Thoughts on the trad wife trend & the rich’s obsession with being "poor"?
@aishaghalia1259
6 ай бұрын
I'm always shocked by these trends! Let me give you a sneak peek into the Arab world and what rich countries call "the third world." (I live in Tunisia, so I'm speaking from experience.) Starting with the feminist movement, where they want women to work just like men, here, women have been working for centuries, even more than men. Women have always been working, even if they come from rich families, and we've been maintaining traditional households. If children don't work, chores around the house are considered work until they reach the proper age. For example, I worked most summers because my dad wanted me to learn how to be financially stable and independent, yet one of my life goals is to get married and have a family of my own. As for the "poor," they're obliged to start working at a young age, unfortunately, but this doesn't stop us from getting an education and graduating from the best universities. People who own their own land, plant their own food, and raise animals are considered rich, not a "poor aesthetic." Even though it's one of the hardest things to pursue in life, we still take care of our lands and raise our children to take care of them after us. Also, we're well known for making our own olive oil! My aunt owns olive trees, and every year our whole family goes to pick olives and then takes them to the olive press to make our own olive oil. We do this yearly, so throughout the year, we always have many buckets that we sell and use. We also make our own bread every week-many women make it every day. If you search for types of bread we have, you'll be surprised to know that every country has its own traditional bread-not just countries, but every town and city. Even couscous, which is a traditional meal in Tunisia and Morocco, we literally make it from scratch every year and stock it. Another example is chilies, peppers, our Harissa, rose water, and orange blossom water. (My father was literally picking orange blossoms from our tree just yesterday.) These things are typical to make in every Tunisian home, and if a family wasn't able to do so, they'd buy them from their neighbors. I swear these are just a few examples, and still, the women in our family are working. I'm always shocked by these trends! It's as if they're living in a parallel world where they just discovered how to clean their asses with water instead of wiping, lol.
@scrappybastard
6 ай бұрын
I honestly think trad wifery is a thinly veiled kink and it's all a niche part of BDSM. I truly believe this.
@U_quintessential.K
6 ай бұрын
The traditional wife culture is problematic because it reinforces outdated gender roles, restricts women's autonomy and potential, and undermines the principles of equality and individual freedom. Even if a husband can provide materially, it doesn't justify perpetuating harmful societal norms that limit women's choices and opportunities. Even if a wife romanticizes traditional roles on her own, it doesn't change the underlying issues. Romanticizing traditional roles can still perpetuate harmful gender norms and restrict personal freedom and fulfillment. It's important to critically examine societal expectations and strive for relationships based on equality, mutual respect, and individual agency. The obsession with romanticizing poverty or traditional culture among the rich can be damaging. It glamorizes hardship and the real struggles faced by those in poverty, while reducing women to status symbols or objects of desire, perpetuating inequality and harmful stereotypes. This fixation on superficial qualities and traditional roles often leads to a lack of personal fulfillment and missed opportunities for genuine connection, hiding pursuit of meaningful relationships based on equality, respect, and authenticity. At the same time I don't think we have no right to judge them it's their choice after all.
@makaylasanai
6 ай бұрын
I don't think these people are pretending to be poor. Why does being wealthy mean having a glitzy, glamorous life? What if these people just choose to live modestly instead of living outside their means to put on a show for us? Honestly, If I were a millionaire, I wouldn't spend my wealth on Hermes bags and Lamborghinis to impress others. I'd drive a normal car, make my meals from scratch, and continue to build my wealth. People like Nara Smith and Ballerina Farm are smart. Just because you have the money, doesn't mean you need to indulge in luxury.
@heinzelmadchen7896
6 ай бұрын
@@U_quintessential.Kit's not outdated just because you don't like it. 😂 Majority of people on this planet live this way. What autonomy and potential exactly? People like you are so disgustingly misogynistic all while pretending to be the opposite. If you tell a woman who's a stay at home mother that she is less than because she's not chasing a girlboss life, you're the problem. I have so much individual freedom and can live my best life, I'm also his equal in my worth but I don't WANT to be equal as in his societal role. I'm not a man and I don't want to be expected to fulfill the roles men fulfill. Also, idk why you people always think women never had anything in their backpackets for worst case scenarios, trad wives always knew how to bake, cook, tailor, sew, farm, etc. They could always work if they had to because their husband passed or got ill or whatever. It's not like they just sit at home and watch TV. How come yall always preach about romanticizing your life but when trad women find joy in it you attack them? Absolutely vile.
@Sarhhhhhhh
6 ай бұрын
I'm obsessed by the video at 18 seconds, in which the girl harvests strawberries as if they were potatoes growing directly in the ground. wtf
@zoobiteebop
6 ай бұрын
omg i'm so glad someone said it lmaooo
@va.k8982
6 ай бұрын
the og vid is actually supposed to be a parody of how trad wives are lol 😭
@mpazinambao2938
6 ай бұрын
As some who has strawberry plants, I had to play it back and I cackled. I think it's a parody account.
@overthinkingkpop
6 ай бұрын
I laughed so loudly at that clip that I woke my husband up. 😂 10/10 comedy. Top-notch B roll.
@kahlibrown4909
6 ай бұрын
I started laughing so hard! And even if it is just a parody, I honestly wouldn't put it past some of the tradwife accounts out there to actually try something like that
@katelynn.kensington
6 ай бұрын
This trend reminds me of this beautiful woman who cooks from scratch, BUT she feeds a whole village of less fortunate people.
@don_ducko
6 ай бұрын
Yes, and the most important thing to note is her emphasis on the wastefulness of specifically American, priviliedged content creators. Without that part, it would likely be received as charity for clout.
@deleena4841
4 ай бұрын
Oh yes, surthicooks.
@warqaanizar2527
2 ай бұрын
Yeah shes awsome
@tonyonaperky2128
23 күн бұрын
@@don_ducko You dont understand how this works. The trad wife is the dependent. The system is set up so that the dependent (typically the woman) is receiving. Even in situations where the woman has a job. If he cheats, she gets half. If she cheats, she still gets half. And that's if the woman isn't greedy. I dont know where you got your stories from, but speaking statistically, men have this issue more than you. So if anything you should be feeling sorry for the man. Plus, my aunt is a divorce attorney. So I know I'm right and you're not
@don_ducko
20 күн бұрын
@@tonyonaperky2128 umm with all due respect sir, what on Earth are you talking about? Nowhere in this entire thread is a man, a trad wife, or misandry in general mentioned. You seem lost and sound like an alternate universe Miss Trunchbull. Good day.
@MinnieMarie16
6 ай бұрын
Having a farm doesn't equate to poverty. Every farmer i know is extremely wealthy
@laurabetts4924
6 ай бұрын
True! It actually costs quite a lot of money to own a farm, and selling your own product (meat, wool, etc) usually earns you more than an hourly salary.
@TempAccount-wj4tj
5 ай бұрын
Literally… I thought I’m watching about trad wives but ended up watching about “rich people romanticising poverty”? This girly is feeling herself too much and has become tone deaf. Cultural depth lacking, no attention to the nutritional aspect of homecooking. Apparently poor bake bread from scratch rather than pay $1? Got it 👍 pointless vid..
@elenamarcu5652
5 ай бұрын
My godparents had own a farm for ever since I could remember, it's true, they live on the country side, and they do all the work on the farm, just the two of them. By now, they are both in their 70s and still do farm work, and let me tell you, besides the love they have for the liftestyle, the do produce A LOT of money.
@joegambitt7414
5 ай бұрын
I don't know, my mom has a farm and we are just middle class family
@BloodSweatandFears
5 ай бұрын
Exactly, farms take upkeep, which costs quite a bit. Depending on the size of the farm, it could be extremely costly. Especially if there are animals.
@MinouHime
6 ай бұрын
I wouldn't want to be a house wife. Too much room for financial abuse and coercive control. If it works well, good for them, but the moment it doesn't they don't really have an exit strategy.
@solveigs4770
6 ай бұрын
This👆🙌
@bgm3460
6 ай бұрын
In these marriages there're rapes
@MinouHime
6 ай бұрын
@@Mishlxo who wished bad? I surely didn't
@_sansvisage
6 ай бұрын
True but at the same time have a bit of faith in your partner, cause whoever you choose should be the right one for you but also be cautious, its weird how being vulnerable in this day and age is seen as something sort of weak but at the same time the whole point of relationships is that the other person is someone who you trust and expect to be able to be vulnerable with, so idk man
@VideosForYou90
6 ай бұрын
Exaclty! And no one's immune to illness or even death. So even if these husbands won't cheat on them or leave them, they could still end up alone without anything. Education and a backup plan is SO important. Let's not be silly and naive girlies.
@frecklesnfrolics
6 ай бұрын
There's a difference between a homemaker and a trad wife.
@kookie_2178
6 ай бұрын
These tradwives want to 1950 wife without getting their ass beaten everyday 😂😂
@hahalove47
5 ай бұрын
Without a doubt. I'm a stay-at-home mom, but wouldn't tell my girls that's the only option for their futures. It could be. Doesn't have to be.
@frecklesnfrolics
5 ай бұрын
@@hahalove47 I love that you'e making it work for you and your family! Yes, having options is the key to all of this.
@007Thv_97
5 ай бұрын
@@hahalove47exactly!
@shikhasophia2784
4 ай бұрын
@@hahalove47 but u aren't
@stephysteph9538
6 ай бұрын
Just remember ladies, keep a financial safely net. Your children and yourself being housed and fed are fully dependent on your husband finding you attractive, pleasant, and wanting to be with you if you go down this rabbit hole. There are way too many horror stories about women being left homeless, being abused, having to turn to sex work to feed their children after their man leaves, etc.
@g_factking
6 ай бұрын
Women are lazy so they will take their chances and roll the dice despite the horror stories
@cactuscat3262
2 ай бұрын
Man here, I wish I could do something like that lol I can understand women who'd want to do it too, especially in this job market
@tonyonaperky2128
Ай бұрын
The way the divorce system favors women, women being left without anything is extremely rare
@ifykyk679
Ай бұрын
You sound like you still live in the 50s. Women are rarely left alone unless they belong to 3rd world countries. Also, one should marry a person only after thoroughly knowing them. Love exists and if your partner truly loves you he/she will never leave you. Also I don't think western women are house wives only. And if they choose to only be a house wife then it's honestly their fault.
@tonyonaperky2128
Ай бұрын
@@ifykyk679 They don't know that women get 50% or greater even if the woman cheats
@zoobiteebop
6 ай бұрын
Being a feminist means having the power to choose your occupation and lifestyle as a woman. If these women find empowerment and confidence in being a homemaker, rather than going out to find work, more power to them.
@DrinkYourNailPolish
6 ай бұрын
❤❤❤
@rumaashraf8649
6 ай бұрын
exactly, i find it rlly sad that some ppl are hating on these women. If these people find comfort and love in this, who are we to stop them?
@stephysteph9538
6 ай бұрын
My only issue with this is how these younger trad wives sugarcoat everything when women who have been trad wives for 20+ years will say to have something of your own because they know the horrors of being completely dependent on another human
@Vor567tez
6 ай бұрын
Exactly. Also people are forgetting how hard it is to find a job.
@tiahnarodriguez3809
6 ай бұрын
@@Vor567tez This is not a valid excuse for being a tradwife. You will have to get a job if your husband passes, leaves you, or becomes disabled. It is much harder to get a job when you’ve been out of the work force for 15+ years. Just something to think about.
@abenaataylor3189
5 ай бұрын
Having a rich husband would be great but there is power when you have your own money even if its a little bit.
@tonyonaperky2128
Ай бұрын
Most men aren't rich though
@UnknownXlll
Ай бұрын
Nah girl I don't wanna be married to this rich husband I wanna be that rich husband
@tonyonaperky2128
Ай бұрын
@@UnknownXlll just become rich yourself then marry
@UnknownXlll
Ай бұрын
@@tonyonaperky2128 and that what I will do lol
@UnknownXlll
Ай бұрын
@@tonyonaperky2128 i will do it then I will be with my man because I want him not for his money
@VideosForYou90
6 ай бұрын
People need to be realistic. Of course you can do whatever you want to but don't be delusional. Your husband could cheat and leave you for someone younger like all these poor women have been telling us on social media lately, they've been left with nothing except their own kids. And even if your husband might be the best one in the world and always loves you - what if he becomes ill or even dies? Could happen to anyone. That's why you need to have a back up plan, education and be prepared to be able living on your own if you'd have to. Women fought for these things for a reason.
@Law_Abiding_Citizen359
6 ай бұрын
80% of divorce are initiated by women. This fantasy world where men keep on leaving women is not real. If it happened to you, you represent less than 21% of divorce stats. Also wealthy women who are trad wives (I say wealthy and not just rich) usually got pretty good prenups and even pretty big life insurance on the husband in case he dies
@itsalwayshalloweenexceptwh5118
6 ай бұрын
@@Law_Abiding_Citizen359 women initiating divorces doesn't mean they're the ones giving up on the actual relationship. It tells you nothing about who did what, the only thing it tells you is that women moreso than men are willing to go through with filing the paperwork. For example your husband could go off and cheat, even go so far as to go live with his gf and you're still married on paper. If he thinks filing the paperwork is too much hassle, you're the one that has to do it if you want a divorce. I've heard countless stories of unhappily married couples where no matter how miserable they are, the husband is dragging his feet on the actual divorce paperwork so the woman has to file for it. If the marriage is already dead then simply not filing for divorce won't save it. If you want to prove that it's predominantly women giving up on relationships/marriages, then you're going to have to look at a different statistic and dig into the reasons why. People remaining married also doesn't mean it's a successful marriage, even though lots of people use "successful mariage" to mean a couple that remained married. They could be miserable together but not go through with divorce for several reasons. Often those reasons are financial.
@tondaniraluswinga2590
6 ай бұрын
What makes you think Nara doesn't have a backup plan,? She is a model and I'm pretty sure she makes money from her content. How do you know she doesn't have other business? Has she explicitly said you didn't need to make your own money or do you just assume that because she bakes bread from scratch then she must not be making any money? I want to know how you got to that conclusion
@VideosForYou90
6 ай бұрын
@@tondaniraluswinga2590 I wasn't talking about her? I'm aware of that, that's why I don't think there's any problematic about what Nara is doing. She has her job and own money. With my comment I meant all of the young women who aren't in a position like her yet still want to blindly become an actual tradwife. Like many of the women who unfortunately came out on social media talking about how they became a tradwife with NO job, no money, no back up plan, no education. I have no problem with Nara, I have problems with other tradwives on TikTok influencing young women into something potentially dangerous without telling them the risks.
@evaachiole6850
6 ай бұрын
@@tondaniraluswinga2590 It's not just about influencers, but also about ordinary people. Let's admit that being/becoming an influencer is not as easy as it seems, of course it is easier to be one if you yourself are from a rich family or already have a bag of money like Nara (what does she have to do with it, speaking for everyone?). Now, if an ordinary housewife’s husband got sick/died (God forbid)/cheated and left, and they have 5 children and she has never worked and she is young. A husband may “go for milk” and not help HIS OWN children (and this often happens in all countries 🤷🏽♀️). And no matter how educated a woman is and has money, it will be very difficult for her to raise children, and if you imagine that some girls do not have education and work experience... this is a complete fuck-up, because you need a job to feed your family, and if she has no work experience, it is not a fact that she will be hired, even despite her diplomas and good grades. Therefore, it is better not to romanticize this crap, especially to young people 🙆🏽♀️
@Law_Abiding_Citizen359
6 ай бұрын
i dont really see how being a trad wife is...pretending to be poor? countries like the united states, the uk and canada made people wage slave and warped their sense of normality. in Guatemala they make tortilla from scratch, in china they make dumpling from scratch, germans make their own bread, Italians make their pasta from scratch and also their cheese. lot of other cultures make their food from scratch without being poor. we got cultures making humus and yogurt from scratch and i could go on and on. this is not normal to work like a slave and have no time to do anything afterward, this is not normal to work 2 jobs and barely be able to survive. And most importantly , this is not normal to be so detached from the food that you eat. instead of criticizing those women, the masses should focus on doing something about this system that have made them think that the bare minimum (to survive) is something normal.
@foodvixxen3292
6 ай бұрын
I couldn't agree more. I work from home but make alot of our food at home fresh just because it's easier and better for us than spending 500 dollars at the grocery store. Bread is super easy and cheap to make at home.
@Airahar
6 ай бұрын
Isnt the criticism part of doing something? It's highlighting the symptoms of a capitalist society,
@h0n3ymilk
6 ай бұрын
I agree!
@bandanarathore
6 ай бұрын
The video is talking about how being a trad wife is being romaticised without realising the actual struggle that comes with it for women and for the whole family. People who are making viral videos are not out there making things to save a dime. They are wealthy stay at home wives who are making money by videos and getting commission on products.
@Buhduce
6 ай бұрын
When the topic started treading that when i realized that those countries consider making stuff from scratch for the rich,am African (Ethiopian/Kenyan to be specific)and making food from scratch would be considered for the poor coz it means you are either a farmer, working at a farm or you do not have workers coz you have to get the ingredients for yourself and process it by yourself and make food from scratch.Rich people mostly tend to be the one to afford processed food,helpers or even fastfood Am shocked to see the difference that for us trad wife maybe considered for the poor and career wives for us is for the rich
@isabellat.7011
5 ай бұрын
breaking news: cooking food from scratch is normal for everyone, poor and rich. it's just that you americans are not used to it! growing up in an italian family, we would consider packaged foods for rich people lol mom was a SAHM dad worked all day everyday and now me and my sister work in healthcare but we can't wait to have our own family. we can always go back to work when and if we want. real feminism is choosing the life YOU want and supporting women who do the same.
@crewmatewillthrowthesehand7600
5 ай бұрын
Its almost like Geography exists and what is possible for rural italians is impossible for urban Americans living on minimum wage. Your "affordable fresh local ingredients" are Expensive foreign imported products in the US.
@jillluciani2866
4 ай бұрын
@@crewmatewillthrowthesehand7600That's what I wanted to say. Thank you 🤟
@jacktaylor1801
4 ай бұрын
@@crewmatewillthrowthesehand7600 You can't go to the grocery store and fry up a burger? I'm American and mom cooked from scratch every day. I cook several times a week from scratch.
@crewmatewillthrowthesehand7600
4 ай бұрын
@@jacktaylor1801 depends on the income level. I’m from an immigrant family who can afford the ingredients imported from my home country. The prices are just really high here. You will need to spend a dollar for what costs a few cents back home. So I sure as hell would not judge ppl who can’t afford it. It’s just mean to assume that just because you’re doing well, doesn’t mean u get to judge others who aren’t. We need more empathy these days. Sometimes ppl cook for scratch. Sometimes ppl can’t. Sometimes ppl don’t want to and eat outside. That’s just LIFE. We need to stop performing and stop expecting others to perform. just live our lives.
@warqaanizar2527
2 ай бұрын
Preach
@shreyagoestohell
6 ай бұрын
Harvest strawberries they grow on a plant not the ground 😂
@abduwalimuse7482
5 ай бұрын
harvesting just means gathering crops. it's even not specific to plants, it's just anything that you have grown or produced
@katrinam6795
5 ай бұрын
Probably parody anyway but strawberry plants tend to grow in fields, on the ground
@snazzy5783
6 ай бұрын
If you're poor, you don't make bread from scratch. If you can't afford the bread, you sure as hell can't afford the 7 plus ingredients to make it. I realize now how many people don't know simple things like that about poor people's lives after I came to class one day and no one knew what food stamps and section 8 was or find it unbelievable that my family doesn't own a car. None of these hobbies the people in video do correlate what poor people have to do. They're just hobbies, and trying to turn it around and say they just want to pretend to be poor is ridiculous. Buying a luxury van to live in, making meals from scratch or owning a cow holds no resemblance to modern day poverty, and comparing the two and saying that poor people are becoming victims of this odd romanticism is insane. Some people are just lacking logic, not that I'm trying to attack Zoe. I know she's simply the messenger, and I'm glad she brought such a ridiculous thing to my attention.
@Buhduce
6 ай бұрын
I didn't know this,am African and for us making food from scratch majority would be considered poor,because it means you work in the farm or a farmer or you don't have helpers,coz you have to be working in farm to have the ingredients and process it by yourself.rich people are the ones who can afford to buy ready made products.I was shocked when this topic started treading,and realized mking food from scratch in the USA is considered for the rich
@smartypantspod
6 ай бұрын
I agree! In the US it’s actually more expensive, both in money and labor, to make stuff from scratch or own land or animals.
@catalyst40811
6 ай бұрын
bread does not require 7 ingredients to make lmao theyre not expensive either
@gPrussia11
6 ай бұрын
Bread from scratch is cheaper. Only slightly but it is. Bread only requires flour yeast and salt and per oz of bread it is cheaper
@infj4w511
6 ай бұрын
Right? I watch all these inspiring channels that promote cooking with fresh ingredients, but it's way out of my budget
@micahmarielceballos6213
2 ай бұрын
As for BallerinaFarm, she never said they were poor. It also doesn't take rocket science to atleast know that having a farm is not cheap. A simple life does not necessarily equate to being poor.
@biljam972
6 ай бұрын
I see these "trad wife" / "stay at home girlfriend" as clever marketing at best or dangerous trap, at worst. Any woman who is over 30 knows that kind of relationship would be unsustainable in real life, only very young girls could fall for that crap. And there lies the danger. Look at those women who present as "trad", they are all extremely young and beautiful, not one over 30 or God forbid 40! Can you think of why? Can you actually imagine that charade lasting for 5 or 10 years? Woman having the same day over and over and over and presenting to her husband every day as a living doll with no flaws so he doesn't leave her and takes care of her? Many if not all women over 30 would tell you that's nonsense and it would never work! No matter how rich he is. She will and would get tired of that in few years, and later she could develop some health issues as people do during years of life, and not feel or look so hot, she could start resenting her husband and he could resent her for "doing nothing" and if you, God forbid, get sick so that your looks are gone, you are in deep, deep trouble. Even if your husband is really nice genuine great man, at one point you will both have to see how pointless all that presentation is. I am just saying, all those women who promote this, are maybe 19-23 and that makes young girls think it's a fairytale. And that's where the danger is. We should be aware there are no such thing as fairytale in life. There is no such thing as perfect life, it's all unpredictable and very subjective. Not one size fits all. This "trend" could produce many many horrible marriages, and many miserable women in several years. Sure, you can't hate because it's not ok for influencer to hate, but I really think this trend is vicious and dangerous for very young women who think this is escape from real life. It's not. Be aware. The worst men love this trend, they want a woman who they can control and who can not escape them, ever. It may seem cute and macho at the beginning but after several years, not so cute at all. I don't like this one bit.
@zerothehero.takeasip6612
6 ай бұрын
A marriage´s quality isn´t based upon the working dynamics but the respect dynamics. No amount of each person having their own job is going to make them be more in love. The opposite, as being stressed out from unfulfilling jobs that pay less in this shitty economy that is inflated by the amount of jobs is not conducive to love. While there is always a fad and bad faith actor behind every movement, you have to engage with the ideas in an intellectually honest manner rather than hypothesize the worst case scenario and say that is representative of the idea. The divorce rates are bad regardless of whether both partners work or the roles are traditional... it´s almost as if the issues lie somewhere else.
@biljam972
6 ай бұрын
@@zerothehero.takeasip6612 you got me wrong. This is not about being housewife or househusband. It's ok not to work and stay home. I am talking about idealized dynamics of fairytale marriage where roles are FIRMLY set for both people, and they have to play them each and every day. I might not described this well, but the point is relationship is not role playing. And it's dangerous to get married to someone who expects pretty, always happy and perfectly made up wife, who is never tired, sick or unhappy, waiting for him at home and wife who "knows her place". It has nothing to do with real traditional marriages. My grandma was traditional, she lead the whole house and worked her butt off every day, she was a total hero and bad-ass! She was housewife but far far away from these pure for esthetic and marketing role plays. What I am also saying this model "you listen and do what I say, I make money" could attract the worst men, controllable narcissists who won't let you leave. Again, nothing to do with real housewives or traditional wives, this is a pure "trend".
@itsalwayshalloweenexceptwh5118
6 ай бұрын
@@zerothehero.takeasip6612 Having your own income and money in your bank account that other people cannot touch means you have more options (you can leave the relationship quickly if you need to), more safety and makes it more likely you're together because you want to instead of needing to for financial reasons. Being financially dependent on your partner is just not a good idea, regardless of how much respect there is both ways. Someone can lose respect for their partner in a second. Divorce rates aren't a measure of how many relationships are unhappy. There are a lot of unhappily married people who stay married, and there were a lot more in the past (going by what I know about my parents generation) because of increased social stigma about divorce and less financial independence for women. Being the stay at home wife/gf is a lot more fun if you have safety money.
@smartypantspod
6 ай бұрын
There are plenty of women in their 30s and 40s living perfectly well in a traditional marriage, they’re just not the generation that’s blasting it on social media. Traditional marriage isn’t about financial control or being perfect for your husband, it’s about a man and woman coming together to form a strong team and balance out each other’s strengths and weaknesses in order to build a lasting family.
@tiahnarodriguez3809
6 ай бұрын
@@smartypantspod That’s what you think, but many men see tradrelationships about control and many women see trad relationships as an easy way to get out of working. Regardless of reasoning there is a reason why tradwives 30+ do not advocate for girls and women to get into this lifestyle. The tradwife to welfare pipeline is still going strong.
@astralis7693
2 ай бұрын
Coming from a country where tradwife is not an aesthetic but reality for so many women, let me tell you something my mother, and aunts, all tradwives told me : don't. Don't ever depend on somebody else in this manner.
@Shockguey
4 күн бұрын
So all your relatives have Instagrams with followers? Or were they just homemakers? Because WTF is a tradwife at this point? This is starting to sound how like Conservatives use "woke".
@loretoriffo2177
6 ай бұрын
I mean they do have a job, they are influencers.
@margaritum
3 ай бұрын
coming from India where the femnine 'Tradwife" is not even an aesthetic but rather the lifestyle of many women , a trend like this in a majority opinion should have made a positive effect on women who chose to do it not romanticize the dogma of not being able to be independent on themself
@JohannaWayne-es1el
6 ай бұрын
I like how you treat people with dignity no matter how they live.
@cadybug14
6 ай бұрын
I really liked this video, and I agree that working under someone else isn’t inferior, but you have to acknowledge the main reason easy money or working as your own boss is so ideal/romanticized is because normal 9-5 managers and bosses are notorious for screwing over their workers. We are tired of working and wasting so many hours of our lives to not even be able to buy groceries or afford a studio apartment.
@tiahnarodriguez3809
6 ай бұрын
This same scenario is a reality for many trad-wives. Their husbands put up a fuss anytime they ask for money. Even if it’s for something they benefit from like groceries or even stuff their kids need. Then all of a sudden the wife is the husband’s personal sw and he won’t give her the full amount or any money until she pleases him. Lots of trad-wives also say that they feel demeaned whenever they ask for money form their husbands, so the grass isn’t always greener, but I’d dare say that it isn’t greener at all.
@mariamart_0
Ай бұрын
it’s funny how people assume Nara Smith is a trad wife, when her husband, Lucky actually is cooking, cleaning, and raising her children as a father. she is not classified as a traditional wife, she is just a super model, her husband is not a provider or breadwinner and he is just like her they need to stop calling her a traditional wife!! when she never stated herself as one!!! she IS NOT EVEN A TRAD WIFE. People are just so upset, mad, and angry. Meaning that she is an influencer and fashion model. like they can leave Nara and Lucky alone. They aren’t even trying to bother anyone or benefit as being controversial. They are just living their lives and are just human beings like the rest of us 💔
@gkb_wildlife
6 ай бұрын
Kinda wild how some people have to make everything about themselves. "This person's life is unrealistic and therefore it makes me angry that this content exists". Ok... it's content. Move on, they're not making it for you if you don't like it. I never want to be a trad wife but then her content isn't for me and that's ok! Yes i wish i were as comfortable as her, but that's a me problem not her (tldr: i agree with Zoe's take on that subject)
@art-ti2hq
5 ай бұрын
No their content can affect teenage girl that think being a tradwife is betten than work
@kssgpv
5 ай бұрын
baby aww babyyyyy
@Mystique5349
5 ай бұрын
Their content is as toxic af, which create unrealistic toxic expectations in young minds about relationships, which can ruin the parties involved in it.
@BBillievee
3 ай бұрын
Then they shouldn't be on thw internet.. no one should stop making harmless content just because its going to effect one person @art-ti2hq
@cactuscat3262
3 ай бұрын
Finally someone gets it. Like, let people live their lives! The world doesn't revolve around you, people
@lmcb8447
6 ай бұрын
I couldn't be anything othet than sad being a housewife and habving children but its ok if other people feel happy doing it as long as its 100%genuine and not from socisl pressure or feeling having to conform to dated strict ideas of being a woman. Some men even become househusbands while many other men aren't and some of them also dont want children. All choices are equally worthy of respect as long people dont try to pressure them to do it or pressure them not to do whatever they like.
@orangejmoothies
6 ай бұрын
1:10 what..where does it ever insinuate or imply "poverty" life???? theyre able to do this b/c they have money and their own business and choose to not live in the city??? @ballerinafarm literally is living the countryside life with modern twists. what makes it look like they're trying to be "something they're not"??? you trippin.
@atinyarmy6703
6 ай бұрын
Nara smith isn't even atrad wife, she works as well as take care of her family by cooking because she likes it! There are also many videos of lucky cooking for her. Plus simply cooking things from scratch isn't a word trad wife thing, she's just used to that as someone who grew up German coming with her family. Americans are just used to buying premade food so she seems like an anomaly. Plus being a feminist is about fighting for the choice to do what you want and even if she was at rad wife that's okay!
@iloveyouabunchofbananas
5 ай бұрын
Exactly. I'm from Austria and also make so much from scratch. It's how we are wired. Plus eating out, the way we could afford, just never hits the spot.
@Hello-hello-hello456
4 ай бұрын
She's definitely taking advantage of people's perception of it being a tradwife thing, makes her business more money
@cactuscat3262
2 ай бұрын
Ngl as a man I really wish I had that kinda life lol
@iidentifyasjeffbezos
5 ай бұрын
NARA ISN'T EVEN A TRADWIVE SHE HAS A JOB
@jameschisholm4807
2 ай бұрын
Thank you, people need to listen!
@mariamart_0
Ай бұрын
yet tell the people who classifying her as a trad wife. she is not even a TRADITIONAL WIFE DUDE??? She has a career and why do you think she is a model and a social media influencer. why are people so obsessed with humbling her and telling her that she is trying to recruit people into her MORMON CHURCH 😬🤨
@pomyata_myata
6 ай бұрын
trad wife life is actually perfect for me as an introvert with social anxiety, so it's heaven for me. Thanks to my husband who understands how stressful labor is for me and provides for me so that I can chill at home. Probably it's not for everyone but i'm definitely not a career girly and i haaateeee climbing the corporate ladder, never again.
@honeyedpeaches
6 ай бұрын
Manifesting this for myself lol 🙏
@DrinkYourNailPolish
6 ай бұрын
Same! I worked until I became disabled. So grateful I have a husband who loves me unconditionally and appreciates me ❤
@portofthoughts4477
6 ай бұрын
Same and glad you're not getting any hate comments too!
@Airahar
6 ай бұрын
The danger with these i think is that what happens if the marriage doenst work out. Unless you are independently wealthy or have a good safety net the years you spend married can make you unemployable or at least have less skills that can directly transfer to a job.
@rumaashraf8649
6 ай бұрын
@@Airahar i agree but thats up to them, who are we to make plans for her if it doesnt work out? We dont know their other options, relationship, and wealth.
@camichiBichi
6 ай бұрын
I do agree that their content is mostly just aesthetic and sharing their blessings and amazing habilities, but it is still consumed by younger audiences.:The background of these trends is ''if you liked what you saw and want to do it yourself: get someone with money so you can live this life, and do it while you are still young because then you are less valuable'. That is how you end up in the female counterpart of the AlpaMales, the Femeninity Academies. How to be more worthy and how to choose a high value man (and sorry if you are ugly or live in a poor country or are older than 23). The problem again is not with what a few women choose to do with their lives, the problem is what it causes in many more viewers
@joyeetaghosh2209
6 ай бұрын
Yes this is the problem
@Lillyroseme
6 ай бұрын
TRAD WIFE TREND = SCAM All these influencer trad wives are nothing but a bunch of liars and deceivers, while they DO have a job which is creating content as influencers and making money for themselves to be financially independent, they encourage other women to fully submit to their husbands and become fully dependent on their husbands’ incomes. So sad! I feel sorry for all women who would fall for these lies and would risk their own future.
@BBillievee
3 ай бұрын
Then younger people shouldn't be on the internet
@tivolare
6 ай бұрын
Trad wife is a 1950's post war concept. Its not traditional. Its harmful to suggest that women are only opposed to the idea because we're jealous. Also encouraging financial dependence on someone else is irresponsible at best and (again) harmful at worst.
@zuhasajid900
5 ай бұрын
What were women doing before war?
@cactuscat3262
2 ай бұрын
@@tivolare As a man I wish I could do that stuff, it seems really nice to be free of an annoying boss
@mariamart_0
Ай бұрын
Traditional wives is only an American nuclear family concept that came out of WW2. Majority of women who were not middle-class and upper class in the socioeconomic class system had to work and even held traditional jobs through traditional labor. They forgot that not all women were stay at home mothers, some women were working even before WWll were working on factory jobs and warehouses including Jewish women, Black women, lower class women, and disabled women. Women who are not White, middle to upper middle class, and weren’t higher income had to become traditional wives because their wealthy White husbands told them “no, baby you need to stay home”. Some women had to be working and raising their family. Some don’t have the luxury to stay home and become a working parent. Some of these influencers including Charli and Dixie who got famous off from doing TikTok dances and videos. Benefit from the privilege of being able to sustain a social media presence and career. Instead of working a traditional 9-5 job everyone is working in the developed world. Plus didn’t you know Zoe, that they grew up in a privileged family before they were TikTok famous. They grew up in a stable and loving household. Both their parents including Marc D’Amelio and Heidi were working for the government and Heidi was a fashion model. So they were already wealthy before they blew up on TikTok and got opportunities handed to them. But I still feel bad for those young women and the bullying & death threats they had to experience during 2020-2021. It was so disgusting that these people on social media would bully these women for just having fun and making a fortune off their fame and luck. And calling them “privileged”, “spoiled”, and “ungrateful”. That they were lucky to grow up in a normal family and loving parents in their lives. Not all people have what Dixie and Charli had. People were too harsh on these young women for no reason and that’s a sexist and highly misogynistic society we live in. Women and girls are judged by everyone for anything even if it is what they are doing are harmless like wtf.
@ns-kt
5 ай бұрын
"feminism" is a not a respect for all "choices". feminism analyses and critiques the illusion of "choice" and does not support choices that is ultimately bad for women as a social group.
@andrewdrewandy
4 ай бұрын
i love you
@liselottehildegarde5367
4 ай бұрын
Feminism literally started for women to have choices and live however they want. I guess modern feminism forgot about that already.😂
@ns-kt
4 ай бұрын
@@liselottehildegarde5367 yea right, because its so "feminist" to support choices even if they're misogynistic ones
@obeydastrawberry8875
4 ай бұрын
Exactly! We can't complain and say it's a man's world and also say "oh if you want to be tradicional it's your choise girly". Men would always be our bosses if all women are in their houses making sandwiches
@cactuscat3262
2 ай бұрын
Yeah but as a man I want that lifestyle
@edwinaquartey2231
6 ай бұрын
Nara was a model..both her and her husband are models..with 2 kids ..
@VivaciousLyla
5 ай бұрын
last part is so well said!! working for someone else gives you "assets and values" that can allow you to work for yourself one day (if that is your desire). i got a minimum wage job at 15, and honestly without it i wouldn't have even had the money to be able to afford a laptop, ipad, iphone, editing software, external hardrives, storage, quality microphones, ring lights, tripods, subscriptions, and so many other things that have allowed me to begin my content creation journey!
@AyaneSoto
6 ай бұрын
I want a trad husband like the one in the video 😂
@madis6780
6 ай бұрын
I try to make everything from scratch because everything that the grocery store is full of chemicals and incredibly processed. I know a lot of these women are trying to feed their families well.
@DioShiver
5 ай бұрын
It's so weird that influencers are making it seem like there's only two paths: being reach or rot in the office doing meaningless labour. Like there's SO MANY ways to make money and so many different jobs, I am making games I don't think I would give this up if I were rich because I love my job. So many people love their jobs, we don't need all to be rich doing nothing, I wouldn't want to be influerncer like those girls because I don't like those tiktoks so being rich and famous for that would probably make me unhappy. I would like to be rich though, without influencer stuff
@janicenm9147
6 ай бұрын
Nara smith works creating content and modeling.
@poorvachauhan
6 ай бұрын
I personally think, that my husband should be providing for me and not dependent on my money as a house income, no matter how muvh I earn, i want to earn, but I need that financial freedom that I can leave the job the second I want.
@kaylamountain3988
6 ай бұрын
I love how Zoe is so pragmatic, where she raises multiple points of view and asks a lot of questions
@Airahar
6 ай бұрын
Some people want to be a home maker and that's fine, but for most people it's probably not doable.
@aishaghalia1259
6 ай бұрын
I'm always shocked by these trends! Let me give you a sneak peek into the Arab world and what rich countries call "the third world." (I live in Tunisia, so I'm speaking from experience.) Starting with the feminist movement, where they want women to work just like men, here, women have been working for centuries, even more than men. Women have always been working, even if they come from rich families, and we've been maintaining traditional households. If children don't work, chores around the house are considered work until they reach the proper age. For example, I worked most summers because my dad wanted me to learn how to be financially stable and independent, yet one of my life goals is to get married and have a family of my own. As for the "poor," they're obliged to start working at a young age, unfortunately, but this doesn't stop us from getting an education and graduating from the best universities. People who own their own land, plant their own food, and raise animals are considered rich, not a "poor aesthetic." Even though it's one of the hardest things to pursue in life, we still take care of our lands and raise our children to take care of them after us. Also, we're well known for making our own olive oil! My aunt owns olive trees, and every year our whole family goes to pick olives and then takes them to the olive press to make our own olive oil. We do this yearly, so throughout the year, we always have many buckets that we sell and use. We also make our own bread every week-many women make it every day. If you search for types of bread we have, you'll be surprised to know that every country has its own traditional bread-not just countries, but every town and city. Even couscous, which is a traditional meal in Tunisia and Morocco, we literally make it from scratch every year and stock it. Another example is chilies, peppers, our Harissa, rose water, and orange blossom water. (My father was literally picking orange blossoms from our tree just yesterday.) These things are typical to make in every Tunisian home, and if a family wasn't able to do so, they'd buy them from their neighbors. I swear these are just a few examples, and still, the women in our family are working. I'm always shocked by these trends! It's as if they're living in a parallel world where they just discovered how to clean their asses with water instead of wiping, lol.
@josefinarosadomarquez3576
6 ай бұрын
¡Interesante comentario, primera vez que leo a alguien de Túnez, qué increíble es tu experiencia!
@Emane2002h
6 ай бұрын
I'm Algerian we live the exact same life,it is normal for us as north African to make bread everyday or make olive oil from scratch i don't understand stand how they find this as replicating a poor lifestyle
@rozskz
6 ай бұрын
lol some of them actually wipe
@tiahnarodriguez3809
6 ай бұрын
@@Emane2002h They’re replicating American 1950’s living. There’s nothing poor about this lifestyle it’s just an aesthetic. If they really want to feel poor they should try replicating 1930’s American living.
@kookie_2178
6 ай бұрын
Absolutely right, women working is nothing new , also all the traditional women work hard, not like these new tradwives just looking pretty and bakeing bread 😂😂😂
@neueone
6 ай бұрын
the end of the video is actually so uplifting and validating, thank u! i feel like rewatching this a lot
@tsh1amoo
6 ай бұрын
Zoe is forever speaking factssss!!
@New_andrea
3 ай бұрын
But Nara Smith didn't married rich, she was and is a model and met Lucky (which is also a model) and they met in a fashion runway
@bukkyg2080
6 ай бұрын
I want to b3 a housewife. But that's only for the development of my children. I know what it's like to grow up with parents not being there, and i dont want that for my kids. However, i do want flexible work, too, so i can support my family financially, even if it's a little.
@_andrianan_
Ай бұрын
They’re influencers, and we all know everything on the internet is enhanced it’s there jobs. They’re just making content and getting to there bag it’s entertainment. At least for me.
@AshitaYadav-ky5ws
6 ай бұрын
Understandable that people get angry when the rich can spend hours cooking as a hobby, but that’s the ideal right there, which is why they do it.
@tiahnarodriguez3809
6 ай бұрын
They do it to make more money. Rich people don’t usually cook their own food, but they will for content creator income.
@BBillievee
3 ай бұрын
@@tiahnarodriguez3809are rich people not allowed to live a normal life or cook for themselves?? Make it make sense
@cactuscat3262
3 ай бұрын
Yeah, like, what do people expect rich people to do all day??? Sit around and taunt their money on homeless people? Seriously, if this a man talking about his stay at home life, then nobody would care. But Heaven Forbid a woman actually has free will to decide for herself...
@Pandora.006_
6 ай бұрын
Don't put nara in this.
@lamari_posa
6 ай бұрын
I LOVE being early to watch the queen's videos😍
@aaryavyawahare
6 ай бұрын
The problem with the estee's content is that she promotes her lifestyle as the only correct way of living. She condems women who go to college and have a job outside of taking care of your household. Everytime someone calls her out for it, she immediately plays the victim card and says something like "sO woMen CaNT ChOSe tOo StAY aTT hOMme?!?!!?!" she portrays her life as the only right way of living for women, and says women SHOULD submit to men esp their husbands. That is why women hate on her. Also when it comes to Nara Smith, they're all making fun of her because the editing makes it look like she makes everything from scratch the moment her kids ask for food. For example, if her kids ask for grilled cheese, she will begin making cheese and bread that very moment and it obviously takes a long time to do that. Basically the joke is that she starves her kids just so that she can make food from scratch lol Este's content is genuinely harmful, there are so many young girls who are impressionable and will see this and aspire to be like her. Again, nothing wrong with being a house wife (not trad wife) but everyone (including the husband and wife) must have some form of their own income, what if the husband dies? Life insurance will only last so much. Moreover, Estee while promoting a lifestyle where women should not earn, she earns her own damn money by posting content and monetizing it like ???
@H.A.S.Z.S
6 ай бұрын
THIS! 👏
@이지민-j5w
6 ай бұрын
i know career woman who do the same thing. u can still agree to disagree without shit talking all women who choose that lifestyle lmao
@fatenumberinfinity
5 ай бұрын
@@이지민-j5w but their comment is not shit talking all women who choose that lifestyle? it's pointing out the ways in which estee's content is harmful. you're really projecting and disagreeing just to disagree.
@Youknowwho910
4 ай бұрын
@@이지민-j5wnobody did that? U just cant read
@gnat1280
4 ай бұрын
Ummm… she never condemns women that go to college. She says that she only thinks that women AND men should go to community college so they can be closer to family and support units. She also never says women should ONLY live like that. She expressed multiple times how she loves her sisters who are career women, but her being traditional was what was right for HER. If you actually watched her videos you would know that.
@Lilymoo88
6 ай бұрын
I don't see cooking and baking as labour. I enjoy it a lot and my partner appreciates it. It's better than working in a shitty dark office where no one appreciates your work, doesn't allow holidays when you want and would quickly replace you when you die. No thanks, I'll take the traditional wife role any day.
@tondaniraluswinga2590
6 ай бұрын
Nobody had a problem with you when you said you dream of no labor. When yall said you don't want 9 to 5s and yet when other women choose for themselves what they want. All of a sudden its a problem? You guys are so problematic 😂
@NightMare_Hunter_EXTRA
Ай бұрын
Girl i absolutely love your videos sooooo much i am so glad i found your channel its really hard to find channels that provide positive content (not syaing they dont exist but are really hard to find) especially when you are a student and dont need drama but just some genuine knowledge about the world every now and then. Thank you for making your channel and content ❤❤
@lemn420
6 ай бұрын
absolutely lost it when i saw those strawberrys in the ground 😭😭😭
@Lady_Kunoichi
6 ай бұрын
Lesser privileged people would always know how to appreciate wealth if ever it became their new reality. Wealthy could never understand that...
@joanadeniyi5500
6 ай бұрын
they are many wealthy people on social media who stemed from poverty some people just let money blind them
@maria-mn9ce
5 ай бұрын
So what ?they earnd their money let them live
@chroma._.5986
5 ай бұрын
@@maria-mn9ce what an innocent mind you must have to believe rich people actually earn their money.
@maria-mn9ce
5 ай бұрын
@@chroma._.5986 so steve jobs who said he barely slept or had social life to reach what he did eventually doesn't deserve his fortune now ?doctors who spend there whole life sacrificing shit for studying to be what they are aren't deserving also ?
@terra5857
3 ай бұрын
@@chroma._.5986sure, there are a lot of nepo babies and families out there, but there’s no shot that you think that not a single rich person worked for it 😭 then there’s be no rich people
@Mess1208
6 ай бұрын
Let's all agree that she's shaping the minds of many young girls the right way here.
@arthurgomes776
2 ай бұрын
being a real feminist is respecting the women that WANT to be a trad wife. The problem is in the cultures where they dont even have the choice to either work or be a trad wife. and 10:08 is what is really giving looking from the outside, is giving people are jealous and feel bad about their own shitty life so they start projecting on influencers who just have a more privileged life. if you really want that life get out there and fight for it.
@JJDOSTUFF1111
6 ай бұрын
When naming trophy wives she forgot about ✨eSmE cUllEn
@leahscontemporary
6 ай бұрын
How is esme a trophy wife? if anything it's carlisle cullen that's the trophy husband
@iri02802
5 ай бұрын
Those kinds of videos makes ma glad I do not have Tiktok in the first place (I don't want to be caught up in internet drama it taked to much energy).
@Chloe-yz5is
Ай бұрын
exactly, like what is so bad about being a homemaker😅 why are people so mad about it
@SavannahSteel
20 күн бұрын
Not her thinking that’s where strawberries come from 😂
@Bamgeutcutiepie
6 ай бұрын
i never saw it as trying to look poor.... i see it as wanting to get in touch with "our old ways" everything is at our fingertips today. i think a lot of people long for doing things from scratch. being in touch with nature. simple living. maybe some people cosplay. isn't there always people doing that... but even marie antoinette... why do we say she played pretend and glorified being poor. who said THAT was the aspect of it she wanted? maybe she just wanted the joy of touching earth and grass. get her own milk, and run around free.
@selmario
6 ай бұрын
Yessss exactly my thought, I personally love making things from scratch, it's just so rewarding and makes you appreciate your food much more
@Airahar
6 ай бұрын
I think regardless of whether or not its trying look poor or being in touch with the old ways it just comes across as incredibly tone deaf, inappropriate, and disingenuous when they as people with means and a safety net present themselves as not.
@Babbie48
6 ай бұрын
@@Airaharpeople also complain when the rich have a private jet… can’t n win both ways
@chroma._.5986
5 ай бұрын
@@Babbie48 maybe we should idk...fight for a system where rich people don't exploit the labor of millions of people while having the privilege to destroy the planet or cosplaying as some kind of "simple living" hippie?
@jeanneraufaste8691
6 ай бұрын
If someone is educated and has a degree, I don't see how it could be a problem not to have a job for a while. As for the 50% divorce rate today, yes, it's high, but in 75% of cases the divorce is initiated by the wife, who receives alimony in 2/3 of cases. These are the statistics for France, but the picture is not as bleak as some would have us believe.
@AshleyONan
5 ай бұрын
They’re cosplaying in general. Homesteadflueincers have Nannies and help around the house. If I had billions, I would work at Texas Roadhouse. Hell, I’d even line dance at the bar, 🤣😩😝
@bloominglilly4041
Ай бұрын
I love you’re calm voice and talks 😭😭
@BarboraVolfová-n2x
6 ай бұрын
I wouldnt be a hause wife but I would do some food as a hobby because I like cooking
@KishiKaisei-yp5oj
3 ай бұрын
I like Nara's vids. I just don't want to be a family member who waits for 6 hrs to get my breakfast. But her vids are amazing and stress free for me
@966aAad
6 ай бұрын
I disagree with the every career is equal belief. Yes she has the right to be an influencer but let's not pretend an influencer who usually just helps people get more addicted to internet and a surgeon that save lives are equal. And let me be clear you don't have to benefit society with 100% of your ability. But don't be deluded enough to think your job is equally useful as a person who actually helps. Do what you want but don't delude yourself
@Vic2point0
2 ай бұрын
I've very much a proponent of traditional marriage. And I don't think any of these tradwives are trying to come off as *perfect,* but they are taking pride in their role as traditional wives (or perhaps in their relative progress toward that ideal). I think it's *great* to take pride in good, meaningful work such as raising a child or making sure your home is a peaceful one!
@Katyloveheart
4 ай бұрын
Nara is not a trad wife nor a housewife, she is a model that's her job
@gleasonbarnahay
5 ай бұрын
can we talk about that woman “harvesting strawberries” they grow on a plant not out of the ground.
@Bubbi886
6 ай бұрын
The vanlifers you showed (Scarlet & Seth) can only afford that luxurious van because they build luxury vans for a living (live in them for a bit and then sell them) - as far as I know, they recently gave up their garage because the rent was eating up all their earnings - so showing them here is a bit of a misrepresentation
@starsprout1337
5 ай бұрын
nara smith be lying about the times she making this food at just look at her oven clock lol
@BBillievee
3 ай бұрын
No..? She said it helps her skin condition yall just wanna say crap
@A-M_T
2 ай бұрын
I don't get why people get so angry, it is not like it is your life, leave them alone, you can do whatever you want as long as you don't involve me
@bria1648
6 ай бұрын
First of all the poor do not get to be mad at the rich because they are rich. Grow up your just jealous Second, they aren't pretending to be poor, they are using their wealth in a way that reflects their personal value Third, Yes Trad wives should be careful not to be virtue signal, but that's the same for the rest of us, you can virtue signal poverty and working motherhood as well, and it's equally as common And forth, it's your choice, I understand why some women wouldn't want to be a trad wife but I also understand why some would. Just because you wouldn't make that choice doesn't mean that you can be mad at someone else for making it One final note: being a farmer is not pretending to be poor, throughout history, to have a large farm takes TONS of money, 8 cows eat 20 dollars of food a day easily, I know this because I live on a farm thanks to an 100k paycheck and we still struggle financially. It's a lifestyle, and one you choose and invest in, and most rich people (at least with new money) had to work hard in order to get said money, Ballerina farm is working hard, it's not just an aesthetic
@alyxxa6182
5 ай бұрын
Rich people DO KNOW “THE VALUE OF MONEY.” THEY are the ones paying LITERALLY MILLIONS PER YEAR IN TAXES. Trust me. They KNOW. When was the last time any of YOU paid 2 million in taxes? Never. They know the value of money, which is why they know how to manage it to make more.
@kenzieskyla969
2 ай бұрын
It’s not bad if it’s there choice if that’s what they wanna do and it’s ok with both of them then it’s fine
@someusername4129
6 ай бұрын
Wtf those strawberries that is so offensive 😭💀
@Guk-hs9iz
6 ай бұрын
I don't have a real job. I work as a freelancer. I want to be successful and have a 9-5 but I'm anxious all the time and I can't do it. I envy people with jobs. I really do.
@isidorajaeger7123
5 ай бұрын
I think that these "trad wifes" don´t get is that WE DO NOT LIVE IN THE 1930's or 1950´s ANYMORE. These image is past, old. Behind all these glorification, there was abuse, mistreatment, lonliness, etc. Cmon girly, times have changed and you do not diserve any of these abuse. You are a human and you can do more. "I'll continue to live my truth"..no hun that is not your truth
@H_In_Your_Areaa_Ayoo
6 ай бұрын
Bro I saw the girl in the thumbnail on my tat and her vids were so aesthetic and relaxing
@gwenshin
29 күн бұрын
Nara Smith is not a trad wife. She's merely a stay at home mom who likes making cereal and other things from scratch. Being a former big time model, you know she has her own savings in case her husband (also a model) turns on her. She's safe.
@oliviagrace8989
6 ай бұрын
RE: feminism as the freedom to be a tradwife and to not be judged for it. The thing is, feminism doesn't exist in a vacuum and is not in the service of collective liberation when we prioritize individual liberty over the collective, with no accountability to the collective.
@cactuscat3262
2 ай бұрын
As a man, I wish I could do it
@brianthesnail3815
3 ай бұрын
I knew a man who wasn't very nice when he talked about his wife. He didn't respect her. He was my boss and he was quite sexist about his female employees. I am a man and he felt safe enough to tell me one day that he had 'valued' everything his wife did for him. He had calculated her worth as a cleaner, cook, secretary, mistress. She didn't work but had once been an air hostess. One day she gave birth to her first child. I have never seen a man look so terrified sat in his office when his wife phoned him to say her waters had broken. I guess he rethought her 'worth' that day but on the other hand the tradwife seems to mainly about cooking, cleaning and looking nice. It's really quite messed up.
@stephaniepaul6226
4 ай бұрын
The only thing these people know about the fifties is what they saw in the movies or on TV and that's not how life was. But the 50's was the first time TV families could be brought into every home, so they had to make it look good, but it was just a fantasy.
@Sussudi0
15 күн бұрын
Omg that strawberry picking. Damn I feel like a winner in life now.
@KittySnicker
6 ай бұрын
Women can live whatever life they want and that’s the beauty of Feminism. As for me, I’d get bored being a trad wife. I’m happily married and we both work and I take great pride in my work to a toxic extent. I’m 32 so as a Millennial, I grew up with hustle culture being glamorized.
@Patience2dream
4 ай бұрын
9:46 WONDERFUL POINT, I hadn't thought of it like this before
@abhinandaray9295
6 ай бұрын
Zoe, this is one of your best videos I've ever watched. ❤ You have articulated everything so well.🎉
@maxvlaarhoven
4 ай бұрын
your nuance is extremely refreshing love love love
@konpulsiv
6 ай бұрын
Essentially, I agree with you, but I also kinda don't. Of course it's a feminist message that all women can choose whether to pursue a career or be a stay-at-home-mum, a message which I support. But I also think one has to be careful what to teach young girls and women - and nothing teaches as thouroughly as TikToks of a beautiful, superyoung women who does nothing than to care for her family. Now I'm sure Nara Smith has ressources outside of her husband from her years of modeling etc. But that is not what you can gain from consuming her content. Will young women who aspire to be like her be setting themselves up financially before marrying and raising a family? Also, there's this weird religious background at play. At a time like this, when womens' rights are so much in danger, I think it's best to critically question content that tries to so hard to sell you a picture that's convenient for convervative forces.
@rebeccamartin5791
5 ай бұрын
Love this video.i think my take on this is that people like to play pretend without boundaries
@Schleichtallihopeakuu
3 ай бұрын
I 100% agree with you. I think that there is nothing wrong with being a trad wife But romantizing EVRYTHING is not okay especially romantizing being POOR. People just need to accept that everything cant Be aesthetic.
@kimkatharinaboguhn9138
6 ай бұрын
I don‘t envy being absolutely dependent on someone else
@VanEuclid
6 ай бұрын
trad wife and husband is just tik tokers LARPing as Christians
@lina-hh8uz
3 ай бұрын
Idrk the point from this video tbh i mean pointing into famrers as "poor" is wrong , my family owns a farm and we're financially more than stable maybe considered as rich sometimes and the second point is that i don't understand why ppl r hating on trad wives like wtf u talk bout freedom and how women should take their decisions by themselves and how they shoudl be independent and stuff but u all hate when they CHOSe to be trad m hella confused u make some new words and rules which u don't understand
@greenshawty
12 күн бұрын
Zoe, you are a brilliant i just found Wish you all the best, you are doing a great job
@danielle7127
6 ай бұрын
I would be a stay at home wife for a woman lol definitely not a man 😅
@nayyarasiddiqua1809
17 күн бұрын
Someone living in a war-torn coutry might say the same to middle class kids spending hours playing battle/survival games. Let people do what they want with their lives and grow some self-validation. I'm hoping this is just a minorty of people having an issue but if not so, grow up.
@BrinaCameron69
3 ай бұрын
I (f) live on a farm in the middle of nowhere. I kid you not (Not giving hate to the city folk love u guys😌) but! it's actually hard work. Like in the beginning seeing the strawberries shoved into the dirt as if they are carrots/potatoes/and radishes is actually absolutely hilariously stupid. That was something that made my day. Anyways, living on a farm and being raised to be a support in a family, is definitely different from the city life. The girl who dresses up like she's in the 1980s was quite funny and interesting. My mom (A traditional wife), raised 11 kids (8 of us are adopted). And my dad, a painter. He's gone five days a week, and comes home on friday evenings, and even then when he is home he's not resting, he's on the farm fixing cars, tractors, cleaning around the area, checking up on the vehicles etc. And only on sundays does he rest, since we go to church. We in live in Canada, so the winters are harsher than most. But yeah, it's cold here that it's dangerous and we can't leave the house, but we still have animals on the farm to take care of. If the hydrants freeze up, we haul water from inside of the house outside to the animals. We have to make sure we have enough feed for them. And such. Sometimes the roads don't get cleared for a while so we can't go places, and we have to get wood for our inside furnaces. But tbh, the farm life is much better than city life (in my opinion) And i think if you set your mind to it and are okay with literally stepping in crap and putting your hands in dirt, then go ahead and try the country life 😁😁 If i offended anyone (don't know how i would but yeah) sorry, and forgive me 🙇♀🙇♀
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