When it comes to masculinity and getting respect, 1 thing i learned most effective was putting the girl in her place by stating your boundaries and that certain things will not be tolerated. Once she starts to hit those areas, you call it out. If she doesn't comply, walk away. She then begs to come back. Showing indifference and coldness also impacts attraction. Assertiveness and leading the relationship as well. Learned this all the hard way. Edit: I always go by the saying; no one takes you serious until you punch them in the eye. Don't actually punch her lol.
@mann8098
3 жыл бұрын
Punch the heart (figuratively speaking) 😂
@datingskillz9718
3 жыл бұрын
Rather than punching them in the eye you should slap yourself hard because as Wayne Dyer said, "people treat you the way you teach them." And until you get it and change, things won't change.
@damanybrown5036
3 жыл бұрын
Well I actually had to punch another guy's girl to get her offa me!
@theemperor2017
3 жыл бұрын
@@mann8098 yes, I say pinch the heart. Lol. Perspectively!
@jgraymatter3317
3 жыл бұрын
I’ve learned how to enjoy the building of the tension and the easing between into intimacy. It makes everything so much better.
@Zeksham12
3 жыл бұрын
Thank you! This video actually helped me alot! Especially the part where I need to "fill the baloon" or "flirting but without thinking the only thing", but more because its fun!
@Godbae
3 жыл бұрын
This is honestly one of your best and most on point videos ever. Keep up the good work Apollonia!!
@alexanderbreems2921
3 жыл бұрын
You can't make anybody want you. Real, lasting attraction comes from working on yourself first, and compatibility second.
@mann8098
3 жыл бұрын
Yes. Do you and she'll love you for it.
@tim4505
3 жыл бұрын
Yes, so true.
@josephcartagena5879
3 жыл бұрын
Attraction Isn't A Choice
@jayb3033
3 жыл бұрын
I love your videos. It’s great to hear a woman’s point of view for men compared to just men telling other men about attracting women.
@quiquicampos
3 жыл бұрын
Yes she mentioned a flow a energy... Between the two... for my it's like a cup of coffee and i tell ya .. the chemical chemistry is alive and kicking .. and keep eye contact and be sincere.... Good luck
@hildaopiyo
3 жыл бұрын
Wish all women could watch this too,good content to us too
@brianpotts9311
Жыл бұрын
Always amazing information and advice for us guys out here trying to find our special woman. Much love to you and thank you!
@cesarbenitez5262
3 жыл бұрын
Pure gold ... Your words are truly appreciated here 💓
@mikeywilliams5322
3 жыл бұрын
Another great video, keep it up! Appreciate cha
@pianoLee-sx9dx
4 ай бұрын
This is very informative!
@jonspruillsr.602
3 жыл бұрын
I had it and lost it and matter how I try I cant just let it go!! The best part is how she moved on do fast that it was a lie!
@jonspruillsr.602
3 жыл бұрын
Even though I cant let go! I can say she will never be allowed in my life again!
@mikemaryniuk571
2 жыл бұрын
All the best to her.....new one right around the corner. If she isn't feminine and respects you then see ya
@ephraimmuchugia8811
3 жыл бұрын
In Kenya if you have money as a man all that comes automatically .. believe me
@Mocha69A
3 жыл бұрын
That's world wide chief unless your a creep
@datingskillz9718
3 жыл бұрын
What women say they want and actually respond to are often different things. When a woman meets a man who MAKES HER FEEL sexual attraction she'll forget about all the preferences she made up in her mind.
@ArshadAli-sn2cd
3 жыл бұрын
If both are not at same level of frequency and wave lengt based on release of harmones, testosterones and pheromones, no such attempts can bear fruit to build sexual attraction.
@joelrodriguez2152
3 жыл бұрын
There is nothing for me to enjoy but been alone. There is no point for me to try anything else I can do. For someone who doesn’t want to put the effort
@sanjeevnee8266
3 жыл бұрын
Hi. Ur videos help me alot. Thanku. My gf dumped me on financial ground n also because of her family pressure. We r batchmet in engineering clg. But she still want to be in touch. She used to call me after few days. I m avoiding her calls n avoiding any meeting with her. Beside this now she is also talking to others finencially stable guys. How to deal this condition.? N what I can do for her come back as she was before when she is totally indulge in me.
@mann8098
3 жыл бұрын
Forget about her. Focus on you and she'll come crawling. It's the only way. Cut all ties to her.
@BL-N3xus
3 жыл бұрын
Move on man, just move on.
@playingheartonestaronelove314
3 жыл бұрын
What's the best example as in talking on line for a few months daily, in that process showing your feminine side, she gets strong feelings within that wrecking her head because she lives across the pond? Any advice? Also had difficult life, Walk away or?
@AnkurKordeVlogs
3 жыл бұрын
Great video💜Bigg fann🍻
@PsychicMedium777-uw4mm
3 жыл бұрын
No doubt! This is "great" information, Apollonia! The problem is... It's hard to implement these kinds of strategies / things, when you ALWAYS have "toxic" parents and family members bringing YOU down! Then and Now! Just saying.... girl! 😥
@qwerty48880
3 жыл бұрын
THANK U APOLLONIA UR ADVICE IS GREAT
@G8oo8N8
3 жыл бұрын
Thx for sharing but all you talk about i wish in my relationship she emotionally unavailable to me but super social butterfly with other dudes. Smh.. no connection.. i tried all..
@mann8098
3 жыл бұрын
Dump her. She doesn't value you because you don't value yourself.
@datingskillz9718
3 жыл бұрын
@@mann8098 Dumping the one woman without learning where and how he messed up isn't going to help much because he will just attract another her and repeat the cycle.
@travisandrews3909
2 жыл бұрын
Im watching this you tube video twice
@robertnorth7026
3 жыл бұрын
Fellas! Listen to her speak this gospel👏 Your a true cheat code to greatness in he relationship!
@ApolloniaPonti
3 жыл бұрын
Thank you. :-)
@mann8098
3 жыл бұрын
Yeah, just remember that's the female perspective, never compromise your needs and wants in any major way because your needs and wants is something she finds attractive, it's what makes you a man and she should want to tend to them.
@poopstain724
3 жыл бұрын
Ap has been working out and eating pineapples and pistachios 💪🏼
@farrismomin3721
2 жыл бұрын
The girl I've been dating for a few weeks now (not my girlfriend), used to flirt with me sexually in the beginning, but doesn't flirt with me anymore....she did mention she wants us to be sexually intimate when it's special and take the right time for it. We have been on 4 dates and we kiss at the end everytime. Good signals she likes me too, she's recently said she feels safe and at peace with me and often times tells me how sweet I am.....I guess I overthink about the time frame and how/when to progress, I also wonder about how to get back sexuality into the conversation without just jumping into it.....any advice?
@BL-N3xus
3 жыл бұрын
I agree with all your points. However, it only works if she finds you physically attractive to her. Otherwise, how would explain one night stands or sleeping with her within 10 minutes of meeting her? You can NOT negotiate sexual desires with the opposite sex.
@jiggyjames9237
2 жыл бұрын
Remember you are always loved bye for now...
@nobodysperfect06
3 жыл бұрын
Reason why I never was a fan of the dating process is because guys or men need to know or learn so money damn social behaviors or social skills, being an almost perfect conversationalist, overall too many social behaviors, it's like guys need to have a PhD in social dynamics but women just need to have a high school diploma in social dynamics. "Well, everything depends on how you look at things. And you can complain about how the world works, or you can adapt to it and make the most of your situation!" Sadly I got that response somewhere, it's a brutal cold heart reminder that sadly can't do anything about the dating process or dating system, the Dynamics are forever here to stay.
@Msinghafit
3 жыл бұрын
Love it Apollonia
@jamesg1974a
3 жыл бұрын
Don't worry we all talk to ourselves sometimes
@jonathanfactor6688
3 жыл бұрын
Great video thanks
@ApolloniaPonti
3 жыл бұрын
Glad you enjoyed it
@AdvancingStudio
3 жыл бұрын
I have a woman I've been married to for 5years and now that I've been doing what I thought I was supposed to do as a husband but we have 3 kids together and I don't get freedom to make distance between us. And sex is our only interaction with eachother, but she sees me as a child but I do most the responsible things but recent days together with her make me come off as needy
@AdvancingStudio
3 жыл бұрын
Ohh yea we're about to divorce.
@abishekrengo3011
3 жыл бұрын
Great advice and you're a great coach Apollonia. Your advises are really good but I've an issue with the one I want and I love. We had sex too and I love her truly but she's saying me that she can't feel me. It means she can't feel my love. But she says that I'm a good guy she trust me a lot and she says that my love is also true. But why she's not accepting me. It's a huge depression for me
@davidbalija
2 жыл бұрын
IT doesn’t work for me
@lutaayam
3 жыл бұрын
Have you ever sent that pic Appolonia?
@abhinavpandey1999
3 жыл бұрын
Hi AP
@G8oo8N8
3 жыл бұрын
First comment ayyyye...
@mann8098
3 жыл бұрын
Last yeeehaaaahh
@jaimienichols5649
3 жыл бұрын
Nice
@tpsmt
2 жыл бұрын
I usually find AP's videos fairly clear but I found this one mightily confusing. It all sounds like an extremely intricate game bound up with a massive dose of subterfuge. Why can't a man simply be himself and a woman accept him for what he is. After all, once a couple tie the knot, they are going to have to endure a long period of tolerance
@suzukigun9947
3 жыл бұрын
I'm 30 and still single guess I'm dying alone sigh
@Mocha69A
3 жыл бұрын
Only 30
@TomFox1
3 жыл бұрын
Na bro, you got lot of time, Go to the club or bar, or approach women around you’re age. Talk to the bro’s for some help.
@chriswalls5831
3 жыл бұрын
I dont have to try they want me lol
@mann8098
3 жыл бұрын
That's how you do it
@playingheartonestaronelove314
3 жыл бұрын
Haaaaaa
@hern4384
3 жыл бұрын
Nice video beautiful ✌️
@ApolloniaPonti
3 жыл бұрын
Thanks 🤗
@hern4384
3 жыл бұрын
@@ApolloniaPonti you're welcome 😊✌️
@m.sharrp1772
3 жыл бұрын
Ummm....thanks
@briar35981
3 жыл бұрын
All these points are spot on. But the woman MUST be physically attracted to the man from the beginning. If not, the man will never be able to develop a relationship. Let alone use these techniques. Will any of these dating and advice content creators ever just straight up say. "If you aren't physically attractive. You have very little chance of finding a woman.
@jossell911
3 жыл бұрын
First. Btw great content!!
@ApolloniaPonti
3 жыл бұрын
Hey, thanks!
@chriswalls5831
3 жыл бұрын
Lots of chicks have desires both can be attracted each other.
@larrycollins1538
3 жыл бұрын
I’m tired of females blocking me on social media This one girl followed me on Ig then Turn around Blocked me I got really upset cuz I had a new follower Females like this 🙄💔💔
@bobbyochoa2234
3 жыл бұрын
Why do you care?
@gershwinq
3 жыл бұрын
first!!
@appystore9895
3 жыл бұрын
Don't forget to use protection or get tested b4 acting on that desire...thank you
@recovery675
3 жыл бұрын
🙄🙄🙄
@Seren2010kinder
3 жыл бұрын
I’m off to my ex’s later 😂
@mann8098
3 жыл бұрын
😂
@Luai1BOOS
3 жыл бұрын
Still. My news is the same 🔥💪🔥
@Edge08479
3 жыл бұрын
Guys don't try to sleep with a girl to get them to like them. They just want to get some. Most guys would sleep with any woman that wants it wether they like them or not. I'm the only guy I know who has turned down multiple women that wanted it because I wasn't attracted to them.
@luiscolon8538
3 жыл бұрын
I can't wait to meet you, your beautiful, I pray our time will come soon...
@Unmasked2144
3 жыл бұрын
In your dreams.😂 stop simping bro!
@ProfWho-ut5he
3 жыл бұрын
For guys who are dating a woman.... ah.. damn.
@ArcticSeraph
3 жыл бұрын
Too many games, lol
@Poizon4evr
3 жыл бұрын
Got a girls number, she likes talking to me but doesn't feel me in that way. Why do I find myself becoming an emotional tampon instead of getting a relationship
@evilinside6327
3 жыл бұрын
Cos you gotta act like you are not interested in her (even if you are). Talk about other girls and how hot they are and then actually go talk to them and make them laugh. If she is interested in you, she will let you know. If not, you never had a chance so you might as well look some other place. There is no "the one". Women think they know what they are looking for but that does not necessarily mean it will be good for them. You might see women with "bad-boys" or even ugly-looking guys but they convince themselves that these guys are attractive in some other way. For example, there are ugly celebrities out there but women flock to screw their brains out. It is all in their minds and how women perceive value and status. Logic doesn't work so don't (ever) bother trying to make sense of what women do or explain this to them. It is a numbers game so just have fun and you will find someone much better who also likes you. The more you try, the higher the probability you find a good one.
@TitusRamos
3 жыл бұрын
Change your personality
@evilinside6327
3 жыл бұрын
After women get in their late '30-'40s, they will see how badly their market value has dropped, and then they will accept whatever they can get. So all these "tall, dark and handsome" apply when they are in their 20's and early 30's. Nobody tells women the truth. Time is their biggest enemy and instead of playing these silly dating games, they should focus on finding a good guy.
@bbkingme8831
3 жыл бұрын
Stop listening to these weird dudes who never got girls in their 20s to 30. They just started getting girls in their 40s or theyre young and got their heart broke. Wtf is market value. Them kinda terms shows how metro sexual a man is. Dudes like skinny to fat girls equal. Dudes like anything. U listenin to these weirdo guys on youtube who teach u how to be secretly into looking at other men like kevin samuels judging mens looks. All they teach u is how to act like a woman acts. Ig oring text on purpose. Etc. Real ni99z do it like jetty says. Hes the only dude who give real advice and makes them other dudes look like metro sexual weirdos
@polishpimp4233
3 жыл бұрын
take the 7 at 27 instead of the 5 at 35
@Ali-gv1yw
3 жыл бұрын
Nöö. Guck ich nicj
@Mazin-hd8wi
3 жыл бұрын
I really like that hottie 😅
@rickscorpio5728
3 жыл бұрын
Vids should be shorter....i get bored when a woman talks a lot
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