In Seoul South Korea 18 years ago I was walking home from the subway station when an American man caught up to me and started walking at pace with me. He said...don’t look back but there is a man (Korean) following you. I think you should join me for a coffee at the next place and once he is gone then you can safely go to your home...I will never forget his act of protecting me and for the fact of his situational awareness which most likely saved my life.
@southchum101
Жыл бұрын
There’s a group of K-pop looking teens who took advantage of the fact that K-pop is now popular. They would travel to poorer countries in South East Asia and rape the young girls there. You can look like an innocent K-pop star yet be a violent rapist. This is happening in the Philippines with Korean foreigners.l
@irbiswirbis
Жыл бұрын
@theoverunderthinker you're just contributing to women's fears, thanks a lot
@Klaatu731
Жыл бұрын
Be aware of your situation and surroundings. Don’t play on your phone while walking alone at night. Carry pepper spray or a weapon of some sort. Wear comfortable shoes with no heels. Don’t rely on someone saving you all the time. You know the risks. Minimize them as much as possible. As a man who has faced violence on the streets. You have to understand it can happen to you too. But since I was ready for it? I’m able to type this today. I often wonder what color his eye patch is.
@tribefenatic
Жыл бұрын
tell that story to the police
@irbiswirbis
Жыл бұрын
@@tribefenatic statute of limitations
@catblue4690
Жыл бұрын
“Without the victim’s testimony” Welp, there you have it guys! Murderers can’t be convicted because the victim can’t be there to testify. RELEASE THE MURDERS ON TO THE MASSES
@gabibellebb
Жыл бұрын
there should be a law that makes it so that if the doctor of the victim (or emts) states that the victim was in a state of unconsciousness they should be treated as UNABLE to consent and a fine. There’s probably something like that but it’s probably mostly used for people intoxicated. And intoxicated vs straight up unconscious but sober is completely different.
@purrrrrrrple
Жыл бұрын
I saw the same excuse on a close CP case.... I hate the "justice" system, once you realize with how much you can get away make sense why there's still so much crime...
@ribertfranhanreagen9821
Жыл бұрын
That is bs reason, the real reason probably they have influential parent, and the victim no
@Im4r-ic2pm
Жыл бұрын
I can’t understand why doctors could not state whether there was abusive sex or not, dna test for sperm or something else
@christina4012
Жыл бұрын
Don't 😂 they might even consider it
@Perilsphere
9 ай бұрын
UPDATE ON THIS CASE: The victim requested that DNA testing be REDONE on her pants instead of underwear and it matched! He will now be in jail for 20 years instead of just 7 !!! (The court tried for 35 and got 20)
@lygiabird6988
9 ай бұрын
THANK YOU! 🙏 putting my mind at rest a bit.
@wendychavez5348
9 ай бұрын
Smart girl! Thank you for letting us know.
@2pacEEz
9 ай бұрын
YAYYYYY
@Ninjaaaa9999
9 ай бұрын
They wanted 35 years, but he only got 20 years
@TornEars
9 ай бұрын
TYSM i can finally sleep 😭
@davepost7675
Жыл бұрын
I can understand keeping the criminal's name out of the media because innocent until proven guilty, but once found guilty, the name should be released.
@Mr.WestcottX
Жыл бұрын
For real. With proof in courtroom .
@Emmi.0902
6 ай бұрын
Is it innocent until proven guilty or guilty until proven innocent?🤔
@monkeydog8681
6 ай бұрын
@@Emmi.0902 What a stupid question. Are you stupid or something?
@nouun
6 ай бұрын
@@Emmi.0902It’s supposed to be innocent until proven guilty.
@Tumbleweedpassingby
5 ай бұрын
The law likes to protect criminals.
@seykadagmar
Жыл бұрын
Misogyny. That's why he did it, he expected her to smile and kiss the ground he walks on and of course she chose wrong by minding her own business.
@joshualanghorst3972
Жыл бұрын
i doubt thats the reason hes just a dickhead who doesnt have a father he def shouldve gotten max sentence though
@chuckg7185
Жыл бұрын
Coffee
@chaoswitch1974
Жыл бұрын
I haven't finished listening to this whole thing, but I think his motivation was SA and the "dirty look" was a lie.
@joshualanghorst3972
Жыл бұрын
@@chaoswitch1974 yeah thats true
@joanam3070
Жыл бұрын
@@chaoswitch1974Sadly, it could be both. SA is about control and asserting power. So...my theory is, he felt insecure because she didn't act like he expected (admiring him or submissive) and -in his twisted psychopathic mind- he needed to humiliate and dominate her to regain control (in his twisted view).
@rembbokie
Жыл бұрын
The way he used the “I’m drunk excuse” is so ridiculous because he literally did a perfectly coordinated spinkink that knocked her unconscious, yet somehow he “didn’t know what he was doing”? It’s obvious he knew exactly what he did and felt no remorse. He even bragged about it to his friends. Horrible. *edited to fix a small typo
@mysticloverfairy1
Жыл бұрын
Not to mention taking her to a blind spot to possibly SA her where he probably knew that he wouldn’t be caught on cctv .
@bear.hugsubzz
Жыл бұрын
@@mysticloverfairy1exactly, it’s crazy to think about
@mikeblalock9380
Жыл бұрын
Saying I was drunk has landed many people in prison. You can't consent if your drunk. I'm drunk works I guess
@lipglossandluv
Жыл бұрын
@@mikeblalock9380 unfortunately in Korea the I’m drunk excuse help them out of jail time and just probation n a settlement
@peachkittyyy
Жыл бұрын
@@lipglossandluvi came to say exactly this!!! unfortunately this excuse STILL works in s korea which is fucking ridiculous.
@KahenaRocha
Жыл бұрын
Attempted murder should have the same sentencing as murder. Ok, they didn't die, but you still had the intention of killing them! This should count too
@shinichikudo3515
Жыл бұрын
Correct! Same intention! It's as if we're giving the victim injustice because they lived? Tsk
@piya6929
Жыл бұрын
right? why should the criminal get off easy just cause he was too incompetent to even commit to the crime
@yin4296
Жыл бұрын
@@shinichikudo3515it’s the same with dui charges. Like you only get your license revoked for drunk driving once you kill someone? It’s so stupid
@purple66666
Жыл бұрын
This should be premeditated murder. Atempted murder is when you want to kill someone and then you back out. This makes no sense to me. It's like everyone was agains this poor woman.
@piya6929
Жыл бұрын
@@purple66666 true like if I point a gun at someone but don't shoot or miss the shot or gun gets stuck then that's attempted murder...but when I shot the bullet at someone's chest but the victim didn't die should not be considered 'attempted'...cause the victim was shot with the intention to kill...but just cause the victim managedto survive suddenly it's 'attempted murder'
@katho9978
9 ай бұрын
Being a women is so scary. I was followed by a man for like a good 30-40 minutes and when I asked an older man with his wife for help he said “Just tell him to stop.” I was taken aback. Thankfully his wife was kind enough to tell me to stay with them until the police arrived.
@hot_salsa_dipping_sauce
9 ай бұрын
Like that would've worked 🙄
@FocusedFighter777
7 ай бұрын
..my god men dont live in reality.... Of course men lsitens to us women, especially when we say 'no' and 'stop'...... .....wow!!
@Telashar
7 ай бұрын
@@FocusedFighter777That honestly depends whre you live. In the city I live you can just go out at 2-3 am, phone in hand, and you dont even look if someone is walking behind you. i imagine if you told someone you feel uncomfortable they would either accomadate you, or look at you like you are insane cause noone would hurt you here. I think I heard about 1 single attack on a woman in my 30+ years of living here, and that was still when soviet communist party ruled the country.
@treeclimbers1416
7 ай бұрын
Yes it takes good men to look out for our women. It’s shouldn’t be a men vs women like the creator is trying to promote. She’s basically saying the law shouldn’t be blind and that killing a women should have a bigger punishment. She lost me on this one, especially since males are victim to violent crime at a higher rate than females. Murder is murder and rape is rape and it’s wrong no matter the victim to culprit. And the fact she’s saying a schizophrenic’s POV on women is the norm shared by all men is insulting. She even doubled down and said “I’m not making this a man vs women thing but if your male and have a opinion different from mine then shove it and go look in the mirror” is extremely narcissistic. I love women, would fight wars and die for the girls in my life but she lost me in this video. Feminism should be about equality and not superiority.
@treeclimbers1416
7 ай бұрын
But again *** she lost me in this video
@4thUlquiorra
Жыл бұрын
As a SA survivor I just burst into tears listening to the introduction and the talk about the 7 unaccounted minutes. So much cruelty, so much violence, so much evil was done. I've experienced this type of violence first hand and my heart just ACHES for this victim. We can't even walk home without fear of someone committing potential violence against us. Edit- I just want to say thank you to those who commented their empathy, sympathy and absolutely kind words. I've been going to therapy the last 3 years for my SA and I've worked through a lot of things and am in a considerably more healthy and happy place.
@c4y9
Жыл бұрын
i am so sorry for that i hope you are doing so much better🙏🫶
@louisevee7542
Жыл бұрын
I feel you deeply. It's happened to me 2010. It was traumatic, I had to leave out of the country. Years later I've found my strength again and refused to live in fear.( Virtual hug)
@c4y9
Жыл бұрын
i am so sorry and hearing this for you getting sa in my birth year is now stuck with me forever😭but i really do hope anyone and everyone who has been in this situation just to let you know things will get better and i really hope they are so i send love and prayers to you all🫶
@jenniferkleininger9191
Жыл бұрын
My heart goes out to you, I hope you can find peace one day , please try and stay strong ❤
@AlissaSss23
Жыл бұрын
My heart ❤️ goes out to you, I have experienced DV for many years. I hope you are healing and feeling safer now
@ChiZillaaa
Жыл бұрын
So... They found her completely disheveled with her underwear half on and she was bleeding from her rectum for a month, but she seemed totally fine and walked normally throughout ALL the CCTV footage PLUS the doctors couldn't get good DNA samples because they were trying to save her life. So like... Do they (the court/judges) think she somehow unzipped her own pants and took a single leg out of her panties just to put her pants back on before or after she was assaulted? Like... If she was fighting for her life, at what point do they think she had the time to put her clothes back on like that??? Idk. I get that some of it is "circumstantial evidence" but look at the portfolio of concrete evidence around all the other things. Like, I'm not a zoologist but if an animal quacks, can fly, can swim, lays eggs, has a bill for a mouth, has short legs, orange webbed feet and waddles, I'm PRETTY inclined to assume the animal is a fucking duck. As humans, we're intelligent enough to deduce what happened without having to always SEE the crime happen. I cannot believe people want to "debate" about what happened because there's no video evidence. How disgusting.
@TheRealdal
Жыл бұрын
He should be buried under the prison. Set an example of him.
@NehaSingh-tj8ng
Жыл бұрын
I wonder how majority of judiciary behaves like specially abled human ..when it comes to crime... although they portray themselves as highly educated smart wise experienced human of the society 😂
@EarthIsNotFlat
Жыл бұрын
Apparently in S.K. with cameras being everywhere they now literally want proof beyond all doubt in order to prosecute any crime. It’s gross.
@lscherehazade_317
Жыл бұрын
Korea never fails to disappoint☕️
@ve_rb
Жыл бұрын
Yea why do we even need evidence we should be able to convict on women’s words alone
@euneiros
Жыл бұрын
There is no such thing as "random" "inexplicable " crime. There is a reason. Its hate crimes against women. Its femicide. "This incident is being regarded not as a specific episode of a mentally disturbed man attacking a specific woman, but as a symbolic example of what happens in a misogynistic society."- Lee Na-young, professor of sociology at Chung-Ang University. (about the Gangnam/sashimi murder)
@sparklestar2732
Жыл бұрын
Perfectly said
@deepergodeeper7618
Жыл бұрын
ok Susan
@msmissy9976
Жыл бұрын
That's literally what it is, there's no way he would've done that to a man.
@meh4991
Жыл бұрын
He's for the guillotine
@bradleyroberts6050
Жыл бұрын
This dude would of kicked a smaller guy too.
@sageseeker9197
Жыл бұрын
You know it's not really an "I couldn't tell you" case when the motive is obviously sexual assault and misogyny. Also, it's obvious what happened in the 7 minutes, he attacked her and knocked her out so that he could easily SA her without her fighting back. She was just a convenient vulnerable target. He was obviously playing out a fantasy.
@alylouuu
6 ай бұрын
RIGHT!!
@reneeharper84
Ай бұрын
Yes!! Like, I'm sitting here going we ALL know what happened during those 7 minutes....
@serioussam27
Жыл бұрын
My friend was killed in 2015 at 22 y/o by her husband because she "Was caught getting out of the house when he was out partying". Stabbed over a dozen times (she was approximately 100 pounds). He got 9 years because "He showed remorse"...got out on weekends after 3 years, got out on probation after 6 years - attempted on doing the same with his new girlfriend. A guy (only a few weeks ago) live streamed the murder of his wife because she dared applying for a restraining order because of "a few slaps". Her last words before she got shot in the head on camera were "I was scared of you". Only a few days ago a woman got bitten on her face by her ex husband in broad daylight. While a stranger defended her, the ex said "That's my woman. I can do as I please". I myself woke up one too many times in the middle of the night with my pants suddenly down or fingers in where they do not belong while I was sleeping and unable to consent. His excuse "It has been days - I couldn't help it". Not all men...but oh boy - there are enough of them. And the damage the wrong ones do, the right ones spend a life time and then some, to put together...if we even live to tell the tale.
@Hextin
Жыл бұрын
YAWN a majority of men that are either dead or in prison because of a bitch is over 70%. Just because women are too weak to do it themselves doesnt mean theyre not just as responsible. The amount of men dead because a dumb bitch decided she didnt like a man is amazing
@NehaSingh-tj8ng
Жыл бұрын
@@nagato.1007you really need not to .. what you just have to do is to accept.... that their are horrible people out there...I I'm not that...and I should not connect myself to them...and also not defend them just because I'm having same gender although I don't know them
@Kiraa000
Жыл бұрын
Yes it's not all men but ALL women I know were harassed or SAd by men, even here in Switzerland. And so many are scared and take precautions when going outside. I was even attacked in the middle of the day.
@nyphira
Жыл бұрын
@@nagato.1007why do you feel the need to? Nobody is attacking you or all men. This comment was literally about a bunch of psychopaths who did things wrong, so why do you feel the need to defend men? That’s honestly pathetic. If you didn’t do anything wrong, theres nothing to be afraid of and there shouldn’t be a need to defend yourself
@snailart9214
Жыл бұрын
@@nagato.1007almost all violent crimes are by men, these stats don't lie. It's a fact and your feelings about it aren't as important as the thousands of people getting killed by violent men. If you aren't like this then we aren't talking about you, but you are the minority.
@celedhion
Жыл бұрын
Classic cases of "men are afraid women will damage their ego, women are afraid men will kill them."
@copperredd
Жыл бұрын
ιт waѕ "мen r aғraιd woмen wιll laυgн aт тнeм and women r aғraιd тнaт мen wιll ĸιll тнeм"...
@kgs2280
Жыл бұрын
Quote by Margaret Atwood, the author it The Handmaid’s Tale.
@beverlybalius9303
Жыл бұрын
Thats what hand guns are for. Self Defense….
@abominationdesolation8322
Жыл бұрын
No, men are afraid women will get other men to gang rush them. You know nothing about the real world to say something so stupid. There is always some simp looking to fight. Guys who say "you got a problem" when a foul woman runs her mouth insulting and provoking people in ways men simply wouldn't because it's a death wish. Then when a man is provoked they have to consider fighting an entire room of people plus the police. Women, especially in the west, are not afraid of acting like a (very immature) man 99% of the way. And it shows. "Not all women/men" goes without saying, please don't be daft.
@Danny-ew3zj
Жыл бұрын
@@beverlybalius9303I need more boulets
@suzimonkey345
Жыл бұрын
No rape kit? Not even a couple of swabs? 😡 This case is infuriating!
@Mr.WestcottX
Жыл бұрын
Ikr? By Korean 🇰🇷 police 🚓😒
@dplj4428
Жыл бұрын
It is only recent that usa has started using rape kits. And some have a backlog of unprocessed. So, its not just a problem in korea. The disappeared in Mexico. And some countries or customs the families harm the raped family member but protect males who rape.
@almezamorra1021
Жыл бұрын
This is the main reason why korea has low crime rate
@RonLarhz
Жыл бұрын
It's korea. Women are trash. They just hide it better with kpop and kdrama.
@Ellie-El
3 ай бұрын
“How many women will have to die for our country to change?” my heart really goes out to these Korean women.
@Slasla1610
23 күн бұрын
Same all around the world, it's time for women to start an organisation to protect ourselves. Just because they are physically strong, they take everything granted. God will punish them and karma will speak.
@sabrinaleedance
Жыл бұрын
Digusting...a man faces charges for attempting to PROTECT the public from a monster smh
@treasurerose6732
Жыл бұрын
That was a public service
@skreemqueen7520
Жыл бұрын
Agreed ! It’s outrageous!!! He’s a hero !
@xzAcedia
Жыл бұрын
the law protects criminals to a heavy extent, especially if the crime is against women and children and the perpetrators are men.
@suekim1147
Жыл бұрын
The laws in korea are so much against (generally) female victims that even a man attempting to help a victim gets collateral damage 😂
@irinaparent9066
Жыл бұрын
that is so true, especially in china. when women have crimes committed against them everyone always stays away because they know it will hav nothing but consequences for them too@@suekim1147
@davidclough3951
Жыл бұрын
He seemed to walk very well for someone that claimed to be so drunk.
@Mr.WestcottX
Жыл бұрын
For real. Instead of being super tipsy
@taniellemalloch694
Жыл бұрын
and not to mention the clean roundhouse kick to her head. His story makes no sense 🙄
@Mr.WestcottX
Жыл бұрын
@@taniellemalloch694 agreed, this awful man was just trying to make non-sense excuses to escape the law. kick a woman, minding her own business and then do the most inhumane thing along with murder to her unconscious body.🇰🇷 😠( Scumbag Korean guy)
@ve_rb
Жыл бұрын
@@taniellemalloch694drunken master 😂
@renialatrice
Жыл бұрын
He planned this out. A drunk person doesn't do this
@rbcbcs
Жыл бұрын
girl, if you're with someone that defends this kind of BS or has the "but what she did to deserve tho" mentality... RUN
@territimmerman140
Жыл бұрын
Yep as fast as you can to get a restraining order!
@ThatPurpleFlounder
Жыл бұрын
additionally, if you *are* someone who defends this type of BS, please reevaluate everything you've learned and maybe get help cuz there's just some clusterfuck of discrepancies there
@badadodgen
Жыл бұрын
@@ThatPurpleFlounder its psycho behavior and sociopathic
@pluvsf
Жыл бұрын
right they always try to find a way to blame women like huh
@sweetb2750
10 ай бұрын
This literally happened to me in Seoul getting off the subway, I felt him from going up the stairs from the station. When I realized I was getting closer to my friend’s place. I turned into a shop and called my friend’s husband to meet me (she was at work and I went out for the day to sightsee until she was off work). The guy stayed out there as I waited and I only turn to look at him when my friend’s spouse met me, that’s when I met his eyes and he stood there for a while before turning away. He looked confused and surprised at the same time. After, I told my friend about it and they said they won’t say it’s common, but it happened enough to not be shocked. It was the weirdest experience, especially since I am a dark skin black American woman. Im kind of invisible during the day in Korea, definitely never thought to get that type of attention in Korea. I’m glad my spidey senses were still on alert then to notice and my friend’s husband was home playing LOL
@franypany1
9 ай бұрын
"Not common but has happened enough to not be shocked"..... so common? I'm sorry but wtf kind of response is that?
@robinjung8953
9 ай бұрын
Couldve been a cult person trying to recruit you. You just never know
@sweetb2750
9 ай бұрын
@@robinjung8953 I’ve already had a cult experience, I definitely did not get that vibe from him.
@abeeromesele4331
8 ай бұрын
@@robinjung8953 and that makes it less scary or dangerous?
@robinjung8953
8 ай бұрын
@@abeeromesele4331when did i say that?
@charmainekhin4784
Жыл бұрын
it’s exhausting being a woman, i’m just shocked that this is still happening in 2023
@pluvsf
Жыл бұрын
i feel like it’s getting worse
@zola__
Жыл бұрын
@@pluvsfMhm, or atleast it feels like it.😞
@user-42069
Жыл бұрын
Sadly I feel like there will always be these types of crimes against women.
@crvshh8663
Жыл бұрын
@@KokosNaSnehu2do u think women dont work 💀💀 its 2023 jus stfuu
@indyjoy
Жыл бұрын
@@KokosNaSnehu2mf what 💀
@libibiju4236
Жыл бұрын
Thank you for bringing attention to hate crimes against women
@_La41
Жыл бұрын
Not only women but men too🫶🏼🙀🙀😻 (had to edit my comment cause people are such snowflakes and won’t shut the fuck up💀)
@st4rtenma
Жыл бұрын
@@_La41this aint about that now is it??
@luvphobia
Жыл бұрын
@@_La41do you see a man getting harmed in this video?
@Dippy666
Жыл бұрын
@@Silverr_.lol You can have attention brought to both without Thinking it takes away from the other issue violence Against men Is a huge issue that is swept under the rug because guys are told to suck it up
@ina4405
Жыл бұрын
@@_La41shut up
@fruitrollup2790
Жыл бұрын
As a woman you can smile, not smile, not even look at someone and still be seen by these gross men as "stuck up'. I remember just minding my own business at 711 and this random man just told me to stop mugging anf smile and mind you he didn't say it in a nice tone he practically yelled at me. Just because I walked by and didn't smile. Wasn't in a bad mood at all.
@elephantdoodoo
Жыл бұрын
Having been a bartender for many years, I’ve heard that so many times. I also have a bumper sticker that reads “Don’t tell me to smile” 😉
@missb9103
Жыл бұрын
Unfortunately, there is a lot of mental illness in the world today that comes in many forms.
@msmichellewinchester
Жыл бұрын
The thing is, if you actually do smile, these men will take it as an invitation.
@miinfl7143
Жыл бұрын
@@msmichellewinchesterexactly.
@ohara.
Жыл бұрын
identify as a man, problem solved
@TheOnlyLadyBella
11 ай бұрын
Look, this is not a Korean issue, this is a worldly issue. Point blank period. An African American woman in America was recently attacked for turning down a man's advances. I heard one woman commented and said she just goes ahead and gives the guy her number so she won't be attacked. But why should I have to give a man my number if I don't want to?
@mkay2925
8 ай бұрын
Look. You’re dense.
@unicornashes8447
6 ай бұрын
Don’t forget the incident when a woman got attacked while out with her big friend group in public, outside after saying no politely. I think he shot her or hit her with a brick. I can’t remember but it was horrible
@sc33h3o3
5 ай бұрын
No one presented this as a "Korean issue?." Korea is one of the safest countries in the world, things that are violent or random happen way more frequently in the west, but she just said they are on the rise there and gave the name that apparently was given for crimes that are so mysterious and random
@ohsnapitsemmie
5 ай бұрын
A woman was just attacked in the Bronx , suffocated until she was unconscious , and SA ed on the street.
@with_yarn_through_life
Жыл бұрын
The first case: did the man live in the same apartment building as the victim? If not, I don't understand how you can argue that this wasn't a premeditated crime, when he knew the exact location of the blind spot with no CCTV cameras.
@U-Gozoo
Жыл бұрын
He didn't, he just followed her from the bus station or something past that there is no connection with them.. 😕
@octopus8978
Жыл бұрын
@@U-Gozoowhat the fuck? Is that not proof for them?
@U-Gozoo
Жыл бұрын
@@octopus8978 it should have been but apparently not first time he was charged and got 12 yrs the second time he got another 20 yrs both are laughable for the crime he committed
@ma.2089
Жыл бұрын
@@noname-zg2xf I’m so sorry
@mogroot5790
Жыл бұрын
@@noname-zg2xfkorea, Japan.
@ninthefrog3911
Жыл бұрын
I literally can't, he had the audacity to say that he was too drunk to commit a crime? My blood is boiling right now, I'm sick and tired of these monsters.
@ria._.dump1
Жыл бұрын
right,and Korea's system was so so so bad the judges the police and the nurses they don't do their job properly
@RonLarhz
Жыл бұрын
Thanos was on to smthg.
@clairepettie
Жыл бұрын
Given how quick men are to condemn women who say "yes" to men's advances, you'd think they'd stop killing us when we say "no."
@margodphd
Жыл бұрын
Perfectly worded.
@StonedHunter
Жыл бұрын
Because they just want us to be silent and do what they want when they want it and be chained to one man while he's allowed to sleep around
@Michelle-rdz17
Жыл бұрын
Right. Damned if you do, damned if you don’t.
@kant.68
Жыл бұрын
Who’s “they” ?
@annoyingtbh420
Жыл бұрын
@@kant.68men? they just said
@Thessair
10 ай бұрын
As a man, I don't see how any decent man could see this as women vs. men cases Honestly, these (and so many of the cases covered by this channel) are very clearly men vs. women cases. So many of these would never had happened if the victims were not women and it's absolutely infuriating to see how little women are regarded around the world (including where I live). The amount of victim blaming, direct targeting, and the lack of support from authorities and the so-called justice system are nauseating. I don't know how to help. I wish I did. But it's difficult to know what to do when your very presence could be enough to trigger someone who has been a victim of a man. I feel tremendously for the suffering women have to endure. At best, I can empathize but (even as a man who has been the victim of SA) my own position of privilege is such that I can never truly understand the atmosphere of fear that women have to live in.
@FocusedFighter777
7 ай бұрын
Every day I wish I had superpowers to right wrongs.... I so, so wish. -Jill
@melanielewis2779
6 ай бұрын
Thank you for saying that. There is something you can do. Be that protector when you see something with your own eyes. As someone who has been assaulted I'd much rather someone try to help them to watch. It's awesome of you to understand that you could be triggering to some in certain situations but your empathy along with your respect will be respected. The women in your life are lucky to have someone who holds them in high regard
@neen2660
Жыл бұрын
That youtuber is a brave man. I’m so sad he’s being charged for protecting people.
@kukuki5000
Жыл бұрын
Yeah, there should be a change in the Korean justice system. If the person is convicted, their anonymity shouldn't be protected anymore.
@beyiokuibukun9602
Жыл бұрын
@@kukuki5000they believe too much in their ranking system that someone's life will be ruined which I don't agree with
@Julianaao2601
Жыл бұрын
This one example of why we say being a woman is hard. If we are friendly, it means we are asking for it, but if we refuse we offend men 🤷🏻♀️ we can’t never win 😔
@Mr.WestcottX
Жыл бұрын
I can understand why some very unreasonable and unhinged men out here attacking women out of nowhere
@qazielynn2580
Жыл бұрын
@@Mr.WestcottXyou "can"? Understand???? That's a typo right???
@Mr.WestcottX
Жыл бұрын
@@qazielynn2580 yes it should be I can't understand attacking innocent Korean woman minding her own business but he saying she give him,the "dirty look" passing by. 😡 not give him the right to stalk her and nearly killed her and assaulting her unconsciously for 7 unholy mins.😔 poor lady.
@ve_rb
Жыл бұрын
Maybe don’t give men dirty looks
@nadiasilva4449
Жыл бұрын
@@ve_rbmv no es excusa
@magicalspacegiraffe
Жыл бұрын
A man assaulting people starting before he even reached adulthood, and this is considered an inexplicable crime no one saw coming?... He had learned over the years, over and over, how little consequences he gets for his violent actions. This isn't inexplicable, this is what we ask for with lenient laws for violent offences, this is what we get when we have lenient and zero laws against pimps and punters.
@bissetttom1738
9 ай бұрын
here is canada you can't help some one or you will end up in jail.
@Usernjdixnfn2939
9 ай бұрын
@@bissetttom1738what omg huhhh????
@bissetttom1738
9 ай бұрын
@@Usernjdixnfn2939 yes i have seen many reports over the years and it actually happened to a friend of mine. he was on the subway and a guy got a lady in a head lock and was punching her in the face. my friend stepped in to help. he was charged and sent to jail.
@carriedixon1765
6 ай бұрын
My mom was a paranoid schizophrenic. She was the most kind and unjudgmental person you’d ever meet. We lost her to cancer in 2017. I miss her so much.
@Strappybubbles69
6 ай бұрын
I'm sorry that you had to face such a tramatic loss, and for the mistreatment your mother must have faced for her mental health issues. I'm sure that she is proud of you, and wants you live your life to the fullest in her memory. ❤
@carriedixon1765
5 ай бұрын
@@Strappybubbles69 wow, what a beautiful thing to say. It means more than you’ll ever know. Thank you ❤️
@sofiamainetti8397
Жыл бұрын
Here at my country we just had a case last month about a girl that went partying with some friends and drank too much. A "friend" of hers called her an uber and let her brother know she was going home, but the brother didnt see the message because he fell asleep. The girl passed out in the car and after they arrived, the driver tried to get her inside but wasnt able to, so he left her sitting against something at the sidewalk. The girl didnt last 6 minutes passed out at the street, some guy immediately grabbed her and brought her to an abandoned field, and raped her. When Steph said about the drinking culture at South Korea, but then complemented saying typically women dont pass out from drinking at the streets, all I could think about was that the victim of that case wasnt even able to be left alone for 10 whole minutes, the moment someone laid eyes on her, all they could think about was abusing her.
@Forevagabby
Жыл бұрын
If I was the uber driver I wouldn't leave her there wth why would he just leave a drunk girl on the sidewalk like that. At least take her to a police station
@sofiamainetti8397
Жыл бұрын
@@Forevagabby yes, so many people failed her... the friend who didnt get into the uber with her knowing she had drunk a lot, the brother who didnt think to stay awake even though he was the only one at home while his sister was out late, the driver who just left her there, and of course the monster who assaulted her. The saddest thing is, within 6 minutes she was taken away, and there was a hospital within a 6 minute drive from her house. I dont really have the full details, but makes me think if all those people were men, including the friend. People do say that the only culprit is the guy who assaulted her, which is true, the other people didnt really have the responsability to take care after the drunk girl, but they could have, and it would have taken near the same time it took for her life to be ruined.
@Forevagabby
Жыл бұрын
@@sofiamainetti8397 Did she get justice?
@sofiamainetti8397
Жыл бұрын
@@Forevagabby she was sent to the hospital the next morning and the guy was caught right after, but we dont have much more information about whats going to happen next
@Forevagabby
Жыл бұрын
@@sofiamainetti8397 hopefully he gets life in jail for this heinous act and I hope she heals from this traumatic event🙁
@RebeccaH43
Жыл бұрын
I don't believe for 1 second that the first guy was drunk. He knew what he was doing, he planned it. He sat on that street waiting for someone to harm, very likely he chose the first one that looked at him but didn't care to keep looking. Imagine being so stuck on yourself that you attack an innocent woman because she doesn't look at you like you're special. She became his target simply because she was tired and just wanted to get home. She deserves so much better and this judge needs to reevaluate how they are treating victims verses perpetrators. Getting molested or raped is very traumatic it never goes away no matter how long ago it was or happened.
@mpGreen03
Жыл бұрын
Sadly SK doesn't care about it's women....
@PetMama1313
Жыл бұрын
@@mpGreen03 Yeah. Neither does America.
@carmenburton4918
Жыл бұрын
He only got 12years initially..then the public demanded a higher punishment..they all thought he would get 35 years. But he only got 20years. Then the forensics said there was no DNA on her underwear that was OFF. an independent review found his DNA on it though. But he still only got 20years for Grape (potential) and attempted murder.
@mpGreen03
Жыл бұрын
@@PetMama1313 yup, but SK and Japan imo is much much worse
@roxyhart5692
Жыл бұрын
He's very very freaking steady on his feet, doing a perfect roundhouse kick, for being drunl, amirite? God, I really hope this woman gets all the help she needs
@nazhoni
Жыл бұрын
i’ve heard of this case and i am of the firm belief he assaulted her after he dragged her off camera and sodomized her. this poor woman, he was following her and targeted her because she was alone and most likely drunk after a long night out. i disagree with the laws that protect drunk individuals who commit crimes and lighten their sentences. a person makes the choice to drink, they should be held accountable for any acts they commit after that. for example, assault or drunk driving.
@regerde2711
Жыл бұрын
I fully agree. People also tend to forget that alcohol does not make you a different person it lowers your boundaries. If you could never even imagine to hurt someone when sober you would not hurt them drunk either. Alcohol just makes you forget the consequences.
@knightcool7769
Жыл бұрын
💯 agree
@MartianCandies
Жыл бұрын
I completely agree but that same sentiment can be used against victims. Well they made the choice to drink so they should be responsible for getting assaulted. I have actually seen people use this sentiment and it's heartbreaking
@artsywoodz
Жыл бұрын
@@MartianCandieshow about just not assaulting anyone?
@miinfl7143
Жыл бұрын
@@MartianCandiesperps deserve the full extent of the law if victim is sober but if victim is drunk, they should get a lighter sentence? Make this make sense.
@syddhuh
Жыл бұрын
when she said “zipping up his pants” i literally gasped.
@ninimeggie4771
Жыл бұрын
Thank you for bringing attention to this AND for pointing out that these aren't random crimes, they're crimes stemming from either hatred or dehumanization of women
@youdumbdinasour
Жыл бұрын
305 likes and no replies, let's fix that
@gennguerra
Жыл бұрын
1:16:42 I love the last quote: "Women do not exist for men and men would not exist without women. So let's just all be nicer to one another." AMEN.
@ve_rb
Жыл бұрын
Women would not exist without men
@YumiSumire
10 ай бұрын
more like, AWOMEN
@nomercymanagement2316
10 ай бұрын
this is a clown statement using this depraved individual to cast a negative light on all men, this guy is 1 out probably 100,000 who would never do such thing. This individual also assaulted other men, its just behavior of a psycho
@Tsubahi
10 ай бұрын
Good that women are are there to make babies. 🙄
@azure5584
9 ай бұрын
Women also wouldn't exist without women. Stupid take.
@alexsummerRain
Жыл бұрын
It's probably a blessing she can't remember the attack, but the doctors who checked her and treated her in the hospital can tell exactly what he did to this poor woman with simple a rape kit.
@MinkxiTes
Жыл бұрын
Not knowing how it happened but knowing that something very likely happened is a very horrible feeling too. Not sure if it is a blessing of any kind.
@juneboom_
8 ай бұрын
This isn't meant to attack OP, but I think it's important to clarify that rape kits aren't exactly "simple". Sometimes I hear people cast doubt on victims who decline one without fully understanding what the process entails. Other people who are well meaning and want to help might urge the victim to do it in order to bring the attacker to justice, but in reality it's a very lengthy, invasive full body exam that puts the victim through the same trauma they just recently experienced. (warning about the details) Imagine having to stand fully nude as examiners swab nearly every inch of your body, from your mouth to your nails, to your genitals and rectum. Your pubic hair is combed for evidence and even plucked. It takes hours to document every injury and your emotional state at a very vulnerable time. And to top it off you are rarely, if ever, given your clothes back once it's been sent for testing. Yes the evidence may help, but the most important thing is to listen to the victim's needs and give them back some sense of autonomy.
@jamtom2434
8 ай бұрын
@@juneboom_I’ve had a rape kit done by me and it’s a horrible feeling. It feels like being violated all over again.
@killerbunnny5600
10 ай бұрын
If a man feels the need to tell me that its "not all men" I immediately consider him one of the men i need to avoid. If you're that offended over it then it's because you see something in it that matches to your own thoughts and behaviors.
@rexlapis1075
9 ай бұрын
Well, some like to say ‘’men’ as a general term which sounds like they are trying to group all men together, so best to be more specific
@Usernjdixnfn2939
9 ай бұрын
@@rexlapis1075we literally don’t give afuck we know that it’s not all men especially because we aren’t fucking kids watching this video. Fucking cope ❌
@Lisa-zm7cx
9 ай бұрын
@@rexlapis1075 lets be ffr nobody means "all men" when they say "men" like come on
@Gwazi
9 ай бұрын
@@Lisa-zm7cxIf someone says men are pigs then it is 100% generalizing men
@Gwazi
9 ай бұрын
I mean if you go around saying all men are pigs what type of response you think you are going to get?
@ALI-my9xb
Жыл бұрын
South korea seems like a country that has more sympathy for the culprit rather than the victim. I hope someone does justice with him behind the bars 💀
@Luzgoishzre
11 ай бұрын
So just like the rest of the world! They always be on ghe men side then the victim
@DawnsWorld
10 ай бұрын
They do this even with entertainment most times, it’s in everything 😭 demonizing people in the spotlight for regular things or things that are up to their own choice like smoking and dating while still showing love to literal pedos or racists in the industry.
@vanjosh7763
9 ай бұрын
Perhaps those powerful Families having members in the government had manipulated the laws to benefit their corruption and crimes. Now, even the common criminal gets to benefit from it by having lower years in bars.
@brooklynmedina7676
9 ай бұрын
Please have you seen what America allows?
@vanjosh7763
9 ай бұрын
@@brooklynmedina7676 and thus the Freedom is now for the rich and powerful only. As for the lower class, they get the "Pseudo-freedom." As for the even lower ones? The survivial of the most support.
@BeautyByLinnoria
Жыл бұрын
To be a woman anywhere on this planet is exhausting..WE ARE TIRED OF EVERYTHING
@faaaduma6876
Жыл бұрын
Exactly. This is happening since we were brought into this world. Seems like not alot is changing.
@Kiran37369
Жыл бұрын
And when we wanna keep ourselves safe and assume it’s all men, men get mad. But if we don’t, the dangerous men hurt us. We can’t do anything. And men get mad when we say it’s all men, but then they go back and generalize all feminists as loud annoying ppl. But imagine us women hearing about the hate crimes against women everyday. But it’s a problem when we generalize men as dangerous
@SemiOldAsian
Жыл бұрын
What is a woman?
@worldwidefunnyguy
Жыл бұрын
@@SemiOldAsianyour mom
@copperredd
Жыл бұрын
@@SemiOldAsian тнιnĸ нard...
@rosewolff7645
Жыл бұрын
"women do not exist for men and men wouldnt exist without women" a beautiful quote that really sums it up nicely
@Mr.WestcottX
Жыл бұрын
Indeed Without man or woman no more new kids on Earth 🌎
@ron8162
Жыл бұрын
the quote implies that only women can create, which is wrong. Both would not exist, the first half is good enough
@gottaluvdd
Жыл бұрын
@@ron8162it’s 50/50. men carry the sperm, women produce & birth the now born child. our whole existence kinda represents procreating.
@ihatepeopleyes9492
Жыл бұрын
Same applies to women. One can not exist without the other.
@valentinozientek5670
Жыл бұрын
They literally exist for me the first women was created because God saw that Adam was lonely and he said it is not good for man to be alone. Of course I don’t agree with what happens it’s fucking discusting when men abuse women but I think women are meant for men though i really do.
@jessicareynolds8011
10 ай бұрын
If the victim doesn't get privacy neither should the perp.
@monoceros.9310
Жыл бұрын
Reminds me of this recent story in Germany were a American male threw a American women off a 150+ foot bridge because she didn’t want to sleep with him….these crimes against innocent women make me scared to leave my house
@L.-I.
Жыл бұрын
What? Can you elaborate on that story? I haven't heard of it as a German citizen but since it's a bridge and US citizens, it seems to be a tourist attraction.
@swanhill5759
Жыл бұрын
@@L.-I.This year at Neuschwanstein castle. He actually threw two women off a ravine. He tried to sexually assault one, then threw her friend over when she tried to intervene. The friend died. Then he threw the other woman into the ravine and she barely survived her injuries.
@L.-I.
Жыл бұрын
@@swanhill5759 Thank you, I looked it up just now and it's terrible! This happened in June and we were there just last week and now I'm glad we didn't go up Marienbrücke because that's where he met them and led them astray. I think I know which trail they took because it's a shortcut for many but it's very steep and dangerous. No wonder they blocked some routes to the Pöllat torrent, where he pushed them off to. This is crazy, I only heard from hikers falling into their demise and dying from Zugspitze and vicinity when we were there. But ofc, they live off of tourism, so bad news have to be dispersed asap.
@silviahannak3213
Жыл бұрын
In Vienna, about 3/4 am near a Underground Station...in public, ppl walking by though she was screaming for help. One other Guy was interacting .only one..he run behind him. That Guy was caught. It boggles my Mind that it's getting dangerous in Vienna. Actually it is pretty safe here. Even at Night. Well i have never experienced it in my 20ies but time changed and nowadays i am thinking..if even older Women can get attacked..(other Event) even i should by a Pepper Spray.
@silviahannak3213
Жыл бұрын
This Neuschwanstein Case ..i've heard of it. Never heard that this happend before. Now we have to build more Fences around it cause of crazy (American!) Tourist. I don't know if these Women were with him or Strangers, Touristen from another Country.
@ColRusSer
Жыл бұрын
My question is: how high on the psychopathy scale would the judge score? This is outrageous. What kind of a system defends perpetrators and not victims? Insane.
@YTZSoLo
10 ай бұрын
@@JESUS7SAVES Why are you trolling? Do you not see how psycho you appear randomly yelling at people about your delulu beliefs?
@sulpherbratigh7936
9 ай бұрын
I mean insanity plea is a thing so I can see why
@aleashacasarez855
8 ай бұрын
Here in California, criminals get so much leeway and protection to the detriment of the public. The public is split between "they didn't know better! It's how they were raised. They had to feed their families!" and "do you even care about victims and public safety? Lawlessness leads to more lawlessness, and these light sentences create repeat offenders and more victims." And not that it matters because the public can't do anything about it anyway. The rich politicians live separate from the criminals they release, but appear on media and talk about how compassionate their policies are.
@MusMasi
8 ай бұрын
@@aleashacasarez855 they come down like a ton of bricks on self defense cases though.
@MrSeagull26
8 ай бұрын
In that very Junko Furuta case, the government hid the identities of the perpetrators simply because they were minors
@strudelh
Жыл бұрын
I just wanna know how hateful do you have to be to spin kick someone in the head like??
@alwaysreadin163
Жыл бұрын
Right?! How despicable you must be to another human being who did NOTHING to him. It's insanity. 😢
@NurmaBP
Жыл бұрын
Not really, there's people in this world who would targeting you simply because they seen you weaker than them. Especially in the place who have weak law in the criminal case like this.
@auroralex_
Жыл бұрын
Scary af.
@NelsonStJames
Жыл бұрын
I'm more concerned with the fact that this isn't a one off. Weren't we all talking about the "knock out" game that was a fad a few years back? ANYBODY today can become a victim of random violence, because that just seems to be the culture mankind has been cultivating.
@eveliscamareno5358
Жыл бұрын
If he was so drunk how did he roundhouse kick her then kick her five more times and walked out without tripping over his own feet? 🤨
@mysa11.11
4 ай бұрын
The fact that people with "alcohol intoxication" are given less sentence and people with medical condition are sentenced to longer jail time. The alcohol intoxication clause is just unbelievable. I hope that changes
@daria841
Ай бұрын
Developed country my ass. 😮
@NNVSG
Жыл бұрын
Stephanie’s storytelling is beyond this world!
@townsendadrianarmani
Жыл бұрын
She's so engaging!
@janicemoss5818
Жыл бұрын
Can u imagine being a school friend??? Lunch would be the best time😊
@swubbin
Жыл бұрын
literally i love her so much
@VZEEE_
Жыл бұрын
Frr
@Madi_399
Жыл бұрын
@@townsendadrianarmanii have dyslexia so I literally read that as "She's so annoying!"
@hayleymahaney
Жыл бұрын
It makes me sad that you have to make sure men's feelings aren't hurt by pointing out a few examples of what regularly happens to women. We, as a society, worry more about men's comfort than women's safety.
@mfknbumblebee
Жыл бұрын
💯💯💯!!! I've literally already seen at least 3 clowns in these comments pulling the obligatory "it happens to men too!!1!!1" bullshit
@BavarianHobbit
Жыл бұрын
@@mfknbumblebee Both genders deal with their own shit. Don't act like men are doing just fine these days.
@dianaisabelquinoneslezama1604
Жыл бұрын
@@BavarianHobbit Men face THEIR own shit, not this specific kind of violence, so don't act like woman are not constantly in danger because of sexism
@tenisawhite4660
Жыл бұрын
@@BavarianHobbitNobody said otherwise. Men don’t deal with these probelms is the point so theirs point in bringing up the OTHER shit men go through in a video bringing awareness to a female victim .
@BavarianHobbit
Жыл бұрын
@@dianaisabelquinoneslezama1604 Read OPs comment and then mine. OP is acting like we have no problems. I know this video is about sexism against women but I won't just have misinformation like that sit unopposed.
@wherlz3052
Жыл бұрын
That is absurd that you get punished for revealing a perpetrator’s identity. Unreal.
@Ta2demon
9 ай бұрын
I actually agree with Korean privacy laws... Identity should NOT be released until AFTER they have been found guilty or pleads guilty. It stops media circuses and people convicting them in public opinion... America's media has destroyed our judicial system by causing our society to make people guilty until they prove their innocence when it's supposed to be other way around.
@blessednhm
10 ай бұрын
This story really angers me. I've been followed before and its one of the scariest feelings in the world. The entitlement that this person feels in order to do this to someone is on another level. Ladies if you feel like your being follow do not continue to head home. Get to the nearest public area and ask for help. Even if your unsure it's better to report it in case that person trys to do it again.
@sc33h3o3
5 ай бұрын
I have called non-dispatch police (desk at police station) and usually they are willing to stay on phone with me for a minute until I feel safe and I tell them where I am
@betealvarez
Жыл бұрын
It seems pretty clear to me that he followed her with the intent of raping her. So he attacked her, left her unconscious, and raped her during those 7 minutes away from the cameras. Maybe that’s not common in Korea, but here in Brazil it happens all the time! 😢
@auroralex_
Жыл бұрын
Hope y'all stay safe and be cautious everytime.
@Nonyah123
Жыл бұрын
it happens every where all the time. Any country men exists it happens.
@JamTakano
Жыл бұрын
This is ACTUALLY a gender-based crime. * - This is a woman not wanting to smile 24/7, and a man getting mad becos of itー to the point of almost killing the woman. - This is rape.
@Lalit02Dhanwani
Жыл бұрын
why woman need to smile to a Stanger she doesn't know.
@uselesswriting3092
Жыл бұрын
@@Lalit02DhanwaniShe shouldn’t need to, but since the man expected her to, her not doing so warrants “punishment” in his eyes. It’s disgusting, like women are expected to be pretty decor and smile and wave at men, regardless of if he’s a stranger to her or not, at all times.
@durandus676
Жыл бұрын
People do this to men too. I got SAd by a woman cause she thought I liked her. If I defended myself the cops would have thought I attacked her even with me being the one bleeding. People are just insane sex be damned. I still have the scars and they still hurt and reopen 8 years later.
@TamWam_
Жыл бұрын
@@durandus676I'm really sorry that happened to you, and the fact that people might not even believe you just because of your gender..its awful. I hate discrimination so much. Hope you're doing better
@mverdugo39
Жыл бұрын
@@uselesswriting3092 Thats honestly so true, I keep to myself at work and have RBF and I’m constantly told to smile by men. Like why do I have to? If I’m having a good day I don’t have to have a smile from ear to ear.
@Wyster
Жыл бұрын
The disgust you can hear in Mr. MangoButt's voice is such a huge comfort to me with cases like this. I was SA'd by my ex-fiance, so listening to these types of cases is always hard. But his disembodied voice randomly cutting in with an enraged "are you *kidding* me?!" is oddly soothing.
@terriblink222
Жыл бұрын
omg i hope you’re able to recover and find someone better who truly loves and respects you ❤
@EllieLunt-cv5di
Жыл бұрын
I wish you all the healing
@ohara.
Жыл бұрын
whos MangoButt
@arlo2799
Жыл бұрын
@@ohara.her husband he sits on the other side of the camera with her
@ohara.
Жыл бұрын
@@arlo2799 nevermind i just watched a clip of her eating mukbang and making fun the victims name because she couldn't pronounce it...she might be entertaining to some of you but this is someone with broken morality just making money of other people's trauma in a disrespectful way
@robinjung8953
9 ай бұрын
As another Korean, I give the utmost sympathy and respect to the victim that chose to exit recently under tremendous pain and trauma caused by this horrendous event. She fought hard to serve justice to this piece of shit until the very last moment, when she broke down completely with helplessness she felt how the justice system only cared about protecting this fucker. RIP, my prayer goes to you.
@catherinerangasamy8332
Жыл бұрын
Hi Stephanie. Please read this. I'm from a small town in South Africa. A few years ago my cousin Percy was dating a girl who was cheating on him with a police officer. One day, Percy found out about the cheating. He ended things with the girl. The same day, he went fishing with his friends when the cop stopped him and put him into the police van. The cop and his friends beat my cousin to the point of Him almost dying before throwing him in a jail cell. There was another guy in the jail cell that tried to help him. Percys mother tried to see him in jail and they didn't allow her to. The guy in the jail cell sent a message to percys mother that he needed to talk to her and that he has something he needs to tell her about Percy urgently. A few hours later, my cousin was found hanging in the cell. The cops told my aunty that he committed suicide but both his legs and arms were broken. How could he have tied the rope? The entire thing was a cover up. Both the guy in the cell and the cop disappeared and his death was ruled as a suicide. My aunt tried to get a lawyer to fight the case but they didn't have enough money to proceed. We know he was murdered and that's what the guy in the cell wanted to tell my aunt. But the cop got to him before he could say anything. That guy is missing till today. Even his family hasnt heard from him. Please could you cover this case Steph? I want people to know about my cousin. Thank you so much. 😢❤
@pandabubu101
Жыл бұрын
bump if this is real!
@ruffalo1643
Жыл бұрын
Is there a case for it?
@jasannahmarie888
Жыл бұрын
What’s the cousin’s name? Where did this take place
@enjoyenglish1721
Жыл бұрын
With only a first name there is nothing nobody can do to research your case!
@KokosNaSnehu2
Жыл бұрын
This is a toxic feminist channel, they don´t give a shit about your male cousin... I bet most braindead Mango fans reading it think that he must have been another diabolical man and deserved everything.
@JoyNova
Жыл бұрын
It's so scary how men can become so conditioned to believe woman are not human to them and to act so evil against them. Society needs to change and it feels so helpless everytime these crimes happen.
@yasmeen9592
Жыл бұрын
Sadly this is common around the world but there are degrees of how horrible the men are in different countries. In the case of South Korea, they view women as their property the misogyny in Korea is horrendous.
@JuliRat
Жыл бұрын
It’s 100% the extremism on the internet that causes this sick mindset. It’s truly a cesspool, this society.
@abominationdesolation8322
Жыл бұрын
Maybe stop encouraging women to take over masculine roles while leaving men to the wayside --- and at the same time telling them they can take care of themselves, all their problems are their own fault, and if they are helpless or vulnerable then they're not real men (and thus are unsexed). Also basically telling men to never challenge women. Women from non-western countries think the west is so great and progressive compared to traditional countries --- until they don't have a functioning family unit, or a respectable man, and they don't understand why.
@teodorasavoiu4664
Жыл бұрын
@@abominationdesolation8322you need therapy, my guy
@teodorasavoiu4664
Жыл бұрын
Well, there's a lot of media that treats women like objects, pretty much in all cultures that have a global influence. Including the majority of porn, which men tend to watch more of, from a younger age. I can imagine that fucks with their developing brain. Add a patriarchal culture that is dominant in that area, and you have a loaded gun.
@Akideoni
Жыл бұрын
Sounds like the Korean justice system is deeply flawed. Thanks for sharing and let us know.
@Mr.WestcottX
Жыл бұрын
For real. Justice ⚖️ system needs fixing
@rachel4339
Жыл бұрын
Oh yeah, and it’s way worse than these cases alone. You should watch some of her other videos. 10 months of probation for the SA of a disabled minor is beyond flawed, it’s borderline archaic.
@DSS712
Жыл бұрын
It's more rooted in a general culture based on power dynamics (based on age, gender, rank, etc) and way of thinking bleeds through into the justice system.. This is obviously changing with each passing generation, but we are still currently at a point where a lot of the people in power are older men who grew up learning that the well being and reputation of men, especially high ranking men, are literally more important than that of women. IMO the male-only military draft is a major aspect of sexism that continues to persist in Korean society. The male half of the population and female half of the population are essentially split off for the first couple of years of their early twenties and during that time are taught different things about how to behave and what their societal roles are.
@laqwonmcclenton2226
10 ай бұрын
If you have money, you can get away with a lot more
@MsJyll
10 ай бұрын
Thailand system also flawed 😫😭😭
@mootato239
5 ай бұрын
It's 2024 and the discussion of "would you rather be stuck in a forest with a man or a bear?" became viral. This story adds to the point of choosing bear. People would rather die than have the physical, emotional, and mental trauma of being SA'd. It's exhausting to be a woman and life's more terrifying for victims.
@valeryvarelaaya1701
Жыл бұрын
looking at the title makes me question how evil someone could actually be i love the fact that stephanie tells stories from different countries to bring awareness to not so "popular" cases.
@avg7444
Жыл бұрын
I’m so sick to my stomach… why is being a woman so depressing…?
@Alexis-ev8ry
Жыл бұрын
because men
@mira-by4kt
Жыл бұрын
Actually men make women's life harder .
@ohara.
Жыл бұрын
identify as a man, problem solved
@blinkanimals9720
Жыл бұрын
Because being human is so depressing. Men suffer from depression and suicide at rates insanely higher than women. This is a bad human issue, not a gender one
@eviezucchinimartini
Жыл бұрын
@@blinkanimals9720men have higher sui rates bc they're more likely to use more violent ways of dying, not because they're more depressed or have more issues than women. please, for the love of god, stop trying to downplay women's issues by derailing it to talk about men. i'm sick of having to cater our conversations around men and their feelings. the fact the most you have to worry about is dying by your own hand and trying to say that is even comparable to the issues women face is hilarious. please stop. please.
@wrennie658
Жыл бұрын
I’m schizophrenic and the thought of harming someone makes me feel sick. Thank you for clearing up the misconceptions about schizophrenics (& other mental illnesses) for “being violent” & preventing the spread of stigma. :)
@zakjones7101
Жыл бұрын
Some are violent though. I think it's unethical to assign misogyny to someone who was apparently the worst case of schizo the doctor had ever seen. The two cases in this video should not have been discussed together imo.
@wrennie658
Жыл бұрын
@@zakjones7101 Ohh don’t get me wrong, there absolutely are. However- you can be both a misogynist & schizophrenic murder. He blamed women for his crimes which were simultaneously wrapped in his delusions. That is still misogyny, even if you are sick.
@zakjones7101
Жыл бұрын
@@wrennie658 but he's literally delusional so it's wrong to blame societal attitudes toward women rather than his mental illness. This is literally the same as the 'violent video games create serial killers' argument. No some people are prone to becoming serial killers and something just triggers it.
@wrennie658
Жыл бұрын
@@zakjones7101 I think you misunderstood what I said. He can be both delusional, a misogynist, and a murderer. I do think there was misogyny in this case- since his targets were women who he deemed “in his way” ect.
@zakjones7101
Жыл бұрын
@@wrennie658 I'm talking about what was said in the video. If a scirzophrenic person murdered someone and said 'God told me to do it' do you think it's fair to call that murder religiously motivated? Or would you discount the religious element because its obviously just evidence of their mental illness?
@mariareckner6101
11 ай бұрын
I love how passionate and outspoken Stephanie gets when it comes to women’s rights and just overall fights that women can live a normal life not constantly being in fear of what could happen to them!!! Thank you for voicing your opinions loud and proud to your huge following online!! We love you 🤍
@diannelopez2021
Жыл бұрын
I feel really bad for the victim... I want to accompany her day and night just to make her feel she's not alone. I can't imagine the panic attacks, the overthinking, the physical pain, the insomnia she's experiencing. 😢
@ruruiris9970
Жыл бұрын
Hi
@Tomatowithchocolate
Жыл бұрын
Me to i just feel bad for her
@ve_rb
Жыл бұрын
Ok white knight
@tuyiorla
Жыл бұрын
This case reminded me of one that recently happened in my country. It was around 7 am, a woman was walking to work through a residential area, a man is walking behind her and suddenly he attacks her. She yells "I have nothing on me!" and he stabs her several times and leaves her there. She starts to walk home, she's losing lots of blood and she's in a lot of pain. She died that day, it was her birthday. It was all caught in cctv, the guy was later arrested. It was presumed that he killed her because he wanted to steal her phone and wallet and when she told him she didn't have anything on her, he got mad and stabbed her because he couldn't get anything from her. But news outlets have already reported that the victims phone and other belongings where there at the crime scene, meaning he wasn't interested in stealing her stuff, it was also discovered he had a good paying job and had NO need to steal anything from anyone. Her family have already stated that they aren't related to the attacker, investigations have confirmed this. This guy didn't know the victim in any form, he killed her just because he wanted to. He was mad that day for whatever reason and decided to take her anger out on a vulnerable woman walking alone. There's already a lot of discontent in my country in how gender based homicides are dealt with, many times there's never any justice served and women have started marching and protesting because we're just tired of never feeling safe. I wish women could just exist without fear, but it feels like we can't be safe anywhere.
@marisamartin3664
Жыл бұрын
Arm yourselves, learn martial arts. It's your lives.
@lizxu322
Жыл бұрын
Which country you live in? Be transparent
@siewbengwee4530
9 ай бұрын
What country is this? Cos it will help many women to know if they were to travel to your country
@niceandcurly
9 ай бұрын
Mexican? I saw the video you mention. Infuriating.
@vegito179
9 ай бұрын
Title of the video?@@niceandcurly
@samiayunus6882
Жыл бұрын
My dad and I were watching this one together and he was like any man who think a woman owes him anything is and will never be a man. My dad has four daughters and sometimes violence on women affect him more than myself or my sisters. B/c as women, sadly we’ve learned to live with the fear. So my dad who is someone that is very careful and alert b/c he was once a victim of violence, struggles so much knowing that this is what women all over the world live with. And 9/10 their government or Justice system fails them. Thank you for sharing these stories, and talking about the victims. I hope one day the world will be safer and kinder to us, until then we keep fighting for each other❤
@ManiyaVinas
8 ай бұрын
no true scotsman fallacy, as if your dad never made a woman uncomfortable, does he even do the dishes?
@PrimeTimeSanders
10 ай бұрын
I’m positive Korean system and USA system are both in on it 🤷🏾♂️ just dang horrible no where is safe with these horrible judicial systems 🤦🏾♂️😭😭
@Kristine_202
Жыл бұрын
You said her doctor testified about her injuries. What about the hospital? Why didn't they do a rape kit? Or at least a thorough exam? She clearly was injured in the genital region. I don't understand how the cops could say, "We can't prove SA" when they LITERALLY could prove it. That's so infuriating.
@tr4sh37
Жыл бұрын
You didnt watch the video or payed attention huh? You truly do have the brain of a woman. She said they couldn't do a test on that because they were so busy trying to stabalize and save her life
@TheRealdal
Жыл бұрын
Patriarchal society where they didn’t want to find out further as they blame the woman somehow. They look for excuses to find a reason that she must have asked for it. It’s disgusting.
@benedicta4898
Жыл бұрын
This story breaks my heart because us women we don’t know when we are safe.. Women are more likely to be harassed, SAed etc. Men experience it too but statistically women get it on a daily. The attack was premeditated When I heard it on the podcast I was devastated and the fact that his sentence was short was pathetic. His behaviour was disgusting. I love how you spoke about his history as well. t
@GLI507ER
Жыл бұрын
Probably not daily unless you live in a area where people see it as normal,
@shainafullerton2433
Жыл бұрын
@@GLI507ER Where are these places where this isn't seen as normal?
@sour5620
Жыл бұрын
@@GLI507ERthey probably meant that sa cases probably happen all over the world daily
@GLI507ER
Жыл бұрын
@@sour5620 ah okay
@mikeblalock9380
Жыл бұрын
Not really. It's literally equal. They don't use SA or the R word when it happens to men by women. Man on man is called the R word. When it's done by women it's called " forced to penetrate" look up that stats. Men are at the for front door violence. Men faces violent crimes more than women. When it happens to men it does not make the news
@benedicta4898
Жыл бұрын
That 7 minutes can never be taken back. Like I can’t imagine and don’t want to imagine what he did to her. He knew what he was doing that’s why he took her to a blind spot where there’s no camera. That 7 minutes is going to haunt her. The trauma she will have to face. I wish her recovery and for her to stay strong.
@Nonyah123
Жыл бұрын
the video explicitly states she had rectal tearing in all directions, what is there to be confused by...every one know exactly what happened.
@evayam2584
10 ай бұрын
Now people understand why in this country women want to be single.
@lat7324
Жыл бұрын
Lord the logic behind the police investigation is horrible. The first case was not a “don’t ask crime” he followed her to SA her.
@marslara
Жыл бұрын
Exactly, it's one thing if he just attacked her and left but he knew where a blind spot was to take her body to??
@saskuerox
Жыл бұрын
Stop apologizing for your long videos I enjoy how in depth you go. Many other youtubers miss so much crucial info
@Mr.WestcottX
Жыл бұрын
Indeed. Doesn't bother me in the least that her videos are hour long
@kc7886
Жыл бұрын
These videos make me so angry 😭😭 I get so enraged by crime against women especially when there’s literally no reason behind it (well besides plain old misogyny)
@kamorracousins9952
Жыл бұрын
Le
@marilynfisher794
9 ай бұрын
You are amazing and speak straight from the heart. I am in awe of the stories that you share from other countries that we are not aware of. Keep up the good work.
@kujokiller2195
Жыл бұрын
i read about this story a while ago and the fact that they didn’t want to think that it was SA and didn’t check properly is sick and the guy didn’t attack her because she gave him a dirty look clearly the police had to know that he had been following her for blocks and hiding behind cars when she turned around
@mac1bc
Жыл бұрын
Agreed that the police response is very disgusting and disturbing
@TonksTheFool
Жыл бұрын
Korea point blank doesn't take SA cases seriously. It's seen as 'making waves'.
@thegrimlooper
Жыл бұрын
As a woman, bad things started before I could even remember. “Family”, “friends”.. Really there was no one to trust.
@YRH21
Жыл бұрын
😢
@voidbreather7405
Жыл бұрын
Unfortunately, that lines up with the statistics - you're most likely to be abused by someone in your life than by a total stranger.
@ellielou52
Жыл бұрын
Same. It took me a long time to come to terms with the repeating dream, the fact that I knew what sex felt like my whole (remembered) life, starting to masturbate many times a day at age 10, associating shame, degradation, and being forced with being turned on, engaging in very risky sexual behaviors, not being able to assert oneself when not wanting to engage in sex at all... all the signs are there, but I can't remember anything, I only have the dream. I believe that I was 3 or 4 based on the location of the dream. I looked at my daughter at that age and my heart just shattered, and I can't tell you the fear I feel for my baby girl. I don't fully trust ANYBODY and would be heartbroken but never dumbfounded if someone close to us hurt her.
@cordeliahale644
Жыл бұрын
I feel this in my heart. My mother hid it, my brother did it, and everyone else just looked the other way for over 5 yrs. I still have trouble going around my brother, and my relationship with my mother is toxic and devolving. I'm sorry you know that pain, that you never had that familial security. With therapy and a good support system it can get better.❤️🩹
@marwakassem1600
Жыл бұрын
They should start teaching self defense for girls in schools all around the world cause this is honestly getting ridiculous.
@delilah28100
Жыл бұрын
or maybe teach boys to learn to respect women and their boundaries. Teach boys that a woman is never their property and should be treated as their equal.
@reolabranch
Жыл бұрын
Yes! Females should be taught self-defense, and males should be taught that their desires are not an excuse for any sort of violence. Idk wth is so twisted here?!?
@Ennn117
Жыл бұрын
I also agree with the replies, but I think the punishments should be harsher too
@territimmerman140
Жыл бұрын
@@reolabranch You're completely correct!!
@melissamoonchild9216
Жыл бұрын
he took her out from behind, she didnt even have the chance to defend herself
@watchanimeandstramkpop8195
7 ай бұрын
Regardless if he was drunk or not he completely changed the direction of this poor girls life. She will never live a normal life again and she may never live the life she wouldve wanted for herself. And he doesnt want to take responsibility after lying about being drunk. Insane
@LilacFairy1
Жыл бұрын
Honestly its terrifying how normalized the fear is for women to do anything alone that it's not seen as something that needs to be fixed, it just exists and we have to live with and no the rules.. make sure you're not alone, hold keys between your fingers, lock all doors and windows, carry paper spray, have a guard dog, dont tell a man no, dont dress provoking. ETC..
@ohara.
Жыл бұрын
this dude was clearly HATEFUL a kick like that, he wanted to empty his hatred onto her watching it you feel it also this women identify as men BS creats more unsafe places imagine having that thing in your only spaces you should be safe
@cookielover5838
Жыл бұрын
Lucky for me, even though I’m not old enough to have one, my sister gave me her old taser. Edit: no I don’t, my mom threw it away when she re did my room ☠️
@DM-nw5lu
Жыл бұрын
@ohara. How do y'all transphobes manage to make everything about being anti trans? Do you actually think predatory men would go through the trouble of pretending they are female identifying to enter women's spaces? They wouldn't.
@julieoluna8887
Жыл бұрын
Exactly! The authorities are always warning Women not to go out alone and shouldn't go out at all after dark and yet they say nothing about the scumbags, they don't say "Attacking Women and Children makes you a filthy coward, not a man! If we catch you even following a Woman we are going to put you in prison for life! They same absolutely nothing, basically saying loud and clear that Men are vile creatures, that's how they are and nothing can be done about it and so if you don't like it... it's up to you to protect yourself. People are saying it's only some men who commit these atrocities, Judging by the number of Women and Children that are being raped and killed every single day! It proves that it's not "only some" men, even the seemingly nicest guy turns into a monster when you reject his sexual advances. Poor young lady 💔
@julieoluna8887
Жыл бұрын
@@ohara.STOP making excuses for appallingly vile behaviour.
@nicolerolug
Жыл бұрын
This isn’t the first crime in SK that I hear about but what surprises me is SK’s ability to do a poor job at almost everything… This is unfortunate for the victim, being a women in this world is such a struggle.
@BloodMoonCosplays
Жыл бұрын
It shouldn’t be a crime to take away the protection of a PREDATORY ASSAULTER. If the cops wanna be scummy, the people will do their job for them. I thank the KZitemr who in his making of that video saved many, MANY women, and pray that the system doesn’t try and incarcerate him for a beautiful thing, a strong and kind thing.
@gngrblls2thwall
3 ай бұрын
Hold up. Dissociative amnesia seems like an overkill explanation her not remembering anything. The whole thing started with her getting clobbered in the back of the head. She was still semi-conscious before getting kicked again before going fully out, but it's extremely normal with something like that to have no memory after the initial hit even if you're not out after the first hit... It's not a psychological phenomenon, it's just what happens when your brain gets clocked. It doesn't really matter, I'm just confused as to why anybody felt like that needed an explanation beyond the obvious.
@icarus4302
2 ай бұрын
Usually because the "law" needs a very specific excuse as to why the victim is actually a victim, for example if she was even the tiniest bit conscious, everyone in the courtroom would twist it beyond recognition till it eventually became "consent", not to mention not everyone has the "pass out" reaction, infact most people don't pass out, and instead get a rush of adrenaline so they can fight or flee, but after such a severe and sudden attack to a vulnerable part of her temple most people would knock out, it's just people in a courtroom usually go to college for law, not common sense or medical knowledge
@gerberadaisyluver
Жыл бұрын
It’s so frustrating that crimes against women don’t have major consequences in some countries, and men need to be educated that women are not there only for them to do ad they please like you mentioned Stephanie. So sad, may all the victims rest in peace.
@regularconversation
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@marisamartin3664
Жыл бұрын
Why aren't their brothers or fathers doing something on their own? It's Biblical by the way, and especially when their is no justice or protection from the State.
@victoriarodriguez9981
Жыл бұрын
If the woman was unaware she was being followed, kicked in the head from behind, etc... she doesn't NEED to have amnesia in order to no know what happened... she was unconscious... you can not remember things unless you are conscious... now IF she lost the memories of times when she HAD been conscious, THEN she had amnesia... but I would not consider her lack of memories during this period of assault on her as having amnesia... she was incapacitated.
@purple66666
Жыл бұрын
This makes me question how did the law enforcers get their job in the first place.
@irinaparent9066
Жыл бұрын
this is Korea and Japan and china, they are famous for this type of behavior. they put their non thinking caps on and go out to collect evidence@@purple66666
@addison_07
Жыл бұрын
This reminded me of a gender-based homicide that happened in my neighborhood. Especially the part about how women can't reject men without potentially fearing for their lives. A few years back, in 2016, my neighborhood and the entire city was rocked with a horrible crime. Caroline Nosal worked at a local grocery store with a man named Christopher O'Kroley. They shortly became friends, but not too far after, she would be shot dead in the parking lot and her murderer was the man she had been friends with. He started having feelings for Caroline, and she didn't like him back. He sent her a bunch of explicit, horrible messages and then she told him not to talk to her anymore. She tried to get him fired, and he finds out, he shoots her in the parking lot. He did get life in prison, but it's a horrifying reminder of how women are treated in modern day society. Rest in peace Caroline.
@jirou6228
Жыл бұрын
men think is ok to s3xualize their women friends... in fact most men befriended with a women for a potential mate... if you refuse their s3xual advance, they will stop being friend with you... the friendship was all a lie to cover up their nasty thought... there is true friendship between opposite gender but most of them have a high chance of a male fantasize about their female friend which is not great for a sustainable friendship... so be careful who you think your friend is... they probably won't treat you as their friend
@ve_rb
Жыл бұрын
Maybe don’t try to get him fired next time
@addison_07
Жыл бұрын
@@ve_rb ur literally sick. he was making sexual remarks and constantly stalking her. she had absolutely every right to want to get him fired. he's fucking creepy
@faithbrown126
8 ай бұрын
i love how you talk so carful and loving about this poor woman
@abhabhasakhetre5865
Жыл бұрын
The double standards between male and female and the shit ton of torture women have to go through everyday is seriously very bad ....I am the only girl in my entire family surrounded by male presence.....and where I should feel protected and safe ... that I do most of the times...but it's the underlying feeling and uneasiness that comes with being a women that you can never let your guard down no matter how close you are with them....and that's scary... I don't know why men do this .....last year there was a boy in the same institution as me but not same class....and I was not interested in him....but this boy by himself...all by his very intelligent mind that ofcourse she likes me....well.... we've been in the same institution for two years ....and I only started talking to him cuz he asked me to explain him some lessons....I he starts messaging me and as I should I don't kiss his feet everyday I see him....I don't wanna please him....and when I try to keep him away from me ...by being a bit direct and he might have taken it as rude ....I tried my best to tell.him off nicely in several ways but he was just veryy stubborn and I knew he wouldn't bugde a little....soon after...he literally stopped messaging me ...good for me ...but then he starte thrashing my name like I am rude selfish ...good looking for nothing a liar cuz if I didn't talk to him I wouldn't have any other guy friends right 🙄.... that's what he assumed...and now he posts stories hating on everything I like .... every musician evry actor and every thing that I said ....I mean....I'm sorry for not kissing your feet sir ...🙄🙄 Some Men need to get a life ....pls🙏
@WickedPhase
Жыл бұрын
I'm sorry that happened to you, you don't need to apologize! We don't exist to please men, or to blindly worship them! I hope you're doing better ❤
@akiluckyakilucky7524
Жыл бұрын
It's ok to block him and report him for harassment, and also to block anyone who shares your social media info with him
@ktwanders2813
Жыл бұрын
Being a woman is exhausting…it’s true. I think all the time, wow, that could’ve been me. I used to go out every weekend to bars/clubs. I had some scary incidents, but nothing life threatening…and the first case? We might as well never leave the house. It’s all so terrifying.
@JuliRat
Жыл бұрын
Women shouldn’t have to live in fear of these demons. Stay strong.
@chenmae9747
Жыл бұрын
@@JuliRatty
@regularconversation
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@JuliRat
Жыл бұрын
@@chenmae9747 Np. It should be a given, but safety is still an ongoing issue. I gotta wonder why people can be so damn violent.
@sour5620
Жыл бұрын
Its so terrifying to me to think that you can get killed/assaulted randomly just because of someone getting “revenge”
@Mr.WestcottX
Жыл бұрын
For real any woman or girl in South Korea 🇰🇷 or anywhere in general
@abominationdesolation8322
Жыл бұрын
Asians in LA have been victims of the "knockout game" by rowdy youths for decades now. Just remember to vote blue until your state crumbles, so you can flee to a red state and vote blue there.
@claycollins8973
Жыл бұрын
Easy solution, don't be a shtty person causing people to want revenge by killing you
@zombiehunter1152
Жыл бұрын
@@Mr.WestcottXany person man or female, it doesn’t matter what you are. If your in the wrong spot or wrong time your in trouble.
@Mr.WestcottX
Жыл бұрын
@@zombiehunter1152 true, based on statistics the likelihood that you might be almost always be women ♀️
@NoProblem-IAmMeYouAreYou
10 ай бұрын
My heart breaks for this woman
@DSS712
Жыл бұрын
As a foreign woman who has lived in Korea for the past decade, I am without words. I just finished watching your episodes about the airforce case, two sisters case, and now this case, and I've always considered South Korea to be an extremely safe place in terms of violent crime, but you've kind of opened my eyes to the fact that this country isn't necessarily safer for women - it is likely just full of silent victims who don't report their assaults due to Korea being ruled by authority figures who not only laugh in the face of sexual assault victims, but who literally see it as an inconvenience to them. In all three of these cases you discussed, the CORE issue is not actually the perpetrators - it is the AUTHORITY that protects the perpetrators. I can guarantee you that the amount of sexual assault occurring in Korea would plummet if hypothetical perpetrators had any reason to believe that their crimes will be taken seriously by the powers that be. Every time a case like this happens, every time the news reveals a rapist getting slapped on the wrist, a slew of new perpetrators will be emboldened. Shame on the police. Shame on the military. Shame on the entertainment industry. Shame on the executive branch. Shame on any office of authority who gives paychecks and power to men who see women as objects who dare not inconvenience a man. Shame on any person in a position of power who BLATANTLY denies or minimizes clear evidence of a horrific crime. I love living here but my heart is truly breaking for the countless women (and men) who have buried their trauma inside because the alternative is having society mock them and torment them until the point of suicide while the authority figures let them off because an "important" man's reputation needs to have priority over a victim's dignity. I love Korea with all of my heart. I am married to a Korean man and he is one of the most wonderful people I have ever met. This country can do better for its people. This country needs to do better.
@wendychavez5348
9 ай бұрын
Your response is wonderful. You acknowledge how big the problem is and ways that the situation might be improved, and you also give your reasons for thinking this is the exception more than the rule. Thank you for directing your energy rightly!
@somniumriddle
8 ай бұрын
Some of us in Korea joke cell phones and laptops have it safer than us women. They sure don’t steal cuz they know they will be caught and punished thoroughly but they will attack and SA and cam us cuz well, now you know.
@Oouri.0.2.0
8 ай бұрын
unfortunately, it has really dark sides. it was traumatizing to grow up as women in korea. as women in korea, there is the first trauma, the attack, and second trauma is, no one really cares, even the law. the normalized violence against women..so, people would say yes that's bad, because it's common sense. but don't really help or care when women get violence in public, and even shame victim why would you go to places(bar,club,cafe, whatever) to get harassed..etc. it was shocking to grow up with all this. and most of women can relate to this. i couldn't live there with good mental health, and still traveling between countries. i really hope it's get better, heart crusing to feel there's always gonna be young girls as victim, but seems like it will take a long time.
@paran315
6 ай бұрын
Well it also has a cultural aspect. There's a saying in korea that goes 'there's a reason for that to happen'. Sounds normal but the context here can't really be translated. That saying is used to villify victims of any type of bullying. I myself heard that from a TEACHER in high school. Around that time I attempted self exit, failed. And several more times after that. I graduated "k-high 🙄" over a decade ago and the impact all the bullying had on me is still taking its toll. It all started when I was a 2nd grader who just came back from US after a year. I got mocked because my korean was ever so slightly off. It snowballed from there. I am outta here in the next few years. I recommend you do the same for yourself or your kids(if you have any).
@sc33h3o3
5 ай бұрын
I don't think that the authority seeming to favor perpetrators is greater problem than perpetrators themselves? But universally, not just in Korea, lack of justice for women (due to the fact that much violence against women happens in a he said she said situation behind closed doors) does embolden abusers
@eveelee4152
Жыл бұрын
And if I hear “what did she did to make him do that” I will scream because don’t matter he could of killed her
@vkim3149
Жыл бұрын
What did she did to make him do that?
@kat5418
Жыл бұрын
@@vkim3149😭 this ain’t the time or place chief
@Luvhlix
Жыл бұрын
What’s wrong they’re just curious because why would anyone do that to someone
@uintothat732
Жыл бұрын
@@LuvhlixWhy would they assume that it's the victim's fault? 😭
@myothethnin1224
Жыл бұрын
If a schizophrenic woman went around stabbing only men, let’s see if the Police will say the same
@shapexifterr7067
Жыл бұрын
Idk what you mean, but at least where I live. She’d be arrested for murder. Please I beg you to remember that this ISNT A WAR BETWEEN MAN AND WOMAN. please understand. This is not to attack you, just bring awareness that misogyny still exists because it does, all throughout our history. The fact that you seem to be offended is scary. It’s a fact that women and children are attacked more than men and that children and women get SA’d more, I’m sorry to tell you the truth. Men do get SA’d and my country is trying to fix that issue too, women who commit crimes get punished. We just need to end misogyny, that is the purpose of this video.
@SUN_MOON_SKY93
Жыл бұрын
Nah the woman would have been locked up threw away the key and they would be stuck in there for life . The double standards for men is crazy .
@iamnemoo
Жыл бұрын
I dunno, when's the last time you heard of a woman on a male only killing spree? Because there's a list of incels doing it for the past few years
@BavarianHobbit
Жыл бұрын
@@SUN_MOON_SKY93 You do know men in the west go to prison for the same crimes a lot longer, right?
@Valentino016
Жыл бұрын
Korean law is very double standard
@Layah-z9l
2 ай бұрын
I genuinely hate it when immature men say “women with victim mindset are the problem” I was literally in the 4th grade when I was being followed around the store by some old creepy guy which I thought I was being paranoid until I seen him following me out of the store, and then waited for me outside when I went back into the store after realizing I left something and he only stopped following when he realized I was with my mom and another male family member, yes it’s sad but true that women can never fully feel sure about their safety
@Kalakeiko
2 ай бұрын
And people still have the nerve to say that misogyny doesn't exist smh. I'm really sorry that happened to you.
@TwichMcvey-mc3pv
Жыл бұрын
One of my friends as a girl was assaulted and so badly her womb had to be removed. Her father threw her out after ut all for not being a "woman anymore and how can he marry her off now?" That she was no longer his "good Christian girl. Just damaged goods and must have wanted it." She eventually grew up to decide to transition to male. She had no womb, or fallopian tubes or even overies and was forced to take hormones anyway. Now she is a man. I asked if it was what she had always wanted and he told me, it is to be more safe in this world of men. Being one was safer and now works and lives as a man. It has been a huge change but now he feels safe and is not even being pressed to marry or have kids. No one is upset about him living happily alone with his dogs and home and travling the country. No gay, not gender queer, just safer and already was "destroyed as a female medically." So he felt "why not?" Also now that their father is dead they get to reconnect with mom and siblings!😊😮
@marslara
Жыл бұрын
That sounds awful, I hope on top of everything his decision to transition doesn't affect him negatively or at least provides some level of happiness.
@osmanhazan1499
Жыл бұрын
Damn I will be praying for her hopefully she's doing good now
@TwichMcvey-mc3pv
Жыл бұрын
@@osmanhazan1499 thanks! He seems to be happy. 3 Corrgies and a job that lets him travel, no kids and a mom that is just happy he is safe and living a sweet life. She isn't even mad that he left the religion that hurt him as a youth and drove his dad to think like that in the first place! Great mom. One of the brothers is still odd about it and keeps dead naming though. But he is an ass much like their dad was soooo..😅
@TwichMcvey-mc3pv
Жыл бұрын
@@marslara thank you. He seems well adjusted and happy with his Corrgies and job. He travels and gets to see his mom and siblings. His mom isn't even mad at him for leaving the religion that caused so much of the toxicity and hurt between the dad and his daughters in the first place. One of the brothers is an ass much like their dad though so, yeah.
@janelleflowers51
Жыл бұрын
@@TwichMcvey-mc3pvpls tell me the mom divorced that guy….
@euneiros
Жыл бұрын
"I want to be alive at the end of my work day" "Im alive because i didnt use the bathroom that day" "Women do not exist for men and men would not exist without women" Such powerful and depressings sentences :(
@mikeblalock9380
Жыл бұрын
No one would exist without everyone else. It never one sided.
@Astronomica999
Жыл бұрын
@@mikeblalock9380what a dipshit thing to say
@tuxedo_ri
Жыл бұрын
@@mikeblalock9380 thats true. woman is the one who gives birth to human tho. she has the last word in literally giving birth to human. and she risks her health and life to do so..
@vneo42
Жыл бұрын
@@mikeblalock9380 reproduction in humans is pretty one sided, women undeniably bear the brunt. It’s worth acknowledging that every person on the planet is physically built by, and born from, a female body. That’s not mentioning childcare, nursing and nurturing….
@sambur6480
Жыл бұрын
@@mikeblalock9380 Actually science disagrees with you. The female came before the male. Y chromosome is a mutation
@Vincent-ed6ge
Жыл бұрын
Women must be protected by all cost, they deserve everything nice in this world. These kind of men make me rethink how women feel when I approach them. I dont ever want to make a wrong impression.
@melissamoonchild9216
Жыл бұрын
you're sweet, your comment is needed and appreciated here ❤
@ohara.
Жыл бұрын
they can identify as a man problem solved
@anniej1834
Жыл бұрын
You're a true gentleman ❤️🥰 the world needs more like u x
@isobelbroddrick1631
Жыл бұрын
That’s so kind as long as you aren’t pushy on anything I don’t think you’ll make them scared or anything but this is so sweet me heart goes out to this comment
@Dave_of_Mordor
Жыл бұрын
I'm for protecting people, but the beginning of your sentence is just...eww
@mjkcdshaw
10 ай бұрын
I just want to comment on your point that the schizophrenia person's delusions stem from some sort of reality or "that they don't come out of thin air". My Dad was diagnosed schizophrenia in the 90's. Some of his delusional thoughts were normal fears, but on steroids. Then there were delusional thoughts that had no reality. My Dad would not eat any food in the town where my parents lived in because he believed they were poisoning him. At one point he thought my Mom was poisoning him. I do appreciate your compassion in the beginning when you were talking about his diagnosis. Taking care of someone diagnosed schizophrenia, and loving them is the hardest thing our family ever went through. Thank you for all the research and compassion you put into all your videos.
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