every teenager needs to hear this. Same goes for men who are mistreated psychologically, they need to walk away too.
@thecanadianrealestateshowc3554
Ай бұрын
What women need to understand is men who disrespect you, disrespect themselves and have low self-esteem. In turn, we tend to attract aspect of ourselves we need to work on. Learn the lesson and move on.
@ArumWaharatri
23 күн бұрын
Great advice "If he's not willing to change for you (with his bad behavior) and then you move on"
@leoniep9231
19 күн бұрын
Applied to anyone who mistreats you, not only in a romantic sense, also for family and platonic friends. If you realize you have been mistreated, communicated to them that this behaviour hurt you, and they are not willing to change or even take accountability, walk away and let them learn that there are consequences to their behaviour. Trust me - you are better off alone than with people who repeatedly hurt you without a second thought and don't even apologise for it once. I've done this with my only sister and with my best friend of over ten years when I was not willing to let them walk all over me anymore, it hurt like crazy for several months because I still love them in a way but now I am much happier without their influence on my life.
@user-cl5vk2ug4i
24 күн бұрын
Mistreatment should never be tolerated
@StudyChannel761
Ай бұрын
I did & then he called me judgmental?! & also said I won't be able to sleep peacefully after losing such a man. Like wtf?!
@user-dk2lt3jd1q
Ай бұрын
He was an stupid.....it was all hiss loss ... you are wonderful....❤
@hassanabdullah2425
Ай бұрын
Chill bruv you don't even know the person. @@user-dk2lt3jd1q
@BehindTheBush96
Ай бұрын
He’s trying his BS a manipulation tactics on you because he’s interested in you, and a lot of rnen who are interested in you will do ANYTHING but just be a decent person, work on themselves or introspect. And every time, without fail, they will try weak fear-mongering tactics to try to ‘get’ you, thinking it’ll scare you into thinking you can’t enjoy or handle being single and trying to convince you they’re such a catch (spoiler alert: they’re never the catch. You know this, other women know this, even they know this - that’s why it’s always taken that pursue women and complaining about being single or rejected and why most women don’t pursue men).
@Himmiefan
Ай бұрын
He just confirmed your judgement of him.
@michaelmich00
Ай бұрын
he is a narcist
@Nitra813
22 күн бұрын
It’s true. Happened with my first bf/fiancé. I was willing to walk away, he told me he couldn’t give me what i deserved or expected. Immediately no, we went our separate ways. He definitely learned a hard lesson after that. Yes it hurt since we were engaged, but you have to know your worth. If I would have stayed in that relationship I would have been ruined. Young and dumb 😅 But hindsight is 20/20
@tomoyosakagami9874
Ай бұрын
I think same applys for men. If they treat u bad, don't complain, don't put them on a pedestral and say they are perfect, don't be too clingy and walk away if they don't appreciate ur effort. Yeah, communication is sometimes difficult Have a nice day✌️
Honestly, some men never stop mistreating you. Sometimes, they mistreat you more out of an ego boost, or because they feel rejected, than anything else. If he is the type to mistreat others for any reason at all, don't interact more than you absolutely have to. Don't bother with him/her as a friend, acquaintance, or anything else. Sometimes you have to tolerate them (ex. coworker, fitness instructor or other things), but ignore them as much as possible, and stick with polite, but distant. It is not your fault that they want to be assholes.
@aanchal1310
24 күн бұрын
This is so timely, as usual ♥️
@s.k1127
Ай бұрын
Ok, may be I need this before but from now onwards I make sure I don't do that mistake again, just bcz I am emotionally attached to them, I will not let him do it again. ❤
@libertasca1636
23 күн бұрын
Well said! 👏🏼
@reinamachado9200
19 күн бұрын
Thanks for your advices!!!!
@naheenisapoet69
Ай бұрын
When i first my ex I noticed smth off about em and was about to let them go. I was so strong back then. Then he lied and i got attached. And we went on and off for 2 years. Not worth it honestly
@rh5273
20 күн бұрын
Me too. Feel stupid now. I wish i can rewind the time
@Holasoyaleyna
Ай бұрын
Love your videos Francesca!!!
@brendarudman8806
28 күн бұрын
Thanks Your videos are really useful and helpful
@jacobkikon2880
Ай бұрын
You're becoming more beautiful day by day ❤
@ArchanaMehta-pn4hm
26 күн бұрын
Thankyou sweethearts ❤🙏
@I-Am-Prosperous-I-Am-Grateful
Ай бұрын
Walk after the first 🚩, as it's a prelude of many more 🚩🚩🚩 to come. 🚫🚩🚩🚩
@basicinfo2022
23 күн бұрын
👏👏👏
@TruthTriumphs786
Ай бұрын
This happened to me. I was interested in my neighbour and she took my kindness as weakness. For 3 months she was stringing me along for my attention and validation. Used me as an option to run some errands. Then I thought Why I'm doing this when I'm not even attractive to her. She's just using me as a option or. Side hustle. I was heartbroken as I was naive about these games. Withdrew and went back to my old self. I learnt that I need to learn some games before getting in that sh it. Long way ahead
@Rajab25161
Ай бұрын
Inch for inch tooth for tooth eye for eye. There u go man
@kubra_sultan
28 күн бұрын
You dont need to resort to the same manipulation. Thats low. Sounds more like you need to build up more self esteem and self respect.
@alisonreed4408
26 күн бұрын
How can you be heart broken if you didn't love this person, and we're not even attracted to them? I think your ego was bruised is probably a better way of putting it. And yes you deserve much better than she treated you
@user-kp3rc4eq8x
26 күн бұрын
If shitting on your doorstep was a person💀
@JasminMiettunen
15 күн бұрын
I don’t think you need to learn games, you need to learn not to play other peoples games. Don’t play games, period. You and your future partner deserve better.
@chandrikakamath2707
23 күн бұрын
Your necklace is lovely
@----akshay_m----6795
Ай бұрын
Constructive criticism for two times, if still the same then move on.
@alastair1955
Ай бұрын
Giving these ultimatums is trying to forcibly change your date / partner. Old saying but true about what happens when a couple marry. - The woman thinks he will change, but he doesn't. The man thinks she won't change, but she does.
@dhanshadinesh963
27 күн бұрын
Nice necklace❤
@Borboleta1212
19 күн бұрын
Agree 100%! I’m willing to give SOME second chances for CERTAIN things(for something like rescheduling a date, or turning up late) , but if they do it a second time…I’m out of there (will explain to them the reason though, in a measured, kind yet firm way
@SandyCheeks63564
Ай бұрын
if they can't even make the effort most important first then walk away and mean it. If he gives them another chance they'll figure you were just bluffing. When you are bargaining with vendors then put the item down start walking away and if they call you back then you can bargain. It's almost like that, but not quite. They like to play games and they will see what they can get away with the next time. So you can waste your own time if you want, not me
@MiMi-rc1bv
24 күн бұрын
If you need to show a man your worth, he‘s not the right one
@user-gd8kh4mg8n
24 күн бұрын
Agree but can we stop blaming the women for getting attached? a lot of the time this happens because men love bomb. women (everyone) usually grow up without good information on healthy relationships and how it's properly built
@XinGamin
20 күн бұрын
This. The constant on and off button we get from men just tricks our brains The second we feel ready to leave, they change up and say kind words and reel you back in. Only to stop giving you attention once more. Ugh. Just one healthy man... Please? (I say this as an extremely broken woman, which feels ironic)
@user-gd8kh4mg8n
20 күн бұрын
@@XinGamin YES
@PoojaMistri-tb1vk
19 күн бұрын
Thanks
@Picasobaby
16 күн бұрын
I'm kind to the kind and unkind.
@zarajay6604
25 күн бұрын
Youre a goddess ❤️
@Mitalisoni369
Ай бұрын
❤
@fruitypopwhickle6806
22 күн бұрын
10000000%!!!!
@animextitania
Ай бұрын
Hey can I talk to U about a relationship problem??
@jamesgossweiler1349
Ай бұрын
This woman's description is like she's explaining how to train a cocker spaniel.
@priyanam1776
27 күн бұрын
why do they do not know the values of not misbehaving and making effort for the relationship, why is it usually the women teaching or not teaching them how to value her
@amitshridhar
Ай бұрын
✨✨✨
@SC.......
10 күн бұрын
LoL true but this is also the problem with society. Ill just walk away, on to the next. Its too easy. Communication is always better.
@NutPolice
23 күн бұрын
Francesca you just described 99% of modern womans
@nasirali7572my
Ай бұрын
Nice beautiful
@Bellissimovolere
14 күн бұрын
I’d be impeccable on any kind of date with Francesca !
@HollyMurphy3
21 күн бұрын
How about just don’t care at all? They can have each other.
@ez_the_dancer
21 күн бұрын
Thank you and yet I am saddened that you didn’t really give us real advice, you told us in the end we move on… that is exactly what I DO NOT want at all. I WANT THE GUY!!!! Otherwise really helpful points until that segment 🌹
@annjohnson8059
19 күн бұрын
So you walked away and then? If a man don’t care thy don’t care…what what if you want this man and only this man 😅
@ayushikumari7368
27 күн бұрын
What if same thing is done by your husband and not your boyfriend, then what, will you do the same to break the marriage and walk away ?
@yoohoo952
Ай бұрын
if he/she is not too handsome
@vladster264
22 күн бұрын
I 🤔 I SHOULD have left this relationship years ago
@just2botheru
Ай бұрын
Sounds like parenting.
@nikitasaville5422
22 күн бұрын
Um..but isn't this technically saying a word? Multiple words to explain why you want to stop the cycle. Sometimes I don't think men even care, they will either beg it or just ignore the message. Sometimes it's best to just disappear.
@rome8726
17 күн бұрын
Lol why did you get attached in the first place ? It's because there's something about him that you liked. Now you want to change him into something more convenient. Wonder how that will work.
@kingspore5000
Ай бұрын
Damn...these fckin eyes...🔥🔥🔥
@berizdrav942
2 күн бұрын
And than I kiss you.
@alastair1955
Ай бұрын
This is treating people like children. - Do what I say, or I'm going to do X - . Complaining will work if it is made to most men, they will listen. Threat to walk away is not needed. If threats to walk away are made with every complaint this will make the guy think you don't really value the relationship, he will feel bullied, and he will be more likely to end it. On the other hand if the man is a type who would only respond if a threat to walk away is made, then he is not worth it and you should walk away.
@gatorssbm
Ай бұрын
The sad part is that some people in dating behave like children. I hate doing this because I especially hate giving people ultimatums or feel like they have to feel obligated to do something so I feel better but at the end of the day its best to not be pushy when possible even if this is needed at times. Like this is a person youll potentially be stuck with the rest of your life if theyve shown theyre capable of meeting your needs so some behaviors are better addressed sooner than later.
@alastair1955
Ай бұрын
@@gatorssbm Agree, kinda. Thing with ultimatums, they are always bad for a relationship. If a partner has to have their behavior modified early on by ultimatums, they will resent it, better leave that partner and find one more compatible with ones own needs, without ultimatums. Cos what if the partner given ultimatums started giving ultimatums back? Just not going to head for a joyous relationship. Some relationships are not worth having, and some things are intolerable, for example, violence. If a partner beats the other partner, the other partner should be entitled to give the ultimatum, don't do that again if you do I will leave. But essentially the relationship requiring such an ultimatum is already toxic, I would say don't mess with the ultimatum just leave anyway. My position comes from my own experience, where my ex would deliver ultimatums over things that just did not really matter, but she had to have her way, and if I did not comply, the punishment would be severe. In the end she did not get the desired result because while she thought her method was getting her everything she wanted, my own life was so miserable that I left. She now has to live with herself, and is the miserable one.
@Tatiana-oz2fn
22 күн бұрын
@@alastair1955it’s not an ultimatum. That would be “if you don’t plan our date I’m dumping you” it’s “if our expectations don’t align we don’t need to keep dating “
@alastair1955
21 күн бұрын
@@Tatiana-oz2fn I agree, if you are not compatible, cease dating. Obviously. Just, that is not what was presented in the video. What she said was you force the guy to change his behavior by giving ultimatums. My view is that while that might SEEM to work short term, longer term it will cause resentment and affect the quality of the relationship, not just to the detriment of the man, but also to the woman. If you still think it's a good idea, see how you would feel about getting ultimatums back. Think it would work for you?
@jessicaacosta933
21 күн бұрын
@alastair1955 She never mentioned anything about forcing anyone to behave any certain way with ultimatums. She even says at the end of the video he can go his separate way, their values don't align. No force no ultimatums. What she is talking about is having boundaries. These are very different. Ultimatums are trying to force someone to do what you want. Boundaries say ... I expect people I interact with to behave in a certain manner and if they don't I won't interact with them as a consequence. I'll find someone else, which is exactly what should happen.
@Shebathebigcat
20 күн бұрын
You can show your worth by actually doing something besides being entitled. Of course he is not allowed to abuse you and you leave if he does but that's not necessarily how you show your worth it depends. If your just to sensitive and you think he is treating tou bad when he is not walking away just shows how fragile you are. He probably dodged a bullet getting rid of a mental case. But of course if you really did get abused that's different. its a case by case basis to judge this on. Depends on the woman and the man both. Some women if you dont kiss there ass then its abuse. You dodge a huge bullett when she shows her worth and leaves. Lmao.
@wagenna
Ай бұрын
How to show a woman your worth?
@basicinfo2022
23 күн бұрын
Have healthy masculinity. Women value a man if hes in his masculine role
@free_soul9154
Ай бұрын
Usually, the genders are actually reversed in real life
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