"They fart and poop as well", I didn't see that one coming! 😂 But it's so true! ❤️
@_am.prince
Жыл бұрын
Fr 😂
@Quack_attack_
Жыл бұрын
Unless they're like the North Korean leader in the interview and doesn't have a butthole cuz they have no use for 1 😂
@noelalexis3239
Жыл бұрын
😂😂😂
@schonstudio
6 ай бұрын
that helps 😂😂😂
@lindamoi5445
4 ай бұрын
Why should that be a flaw? 😄
@khushib9390
7 ай бұрын
This makes so much sense right now. Hopefully my next couple of days won’t be as horrible as today after hearing these as all of these three things rings true for me. The person I am obsessing over isn’t bad but I am becoming miserable more and more and it feels terrible.
@fathimaraeesah6232
7 ай бұрын
I feel u
@merylo4360
5 ай бұрын
Hi! Me too😢!!! How are you doing now?😊
@burpeesquad
Ай бұрын
Omg I'm in the same boat.. Were you able to get over it? Any tips?
@aestheticdiary3
3 ай бұрын
Sometimes it's not about obsess over something that u don't have..... But it's about naturally drawn to Someone, like them even after knwing their flaws.
@--RD--
Жыл бұрын
I see his flaws yet obsess over him
@fasilaahh_
8 ай бұрын
How about now? R u over him?
@Akarsh-
6 ай бұрын
Me as well. Its like 'okay, that's not a big issue, I can adjust with her' thoughts which neglect any flaws. But would love to know your current status. Hope you're doing good.
@alexinivai08
5 ай бұрын
If you do then you know that there are more people like him that will like you :)
@Sunflower_that_loves_you
4 ай бұрын
Same😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭help me lord
@talktalk2412
4 ай бұрын
me too!
@sararatliff7707
2 ай бұрын
I've been stuck in limerence with twice in the past five years. My current LO has been bouncing around my head for over a year and a half. Both these men are highly-successful actors. A big part of my obsession with them has been jealousy. They are men my age who came from healthier home lives and had support from their parents. They also had the guts to pursue a career that I was scared away from. They spend their adulthood living their dreams, while I floundered in a nightmare. They are also very gentlemanly and want to bring back codes of honor that men should follow when dating women. They are all the things that no one ever gave me growing up and that I never learned how to give myself. Intellectually I know that these men probably have their own neuroses and flaws, but I still keep feeling like they are perfect, and that being with them meant that I could be healed by them. Shows just how much work I have to do on myself.
@SoulfulJim1
5 ай бұрын
I’m not sure this video tells you how to stop obsessing over someone, but, by my experience, she is spot on about the reasons for the obsession. What if you can’t get close enough to see the person’s flaws? I wish I could help by giving some advice myself, but I haven’t figured it out yet.
@kris2455
3 ай бұрын
If you know your reason, you have the solution. Obsession is a symptom, an important information about yourself and a chance to change. What to change depends on the reason of the obsession. If you put the person above everybody else, you need to focus on their imperfections. This will help you, to see them as a human they really are and stop obsessing If it's shadow work, you need to find out what is missing in your life and what this person represents for you and find it on your own. If it's trauma from childhood, you need to work on self love and probably go to therapy. If it's a combination you need an approach that tackels it all, see them as a human not a God, understand what is it that you admire and give it to yourself, try to love yourself and feel that you are worthy of love, a beautiful love from someone else then this person who triggers you so much. I think it was very helpful....more than anything I have every heard in the last 30 years that I suffer from this kind of attachments over and over again
@Theone-ou2xt
Жыл бұрын
Trauma touch and qualities of the person you are obsessing are interesting points, but even knowing those won't cure limerence ,it is really stubborn thing.
@a_bamble8328
7 ай бұрын
It’s the sex for me - no one has even come close to it. How do you stop obsessing over someone because they’re so amazing in bed? That’s what’s hard - you’ll bypass all their flaws because their love making is unmatched!!!
@amardaniell
7 ай бұрын
Exactly this 😭
@melodyal3357
6 ай бұрын
And especially when there is chemistry and connection and it’s like spiritual. Both ways. Even thou they are bad for you, you might think or the relationship isn’t working, you’d still choose this person over someone nice and better but not that deep connection and no wild chemistry, right🙌
@alexandranun
4 ай бұрын
delusion
@mimihernandez9413
22 күн бұрын
Story of my life
@philippe_
Жыл бұрын
You saved my life right now
@abdelrahmansalah5765
Жыл бұрын
your talks always make sense
@monroe-yq9vm
16 күн бұрын
Thank you. I have a boyfriend but i was obsessed with this guy who i don't like romantically but i would always see what they posted n all and at then end i felt like i was doing it wrong for me and my boyfriend. But after watching this video i realised that i was obsessed with him not because i like him but because he is confident, has friends and is selectively social and enjoys life...and i do none of that .
@yeldana7044
10 ай бұрын
please make a podcast episode on this topic🙏🏼
@distantlight4527
2 ай бұрын
Man - nail on the head with the second point re the shadow.
@evolvegetinspired2221
7 ай бұрын
This video is an eye opener , i really appreciate ❤ the genuine valid points to be looked after if we ever get trap into that scenario. Really helpful and so much grateful to hear this. 😅 thank you 🙏
@kellyscourfield77
2 ай бұрын
I have a new obsession, over someone I’ve never met. Since watching a music video, I was just utterly captivated by them and I realise it’s pointless and will pass in its own time. Although it was nice at first I feel it’s now all intrusive and I’m not enjoying it anymore.
@dearmaria4654
5 ай бұрын
I'm a "beautiful, successful" woman but is currently obsessed with a rough, unorganized avoidant 😂 He was into me at first and then left. Just left haha i think it's my pride taking over, I cant handle being rejected this way, so I became obsessed in winning him back, for what? He's no good for me. 😅
@Seven11seven7
4 ай бұрын
How are you now
@FrefireLostKitty402
3 ай бұрын
I want to get over it too
@cyusainnocente9605
9 ай бұрын
What can we do if we need a lot of attention from those people were are obsessed with, but can't get it 😢
@alexandranun
4 ай бұрын
Yup I found my fathers doppelgänger it touched my trauma I was trying to redue my childhood in hopes it would fix me but I wasn’t aware…
@alexandranun
2 ай бұрын
@EYRM9 Thank You for the confirmation as I gave myself to God fully 3 months ago.. 🙏
@Factsforfun_001
2 ай бұрын
Im in love with a guy who is a charecter in a show nd this is the first time im in love with some show or charecter I want to low my obsession but I also want to think about him all the time❤
@wildmansamurai3663
Жыл бұрын
Very good talk. 😎
@JonathanPhiri-x9u
10 ай бұрын
Thank you i never knew it was like that 😢
@indianappguy
Жыл бұрын
Thanks for this video Francesca
@Star4bies
10 ай бұрын
Love this thankyou❤
@dipa_ahuja
Жыл бұрын
Where can I see full video of this podcast?
@diaryofacarny
2 ай бұрын
oh jebus, it's far simpler than this.
@edwizard62
Жыл бұрын
At 3:03, you said you can get cuddles from anyone. False. Maybe for a beautiful woman like you, but it's not that easy for a normal looking person like myself.
@katleen.sanches
8 ай бұрын
Makes sense!
@alexanderkane3960
2 ай бұрын
I have never farted in front of anyone. I’m just saying 😅
@jzlasif6395
3 ай бұрын
" It's mostly an IMAGINATION "😭 ( And I felt that..... ) 08/06/2024
@rapararapapa7623
Жыл бұрын
What if someone just obcesses over any woman they find attractive
@waitin-4-a-m8
Жыл бұрын
Perhaps they feel like their options are limited, maybe if they themselves feel their lives aren't fulfilling. Having meaning & purpose, and taking care of oneself-both internally & healthwise-makes you more likely to believe that your options are abundant and you don't necessarily to chase anyone in particular if you yourself are the prize. Being in a mindset of scarcity means you'd be more likely to cling onto people
@kimayajadhav5566
6 ай бұрын
All this is true but how are these techniques
@andreawatkins67
8 ай бұрын
I see them as completely flawed and it makes me more attracted to them
@FOWLR235
Ай бұрын
good Lord, you hit the nail on the head, this is exactly what I am experiencing especially it’s not the kill. It’s the thrill of the chase and I mean you nailed it however you did not tell us how to stop.
@jubogregorio3740
9 ай бұрын
At the moment i was obssesed with this girl and i cant help my self thinking about her .. i know to myself that i cannot love her or even respect her .. maybe some of you know what im talking about .. thats why i wonder why im so obsessed with her even in the first place she doesnt deserve my love and loyalty specially my respect ..hope this will help you too
@Travel_with_ab10
5 ай бұрын
Same here but still love her don't know why!!!!
@godstallchild7964
3 ай бұрын
@@Travel_with_ab10it’s hard to
@douglass1940
Ай бұрын
Maybe I'm the Person I didn't want to be(Me Simpin😢)
@lorenzovenenzuela8185
Жыл бұрын
IF YOURE THINKING THAT YOURE NOT HELPING US YOURE ACTUALLYYY HELPINGG MEE ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️ THANKKK YOUUU VERY MUCHHH ❤ I just listened the podcast and it was amazing🌷 thank youuuu
@Nick_Nightingale
22 күн бұрын
1. Make a list of 5 things you DO NOT like about the person. 2. Stop using their name. 3. Delete all social media connections, pictures and videos of the person. 4. Get new hobbies/interests.
@aok6807
6 ай бұрын
correct because that person has all the bad traits i am afraid to be but i find brave to be and have. so true that's he is my shadow
@beyondallreason-du4pq
17 күн бұрын
I pretend he is doing voodoo on me😂
@qtben17
5 ай бұрын
straightforward points ideas. Thank you
@ajmal2559
Жыл бұрын
I finally found what's going on in my life
@glorissima_
Ай бұрын
This is so cool that you are a guest on a podcast ❤ very happy for you !! 👏 🎉
@lorenamacalipay6529
Ай бұрын
the last point is so on point im crying because is so true in my case
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