your doing good. You shouldn’t feel like your failing as a mother because in reality your are a great mother.
@cathyg123
7 ай бұрын
You're doing amazing and I know trying whatever you can, I just wanted to say holding my baby so she was on her stomach like on my forearm, like a football hold. Helped her belly so much. Anyways, good luck.. you got this.. we believe in you.
@MahzadSafavi-in9xs
7 ай бұрын
Be Happy you are a good mom at least iam nothing but 😢 all these feelings are with me every day
@mundinhodapri9191
7 ай бұрын
estamos no mesmo barco amada, mas vamos vencer🙌🙏
@IbmAyaz
7 ай бұрын
😢 feeling all these now a days 26 days old baby
@valiasa-di6hr
7 ай бұрын
Well, I already failed. Colics and the severe pain he couldn't escape made my child a disabled child. Nobody told me that when a creature so small is in such an enormous pain and that pain is the first thing he knows of the big, frightening world, he could literally go crazy as his psychic is not able to manage that. That's what happened to my child and the consequences will stay with him for a lifetime...it's a tragedy and I couldn't do anything to prevent it. I always blame myself, God, the f*cking destiny for that, but i'm well awared it would make no difference, once the damage has been done I can't undone it. His life ended before even started.
@elizabethwall8063
7 ай бұрын
My second baby cried basically every waking moment for 6 months unless I was holding him AND moving (I couldn’t sit down). Then he continued to cry probably 75 percent of the time for about another 6 months. And then one day I noticed he wasn’t nearly as fussy, and then gradually he wasn’t fussy at all. Amazingly, he went on to become the sweetest, easiest toddler, little boy, big boy, and now teenager at 16. He’s naturally very laidback and easygoing. I feel like fussy babies often grow into easy toddlers and kids. So hang in there. Nothing lasts forever, and this won’t either!!
@user-tf4gj4kb5u
6 ай бұрын
Bro i would lose my nerves what‘s wrong With Babies like that like fr
@queenj.8i895
6 ай бұрын
Amen! ❤️🔥
@selenesundara
6 ай бұрын
All of this was/is my sister!
@takemitchyhanagaki1808
6 ай бұрын
@@user-tf4gj4kb5ubruh babies can't control their emotions,they can't talk or walk. How to you expect for them to tell you what is wrong. When in pain all they could do is cry like bruh tf.
@zahramohamed6077
6 ай бұрын
@@user-tf4gj4kb5u😂😂😂
@user-vq9xn5pg2v
5 ай бұрын
This is from a mother who has raised two colic babies... There is one thing which is a miracle for these babies. Probiotic of Lactobacillus reuteri. Biogaia.. It is a miracle. Came to know about it when my 1st one cried non stop up until 6 months when I started giving him this. My second baby had colic too. I started giving her drops from first week..and within a 3 to 4 weeks her colic was gone. I highly recommend this to all mothers with colic babies.
@checkout1992
4 ай бұрын
THE BEST advice. I am now in my second pregnancy and i am taking it myself so it goes for the baby too and is my tool if anything happens once he is born. BEST ADVICE HERE read it moms! this is the path to solve it for real
@Samantha-gv8wd
3 ай бұрын
Yes! My newborn also started to develop colic, and I did some research about L. reuteri and bought the same brand. She is already doing so much better.
@teliciouz
3 ай бұрын
Same for me too! The whole time my son was just suffering with digestion issues because of my milk and once we figure that out and I cut out some trigger foods that was leaking into my supply a lot changed ❤
@user-lg3bj1cu1l
2 ай бұрын
Это лучший совет!!! Поддерживаю как мама двоих сыновей с коликами!!! Биогая, или любые другие капли с таким же составом ( есть ещё турецкие). Также может помочь лактаза
@naturallynursing5392
2 ай бұрын
Yeah! This probiotic also helped my colicky baby lots! Also getting rid of all cow milk protein and switching to an amino acid formula and going dairy free myself for combination feeding was a game changer.
@infinitylouis5891
7 ай бұрын
You're doing a phenomenal job. You will get through this. My son just turned 2 months. I'm 41 and this is my 1st child. I'm just taking it one day at a time.
@garimakilledar5810
5 ай бұрын
Wow. Congratulations. I am sorry for being too intrusive but I just wanted to know if you have conceived naturally. Coz I want to know till when I will be able to have a baby.
@infinitylouis5891
5 ай бұрын
@@garimakilledar5810 Hi. You're not being intrusive at all. I love talking about my story, I want to give people hope. So my husband and I tried to have a baby for 8 years. Used clomid (fertility med) got pregnant but the pregnancy ended up being ectopic which resulted in me losing one of my fallopian tubes. So on top of having PCOS and endometrial hyperplasia, we decided to do IVF. In the beginning of the IVF process, my doctor requested bloodwork. One day doctor calls me and says" you don't need IVF, you're already pregnant. I was in shock and in denial. I went for my 1st sonogram february 2022. I thought they was gonna say I'm 6-8 weeks pregnant. Another shock, I was 12 weeks (3months) pregnant. I was 40 years old when I got the news. So with all my fertility issues, it happened naturally. It happened when I stop stressing myself about it. Keep praying for your miracle. Good luck. Hit me up on instagram @marly_poppins
@alexf9447
4 ай бұрын
Oh wow. You’ve got this! Remember that no matter what, your baby loves you and needs you. Breathe, and do what you can.
@sjb4280
4 ай бұрын
@@garimakilledar5810it's different for every person (genetics, lifestyle, etc). Anything after 35 is considered a bit more risky, but many women are having children in their 40s these days. Check with your doctor and if you're concerned maybe discuss if it's feasible to freeze your eggs while theyre younger.
@nrg3488
3 ай бұрын
Congratulations! 😇 ❤🩵💜
@BeccaTheWreckahhh
7 ай бұрын
I doubt you will read this but maybe it will help someone else. Something I was told that stuck with me… he’s not giving you a hard time, he’s HAVING a hard time. Trust that there is nobody he wants more in this world than you in those tough moments. As moms we don’t always have the answer, but we can always love them through it.
@beachbum1110
7 ай бұрын
This!
@lizzbrock2672
7 ай бұрын
My baby is 10 weeks old and this has helped me so much 😢 ❤Thank you
@BeccaTheWreckahhh
7 ай бұрын
@@lizzbrock2672 aww congratulations! I know it can be tough, but so are you! If you have a good support system, this is the time to utilize them. It’s so easy to lose your sense of self in the period you are in right now so be sure to do something for yourself. Even if it’s just putting on your favorite music and dancing with your little one 🥰
@naturerayee7924
6 ай бұрын
Love this❤
@GowriKausalya
6 ай бұрын
You are right, @BeccaTheWreckahhh.. Congratulations, @lizzbrock2672.. You are doing great, Mama.. I am a mother of 7 month old.. trust me, time will change the hard time.. but, I will say hold on to this sweet moment and your baby.. they will grow fast & you will miss this newborn/infant/toddler baby stage.!
@janh5199
7 ай бұрын
You 100% nailed it. I am tearing up because I have not forgotten those feelings and I am 71 years old. I hope you have someone you can call for a break.
@kirtafa1898
3 ай бұрын
God bless you beautiful lady ❤
@reneerivet6754
6 ай бұрын
I have 5 children and the 5th would cry from the time he woke up to bedtime. Now he’s 13 yrs old and he’s the best kid. ❤
@MrMidaire
5 ай бұрын
Been there as well. And from 6 months to 12 my baby girl got all her teeth, so that startet again another period of pain and screaming🤯... Like it didn't ever stop for the first year. What followed wasn't easy as well. All very hard if this happens with the first child😢.
@maryannruffini2169
6 ай бұрын
I've been there, 36 years ago. It was brutal, but time goes by and soon there will be a happy baby. I'm so glad your bringing awareness to this. Thank you
@Miss.831
7 ай бұрын
All I know is the strength of a woman is incredible. ❤❤
@Littlehoshi17
7 ай бұрын
Be careful and talk to your doctor about postpartum depression. Colic is so frustrating. It does make you tired. It makes you cry. It tested everything you are. I hope it clears up soon. Praying for you all. Stay strong. You are a good mother.
@ms.perfectionist2835
7 ай бұрын
What is colic?
@aishafarook_21
7 ай бұрын
@@ms.perfectionist2835 it's a kind of discomfort in babies due to indigestion. Babies cry nonstop.
@Sarah-psalm127
7 ай бұрын
@aishafarook_21 it's not always due to indigestion. It's crying without being able to be comforted for hours daily. They don't always know why.
@brwynn
7 ай бұрын
Gas X helped my oldest. Even tummy rubs. It pained me to see her crying for hrs. Belly rubs helped a lot. But for my daughter it always started at 7pm. Or right before bedtime. Literally crying nonstop for hrs. I felt like I was losing my sanity a little bit. Then it miraculously just stopped. And she started sleeping just about all night. Then I would wake her to make sure she was alright. Parenthood is the hardest most selfless job I’ve ever had. And through it all do it again!!!😊😊😊
@crystalrose4296
6 ай бұрын
My middle child had colic and it was during the pandemic. Lockdowns from covid had just started and my husband left before the lockdowns due to relationship issues we were having at the time (long story but we worked it out and are going very strong). My first was a toddler. I was never more depressed, stressed, sleep deprived, and isolated as I was then. I stopped eating and taking care of myself and every waking moment was trying to soothe her. I was lucky if I got 30 mins of sleep a night. At one point I thought of throwing her across the room out of frustration and sleep deprivation. Thankfully I did not. Now she is the most amazing little girl ever and I hardly remember those time when I look at her sweet face. All this to say to mommas going through this. You will get through it, it does end, and that fussy baby will become an amazing, loving, creative child. Stay strong you got this!
@suzitwaddle1280
2 ай бұрын
What a astonishingly honest post... Thank you, soo glad you and baby made it through the other side, great job 💜💜💜
@crystalrose4296
2 ай бұрын
@@suzitwaddle1280 thank you 💖
@tequilabumbum4373
2 ай бұрын
Thank you for being honest❤️ I had some terrible thoughts when my baby was crying and I have been feeling so guilty for them! I love my baby more than life, we are all human and having dark thoughts when being sleep deprived, hungry, thirsty, depressed, it doesnt make us bad moms❤️
@crystalrose4296
2 ай бұрын
@@tequilabumbum4373 exactly! Thank you 💖
@andreacampos7871
Ай бұрын
❤❤❤❤ thanks
@vanessa.wickerrr
5 ай бұрын
You’re doing so amazing mama. Jesus loves you all and he’s with you. Such great parents.
@annagilleland2754
7 ай бұрын
We see you. We feel you. We've been there. You are NOT alone. You are not FAILING at motherhood, as a wife, or as a friend. This will pass, but until it does it is SO hard! You deserve SO MUCH CREDIT! You got this Momma. And when you don't, please don't be afraid to ask for help, walk away, cry, and do whatever feels safe and comforting for you and baby at that moment. ❤❤❤❤
@maxE321
7 ай бұрын
I couldn’t have said it better-Wonderful words. You got this momma!
@teresacarle294
7 ай бұрын
🎉Beautifully expressed. Known mommies & babies that suffered greatly w/colic🥺. It's not fun for anyone. 💖Our hearts go out for her suffering... 😊Earlier today a short with a chiropractor popped up in my algorithm out of the blue. It showed an tiny infant on a changing table type pad on an examining table. The liitle is an apparent colic sufferer. The doctor was gently massaging the baby's vagus nerve on their spine. It wasn't in distress, but this action seemed to relax the lil' babe. They apparently have chiropractors that specialize in Pediatrics👶. Worth some research to ease their discomfort. Under comments there were several testimonials of chiropractors helping families in distress, & even discovering other serious health issues that regular MDs overlooked. Seeking outside support is wise, & will relieve some of that dreaded isolation. No judgement zone. Being a Mama is tough. 🙏May God bless you & bring you grace & peace🕊. 💚Bridget from Cali☘️ (using my pal's YT acct)
@BeeCJ
7 ай бұрын
I had 3 children and only 1 had colic for two weeks. The hardest 2 weeks of my life. No sleep and the constant heartbreak of not being able to comfort my crying baby. As a grandparent now I can only offer words of encouragement, give yourself grace during this time. It’s hard, but it will pass.
@ecekaya3901
7 ай бұрын
Rezene çayı iç emın ol cok iyi gelecek sütun de artar❤
@TwilightPlayz-crazy
7 ай бұрын
Ok I’m
@lauralaine8678
7 ай бұрын
You will get through this I promise, my daughter had colic for one solid year, cried everyday and all night & trust me I cried right along with her. I thought I’d failed as a mother, life felt so cruel & unfair I remember feeling exhausted physically & emotionally! But one day she stoped crying & I couldn’t believe it but gladly accepted the peace we both so desperately needed! My daughter is now 28 , she has brought me so much joy & honestly a breath of fresh air! It will get better & one day your baby will stop crying, your peace will come 🫶
@chaxmou
7 ай бұрын
hey if you don’t mind may you tell me what colic is pleasee x
@Ally_964
7 ай бұрын
@@chaxmou Predictable periods of significant distress in an otherwise well-fed, healthy baby. A lot of the times most people don’t know the cause but the possibilities can be over feeding, under feeding, or not burping enough and most baby’s grow out of it from 3-4 months. It’s a really hard thing to go through bc you don’t know what to do or how to help your baby in pain all you can really do is try gas drops and hold and comfort the baby till they fall asleep. It’s rough to deal with and causes a lot of anxiety on a lot of mommas. I applaud them for doing it and this momma will get through it. She’s almost there.
@hafiehuzy
7 ай бұрын
@@chaxmouit’s more like a stressed baby and cries a lot for literally no specific reason my baby is colic too but it’s get better as they grow just patience though exhausting 😔😔😔😔😔
@michellechmelev7439
7 ай бұрын
That breakthrough moment is so amazinf
@hafiehuzy
7 ай бұрын
@@michellechmelev7439 yeah I agree can’t wait for my baby to grow through it ☺️😊
@SenyoLi
5 ай бұрын
Having my new born baby crying and screaming while I was watching this. Hard time will be gone eventually, we will get there. I’m optimistic and I know it’s gonna be difficult but I also know we will get there.
@jordenthegreat
6 ай бұрын
Thank you for sharing. I know many don't agree with sharing some negative aspects of parenthood but this helps those of us who are going through/have gone through it feel less alone...honestly less crazy. My daughter is 18 months old now and I am forever changed from my experience with a colic baby as a first time mom. It makes me fear having more children. I did not think I would survive. Things are immensely better now and I hope that your day when things are all better comes so soon ❤️❤️❤️
@minnamae25
7 ай бұрын
All of this! I'm crying along with you because i once was there. Words of encouragement, your baby is going to love you so much because he had a mom that is caring for him, crying right along with him through all of his belly aches. There a bond that cannot be broken happening right now. ❤
@janetvalencia597
7 ай бұрын
Amen!
@CaseyMarie11-11
7 ай бұрын
It does get better ❤
@LoriLawrence-tj9xt
7 ай бұрын
22 years later, and reading this brings it ALL back. Don’t worry about the bonding. We ended up hyper bonded due to what I had to do to advocate for her. She did NOT spit up a ton, but had acid reflux. Prescription liquid Prilosec was the game changer, but it took 6 months to find a provider that suggested it. Never slept more than an hour at a time that entire time. Mama, I feel ya. Hang in there❤
@emi-ki8bw
7 ай бұрын
I've been trough this 3 times, your comment is beautiful, thank you
@minnamae25
7 ай бұрын
@@emi-ki8bw I'd say I've been through this 1.5 times. My 3rd baby was strictly breastfed (thankfully i was producing good) but his colic was so bad. We dreaded 6pm, usually when things just got worse. Ear piercing cries and my diet was basically chicken, potatoes and eggs. Our 4th wasn't quite as bad, but she did a lot of throwing up, no matter what i ate. Finally at 9 months, our neighbor gave us goats milk and we put her strictly on that and bland tablefood. She completely stopped puking. Any mom that can endure all of this and still continue to show this much love, we should all get a free cruise eventually. Hahahahha. My reward is how much my kid's love being right up my butt and don't like to do much without me. Best entertainment is watching them play.
@shelbobaggins0
7 ай бұрын
My first baby had colic and I felt like I was drowning all of the time. As a new mom I get I had to handle it all on my own, so I never once asked for help. I regret that so much. No one, not even my husband knew what I was going through. I know this is so hard for you, but thank you for sharing your experience with this. babies are only babies for a short amount of time and you will bond with your little one. You’re such a great momma.
@bhardway3909
7 ай бұрын
Me too girl! He’s six now and it’s such a breeze! The hard days will end and you’ll look back and wish you could have them back again one more time
@Goldenretrieverfam
7 ай бұрын
Beautifully said. My first child had colic and I only have one child now 😅. I believe I went through a lot- I was very young so I assumed it was normal.
@kendallpoorman6926
7 ай бұрын
I had the same experience with my kiddo. I'm so sorry you had to go through it, too.
@Malokaaaa-_-
7 ай бұрын
what's colic
@tanial8171
7 ай бұрын
I had a very similar experience as yours. It was hard
@razzledazzle9762
6 ай бұрын
Нам нужно больше таких видео. В них вся правда и суть материнства
@coll4455
6 ай бұрын
I just want to thank you for sharing all of this. You never know what new mom out there is seeing this and is feeling less alone and comforted by it
@brittanybaker
6 ай бұрын
Me!!
@sierrabilodeau3048
7 ай бұрын
Try headphones when the crying becomes overwhelming It will help distract you from the noise and keep you a bit more stable so you can continue to be the best you for him Your mental health means everything when caring for a baby Good luck you got this
@chany6336
7 ай бұрын
Such a good idea!! This !! ❤️❤️
@l7andora
7 ай бұрын
I actually used this with my first born who also had colics and was crying in pain. It helped me so much to not feel overwhelmed. I listened to music to cover the cry while I kept her in my arms and it centered me, and helped me keep my calm and not panic. Colics are very painful. And as a parent, you can easily feel like you're failing your baby for not being able to make the pain go away. Yet, your baby needs you. So every tricks to protect your mental health IS a win for your baby too. And this one works 👍
@mystijernigan22
7 ай бұрын
Great idea! Hope this helps many other moms as well❤❤❤
@julianesilva3730
7 ай бұрын
O melhor é médica o bebê muda a posição dele colocar de barriga p baixo colocar um paninho quente ou uma bolsa térmica da cházinho etc não adianta colocar fone isso não irá para a dor do bebê
@rob-dq7sv
7 ай бұрын
That's what I did with my son. Helped so much. And then he calmed down easier because I was calmer
@GNA2024
7 ай бұрын
This small video will make mothers everywhere, who are struggling with their newborns, feel much less alone. Thankyou for sharing
@catherineButterfly
7 ай бұрын
Thank you for your lovely message, ❤️
@odalimckeon9940
5 ай бұрын
Thank you for being so honest. You are an amazing mother.
@bethechange3827
18 күн бұрын
Thank you for your videos. They hit home for me and make me not feel alone in my situation. God Bless you and your family. Your an amazing Mom ❤
@LilaFallang
7 ай бұрын
I’m 16 and I have no relationship with my parents. Your channel makes me feel so comforted. You’re so loving and present with your children and I appreciate that.
@CooknVibewithannmarielove
7 ай бұрын
I’m sorry you’re going through this, I didn’t have a relationship with mine till I had kids unfortunately
@user-bt3vx8bm2d
7 ай бұрын
I’m sorry you’re so young going through this there missing out I’m sure you’re a wonderful person don’t let anyone tell you different
@pambrown8692o
7 ай бұрын
❤️
@donnacarothers1167
7 ай бұрын
GOD Bless u🙏🥰🌈🎉😍
@kristinaNey
7 ай бұрын
Baby, you have everything ahead of you, don't let yourself down💋🤍
@Orangejuice2313
7 ай бұрын
Take each day as it comes, do whatever you need to do to get through, it won’t last forever. My baby cried near enough constantly for the first 6 months, I could never put her down, it was exhausting, i never listened to people who would say “let them cry it out” because it’s not the babies fault they are in pain. I held her close and we got through it ❤
@mamabrittany9158
7 ай бұрын
I did the same.
@Vanilla_girl34
7 ай бұрын
❤❤❤
@jaxsmom8542
7 ай бұрын
I lived this . I cried just as much as my daughter.. keep pushing through it will end .
@taraleahwalden9339
Ай бұрын
Aww this video was very emotional for me to watch. My two children both had colic as new borns and it was the most mentally draining, emotional and physically demanding time of my life. I had never felt more isolated and alone. Not knowing how to comfort or nurture your beautiful baby when you yourself are in need of that also is very hard. You don't know how to ask for help and receiving help was a struggle to accept also. You are one beautiful Mama and I take my hat off to you for not only showing the best sides of motherhood but the most challenging times in such a delicate way. So much blessings and love to you and your beautiful family ❤ From New Zealand x
@jennydoherty1171
7 ай бұрын
I know how you feel my 14yr old had colic and was lactose intolerant for 6mths all she did was cry I was a single mum with two older kids its the hardest thing to go through but you will come out the other side ❤
@bellalane5358
7 ай бұрын
Same😢
@ifeoflondon
7 ай бұрын
That’s a lot… you’re a strong woman
@jennydoherty1171
7 ай бұрын
Thank you
@karilyons1045
7 ай бұрын
I’m crying as I watch this. Anyone who has been through this can completely relate. Thank you for posting this to bring some light on what it is like to go through this!💕💕
@deborahgepp1436
5 ай бұрын
I feel your pain my baby never slept for the first 14months, then I nearly lost him with a virus that went to his brain. I suffered sleep deprivation depression anxiety with a two and a three yr old as well as running my husband's business. You are a strong woman and you will survive this. Sending you a huge hug. Sleep when he sleeps even if it's an hour. Xx
@shimcheong1921
5 ай бұрын
Where is your husband 😢
@natashamunroe786
2 ай бұрын
Soooo beautiful to see how much love and everything you are and will continue to provide so that your colic baby will be able to hold space for the self and the world🤯🫂🫂🫂♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️
@nicolahogan8519
7 ай бұрын
Just remember that this stage won't last forever. You ARE an amazing mother and you are doing a fantastic job! Sending lots of love and hugs from the UK ❤
@carolmutua5266
7 ай бұрын
Most important thing to remember. The most comforting advice I got at that time was "This too shall pass and it's just a season." Now she's 10 and i'm getting my 8 hours of sleep.
@kelsiefletcher
7 ай бұрын
My baby had severe colic and severe GERD with reflux. IT GETS EASIER MOMMA. I cried watching this because i literally seen myself. Being a mother is the most beautiful thing but it also very very hard at times. My babes are 2 and 3 (10 1/2 months apart). Tbh this age can be challenging as well with them figuring out how to handle emotions and proccess life. You are not failing, you are learning, and sometimes learning isnt easy. Give yourself grace, dont ever be afraid to ask for help when you need it❤
@64young
7 ай бұрын
Wait till their teenagers ! You’ll wish they only had colic 😂
@mbmb7521
7 ай бұрын
💯% agree with you,Mam.💜💜
@mbmb7521
7 ай бұрын
@@64youngEvery age group has its own challenges.n you are Funny 🤣🤣🤣🤣👌🏾👌🏾👌🏾💜💜
@kelsiefletcher
7 ай бұрын
@@64young trust me i know, i wasnt a wild one but my hubby wad as a teen!
@evelynbonner3908
Ай бұрын
Bless you, sweet lady. I honestly don't believe I could have survived what you are going through. I know that sounds bad, but it is what I feel. Having had postpartum depression, I can relate to many of your feelings, and I feel so bad for you.❤❤❤
@AC-bq1sz
Ай бұрын
Oh, I totally feel you 😓💔 anyone going through this right now, please take comfort in knowing that it DOES get better!! Those newborn days with my colicky baby were some of the hardest of my life, but we got through it and so will you 💛💛
@GEMGINA
7 ай бұрын
I remember going to the store with my little guy and him crying purple to the face and people starring I would leave. I dealt with postpartum I had my mom God Bless her to help me and for the first time I couldn’t wait to go to work. I feel you,know you’re not alone. God Bless. ❤
@juanitashippy3738
7 ай бұрын
Amen
@aRandomGurl
7 ай бұрын
I had colic when I was a baby. My parents would switch up the entire night, every night, each of them getting one hour of sleep while the other held me with my tummy on theirs so it would get warm and somehow relieve the pain. I was crying so much, uncontrollably, but you know what bothered them more than their lack of sleep and stress? The fact that I was hurting and there was nothing they could do. I’m 21 now, and their love for me and my sister is still the same. ❤
@IdFaghur
3 ай бұрын
Watching and reading the comment section just make me cry so much. I’m new mom, and having baby with quite same journey to other moms make me think I’m not alone. I’m doing good and awesome along with other mommies out there
@fer-morazan
6 ай бұрын
I was born with colic, and I didn't knew my mother felt that way... Now I appreciate everything my parents did for me
@jzbabes
7 ай бұрын
I feel this on my bones. My first was a colic baby. I wish I had this video then. My second baby was calm and that’s when I understood the trauma with my first. It was so hard 😢
@mamabrittany9158
7 ай бұрын
I completely understand. My baby boy is almost 5 months and I could literally feel every situation you showed. You’ve got this, mama! 🤍
@vargasduo7924
6 ай бұрын
You got this girl! ❤ its tiring but you can do it! My first baby was like this. I felt exactly how you do! Its tough especially not knowing what is going on until you find out. Prayer helped get through. But of course we’re human & it’s exhausting. Felt like I was never going to see the light at the end of the tunnel
@sahrourti223
7 ай бұрын
You're a good mom, NEVER forget that !
@nay0916
7 ай бұрын
No she is not a good mom. She exploits that baby for views on social media. Crying about how the baby doesn't sleep, yet shoves a ring light in its face in the middle of the night to make videos.
@reddraunikar5036
7 ай бұрын
Thanks for being real. It shows that no matter the social class, real and present mothers will always struggle the same.
@NCwildchild
7 ай бұрын
You are doing amazing. My second child had major unexpected surgery at 5 days old and then only slept 1-3 hours in a day (as in 24 hours) for 13 months. I don’t know how we did it but we did. He is 9 and thriving!
@naydacolunga4992
3 ай бұрын
My baby was like that for the first months then he changed to normal. Take courage you Very Sensitive Generation of new mothers!!! 🎉🎉
@saffronlealle464
7 ай бұрын
Oh hunny you will get through this. I pray your precious little man doesnt feel pain anymore and os healed completely. And mommy im praying for peace and strength. Just keep loving him like youre doing. Stay strong and know all us mommys out here see you, we're standing with you in spirit. You're not alone mommy!! Its so brave to share the truth of whats going on and not painting a picture of perfection. ❤❤❤❤
@hmpriv
7 ай бұрын
my son had colic & acid reflux. i feel your pain mamma, and i can relate so very much. you are doing amazing❤️ when he hit about 8-9 months things got a lot better. moms are so strong 💪
@sarahnasir4448
5 ай бұрын
You're doing your best. You are enough, and nothing less than the best mother this child could have ever had. Stay atrong! Love and prayers your way ❤ you got this
@cassidyvianese7739
3 ай бұрын
You are doing great Momma. I was a terribly colicky baby and my Mom and I are now best friends ❤❤ you are doing everything your baby needs. Hang in there 🥰
@rebeccanchris
7 ай бұрын
My twins had colic for the first 6 months…I feel you so much on all of this. It gets better, you’re doing an amazing job ❤
@flightrissk
7 ай бұрын
I went through this with my first child, that was born a mere 3 months after I turned 16. I was so lost and confused and frightened and overwhelmed. Godspeed Mama. Stay strong. This too will pass 🙏🩵
@denisecoward5522
7 ай бұрын
You are so AMAZING MAMA I promise it will get better....motherhood has no meaaures❤❤❤🙏🏾💪🏾👏🏾❤❤❤
@victoraguilar-gj8hr
Ай бұрын
Your the best mother never give up pls do it for me and your family
@aprilnelson3970
7 ай бұрын
Hang in there Mama. You're a good mother. I know it's hard right now, but this is a season that will pass. Sending love and hugs ❤️
@MeganBuckler
7 ай бұрын
I know exactly how you feel. My son for the first few months of life hardly ever cried and now he's 7 month's and he cries non stop. I'm so over whelmed. 😢 All I can do is keep trying to make him happy and remember this too shall pass. I understand how you feel.
@kellytemmerman8463
3 ай бұрын
Oh my goodness, this hit hard... I'm sobbing. Went through the same. Still carry that time with me but it does get better. You are not alone ❤
@fanny1970rt
2 ай бұрын
Ser madre es la experiencia más maravillosa aquí lo muestran como si fuera un sacrificio q lo pasas mal , que no duermes , q no tienes tiempo para ti 😢 y eso no es verdad al bebé desde pequeño hay q incluirlo en nuestras vidas y no dejar de hacer nuestra vida como antes . Sino los jóvenes ven esto y creen que ser madre es lo peor y no es así . Es una vida que no se puede defender ni sobrevivir sola y uno tiene la responsabilidad de cuidarlo .y darle un ambiente sano alegre lleno de amor .
@mareLife765
7 ай бұрын
You are a great mother❤
@m.b.33
7 ай бұрын
Fingers crossed for little boy that the colic will get better soon ❤❤❤ and a really big hug for you ❤
@BriBayly
6 ай бұрын
My son had colic as well and it was the hardest time of my entire life. This reel is exactly right. I’m praying for you mama. Just cry and release those emotions when you need to ❤ The silver lining is they will outgrow it. My son is now 3 and the best little human in the world. But it’s hell going through it. Lean on anyone you can during this time.
@sarahg1735
6 ай бұрын
Aw bless you. To anyone who is going through this I totally get it. My first born was horrendous with colic. One week I think I got about 5 hours sleep collectively. I developed depression after being told I was a neurotic mother by my doctor. I felt all the things you describe and more. I felt a failure and I would visibly tense everytime she cried. Some days I didn't know how to help her. It was one of the hardest times. Just know you will get through it and those feeling pass. It really is such a small amount of time but you just don't know it when you are in the thick of it. It is not forever I promise. My advice is keep calm, take deep breaths and remember this too shall pass. Take some me time if you can, even if it's just to take a shower/bath. Take any offer of help you get. It does not make you bad parent to accept it. Sending my love xx
@proudmammaof6148
7 ай бұрын
When I had my second daughter I went into her doctors in literal tears. I felt like such a bad mom. I told her doctor to fix her or keep her. I was exhausted. Her doctor told me to make a weak chamomile tea with a tiny amount of sugar in it. Not much just a little. I gave it to her when it was luke warm. It made the biggest difference and she stopped her constant crying. Good luck momma. I'm praying for you and your baby. ❤
@karengleeson1956
7 ай бұрын
We used boiled fennel seed water. The old stuff works!
@LLmoney23
7 ай бұрын
Never knew! TY💪💓
@maurao6287
7 ай бұрын
It sure works, has worked for my four kids, some pediatricians don’t recommend it because it can cause damage in their little intestines but I doubt it, I just gave them like an ounce or two, sometimes I feel that my grandma knows better how to treat any discomfort.
@karengleeson1956
7 ай бұрын
@@maurao6287it’s bc big Pharma doesn’t make money with these remedies. Babies only need a few drops. I keep commenting with this, but they never acknowledge. Like it’s a FEW drops. Just try it. If there’s no result, dump the water…. 🤷♀️
@zfchaudhry1302
7 ай бұрын
@@karengleeson1956 It's used very much in South Asian countries as well. Makes a huge difference.
@stephaniem.5924
7 ай бұрын
Yes Krystiana ❤❤ I understand this soo much 💕 my heart is truly with you momma 🙏. Colic is incredibly hard to deal with, I can only imagine for our little ones 😢. You are doing everything that you can possibly do for your baby boy, know that ❤. Your feelings are so valid and they're felt by so many on here. Much love to you ❤️❤️
@shahinamushthaque4913
4 ай бұрын
I have realised all these are part of postpartum and learned to maintain it with full strength in my second postpartum
@Mrizzy_
3 ай бұрын
My sister had colic. My parents had her when they were missionaries in a small village in Honduras. No family or friends really, no access to colic drops unless you took an airplane or had it mailed to you. Not much of anything. My mom tells me how she just listened to my sister cry all day and night for months and how they would cry together. As tough as it was my mom got through it and my sister and her have been close our whole lives. We’re adults now and they still talk almost everyday ❤ Stay strong
@jenniferurano5078
7 ай бұрын
I love how genuine and real you are. Thank you for sharing your journey with all of us!!! You are so strong and we love you!
@sineaddavis3875
7 ай бұрын
I can’t tell you how good it is seeing these types of videos put out there. I struggled so bad with my second baby I felt everything your feeling and more. It was THE worst time of my life which sounds awful because you have this beautiful new baby and society paints the picture of a happy baby bubble, in reality it’s not always like that. And it’s exactly that picture of happiness that society paints that makes the mums in the thick of it feel like such a failure. It will seems never ending now while ur in it but you’ll soon be out the other side. Your doing a great job don’t doubt yourself for a second. Your videos have made me and plenty more mums feel a lot better knowing we weren’t alone in our struggle ❤
@fnaclrssachndra2497
5 ай бұрын
I feel you🫶 i've been trough the same thing alone. Without any support from my family and even my husband. That was hard for me. The baby cried a lot and almost broke my mental. You're a great mom🫶
@d.s.5752
4 ай бұрын
You are not alone, I have been there once! I had a colicky baby with my first born child ! She’s a sweet 16 now! Our bond is so strong, she’s my twin soul! I can hear you how exhausting it is but you’ve got this MoMA, you’re so brave!❤
@CristaCampsCossie
7 ай бұрын
This was my life last year. Tearing up. And feeling the solidarity ❤
@catherineButterfly
7 ай бұрын
You're both amazing parents. It won't be like this forever, although it feels like it. Sending you love and more hugs, my darlings ❤
@kerribailey7653
4 ай бұрын
Oh beautiful, Mama 😢 I'm so so sorry. You are brave, strong, & loving. I know this is what you hear & I know how lonely & guilty you must feel. Thank you for not staying silent. I'm a doula & many of the Mama's have found that cranial sacral therapy helps & even more so chiropractic adjustment by a chiro specializing in caring for infants. Good luck, Mama. Sending love & positive for relief to bless you soon 😊 Congratulations & Happy New Year ✨️
@elpie7002
2 ай бұрын
Yes to all of this. My now 9 year old was extremely colicky and it broke me… mentally and physically. I was sick for a long time and have not been well enough to have any more babies unfortunately 😢 my son is still super sensitive and has digestive issues but our bond is very strong and I couldn’t love him any more than I do. Sending love to everyone experiencing this. It can feel so overwhelming and disappointing. But it does pass, eventually ❤
@mariakjartansdottir3135
7 ай бұрын
It's been 35 years. It's still one of the hardest things I've ever done. As soon as he started feeling better we built a wonderful relationship, which we still enjoy 🥰
@Urfav_blonde__
7 ай бұрын
Girl, YOU GOT THIS!!! Don’t give up now. You’ve come so far and I know it’s hard sometimes but you just have to keep going. It WILL get better, I promise you.❤️🩹🤞🏼
@erincarter5061
3 ай бұрын
Yes, girl, that’s all true. I understand and pray you get out of that season quickly, but if you don’t, that you have the strength and the grace to withstand it and love your little one! ❤ you’re a great mom!
@erikaammann2230
3 ай бұрын
It’s so hard! My girls are 14 & 16 now and they both were colicky for the first 4 months. It does get better and both of my girls are AMAZING kids. This post is probably helping so many moms with colicky babies to not feel alone. I had support groups and mom friends but no one really understood. Biggest hugs!
@omieleguacita3523
7 ай бұрын
No matter how many kids you have, every child is different . And it will test every emotion you have As well as It will even doubt you from being a good mom .. But at the end you have learned so much you gain a lot of knowledge And you will see them grow from little kids to teenagers To adults, and that's all that matters You're doing a great job maybe you're just need to hear it more .. And you have done great for your other kids . And you're a very strong independent person .. great job sweetheart..
@WheresKuro
7 ай бұрын
Hang in there Mama! ❤ Remember how fast they grow!
@reginacampbell4318
5 ай бұрын
I love the fact that you’re truthful and showing us how it really is. Thank you so very much.🩷
@user-ue5hk1iv1u
8 күн бұрын
Its not easy. But stick it out for your babe, they need you. Sending you lot of love, patience and positivity. You are special, you've got this , your babe, xo
@tracithomas
7 ай бұрын
Ahhh you have a good husband and family, you will get through this.
@danielletatninov3784
7 ай бұрын
This too shall pass. Your an amazing Momma ❤
@meltuchman3280
5 ай бұрын
You're doing a great job mother... You will be blessed
@zinn2214
Ай бұрын
This made me cry. Having a child with colic truly changes you. 10 years ago I had a baby that cried every waking moment. And it was a time burned into my memory forever. I would go as far as saying it was actually traumatizing. It did get better for me. And I’m sure most women know what this is like. I feel for any mother going through this. Someone needs to relieve you for a little bit so you can be human. And slowly things will get better ❤
@chinyereapakama298
5 ай бұрын
Never forget how strong and resilient you are as a woman and mother. You and your baby will thrive and be extremely triumphant. Loads of love to you and your wonderful family. 🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹👠👠👠👠👠
@Cherrybombbullies
7 ай бұрын
Hope your family and friends are all pitching in to help, and you let them all help with babs ❤❤
@nattclf8574
7 ай бұрын
You've got this. My baby had colic. She has just turned 3 months and now she's practically sleeping through the night. I used infacol drops just before giving her a feed. Colic usually starts when babies are about 3 weeks old. It gets worse when they are between 4 and 6 weeks old. Most of the time, colicky babies get better after they are 6 weeks old, and are completely fine by the time they are 12 weeks old. So don't worry, it doesn't last forever Even though it feels like it does and you will look back and realize you have done an amazing job.
@LLmoney23
7 ай бұрын
💪💓💫🌻
@user-ev2ou6mk3i
7 ай бұрын
Same for me. My baby stopped crying when she completed the 2nd month.
@nattclf8574
7 ай бұрын
@@user-ev2ou6mk3imy first was the easiest baby imaginable so when I had my second. It was just such a massive shock and it's horrible to see them like that.
@MohdAsif-vd3xl
7 ай бұрын
I also have a colic baby she is 9 month old
@user-ev2ou6mk3i
7 ай бұрын
@@MohdAsif-vd3xl are you providing drops for colic?
@imeldawalo9820
4 ай бұрын
My second child was like this. every sunset he would start crying till he becomes tired and goes to sleep. It was stressful for me because my first child wasn't like this at all. This went on for a few months and then it stopped. I'm glad my husband was so supportive and would always encourage me to be strong.
@stephanie5670
7 ай бұрын
I feel for you. My son also had bad colic as a baby. Now he is almost 10 years old and I can promise you it will get better. The colic will stop and you will be so connected. Your child feels that you care for him and that really bonds you. You have a strong bond and your child has great trust in you.
@savlove9688
7 ай бұрын
Oh mama. So many of us are with you. We cry those tears as one. We've cried em. Felt this. Pls know you are never without our support or understanding. It'll not stop your sweet babies cries, but rest your heart knowing you are still a wonderful mama ❤
@CooknVibewithannmarielove
7 ай бұрын
You and your husband are such amazing parents and content creators when I say my soul felt this one…. I feel you my kids are 12 & 13 don’t ever question you’re self you’re doing the best you can with what you know…..wish I could give u a mama hug right now! I could use one too lol keep up the good work, I’m proud of y’all
@tiffanyms2881
4 ай бұрын
We hear you momma!! My baby was colicky too and it’s the WORSE FEELING IN THE WORLD. I can only say it gets better! IT really does. And you are NOT failing. This is NOT to diminish what you’re experiencing, just want to let you know there is light at the end of the tunnel. I promise. ❤
@TV-xp1rl
3 ай бұрын
Theirs a bright side to this test. These babies are usually wise early in life. They also are good in music. I experienced this with my last baby. ❤
@nubvaladez6898
7 ай бұрын
This arrived like 3.5 years late to me but I'm just gonna say THANK YOU ❤. Totally feeling you, sending love and strength. ❤
@bee1909
7 ай бұрын
You’re doing so well as a mother. It can be difficult sometimes, but you can do this.
@carmenlajefa7028
5 ай бұрын
You’re doing so well, Mama!!! Don’t forget to show yourself the same love and compassion. Also, try a good chiropractor!! Baby’s spine is misaligned so the colic is the symptom, not the condition. Praying for the whole family’s best health 🙏🏼🖤✨
@sneha57300
7 ай бұрын
Hey, now if a ever see a mother with her newborn baby I will make sure that I make her feel that she is brave and taking great care of her baby.APPRECIATION❤
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