You will meet great people. But know also that not everyone is genuine with a pure heart. But the ones who you call who answer no matter the circonstances will be your truthful friends.
@lexybbylol
Ай бұрын
I completely agree!! I am now at the point where I value the quality of my relationships and not the quantity.
@theshepherdsdog
Ай бұрын
i’m 20 and in college. college was always this promised environment of making friends and blossoming but i’ve never felt more alone and depressed in my life, especially moving to a new city. i guess i can only go further by accepting my loneliness and just live life.
@lexybbylol
Ай бұрын
I don't think the mental effect of college is talked about enough. Constantly having to focus on your future day in and day out while trying to keep up with the workload that comes with higher education is beyond draining and isolating. But as someone who was in the same predicament not too long ago, I want to say that it won't always be this way (I know, how cliché). Your feelings are valid and sit with them as long as you need to but don't let it eat you up at night. You can accept how you feel while also accepting that it doesn't have to be this way forever. I am proud of you, moving to a new city and starting college is not an easy thing to do, and I hope one day you look back at this time and be proud of yourself too.
@JetMagetti
Ай бұрын
I can relate a lot to this. It's comforting to know that many of the people around us crave connection as much as we do, it's just that society and our own insecurities keep us isolated from each other. Friendships are a lot of work, especially in our dumb modern world, but it's always worth the effort! I'm also 23 and don't have any "good" friendships. But I know that's not the only way to live- and I know I can find my people. I also think we lack community outside of just friendships. People should make an effort to pay attention to each other and be in each others lives, even if they don't have much in common. I wish people cared about their neighbors, and worked together for common goals. Instead everything is designed to keep us in bubbles
@lexybbylol
Ай бұрын
Isn't it crazy ?!?! We convince ourselves the craziest things and constantly live in this alternate reality that really only makes sense in our heads lol. I know you'll find your people too, they'll be lucky to have a friend who looks at friendships the way you do❤️.
@JetMagetti
Ай бұрын
@@lexybbylol thanks! That goes for you too!
@alexzandra-fallonallen317
Ай бұрын
I so relate to this. Truly. I was called ugly laughed at growing up, negative comments about my body. Called selfish, when putting myself first. I so I genuinely think that I’m not a good person. And deserve some of the one sided and bad treatment I get even now.
@lexybbylol
Ай бұрын
Taking care of yourself will always seem selfish to those who benefit from crossing your boundaries and mistreating you. Rarely does anyone deserve to be treated badly. I hope one day you’ll be able to see that you’re a good person who deserves to be treated well.
@shanayarrington7193
Ай бұрын
This truly was clarity for me. I’ve been recently questioning a lot about my friendships , to know that I’m not the only one that went through this and is currently still going through this, it feels okay…. Thank you for speaking and sharing !! ❤
@lexybbylol
Ай бұрын
I am so happy that the video made you feel less alone ❤️. You will find your people, and when you do, you won't be questioning your friendships with them. And nooo, thank you for watching🥹💞
@shanayarrington7193
Ай бұрын
@@lexybbylol yess you’re so accurate, writin the time I’ll remain patient and work on me! This was the first time you’ve popped up on my feed, and I needed it! New subscriber!
@CutzeSapphic
Ай бұрын
girl dont worry im 18 with friends that i know wont last too long. none of them have common interests or any similarities
@lexybbylol
Ай бұрын
I also had that issue after a while. Some friends just don’t last long and it’s better to accept that than to force a friendship that you know you’re not happy with😭.
@cherryblossom5528
Ай бұрын
AHHHHHHHHH I feel like I’ve found my person and If I didn’t have something to cry for I do now 😭😭 this was to surreal- everything you said hit the nail on the head~ the mental illness and self isolation it’s very hard to come out from that bubble and even find the energy or strength to put yourself out there and talk to people but still craving that connection but also feeling like somethings gonna go wrong because they might not like you/your interests and then you get in your head about it. There’s a quote that says “We suffer more in imagination than in reality” and omg being self aware about these things is soo taxing to the point it feels like some existential dread is setting in the older you get if no “friends” are by your side and yk social media makes it worse cause you’re seeing everyone out and about doing friend stuff and you’re like in bed eating your fav meal waiting for s3 of your favorite tv show/anime to play 😂 but honestly it would be nice to have someone who you consider a friend and considers you the same way to share that with butttt if not our fictional characters would be there 🙂↔️ (literally how I’m coping rn hahaha ) I feel like I’m over sharing rn but this could literally help someone too at least the right engagement to your video there are a lot of people who feel just like you and me and I hope we all find solace in genuine friendship one day. Great video!! And I love your shelves
@estherschaak9961
Ай бұрын
Same..😢 i dont even have the strength to write it down but i wanted to react so i thank ypu for what you wrote is so much what i wanted to say even the cardigan thing 😂 im proud of you and the girl in the video and anyone who reads this and feels the same.. we are alive and God made us with a reason ❤ its enough to be who you are ❤ what helps me a lot in life is to get joy from very small little things like; a cup of coffee, a bird singing or a dog passing by, making a photo that captures my feelings, dance to fun songs, a smile from a stranger or a compliment (given or received) and I have a dog that brings me much joy and i beautiful son (but a child cannot take your loneliness away because thats not your friend and not a replacement of a friend)
@lexybbylol
Ай бұрын
Being self-aware of these things does sometimes feel worse than feeling this way at all lol. And don't ever feel like you're oversharing, I made my channel, so everyone could have a safe place to express how they feel with no judgement. Your words make a bigger difference than you would think, so take up as much space as you need to on my channel ❤️ Also, the cardigan is from steady hands! It's a bleach anime cardigan lol.
@kimberlyjackson8343
Ай бұрын
If you do choose to have some friends it's very important to choose your friends wisely and be careful who you trust and tell your problems to because everyone who smiles at you is not your friend
@helentsernobrovkin2098
Ай бұрын
Dude i’m 2 minutes into your video and your story sounds eerily like mine 😭😭😭 - 2 older siblings very much close in age to eachother, feeling like an outcast, parents not putting as much effort in into raising me because i was the “responsible kid”
@lexybbylol
Ай бұрын
Isn’t it crazy how alone we feel in the situation yet so many people have lived through or are currently living through the same thing ?!?!
@TonyTheTiger1000
Ай бұрын
I feel this 30 alone no friends at all I can relate 😢
@michaellegend6625
Ай бұрын
We can be friends!!!
@elanaslays
Ай бұрын
you get me and i get you wow
@lexybbylol
Ай бұрын
We get EACH OTHER ❤️
@twofivesicks
Ай бұрын
Your Production is crazy! Im Lovin it!
@lexybbylol
Ай бұрын
Omg thank you😭❤️🫶🏽!!
@twofivesicks
Ай бұрын
@@lexybbylol You more than welcome!
@twofivesicks
Ай бұрын
did you do this yourself?
@lexybbylol
Ай бұрын
Yes!! It’s just me and my camera lol
@twofivesicks
Ай бұрын
@@lexybbylol thas beautiful ma’am
@elanaslays
Ай бұрын
i feel like if i was next to you i would look better AS MYSELF not THAN you! because i’d be associated with someone that looks so gorgeous and you seem so interesting and intelligent no way would i ever think someone would look better within themselves because it’s a comparison i hope this made sense x
@lexybbylol
Ай бұрын
Aw, that's so sweet 🥹. Your kind words mean so much 🥹💞
@cerdic6586
Ай бұрын
I am 31 with no friends
@lexybbylol
Ай бұрын
That is completely okay!! I find in life, the people who make the most impact in our lives are the ones who show up when we least expect it. I hope those people show up for you 💞
@cerdic6586
Ай бұрын
@@lexybbylol Thank you! I hope they show up for you as well
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