When I would worry about my son driving, my therapist told me "whether you worry or not will have no impact on what you are worrying about" haven't worried since, and I was a chronic worrier. I am not in charge.
@mirrorcat2784
Жыл бұрын
Worrying is like a rocking chair. It does not get you anywhere
@lauracorman2399
Ай бұрын
That is helpful. My son starts driving this year😢
@Xtremzer0
Ай бұрын
It’s a well known stoic principle of identifying what is it that is within your control and what is it that isn’t.
@BAMshazam
3 ай бұрын
Be careful how you think. Your life is shaped by your thoughts. Only you can change what comes into your mind. Replace any negative with forcefully positive thoughts. ☮️♥️
@connie10000
2 ай бұрын
"I AM LOVED. I MATTER. And, its ALL going to be okay." Thank you Lewis. ThIs matches me.
@geemail369
8 ай бұрын
I _really_ like how playing her game gently sucked them into having a deep and engaging exchange after only a few questions! 🏆
@jimmysroom5132
5 ай бұрын
I appreciate her honesty and transparency so much. It really humanizes the healing process which seems to go on forever.
@GreatnessClips
5 ай бұрын
🙌
@ligiasommers
Жыл бұрын
Ester Perel’s episodes are my favorites 🙏🏻🌹✨
@GreatnessClips
Жыл бұрын
🧡
@janeneervin4714
Жыл бұрын
@@GreatnessClips 7’j
@SexMusicPlants
Жыл бұрын
Same.
@Arieslove176
9 ай бұрын
Mine too❤ thank you for this!
@pambravo7013
7 ай бұрын
I'm 49 years old and I have found out through my own journey that there are some experiences from the past that even we may not be conscious of it they are traumatic and it is not as easy as the expression says:: "just let go & move on" In my own experience I have learned that I need to go through a long & painful process in order to first of all understand what happened and eventually understand how my past experiences had effected my emotional/mental health. I tried many times to just reason and say : "i NEED JUST TO LET GO" but the pain came back again, over and over again affecting my new relationships. It takes more than just reason and be willing to let go. In my case it been taking years of psychotherapy & medication.
@tnt01
4 ай бұрын
I agree.
@lilianajohn4173
2 ай бұрын
So sorry took you so long 😢
@nancyrivera3417
2 ай бұрын
I completely agree. Everyone journey is different but it does take time, going through the pain, the emotions, to face them until they start going away…. We cannot suppress them cause we will continuously have them in the back burner…
@rosswardrop465
19 күн бұрын
A man who dont drink or smoke .And stays single.Has got brains.Better off with a good car.
@GR-rk2fi
9 ай бұрын
thank you for this video and it brought me to tears when you shared the conversation with your younger self!
@sheila1391
11 ай бұрын
I'd whisper to my younger self "you're worth it just as a simple human being nothing more to it!"
@dasamanic7861
9 ай бұрын
11:34 The moment when she expresses that sound and says cringe 😂 I loved it! You see these brilliant people are also humans, just like us.
@anikaray4192
2 күн бұрын
There is always going to be some residue from last relationships it now becomes a part of our human and soul story.And if you have done enough healing yes it won't be as triggering.Personally it is the inner peace I found from acceptance and awarness as to what I have learned from heartbreaks that has helped me move on and working on growing and elevating in my life to the point that I realize that I'm grateful for those experiences but that I actually couldn't see myself again with men I had relationships with.When we heal and evolve it becomes just a lesson and triggers become less intense and more manageable.Thank you for this interview 🙏🧡
@Markustajahoyrylaiva
Жыл бұрын
nothing about recovery from heartbreak...
@vinlpaul3
3 ай бұрын
Agreed!
@rosswardrop465
19 күн бұрын
I have been for single for 25 years.I live a lonely life.I have never bothered again.i don't trust.To many men getting ripped off.Thats why we stay single.My car is my woman.more faithful.
@karadaniel6334
8 ай бұрын
Such a great show! ❤😢😊
@mireiaferrer2412
7 ай бұрын
Loved this honest and raw conversation, you guys are Amazing 🙏
@GreatnessClips
7 ай бұрын
Glad you enjoyed it! Means a lot!!!
@JM-cp6ei
6 ай бұрын
@15:00 to 17:00, it’s so deep. Anyone who’s faced their inner child and done shadow work, knows how pivotal this is to not only understanding yourself, but the beginning of understanding others, and brings on a new found richness to life.
@melissaserrano9691
2 ай бұрын
I really loved this chapter. I cried a little when they talked about our inner child and I imagined talking to myself...uff it was beautiful
@GreatnessClips
2 ай бұрын
Thank you for tuning in 🧡
@freshliving4199
Жыл бұрын
Seek, forgive, live.
@livelaughlove4635
Жыл бұрын
I love when you have her on your show. Ester, Marisa and Jordan Peterson. ❤️💙❤️
@GreatnessClips
Жыл бұрын
Glad you enjoyed it! Means a lot!!!
@amyp9010
Жыл бұрын
Sometimes I like Jordan Peterson he's just so much vocabulary it's hard for me to even understand what he's saying and it ruins it for me I doubt everybody understands me the same I don't think everybody has this kind of vocabulary intelligence....
@teenafrench7236
Жыл бұрын
Wow, what an authentic moment there Lewis!🙏🥰
@GreatnessClips
Жыл бұрын
🙌
@kateroth7154
Жыл бұрын
OMG! Lewis is so inspirational! What a show!
@GreatnessClips
Жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for your feedback 🙂
@Virvepaulina
Жыл бұрын
Give others the CHANCE to help ya ❤️🤗
@YukoYoshikane82
2 ай бұрын
I love both. Energy don’t lie even through the screen. Lots love ❤
@GreatnessClips
2 ай бұрын
🧡
@viktoriyashevchuk7938
4 ай бұрын
Thank you both for this amazing video and your authenticity ❤️ Thank you Lewis for sharing your story! It's so honest, brave and big of you! 🙏
@GreatnessClips
4 ай бұрын
You're welcome,thank you for tuning in 🧡
@olynedevries3882
Жыл бұрын
What a wonderful and so moving conversation/ connection between two vulnerable, strong and courageous people....
@GreatnessClips
Жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for your feedback 🙂
@darylcaldwell773
8 ай бұрын
From one woman
@marycavanaugh6284
Жыл бұрын
I love both of your energies and knowledge!! Thanks for sharing❤
@GreatnessClips
Жыл бұрын
You're welcome, thank you for being here 🧡
@lazaradiaz5667
Жыл бұрын
These episodes with you both are amazing!!! I enjoy them very much.
@GreatnessClips
Жыл бұрын
Glad you enjoyed it! Means a lot!!! 🧡
@sarita4021
Жыл бұрын
Ester inspires me 🌹✨️🙌 Great espoide.
@GreatnessClips
Жыл бұрын
Thank you so much!
@arianaalvarez6579
Жыл бұрын
That's true how do we remain grounded. I can just go get drunk but I don't want to. I can also call off but I need to work. I wish I could scream but it won't take away this feeling.
@kristimullican9579
7 ай бұрын
Not one mention of how to move on from past relationships….
@amyp9010
Жыл бұрын
So the topic of this interview they talked about "how to heal from past relationships" in the first 15 minutes...I don't know what the answer was..
@LSSYLondon
Жыл бұрын
The point is you cannot... but you keep working on it. You never stop.
@mistypfitzer111
Жыл бұрын
I didn't know that there was a word for how I have been feeling for the last 3 years! I've been in an almost, constant, state of "languishing"... Lol😅😮😣
@unavailble2024
7 ай бұрын
Thanks lewy
@BeckyJB
2 ай бұрын
9:59 being playful is an important part of relationships 😂
@ashavilas8576
Жыл бұрын
Superb 💯👌
@Anacaonas_Flowers
9 ай бұрын
23:36 "What irritates you or triggers you? Bureaucrats, rigidity - which is the opposite of playfulness. Not flexibility. Arbitrariness - rules for the sake of rules. Rigidity which means that you don't listen to others.... What's the opposite of curiosity? Fixed, certainty but certainty is the enemy of change."
@njah1590
6 ай бұрын
Esther. I am at 20.23 where you consider what it might feel like to live without dread. I invite you to spend more time in that space.
@moyagreene9590
9 ай бұрын
I have worried about my daughter my entire life.. and she is a grown well educated happy married adult woman of 35… but I still find myself lying awake worrying about her. This is my issue and it comes across to her as overbearing.. bring too involved in her life. Need to let go!
@Daniela-pr7rz
8 ай бұрын
being a mother never ends
@rensche8077
Жыл бұрын
Post a link or name of the game pls
@classicalperformances8777
Жыл бұрын
in my experience, when you tell your story, people use it against you at some point and if it is something more extreme than they can handle, you just lost a whole bunch of potential friends...
@camkistler
7 ай бұрын
Yet, on the flip side, the ones who can handle it are friends for life ❤
@polives
7 ай бұрын
Thankfully these games and conversations are intended for those people who are curious to know you, not put you down
@user-cz5lj2vx1f
20 күн бұрын
The p[eple you lost wre NOT real friends. Perhaps, FRIENDLY AQUAINTENCES but, not real friends.
@juliaalyssandra373
Жыл бұрын
love y'all two! where can I buy those cards?
@pedigrees101
Жыл бұрын
I’d like to know that too!
@wakarimajudy1638
Жыл бұрын
Me 3
@dejnagxyooj1752
2 ай бұрын
Where can I purchase this card game.
@jerry-mind-sky
7 ай бұрын
No chance. You can not erase memories.
@tracicorbin8445
6 ай бұрын
Dread is fear’s cousin
@rosswardrop465
10 күн бұрын
My car is my companion.
@leegalloway9508
Жыл бұрын
how would Ester help someone that lives with dread ? hmmm?? Job 3:25 for the thing which i greatly feared is come upon me, and that which i was afraid of is come unto me. it happens. i feared my husband dying before me, and he did. i tried not to fear it or to live with that fear , but i did and it happened.
@1965simonfellows
Жыл бұрын
.... Really like all yr work but triggers might be a poor word choice given that it suggests we react to the environment. When its clear from the principles of neural design we preact.
@belindacalub5519
Жыл бұрын
❤❤❤
@schoolschool1227
11 күн бұрын
How can i get The game please
@rosswardrop465
10 күн бұрын
Why have a companion .You are going to get ripped off.Everytime you get with someone.I got hurt once.Never got over It.Single 25 years.I dont trust.never will.Stay single.better off.
@Divchyk
2 ай бұрын
So....where is the answer to the question in the title? 🤔
@jonathanprince2667
11 ай бұрын
Ask her how does she deals with frustration. (Yell, through cups (or pots) swear, slam doors, spin the car) And anger And disappointment
@ruthnarine1397
7 ай бұрын
Dread brings fear.
@user-cz5lj2vx1f
20 күн бұрын
Dread is an EXPRESSION of fear--and of loss.
@tomusic8887
7 ай бұрын
I can watch these female gurus all day they sound so wise but I never and really never what to do exactly as they say let go and all the million advices, but how to do it? 🤷🤷🤷😮
@user-cz5lj2vx1f
20 күн бұрын
Get into therapy. Then, you have a coach/mentor on your journey with you.
@Narcbuster-bm6hm
Жыл бұрын
They are both great. 💗 I wonder if she's an INFJ.. 😊💗
@rosswardrop465
12 күн бұрын
To avoid relationships and past.Be like me. Stay single.I rather play my drums .Or drive my car.To many problems.All causes heartbreak.No one wins except lawlers.Money is creed.Stay single.Better off lonely than sorry.
@ladymae4567
11 күн бұрын
Companionship is essential and healthy
@rosswardrop465
2 ай бұрын
I will never trust a woman again.I rather have my car.At least she is faithful.
@rosswardrop465
2 ай бұрын
Stay single.Have a good car instead.
@user-cz5lj2vx1f
20 күн бұрын
More NEGATING. WHY are you hear if all you want to do is trash women & tell other people to be ALONE? Try therapy. You sound deeply UNHAPPY. Everone deserves love, connection and a happy ife.
@sayusayme7729
Жыл бұрын
Thank you, your timing again is beautiful. 🤍 I did that too with a photo of myself at 5. So helpful. I am getting so much better at asking for help. 💚🇨🇦💎
@GreatnessClips
Жыл бұрын
You're welcome, thank you for being here 🧡
@GloryDaze73
Жыл бұрын
@@GreatnessClips Thank You for showing moments of vulnerability 🤗❣🤗 Especially the parts about reconciliation with your inner child. I've also been doing work on these things and find this extremely important and transformation. You are a Real man. Thank you🙏🤗🙏
@rosswardrop465
Ай бұрын
How to heal from a past relationship.Dont get into in first place..Stay single.Be a loner.That way you won't get ripped off.Relationships are doomed.To many problems.Have a good car instead.
@user-cz5lj2vx1f
20 күн бұрын
You posted TOTALLY NEGATING comments repeatedly. It's sad. YOU may have protected yourself from hurt or disapontment--but, you MISS OUT on great JOY, too
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