My wife of 51 years and I flip a quarter if we can't decide. Heads we do, tails we don't. Never fight over decisions. If it doesn't work out we blame the quarter.
@neffyiffy
Жыл бұрын
I LOVE this
@cleaneropinion111
Жыл бұрын
😂😂😂 Sometime we want to flip it again. Like Im more into the second choice. Let's try again!
@prettypookie_333
Жыл бұрын
that's adorable😭
@justanothermortal1373
10 ай бұрын
I don't think you can apply this for big decisions
@jaimiemarie434
8 ай бұрын
When we want to reflip the coin then we know it’s the other side we really wanted.
@veryberry39
Жыл бұрын
"Done is better than perfect" is what I repeated to myself over and over again, every week last year when I went back to school and finished my degree. It was only one class, but it's been almost 20 years and I felt like I wasn't doing a good job on my papers. So I had to tell myself that as long as I turned them in, I wouldn't fail and that was all that counted.
@ThereseDavidson
Жыл бұрын
Love it, i Will borrow this!
@shruthirajaram1996
Жыл бұрын
This is what I'm telling myself
@notJohnRambo
Жыл бұрын
But still be aware of consequences of your acts
@resistancenotneedbfutile
Жыл бұрын
All you can do is your best. I have had teachers who failed everyone but min allowed. Luckily one of those classes, Engr Physics 1 & 2 I had to take at a community College & transfer credits. I got 2 C grades. But credits, not grades transferred. Whew.
@nasreen1581
Жыл бұрын
Would the ‘done is better than perfect ‘philosophy work out for choosing a degree? I understand most people know what they want to study but I was very good at school, chose a major in college because I had no idea what I wanted to do and I listened to what my parents said. Now I’ve worked 4 years in the field but I can’t quite shake the feeling of wanting to do something else but I still don’t know what to do. I want to pursue a masters but i’m torn between choosing something related to my existing degree or something completely new.
@quarteracreadventures855
Жыл бұрын
"If you choose not to decide you still have made a choice" -Rush, 'Freewill'
@jumanji9869
Жыл бұрын
Your contents are really better than going to any psychologist and therapist. It's clear, crisp, to the point and without any drama. Thank you for your efforts to make us feel better.
@RiasLight
Жыл бұрын
That's kind of you dude
@somehuman6300
Жыл бұрын
What do you mean by "without any drama?" What kind of drama do you usually experience?
@jumanji9869
Жыл бұрын
@@somehuman6300 Some podcast tend to motivate it's viewers by shouting and yelling in annoying tones, with really loud background track. It's hurtful to hear them.
@somehuman6300
Жыл бұрын
@@jumanji9869 Thanks for explaining this. Are you saying one of the reasons you like this channel is because her voice is calming?
@sariajoseph6671
Жыл бұрын
I can’t access the class
@nokronis
Жыл бұрын
I'm 33 and this has destroyed my life the past 10 years, I even went to a school therapist and they said I needed to see a career councilor... that didn't help. I wish I knew I needed help sooner, and that it could be fixed.
@Kevin97587
Жыл бұрын
I feel the same. My entire life (im 31) i have been unable to make any important decisions, so i just dont make decisions and let life kinda decide for me.. I postpone things untill i no longer have the choice. I boiled it down to mainly being afraid of making the wrong choice and then hating myself for making a wrong choice. Im trying to change this but its very difficult..
@Ivy-lr9if
Жыл бұрын
@@Kevin97587exactly on the same boat here. it's very difficult to change... and i'm turning 32 this year...
@Aceinine
Жыл бұрын
"Life will choose for you. if you don't" - sometimes these insightful harsh realities are what you need to hear, to start taking those decisive first steps. Beautiful content :)
@MZBS639
Жыл бұрын
But isnt the decision made then? I believe the Most important Thing to learn about decisions is that we Put too much significance in Them.
@estheraraujo8263
Жыл бұрын
You always come in a perfect time of need. Thank you for your help. It always makes me feel better and confident🙏
@JVPlayz96
Жыл бұрын
Agreed
@TherapyinaNutshell
Жыл бұрын
I'm so glad!
@crazyop5165
Жыл бұрын
@@TherapyinaNutshell thank u😊😇
@francescagreetham1804
Жыл бұрын
“There is no perfect decision” really hit me. That’s… so true.
@TomasGarza-b5d
5 ай бұрын
there should be with enough data
@audreajohnson9339
Жыл бұрын
Thanks so much for this. As a single mom I struggle with this a lot and whether I am capable of making the best decisions for my daughter.
@TherapyinaNutshell
Жыл бұрын
Glad it was helpful!
@manarmahmood3538
Жыл бұрын
"A finished PhD is a good PhD", this is similar to the done is better than perfect mantra and is what got me through finishing my thesis. Thanks a lot for this. Cant wait to hear about executive functioning as I struggle with prioritization and identifying what is important during decision-making!
@afrinakhanam4696
Жыл бұрын
OMG! I am going through the same dilemma. My defense is in 2 weeks!
@manarmahmood3538
Жыл бұрын
@@afrinakhanam4696 I wish you all the best. I know how you must be feeling. Just know that your the expert in your work, and this is was the work you could do given the time and resources you had. Be upfront about any limitations or weakness and say future research can examine them further. You’ve got this ☺️
@egreeno
2 ай бұрын
Hearing "you are resilient. You can handle an imperfect outcome" brought a tear to my eye. Thank you. I didn't even know I needed to hear that. ❤️
@tawnykc83
Жыл бұрын
This video could not have come at a more perfect time! I have been completely emotionally paralyzed which is starting to cause me to be physically paralyzed because I'm so overwhelmed about making decisions. Today, I could barely move and all I wanted to do was go back to sleep. I rarely take naps anymore because I suffer from insomnia (whole other issue). I thought the nap might reboot my brain, which it sometimes does, but the nap made me feel worse 😫 I feel like I've made the wrong decisions in the past so I'm terrified of making more bad decisions. Lately I have been procrastinating and giving my mind a "brain break" by watching shows that make me laugh. However, I've also been educating myself on the project I want to start. I have so many ideas in my head but I find it difficult to put those ideas into practice. I'm definitely an over thinker but I want to be a doer. I'm not lazy. I just want to do something that has meaning. But sometimes I can barely get out of bed and I'm not even 40 years old yet 😞 Thank you for making these videos to help me feel a little less alone.
@yuurou7927
25 күн бұрын
Fighting depression for over 10 years took a toll on my ability to actively do things. I feel strong bodily reaction whenever I try to decide anything or even think about doing things I usually don't do. I give myself a year to slowly make progress now. I have to remind myself almost daily that change doesn't happen overnight just to not paralyzed by guilt and fear.
@KelsonBurnsSenior
Жыл бұрын
Hi Emma, I saw this quote and thought of you. "Just as the acorn contains the mighty oak tree, the Self has everything it needs to fulfill its destiny. When the inner conditions are right, it naturally emerges."
@alexandrakovacs846
Жыл бұрын
Thank you! "Avoiding risk can mean that you end up disappointed and lonely" really, really hit me at the point! Thanks for your effort of explaining it! :)
@mellowmeowsInc
Жыл бұрын
This video hit me right in the feels. I'm a chronic overthinker and this is just what I needed to hear. Thanks for the great content!
@elevenbyfive
Жыл бұрын
What i find hardest is when i all options seem equally good or bad and people say 'just pick one, it doesn't matter which.' I need CRITERIA! I don't know how to handle it when there is no wrong or right answer.
@brittneygilchrist2744
Жыл бұрын
Exactly what I needed today! Huge love!! 🥰 Thanks beautiful!!
@insomniaccxx
Жыл бұрын
just woke up, so much things ramping on my mind, don't know where and when to start my day, and you pop up in my yt homepage. " imperfect decisions is greater than doing nothing" "its picking anything and being resilient of the outcome" ❤❤
@nicholasousby4042
24 күн бұрын
I can’t tell you how much this video has helped me today!! I’ve been struggling with a decision for months about relocating my life, if I don’t try I’ll never know! ❤🎉🎉🎉
@JDubeta
23 күн бұрын
Thank you SOO MUCH for this video. You are a god-send. Anxiety-avoidance and analysis paralysis is it's own kind of HELL. Thank you, I found this really helpful, and learned a lot!
@theologytherapist
Жыл бұрын
So good to remind ourselves that we are more capable and and smarter than we think! There's so much value in the habit of affirming yourself and being aware of how you function, so that you can support yourself as best as you can.
@crystal338
Жыл бұрын
I’ve watched this twice already. This video continues to be helpful. It makes me realize how spoiled we are. Trying to make a decision about what car to buy. Adding options adds a lot of money. I’m worried about silly things like well I regret every day if I don’t have a sunroof. If you’re going to pay tens of thousands of dollars for something you should get exactly what you want. But the price just keeps going up and the decision making has paralyzed me as always. This video definitely helps. Thanks!
@hanjnk
Жыл бұрын
You have done more for me than any therapist has ever done. I hope you realise the power you have. Thankyou so much for saving my life on many occasions ♥️
@TravisGoodman
Жыл бұрын
This is great! Great quick overview of the background. My favorite part is the need to address the underlying emotions fueling our thoughts. As a therapist myself, this is a crucial thing I teach most if not all my clients. I have them first STOP to take time to reflect, get in touch with their bodily response, and identify their thoughts and emotions. From there often we can find some emotional need, oftentimes a fear that needs to be addressed. This often comes from a younger part of us that might have been wounded in the past. Once we give a voice to that part, once we allow that part to be seen, to be heard, it often has a positive change and impact in the present.
@ali18398
Жыл бұрын
Thank you Emma 💖 I've been torn between leaving my job or not for past couple of months! I even turned in my resignation, but was being lured back with an offer of a small favour! Your video, helped me clear up my head! Thanks again! Be blessed!
@rubin-healmysocialanxiety702
Жыл бұрын
👏
@beautyamongashes8378
Жыл бұрын
After putting this all together it sounds like I need to work on my self confidence and self esteem!
@oldsoul3539
16 күн бұрын
It took me a long while to realise I was trying to choose "the right answer" when all the options were good. I realised that the harder the decision is to make the less it matters because it means they're all exactly as good
@rebeccajones8628
Жыл бұрын
Early trauma makes decision making later in life more difficult.
@lira8058
2 ай бұрын
This. I'm still dealing with poor decision on the past, so the past few years has been all about analysing too much before making any decision at all...
@DianeZyrix
Жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for this information, you're very helpful and inspiring 🥰
@floridanativelh568
Жыл бұрын
You are a blessing. The time and devotion to this channel is so appreciated. You manage to put out consistently excellent content along with raising a family and being a great wife. We. Appreciate. You. ❤❤❤❤
@lizziewalker7844
3 ай бұрын
I’ve been doing this so badly with trying to choose which way I want to lose weight. I’ve tried numerous diets but I just can’t stick with anything. After watching this I believe I’ve convinced myself I’ll just put the weight back on so I avoid choosing an approach and want to look for that perfect decision. Which you’ve stated doesn’t exist! So now I need to decide how to move forward.
@FordMustangYT
Жыл бұрын
I've been overthinking for all 4 years of my high school career. Now starting out as a Freshman in college next week, I hope this video will be a clear crisp reminder that any decision is better than no decision, and there will always be some risk with it, because that is what life is all about! I find it very inspirational! Heck Ulysses S. Grant took chances as General and Union Head Commander in the Civil War! Not every one was perfect, but making a decision definitely showed a better outcome! All of this time I was thinking like George McClellan whom which Lincoln fired for being so cautious. Not anymore!
@zejewelzstanley
Жыл бұрын
I love and appreciate the hell out of you for all your videos. You have no idea how much they've helped and how much I value them. ❤️
@melliecrow1091
Жыл бұрын
I like that you summarize and put a visual up on the video with the main points. So helpful.
@tesselationstation
Жыл бұрын
I wish I'd known this in HS. Some choices, I don't regret, evasion has helped skip bad scenarios. But I feel that, missing out on good job opps., not being able to climb higher. Still, I'm 26, so it's not the end of the world, no regrets, not in a bad place at all. I know what I want to do now... Much love to this channel.
@santanacaipirinha9536
Жыл бұрын
What if you can't remind yourself that you're resilient because you're not? I have made so many decisions that had a terrible outcome that I feel paralyzed every time I have to make a new one. I'm always going back in my mind and making another decision; the one I should have made. I can't think of a good decision I can give myself credit for. I'm stuck in a constant loop of regret. If you don't feel you can trust yourself to make decisions anymore, you're way beyond these steps. I'm still glad this subject is getting more attention lately because it really is a huge roadblock for many.
@c.j.9141
Жыл бұрын
Santana, I can relate pretty well with what you described. If I may share what I have discovered about my "uneducated choice making" life.... no one was there for me as a child when I needed support, so my child-brain, to help me thru the hurt and fear, established me as the only one to trust. Spent 55 years trying my best to get thru life without "needing" anyone for guidance on life decisions etc. now I am 68yo, and have lost every dime I worked for to poor choices. I finally got clear that I have set myself up for a miserable old age and hired a financial consultant. Humbling and embarrassing, her job is not to judge my past, but to help me move forward. The pain of shame (of needing help) was MUCH LESS than the joy of hope that I can ask for help, and use other people's knowledge. Wow, what a freeing revelation! I wish you the ah ha moment where your search for hope trumps the fear of your decision making process!!
@rMDheal
Жыл бұрын
I feel this immensely. For me, regret is what becomes paralyzing. I look back, see all the "should have gone that way" moments, that making a wrong decision now carries so much more weight because of the pain of regret. Does this make sense? I feel like I cannot afford any more regret. I would love for some hope to be shined on situations like ours. It is truly so painful, and as time goes on, it becomes heavier. I can only say that sometimes making a wrong decision helps to illuminate the places where maybe our energy belongs. For instance, I jumped into a master's program, am halfway in, and am not sure it is the right fit for me... yet another painful wrong decision, but it is shedding light on where I feel I do belong a little bit more.
@Waywardwindfall
Жыл бұрын
Done is better than perfect is a phrase that is literally changing my life. I use it almost everyday.
@SkarGig
Жыл бұрын
Omg could this be the advice I've always needed??
@Raylight5068
3 ай бұрын
This is just too relatable. I often procrastinate because I get too overwhelmed by my decisions. My mom says I don't care about those decisions cuz I procrastinate but in reality I'm just too worried to make a bad future choice.
@Mickey-7
Жыл бұрын
Excellent advise! I so needed to hear everything you had to say. I have been experiencing analysis paralysis big time. Thank you, thank you, thank you! So appreciated!😊
@TherapyinaNutshell
Жыл бұрын
Glad it was helpful!
@sparrow4313
Жыл бұрын
I love that she talks about fear. When I read the book who moved my cheese mini years ago, there was a one page in there that says what would you do if you weren’t afraid? I think that one page changed my life. I started being able to make decisions once I just said quit being afraid and just try it.
@J_C_.
Жыл бұрын
Thank you! I'm stuck between dating someone I had before, or moving on with someone new, this video will help me make a decision.
@Worldzachngen
Жыл бұрын
Jc- go with your gut feeling. Write out on a peice of paper the pros and cons of each one you’re trying to make a decision. If con’s weigh out the pros…. Then that’s a red flag.
@koopi789
Жыл бұрын
Thank you for this!! Currently struggling so much with choosing a education for this fall, between London and Stockholm. I already live in sweden and love most parts of it, but i was so excited when i got accepted to london, i’ve thought about every single detail and it’s just soo hard to make a choice. My fear is for sure regret, that i would have made the ’wrong’ choice. I’m gonna watch this video everyday to remind and help myself😂😭
@fadyaspainting
Жыл бұрын
How to heal abandonment issues? Feeling stuck in this affecting my relationships with people, Feeling lonely and sad.
@Alphacentauri819
Жыл бұрын
That is a deep pain indeed. I was given up for adoption, lost my whole family (parents, grandparents, cousins, and so on and 2.5+ yrs) and had subsequent foster homes. Deep abandonment issues. Unseen trauma by adoptive parents, who provided physically, but were mostly very emotionally unavailable. A key to my healing has been to learn how to not abandon myself. Learning to take my needs and boundaries into consideration, learn how to stand up for what I want, having my own back. I often would contort in ways to not be abandoned, people please...but that leads to loneliness because you aren't showing up as you, therefore abandoning yourself. Healing the core wounds and limiting beliefs is huge. It is possible. Once you deeply connect with YOU, it is life changing. You can only connect to others at the level you are connected to, and accept, yourself. Sending wishes for deep connection💛💫
@bridiewright1519
Жыл бұрын
Great timing I'm doing this right now!x
@_kaythebutterfly7828
Жыл бұрын
😢This… this video explained my entire life and the constant perfectionism that I’ve failed to obtain. Thank you for this message. It was so timely!!!
@TMMT4
9 ай бұрын
Thanks for this! I’ve recently realized everything I’ve experienced, the trauma that’s played a part in me making decisions. I suppose cognitive dissonance and a dysregulated nervous system plays a part too. I tend not to trust self though my intuition seems strong so I seek support typically in my unsupportive mother. I believe being overwhelmed with emotion causes me to react with trauma responses, I shutdown from feeling unheard and probably the process of feeling that I don’t know what to do. Additionally, another issue I believe is not even knowing the emotions I’m experiencing due to that decision making is more difficult because I don’t think in depth or what’s in front of my face. It makes me mad I experience extreme difficulty in decisions that are automatic for others. I’ve started to see I should consider current circumstance and the changes whatever would cause. I think remembering that first feeling and if I went from happy to unhappy when an issue arises. If I’m unhappy in what way would whatever make me happy and decide to do that, stop going with what’s simple that tends to tie into unhappiness because I’m basically avoiding a decision. Through everything I’ve experienced on my own, especially after basically being unsupportive it’s clear to me I’m capable without doubting myself.
@rubin-healmysocialanxiety702
Жыл бұрын
“Once you make a decision, the universe conspires to make it happen.” -Ralph Waldo Emerson Thanks for the video Emma, great point on overcoming analysis paralysis by processing the emotions that are truly causing it!
@michele3631
Жыл бұрын
Emma, your videos are awesome. Thank you for educating us so well on mental health and emotional wellness topics. You are my favorite educator on KZitem.
@deenzo4404
Жыл бұрын
As a toxic perfectionist and a psychology student, I feel like I got a lot out of this video. Thank you so much !
@s81098
Жыл бұрын
Really perfect timing, having some huge decisions to make and problems taking them 😉
@rebeccajones9757
Жыл бұрын
Thank you for this! I needed to hear it.
@TherapyinaNutshell
Жыл бұрын
Glad it was helpful!
@mariamata5067
5 ай бұрын
Thanks so much for this video! It showed up on my feed right when I'm stuck on a big project that I've been putting off for way too long. Done is better than perfect!!
@godfreybynoe6486
Жыл бұрын
I was going threw that but I started to pray on it and I felt better after.
@jakubbojczuk5781
Жыл бұрын
Wonderful, it's come in a right time. It's been a life long problem for me. Making decisions cause a lot of pain for me.
@rubin-healmysocialanxiety702
Жыл бұрын
I feel ya brother, decisions can really drain our willpower, yet they break us out of stagnation at the same time ❤
@jakubbojczuk5781
Жыл бұрын
@@rubin-healmysocialanxiety702 thanks for this. 🌸🙏🏽😍
@tronalddump2444
Жыл бұрын
Perfect timing now. I am struggling with that for years...
@rdevalentin
2 ай бұрын
Thank you for the helpful insights for making decisions! In addition to the strategies you mentioned, what about deciding beforehand a reasonable amount of time to make a decision and sticking to it, even if it makes you feel uncomfortable at first? Whatever the future holds, you don't lose everything. Your self-esteem is maintained because you avoided the two extremes/pitfalls of impulsiveness and indecisiveness. P.S.: I just watched your next video about executive functioning, and realized we brought up the topic of deadline-setting.
@Elaiden
Жыл бұрын
Thank you. This seems really helpful. I just spent a whole day trying to choose a rainjacket and didn’t even finish. I’ll put this in practice and see what happens.
@mml3888
7 ай бұрын
one main reason that causes this is growing up in a toxic family background where ur family they didnt let u stick to ur decisions and enforced their options on u when u were a child or even early 20s (if in south asia). at leaat this is what happened to me. now im 26 and i really sont have the confidence to meet new people scared and im literally wasting my life. hopefully i set myself free from this mess.
@nazsimons
Жыл бұрын
I love this channel, It's helping me getting to know myself better.
@rubin-healmysocialanxiety702
Жыл бұрын
❤
@AsiekiD
Жыл бұрын
That's precisely what I needed a day before visiting my once-upon-a-time love promising myself for the 50th time it's the last time.
@TherapyinaNutshell
Жыл бұрын
You got this!
@sumbalshahzadi8967
Жыл бұрын
as frida's case is exactly mine, overthinker, procrastinator, black n white thinking pattern. bt you have to take decisions with uncertainty and risks factor, its the point where you grow.
@davebarnett682
Жыл бұрын
Very very good! I suffer from serious depression. I have a big problem deciding what I want to eat. I have plenty of money and I am very blessed I don't eat much. I snack a lot. Thank you for that information! GoD bless!
@JoseMartinez-ig4lx
Жыл бұрын
I got adhd so I struggle to maintain executive function and working memory. It's not impossible just more work.
@rubin-healmysocialanxiety702
Жыл бұрын
for sure it's totally possible to maintain that ❤
@babycakes8434
Жыл бұрын
Great tips. I am stuck in analysis paralysis, so eventually I avoid making certain decisions. Sometimes it is so exhausting, that I prefer to abandon the idea completely, instead of pushing forward. The reason is mostly that I don't want to make bad decisions😢 Thank you for the video.
@prettypookie_333
Жыл бұрын
Freidas case is quite similar to mine...god in a way you really helped me with the exact scenario i was facing. Thankyou so much Emma! Your videos are so so so incredibly helpful. Thankyou for making it easier to handle things, much love to you❤
@Brujitaloveskurama
Жыл бұрын
Im having the same troubles deciding for jobs, but in my case I have trauma associated with it, specially in my career, so I was thinking in choosing other work for my mental peace over my "specialty"
@SunnyDay70
Жыл бұрын
Exactly what I needed today❤
@jeanneratzlaff2640
Жыл бұрын
Thank you. Very timely and helpful. The reference to making decisions about jeans caught my attention. And that confident people aren’t necessarily more right- and finally- considering that One has the resilience to live well with some less pleasant consequences 😂
@Pentium3ddem
Жыл бұрын
Many thanks from Argentina. My life it's frozen for not making decisions. Thanks again
@kalandrxedits8123
Жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for this video. I rarely comment on videos but this one really helped with an issue I'm confronted with since...ever. I hope I can apply quickly what I just learned !
@m.e.987
Жыл бұрын
Or decisions can be difficult because you will be blamed and shamed for the decisions you make: ex if you chose a restaurant which is disappointing you hear msgs that you don't know how to choose, you have bad tastes, because of you they had a bad experience. Or if you choose something different from the group you will be called selfish. Or fear that your choice can lead to something bad like inviting someone to a party and they get involved in an accident on their way to the party. For these reasons decisions can be really hard.
@iceapitsada1137
Жыл бұрын
thank u soo much for delivering all psychology contents in a very detailed yet easy-to-understand way! u helped when time gets hardest. thank you
@garydelgaudio5364
10 ай бұрын
Emma is golden , thx for the valuable information, you give the time ,,everyone best appreciate,,,,, thx E
@claudiaaa4268
Жыл бұрын
Im 45 and this has been my constant struggles. Although i don't regret anything in my life. I always know i can do better with my struggles. Being introvert with ADHD is work lol. One day at a time.
@Bob-B-.
Жыл бұрын
I don't have trouble deciding when I decide to eat out 😏
@shebyt9327
Жыл бұрын
I'm good at making decisions for ME, but I really struggle with making decisions when other people are involved ... will they be happy with my choice? I guess I'm afraid of dealing with their disappointment or criticism. Maybe I should go back and watch a people pleasing video. Thanks for another great video! You are so fun to be with.
@samward3951
Жыл бұрын
I am grateful to have stumbled upon your series of videos. They are fantastic & right on the money! I will be checking out all of them!!!
@devarunkarmakar6298
Жыл бұрын
i feel so better after these videos i was introduced to this channel today and i loved ur vids thankss
@Maynard0504
Жыл бұрын
I'm watching this at work instead of doing what I'm supposed to. Talk about executive function issues
@veljkopocuca1907
Жыл бұрын
Ur really making a difference, keep uploading videos, we need more help and therapy in this stressed times!
@Mitchellwright_
Ай бұрын
This is literally me. I do this with deciding what KZitem videos I want to upload I’ve waisted over 10 years
@TorringtonFernandopulle
Жыл бұрын
Love ❤ the way you explaining, understandable, very clear and crisp ... thank you so much for the video 🙏
@jamiewagner7066
Жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for this! I really needed it! I've had so many experiences where I've waited too long in making a choice and missed out. Also, Bombay House is always a great choice. 😉
@itsmissdev
6 ай бұрын
This was very helpful actually. Thank you for this video.
@biatae2713
11 ай бұрын
Thank you for this one. Great advice and very applicable for me and my life right now. Much appreciated!
@PowerfulRift
Жыл бұрын
This is beautiful advice thanks 😊
@jeanlow2995
Жыл бұрын
THANK YOU THANK YOU THANK YOU for what you do! yet another great and practical video, looking forward to the video on executive functioning!
@realitywinner7582
Жыл бұрын
spot-on-timing for here too ! The LIght Of Heaven to You !
@PaigeSquared
Жыл бұрын
Life will choose for you, if you don't!! Adding in; if you avoid and refuse to say "no," does your "yes" even mean anything?
@cicamaca123
11 ай бұрын
You literaly described me word to word...
@ajliea3445
Жыл бұрын
Wow the best and cutest therapist online 🎉❤
@TheAlchemist1089
Жыл бұрын
I just figured out that I have analysis paralysis (strong) The timing of this video is impeccable I can add will change 😇
@mlouw8218
Жыл бұрын
This video is right in time! Thank you!!! 😊🙏
@LAYDEEPINAYY
11 ай бұрын
dang... one of the last statements you said sums me in a nutshell.... "let go of regret..." ahh my perfectionism, overanalyzing, unforgiving [to myself mainly - is the pattern i recognize], elephant memory self hahaha..... this is something i struggle with. but thank you for the reminder that i need to keep working on letting go of regret... if i make mistakes, and wrong decisions... there can either be a solution, a way, a person, some sort of help or aid to progress that situation in some way...
@TM15HAKRN
Жыл бұрын
You surely knw How to tk Decision You decided well.. The topic😉😊😎🎊 Thanks dear😊
@내일은이기겠지
Жыл бұрын
amazing video. my algorithm finally did it!
@shxbhangi
Жыл бұрын
Hi, I recently discovered your channel and loved your videos. They have helped me so much. I have a suggestion for your next video. Can you please make a video on how to deal with career anxiety especially when you've chosen an unconventional career path? It would mean the world to me. I'm an engineering grad who is struggling to make a career out of her photography skills because it's my passion but I am constable worried about my career.
@BlueBeeMCMLXI
Жыл бұрын
Bud, mouthy man expert, it's not standards, it's expectations - and you can grow up - and lower your expectations. Thanks Emma.
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