blessed.
@msladyjay4677
3 жыл бұрын
Thank you for keeping things completely real Mr. Tony. I Love your channel ❤️
@DD-mg2se
3 жыл бұрын
This video sums up all videos I've seen..all the answers are there for an entire relationship. Thank you, Tony. Keep on doing the good work. "Stay off your back" is my head ringtone. I hear this, just watching every man. No joke. Be blessed.
@sylomef
3 жыл бұрын
TONY!!!! This talk was one for the record books! I was mesmerized!! So many truths and deep gems! Wow! I'm floored!! 👏🏽
@lifecoachdr.marye.proctor2207
3 жыл бұрын
Thanks for sharing Tony, I am laughing...someone messaged me yesterday and asked me am I mixed! Be blessed...
@jussjess2829
3 жыл бұрын
Some of you come with the spirit of the devil in you” Amen. 😩😩
@vanessawren9616
3 жыл бұрын
So much truth! Stay Blessed!
@mariadaskalakis9317
3 жыл бұрын
Coach this is beyond real and I thank you from the bottom of my heart for putting this out here, I learned. I so learned and I am better for it each and every time I do. Hard to express how incredibly valuable I feel this is. 💫 Thank you.
@TonyGaskins
3 жыл бұрын
Thank you for hearing the heart of the message.
@nwatson2773
3 жыл бұрын
I’m Jamaican 🇯🇲 ! Love your channel and your teachings.
@IshanaeS
3 жыл бұрын
It’s the history lesson for me 👏🏾👏🏾😭😭
@h.a.nicola-heather-anne1426
3 жыл бұрын
I must admit I want black grandchildren. Understand that. Otherwise I’m fitna be zoom granny 😂🤣
@Yna-u3g
3 жыл бұрын
This whole video was nothing BUT real!! Every word!
@mymakersdaughter6041
3 жыл бұрын
Yep!!!
@coachnatishamommatish185
3 жыл бұрын
MmmHmm 💯% sis!!! @#YanaC
@ms.donald5032
3 жыл бұрын
Wow, this was a real talk video! Thanks for blunt enlightenment😇
@arielskys8727
3 жыл бұрын
Great History lesson. Very informative! Blessings.
@Best-ThingYouNeverHad
3 жыл бұрын
This was a really good history lesson. Thanks for sharing about your grandmother! My grandparents are from Mississippi & moved to Chicago for a better life
@christineporter9914
3 жыл бұрын
Bro Tony you said if I man ain't married you within 2 years got to go. You right about this message. You helping me alot Bro Tony am grateful for your teaching.
@tarahbruno3793
3 жыл бұрын
This is all to real. The masses will never be able to handle this. I have always wondered what racists people with mixed family members do.
@BigRigPullUp
3 жыл бұрын
Disown their daughters. One of my family members had kids with ww her dad hates her now and will not keep her children nor let them live with them! He totally disowns her and her children though it's sad that is who he is. Idk if you ever watched Tyler Perry If loving you is wrong but the show basically shows the results of a BM with a ww and how all race of men and women deal with each other and the struggles of good Bw, and men but how the BM treats the bw!
@tarahbruno3793
3 жыл бұрын
@@BigRigPullUp it’s crazy how much skin color affects people’s perceptions and how they operate in life
@melissakaee
3 жыл бұрын
The part about Asians having a “China town” in every state really hit me. I’m from nyc and recently ended up in Chinatown by mistake and i was shocked ! I remember thinking “WOW these people have a whole mini city just for them.” So many great points were made in this video! Super amazing video !
@karlabimage1559
3 жыл бұрын
Tony I am new to watching your videos and I have learned so much. I know you are sent from God for such a time as this to open the eyes of women to truth so that we can get into position to receive what God has for us. Thank you for your obedience to God.
@sharonkeggins290
3 жыл бұрын
Brother you broke that race and nationality thang down! You brought it in ways I’ve never considered but so true! May God finish the work He’s began in you! May God also bless the Queen and the family 🙏💕
@StyledChic2
3 жыл бұрын
Tony you describing your Dad telling you to wait until you come back home before getting serious about the looks challenge white girl 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 I’m weak!
@fendiboots4481
3 жыл бұрын
I lost it at "She look good up there because you don't have anybody up there."
@StyledChic2
3 жыл бұрын
@@fendiboots4481 😭😭😭 Omg yes!
@TARLEASE02
3 жыл бұрын
I can't comment enough👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽 I Love this side of Tony. I love you and your content either way, but this side of Tony is the whole pie❤❤❤ who cares if folks get mad. You're spitting the actual factuals!!! 😊😊😊❤❤❤👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
@amacrealtyinvestments
2 жыл бұрын
I’m late to the TG party but I’ve been binge watching your videos and they are all on point. Also, your delivery is entertaining as well as informative. Thank you
@queenofthesouth4205
3 жыл бұрын
Thank you TG!!
@halim1582
3 жыл бұрын
I appreciate that you kept it real with this video and ALL of your videos
@jovanakrstic4464
3 жыл бұрын
Love your videos Tony,you are so right!
@tiffanybridges9926
3 жыл бұрын
I felt like I was in Africa America History class! 😂 love it! Thanks for sharing...
@mymakersdaughter6041
3 жыл бұрын
Me too!
@kristinah7032
3 жыл бұрын
Listen! This is too REAL for KZitem 🔥🔥 💯 percent truth
@mardi5168
3 жыл бұрын
Keep it real. You are absolutely correct!
@tiffineyena7001
3 жыл бұрын
Tony, this was by far was one of the best videos ever. I was so tuned in . U dropped them jewels and definitely gave us a history lesson. U have the wisdom of King Solomon. Every black person in the world should watch this video. Thank you.
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