Any one of these 5 in particular hit home more than the others?
@heatherframpton9693
3 күн бұрын
It is day to day, especially with sorting, organizing & getting rid of lots of items preparing for a cross country move before the end of the year. 😳 I do get to the point where I may literally say out loud "Okay, you've done enough for today." Then maybe relaxing in our Jacuzzi, watching TV, napping...😊❤️. Thank you for this content. I am working on the continuation of this in my life. ❤
@rebeccarichie9306
Күн бұрын
I am so grateful to have found this channel. Im so excited I just realized I have entered a new season and I am ready to let go of so much. I had never thought of my life as seasons and it appeals so much. I just went through my clothes I got rid of 3 bags! My closet and dresser are so clean! My brain already feels so much better! I think that the busyness vs true productivity was a really great point. I do feel its just like well if I keep moving I’m being productive.
@em_ag
Сағат бұрын
As a minimalist and a mom to be this October, I absolutely love your channel! I used to struggle with perfectionism and hustle culture, and I am now trying to practice slow and intentional living while I transition into my new season of being a mom. Your videos speak to me so much, thank you!💕
@rebeccafett7267
4 күн бұрын
The silent to do list gets me every time. I’m extremely overwhelmed every day because of it…
@rebeccafett7267
4 күн бұрын
That and the Mary/Martha story… That one really hit home
@jessicarothley
2 күн бұрын
I understand this! Simplifying my inventory brought a lot more rest than I imagined
@timelinegypsy6995
3 күн бұрын
Hurry culture is a great point! Also makes me think of essentialism, not making a crazy, hectic schedule just for the sake of busyness, instead learning to say “no” and do only what matters most.
@jessicarothley
2 күн бұрын
yes!
@jeanicejeanell
3 күн бұрын
Sheesh such a good word! I’m a mama of 4 and have struggled with the mentality of thr hustle and hurry culture for sure, but I’ve been praying for God to show me how to slow down. Even my sabbaths were planned out and so hard to just be and be present with my family. I believe this is how we stand apart from this world and it’s extremely encouraging to see someone else live it out and be honest about the journey. Thank you so much for sharing and love the content! I’m here for it ☺️
@jessicarothley
2 күн бұрын
I see this so hard! It's been a long journey, well worth it.
@camnguyen7220
3 күн бұрын
thank you so much for producing videos like this. I am 23, unmarried, and do not have a boyfriend either. I has been an overachiever for over 3 years. I've accomplished so much and my peers always admire for what I have done so far. However, from the inside, I always wish someone saw me as my pure self, not my professional version. It is hard to completely turn myself back to where I used to be carefree, but I find myself losing productivity pressure over time thanks to videos like yours
@jessicarothley
2 күн бұрын
I am so glad it spoke to you!
@RobertaStonequist
22 сағат бұрын
this whole video is an answer to prayer
@SterlingDriver-id6cv
3 күн бұрын
loved the concept of silent todo list as it related to seeing things on social and then being liek oh i need that or oh i need to try that or remember that or buy that - list goes on and on and on
@jessicarothley
2 күн бұрын
yes it really never ends!
@jillianabbott4798
3 күн бұрын
THIS VIDEO IS AN ANSWER FROM GOD TONIGHT ...can't thank you enough..I will be sharing with my husband so he can understand what I'm going thru ...pray for me girl...praying for you
@jessicarothley
2 күн бұрын
praying for you Jillian (love your name, it's my sis name:)
@serenaahoff
2 күн бұрын
This was amazing and so helpful. Thank you! #2 made me cry lol and I resonated a lot with each tip. Excited to take a look at my life and where I can improve. ❤
@jadiw7818
3 күн бұрын
Oh my goodness I want to keep watching this over and over! So. Good. And every bit of it spoke to me...I find that I feel like I need to list off the things I accomplished to my husband to make myself feel good about the day (not in anyway because of him but because of my mindset). I have found myself feeling the need to prove myself to my mom who can't stop working for anything....I'm done with that now. You were spot on with the need to feel productive being tied to people pleasing...I feel that one so much. Thank you for this video. It was such a an encouragement ❤️
@jessicarothley
2 күн бұрын
I'm so glad it was encouraging!
@kristencurry2966
4 күн бұрын
I saw your message yesterday that you were posting a video today…felt like Christmas Eve! Loved the talk about cycles. Also, I always feel so much better when I give up social media, so what you said about taking on other people’s to do lists, makes so much sense!
@sharlotececilia
Күн бұрын
This came at the perfect time 🧸really needed those tips, thank you!🌺
@horseluv723
2 күн бұрын
Can you do a day in the life video where you show how you fit those moments of slowness throughout the day while still getting things done? I’m struggling with every day just being a to-do list and it weighs on my mind all day.
@jessicarothley
2 күн бұрын
I get that, I'm gonna start including more vlog style homemaking tasks to hopefully show more of this!
@emilyeichhorst1150
4 күн бұрын
The narrative portion really has my wheels turning. Thank you for putting thoughts together well.
@hatcherhomestead
2 күн бұрын
So good. This was for me! Thank you
@asedoris
3 күн бұрын
What a beautiful video, thank you 🙏🏻
@crawfordjennifer2015
3 күн бұрын
Thank you so much for this ! I have put things in perspective also and stopped rushing around and constantly on the go. I enjoy my time with God first, walks, etc… enjoy the mundane and everything in between. 😊
@katarzynapietrzak5300
3 күн бұрын
You're so wise! ❤
@AngelissimaASMR
4 күн бұрын
This was so good! I am and have always been a Mary but I have been listening to the critical Martha voices that tell me that I'm not doing enough and that I need to do it all the Martha way. I really needed this mindset reset. It's hard to be a Mary in a Martha world.
@jessicarothley
2 күн бұрын
ain't that the truth!
@VappuRechardt
2 күн бұрын
Yes to this! Also the Proverbs 31 woman has been taunting me in the past. But I heard Paul Washer tell a story when his wife pointed out to him that it’s describing all the different stages in this woman’s life, there is no way she was having small children and going out to do business at the same time. It made a lot of sense.
@AngelissimaASMR
2 күн бұрын
@@VappuRechardt yes and she also had help and she delegated and managed! But I love that she rolled up her sleeves and was eager to start her work for the day!
@badashmama
Күн бұрын
SO helpful!!! thank you!! I have lots to work on (not work on??) haha also the "idol of busyness" shewwwwwwwww 🔥🔥🔥
@melaneeminer6022
3 күн бұрын
#5... destination was it. And then I forgot to enjoy the moment. Even the yucky moments.
@sozod2000
2 күн бұрын
I struggled with this as I see other stay at home moms do things from home to make money or a side business or doing things to bring in money as they near empty-nest. My youngest is 17 and I was reaching out to try to do things and nothing was working. I got sad after another shut door. I was crying and my husband came home and said what wrong. I told him how I felt and my struggle and said I don’t know what to do with my life. He said we don’t need more money. Why did I think I needed to bring in more money? Because that’s what other women were doing. 🤦🏻♀️ I have likes and hobbies. I just don’t need to turn them into a money making activity 🙌🏼 I just need to do what I love and invite other women along with me 😊 ❤ Thank you! It’s ok to let go of ideas. To just be.
@jessicarothley
2 күн бұрын
I really relate to this! I attempted when my daughter was a lot younger and had this moment and a very similar conversation with my husband. It's very easy to feel pressured instead of called to things with comparison
@jennifergillingham836
2 күн бұрын
Thank you ✨✨💖
@jennifercrowley6621
3 күн бұрын
So much wisdom here. Thank you 🙏
@denaybug
3 күн бұрын
This video was so good! I didn't realize just how much I was equating people-pleasing with love, worth, security and control! Especially in my marriage... Some of your other videos helped me really see that and I have been actively reframing those thoughts and expectations. But like you said it's a journey! Thank you so much for the encouragement!
@jessicarothley
2 күн бұрын
Oh that's amazing! it is a journey, a million tiny decisions and increasing in awareness
@ali-cx9dj
4 күн бұрын
I love this. It’s like getting permission to not be a chicken with my head cut off. I hate wearing too many hats and being busy with things I don’t like.
@jennyjenkins877
3 күн бұрын
Beautiful message. I first received this message from The Latest Kate, an encouraging mental health author/illustrator: Rest is productive. 🤯 Not just sleeping. Rest is a key component of productivity. It's backed by studies that overall productivity is higher when regular breaks are included.
@jessicarothley
2 күн бұрын
yes it really is! I think we often think rest is just sleeping. But rest is so much bigger than that, and imperative for all of us
@cortniemuscari7693
4 күн бұрын
Thank you for being so relatable. I always feel so encouraged from your videos and that your advice is attainable.
@jessicarothley
2 күн бұрын
I'm so glad to hear it!
@shaunaferguson6102
3 күн бұрын
I don't know that I've considered busyness productivity and hurriedness as an idol but I think you nailed it! 😮❤
@mjalphonse
Күн бұрын
Dang girl this was goooood 🔥
@jessicawest1303
3 күн бұрын
I consume a lot of declutter content and just watched a couple of your vids and they are so concise and nice to listen to! I’m inspired all over again. My fave point was about the silent to do list because I have often heard the phrase ‘a cluttered house is a cluttered mind’ but the silent to do list way better explains that point.
@jessicarothley
2 күн бұрын
Yes his book had a lot of wisdom in it!
@CozyToni
4 күн бұрын
Thank you so much for this 😊
@kathydittrich8034
4 күн бұрын
Hi Jessica, I almost never comment on videos. I don't know why, because if I made content I'd want people to engage with it. (I guess I'm too busy listening on 1.5x speed and need to get to the next video.🥴) There's a lot to chew on in this video, I suspect I'll watch it a second and possibly third time! I can't remember what video it was, but you asked the question: do you want information, or transformation? I've been reflecting on this a lot. It's been helpful in determining what content I consume and how I spend my time. When my oldest was a baby and I was fretting about not getting enough done, my mom told me, you're a human BEING, not a human DOING. Some random, rambling thoughts. I really like your channel. God bless you, Katherine
@Fitmomlyfe
4 күн бұрын
I'm sure you're doing a great job as a mom! Those who are concerned about mothering typically do a better job than average (not a statistic, but it makes logical sense lol). I've been grappling with this concept a lot too. What I noticed that helped is to only surround myself with people (and even people online) that have the same values I do. If I want to center my life around being a wife and mother, then I have to watch only women that center their lives around those things. I'm not perfect at it, but it has helped. I run my own law firm, so I get the go-getter mentality; it's just not the life for me anymore.
@TS26
3 күн бұрын
I love your videos! Can you mention some slow living/minimalism/motherhood books that don’t have a Christian undertone to it. I get that you’re one but can you recommend some neutral ones because I’m of a different religion. I’m ok with a little sometimes it gets overwhelming to me. This happened when I read Boundaries. I really need to learn how to set them but that book I couldn’t finish due to above reason. I’m waiting for your reply ❤
@ballroomkitten
3 күн бұрын
I feel like de-programming the busyness mindset takes daily practice. What are some small habits or ways you remind yourself to slow down and to be content where you are? ❤
@maryamsameer9664
4 күн бұрын
Hello Jessica! Thank you very much for this wonderful video. I really need to hear this, epecially, the point about the destination mindset. I I am struggling with letting go of this mindset but don’t really know how to go about it. Would you mind sharing some resources that helped you recover from this mindset, please? And thank you so much : )
@jessicarothley
2 күн бұрын
I have a video on my favorite books and there's gems in there!
@tamiurquizo746
4 күн бұрын
Check out the copycat chickfla cookie. So yummy ❤❤❤
@househannah333
4 күн бұрын
Mmmm.. revisit the Mary/Martha story and see if you can get more out of it. There's a major piece you've missed.
@sarahevelyn687
4 күн бұрын
I absolutely love this! And the timing is just right. I'm moving to a country with a slower paste and if I am not busy, what will be my purpose? I'm definitely a Martha. I think slow living is going to reveal the true meaning of life.
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