Comment below... what are you going to start implementing?
@dormandavis2767
6 жыл бұрын
Apollonia Ponti Just a quick question. You’re very knowledgeable at what you do but have you ever come across guys that really make you happy? What I’m getting at is I hope I’m wrong but women like you would be hard to please because of your being independence.
@mikemoss3299
6 жыл бұрын
Great video! I will implement "tennis match texting" & just be less available.
@winynec
6 жыл бұрын
Hi Apollonia, the book is from Janet Klosko and Aron Beck. From 1994?
@saeedmohammed2245
6 жыл бұрын
Stop being 100% available
@saeedmohammed2245
6 жыл бұрын
I LIKE U
@Godhelpmeasinner
4 жыл бұрын
1. Have a life outside her 2.dont look for outside validation...validate urself and believe it
@Annamelese
3 жыл бұрын
How do you validate your self?
@sushilsalins3576
3 жыл бұрын
@@Annamelese Be a better version of yourself everyday. Learn new things everyday. Keep on upskilling yourself be it your professional life, your hobbies, etc. Remember, it's always YOU vs YOU.
@shatteredknight1129
3 жыл бұрын
Ya. But this seems like two tips. The video seems to go all over the place without actually referencing each tip.
@wesley6442
3 жыл бұрын
It's so hard, I lose myself in her. I start to focus on her and forget who I am and can't concentrate on my goals and hobbies, I need to strike a healthy balance. When I do she gets nervous and thinks I am going to leave, so I become clingy and giving to avoid her feeling that way. I just don't know what to do, feel trapped
@travisandrews3909
2 жыл бұрын
I have a life outside her its called smoking weed
@cory156
Жыл бұрын
I started focusing on myself alot more in the past 7 months and now women come up to me
@firemedic542
6 жыл бұрын
Is anyone else sick and tired of these games besides me? Do this but don’t do that or don’t do too much of this but make sure you do that. Basically we are damned if we do and damned if we don’t.
@driftinxer
6 жыл бұрын
Michael Hess im in the same boat as you and trust me i hated it!! what i did was save money i have 3 bank account with money in it just keep grinding make money!!!! just do this 1. self improvement 2. get money 3. enjoy life 4. woman
@KevsUploads
5 жыл бұрын
Michael Hess shut the fuck up and stop nagging and do!
@lbks16
5 жыл бұрын
do do do what you want
@bear1more287
5 жыл бұрын
No matter what you do you’ll never Please them that simple
@cbrown717
5 жыл бұрын
No. We are damned if we do. Women don't love men like we love them. We better learn that and deal with it.
@valtersdargis1287
4 жыл бұрын
It is simple, focus on your dreams and growth, stop thinking about women all the time, they love successfull men.
@Psyfonify
4 жыл бұрын
They love men that can love, understand, and connect with them on every level. Success doesn't matter, life is too short for success to matter..
@Azir223
3 жыл бұрын
@@Psyfonify they’re both important
@mike105ps5
3 жыл бұрын
@@Psyfonify life is too short to die unsuccessful
@cj.59
3 жыл бұрын
@@mike105ps5 true
@unkn-i3b
2 жыл бұрын
It’s not about “all” women, it’s about “1” woman
@coleygray8907
6 жыл бұрын
Have to keep this short; a man should always focus on himself. This will attract any woman. Once a man loses his grind, or is off his purpose, her hypergamous nature will come out; Losing her. Always stay on your purpose.
@ApolloniaPonti
6 жыл бұрын
Amen!
@ahmadhashimi9771
5 жыл бұрын
Very good point thank you
@saer1212
5 жыл бұрын
agreed! Focus our lives on who we are called to be and a girl will pick up on you live with purpose, passion and a belief system. The right girls will be attracted and can't lose because the unhealthy girls will leave. Watch Tim Tebow on any of his videos of a perfect example of this.
@brentoniverson1020
5 жыл бұрын
Word!
@secfeed6987
5 жыл бұрын
Right on point, you can't look after someone else if you can't even look after yourself. If your the man, your responsible. Which means you need to be on your game 24/7, 365 days a year, even on leap years and on Sundays.
@jonnycpardoe
4 жыл бұрын
'Put yourself on a pedestal' LOVE THIS, this should be to any area in life, and love how much sense you talk. Totally makes sense the point about wanting us to have a life, if a man is dependant on a woman to be happy doesn't show a good sense of security in him. Focus on you first. Amazing content as usual Apollonia.
@teekaramkapil9926
2 жыл бұрын
I will start doing this now it sounds impressive
@travisandrews3909
2 жыл бұрын
For sure
@michaelhooper7687
6 жыл бұрын
At the end of the day... Be yourself be confident,bold and focus on your goals in life and she will follow... Just like a woman want a man to prove himself. Vice versa for a woman to prove herself... Take your time get to know her in and out.. Not all women think the same...
@ApolloniaPonti
6 жыл бұрын
Yes!
@EJayyDreadHead
5 жыл бұрын
Facts
@thedcfgrp938
5 жыл бұрын
@@ApolloniaPontiAt some point are you going to give the name of the person who wrote the book?
@jhonjohnjonjondoe5011
5 жыл бұрын
this girl is the best female dating coach i have seen on youtube
@propman1823
5 жыл бұрын
100% shes so clear i think im falling in love with her now haha
@የኩሽልጅ
5 жыл бұрын
@@propman1823 chill fam
@jamesbroucek8186
5 жыл бұрын
@@የኩሽልጅ she a friggen woman dude. She's telling you how not to be a pussy. If you need her to teach you.....
@alirezamodares3463
4 жыл бұрын
She ain't a girln she's a pretty woman
@druhboy5631
4 жыл бұрын
Jhon John Jon Jon Doe Hands Down!!! 🙏💯🏞🕊🙌
@stuartbaker794
5 жыл бұрын
Felt myself becoming more and more needy over the past couple of weeks with my new girlfriend and I’ve hated every moment but couldn’t shake the anxiety and ridiculous paranoia off. Your video has just saved my mental health and my relationship. Thank you 🙏
@SoundMuzak
3 жыл бұрын
"If you´re unhappy, how you pretend to make her happy?" - I loved this
@nathanhighvoltage5259
3 жыл бұрын
I don’t think I came off as needy. I just wanted to talk 😂
@traciwesley9545
3 жыл бұрын
Same here😭
@basilia_terrazas
3 жыл бұрын
Please I beg you don't do that. I just broke up with my boyfriend because he would talk my ears off about himself while I could barely say one word.
@doubleccl14
5 жыл бұрын
Dawg I’ve watched 3 of these since being on my break and fellas I feel like it’s really helpful.Like she hits so many thoughts that run through your head it’s crazy.
@ismailelmassaoudi4317
4 жыл бұрын
true i'm going through this now the girl says she needs space but i keep texting her cause she said she doesn't want me out of her life and that she misses me well then afcource i have hope so me texting her obviously means i'm still here
@ChristianM-c7k
5 жыл бұрын
I can relate. Did this in the first serious relationship I've had. Thought it was a good thing because usually I didn't give a damn and would focus on my own life. I wished I saw this way way earlier before I basically worshipped her .
@patrickkgoodwin8859
3 жыл бұрын
Life is a journey a soul mate will travel with you as you share. Having things in common helps build trust. New is good as long as both feel trusting. Trust comes from sharing and not gold digging.
@FarMoreAccurate
5 жыл бұрын
After watching 5 of your videos, I'm astounded at the information you share from the female's perspective. Whether we notice the details or not, almost all details are relative to one another when searching for purpose in life and sharing their life/time that (should have intentions to) compliment one another's life overall. Keep up your awesome work, extremely educational guidance that men (imo people in general) should use to benefit themselves.
@ApolloniaPonti
5 жыл бұрын
I am glad that my videos are helping my viewers. Thank you for your support!
@zacqueeentertainment7336
4 жыл бұрын
Emotionally dependable on someone else is a big mistake
@maxk5741
4 жыл бұрын
are you kidding me. Go read the book Atached by Amir Levine. Society incorrectly defines emotional dependance and needines when it comes to relationships. You absolutely must be needy and vulnerable and allow your partner to reciprocate and reassure you. “an innate emotional attachment need for survival that directly benefits one to have a felt sense of emotional safety and security that lends toward confidence and trust to connect deeply with self and one’s world.” She noted that it’s a completely human need to desire, long for and seek out deep emotional connections, comfort and reassurance from our romantic partners.
@nasrskander3121
5 жыл бұрын
Believe me this video is very helpful she's talking 100% right and it happened to me so if u follow her instructions u will feel free emotionally
@brianimpellizzeri629
4 жыл бұрын
Girl you are spot on. I woke up a year ago have been doing self work all day every day ever since. This video is uplifting and exactly what men need to hear. Subscribe! Grateful for your energy!
@zoeamerica4675
4 жыл бұрын
There are so many videos for women becoming “too clingy” or “falling too soon” or “emotionally attaching too soon” or “giving too much” or “showing too much attention and why men pull away” or ETC...bottom line is this THAT GO FOR BOTH MEN AND WOMEN: GO INTO A RELATIONSHIP WHEN YOU KNOW YOU ARE HEALED - a lot of people jump into wanting commitment so fast after a bad heartbreak and are unhealthy and in turn sabotages possibilities with a new relationship because of wanting to hold on to an “idea” of what the ideal relationship would be for them. Give so much because of that desperation to be loved or fear to be alone or people who don’t even know what it’s like to be alone even! That’s not healthy. So then comes all the game playing and oh I showed too much, I’ll pull away now or shoot, did they lose interest? Desperation is UNATTRACTIVE. I had a guy on the first date asking me my complete schedule to accommodate his to match mine, asking me what I want (a relationship right now?) - the first date. Noooo. Things need time to build but you must be in your own too and doing you and living your life and being an added plus and she be an added plus to your already amazing life alone. That’s my take on watching both sides.
@faith4today
3 жыл бұрын
Thank you for your post. Very helpful.
@lucas_perez-osterwalder6206
3 жыл бұрын
I'm just watching a whole bunch of videos to help me be dead inside so I never have to get hurt again
@Tallpinemill
3 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for this video. I am regretfully guilty of a lot of these bad traits. It’s so true that it’s hell to go through. Unfortunately I have always felt guilty for the hobbies and things I’ve done outside of my marriage. I felt like I was abandoning my kids and wife. My wife has told me she needs space and I’m trying to respect that. But my confidence is low and I’m having bad anxiety. I’m trying to take it minute by minute but it’s difficult.
@swolemode88
4 жыл бұрын
Its about Focus on you and establish the new You.
@peterhanna8122
3 жыл бұрын
It’s pure reality you hit the nail on it’s head,I went through this phase and I paid for it with extreme emotional pain. Thanks again
@JKyouma
2 жыл бұрын
Honestly very relatable..
@kirsakaboom-5960
5 жыл бұрын
I implemented a no fucks given attitude along time ago, if a woman doesn’t want to jump on the fun bus or plays games then it’s her loss. I’ma keep doing me
@Aijaleena
5 жыл бұрын
I got into this short term relationship with a girl and then became obsessed and too needy which was a mistake, then she became cold and I got angry and confused. And boy was the battle lost 😂 now I start my recovery from that vicious cycle but im unsure I will recover completely. I am devastated at the moment
@kaj177
5 жыл бұрын
Phaellos ive had exactly the same and i cant recover my confidence from how i was before. It sucks i dont attract a lot of girls anymore
@krizzay95
4 жыл бұрын
It’s amazing every time I watch one of your videos like this I think about how I was able to increase the attraction of my girl by doing these things before I’d even seen these videos... Needless to say she’s all over me now, this stuff works
@lesiempipou27
6 жыл бұрын
But I have to admit, what you said on this vidoe is very true, I have to thank you
@ApolloniaPonti
6 жыл бұрын
Thank you Louis!
@ElisPhotoVideo
4 жыл бұрын
Hello Apollonia! I never write comments but I really wanted to thank you for this video. I felt like my life went dark when my gf of 2 years ended things, and after this video it gave me the confidence to move forward in life. I still love her a lot but I now had it clicked in my head that self confidence is important and I noticed where I was failing. I recently got into religion with a full heart and now my life is better I find myself a lot happier. I thank you for pushing this knowledge and information into my thick skull. I just pray things get better with time and that I can approach my ex with a better mindset and overall improved person. Thanks so much!!!
@anthonydavid-ubi6682
5 жыл бұрын
This is a really educating insight. Thank you. I actually realized that if we don't keep checking ourselves we will discover that we may end up creating rooms for insecurity and being needy
@deshaundavis6326
3 жыл бұрын
When a woman makes me her main focus and her life/needy. She becomes annoying and vice versa for women. I don't even like it when they respond to my texts too quick. I like a woman to have her own life and include me in it and vice versa for women I'm guessing. If I feel this way I know woman feel this way. Everything you're saying is true Ms.PonTi
@psychedelicrelic8805
5 жыл бұрын
Wow you addressed the issues I've been having right now as a young 19 year old. I do tend to form myself around relationships and it does push them away. Also hit the point about being too available. Thank you so much, I've been really insecure about putting myself out there cause I know I still have a lot to work on with myself.
@ApolloniaPonti
5 жыл бұрын
I'm glad you are working on your insecurities, Because you are important!
@SlipandBangBoxing
5 жыл бұрын
This woman MANNN I like her she is really honest
@rokusful
6 жыл бұрын
Profound... Love the part u say..." Guys should focus on their goals" brings out confidence hence vision is a sure thing... Thanks Ponti🤜🙏.. you are blessed.
@ApolloniaPonti
6 жыл бұрын
Thank you Frank! :)
@hzafary
4 жыл бұрын
Insecurity is real and there should be more support for it, instead of shame. It’s easier for girls to find a quick fix of self validation and attention by downloading a dating app on their phone. Many guys won’t have that experience, even if they are a good catch.
@nelsonstreet1552
5 жыл бұрын
This is absolutely amazing. I'm in a new relationship that is everything I've ever dreamed of. She hasn't said anything yet but I feel myself being needy. And I know I am. If I dont get a text back in a decent time..the anxiety starts and just downward spirals. Then I get the text and there..everything is okay. And repeat. It's so hard to get out of this pattern. Its so damaging and destructive to myself.
@kaotykberi4433
5 жыл бұрын
Feeling exactly the same. Any updates?
@brianjohnson9456
4 жыл бұрын
I’ve been there & it’s nerve wracking to say the least, but I’m getting there. Slowing down & doing what AP said, learn, love and grow myself to the point that if she doesn’t respond well, I can move on. I just had an experience with a beautiful lady. After 3 conversations, it was over. Instead of me, holding on and begging like a dog, I just let it go and kept it movin. It was sorta hard, but you gotta be a man, put the car in drive and GO!!
@travisandrews3909
2 жыл бұрын
So am i
@marouanthekiller
Жыл бұрын
dude having the same issue here
@JB-mh5xy
11 ай бұрын
Treat her like the trash the video wants you to treat them like. That's the only thing you can do. You're not allowed to care about them.
@luisterrust
4 жыл бұрын
Being needy indicates LACK and therefore creates MORE lack :)
@saadielmehdizemmouri2692
5 жыл бұрын
PS: Never use the phrase : "I apologize for being needy"
@michalrojas1206
5 жыл бұрын
Can you explain why?
@jsalhia
5 жыл бұрын
You don't have to explain everything to a woman. You can keep it to yourself and change for the better
@felliperamos5620
5 жыл бұрын
I wish I knew that
@soro80rs
4 жыл бұрын
Don't become an actor. Take advise, but don't change. Stay away from attractive women. Too much competition. Have sex with them, but don't take them serious. Fall in Love with a women's heart. Why do you think most promiscuous women are attractive. Most men learn you can't love them, they have too many options.
@Broken-xi5io
4 жыл бұрын
Good call, apologizing for something like that just more attention to what makes u undesirable. Recognize your mistake and try to change, adapt and move forward. Also constantly apologizing for something like that is a red flag that you will probably not learn from your mistakes and rely on apologizing for everything.
@hershchat
3 жыл бұрын
Apollonia makes a lot sense, and has a deeper insight than most KZitem advisors. One of the things to add is, what makes a man lose control and act needy. This could be a personality trait. It is, however, often a reaction to big misalignment in values and differences in communication styles. Here is an example... the woman might have a different “ideal” interaction with guys at work, and the man might with women at work, then the spouse is comfortable with. People are full of contradictions, and expect one thing for themselves, while allowing another for the other. She might be ok staying in touch with past boy friends. You may find it quite disturbing that she keeps his Jersey in her closet front and center. Of, have albums of their trips together. You feel diminished. Hurt. To compensate, you fulminate, or try and seek greater signals of attachment. She has no clue how this is affecting you, and suddenly you’re both in torment and confusion. It is really important you be able to communicate. However, if your values are TOTALLY opposed, honesty and openness do not assure communication. You mean different things from “honesty” and “attention” and “being there”. It is time to skiddadle. A lot of shallow takes in comments below.
@lifeofc7170
5 жыл бұрын
As Jay Shetty said, " Many will Travel The World with You but Very Few will Travel Challenges with You " Same goes with " Many will want you but few will Invest in you " know the difference between being a Priority and an Option. " A KING never begs someone who leaves his THRONE "
@vt3musicproduction
4 жыл бұрын
Hi! Thank you for telling us men how to be better, independent but caring, strong but passionate,confident but always the gentlemen when it comes to the ladies were are interested in.
@JDA89
6 жыл бұрын
Patrice O'neal said it best fellas "How does a fish teach a fisherman how to fish?" A fish would never get caught if it knew that much about itself. 😔Miss that brotha. But alas, here I am buying Salmon bait for the Koi pond.
@iron-farmer
5 жыл бұрын
This guy.
@TheDRexor
4 жыл бұрын
Never get rid of your boat fellas
@YouTubeIsTheGestapo
3 жыл бұрын
The key is finding that sweet spot where you’re not texting too much or too little
@ADDIDASSSSSSSSSSSSSS
4 жыл бұрын
When I want to impress the ladies, I just put on a really nice pair of rainbow suspenders. Thanks Apollonia for this great fashion tip.
@gwadzy4574
3 жыл бұрын
She is the best... she has respect...
@leerobinson8979
5 жыл бұрын
Your the sister that I never had .Your advice is real and very valuable thank you☺
@elisecody2828
4 жыл бұрын
Apollonia, I appreciate all your dedication and creativity to better the lives of men for women. Omg! I wish you nothing but the best in life ✊🏽
@daviddanforth6103
4 жыл бұрын
Damn I really am gonna die alone
@romans8024
4 жыл бұрын
Start fucking up online, analyse every interraction as deeply as possible. You will learn, trust me.
@fahadsafdaraliqadri3183
4 жыл бұрын
after watching this video how could u say this what else she forgot to to cover
@garbonratslayer1387
4 жыл бұрын
Last time I checked coffins were only made for one person.
@zergl1ng526
4 жыл бұрын
XD
@sphamandlamashalaba2733
4 жыл бұрын
lmao
@infinitywarrior1017
5 жыл бұрын
Apollonia Ponti a blessing to this world.
@secfeed6987
5 жыл бұрын
Freedom is key, and don't objectify woman, you don't own them. You need to be comfortable being alone before you can have a relationship with someone. Your woman should be your support, your wing-woman, she gets you back on track for those times when you stumble. In return you should be her protector, her rock, and most of all assertive but not controlling, and together you develop a strong bond and grow together, love will come. Great advice by the way :-)
@propman1823
5 жыл бұрын
This woman knows what shes talking about love it!
@ApolloniaPonti
5 жыл бұрын
Hello, Thank you for your support! Best, Apollonia
@propman1823
5 жыл бұрын
@@ApolloniaPonti xxx
@scammero
5 жыл бұрын
very helpful... this is exactly the situation I'm in right now... thank u soooo much
@kerongomez1387
4 жыл бұрын
Thanks for the wisdom am in a situation where my friend said she needed to find herself I took it personal but after your video. I realize I wasn’t working on myself I stop doing the things I enjoy and became needy/ overwhelmed texting. Now everything makes sense now hate to say this but it’s does lower a man confidence . I going about this all wrong crazy !!!! I going start working on my self just text her maybe once week or just send her something once a month and she happens.
@jplatter6629
5 жыл бұрын
I agree with this on the whole but there's another layer to interacting with women you are interested in. I would say...pressure. With friends there's no expectation, no desire, no motivation to take a risk and flirt, seduce, or ask out on a date- you can simply be yourself and do essentially nothing. Relationships require work, even from step one. Theres an effort, a tension, a movement- you have to do something to make something happen. That's where the pressure can come from; you have to stick your neck out.
@travisandrews3909
2 жыл бұрын
That is a fact
@wandilemahlalela571
4 жыл бұрын
This Chanel is really helpful a lot I have a lot of uncertainty about my relationship at this point and this content makes me go through the though emotions easier
@lesiempipou27
6 жыл бұрын
women want this a lil bit of that but not too much of this, but you have to be that but not much like this... ohhhh 😔
@pittyman13
6 жыл бұрын
That's what I keep hearing
@donchello2128
6 жыл бұрын
Yup
@mac1bc
6 жыл бұрын
You got it 😉
@shodak9445
5 жыл бұрын
Well it’s he man’s job to hunt and the women are prey
@kingclem3511
5 жыл бұрын
Shoda Katsura アイスミルク a man chases a woman until she catches him
@oscarchow1485
4 жыл бұрын
Very helpful.. I get lost sometimes like i need some arguement for making her feel my presence, and yes she is busy sometimes and im a needy guy like need her all the time i admit that im kinda childish but after watching this video.. I know what im gonna to do!! Thanks a lot!!
@anthonydavid-ubi6682
5 жыл бұрын
This is a really educating insight. Thank you. I actually realized that if we don't keep checking ourselves we will discover that we may end up creating rooms for insecurity and being needy
@travisandrews3909
2 жыл бұрын
Defiantly bro
@spirit-teacher
3 жыл бұрын
I'm so glad you exist as our awesome coach.
@jamesrobinson2017
5 жыл бұрын
This is great, almost felt like a TED Talk. Come to Houston!
@ApolloniaPonti
5 жыл бұрын
Thanks so much! I will come to Houston soon. :)
@d.m.messick
3 жыл бұрын
I really enjoy your advice and it has resonated with me. I’m in my 40’s m, divorced after along relationship. Dated a few woman over 18months and then boom. Met someone and we’ve had amazing chemistry. After almost 5 months of spending a ton of time with each other she’s quickly turned a bit cold and said she needs space. I’m trying to give it to her...it is very hard as we most definitely care deeply about each other. I will continue to give her space and be cool about things. And do my thing
@t.l.7733
3 жыл бұрын
You are so right. I've been focusing on myself for years.I do everything by myself (movies, cook, travel, sleep,& exercise), realizing I have no one to yell at me, control me, not appreciate me, cheat on me, lie to me, spend my hard earned $$, ridicule me, shame me, & use me. There's absolutely no benefit of having a woman in my life now.Thank you.
@thabangkings3748
3 жыл бұрын
wow...this is really relieving. its like a whole weight lifted off my shoulders.
@MrFusc
6 жыл бұрын
Apollonia, that is excellent advice, well done!
@ApolloniaPonti
6 жыл бұрын
Thank you!
@athinavarnava1668
4 жыл бұрын
I wish your channel was geared more towards women but still can apply everything very helpful.
@matthewwalsh3399
3 жыл бұрын
Wow you knocked me across the face with the 'you don't have your own life ' .. damn necessary pain. Thx
@MTSpade
5 жыл бұрын
its seriously a no win, we're nice and do everything right and they pull away and go cold, obviously anyone would be offended by that, but then theyre like oh well you want this too much so bye..wtf?? of course we do! otherwise we wouldnt be trying to hit on you, gimme a break..
@islandknight6105
5 жыл бұрын
“Go ride a motorcycle” ... tell that to my wife 😂
@DesignInnovator1
4 жыл бұрын
She is amazing this video helped me a lot! That's what I exactly needed! I just started love myself more than anyone now! And everything is settled
@IJustFiguredThisOut
5 жыл бұрын
My ex cheating on me made me extremely insecure. Being cheated on makes you feel like the smallest man on the planet. So with my current girl, I feel extremely insecure sometimes, and it all stems from my ex. It is so hard to get past that and get rid of that flaw.
@airric166
4 жыл бұрын
I know what your going through. Exact thing happened to me. We were married for 12 years and together for 19. Very hard but you and I both cannot blame the new girl as what your ex did. I remarried and my now wife says to not blame me for your past ex actions. She is right and just have to trust her. There are loyal women out there. Baby steps bro.
@kickass5506
Жыл бұрын
This was so good to hear. I kinda knew it but I just had to hear it from someone else 😊
@shareemmiddleton5748
4 жыл бұрын
Women dont like men being needy but once in the relationship they become needy as hell I'm confused. What do women want?
@isoccerpluse
4 жыл бұрын
When you're in the "talking phase" it's just about getting to know each other, if you come off as needy to soon it's a bad thing. But once you're in a relationship then you're friendship is on another level.
@wiseman6723
4 жыл бұрын
They don’t know what they want 😂😂😂
@soro80rs
4 жыл бұрын
Set boundaries. Tell them how you've been needy, have been with needy women. Don't repeat your mistakes.
@mdnajim8805
3 жыл бұрын
They want successful men
@creativezangthai3113
4 жыл бұрын
Best dating teacher in the world
@robertverdi2194
6 жыл бұрын
I really like your videos and enjoy hearing from a woman’s perspective. I have tendency to a little obsessive and have to keep these things in mind.
@ismailelmassaoudi4317
4 жыл бұрын
thank you apollonia i feel a lot better now
@juliasharrazin71
4 жыл бұрын
The idea of a guy being clingy is actually a turn on for me n for my friends.
@profonicsgaming7870
3 жыл бұрын
That's just what you think...if you did get that you wouldn't want it
@thulasmash2195
3 жыл бұрын
I wouldn't take relationship advise from a woman unless that woman is Apollonia Ponti
@stephenmartin6714
4 жыл бұрын
Im a be real. I KNOW i needed this. That's exactly why i watched it. Key things i needed
@BadassBobY
4 жыл бұрын
Stephen Martin you 'Needy'ed this
@josuecortez2259
5 жыл бұрын
Thank you! I needed this video. I've been feeling abit out of touch with my game and this is helping me redirect my focus.
@thedukeofyewaland
4 жыл бұрын
Honestly, you teach from the heart. One could tell you genuinely wish men out there the very best. Keep up the good work!
@stephenmartin6714
4 жыл бұрын
It all goes back to you working on yourself and pursuing your purpose, goals and dreams. Powerful
@giftevans984
3 жыл бұрын
Im emotional ryt now 😢.... truly amazing.
@Tanmay.s689
4 жыл бұрын
People feel insecure the most when they're in love truly with someone and can't lose them Even if someone else approaches why would they leave the person for whom they were insecure about in the first place
@RahulChoudhary-rd3nw
2 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for really giving us so much positive energy and confidence that we really needs most importantly when we are actually down and you teach us in such a manner that it’s is so open that we already know but don’t implement because of insecurities but one must have strong will and determination in oneself to go through all this. Again thanks a lot to make me realise what I have to do. You are the best
@carolimendez6661
5 жыл бұрын
I thought no communication is the key to bring love but that messed everything up
@bernardmanzie6078
3 жыл бұрын
Focus on improving yourself. Great teaching.
@paulwilson824
6 жыл бұрын
Thanks for the video Apollonia, some helpful tips there.
@rondickey6085
5 жыл бұрын
Now, in this video, u really get to the heart of me.. I'm to needy to self conscious, and right now I keep thinking abt this girl at work, like how can I say the thing to get her to go with me.. All things u talk abt... Can u do a video on "how to get that girl at work"?
@ThornOfHearts
4 жыл бұрын
I've officially closed my heart. I know what I want and I want to give it but at this point to hell with it.
@xdrxx3448
5 жыл бұрын
This video really hits home for me been going through this recently. Thanks for the help!
@LiveAKAMuzik
6 жыл бұрын
Because she is pregnant with my child, they are my everything, it’s called happiness
@kennedycubo7505
5 жыл бұрын
Im in the same boat. I dont want lose my family . I dont want my child to grow up in two different households
@jhonhernandario2335
4 жыл бұрын
I feel u.. but sometimes its a better thing u can do let thing go
@LoveNLight1111
4 жыл бұрын
Marry her then
@MrSolidLuxury
3 жыл бұрын
I really have full understanding 😳 Wow
@PUREMIA
3 жыл бұрын
I knew she had all the dating knowledge in the world when I watched the first 30 seconds
@Honour_Da_Dragon
4 жыл бұрын
Apollo you are very optimistically inspiration, thank you for making videos
@RajSingh-rc2zz
5 жыл бұрын
Just be yourself in front of others and focus on being the best version of you... I think that works best
@ApolloniaPonti
5 жыл бұрын
Thank you for your comment:)
@James-he4cr
5 жыл бұрын
Give her some time to think about you and wonder what your doing. Even your at home doing nothing, don’t let her know it. Show her your good with or without her.
@Apoc6
5 жыл бұрын
Seeking validation may not really be the issue. When others see you and feed you validation without it being solicited, that can cause an addiction. It can cause one to become a narcissist.
@audiodrocher
Жыл бұрын
Major career advancements & massive muscle gains in just 4 weeks of no contact. Sure, that’s exactly how it works.
@AndyPiranha
4 жыл бұрын
You know what I don’t get about that „Don‘t pay too much attention to the woman“? I did it that way in several cases, then realized that I like that woman, invested more time and she started to feel under pressure. Back again, she started to feel not appreciated enough. Where the fuck is the golden middle?
@madysantana3531
3 жыл бұрын
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🙌🏽
@Jtronique
4 жыл бұрын
Ms. Ponti, let me thank you again for your excellent insights!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
@cyrusmukubira8689
5 жыл бұрын
wow, I don't even know where to start from to thank u for what you are doing for but I appreciate every message thank u 👏👏
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