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@TheBENJAMIN1500
3 жыл бұрын
Sometimes saying “no” is ideal and appropriate , if she walks , let the wind carry her even far away . Amen and Amen
@tmuvoti416
3 жыл бұрын
Word!
@norbert2914
3 жыл бұрын
AMEN
@isaacs2539
3 жыл бұрын
Hahahaha. Nice one. Comment of the month!
@israelalimi4612
3 жыл бұрын
Amen
@c.a.henderson7957
3 жыл бұрын
Right on
@isaacprosper6295
3 жыл бұрын
My people come here, we have one of them on our side...🤗🤗🤗...let's protect her
@shimstv1254
3 жыл бұрын
hihihihihi
@batumeraderrick4807
3 жыл бұрын
Yes sir😂
@impressiveiq
3 жыл бұрын
Lol. I really respect her Bro. She's dishing out some really bitter truth pills to her gender. Let's get her a bodyguard. 😀😀😀
@kelvinhouston4287
3 жыл бұрын
I love her already!
@alexandershot1
3 жыл бұрын
Lil
@Elknights
3 жыл бұрын
From a woman's perspective. You nailed it Jess! It would surprise you that many guys are out there impressing girls who don't really like them.
@kofiduku934
3 жыл бұрын
YES. I've been there
@kabubiraymond5099
3 жыл бұрын
Am a victim.
@angellatonny6379
3 жыл бұрын
I always tell them that i can't be financially responsible before we go far & those that are not interested in money thank me for my honesty.
@benoniboaz4803
3 жыл бұрын
Its very true man.. Some women are just in for the benefit. It's sad 😥
@nyameamah
3 жыл бұрын
@@angellatonny6379 Why, how many have u dated so far? I wish I cld see into ur dating profile. lol
@olamee7680
3 жыл бұрын
"No real man needs a gold digger" Thanks Jessica ❤️ from Nigeria 🇳🇬
@cruisefamilytv1472
2 жыл бұрын
that's right bro...
@mennohomburg8038
3 жыл бұрын
I always say this : if she ain’t holding you down she’s slowing you down ✌🏾
@koryjenkins8400
3 жыл бұрын
REAL SHIT💯💯
@idowutolulope5339
3 жыл бұрын
You can't keep a Nigerian ladies without giving her money constantly
@wealthukandu3854
2 жыл бұрын
@idowu You missed the whole point
@klausmakaneta6890
2 жыл бұрын
@@idowutolulope5339 then don't be with them at all
@pianoweb6034
3 жыл бұрын
Value yourself enough to walk away from any situation that goes against your own values and boundaries.
@manishverma-sb7xw
Жыл бұрын
best comment...self respect self esteem is best priority
@shamelesstumuhaise3364
3 жыл бұрын
This is a challenge we all faced, especially when being 'nice' guys. I've learnt my lesson after paying ladies' rent, and realised that they later did not like me for who I am and got intimate with guys who did not give them a cent. So, lesson learnt
@godsentodeamiodi6537
3 жыл бұрын
Cheer up man.
@danielwangila881
3 жыл бұрын
Experience is the best teacher bro,,,,,
@TerriTerriHotSauce
3 жыл бұрын
Damn that's crazy. I would never. Glad you woke up.
@marvelloustoyosi6579
3 жыл бұрын
ooouch!!
@richghana9245
3 жыл бұрын
You will find the right person, trust me..
@mayfairmoore4518
3 жыл бұрын
1. It's too demeaning to always demand from people 2. You lose respect. 3. They will not take you serious 4. It prevents you from growing 5. They begin to question why you are with them.. Always be financially independent
@welcomehavefun910
3 жыл бұрын
Some people are not smart enough to realise that
@welcomehavefun910
3 жыл бұрын
Some people are not smart enough to realise that
@afogbonjaiyewisdom1436
3 жыл бұрын
I wish many ladies know this,many ladies are still on the street Bec of their behavior,
@blessedvincent6515
3 жыл бұрын
@@afogbonjaiyewisdom1436 well spoke
@blessedvincent6515
3 жыл бұрын
Many ladies and men forget this, that dating is act of knowing each other rather take it to be marriage that is why all this act is unveiling, like depending if u don't give money I wil not cook or buy something for the house or myself please ladies let take note of this. There are some ladies act like man in a relationship Command here and there which man want to marry man you see them break up, that is the reason why so many girls still on the streets today and fail to understand this
@chineduonuoha294
2 жыл бұрын
i just ended a relationship based on constant demand for money. I'm done !
@emmanuelmotshere7460
5 ай бұрын
😅
@lamardasuperstar8575
3 ай бұрын
Same
@benartslover
3 жыл бұрын
This woman is confirming everything I have been saying for many years!
@danielfiavey7735
2 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂😂😂😂
@___lemar
2 жыл бұрын
Yeah true. 😅
@MustYouTalk
3 жыл бұрын
I completely agree; the moment you start the relationship with spending money on her, that’s all it turns into
@nathie346
2 жыл бұрын
True brother never reveal u got money to a woman never 🤣
@perryp2261
2 жыл бұрын
Yepyep
@berryb5474
2 жыл бұрын
And you are not getting sex?. Or wifey duties?.
@MustYouTalk
2 жыл бұрын
@@berryb5474 Regardless, wowing a woman with money is never a good idea.
@louie9076
2 жыл бұрын
I'm in that caragory...Dominican woman need men to pay all there bills...
@vickymawutor5213
3 жыл бұрын
What is this thing about money,momo,buy me this and that in relationships? People need to know that to be financially independent makes you more attractive to your partner in any relationship. Good job,Jess!
@ogyamfrank376
3 жыл бұрын
That's true madam
@Zico804
3 жыл бұрын
I like independent woman.Who can take care of herself.I feel more comfortable ....
@mineladkateregga8722
3 жыл бұрын
Uve said it madam without favour or fear now some slay queens out there are mad at your comment I knooo
@NLZource
3 жыл бұрын
💯
@c.a.henderson7957
3 жыл бұрын
For some, it's their hustle. Five men giving $500, is their rent/mortgage.
@AgricfyFarms
3 жыл бұрын
I cant agree less, I did a self assessment and I have tried 3 out of the tips mentioned before & guess what? She left. Sometimes as a man, you have to withdraw some favours even if you're capable of doing it and see what comes out of it. Great tips @Jessica
@chill4u25
3 жыл бұрын
Big facts. 🎯
@TheBENJAMIN1500
3 жыл бұрын
I remember that nursery rhyme; and away she flew 😂
@hopelife8130
3 жыл бұрын
.. nice my dear but today i really need u to save me im broke this year do to covid so i beg u the best with respect to found me 5ghc for food help GOD
@isaacs2539
3 жыл бұрын
Yep.
@isaacs2539
3 жыл бұрын
What a blessing when they leave! Your bank account and wallet will live longer.
@emanuelolowu7007
3 жыл бұрын
For me avoiding women has helped me a lot. Free life no stress, it's not easy but avoid them as much as u can
@johnlebbie2312
3 жыл бұрын
All those who disliked your post are definitely those women who date for money. They will never like I Jess, but honestly, you are one in a million. God will protect you for us to be an eye opener not only for us men, but also for those blood sucking money draining women. I appreciate u Jess.
@mariesafaite-antoine20
3 жыл бұрын
A woman who is dating a man is not entitled to his money…. Period! Dating is a way of getting to know and understand one another. There is absolutely no financial’s obligation attached to it.
@edwinagreen3887
3 жыл бұрын
Equally, a man dating a woman is not entitled to sex and kisses .... . Preach that one as well.
@ytcommentsguy
3 жыл бұрын
You earn my respect
@elolotorino8361
3 жыл бұрын
Wisdom ❤️✊🏾
@delaseanaty
3 жыл бұрын
@@edwinagreen3887 Because only the man enjoys the sex? Or are you in essence also saying that sex and money are traded for eachother?
@saahibaalimzafir598
3 жыл бұрын
I agree sister. She has not understood the marriage contract. Always talking about dating as if she is a teenager. Stupid.
@Kaakyirejossy
3 жыл бұрын
I personally do not see anything wrong with supporting each other financially in a relationship , as at when and where it becomes necessary . I feel like it’s the sense of entitlement that is more of a problem ;like you owe them something simply because you’re dating them .unfortunately, ladies are often guilty of this
@aurageospatial
3 жыл бұрын
You are right Kaakyire I agree with you🙂✌🏼
@Kaakyirejossy
3 жыл бұрын
@@aurageospatial 😊
@betiles1
3 жыл бұрын
Jossey you have a point tho but that is your own perspective of your ideas. Honestly relationship should be 5050 relationship.
@Kaakyirejossy
3 жыл бұрын
@@betiles1 I get your point also, but you and I know a 50/50 relationship in our part of the world is almost unrealistic. The man who is the head is seen as the main provider and the woman supports . That is why it is important to have a lady who brings something to the table/relationship and not just her beauty and body .
@betiles1
3 жыл бұрын
You have said it all. Tombsup Jossey
@chinedukeshi7282
3 жыл бұрын
My girl saw this and warned me that if I watched it, she's already no longer interested.
@iduuisuridentity8693
3 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂😂
@bryantdube
3 жыл бұрын
She is a Golddigger
@rickyrozay1762
3 жыл бұрын
Let her go
@obanlaolawale3353
3 жыл бұрын
has she left now??😂😂😂😂
@tertesemoses1658
3 жыл бұрын
I guess she left already seeing as you are here rn
@berrydonches6146
3 жыл бұрын
My girlfriend has been constantly requesting for money back to back🤦🏾♂️. She’s making the relationship tiring to me.
@vernondelancy6281
2 жыл бұрын
Get out of it .
@bobbyibitoye3978
2 жыл бұрын
Break up with her
@Denge-Denge
Жыл бұрын
Tell her or quit the relationship,if this continues it will get worst while in marriage, let her get work or skills otherwise it will be hard for you to grow and become somebody in future.
@richardmembe2934
5 ай бұрын
Help her get a small business or your doomed
@christopherrahming2381
2 жыл бұрын
I love this woman. A precious gem. One of God's reason to smile and feel proud.
@sbekfrancis2600
3 жыл бұрын
Not only on women but also to relatives i tell you these can work, thanks Jess
@MattCassCook
Жыл бұрын
I was seeing a girl for nearly a year and I used to pay every time we went out but asked her to help on holidays etc. She didn’t like that. We separated and she went back to her American ex who pays for absolutely everything. She was most likely waiting for him or talking to him the whole time we were together. Or even worse… receiving money from him the whole time! Be careful guys 🤝
@EB-fy5zr
3 жыл бұрын
People, both men and women, often define themselves by their money and possessions. If we all stopped leading with our money, we might be inclined to find more meaningful, long-lasting, relationships. I once dated a guy who always complained that his past love interests always asked him for financial support; yet when I pointed out the reason why, he leads with his money, he looked at me baffled!!! It took me all of two weeks of conversation to clearly see he liked financially saving women and complaining about it simultaneously to anyone who would listen. I didn’t have the desire to feed that ego. If you are in an established relationship then helping each other financially in a time of need is very different than if we just met and you always need a financial hand-out.
@JessicaOS
3 жыл бұрын
APT!
@SanniVictor
3 жыл бұрын
You nailed it my Mentor. If men can start practicing all what you said in this video, there will be less conflicts in a relationship or marriage.
@emmanie2748
3 жыл бұрын
“Listen my guy, it’s your money”, haha... good stuff Jess. Kudos🔥
@berryb5474
2 жыл бұрын
Haha ladies its your body dont have sex or wifey duties before marriage. 😃😀
@chisommoses5409
2 жыл бұрын
@@berryb5474 We talking money, you here talking Nahsense
@berryb5474
2 жыл бұрын
@@chisommoses5409 How am i talking nonsence?.. Sex is a good feeling and money is also a better feeling. Only, when you are married , you are entiled to those things from the women. Marriage is like a contract. Would you work without signing a contract?.
@dainaoldacre1540
2 жыл бұрын
@@berryb5474 women love sex they will do it for free men choose if they want to give money
@IYKESMILES_TV
Жыл бұрын
@@berryb5474 why do you women think that men need sex more than women? The sex toys are scarce to find these days. Which gender is buying sex toy, male or female? You people should grow up as if women don't enjoy sex
@nanambrah11
3 жыл бұрын
Never regretted listening to your videos. Thumbs up Jessica, you're doing a great job.
@daveondiekaaron2204
3 жыл бұрын
Absolutely True
@Frankimpong
3 жыл бұрын
@@daveondiekaaron2204 .
@hopelife8130
3 жыл бұрын
bsj nice my dear but today i really need u to save me im broke this year do to covid so i beg u the best with respect to found me 5ghc for food help GOD
@marvinbruce9328
2 жыл бұрын
Seriously!!! I just LOVE her!!!
@RoneyNgala
3 жыл бұрын
0:25 For starters: *_"Giving out money or lending money is a financial decision, it's not an emotional decision."_* Never thought of it like that before! You know that moment when you're fighting emotionally against a decision, but you don't know how to put it across verbally ? This is it. 💡🤑
@lightbeingpontifex
3 жыл бұрын
I don't get it,,,
@gabrielmashauri8236
3 жыл бұрын
Financial vs Emotional decision....!
@rbgalldayeveryday
3 жыл бұрын
If a woman asks you for some money to get her hair done that's a red flag right there!
@bernardokai4263
2 жыл бұрын
Lol it means she telling you I don’t like you
@Egbeviwo
2 жыл бұрын
Just woke up to this video and felt good watching it to the end. You got every point nailed down especially those ladies out their who have in mind to be "liability"
@thabanglabas4688
Жыл бұрын
8:mmmbgtwe🎉😮😮🎉😅😮🎉🎉❤
@brodanielattatonyemevor7393
3 жыл бұрын
The hardship in our society makes women place monetary consideration above everything. They don't necessarily follow their hearts, and even if they do the economic burdens constantly trigger squabbles that hinder the joy of love.
@oscarayisi781
3 жыл бұрын
Jessica, I love you for your genuineness. You’re real and your type is rare. God bless you.
@hopelife8130
3 жыл бұрын
lk nice my dear but today i really need u to save me im broke this year do to covid so i beg u the best with respect to found me 5ghc for food help GOD
@richforlife1588
3 жыл бұрын
You are so right ! It's very tiring now dealing with women once they know you have money.Its like they see you as an ATM.I am rich now and when I was broke I had more luck with women.
@bronxbully6261
2 жыл бұрын
@Justin Sharpe lol
@JuliusYawson
3 жыл бұрын
These solutions sounds very funny but deeply helpful. My favorite is for them to give you 24hrs to think over it. Honestly, that's the best time to analyze the real need and the best excuse.
@hopelife8130
3 жыл бұрын
.....im leaving in amasaman and i work in some restaurant begore covid but now yhe are close and im lose and broke i just need help
@qzumacademy9974
3 жыл бұрын
And the more money she ask the more time you need to get back with her
@eliasoke7110
3 жыл бұрын
Really helps. I had really been a victim of this.... I was knocked off my budget in the name I want 2 be supportive to my woman & don't want 2 give her reasons to cheat. The one that hit me hard ended up not dating me. Your 1st statement abt not using ur financial status at d early stage is really ideal
@nachismart2335
2 жыл бұрын
It’s the ability to say No. power of No is the key. Jessica I love you ❤️
@josphatmuiruri3271
3 жыл бұрын
I was dating a single mother of one daughter who kept asking me for money and honestly kept doing it...Well pretty much everything ended up with her sleeping with another guy.Believe me it was the most heartbreaking experience
@wildafrica7323
3 жыл бұрын
You lost me at dating a single mother
@tayoibrahim7053
3 жыл бұрын
Single mothers are with a guy for what you can do for them and not for love. Therefore, she is available for anyone who can provide for her. Its for provision and not love.
@tamarakepreyeomgbuayakimi.1379
2 жыл бұрын
Glad you are reformed now.
@josephkiwale374
Жыл бұрын
Feel sorry for you dude,,most of them are that way,,
@jordanglasper1064
3 жыл бұрын
This is a Golden vid. Why? Most women have no problem asking men they don’t know or are in the process of getting to know for money. As a brotha, I intimately innerstand us men are hard wired to provide & protect women and children. It’s encoded in our DNA. Somewhere along our journey to manhood. Women figure this out & abuse it beyond all belief. I’ve dealt with this in my life. We as men believe women are soft innocent and undeniably good. Life lessons, time & common sense teaches us differently. The major problem is 9/10 women do this men, whether they are attracted to us or not. I had a few female friends that said they had to manually override the feeling or desire to negatively take advantage of a good man. They had to put in effort not to use select men. I was shocked hearing it from the horses mouth. I took it all in. It’s difficult to overcome our own inner nature. Whether it makes us more attractive to the opposite sex or not. I’m thankful for this vid, and the genuine message you delivered, Goddess. Just subscribed, notifications bell on!!!
@ovieokome3702
3 жыл бұрын
I LOVED HOW YOU WINKED WHEN DISHING OUT THE FIRST POINT.
@johnsajan8459
3 жыл бұрын
we are together in this.....😍
@pmfacci
2 жыл бұрын
Here's what I use and works 100% of the time. "My parents taught me that money is not to be lent" or "My parents taught me not to lend money or even ask for it". Put the blame on your parents. You also show that you have principles and have made yours through hard work. Great videos. I appreciate you. Just went through this.
@polokoisaac8877
2 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂 they prolly call you mommas boy
@horaciocapanelli-soto4710
Жыл бұрын
@Poloko Isaac Just what I thought 😂 It’s better to show character and say “I’m actually investing in a project right now and, I need that money”. Don’t say what project. And by the way: that project is you.
@pmfacci
Жыл бұрын
@@polokoisaac8877 At least, I have a mom.
@pmfacci
Жыл бұрын
@@polokoisaac8877 I guess you haven't received any proper education at home, by the way. Who and where do you (well, not you) the first teachings in life? Your parents, and at home. Any reason that makes sense is a good reason not to lend money.
@pmfacci
Жыл бұрын
@@polokoisaac8877 And it's not "prolly", it's "probably", you ignorant.
@Stylessamson
2 жыл бұрын
Thanks Jessica, great tips. However the ladies here in Nigeria are just wired differently, it's either they have it their way or the highway. As a matter of fact, always asking their men for money is a constitutional right they are entitled to. You talked about selling the idea of taking a loan, that cracks me up, you tell that to a Nigerian girl and watch out for some nasty attitude, it's like you deprive them of fresh breath. A good number of these tips might surely work in Accra, but Lagos and Nigeria I really don't think so. Money is everything over here.
@keziabibah
3 жыл бұрын
The “sit by you” in the salon suggestion is a dangerous dis tin. The women in the salon would expect the man to pay, if he doesn’t they’ll gossip, form a board of directors, appoint a chair and pollute the gf’s mind. Love all your suggestions btw👌🏾 #roadto150k
@jestykiss974
3 жыл бұрын
You really have a great point there
@ojijodancan2363
3 жыл бұрын
This is so true. I experienced that with my girlfriend sometimes back. Never doing it again.
@nyashajohn7764
3 жыл бұрын
I like point number two. I did that with my ex she’s a make up artist her business wasn’t going so well at the time. I introduced her to more clients and she started earning more for herself. We later broke up but even up to this day she reminds me of how much I helped her and shows gratitude
@mrdean1792
3 жыл бұрын
what kind of gratitude 🙊
@pascalkotoka9501
3 жыл бұрын
I love that statement " teach her rather how to fish"
@bigcaliadams933
3 жыл бұрын
I love your positive vibes Jessica. Keep it up blaze the fire the ladies have over loaded us with pure money pressure. We’re dead walking with pressure big up Jessica.
@Counselorsorbe
Жыл бұрын
Stingy guys know these tricks and more, but these ones that you have shared are a go to for the generous guys. Thumbs up
@BarthObiefuna
3 жыл бұрын
All I can say is, whoever your husband is, he is one hell of a lucky chap. Kudos!
@jean-paultolno823
3 жыл бұрын
Is kind of gold digger (big car,big house and good net....)
@stratedgeconsulting
11 ай бұрын
Don’t fall for people based on what they say on social media and TV!
@michaelogolla
3 жыл бұрын
4:57 following allow me to chip in, the moment a woman begins to ask you for money the first time that moment you lend her she'll get used to the habit, as a man take the initiative to to test her if she's after you or ur pocket, encourage her to be financially independent, let her know money isn't everything if you trully love her and patient with her
@mariannenaanaotoo1222
3 жыл бұрын
Lol. I almost predicted correctly on your community timeline when you asked us to guess what topic you were going to treat next. Clue was probably after listening to sister sister last week. The sisters did justice to the first 2 questions which involved money. I have always had issues with ladies feeling they are entitled to your money because the both of you are in a relationship. Unfortunately that is the order of the day. Most relationships now are ostensibly surviving because money is constantly being transferred to one party, mostly to the ladies. My fellow sisters, please let us put some dignity on ourselves. Great job Jess.
@JessicaOS
3 жыл бұрын
❤ 😎😎
@ericphestus5584
3 жыл бұрын
@@JessicaOS I want you! 🥰
@Abdulrahman-sl2bf
2 жыл бұрын
Am absolutely perplexed by this Jess,you’re really talking to me. Greetings and love from Uganda 🇺🇬
@josaljo1
Жыл бұрын
I have just recently found Jessica's channel. I listened to a few videos and I became interested. My interest developed because I was married for 50 years and after my wife passed I was interested in finding someone to date or possibly marry. 18 out of 20 women I met wanted money. This video is fantastic for someone my age, because after being the bread winner and paying for everything that 6 kids can want I thought I had to keep giving. Jessica changed that in me. Thank you I am 68 years old.
@austinboateng6971
3 жыл бұрын
Independent mind-thinking sisters won't have a problem with this segment. Yet, brothers who ascribe to stupidity will continue on this journey of mediocrity until they find themselves in a ditch. To keep matters simple, those who are willing and receptive to listen will accept the content of this video wholeheartedly and thank Jess for another insightful article. As for me, thank you as always to Jess for staying true to her mission and content delivery.
@troxshell186
3 жыл бұрын
I suggest she study both sides of this sickening behavior... and do a segment Educating your scamming population that there are other more honest ways to earn a living. Ones that don’t involve destroying another persons life for personal gain
@magister8668
3 жыл бұрын
@@troxshell186 Why are so disrespecful saying " scamming population"? it's just a stupid what you have said!
@oneandonly1239
Жыл бұрын
Why are you talking like this, you chop breakfast 😏😏.
@Taurusizlit
Жыл бұрын
@@troxshell186 what does scamming got to do with anything this man just said
@impressiveiq
3 жыл бұрын
Hi Jess. I'm always impressed by your in depth perspective on life and issues. Very few women in Ghana will understand the essence of what you just shared and how it impacts on the respect and dignity accorded them by the men who are constantly having to spend on a woman that they are dating. Ladies, its absolutely possible to work harder and even earn more than your guy. You are very capable.
@joecummings762
2 жыл бұрын
This is what I'm dealing with now... Very frustrating.
@shanswanwaters5822
Жыл бұрын
The answer is always NO !!! And if they wanna walk away, that's fine with me.
@jabbarjd5731
3 жыл бұрын
I had to check your video for my brother and I had to tell him about International relationships only work when both people are in the same country and want to truly wants to be with you. So thanks for the advice and I'm passing it to my bro...
@oscartaulo8251
2 жыл бұрын
This woman is indeed the best thing ever happened to us men.
@deborich6789
3 жыл бұрын
You can never make a girl get attracted to you by giving her gifts. If she doesn't like you she doesn't
@hopelife8130
3 жыл бұрын
bro i really need u to save me
@edwinboma739
3 жыл бұрын
Is true, many now adays girls think that money is the correct way to be loved.
@israelalimi4612
3 жыл бұрын
@@hopelife8130 baba na you go save yourself
@isaacs2539
3 жыл бұрын
Well, blame us men who think money is the answer. The day the money runs out she will leave you for the next clueless sucker.
@chinedukeshi7282
3 жыл бұрын
@@isaacs2539 but money really is the answer bro. Even if she loves you like Bob loves Whitney, she's still got to settle her bills right?
@siteguru2020
3 жыл бұрын
Jessica you just nail it down, I was a victim of that years ago, spending and spending on this girl who never took me serious, and all I experience is break up at the end. Your channel is a great channel on relationship. Thank you
@FarmMinds
2 жыл бұрын
Most naija guys are victims man 😂😂😂
@magdalentagoe2112
Жыл бұрын
Not all ladies are like that please
@tacticalhuddy3614
2 жыл бұрын
HONESTLY THIS CLIP IS INSATIABLE AND TIMELESS. YOU OFFER INVALUABLE ADVICE TO THE SOCIETY ... NOT JUST MEN
@Omoolorun684
2 жыл бұрын
Jessica, I must say the truth that you are the best relationship coach I ever seen. This is what I am presently going through right now. All her life(expenses) is on me and her mind is on someone else who doesn't even care if shel eat or not. I just noticed she's using me
@ytcommentsguy
3 жыл бұрын
No 5. Very good point. Unfortunately, expensive phones are the lifelines of most our girls, and selling it would feel like pulling a strand of hair in their noses.
@patrickkoomson1684
3 жыл бұрын
You see a lady using iphone12 but it's not working. You wonder where she got the money to buy such a phone.
@ytcommentsguy
3 жыл бұрын
@@patrickkoomson1684 Some of them have their parents struggling to survive but they don't care.
@muhamedsegawa9298
3 жыл бұрын
This episode was personal. For me specifically. Big love and support from Uganda❤
@francistv1555
3 жыл бұрын
Not only you bro, me too.
@muazswallah5189
3 жыл бұрын
U both 😂😂😂😂
@kofiduku934
3 жыл бұрын
It was for me
@rascaesar9025
3 жыл бұрын
Another ugandan here
@geoffrey7915
3 жыл бұрын
Me too
@solomondodo6163
3 жыл бұрын
It's true Jess, at the end of the day the lady doesn't see a lover anymore but an ATM machine.
@temitoperichard9145
3 жыл бұрын
Currently going through that
@kofiduku934
3 жыл бұрын
It happened to me
@peterjackson8957
3 жыл бұрын
@@kofiduku934bitcoin is very profitable most especially now
@peterjackson8957
3 жыл бұрын
Contact mrs Steph Chipres for huge profits on bitcoin trading
@peterjackson8957
3 жыл бұрын
+ 4 4 7 8 6 8 7 4 6 3 8 3
@PeterDebby
3 жыл бұрын
I love the analysis on #5, especially the example given about our mother's who sold their properties to make us comfortable.
@donpearls_fx
2 жыл бұрын
Honestly... They did
@mustaphaswarray1315
Жыл бұрын
This is one of the best tips I have watched in a while. I had a girlfriend who constantly wants money but I applied the 5th point. They sent her money for her phone, I told her to buy a less expensive phone and start up a business with the remaining money, guess what? She was very adamant with me, telling me all sort of words that it was her money and she can do whatever she wants, after buying the expensive phone, she started asking for airtimes 😂I was like waw maybe my village people sent her after me😅
@captainkeyboard1007
3 жыл бұрын
Giving a young woman money when I was 18 years-old was my first problem. It never urge her to love me, nor did not draw both of us to be closer to one another. It was an ultimate waste of money and time. I needed your advices in 1971 right after I graduated from high school. Your advices are spot-on. I need to view your shows several times a day like I do videos about Microsoft Office software.
@donpearls_fx
2 жыл бұрын
Hmmmmmmmmmm
@captainkeyboard1007
2 жыл бұрын
@@donpearls_fx Thank you for tapping or typing to me.
@codewithmusa
Жыл бұрын
Thanks so much I farce the same problem My girlfriend After I catch her with other man on bed and the following day she said she pregnant for me What should I do to marry her because of the pregnancy Or Walk out Leave her with her new guy What she told me is that I puch her to date just because I don't satisfied her financial needs Should I give her the money she needs to maintain the relationship Or Walk out Because she now in other relationship
@samuelaihoon3502
3 жыл бұрын
You are right. The issue is always us, men. Some feel entitled to spend absurdly on their women and to me, not only does it corrupt the minds of the women, it tilts the world out of balance towards females designed as wealth reapers when in goodwill light, they are more than the mere. But seriously Jess, you had it all smacked up right. Great work.
@hopelife8130
3 жыл бұрын
im leaving in amasaman and i work in some restaurant begore covid but now yhe are close and im lose and broke i just need help
@marinpierre2850
3 жыл бұрын
Your 5 recommendations are spot on in term of relationships and money. At the end of the day , it is also about breaking up emotional dependency too not just the financial aspects of the relationship.
@kacglobal
3 жыл бұрын
Wow, I do this a lot. I call this the filter... In the beginning, I try to help with what I can. Then I start refusing those requests and always suggest alternatives. if she starts misbehaving because of this I will understand that she was all for the money. I would just start writing about the last chapter of the story.
@mayfairmoore4518
3 жыл бұрын
Hey Jess I would like you to do a video on why a lot of men dont choose independent women as their life partners
@eisenhower9069
3 жыл бұрын
Don't let anyone lie to you. 21st century men love independent women. They are the ones the merry the most. Cos they feel an independent woman can support him when he's down.
@Ifedinma
3 жыл бұрын
I choose, I love them except the lady has attitude issues.
@divinelovesam9016
3 жыл бұрын
This is because most ladies that call themselves independent and strong are simply rude, condescending and have very bad behavior. At the end of the day, what matters the most is not your money or even looks. It's your character.
@mayfairmoore4518
3 жыл бұрын
@@Ifedinma most alpha. Females are strong and assertive and are the what you see is what you get kinda people..they do not tolerate domineering and disrespectful men...that's how it seems to me tho..but when it comes to bad attitude like laziness, arrogance, pride, snootiness, you could find them in both groups...remember independent women are mostly balanced in the relationship...they want you to have your space... and they also have the space they need..
@coachobispersonalworkoutti2223
3 жыл бұрын
They are already Independent and so do not need a helping hand😎😎😎😎😎
@wwjr.
3 жыл бұрын
Wow! Thanks for the insight! Jessica, I will be using your points in a sermon. Of course, I will cite you as the source. Thanks for the blessing! Thanks for the lesson!
@richardbreezy4022
3 жыл бұрын
Coming from a fellow lady..I take it very much delighted and I will commend you for such an interesting content..However,not all ladies might or would stay regardless of the money oo..@Breezy_z here✌️✌️
@ephrahimkokonya3584
3 жыл бұрын
Asante sana Jess. Distinguishing/separation of financial & emotional decisions is a very big challenge huku Africa Mashariki
@tshepangdavid6324
3 жыл бұрын
This girl is from another planet probably the one and only we need more seeds out of her to save the world boys come on..
@smarteyetv6272
3 жыл бұрын
4:21-4:25 facial expression😂😂😂😂. I like how you say money with that facial expressions. Top notch😂😂
@Ikuvebenjamin
3 жыл бұрын
Jess, you're the real deal. You've always delivered, girl! 👏
@primetestimonychannel5557
3 жыл бұрын
Jessica, you have suggested great medicine to most African unmarried men and they would love you for it.
@hopelife8130
3 жыл бұрын
...i really need u to save me
@rexigwe8759
3 жыл бұрын
Jessica you speak very well
@fataibello3893
2 жыл бұрын
Thanks for the interesting video. Infact, most ladies are money-minded. I have encountered some of them telling not ask them "how are you" or "how was your day" again.
@olatunjishoyinka3020
3 жыл бұрын
I love this Woman, More grace dear
@TheSamwonders
3 жыл бұрын
Just came across your page, apart from the Awesome content!!!!! The Diction and communication is so on point and I'm learning new words and how to communicate well. Thank you Jess
@JessicaOS
3 жыл бұрын
Awww... thanks. Glad to be of help
@aurageospatial
3 жыл бұрын
"Relationship litmus test" I like that 😂😂
@koollennox
3 жыл бұрын
Wow wow what a smart woman 👩!I love you JESSICA OS😍Thanks for the all the advices you've been giving us and we've been listening lol👌😃
@josephnyakundi8343
2 жыл бұрын
You're awesome, can't get enough of these. This wall will be part of my daily diet. It's really helpful..... You may not know what I mean but!!.... Your parents gave birth to one in a billion... Be blessed Jessica
@LFA707
Жыл бұрын
Thank you for your videos, I am learning a lot. I am so glad I came across your channel. I am talking to this girl that I did helped her one time but then she started asking for more. I just told sorry no. And I told her am not going to help you and you tell me if you are here for me. You take all the time you need, not going to message you. If you decide to go I’m ok no hard feelings. Well she messaged me the next morning saying I’m here for you and I’m not going no where. This happened yesterday, lets see what will happen in the next coming weeks.
@kevinmwangigithigia8443
3 жыл бұрын
Jess you incredible n guess what am putting your words down on a paper, don't wanna forget them,you the best 💯
@determinationamititle6769
3 жыл бұрын
Money has taken the place of love..fellas be very careful and make sure that you give your hard earned money to the right woman...some of them are just out there to bleed your pockets dry
@firstlast-er9jq
3 жыл бұрын
Or just go Dutch
@melody_mike_mavoice
3 жыл бұрын
I just love JESSICA'S advices they've just help me to gain self confidence , more love from Kenya 💥
@ojwanggeoffrey2770
2 жыл бұрын
Maridadi
@johnalidu6328
2 жыл бұрын
God bless you really good for sharing this especially as a woman. It's lack of this understanding that makes most marriages miserable and enduring instead of enjoyable and complementary. The guy more often than not will have to constantly be looking for means to please the woman. If he behaves otherwise, he will be labelled as "the changed man" These things are better handled from the outset.
@vickiewilkins1579
11 ай бұрын
If you are broke, you don't need to be dating. I told this to many men. Some would want to date me. Some didn't.
@vincentaziati7430
3 жыл бұрын
I don't know how KZitem picks the algorithm. I was having this same discussion with a friend of mine this morning.
@luandary
3 жыл бұрын
Men just don’t know when to say “babe no!” or “hustle this one out by yourself.” Some feel it’s beneath them not to make cash rain on “every frivolous” demand posed by their girl even if it’s draining the hell out of his meager pocket. Men are plagued with senseless pride, that’s a fact. But I think Jess’ 5 litmus tests can help determine if she’s right for you or not .
@JessicaOS
3 жыл бұрын
you make a good point
@BORNFREE876
3 жыл бұрын
🇯🇲Being so free handed doesn't win you more respect from her, but lowers it, knowing you can easily be manipulated.
@ayukgeraldayuk1376
3 жыл бұрын
Jess men give money to women at times not because they are stupid but at times to really get to know if they are gold digers or not. I agree with u on the fifth piont. Because some girls will have like latest IPhone but can't afford mere $50 to make their hair.
@impressiveiq
3 жыл бұрын
On point Taiwo. It's about time men realize that your substance as a man is not about your wallet and account balances and how much you splurge when dating. That's sad. But I think most men also do that because they have intentions of getting into the pants of these ladies and they know splurging makes it easier in some cases. This has rendered most relationships of today transactional and poorly grounded from both sides. My view though.
@davisuduak2324
3 жыл бұрын
@@impressiveiq Very correct and straight to the point
@livingishe
3 жыл бұрын
Sometimes women just need to hear the word, "No" 🤷🏾♂️
@ebukafredrick6603
2 жыл бұрын
Simple. No, I can't help you with the money.
@patriciawright2741
Жыл бұрын
And so do men. If I really want or need something then my man is going to provide for me. Sorry Jessica you have it wrong.
@Oldaccount9054
Жыл бұрын
@@patriciawright2741 nope Jessica is right me and millions of other teenagers(becoming men)aren’t giving money to women it’s 50/50 now cry about it
@adammitry6011
Жыл бұрын
@@patriciawright2741Not my responsibility. I got my own and you should too. Narcissistic POV.
@dav1d1982
Жыл бұрын
I don’t see a woman as an ATM, if I get an inkling of her seeing me as one, I ignore her or drop her quickly. Pretentiousness has no place around me.
@Ra_______
Жыл бұрын
Woow i really like this video from a woman! Mind blowing tips. Im from Benin Republic 🇧🇯french speaking but the English is clear!!! Thank you for your content 😉
@romiclassic8866
3 жыл бұрын
New Here!!!! She made great points,but when you're wealthy,there's no way you can tell her you don't have the money,she already knows you do. Instead you tell her that,that is not a necessity and as such,you are only willing to afford her wants once in a while,not this every week shopping bullshit!!!!
@bhouckie
3 жыл бұрын
Wisdom from a top lady
@davidpraise6088
2 жыл бұрын
I Love your talk shows Ms Jessica. You have really inspired me on how, when and where to make the right decisions in life. Thank you so much. 😘😘😘
@charlest7184
Жыл бұрын
I 100% percent agree with you I tell my son this I also tell other men this there is not enough money in this world once you start giving a woman money and just constantly throwing money at her then blame the woman this is on men do not lead with money it does not work it will fail can end up costing only you
@jjaypunnett3624
2 жыл бұрын
Hi Jessica I'm the Caribbean and I watch almost all ur videos and this one is definitely me,I have been a giver and when I say no it's problem,most girls from my country it's like business no money it's like dey won't like u ,don't won't text u, but once u go away come back in foreign dey all want u or if a foreigner come to my country dey ready to let go there body
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