Problem is it sticks out a mile to me, and comes across as fake. I am instantly suspicious of anyone doing this. No one does this naturally, so it's obvious it's a play for your acceptance/approval.
@jabronaldrangus9524
3 ай бұрын
I agree. It almost feels like a threat when people do it in an unnatural way.
@stigcc
3 ай бұрын
Right.
@jameswa3366
3 ай бұрын
Yeah I should've mentioned this in the video. I agree, that's why I only do it once during the entire interaction, preferably at the start if I already know them. Doing it more than once definitely comes across as weird and socially uncalibrated.
@user-tv2iq9kd9q
Ай бұрын
I hate when people call me by my name!, it reminds me of a sneaky salesman
@danpaul4975
3 ай бұрын
This is 2024, no matter how you address someone, they'll find a way to be offended.
@quercus3290
3 ай бұрын
give them money, usualy works.
@jameswa3366
3 ай бұрын
Good idea
@booberries833
3 ай бұрын
I do this as I heard the same. It also helps you remember their name. Like "nice to meet you Larry".
@g-sailing4427
3 ай бұрын
Or just be likeable in general..
@Tottorul
3 ай бұрын
Unlikeable people are likeable. People who try to be likeable but stumble is likeable. People who try too hard to be confident to be likeable, like too many KZitem bros arent as likeable, the attempt seems a bit too hard and they believe the hype a bit too much
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3 ай бұрын
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@kdkskdsdsad
3 ай бұрын
Makes sense but I personally find it phony, diplomatic and a bit cringe. Calling someone by their first name often seems a bit detached from the organic course of social interactions and a bit calculated. It's like something teens or someone in their early twenties would do to sound more adult or like a serious person. As I said it might work but as someone trying to present his most genuine version to the world I can't imagine myself using this tool. Maybe I am just too aware and deep down judgmental of people's vocab and micro expressions. Either way it sucks for me haha.
@opts9
3 ай бұрын
I find it extremely disingenuous
@johnadams1976
3 ай бұрын
You are totally totally wrong with this advise!!!!! I don't think the person is interested!!! I think that person has watched a crap KZitem video or been on a course!!! It's fake! Want people to like you???? BBE consistently kind. That's all you need to do.
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3 ай бұрын
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