I JUST VERY ACCIDENTALY SHARED THIS TO OUR TV THAT MY ENTIRE FAMILY WAS WATCHING I CANT MAKE THIS UP SOMEONE PLEASE HELP
@the_one_and_only_edi
5 ай бұрын
OH DEAR OH NO
@SashaWaybright321
3 ай бұрын
OH NO-
@mahala1959
3 ай бұрын
Oops
@subs4794
3 ай бұрын
Write a follow up erotica story...
@Cosmic1710
2 ай бұрын
IT'S BEEN MONTHS UPDATE HOW DID U RECOVER
@stevie595
2 жыл бұрын
im aro-ace so have an extremely hard time doing this without feeling disgusting and guilty afterwards. its great to see people talk about it openly
@ginny3491
2 жыл бұрын
Omg me too! I always feel weird and gross and like I done something wrong too. I hate how taboo it is to me but I’m getting better! Especially since I’m ace it makes me feel weird. And they helped me find out my pronouns too!
@stevie595
2 жыл бұрын
@@ginny3491 me too, especially since im actually sex-repulsed (for myself). but im so proud of you and I hope you know that masturbation has nothing to do with being ace, you're 100% valid
@KearaGraves
2 жыл бұрын
I LOVE YOU SO MUCH❤
@ginny3491
2 жыл бұрын
@@KearaGraves OMG YOU NOTICED ME I LOVE U SO MUCH! I watch ur channel everyday ur my fav youtuber u have helped me so much❤️❤️💕💕💕
@ginny3491
2 жыл бұрын
Omg I’m sex repulsed too!! So it makes it even harder😭😭 but yknow I’m getting there! Thank you sm. You are very valid too
@Ihateevillady
2 жыл бұрын
thank you Keara. I feel like no one really talks about stuff like this and even when they do I feel like they are giving tips for experienced people. This is really helpful and I love how positive about sex you are.
@KearaGraves
2 жыл бұрын
i’m super happy this helped you🥹💕 honestly, when i was first exploring, i wished i had content like this, so i know it’ll be received well by you lovelies xoxo
@ohkaylalala
2 жыл бұрын
@@KearaGraves This is exactly why my girlfriend loved the video too❣ Although I am an _experienced_ girl she is just starting to explore herself and your advice was really helpful for us both💕
@ohkaylalala
2 жыл бұрын
@@KearaGraves cute crochet kini too💝
@njsarn
2 жыл бұрын
Maze, can a woman and a man self pleasure together? Why must a cute girl like you do it alone? What are your reasons or fear? Thanks.
@Ihateevillady
2 жыл бұрын
@@njsarn what?
@K74729
Жыл бұрын
Hi Keara!! Thank you so much for normalizing this subject especially for young people. I have always been taught that making yourself feel good by yourself was a sin, dirty, adult, gross, and not good. I started on accident at a young age at like 11 or 12 and I thought I was so weird and gross. but now years later I realize it’s totally normal! So thank you! ❤️
@elsiechebetmijungu6925
Жыл бұрын
Same
@randomclipsmilitary9056
Жыл бұрын
Because it is a sin
@Looonymoony
9 ай бұрын
@@randomclipsmilitary9056lol it isnt
@randomclipsmilitary9056
9 ай бұрын
@@Looonymoony Yes it is. Giving into lust is stated to be a sin “when a person seeks sex for pleasure, he or she is sinning with lust. Lust is best defined by its specific attribute of rape, adultery, wet dreams, seduction, unnatural vice, and simple fornication.”
@skinovtheperineum1208
6 ай бұрын
Did you take any videos of it?
@omekapo
Жыл бұрын
im a trans girl and i watched this out of pure curiosity but let me just say that the part about shame was also super helpful for me and i resonated with it surprisingly very much
@KilljoyForLife
2 жыл бұрын
My best friend and I are very normal talking about sex and self-pleasuring. It's a normal occurrence for those who are comfortable with it. You're right about male masturbation; it's normal for people to talk about it, but when women masturbate it's for men to sexualize them and it's considered bad and dirty. Thank you for this, it gave me a lot of useful tips!! ❤🔥
@dragonflies6793
Жыл бұрын
Straight up when I was growing up I thought masturbation was only for dudes and there was no such thing as a female orgasm. Like damn, no wonder I repressed my sexuality, I thought sexuality was impossible for me in the first place
@durpcity7420
9 ай бұрын
@@dragonflies6793that's what happens when you let people feed you bullshit
@durpcity7420
9 ай бұрын
you know you have it completely within your ability to sexualize men masturbating, right?
@dragonflies6793
9 ай бұрын
@@durpcity7420 I didn't "let" anything though, I was like twelve how was I supposed to know
@durpcity7420
9 ай бұрын
@@dragonflies6793 i know when i was 12, shame wasn't my default. if you were "born that way" that sucks. your family or your faith must have fucked you up because self pleasure is mother nature. fucking MONKEYS do it. you ever feel guilty about other stuff you like? yes, you let it happen. 12 or not.
@dannieden5049
2 жыл бұрын
Amazing content! Way to disarm societal hangups and addressing them! I love when you said your mission on earth is to serve the gays. You are the best, doing the Goddesses work! 💕🙏
@KearaGraves
2 жыл бұрын
sending lots of loveee!💕
@ATELPHOB1A
Жыл бұрын
A little tip: a lot of people are usually sensitive on the inside of their wrists! It's not for everyone, but it is an uncommon area to touch, and for some, it feels nicer than you'd expect it to be.
@jesse_9_11
25 күн бұрын
any part of the body with nerve endings and venial structure (sometimes) has sensitivity which is what stimulates pleasure!!
@sunincident3146
2 жыл бұрын
This is honest to god my comfort channel. Im so lost with my Sexuality and im a very late bloomer so I'm exploring this part of myself later than everyone else which is very isolating. But your vids are helping me so much and making me feel so much comfier with myself. Thank you so much keep doing what you do !!
@clairescott4005
2 жыл бұрын
remember you are so very valid even when your still figuring ur sexuality out! it took me a while and i'm still confused but at least we have that in common random chatter! there are so many places and people that accept you-> even if you are closeted there are communitys on the internet that are so welcoming of people like you! You'll figure more and more about yourself as every day goes by! i wish you a beautiful, healthy and rich is happiness future! ❤️
@dragonflies6793
Жыл бұрын
Yo late bloomers squad!
@JaneDoe-v9k
Жыл бұрын
I'm genderfluid and panromantic and I wanted to thank you for creating this video. Masturbation especially with people that are afab is a taboo topic and people seem ashamed to talk about it although most people do masturbate. It's important that we normalise it so people feel okay to speak up about it. Thank you so much
@arpitsri9631
Жыл бұрын
Hi can I help
@Lillyg177.
6 ай бұрын
OMG IM THIS TOO!!!
@spaceace946
2 жыл бұрын
Hi Keara!! Thank you for this video. I’m asexual, but doesn’t mean I don’t want to try masturbation. I like to read smutty fanfics and imagine the characters doing it and completely exclude myself. So this was very helpful, tysm!! 💕
@isabelcore
2 жыл бұрын
@Ville omg you invaded another comment section 🤮
@isabelcore
2 жыл бұрын
@Ville are you actually fucking stupid? You're the weirdo who harasses and stalks lgbtq channels. Don't try and call me the weird one here you dumbass
@isabelcore
2 жыл бұрын
@Ville nah you grow up. And it's relevant bcuz there's a pattern. You target LGBTQ channels to hate on and spew ur garbage. And you can't even handle simple sex ed vids so you shouldn't be talking. I also know ur habits since I've been replying to u since January. Ik what you can say so dont try and push it on me 🤣🤣
@alexhika
2 жыл бұрын
I absolutely love how many ace people are in the comment section - btw, same here, ace and using fanfiction to have fun 😊❤️
@spaceace946
2 жыл бұрын
@@alexhika Yesssss aces unite!!💜
@strawberrygayz9764
2 жыл бұрын
I'm so happy to be able to watch someone who talks about these things so normally and making it comfortable it's so nice to hear this in this way thank you
@psithurism_isme
2 жыл бұрын
as an asexual who is dating an asexual, I'm glad that this is being talking about and that there are things in this video that I can relate to.
@durpcity7420
9 ай бұрын
i bet you too have extremely awesome sex lives lol
@Lillyg177.
6 ай бұрын
omg same here!
@drewberrykemp5614
2 жыл бұрын
I found this thing you said at around 3 mins into the video to be super cool Keara:“...Women and people with the female experience...” As a non-binary/genderqueer afab person, the phrase “people with the female experience” is such an inclusive term to use because it includes all people, not just women, but just those who have vaginas (like myself). That phrase really encapsulates the idea that “people with the female experience” to society, may still be perceived as female, like a woman (feminine), or a woman, even if they may not be one or all of those things. But those folks still deal with woman issues like misogyny, sexism, and etc. because they are seen as a woman. And being seen as a woman therefore makes you treated as such. This can show how people who might not identify as a woman could deal with woman issues and that’s great to shine a light on. This saying I will say more often. Thanks Keara love your vids. :)
@DrAbadie
2 жыл бұрын
So trans women who are not seen as woman don't have the Female Experience™ ? What is this Female Experience™ talked about? A lot of women don't share the same experience at all depending on gender, class, race, sexuality, disability... This seems to be hinged on some shady bio-essentialism
@tinakrisnaibot3233
2 жыл бұрын
Are you saying masculine women aren't women!? You just proved again gender ideology is a sexist misogynist homophobic movement.
@DrAbadie
2 жыл бұрын
@@tinakrisnaibot3233 lol no you just can't read
@ferninthehouse
2 жыл бұрын
@@DrAbadie nobody’s excluding trans women, way to misinterpret the entire point of this comment.
@straberryshinigami15g97
2 жыл бұрын
As a nonbinary trans person, I heavily disagree with this comment. It is invalidating and dehumanizing to refer to my experience as a womans experience, and really makes my dysphoria much worse when I'm reminded that other people don't see me the way I see myself. This is not a good way to describe nonbinary people with vulvas.
@sammjaisais7135
2 жыл бұрын
My mum says when my sister was maybe about 3 or 4, she (my sister) once left her underwear lying around with something sticky on it. My mother was horrified because she thought maybe someone had abused her. She went as far as to accuse my father, because only him or his cousin could have gone upstairs where my sister was. My mother took my sister to the doctor to look for any signs of abuse. Turns out my sister had just been playing around with herself. Fun anecdote that isn't talked about.
@mariemaier5630
2 жыл бұрын
Must be so comfortable for your sister that the entire family discussed her masturbation habits. Well done
@pfftxoxo1502
2 жыл бұрын
Why would you comment this
@dabigseel
2 жыл бұрын
good to know that girls as little as 4 can, uh, leave evidence. I'm not a parent but I think many parents could be as baffled as the ones in the story. Anecdotal talk is better than none!
@elaynaaa
Жыл бұрын
DANGGG?!! AT 4? OMG. UM.
@AbbyWebb-u5x
Жыл бұрын
I am so proud that someone actually talks about this thank you❤
@Kanako_ketsunake
3 ай бұрын
I love that this was the last thing I needed my confidence in was not being ashamed about this, then I found you I’m complete now 💛
@mollynicole4614
6 ай бұрын
I'm 40 and all my life I've wanted be in a relationship but people don't respond to my personal ads. When I go to bed I think of the imaginary woman that I created years ago that I am in a relationship with and in love with. She is compassionate and caring, with a heart of gold. We connect in that way. We have many memories together of all the things we've done together and all the places we've gone together. You see, attraction for me is the connection, verses the physical. I need someone to love and have been deprived of that all my life so I had to create someone in my imagination whom I'm in love with and she loves me in return. I go into the calmness of her aura and feel accepted and loved.
@pj19-19
2 жыл бұрын
Im in my closet, being productive on a moody day, and when i opened this video i just starting laughing before Keara even said a word. How not to love them ♥️
@sophhiebn
2 жыл бұрын
videos like this are so important, thank u for providing us with elite content 🙏🏻
@ryanmorejon5813
2 жыл бұрын
Agreed 💯👍
@matilda5183
2 жыл бұрын
@@CreativeUsernameEh hi, so i’m there’s a thing called ‘blocking people’ I don’t think you’ve heard of it because you seem a little stupid you know? Um well anyway, just block if you don’t want to see things on here👍🏼🥰
@KearaGraves
2 жыл бұрын
ILYYYY!!!❤
@k_loves_dogs7260
2 жыл бұрын
WAIT OTHERS USE THE SHOWER HEAD TOO? IVE DONE THAT FOR YEARS AND I THOUGHT I WAS THE ONLY ONE OMGGGG I FEEL SO SEEN
@bekann
5 ай бұрын
I also did but i don't recomend it, because it's likely that the showerhead is going to have a lot of bacteria and and can give you an UTI
@Arctic_The_WolfTherian
2 ай бұрын
Just make sure it's clean first so you don't get an STI/STD
@FinleyGacha14
Жыл бұрын
Hiya! I love all the ace people in the comments, I am asexual! I personally feel repulsed when I think about ever having sex, I just cannot imagine doing it with anyone, but this really helped! Thank you!
@taanvi10
2 жыл бұрын
Keara I love you so much, you’ve really helped me to mature as a young woman and I really appreciate all that you do for your fans. Thank you xx
@KearaGraves
2 жыл бұрын
ahhh i love you so much back!!!❤
@taanvi10
2 жыл бұрын
Omgggg, your reply made my dayyyy!! In England it’s currently 9:50pm. 💖
@_ceci-chan_2698
2 жыл бұрын
I grow up Catholic too and I didn't tell my grandparents, so I still go to church sometimes and a month I even confessed and the priest asked me if ever did something unholy alone or with someone else and this time , because it happend already last year, I said no and he started praising me for being a good Christian girl and in the meantime I felt really uncomfortable, now I laugh about it but I was really upset at the time.
@missstrawberryx
2 жыл бұрын
What a creepy man/priest 🙄😱
@diganta22
2 жыл бұрын
Sounds like talking about the movie "Quills"
@clairescott4005
2 жыл бұрын
are you still catholic?
@clairescott4005
2 жыл бұрын
@Emma mc in an atheist so i could be 0% correct! but i don't think it would be that creepy like maybe in the moment but for him, he's trying to find out ur 'sins' so he can help you become a better person so for catholics (or just christians) it would be normal and very unholy to have sexual experiences before marriage xx
@felixs._brownies1902
2 жыл бұрын
@@clairescott4005 ur right priest usually want you to confess.
@dragonwing4449
2 жыл бұрын
Hey my queer guys 🏳️⚧️ I finally got my „boyish“ haircut and I’m freakin out ! If so happy I did this 😊😊😊
@treewithleaf
2 жыл бұрын
congratulations!!!
@dragonwing4449
2 жыл бұрын
@@treewithleaf thanks 😊
@73748
2 жыл бұрын
I'm really happy for you!!
@dragonwing4449
2 жыл бұрын
@@73748 thanks 😊
@fruitypieceofshit
2 жыл бұрын
Love the term "vulva owners" 💗
@fruitypieceofshit
2 жыл бұрын
@Ville I’m sorry that you feel that way but nothing about that is gross. It’s okay when you don’t want to masturbate but why call it gross? Did you even listen to what Keara said? Maybe you should just grow up. How old are you? Ten?
@isabelcore
2 жыл бұрын
@Ville tell me you get no bitches without telling me you don't get bitches
@fruitypieceofshit
2 жыл бұрын
@Ville Great that you realized that. I’m sorry that you were told it’s gross. Because honestly: why would women/afabs masturbating be wrong and cis men masturbating not?
@ferninthehouse
2 жыл бұрын
@@DrAbadie nobody is excluding trans women.
@d4rksoci3ty
2 жыл бұрын
@@ferninthehouse trans women don’t have vulvas.
@kikibauer7539
2 жыл бұрын
Great video Keara! It's great to have people talking about the perspective of masturbation for people with vaginas, I think videos like this will help a lot of people feel more confident in self pleasure. Thanks for making this!
@ArtichokeHunter
2 жыл бұрын
seeing the aces' positivity in the comments is so nice, personally i did lots of research and tried for like 4 years but couldn't get to ~pleasure~ and not just ok that's weird
@loupelizzo2399
2 жыл бұрын
Totally agree double standards with masturbation and it is all about self love and care, and agree with others here saying nobody talks about this subject and this was a great video. Thank you so much cause never thought that this improves you as a lover as well and you get to know what you like this has opened my mind so appreciate this video
@coffeegal810
2 жыл бұрын
You’re hair is absolutely fabulous Keara 😍. Keep rocking it!!
@Kittycatnip
2 жыл бұрын
This video helped so much! I started when i was young and felt extremely ashamed and thought it wasn't normal. But now that ur saying this I don't feel wierd doing it! Tysm again luv u. 💗
@RainbowStarFire
2 жыл бұрын
Your literally the first person I found in the world that I felt I related to when I found out I was bi. You don’t judge,your videos are always so funny, your advice is always so helpful, your so sweet & you & Lauren are the real deal!! Your amazing Keara. 💋
@RainbowStarFire
Жыл бұрын
I’m great!! Just riding the waves one day at a time you could say? Lol hbu
@RainbowStarFire
Жыл бұрын
I’m sorry I don’t know what a S-C is? So it prob means I don’t have one.
@durpcity7420
9 ай бұрын
the only thing worse than altering your behavior because you feel judged by a stranger is altering your behavior because you feel validated by a stranger
@ShilohHowell-m1e
5 ай бұрын
Thank you so much . as a young person i always feel idk disipontied in myself when i get curius or do this Edit: the fact that self-pleasure actully dose help with my deppresion is crazy and so fasinating
@errelia3622
2 ай бұрын
FINALLY SOMEONE WHO ALSO STARTED AT 3-4 YEARS OLD
@Seso368
Ай бұрын
Really 😮
@quanxisreal5thgirlfriend
19 күн бұрын
how do u remember that
@crashhdoll6606
2 жыл бұрын
That top looks so good on you !! Thanks for the video:))) I'm a guy and loved this!!
@d4rksoci3ty
2 жыл бұрын
K.
@orionalexandersummers
2 жыл бұрын
Hi British teen trans-guy here! Sorry if I'm out of place but I enjoyed your video a lot. There should be more education in schools about this subject because I notice there's a lot of shame and hush-hush around the subject. Thank you Keara
@yvy.830
2 жыл бұрын
fr they teach cishet sex and thats it :(( they have started talking about some people do it for pleasure and not just to have kids and also that gay sex/lesbian sex exists but like where is the self care lmao
@clairescott4005
2 жыл бұрын
Yasss!! Like they only teach straight sex, and that's it in most schools and they need to be more inclusive! and dw ur not out of place! Your so very welcome in this community!
@the_one_and_only_edi
5 ай бұрын
Same, I'm a trans teen too (ftm), and this video really helped me!
@ElleMoon1-q1k
16 күн бұрын
AHHH JUST FOUND KEARA AND I ALSO USE THEY/SHE THIS MADE ME FEEL SO VALID!!
@peepeepoopoo3153
Жыл бұрын
I THOUGHT I WAS THE ONE WHO FOUNDTHE SHOWER THING. ITS BETTER THAN ANY TOY EVER
@SashaWaybright321
3 ай бұрын
Why did I find this in my continue watching... I HAVE NEVER WATCHED THIS BEFORE-
@mysteryperson8254
2 ай бұрын
IT’S A SIGNNNN
@conejitoburrito6526
2 жыл бұрын
Does anyone have tips for this stuff while living with parents? I find it reaaaally hard to find a time to be alone when I've got family around all the time ;-;
@tuanoini
2 жыл бұрын
Do you have your own room? Or other rooms you can lock, like the bathroom? When I lived with my parents, I usually did it at bedtime or when I had the shower running. Had to be quiet but in those situations I could trust that I'm not going to be walked in on. Or could there be safe places to do it outside your home? I mean for example a really distant toilet at school or if you have any hobbies, a place related to them? Or do you visit regularly friends/relatives and could have better privacy there?
@Candyy248
Жыл бұрын
Shower
@clenielsandow3222
Жыл бұрын
Same here
@MjadeJK
Ай бұрын
It really makes me sad how alienated some girls feel for masturbating, it needs to be more normalized. I am thankful and inspired by how you normalize topics like this. ❤
@b3nnefits
Жыл бұрын
I’m trying to get over my religious trauma around anything sexual.
@GLBizzie
Жыл бұрын
Any people here that never felt ashamed or disgusted after pleasuring themselves? Can’t be the only one
@uwelohr7958
2 жыл бұрын
If it wasn't even more awkward than it sounds, I would recommend this video of yours to my daughters ... Besides I assume I wouldn't even have to. Greetings from a German male fan PS one of my female Co workers even gave her shower head a name...
@wolfyrichards
2 жыл бұрын
Good for you, to be supportive :) Btw that coworker sounds interesting...hmmm...although why would a showerhead have a name?
@uwelohr7958
2 жыл бұрын
@@wolfyrichards well. "he treats her well", so she might be talking to it... At least she talks ABOUT her friend Harry every once in a while... And only close ones will understand😉😇
@wolfyrichards
2 жыл бұрын
@@uwelohr7958 Hmmm...alright! Well, I wish the best of luck to "Harry" and your coworker
@garryh3126
10 ай бұрын
That's sick coming from a father 😁..its better suited to the mother and or another close female.
@uwelohr7958
10 ай бұрын
@@garryh3126 I am >50 by now and I was raised in a period when sex was never to be talked about. My comment should just express that times change for a better (not everywhere of course ) . I just want to be the best father I could be. There was nothing else behind my comment here. Be understanding and supportive as much as it is needed and (most important) requested...
@rglos8
11 ай бұрын
Thank you so much for this video. While I am a penis owner, I still so much appreciate learning about a vagina owner’s perspective and for the insight that both owners receive.❤
@cheeselikescheese
2 жыл бұрын
"aaanndddd, my purpose in the world is to serve the gays." Thank you Keara.
@jaymalls9628
Жыл бұрын
Alana can we get together n injoy the beach love 😘💕💕💕 for real drop a contract my name is Scooby Doo NY
@PanFrog2024
2 жыл бұрын
thank you so much for helping us gaybees
@TheGiftof1Liners
2 жыл бұрын
I can’t believe this app exists- last year I found something really similar to dipsea that I LOVE but usage was really clunky for me and it was hard to navigate. I’m so excited that you r promoting this type of app- audio stories are IT I’m totally here for this!!!!
@noordebr
2 жыл бұрын
super important video keara!! thank you for doing this.
@DOLCEKAYEXOTICAL
Жыл бұрын
Even a bad relationship can really negatively affect how we feel about our bodies…
@felicity1111
2 жыл бұрын
OMG IVE BEEN WAITING FOR THIS FINALLLYYYYYY YAY
@ejwhatisgoingon8040
Жыл бұрын
I feel like every time I try to,I never feel anything like I’m not numb but I just don’t feel anything I never have,is there something wrong?
@runningintotheabyss
Жыл бұрын
How old are you?
@smokeyowl-wh2hp
19 күн бұрын
Thank you so much for talking about this!! Also I thought I was the only person who new the shower head trick lol
@xxx-ie9ic
2 жыл бұрын
ur spider plant is growing babies aaaaa!!!
@sarahlouise11
2 жыл бұрын
thank you so much for talking about this 💙amazing to have this discussed stigma free
@oliviapfleger4147
Жыл бұрын
Thank you for this video! I am someone who enjoys sex but has never been able to enjoy self-pleasure or cum. So getting advice on how to get started is super helpful! Completely unrelated, PLEASE MAKE A HAIR TUTORIAL!!! Your hair looks so good
@jamestrentham8576
Жыл бұрын
Hi Olivia, it's so nice to hear your story and I think you have a great advantage. Experiencing Sex orgasms first is incredibly authentic. You've already had experience, so self exploration will enhance your potential. Maybe you'll be able to get familiar with the huge amount of different types of orgasm at your disposal (Jealous already), if you haven't already! Btw, how old are you?
@WilliamWilliams-k2r
Жыл бұрын
Enjoy i started at 6,I'm 61 now & still enjoy William 🥰❤️
@Iostcat
Жыл бұрын
I'm so glad you are openly talking about this, also surprised if you're not demonetized because KZitem def won't normalize this anytime soon
@samanthapatrick4345
2 жыл бұрын
the most romantic audiobook I've listened to is Bright and Bubbly on kindle
@Designer239
2 жыл бұрын
Me: I’m soooooo very new to being as a lesbian. But I’m jus starting to see things in a whole newer world that I’ve never seen before. But honestly though I’ve never taken things really slow , but it really feels like a whole new world to me. But to me: I’ve never felt like this before , cuz to me it’s so new that I jus want to take it slow. But also I’m jus really nervous , but I’m not sure if I’m gonna do fine or whatever. Cuz to me: I’m really really nervous and scared.
@arpitsri9631
Жыл бұрын
Can I help you to
@Designer239
7 ай бұрын
@@arpitsri9631 Um s s sure go ahead and btw im really sorry for how late this comment is.
@tiny.elephant9695
2 жыл бұрын
Hi Keara, I need your help and everyone elses that saw this as well, about one girl. We were at some kind of celebration at her home, only our parents and us , when we were leaving my dad said to get each others instagram (so we can hang out sometimes) and we were both shy and she was just standing there and so did I, we looked at each other and then at the ground.(I regret not asking her omggg)And also when we were talking, we both felt like we knew each other forever but we only saw each other like 2 times, like 7 or 8 years ago and on that celebration, we were talking about everything litteraly and our parents were talking about homophobic stuff and I said smth like "omgg how can they be so homophobic" and we both laughed and did ccccc in the same time, she wasnt eye contacting me like in conversations before(she was looking around). She also was kinda shy when we were leaving(I was just waiting for our parents to end their conversation to hug her)she was looking at me and then looking away and when my parents started leaving I came in for a hug and she was kinda shy or uncomfortable, I couldnt tell. PLEASE HELP ME FOR A GOD SAKE I HAVE NOT BEEN ABLE TO SLEEP NORMALY SINCE THAT DAY, LIKE DOES SHE LIKE MEEE????😭😭😭😭or maby it could be that she is still not sure for her sexuality? she is 17 and I am 16...
@courtneylewis2415
2 жыл бұрын
Just talk to her :) Be open and honest and ask questions. A single situation can't explain what's going on, especially to internet strangers who know neither of you. Ask some mutual friends who know both of you well what they think if you're worried about talking to her.
@feliciaboersma9152
2 жыл бұрын
ok so, I would say, maybe she is just shy in general, you could try to get friends with her and maybe then yk you will see how things turn out, because I wouldnt conclude too much out of this meeting. I love those litlle interactions you talked about, I can relate sooo much
@tiny.elephant9695
2 жыл бұрын
@@feliciaboersma9152 Thank you so much for replying, glad someone can relate too. People are so complicated ughhhh..She gave me mixed vibes tho, at some point she was too opened and talked about everything and at the other moment she couldnt even make an eye contact 💀
@tiny.elephant9695
2 жыл бұрын
@@courtneylewis2415 thank you for your reply, by the time I hope everything will be right
@lararezende7541
2 жыл бұрын
What can i listen to if o dont have the financial condition to sign Dipsea?
@Valen-di9xd
2 жыл бұрын
I LOVE U SO MUCH!! this is just what I was looking for! ✨💕
@wendiebogoian7048
Жыл бұрын
You are great Keara Thankyou for all you do😊
@ferninthehouse
2 жыл бұрын
I don’t understand why people in the comments are saying this is excluding trans women. We can’t have anything here. I’m literally non binary myself and this isn’t excluding anyone. Masturbating for someone assigned male at birth is straightforward and encouraged. For afab people it’s not. Stop whining about things that aren’t issues.
@DrAbadie
2 жыл бұрын
Your generalizations about amab / afab people is called bioessentialism and is a form of cissexism / transphobia. Behind your "amab" labeling you're mixing together trans women, transfem nb people and cis men, they have almost nothing in common. It's a ignorant and dangerous mistake, for example in this situation you think that it's straightforward and encouraged for trans women to masturbate, because they're amab, which in your mind equals to the group "cis men" But trans women have dysphoria, trans women can have vulvas, trans women are afflicted by misinformation, cultural misogyny and transmisogyny, etc... So trans women have a lot of reasons for : - being ashamed of masturbating (because we're either seen as asexual or hypersexual creatures, which is a form of misogyny) - having a hard time to have self pleasure / reach orgasm (which is also a common problem for women in general, amab or afab) - having right informations about our sexualities (on this point, trans women have it way worse than cis women because of marginalization) And that's only talking about masturbating here.
@ferninthehouse
2 жыл бұрын
If I was a bioessentialist then I wouldn’t fucking identify as non binary. Nobody on here has said that trans women can’t have surgery to get a vulva or vice versa. Again you’re making an issue where there is none.
@DrAbadie
2 жыл бұрын
Also the fact that you're non binary doesn't prevent you from transmisogyny! You just did a transmisogynistic talking point without realizing it!
@ferninthehouse
2 жыл бұрын
@@DrAbadie what the fuck are you talking about. You just keep saying shit without explaining yourself and it’s infuriating.
@grace13579
Жыл бұрын
@@DrAbadie afab and trans women with vulvas still are different biologically and sexually
@hwastritch
7 ай бұрын
After watching 2 whole KZitem videos of her today, I suddenly said, "Wait... she looks familar." and realized she played Leia in the Lost and Found Music Studios drama
@shadowwolf_kailey1873
Жыл бұрын
This video is great! I wanted to click off so much because I felt awkward watching this but also wanted to know. I still feel really guilty/disgusted after, I am only 15 and constantly look up if it normal for my age and did a bit at 13 but ignored it and stopped it for ages because I felt very wrong and gross for it and same with even seeing p*rn
@runningintotheabyss
Жыл бұрын
It's extremely normal and healthy, get those fingers in ya ahaah
@squiffymidgets
2 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much keara for all the advice in this video, I live in a pretty liberal household but i never learnt how the female body works and i just wanted to thank you for all the videos you have done on sex ed
@charleswoollard2942
2 жыл бұрын
Beautiful & Inspirational , Exciting To Listen To
@improvisedsurvival5967
2 жыл бұрын
It’s a form of self soothing
@cmk8362
2 жыл бұрын
just a little note: for me the background music was a bit too loud & a little distracting from listening to what ur saying. nevertheless great & importsnt video. lyyy
@worknotinprogress7172
2 жыл бұрын
I had to learn from porn what "using the shower head" even meant 😭
@Yourmomisrad
2 жыл бұрын
I'm so curious but I don't want to look it up 😭
@worknotinprogress7172
2 жыл бұрын
@@Yourmomisrad You pretty much just let the water run directly onto any area down there and the water pressure will lead to pleasure. A detachable shower head usually works best since you have more control. Hope this explains it well enough.
@Yourmomisrad
2 жыл бұрын
@@worknotinprogress7172 haha yes, thanks so much!
@worknotinprogress7172
2 жыл бұрын
@@Yourmomisrad You're welcome!
@cathalreilly4314
2 жыл бұрын
When she hypnotised me I got a little feminine feeling like shockwaves coming up through her body that she owns which is me
@jamwrightiam
2 жыл бұрын
Great video as always, currently doesn't apply exactly to me but am planning maybe on surgery sometime when i have money so one day maybe right? Gotta note something though, as amab there was a LOT of shame put on guys for it, and for not doing it because 1 its sinful/gross to do it, however it's unmasculine to not, which sucks double with dysphoria. In addition though men are taught to not express being effected by shame so there's that aspect as well. Again feminity in general is shamed more because, honestly oppression, but masc definitely isn't safe from being shamed Edited typo, again
@xxx-ie9ic
2 жыл бұрын
yeah agreed men are equally as shamed in my family
@xxx-ie9ic
2 жыл бұрын
@Ville it's natural, get over it
@jamwrightiam
2 жыл бұрын
@Ville ...how far down did you scroll just to comment that? Have you considered going outside instead? Or maybe taking a shower? This can't be good for your health you should probably seek medical aid at this point tbh
@isabelcore
2 жыл бұрын
@@jamwrightiam he also invaded another yter known as summer luk who's Trans. He's generally stupid lol
@jamwrightiam
2 жыл бұрын
@Ville well the first steps are to stop shaming ourselves and others, that's genuinely a very important part of making our communities healthier and more likely to be open with one another. The best early way to apply that is at least thinking through what one's saying and the possible consequences it will cause for both us and others. Admitting mistakes is also a good step of improvement, thanks for taking that responsibility Edited typo
@justinfelt748
2 жыл бұрын
Hi, Keara and Happy Friday!😊😊😊😊😊😎☀💙💙💙💙💙🇺🇸🌈💜💜💜💜💜💜💜👍
@isabelcore
2 жыл бұрын
@Ville you get no bitches
@MrFearDubh
2 жыл бұрын
Guy here who was also raised Catholic and at least for me there was tons of guilt and shame poured on us about masturbation. The first time I did it I thought I was going to go to hell.
@emmacollins7028
2 жыл бұрын
I love the premise of this video! Although I don’t think it’s necessary to delineate that this is for people who are afab… hopefully it isn’t the intention but it comes across as exclusionary towards trans women
@aidanhasling7275
2 жыл бұрын
AFAB does not have anything to do with being trans! It is just an umbrella term for someone's sex, not their gender, so you could be a woman, trans man, enby, or anything else and still be afab. It only means you have a vulva. Hope this helps!
@DrAbadie
2 жыл бұрын
@@aidanhasling7275 no, AFAB means assigned female at birth. An afab person can have a penis, an amab person can have a vulva, this is exclusionary of post-op trans people
@DrAbadie
2 жыл бұрын
@@aidanhasling7275 also, afab is about sex assigned at birth, not current sex, since you can change sex by transitioning
@DrAbadie
2 жыл бұрын
@@aidanhasling7275 but from your answer you literally think trans women don't exist
@DrAbadie
2 жыл бұрын
@@aidanhasling7275 this video doesn't help trans men with penis, even though they are afab, it's not about their sexuality at all
@A22y-REAL
18 күн бұрын
I’ve tried, but I don’t really feel anything of note. It’s kind of like one of those vibrating back massagers but just up my hoo-hau it just literally doesn’t feel like anything. I assumed that I would have some sort of mind blowing revolutionary experience The second I touched a vibrator but that definitely did not happen so help me please lol
@agenttoffiehere9578
2 жыл бұрын
This is a video i never knew i needed... 😂 Thanks keara
@isabelcore
2 жыл бұрын
@Ville pov: you get no bitches
@htyzc
2 жыл бұрын
Masturbation is a great way to periodically release pentup sexual energy. Nothing wrong with it. It should be encouraged. Could lead to decreased sexual deviancy in society as a whole
@htyzc
2 жыл бұрын
@Ville dont...its not meant to be funny👍
@lewisdawson9573
Жыл бұрын
You make this so wonderful 😊 as if you are touching your Jewel 💎 thank you
@sam_the__man
Жыл бұрын
im neurodivergent and whenever i try, i just hate the feeling of sliminess
@BumbleBee-kr8jx
2 жыл бұрын
I’m a 12 year old kid and I am in a school where kids that were not straight might get bullied if they were not very popular when they come out and I am not but I think I am pansexual but more biased towards woman what should I do? Right know people know me as a nice a respectful person and is friendly also. They right now know me as a anti romantic. Can you give me advice?
@aidanhasling7275
2 жыл бұрын
Give yourself time to figure everything out! Don't feel like it is a bad thing to be in the closet. If you think it would put you in a bad situation to come out, don't. Your safety and happiness always come first. It is also an option to come out to only a few trusted people if you want to. The whole school doesn't need to know and you don't even need to come out formally to them ever. Just show up with a partner and a lot of people probably won't even notice if you go to a big school. Most of all don't feel pressured to come out- do it on your own terms and when you feel comfortable.
@BumbleBee-kr8jx
2 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much!
@stephaniewalsh67
Жыл бұрын
I consider myself an expert self pleasurer. I love to fantasize too.
@arpitsri9631
Жыл бұрын
Hi can I help you
@nordichana
7 ай бұрын
Thanks for mentioning that this video is for afab's ... I am an amab nonbinary, so I appreciate you including all genders🥰🌈🏳🌈
@nordichana
7 ай бұрын
Love the video description XD
@MaPr-m3p
Ай бұрын
What’s afab? No hate just genuine question?
@cass_gacha._x3
Ай бұрын
@@MaPr-m3pit means a female at birth
@cass_gacha._x3
Ай бұрын
Just like Amab means male at birth
@leslierodricks2701
Жыл бұрын
Thank you so much! Free and informative!,
@menelbens2190
2 жыл бұрын
I started at age 6
@chaoschaoschaoss
7 ай бұрын
dammit agh i feel like i found ur channel at the wrong time because im probably gonna forget its existence by the time im old enough for this information :,)
@danrey5336
2 жыл бұрын
I have a question I'm a qwuer when I'm pinned against the wall 🧱 but when I'm facing the sea I want to catch every fish out there until I caught a whale named sperm then then I just went home and the only thing got laid was a fart..
@kieranklockars6518
2 жыл бұрын
Omgg loved this video so much, felt so much more comfortable knowing you care about inclusivity ♥️ where do you find the guided audios??
@jewel8609
2 жыл бұрын
Okay a) loveee this vid and how open you are And b) off topic but your hair and makeup…. HOW??? TUTORIAL??
@Fotosaurus56
Жыл бұрын
"I remember the first time I had sex...I was alone!" --- Rodney Dangerfield
@saramatthews7159
Жыл бұрын
Lol I love Rodney Dangerfield
@Lillyg177.
6 ай бұрын
My forst time im so happy i found u im panromantic and genderfluid
@Jonas-ej7id
2 жыл бұрын
This girl is so pretty ❣️
@CeilingFan762
11 ай бұрын
I started when I was 10 😮
@danica5368
Жыл бұрын
Thank you sooo much personally i do it very differently but this really helps 😄
@n0og
2 жыл бұрын
Also raised Catholic and I’m a man. Definitely still shamed for doing it…
@verenaschotten1563
2 жыл бұрын
Okay but like how long is it ''supposed'' to take
@Jnarrator
Ай бұрын
Can u do one for amab people who want to feel like a female while doing it
@fearforchipi
Жыл бұрын
As a pre'teen who is bi female who feels as a animal and my own mother would shame me so i cant buy any toys if theres a way to make a diy one thats safe please tell me,
@kindDaisy132
Жыл бұрын
OMG Tysm for making this video when i first saw your videos i thought they were really welcome and no judging i really like that and the helped me figure out i was a pansexual and genderfliud also i finally came out to my parents and they were happy for what i am my step dad did get a little judge but he is okay now and talking about the topic masterbating i always find i so weird how boys could say omg i masterbated 4 times yesterday and the boys would just be like oh good on you and then one other say well i masterbated 7 times yesterday like a compatition but when it comes to girl we always get judge like no we don't talk about that eww you done that stay away from her she has fish fingers well I'm not sure about you guys but that's what happens in my school anyways but i have a small friend group of free that we talk about secret stuff also I'm kinda in the experimenting part of my life anyways because I'm 14 so I'm still experimenting anyway tysm i love your videos!!❤
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