Thank you for speaking up so openly about self pleasure! No one should be ashamed or embarrassed for learning about their bodies and experiencing pleasure. It is a fundamental part of being alive. I LOVE what you said about god and how god wants us to be happy and enjoy all the wonderful things our bodies can do! Keep speaking out and normalizing self love!
@KearaGraves
Жыл бұрын
thank you so much 🙏🏼🙏🏼❤️❤️
@Ze_Hans
Жыл бұрын
yes they, should be ashamed
@Ze_Hans
Жыл бұрын
@@scubaboy1984 cringe leftards
@scubaboy1984
Жыл бұрын
@@Ze_Hans Wow, I feel sorry for you and what you must have gone through as a teenager but even more so now when you should be smart enough to know better.
@cardboardcapeii4286
Ай бұрын
Yeah for those who are married
@derin23
Жыл бұрын
I actually would've loved listening to you talking about getting a new frying pan!
@KearaGraves
Жыл бұрын
omg wow you're a real one thank you 😂❤
@missmaipai
Жыл бұрын
me too honestly
@aidanohare2768
Жыл бұрын
me TOO
@jordanthunstrom4287
Жыл бұрын
Thank you for making these videos and being so open about self pleasure. At my school they haven’t really given us sex ed and I get too scared to ask my parents about these things because it feels very “taboo”
@KearaGraves
Жыл бұрын
of courseee :)
@bubba283
Жыл бұрын
@@KearaGraves I needed this I fantasize about other guys like myself, my parents don't know yet, so I have to hide
@timbutler5033
Жыл бұрын
Just so you're aware I am a guy and I'm not gay, trans, fluid or anything of the sort. However I know nothing about people, nothing at all, diddly squat. But I do enjoy learning about other people, no matter what shape, size or gender. It doesn't matter what area it's about it's still part of a human mindset and your videos are very informative. I know it probably awkward that a 2/4 straight guy is watching queer videos but honestly I'm not here to troll or anything, I have a lot of respect for gays/lesbians, trans and anyone else who identify as something else, they're interesting and they're still people and some my good friends are either gay or gender fluid. Anyway sorry for the long comment I just wanted to say I enjoy your videos they are super informative and they make me think of human beings as more than frightening, untrustworthy strangers to avoid. It makes me want to understand people more, so thank you.
@leeandoer7804
Жыл бұрын
its not awkward at all as long as its not in a fetishizing weird typa way honestly!! its so nice knowing there are ppl willing to educate themselves and learn more about others and communities they r not in themselves, so ty.
@RenaissanceRockerBoy
Жыл бұрын
Honestly you’re a good ally! You’re educating yourself in a non-creepy way, keep at it :D
@fireruby1882
Жыл бұрын
We need more dudes like you 👏🏻thank you for seeing everything how it really is. Just people learning about people :D
@KarmaO3VT
Жыл бұрын
@@leeandoer7804exactlyyy
@glitterel
Ай бұрын
this is really cool how you talk about self pleasure. I just found your channel today and this is my forth video to watch! I really wish this was talked about more, it should be. I’ve never commented on a yt video before, you really inspired me to, but I just wanted to put it out there that I think you are an awesome content creator and made me feel so much better and more positive about myself and my personal experiences then I ever have. thank you so much, really
@jennsumbera6435
Жыл бұрын
KEARA! UR SO REAL. I LOVE YOU, THANK YOU FOR MAKING ME FEEL VALID AND SAFE AND FOR ALL YOU DO I CANT THANK YOU ENOUGH TBH
@KearaGraves
Жыл бұрын
I ❤ YOU
@summer5198
Жыл бұрын
These advice videos I think are wonderful! I don’t think I necessarily need these types of videos for myself but I do love how they educate other people/help break stigma against masturbating,and I also find these quite entertaining even if I don’t learn anything new❤
@KearaGraves
Жыл бұрын
thank you sooo much for the comment & the support💛🤗 i appreciate youuuu
@ellouisebadger849
Жыл бұрын
I hate that sex and masturbation are considered dirty and we grow up with such shame about it
@arpitsri9631
Жыл бұрын
Hi can I help you
@alexismatthews6275
Жыл бұрын
I relate to so much that they said. I too masturbated at a young age, but had NO idea that's what it was till I was much older (like teenager age), and I feel so much shame for doing that still. It was so drilled into me that I was doing something wrong, before I even knew what it was that I was doing, all I knew was it felt good to feel external pressure on that area. I''m still religious, so it's complicated lol.
@fireruby1882
Жыл бұрын
LITERALLY me too!
@leep7136
Жыл бұрын
I started at a young age too and didn't know what I was doing, when I was older I learnt about wanking but couldn't accept the fact that it was what I was doing. I thought that as long as I don't put any fingers in it wasn't masturbation, but fortunately now I understand that I'm a teenager and it's ok. I'm religious as well and that's where my concerns came from. But I stopped listening to old priests who feel like they can decide about people's bodies and I'm happy with myself. I wholeheartadly wish that to you and I'm sending you the loveliest greetings that I can!
@arpitsri9631
Жыл бұрын
Hi can I help you
@KozyKpop
Ай бұрын
@@leep7136I went through such a similar experience! I love what you said about the priests and everything! I am religious too, and completely agree with you lol ❤
@ryanmorejon5813
Жыл бұрын
Thanks for giving me this advice Keara I haven't been feeling very well since Monday nights and I hope that you and your loved ones have a fantastic weekend ❤🏳️🌈🙏🔥
@Rising_Pho3nix_23
Жыл бұрын
To me cheating is direct communication that is sexual with someone outside the bounds of an agreement. If you're deleting texts or hiding the car, it's cheating.
@amyoliver8938
Жыл бұрын
thankyou you so much keara! you feel like an older sibling to me. thank you for answering one of my questions, you have just helped me so much and i feel a lot better about myself :))
@KearaGraves
Жыл бұрын
awwhh my lil sibby that i never had 🥹❤ i love youuuu
@amyoliver8938
Жыл бұрын
@@KearaGraves omggg i’m going to cry stop i love you moreeeee! 🥰
@sarayacaldwell4185
Ай бұрын
I definitely needed something like this cus I never knew what it was when I started doing it until later
@Alexigalaxi23
Жыл бұрын
I watched porn when i was 9 because my friends shower it to me, naturally I started watching it on my own too because it felt nice and was fun I remember thinking “it’s funny I always get this tingly feeling when I watch it” I like knew it was “wrong” and didn’t want my parents to know, even though i dont remember being told that directly. I stopped after my parents foun out. I have started a bit again. But I feel really shameful about it, mostly cause of my age I think
@notaseat5934
Жыл бұрын
If you have our bodies have this way to make us feel a really nice feeling, why shouldn’t we make use of it? Nothing wrong with it :)
@Alexigalaxi23
Жыл бұрын
@@notaseat5934 thanks
@Jjjjjjjj27
Жыл бұрын
Everybody’s sexuality develops at different rates. There’s nothing wrong with it happening earlier for you! Just like how some people go through puberty before others. It’s natural and okay!
@Alexigalaxi23
Жыл бұрын
@@Jjjjjjjj27 you All are so Nice Thanks❤️❤️❤️
@ShianLanae
5 ай бұрын
Same.
@amyoliver8938
Жыл бұрын
THANK U FOR SPEAKING UP ABOUT SELF PLEASURE
@user_gayaf
Ай бұрын
I’m young and hyper sexual because I have trauma and I think that’s why I’m so ashamed and feel so guilty but it’s a lot. 😢😢
@ArtemisFox01
2 ай бұрын
I know this is an old video but you are just so open about it, and i love how inclusive you are, all the videos ive watched about masturbation related stuff so many people are just like people think god will judge you, and I'm like bro what avout the people who are nonreligious but still are feeling guilty about masturbating so thank you
@Bookwxrm._.
Жыл бұрын
Your cat was licking itself at 10:40 and I was laughing so hard 🤣🤣🤣🤣
@jasonhatfield4747
Жыл бұрын
At your age, masturbation is important. Do it daily (multiple times). You won't have the need for that once you hit your mid-30s or so. So, enjoy your high hormones while they last! Orgasms are much more intense in your younger years, so have as many as you can now:)
@ferninthehouse
Жыл бұрын
Multiple times daily is too much that constitutes addiction. Once a day is fine but doing it as much as possible throughout the day isn’t healthy
@roberttalbot6397
Жыл бұрын
Yes, start young to have good orgasms, younger lads can grow fairly big on erection, they can produce alot, masterbation them can have them screaming in orgasm,so start young.
@etcwhatever
27 күн бұрын
WTF???? Im 35 and still need to do it. What are you on dude 😂😂😂
@Selkie_17
5 күн бұрын
@@etcwhatever every person is different. Some people reaching their 30's start getting lower sex drives. And some people get higher sex drives, it just depends.
@etcwhatever
5 күн бұрын
@@Selkie_17 people need to take care of their health. And to do blood tests to check their hormone levels. Rest and to not eat unhealthy stuff.
@user_gayaf
Ай бұрын
I’m going to be real honest right now, I’m a young teen but I’m hyper sexual and have more knowledge than most my age and more mature so I am the person all of my friends go to when they have questions, concerns, need advice or to vent, about sexual or self pleasure things as well.
@AcePotato_
Жыл бұрын
Hailee Steinfeld's Love Myself plays in the background.
@Your_local_cola
2 ай бұрын
Omfg TYSM I LOVE U😭
@uwelohr7958
Жыл бұрын
I started with about 13 and now with 52 still do it several times a week if I feel like it. My wife of course knows about and I got "cuaght" already...unfortunately she does not feel as comfortable about her own self love (which she practises, as I know) or just talking about it
@chickenwings7116
3 ай бұрын
I'm ace and have very little personal interest in this sort of thing (To clarify for anyone readinng those two things don't always go together, but they do for me. Everyone has their own experiences !) , but I do have a general interest in the topic so your videos have been interesting to watch !
@amyoliver8938
Жыл бұрын
i love your makeup so much!!!!!😍😍😍😍😍😍😍
@amyoliver8938
Жыл бұрын
omg i can’t wait for the podcast!!!!!!🎉🎉🎉
@user-ll4lf5go1m
Жыл бұрын
AH, I wanna hear about the frying pan. lols.
@fireruby1882
Жыл бұрын
Thank you for this 😭my question wasn’t listed but you basically answered it Penetration is NOTTTT my thing and when I went on a date with a girl one time, she wouldn’t listen to me when I told her I hate penetration and only cliteral stimulation. She acted like I never once tried it. I’ve tried my whole life and I just don’t like it. I prefer clit pleasure and honestly she’s not going to be my partner if she can’t LISTEN 🥲we all have our preferences and mine is different
@bmoe4609
Жыл бұрын
Yea let her go if she cant get with it. Your not wrong and neither is she, do what good for u both.
@KearaGraves
Жыл бұрын
listening & honesty are suuuper important in relationships so i’m glad you realized you just aren’t compatible in that way
@fireruby1882
Жыл бұрын
@@bmoe4609 100%
@fireruby1882
Жыл бұрын
@@KearaGraves exactly! We both communicated what we liked but as soon as I told her what I don’t like she seemed to ignore it over and over so I kinda just decided to not let things go further :> I want to be happy during pleasure, not uncomfortable. So thank you for these videos!! 💙
@roberttalbot6397
Жыл бұрын
We use coconut oil for better deeper penetration and electric orgasms sometimes multiple due to the coconut oil
@conejitoburrito6526
Жыл бұрын
Question... what can I use for lube (other than the thing itself ofc)? I don't think I can get away with buying some actual lube without my parents finding out :p
@naamek-
Жыл бұрын
coconut oil. you can say it's for your hair or to moisturize with or something :]
@conejitoburrito6526
Жыл бұрын
@@naamek- ooh okay! Ty
@greteohneh4503
Жыл бұрын
Spit!
@conejitoburrito6526
Жыл бұрын
@@greteohneh4503 ... fair enough lol
@roberttalbot6397
Жыл бұрын
Extra virgin coconut oil is brilliant,can be mixed with a little soap/ saliva , the oil itself is good for skin on your body parts as well, good to taste as it's a food, oral wise. Orgasm can be electric.
@alphawolfqueen3481
Жыл бұрын
You are acc so helpful o love listening to you talk a queera is more qualified than any doctor Ngl
@Geckodepresso
2 ай бұрын
Im a teenager and i love doing it but our roommate always stays up really late and lm scared that he will hear me or something because my bed is really shaky
@AliceSchantz
Ай бұрын
Real 😭😭
@playonebyte
Жыл бұрын
cool if you make a video on water jet mastub for girls as well as guys, focus on normalizing this and water jet techniques 🚿
@amyoliver8938
Жыл бұрын
i wanna know about what happened to the frying pan
@KearaGraves
Жыл бұрын
HAHAHA it honestly is such a beautiful pan 😍
@amyoliver8938
Жыл бұрын
@@KearaGraves 😂😂
@justinfelt748
Жыл бұрын
Hi, Keara and Happy Thursday!😊😊😊😊😊😎☀💙💙💙💙💙🇺🇸🌷🌈💜💜💜💜💜🎇👍. These new ideas are amazing to look beautiful and fabulous, just like you.😍. When I was in the high school lunchroom in 2006, my best friend Erica, talks about going out on a date and look fabulous. Then, she asking me about three things to have fun on a date. (1) Make eye contact and say "Hey" or "Hi." (2) Find the place that looks clean and nice like a restaurant or a movie theater. And (3) When the music starts, dance. Let the music flows into your mind and relax. After that, take her home and say, "Thanks for the dance. It was...incredible."😊💙💙💙💙💙💙🌷💖💖💖💖💖👍. So...yeah. And that my friend, is to find a date that loves you very much.🌷. And one more thing, don't be shy. Walk tall.😎🎇👍
@Bobacat-zf5ku
5 ай бұрын
3:06 there is a cat in the corner :D
@M1sty_28
2 ай бұрын
This is what I needed ty❤
@amyoliver8938
Жыл бұрын
keara the LOVEEEE doctor
@user_gayaf
Ай бұрын
(I’m an atheist but…) God sounds like a perv. (Jk! Jk! Anyone who is religious, I don’t judge you if you don’t judge me!) Again, I’m an atheist but… I still get ashamed. I’ve gotten caught by my dad and grandma but also, no matter what, I just feel ashamed. I guess it’s a personal thing, but I still get ashamed. I think it’s because it’s so often and I fantasize and stuff like that and I get ashamed. (I think the reason I’m so ashamed is the cause of trauma, it’s part of why I’m hyper sexual, but I just feel so guilty afterwards)
@maaikebouwman1168
3 ай бұрын
Interesting video Keara! :)
@irmaakesson3421
Жыл бұрын
Yay a new Keara video
@log5388
Жыл бұрын
oh ya no when i was like 10 i did it but i thought it was wrong and thought i was disgusting til 7th grade i learned wat it was and it took like a year to finally be like “shiiiit. ok then this is chill”
@hazeljoseph247
Жыл бұрын
I LOVE YOU SO MUCH
@arpitsri9631
Жыл бұрын
Hi can I help 5
@hazeljoseph247
Жыл бұрын
@@arpitsri9631 excuse me????
@arpitsri9631
Жыл бұрын
@@hazeljoseph247 he you have done masterbating
@charleswoollard2942
Жыл бұрын
What a Beautiful Inspiring Indivdual Person❤🙏
@allysonvasquez1862
Жыл бұрын
Can I just say thank you for this video and I learned alot and thanks for taking about self pleasure on this topic I really love it ❤️❤️
@arpitsri9631
Жыл бұрын
Hi can you send me your
@arpitsri9631
Жыл бұрын
How many times you do in one day
@oddlemone
Жыл бұрын
I saw the cat in the corner omg I love it so much :O
@XnifftyX
4 ай бұрын
i love this ❤
@I_know_your_secrets
3 ай бұрын
Idk if it was this video or another one but great dental dam diy thing, cut up latex gloves. 10/10 hack, haven’t caught herpes so far 💯💯💯
@AltAccount407
4 ай бұрын
i am so down bad right now
@7atkd_ivgt
Ай бұрын
That’s… really fucking weird.
@madbearcosplay
Жыл бұрын
I love your videos
@AliceTaylor-c6s
Жыл бұрын
Love you Hugs*
@lil1671
Жыл бұрын
Btw, super cute top!
@lyricsparks891
Жыл бұрын
OMG i just realized this I dont know if you will see this, Keara but I just wanted to say that I thought you looked familiar lol and I noticed that you were in the "lost and found music studios" show and i LOVE that show and you were my favorite actress!!
@missmaipai
Жыл бұрын
do you still identify as genderfluid? or have you shifted away from it
@missmaipai
Жыл бұрын
also thank you so much for the video, i completely relate to the whole guilt surrounding it. i used to think i was a monster before i got educated that it is infact okay
@KearaGraves
Жыл бұрын
yeah genderfluid is still an accurate term! but i’m less attached to labels now and kinda just ~flowing~ and living my authentic expression :)
@missmaipai
Жыл бұрын
@@KearaGraves valid!
@oddlemone
Жыл бұрын
thank you. I only recently found your channel but I found it to be super helpful. thanks so much ❤
@zaraventura7022
Жыл бұрын
thank you for this information!! I love you!!
@BriaWilliams-ul1ph
Жыл бұрын
Thank you for your content it ha really helped me in my quest of knowing how to bring myself to orgasm. I'm a christian and have been taught masturbation is wrong but how can it be when it brings joy and entertainment to my life? I'm close to leaving the church for good.
@user-os2es4es9y
Жыл бұрын
Good to see your good!
@alphawolfqueen3481
Жыл бұрын
YOU ARE SO HELPFUL ILYSM❤
@mevdjemal
Жыл бұрын
Lobe itt
@Silkwhowenttogogetthemilk
2 ай бұрын
But my pinky nail is my longest nail 😭😭😭
@Aylaaaa73
Жыл бұрын
Thank you! You made me feel I’m actually normal❤ new sub 😊❤
@Emmie_graves
Жыл бұрын
Girl my last name is Graves
@giovanniallegro3790
Жыл бұрын
about feeling guilty about God. The human being is made in the image and likeness of God ....😄... Ok ... but if the human being is so imperfect then he means that God is not perfect either ... right?...🙄😏
@kyliesmith9199
Жыл бұрын
Oh hey I'm early-
@3B06_黃嘉美
5 ай бұрын
???
@cathalreilly4314
Жыл бұрын
Do watches do watch it watch Ada bisexual people LGBT people designed transgender people that on them
@virgilmcclendon5072
Жыл бұрын
😎😃😊😜😍😘💖🌹
@turnmeondeadman4221
Жыл бұрын
So you’re not vegan anymore ? Do you still “feel a connection to the animals “😂
@Looonymoony
9 ай бұрын
When I was 12 I was mid way through puberty and literally had the biggest fucking sex drive out of all 12 year olds. Unfortunately, because of that I ended up landing in a situation where I was sexting a very creepy and manipulative guy in my class, and I didn’t realise how much control he had over me until both of our parents and the school found out. The thing is that I was the only one to get punishment because I was the one who initiated it, even though nothing after that one message was my responsibility. All of the videos I sent of myself I set as view once, until he started making me send them normally. Then one day I was hanging out with him and he opened his phone up to a whole album of videos of my naked body. I asked him what it was and he quickly clicked off and told me I must have mistaken something else for pictures of me. I remember being horrified when one of his “mates” that I had never even heard of or met had somehow got my phone number and called me a prostitute. Multiple occasions he tried scheduling times for us to have sex. I didn’t want to say no so I asked if we could do it at his, because I presumed that once we got there I could get in a chat with his mum or something so that I didn’t have to do it with him. He was insistent on this place that was hidden away behind a block of public toilets. He said he had gotten in trouble for it multiple times so I obviously refused. I started messaging this other boy at the same time as an escape, hoping it would be different but both of us fell down the hole at the same time. Neither of us had intended for it to become sexual but I suppose since I was expecting it (because of the creepy guy) it eventually did. I sent him pictures of myself shirtless (still wearing underwear though) to tease him because he couldn’t see them since he had a Nokia. About 7 of them. When the school called my dad, my mum looked through my phone without me knowing. I had 4 panic attacks throughout the whole night after she told me everything the school had told her. It was probably the worst day of my life. The following day we had a meeting at school, where they basically just asked me why I did everything, and then shamed me for it. I told them I didn’t know why I did it and I didn’t know what I was getting myself into and they just kept telling me I was lying and that it wasn’t possible for me to not have predicted it. Every time I think about it, it makes me feel physically sick. Even one of my closest friends (my ex girlfriend) couldn’t help but blame me for it. I knew what she was saying was true but she didn’t attempt to comfort me at all. “You know that your started it so you can’t blame him for it.” “You know you could have blocked him I don’t see why you didn’t. “ “you could have said no and just stopped messaging at any point.” It’s even worse that she was saying it to my face around other friends aswell. I told her she doesn’t understand what it’s like to be in that situation. From that point on my mum knew that I watched porn because I lied in the meeting and said that the videos I had sent the creepy guy weren’t of me and that I had taken them from an adult website. (they weren’t allowed to see them plus my face wasn’t in them) My mum occasionally makes jokes now whenever I appear panicked when she is about to search something on my phone. She always says things like “about to clear your search history are you?” I don’t know whether she knows if I watch porn but it would be weird if she did Anyways thanks for listening to my rant because the school denied me therapy :)
@Capricorngurl-sm9yh
2 ай бұрын
No offence but why is this on my fyp 😭😭
@AllenLearnsToBudget
Жыл бұрын
Not A Girl, I Just Saw That Pretty Top And Clicked On The Video... So, Are We Just Going To Gloss Over That Frying Pan Or What....?
@harpermorrone8228
Жыл бұрын
Actually idk if god likes it when you touch yourself but Jesus died so that way we can be forgiven for our sin but god still loves us so when we die we can be forgiven (if you believe in god)
@lunathepug-dm3ic
Жыл бұрын
Woooooow! Giving minors sexual advice, huh? What an amazing person you are! 😒
@KearaGraves
Жыл бұрын
why thank you! i'm proud of my content and my mission to bring awareness to the topic. i hope you learned something too! :)
@cardboardcapeii4286
Ай бұрын
It’s a sin
@Lucas-k2x3r
Ай бұрын
This is predatory
@log5388
Жыл бұрын
for anyone that doesnt wanna watch p0rn: smutty fanfics and asmr m0@n!ng vids work 👍🏼
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