I get this. I connect to this so much. The fact that we can't take a couple of weeks to just be without the threat of homelessness is not what God intended for us.
@ChelleInTheCity
5 ай бұрын
Whew! This! 🙏🏽🙌🏽
@IntentlyPurposeful
Ай бұрын
This is why I'm escaping society, selling my house and moving into mobile living. Live MY life as I please. Live by my OWN rules. ✨️🤎 #vanlife #sovereign #single #healing #unlearning
@redsak5311
11 күн бұрын
The threat of homelessness in the US is debilitating. There isin’t any society on earth this precarious as far as housing is concerned.
@lalat5899
5 ай бұрын
“I don’t want to anchor my hope in the future and I don’t want to anchor my joy in the past, I want to be present with my joy” Bars‼️👏🏾👏🏾
@EnhancedSimplicity
4 ай бұрын
YEEESSS!!! 🎉🎉🎉
@ninawestlake5005
5 ай бұрын
Life is one huge never ending episode of Doing.
@healingonesmindset
5 ай бұрын
This!🙋🏾🥹🧘🏾♀️🙏🏾
@brendareed1463
5 ай бұрын
I know right!! ILife is just a long list of to do things, You check something off and there's more to do and and more 😢 It never ends
@tiara2crown
5 ай бұрын
“I don’t really wanna be a manager… of people.” I say this all the time. I don’t care to “manage” other people. I’m too busy trying to manage myself in this life and I only desire to be the boss of myself-physically of course, but definitely spiritually, mentally, emotionally.
@BecomingMichelle5.0
4 ай бұрын
Yes...
@pilotjones949
4 ай бұрын
This !!!!!!!!!
@mxbvibes
5 ай бұрын
real freedom is letting go. “Falling behind” is only an illusion by the ego….. great topic though because last year I drove myself crazy trying to maintain. Had to heal from grinding.
@AleciaRenece
5 ай бұрын
THIS. THIS. THIS. I've been learning this lesson. Thank you so much for sharing this with us. 🥹💛✨🫂🌻 There LITERALLY is no "behind". There is only what is. I'm healing right along with you. I see you and celebrate you.
@mxbvibes
5 ай бұрын
likewise 🖤
@mxbvibes
5 ай бұрын
I rewatched this twice, thank you for the sharing. I appreciate your vulnerability. Many people can resonate
@Datb2
5 ай бұрын
Been feeling this way for the last two years. Lost my job 2 year ago and just paused on life. Been really nice. I just lay in bed and take baths
@MyFunSizeBudget
4 ай бұрын
Those two things are my favorite thing to do❤❤
@afrobutterfly
5 ай бұрын
I've been having *several seats* and it feels great 🎉
@AleciaRenece
5 ай бұрын
Yaaaaaaaaaaaaaaay!!!!! I am SO glad to hear this!!! 🥹🫂💛✨🌻 That actually really makes me soul happy. I'm holding onto this comment with both hands. Thank you so much for sharing this! And it's ALWAYS so good to see yooooou! 🫂🌺🥰
@janayamair245
5 ай бұрын
I resonate with this so much , I recently walked away from a job and I felt a peace ever since. People keep ask me what’s next, what you plan to do… I plan to do nothing , just live and enjoy life
@malaikalovee
5 ай бұрын
“ I’m doing this because I don’t want to die” hit me like a thousand bricks
@diaryofanislandgirl
5 ай бұрын
Dr. Gabor Mate said in a recent podcast that the period 🩸 is a time of revealing truths. It’s a time where our body is rejecting all the things we’ve been bottling up.
@AleciaRenece
2 ай бұрын
Thank you so much for sharing this with us! I can't wait to check this out! 🥹💛🫂🌺
@healingonesmindset
5 ай бұрын
Alecia...you are my inner thoughts🥹
@rbsistah21
3 ай бұрын
Same!
@tammilynne
5 ай бұрын
Yes!! I feel you! I was saying these people who want to be the boss chick are not me. I do not want to manage people and DO NOT have to be the Head. I am good! I make enough money for me! Got my daughter and self through college, now I just want to RELAX!!!
@Mommabear30
5 ай бұрын
Me either! The world can have it.❤
@earthgoddess_66
5 ай бұрын
Yup! I love being me.. Not alpha, not superwoman not boss chick. Just me.
@HolisticManifesting
5 ай бұрын
Yes, I finally decided not to strive at work. I'm going to experience mediocrity for a while. It feels nice. ❤
@tammilynne
5 ай бұрын
@@HolisticManifesting amen cause all good work gets ya is more work. 😂
@Mommabear30
5 ай бұрын
🥂 🎉❤ I love this for us…
@corinneamany6632
5 ай бұрын
Happiest I was in my life was when I was making jewelry, wasn't on social media, and had an old busted cell phone. Things are moving too fast and I can't process it all.
@Datb2
5 ай бұрын
I’m bald to I can’t even keep up with my hair just want REST omg. I just don’t CARE anymore. I almost considered Loc’s then realized I’d have to still maintain and I simply can’t.
@amcgee0668
5 ай бұрын
. . . I feel you, I'm fed up with it ALL🦋
@leesalovely2782
5 ай бұрын
FINALLY...someone who gets it. Healing is difficult and when I've gotten better with one thing, something else pops up and I'm praying, writing, meditating, self-censoring , being ultra self aware of myself, my thoughts and motivations...... I'm so f*cking exhausted and just feel better....whole....happy. And keep a mentally draining job as well. I just want to be free. Be Me.
@ChelleInTheCity
5 ай бұрын
12:35 ok so this! Whew! When everything fell apart I felt suffocated so I got money together to book a trip to just run away from it all! To the ocean. The beach. I leave next week. You should do it if that’s what your soul says to do. I plan to go in the ocean and cry. Literally. 😂 and talk to my ancestors and God and just pray. I need clarity. The water feels like home. Ok sorry for so many comments but that hit me deep! Much love! ❤❤❤
@Datb2
5 ай бұрын
I also need to do the same. Where are you going
@ChelleInTheCity
5 ай бұрын
@@Datb2 Miami then driving to Key West. Never done this before. I’m excited!
@ChelleInTheCity
4 ай бұрын
@@Datb2 Miami and Key West this week. I’m excited! To just get away. Slow down.
@LittleMissSunshine721
4 ай бұрын
The only repercussions for pausing is PEACE OF MIND. If you keep running, keep pushing, keep having all of these things and goals and stuff to do…that’s when you break down. You’re enough. You have enough. You’re DOING enough! Take your time because you have time- no matter what society says. You are loved and you aren’t alone in your feelings. We get tired and weary, but when we get there, we have to break off onto the quiet road. Hopelessness is a scary place to be and I’m praying that those feelings crumble and break free from you. You have such a warm cadence. You’re a kind and calm spirit. God has you on His mind. You are loved and we love you! It’s gonna be okay. Pinky swear. 🎈💛✨
@ibuymyownroses
5 ай бұрын
“I’m tired of running but I’m afraid to slow down.” That so perfectly sums up how I’ve been feeling too. I really hope you have the opportunity to slow down and just be soon. ❤
@myrandomlifebykaren1684
5 ай бұрын
I realized that my desire to be the boss chic was me wanting other peoples approval. It was exhausting. I still battle with it because the world says that is what I should want but I know now that I just do not have the energy for that life.
@SpiritVines
5 ай бұрын
I just left home this year, I’m 19. It’s been harder but one of the better decisions I’ve made. My family doesn’t really understand me nor care to. I can’t keep overachieving and taking it and creating just to make them happy all the time. It’s not me. Your videos bring me more comfort since I got kicked out.
@LetsTalkAboutItWithMara
5 ай бұрын
❤❤ 🫂🫂
@earthgoddess_66
5 ай бұрын
A blessing in disguise. You will thrive.
@AleciaRenece
5 ай бұрын
@@earthgoddess_66 @LetsTalkAboutItWithMara thank y'all for loving on folks. 🥹🫂🌻🌺💛✨ That means A LOT to me 🥰
@AleciaRenece
5 ай бұрын
🫂🫂🫂💛💛💛 I am sending you so much love!!! I'm so glad that you chose yourself. I am SO sorry hat your family does not get you, nor do they want to. You deserve so much support, love and kindness. Even if it comes from YOU. 🌺🌺🌺 I believe you're going to thrive. Once we get in environments that are loving and kind, we can soften and thrive. Much love and joy to you ALWAYS ✨🫂🌻💛🌺 I'm excited to see you heal, rest and be. You deserve safety.
@cherryivana1129
5 ай бұрын
I’m 23 and sadly I’m living at home with mom cause I was supposed to move out this year but the job market is terrible. You’re doing so much better in life at 19 than me 🥺🥺 congrats!! Sending you love and peace
@Datb2
5 ай бұрын
This is why I don’t like driving I walk everywhere now
@iboprincess1
5 ай бұрын
Alecia thank you for being you!!! Your videos are so timely because I am at a similar point in my life. I have given up the "I have to be productive to be valuable" mentality. I am valuable because I exist. I want to experience the rest that my ancestors dreamed of. The things that help to calm my mind are ashwagandha and meditation. No more racing thoughts. I pray for more black women to end the cycle of self-sacrifice so we have the energy to use our creative gifts. We are human-beings not human- doers.
@aohamer
5 ай бұрын
My love, I'm giving you a super big virtual hug 🤗 *squeeze*!! The heaviness can be heavy for real. Your video recommendations & YT home page sounds similar to what mine was. I stopped consuming content for a while & gave myself permission to frolic in the trees, play in paint, & help my friends. When I returned, I clicked "not interested" of some videos & searched new topics that I wanted the algorithm to serve me. Right now, it's DIY garden projects because I don't know why landscaping materials are so damn expensive!🙃 When I quieted the internet's commentary in my head & started giving my attention to the lovely people in my life, I realized how much beauty is still present. I remembered nobody is going to give me permission to be the person that I want to be. I just have to DO IT. I know this is stuff you already know, but even the faithful need to be reminded to keep the faith ✨️ Sending you so much love 💕 Rest well
@AleciaRenece
2 ай бұрын
This is so beautiful. 🥹💛🫂🌻🌷 Thank you so much for sharing this! I'm gonna be implementing this in my own life 🥹💛💛💛 Bless you!!! Thank yooooou!
@Mystic_Soul369
5 ай бұрын
Stay strong sis… Perhaps you need a trip outside of America that usually give one a recharge….🙏🏾💪🏾💜
@AleciaRenece
5 ай бұрын
Thank yooooou!!!! 🫂🌻✨🥰 I think a trip outside the states again, for sure. I also think I need to deal with my mindset and daily practices to learn how not to run all the time. 💛🫂🌻
@Sumystraveldiary
5 ай бұрын
Girl this video was so relatable. I made the choice to quit the academic life after grinding and exhausting myself for three years, and trying to grow as an artist while being unemployed is so much harder than I thought, especially with everyone around me judging me and making me feel so isolated. And yeah coming from a poor background definitely doesn't make it easier. At this point I just want to give all of that up and just keep my passions as a hobby and something that makes me happy and nothing more, so tired of capitalism and always being unhappy because something is missing.
@earthgoddess_66
5 ай бұрын
Just do you!🎉
@Datb2
5 ай бұрын
This is why I don’t want responsibility of work or relationship or anything just want to rest at any opportunity I feel necessary. I m falling apart to. My life is slow n I want to embrace a slow life forever.
@ChelleInTheCity
5 ай бұрын
Omg. Thank you. I’m so damn TIRED! I immediately clicked on this. It’s hard to admit it bc I’ve been such a high achiever. I just lost my job and feel lost and all this pressure to get back on the wheel. And I really don’t know how. I just don’t know to focus so here I am on KZitem then this popped up! Thank YOU for being so RAW REAL AND HONEST always. ❤❤❤❤
@MyFunSizeBudget
4 ай бұрын
Yep, i quit my jobs after my daughter went to the icu and they asked me to work an additional day to be productive. I said no and put my notice in. After a couple of weeks I'm like i feel like i need to do something. But recently I'm starting to feel rested and just figuring out how to live without working so much.
@leslynmoore
5 ай бұрын
🫂I understand, I was thinking about this last night when I could not sleep. Can I please just sleep! I want to do different, just go somewhere and submerge in a culture and learn a language. I love you for always saying what the rest of us are thinking.
@SoftEarthHoney
5 ай бұрын
It is only when I rest and sit my ahh down that the “answers” come to me. I’m still learning to let go of my perfectionism and my striving- and allowing my higher self to lead me. I’m tired of just “trying” so hard🥹 Thank you for these raw, honest, vulnerable love letters to the world💕
@girlwithpearls
4 ай бұрын
I'm tired too.. I feel like my day of rest will only be when I die. I have no one to fall back so I have to keep grinding until further notice. Then we are told we have to keep up with the changing workforce. This life is not for the weak. I pray we all truly get to live the life we truly desire. God bless you all
@angeperdudw
5 ай бұрын
I was just writing in my journal that I just want to sleep, but since I can’t sleep for more than a few hours, it’s a problem for me. Everything feels like work, as you said. The way I’ve found to slow down in my undergrad studies is just to know what’s not necessary. For example I found out that just taking a class can earn my credit even if I don’t get an A or B. So I sacrifice any chance I have to get an A or B. I just settle with a C if I really haven’t any energy. And I said forget about my GPA this year since I haven’t a concrete goal or reason to keep it up. Plus regardless of the anxious effort I usually carry out to get an high grade, it often still ends up around a low B. And I found that it’s about the same even if I relax in my efforts. So now I just get the assignment done even if it’s clearly not perfect, and try to carry my self on to bed even if it’s still daylight (a privilege indeed). And indeed I’m in credit card debt now suddenly and the world feels like it’s spinning faster and dizzying me every day. But now I just sleep in the sun, come what may, hell or high water. The bare minimum will barely get me through and that’s fine. Jesus will be back and he will help us all.
@TiffToodie
5 ай бұрын
Whewwwww 🎯 You articulated exactly what I’m experiencing. I keep and saying that I must be in cycle of chronic burnout and I’m trying to figure out how to balance it all and rest but not quit. Thank you for this!!
@TahkkaTripp
5 ай бұрын
I was about an hour ago on my break and began to think about some health maintenance I would like to do. My next thought was it takes resources (money) to be well. Came back put on this video and you're articulating my thoughts and feelings ✨️ All this to say... I see you. More than that I feel you.
@msheree1009
5 ай бұрын
Have you left America yet? That may reduce your stress.
@AleciaRenece
5 ай бұрын
Not yet. I appreciate that so much. 😊🌻🌺 We just moved, so I need to build my energy back up and strategize to see what my next steps are. I also acknowledge that this is a deep work I need to do. It's not just about the place I am, but the mindsets I have to unlearn. You know? But maybe unlearning and unraveling in a better place could be healing. 🌻🌻🌻✨
@bsnguluwe25
5 ай бұрын
That part
@Ayosubzero
5 ай бұрын
It’s not your fault that you’re tired. The economy has you on a treadmill. KZitem has you on a treadmill. Social media has you have several treadmills that have become “necessary” to survive. Of course, you’re tired. Big business…the tech industry…they’re stressing people out. The world is tired and people are tired, but capitalism isn’t going to stop. We should slow down. We really should.
@fracklov
5 ай бұрын
Go at your own pace . Listen for the voice that tells you the next right thing
@kimberlypowell-young2829
5 ай бұрын
Thank God for you and your content. It’s very life giving 🩵 Thank you for allowing the Lord to use you to put these messages out to the world. It’s so refreshing.
@SL_628
5 ай бұрын
You are NOT ALONE! Helpful tool: Keep a menstrual cycle list. I started one to advise future me on how to prepare. I think the emotions also come from not putting something in place. For example, in my Luteal cycle I have a note to remind myself to listen to soul hugging music (like your “breathe.” album) I even have a cycle week noted as my most energetic to let me know when I’m usually excited and have new ideas. Some of the feelings are equal parts spiritual as it is womanhood. We have to coast oppose to conquer sometimes. Praying for you beautiful!❤
@ChelleInTheCity
5 ай бұрын
This is beautiful! I was just recently starting to learn more about not fearing my cycle so much and embracing it on a more spiritual level. Thanks for sharing this. ❤
@SL_628
5 ай бұрын
@@ChelleInTheCitymy absolute pleasure! I felt led to better steward myself. God assured me that my gender isn’t a punishment. So, I decided to reclaim my position of power. I will adjust life to give me the best experience. So, I no longer beat myself up if I don’t have the energy to do something. I’ve accepted that I have to steward my energy differently that week. 🫶🏾
@AleciaRenece
2 ай бұрын
This was so beautifully helpful. 🥹💛🌻🌺🫂 Thank you so much 😭😭😭
@SL_628
2 ай бұрын
@@AleciaRenece 🫶🏾🫂
@chynnasjrnl
5 ай бұрын
You are just tired of living in the capitalistic way of living that we all have been conditioned to live in. Your soul knows you are meant to break free (which you are doing). Hopefully people get it but everyone may not never get it. Just keep doing you FOR YOU!
@Erica-en2qz
5 ай бұрын
I took a 4 month unpaid sabbatical last year and even though I had no money coming in, I recommend to everyone to take the time to rest if you can. I hope that your upcoming sabbatical will allow you that rest and recuperation.
@hanginwithhunter3395
Ай бұрын
“Go to the ocean & cry” I loved that
@ellah2303
5 ай бұрын
Girl I feel you I just let everything go and what ever happens happens. I don't want to aspire to anything but enjoying my present life
@CulturalMisfitt
5 ай бұрын
Yes. It starts to feel heavy.
@frano.1234
4 ай бұрын
I can’t even begin to tell you how DEEPLY I resonate with this video, and how timely this message is. It’s like you took the words right out of my soul, when I couldn’t find a way to accurately express these exact same feelings. All I can say is: ME TOO. Thank you for always showing up, for always being real, and for choosing to share your raw, authentic, sacred thoughts with the world. You are so greatly appreciated and loved, just as you are. 🫶🏾
@secretowlsociety5562
5 ай бұрын
Watching and relating. 💕 I've been taking this month to let the ball drop in some ways so I can take the time to go deeper on where I can support and take care of myself better.
@stacia1525
5 ай бұрын
What is real is ALWAYS relevant. 😮
@terriespann4800
2 ай бұрын
You have to say "when" to stop. Take deep breaths. The nameless, faceless "they" will NEVER tell you that the majority of "getting stuff" and paying all your money and time to possess those things is just a "gimmic" and a waste of unretrievable time. You are so right, young lady. Stop being in the competition lane. Back in my day, we used to say, "Get out of the rat race." Bob Marley made a song about rat race. Be patient... there is nothing of which to overwhelm yourself. Blessings.
@earthgoddess_66
5 ай бұрын
💯. Amen. So many gems dropped in here!💥. Yes! Falling behind. That's what projectors would love to say about my life yet, I am happy and will do this all over again but WITHOUT 'THEM'. " Y'all can have it" whatever the RAT race is about.I I love this new AR Movement. The Falling Behind Movement. I'm right there in the front row! You're not alone in your thinking. #outliersunite! See you in your next upload.❤
@fordancesake
5 ай бұрын
Sounds like you need to drop some things...take the load off...I relate and it's not easy at all
@Fusion-Muse
5 ай бұрын
I feel this. It's an exhausting feeling. It seems as if the littlest things cost me so much energy. But I want to pour into myself and rest without feeling guilty or anxious. Like you said "I just want to be." Great video, thank you!
@delicate1
4 ай бұрын
It happened to me had a heart attack at 36 from stress no support, worry, no community, etc. Please keep making these vidoes.
@AleciaRenece
2 ай бұрын
🫂🫂🫂🫂🫂🥺 Oh noooo! I'm so sorry! I'm so glad that you're doing better now! 💛💛💛 Thank you so much for sharing this with us. Thank you.
@bharris-ly1wk
5 ай бұрын
This / your post are "fancy" they are worth more than you know. You are an extraordinary human being with a reach to so many. God is not random Matthew 11:28-30❤
@AleciaRenece
2 ай бұрын
🥺💛🫂🌷 Thank you so much 😭 that means so much to me!!!
@LibertySerenity
5 ай бұрын
OMG, you are ME and I am you! I got this push in 2022 to JUST STOP always trying to get to the next level and not being able to enjoy the here & now. In fact, I just created a video about how my delayed road trip made me anxious and once I sat with myself I realized it was the conditioning of the capitalistic society to always be reaching for the next thing. Like you, I was afraid to JUST BE, but I did it and am doing it. It has been one of the best decisions I've made and I'm continuing the journey in my van. Thank you for being so vulnerable, sharing and creating this amazing community.
@MissAhsheya
5 ай бұрын
Thank you Alecia for always echoing this message. My therapist said that this is the new norm and I'm not alone in having 2 jobs. But I reject that this will be the norm for me and my community.
@levelupsinglemom6143
4 ай бұрын
"I just want community" Yes! I want all the resources to live well like you said, and, I want people that I love and who love me to live well with me
@CamJames
4 ай бұрын
"i don't wanna try anymore". mannn listen. trying for decades now, and even the success I've found here is still work ultimately. i love it, but it's still striving. Sometimes we just need to take a rest for a long time with nothing pressuring us. I just wanna exist some days.
@AleciaRenece
2 ай бұрын
This. This. This. 🥹💛🌻🌺
@Ny.Lynette
5 ай бұрын
Girl…. I see you! You’re expressing exactly how I’ve felt for such a long time. Always running towards a finish line, towards the next thing. It’s exhausting. I’m just now starting to slow down and allow myself to to take things easier. I’ve never felt happier than when I decided to just allow things to happen without having to control everything or be the best or most productive. Thank you for this video!
@malaikalovee
5 ай бұрын
this video came right on time
@Jah-jj6dz
3 ай бұрын
Thank you for holding space. Thank you for your vulnerability. Thank you for voicing the unheard. I pray God blesses you. I feel seen here. We appreciate your wisdom
@artoftrendy7161
4 ай бұрын
It’s cool to be lost and homeless for a while I highly recommend it. One day I quit my left home with a few supplies and the outfit I had on and just walked. I didn’t know where I was going what to do where I was going to sleep anything. Things just naturally unfolded based on my mindset. Because I believed in miracles I was more opened to them or looking for them. All of what we see and do is based on choice and participation. We don’t have to do any of the things we get to experience the things if we want.
@stillfiguringitout
4 ай бұрын
I felt like I was the one talking… 😩 I’ve been feeling these feelings so heavy these past months… I’m so burnt out and done with trying but like you said scared to stop running bc it is things I desire… Just not of or the way of these systems but I guess that’s where FAITH comes in… So here’s to ALL of us stepping out on faith that the slow authentic life we want will happen full of prosperity!!! 💜
@flowersrisin
5 ай бұрын
I feel you so deeply. I would love to be pen pals… I feel like we have a lot in common when it comes to our academic upbringing and yearning for community. I’m also a writer. Would love to connect. You have shifted my life in more ways than one. Sending you so much peace, Alecia. You are deeply loved round here! 🫶🏾
@ButterflyBlack-o5p
9 күн бұрын
I think your a Beautiful Kind soul, I relate to a lot of what you share, I'm trying to work through some stuff too. I delete my social media account to protect myself, but hearing your posts made a positive difference in my life, my spirit felt compelled to say thank you but most of all, to tell you that I get you, your loved, liked and appreciated. Sending love& a virtual hug♡ From another black woman
@leochick77
5 ай бұрын
I understand your pain, however as a default parent I've been feeling like I never get enough down time and I am burnout and running on fumes. However, my husband and children don't care and if I have a breakdown the whole house will fall apart unfortunately.
@kimmyo483
5 ай бұрын
I feel you girl ,you are not alone in this. Hang in there Alecia
@shannonh333
2 ай бұрын
I so can relate to your sentiments. I decided about 5 years ago that I would no longer aspire to become something. Always pushing causes you to never be content with what you actually have and who you really are. I took that pressure off myself and I feel so much better now. I no longer have the associated anxiety that I was experiencing because of the pressure I put on myself at all times. Also, being from the DMV (which I am as well) doesn’t help because a lot of people lead with superficial nonsense. I appreciate your vlogs…they resonate with me and so many.❤
@lee_rayyy58
Ай бұрын
I can relate. I’m slowly coming to realization that the only true aspiration that is deep within me, as integral within me as breathing is my love of reading and writing literature. If I’m not a writer, then I just don’t…cannot desire aspire for any other career. I’ve tried, believe me…I never stick with it because I’m running from the essence that is me.
@prettylady818
5 ай бұрын
I feel this video so much ❤Thank you for your honesty and courage. I wish deep rest and deep joy for you and for all of us who are feeling the same way.
@sillybaby1990
5 ай бұрын
Hi Alecia, I am going through the same thing as you are. People see you, but they don’t see you. I’m also tired. I’ve noticed that I’m looking for community without the transactional relationship of give and take. Why can’t we love each other unconditionally without expecting something in return?
@Spiritualnewgrowth
5 ай бұрын
Who are "they" ? Starting fresh is the new flex. Once we step back to observe we find out that "they" are us/ ourselves...self imposed pressure. I innerstand what you have expressed and it takes a combination of healing what we've been traumatized by along implicit trust which will undoubtedly encourage you TO BE BECAUSE YOU ARE- EVERYTHING * MORE THAN ENOUGH 💖
@bremangham
22 күн бұрын
These are the words of my soul !! The things I can’t articulate, I see you .
@ChelleInTheCity
5 ай бұрын
2:14 thisssssss! I feel guilty bc I’m not doing all of the spiritual “things” too. 😢
@Tara_Kunicki
5 ай бұрын
Literally resonated so much when you said “I hope you like me” and then giggled when you said “idk I’m also on my period” lol trust me I agree the whole we effort for others to like us is something I can very much feel especially lately I’ve been deep questioning myself lately
@thefreequency
4 ай бұрын
WE IZ TIED 😮💨😮💨😮💨 As a nation, as Millennials, as black women---we're thoroughly exhausted The culture of consumerism and capitalism is abusive and I'm glad to see so many people starting to refuse and reject it I desire peace above all else ❤
@handdeeabroad
5 ай бұрын
@Alecia we are truly heart twins. I was grappling with this AS YOU WERE POSTING. Realizing I’ve got more to let go to center my well-being.
@keekeefnay2010
5 ай бұрын
You said so many things that are on my mind. I long for a simpler free flowing life..but I’m not sure how to attain that. But this that I have going on right now can’t be life.
@lee_rayyy58
Ай бұрын
You’re such a gem of a person! 13:03 At this part when you said Alecia i looked up it felt like you were talking to me directly (that’s my name as well:) But these thoughts are so so valid and you’re definitely not alone!
@Ryan...Arnold
5 ай бұрын
Another video saved in my Alecia wisdom playlist 😁
@sharonyellow6096
4 ай бұрын
Get off of that wheel!!!! You are there already! You are hearing your soul talk to you. I’ve been there. When you started talking I saw myself in those exact words! Stop! Pump the brakes and Turn inward and know yourself. About 2 years ago I quit my job at 54 years old with 32 years in the game, with so much fear about my family. Saying I can’t because I’m the bread winner. Who’s going to take care of us? I had a total mental breakdown, because I’ve always been that person who held everything together for my whole family. My husband got a patio build on my house and that’s where I learned who I was. All of my worries started to subside, because I started focusing on all of those things that brought me down and why I feared them. Trust yourself, You Got It!!!!! Running behind the fish pole of money on the hook will never get you to your peace. Take Care Of Yourself. You Are Who You Are. Thank You for stating all of the words in my journal that I wrote down 2 years ago. I’m at Peace. Yes, sometimes that fear still creeps in but I remind myself, WE ARE GOOD!!!! 🤗
@TheMobileNest
4 ай бұрын
Alecia, I vibe with what you’re saying completely. I said pretty much the same exact thing to a good friend of mine yesterday. I’m just tired. And I pray about it. I just keep hearing God say just create. Not creating for the money or accolades just create because you loved it. I’m currently on medical leave of absence for 45 days because of job stress. I wish this world could just get to a point where we could like you said just “be”.
@LetsTalkAboutItWithMara
5 ай бұрын
You are not alone sis I feel 💯 , just being ❤ omg you are a beautiful woman inside and out . I have to get this done and this and this by this time it has to look this way. I want to have fun I want to enjoy the process . I stepped out the house to get work done and I ended up at the restaurant talking to people girl I put my laptop down and just enjoyed being out the house because I needed it 😂❤
@Happynappyroots96
2 ай бұрын
This was exactly what I needed to hear, even healing is becoming a task, from journaling to meditation to self help ect it’s all just too much. Why can’t us as humans just be and be at peace ? Sometimes I just wanna exist and be happy with just existing. Everything is just a constant moving goal post, I just wanna be at peace. It seems like everything is motivated by fear now and never doing it just because you love it and it makes you happy. I’m tired of all of it honestly
@kiaray00
5 ай бұрын
Alecia, you’ll find peace. If your life falls apart, you’ll be able to restore it again! If you fall behind, you’ll have wisdom that others don’t. I hope Jesus blesses you in this journey.
@Derelyn
5 ай бұрын
Wow I resonate with this so much. I feel if I don’t slow down, I will get out of control. It seems like a rush with everything. Then when you rushed to get something you realize when you didn’t even want it fr . My partner literally told me you’re gonna have sleepless nights when you really want something . And in my mind I said baby I need sleep . I don’t believe in that anymore. Because if don’t get rest I can’t show up how I would like to. Thank you for being transparent. ❤
@marshaaliciadeans1568
4 ай бұрын
Alecia, thank you for sharing. It shows that so many people are absolutely fed up of the daily grind. I’ve discovered that the accolades and highest levels of education (I have those too) don’t bring peace. I also am burnt out and just accepting that it’s ok to choose how I want to live. People’s opinions and expectations are now off of my bucket list. Enjoy your sabbatical.
@empress2500
5 ай бұрын
You said all of that to say that your soul needs rest. You said that your tired of healing, its not that you are tired of healing is that your soul has been doing the work to heal and it needs rest in order to continue to heal the parts of you that still needs healing. Rest, do what your soul requires you to do, whatever that may look like to you. Doing what feels good to your soul is honoring yourself and the journey you have been on. When you honor yourself, everything starts to fall into place effortlessly.
@obakeng_k
5 ай бұрын
This resonates with me so deeply. My God. I really needed to hear this. I really needed the comfort and freedom you expressed in not resisting my heart's urge for me to slow down and do everything in reverse: being last actually means, at least for me, first place for my heart, my health, my mind and my spirit.
@tiara2crown
5 ай бұрын
It’s funny you mention this because I was recently reflecting on the Bible verse “the first shall be last and the last shall be first” and interpreted as “the slower you go, the faster you’re actually moving.”… which they actually discovered in some area of science as well (quantum physics? Something of that nature) Anyway, it helps me to appreciate moving at a slower pace.
@obakeng_k
5 ай бұрын
@tiara2crown Thank you for confirming, and for affirming the ring in my heart. You have no idea what this means to me. May wisdom keep pouring onto your lap ♡
@amcgee0668
5 ай бұрын
. . . I'm here because I relate to you . . . I notice aspects of myself in you. Though I have never met you in person, I've spent time in your presence- I'm drained and I'm tired too- I see you're heart and you're soul. I l💗ve your being. I'm grateful that you are doing, and being vulnerable. I love you dear Alecia😊✨️
@AnakaStar
4 ай бұрын
Omg! I relate to how you are feeling! Big hugs. Another video I watched said we are all on a collective burnout.
@theunscriptedsuccessstory8898
4 ай бұрын
Girl I am right there with you. I am slowing down and enjoying the moments. Those are what will truly matter in the end.
@themajesticwierdo2193
4 ай бұрын
I have never felt more seen in my life. God bless you and thank you for just being you. You are loved, validated, and appreciated as you are ❤❤❤
@VoyageHER
5 ай бұрын
I completely understand what you're saying and I feel the same about wanting to slow down so much that it makes people (and myself especially) uncomfortable so that I can reprogram myself to have slow as my default setting instead of all this running I've been doing for what seems like forever. It took a major health setback last month for me to sit down (because I couldn't do anything else) and it feels so good to ignore all of the things that I'm over here trying to figure out how to do more of that without pushing away my friends and family. I appreciate you sharing your experience and I KNOW that a breakthrough is coming as I watch you process these thoughts and feelings. This sabbatical is about to be life changing and I'm so excited for you 🧡🧡🧡
@Datb2
5 ай бұрын
It’s been so anxiety inducing to be slow omg we are the same person!!!
@jackiemorris3750
5 ай бұрын
Thank you for this video. I had you in my watch later playlist which I’m usually good at going back to. We cried together. I cried hella ugly lol but I crave nothing more than to just be. I got asked recently what my dreams were and I tried to put something that looked like productivity in that insert the blank. But my deep yearning is to just be. And I want this for EVERYONE on this planet. All living creatures to just be. That’s the purpose of alll my “work”. Thank you for letting me sit in this release. And be here.
@SiddityPrincess
5 ай бұрын
This resonates soooooo much with where I am in life. Who thought, there are others like me and on this journey. I think it's part of the process and I found that the slow and ease I come to embrace is like so transformative in itself. I can't lie though it comes with its own set of challenges. When I was laid off from my job, ever since I have just been learning to be in flow, purging my life of things and people who no longer suit me and ive out grown and learning to just simply exist to "be". I have been so tired of the pace of the world for a long time and only wanted for so long to just slow down. I if im honest, even find myself feeling guilt when I spend a day of doing nothing. Feeling a lack of being productive. My true passion lies in bringing positive change for black women and girls - a place of where we can actually exist and rest, heal and just be. I have even been honoring myself and my body during my time of menstruation, in a way the world "pace" never allowed me to before. I have been questioning things and changing my perspective, reprogramming my mind, while also spending time in nature. I realize this to be one of the most liberating times of my life. Everyday it's a process but I know will be well worth it. I think of what will I look back at this time to be? How will I feel about this time? What continues to come to mind, is my emotions of gratitude because of how sacred this time is... and how much I have changed transformed and grown during this season. ❤
@Buttergirla
4 ай бұрын
You are literally like the best friend I've always wanted.I wish I can meet you in real life.
@missjones8123
2 ай бұрын
I needed this im so drained!
@EnhancedSimplicity
4 ай бұрын
Thankful to her for making this "VERY SPECIFIC" topic video!!! Very Necessary Thank You!! 💛👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
@artoftrendy7161
4 ай бұрын
Today I came to realization of the importance of having a place within myself that has no pleasure or value(purpose). Allowing myself to be empty for a moment not being busy, not in fear not trying to achieve something or obtain a feeling but be in a place of true serenity. It’s like being a cup and all your life you’ve been filled with something ie soda, juice, water feel like you always need to filled. How about just try being cup for a moment without anything filling. I even thought about activities that have no purpose or don’t really bring me pleasure like going for a walk or reading a non fiction book on a topic I have no interest in. Not for the sake of achieving but simply being empty enough to see and enjoy if choose
@TLW369
5 ай бұрын
I simply ADORE you and your content, madam. You’re extremely relatable! 👑👏 (Greetings from Pittsburgh, Pennsylvania)
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