Hearing Joshua saying "this is cringe" in a slightly aggressive tone of voice is absolutely golden
@JC-ex3gp
Жыл бұрын
But that what cringe is, Joshua understands words, you can tell by how he gives advice Take having toys there nothing wrong with being a collector but be a Collector make it look professional don't be ashamed of it but also don't let it be your personality otherwise just have one or two favorite toys and let that be that
@michaelrosenstock9187
Жыл бұрын
this is cringe father
@Shyuthrosnaevin
Жыл бұрын
never in my wildest dreams did i imagine i would hear the va for nobunaga oda say that.
@bannifilth
Жыл бұрын
That and "decent kicks"
@Leftunloved
Жыл бұрын
😂
@bloodocean8389
Жыл бұрын
"Axe body spray, you might as well tell her you're a serial killer" Lmao
@vulpes__inculta
Жыл бұрын
Real
@voomvoom4522
Жыл бұрын
Some women would be into that.
@thebluetoothspeaker
Жыл бұрын
trust me, as someone who has experience in this field, it's true, nobody likes the smell axe body spray besides gym bros
@PandorasFolly
Жыл бұрын
Molecule 01 which consists of Iso E Super is where i point everyone to when they ask what scents to wear. Straight from the bottle it has literally no scent because its main scent molecule is too big for our receptors to pick up on. But once it hits your skin it breaks down and it breaks down differently for each person making a unique smell. Plus the main ingredient can be purchased for a fraction of the price if you want to diy a cologne.
@drewpowell409
Жыл бұрын
Lol true, I’m a dude and that stuff smells like a burning meth house
@Morty143
Жыл бұрын
The art is what really sells it for me. It shows him with a girl (courier) and not romantically or anything but simply walking together and both looking kind of happy. It's perfect
@kingofthegrill
Жыл бұрын
That's what love is. It's not embracing and holding hands, it's walking long roads by one another's side.
@SlZIJI
Жыл бұрын
Courier is canonically female
@thepompf2049
Жыл бұрын
@@SlZIJI Are they? Where did that canon come from
@WordOfYah
Жыл бұрын
@@SlZIJInope.
@TheNwahDango
Жыл бұрын
@@SlZIJI The player characters' gender has never, ever been canon in Fallout games.
@JacketedSoftPoint
Жыл бұрын
As a friend once said to me, when asked why he gives dating advice but never dates, in high school, all those years ago: "Some Coaches have played and got hurt. Some Coaches have played and cling to their prime like a trophy. Some Coaches have never played. But all Coaches watch and study what works and what doesn't. "
@Aogiri_
Жыл бұрын
Great quote
@KingofAwesomness14
5 ай бұрын
I....holy shit i might use this! Good god nice!
@greggersonny
4 ай бұрын
a little late on the draw on my part, but please ask your friend if he is the reincarnation of one of Confucius’ followes
@arcblaze1844
2 ай бұрын
Nah, you want someone who knows the game inside and out. The coaches who never played might be good, but 9/10 times in hindsight, they are mediocre. Thing is, since you are seeking for advice, that means you can't distinguish good advice from bad advice (or else you would already have the answer). This makes the qualifier their experience. This is why pick up artists is such a scam. You see a lot of wannabe coaches in that space, and the thing is, since the people who don't know any better follow them, they end up paying for their services while getting advice that doesn't work. If they go to their coach, they would reason that they are "just not doing it right". Remember, they will say to you that they studied the game inside out as well. Get one who knows the struggle of the battlefield and has a proven record. The best coaches are players too. Phil Jackson in basketball was an NBA player. Erwin Rommel of the Wermacht started as an ensign. Genghis Khan was a warrior himself before he commanded the Mongol horde. José Mourinho (Football) was not a World Cup champion, but he had practical experience in the field since he was a midfielder in Portugal. Belichick (American Football) was not an NFL player, but he played American Football regularly when he was younger. Even Jesus Christ lived personally with the poor. Do you want to get better at dating? Your best chances are following someone who dated (not dated a childhood friend, but dated a stranger or acquaintance) and has a successful relationship. You might get lucky with listening to a guy who never experienced a relationship, but do you really want to rely on luck? Well, up to you if you want to listen to a guy who has no lived experience, but know that there are better choices out there waiting for you.
@Brian-qn4lx
Жыл бұрын
When that friend that's never had a girlfriend gives you the best dating/love advice you've ever heard:
@jensvanbockstal1056
Жыл бұрын
Even tho they never had one they still have experience because they observe the people around them failing and succeeding and learn from it because they usually aren't in love with the person you like or somepne else likes. This makes it easier for them to observer behavior without the distraction of love feelings.
@seasnaill2589
Жыл бұрын
@@jensvanbockstal1056 I also fine those who don't shop around like that usually understands that stuff best. Cause they don't see every man/woman as a potential fuck buddy but as real people, and they know how to talk to them like real people cause they've been talking to them like *real goddamn people*
@lukmanalghdamsi3189
Жыл бұрын
@@jensvanbockstal1056 stupid person never learn from their own mistakes. smart person learns from their own mistakes. wise person learns from others mistakes.
@benjamonoakes173
Жыл бұрын
Coaches don't play 😂
@Nyanpasu_pasu
Жыл бұрын
Literally me
@qt-pie4955
Жыл бұрын
"We all get saggy, old and decrepit so marrying for looks or sex is like buying a broken down car with a new paint job" Joshua spitting the facts
@xtdycxtfuv9353
Жыл бұрын
Sex is mostly a youthful thing. And what this guy is proposing is preposterous.
@nothanks9503
Жыл бұрын
Sex isn’t the whole car but it’s the wheels on the car
@datekaname2246
Жыл бұрын
@@xtdycxtfuv9353 libido and appearances fade over time, some even sooner than others. Take that away and ask yourself if it wasn't for intercourse or appearances, would you honestly be happy with spending the rest of your life with X person. Think hard about it, because if appearance and intercourse is the main reason, then that realtionship isn't going pan the test of time.
@xtdycxtfuv9353
Жыл бұрын
@@datekaname2246 If my gf is hot and white with nice bones, I really don’t care. The last phases of life suck ass for everybody, so that entire point is moot.
@datekaname2246
Жыл бұрын
@@xtdycxtfuv9353 This commer like attitude is why your still single. Nothing wrong with wanting to smash. But don't complain about never finding any indepth relationships with anyone who actually cares about you.
@ladyalicent705
Жыл бұрын
“Women do not usually age as gracefully as men, so marrying for looks or sex is like buying a broken down car with a new paint job” is such a raw fucking line. I LOVE this! It clearly comes from the heart, and everything said here is worded in a way that sounds like something Joshua Graham would actually say. 500/10!
@concept5631
11 ай бұрын
I like when he says "goober"
@buckaroobonzai2909
10 ай бұрын
Eh. I don't shoot for looks myself. My experience is that overweight or ugly women have the same problems and insecurity as well.
@AverageWagie
3 ай бұрын
Funny how from my experience it's the opposite. Most middle aged men I know are overweight, unkempt, and have a plethora of health problems from years of drinking and smoking. Women their same age while they obviously don't look 25 anymore they age more gracefully since they take better care of themselves.
@ladyalicent705
3 ай бұрын
@@AverageWagie That’s actually a good point! A lot of older men be resting that McDonalds belly on the table!
@savannahmiguel5213
2 ай бұрын
Oh I’m not so sure about that. It’s a positive message, but plenty of men certainly don’t age gracefully. Nothing wrong with that, especially if love is there.
@MrMikrowave
Жыл бұрын
Just from a guy that got recently engaged to a girl way out of my league, don't take everything in here as advice, some things are unfortunately the generic pick-up artist stuff he warns you about. Whether it be to deny your hobbies and passion and act like they are absolute killers of any chances or more minor things like "rubbing your wrists after applying cologne", everyone who ever paid the most minuscule amount of attention knows that this actually muddles or even ruins the scent. Again, there is some rock-solid stuff that helped me get where I am, but again, be true to yourself. If you like anime, get that merch, just don't wear it on a date or when getting out, make it your cozy fit. And same about toys and funko pops, if that's what you like, get it, just don't make it who you are. Again, the dressing advice, and the taking care of yourself as a person advice is true, but like I said some is just as bad as pick-up artist stuff. Obviously, it would fit for Joshua Graham to say these things, giving who he is and what not, so as a video Idea I get it, but don't swallow all of it as proven advice. This is a mixed bag of advice. Just saying this because I met my partner during the Covid Pandemic while gaming, and she is way above my league, and she is an even bigger anime enthusiast and gamer than I am. So yeah boys, take care and groom yourself, and just swallow your pride and talk to any girl, that was probably the best advice. Girls do get prettier in your eyes when you get to know them. Good luck yall, took me 24 years to get lucky, and I wish all of you the same success.
@Gladuos1
Жыл бұрын
The parts where he said most women only put on makeup to attract men, or just pretend to like "manly things" were definitely parts that had me raising an eyebrow. Those are the type of blanket statements he was literally just advocating against a minute or two earlier. Ahah
@axtondragunov1784
Жыл бұрын
@@Gladuos1 The author is human as well while it's generally good advice there are some things that could be re written but im just happy it isn't Andrew tate top g alpha male bullshit
@StoutProper
Жыл бұрын
@@Gladuos1 women put makeup on to compete with each other because it is a societal norm. In the 90s, most teenage girls didn’t wear makeup, at least not to school. Nowadays it is the norm. Take any girl from today and place her in a school in the 90s and I guarantee she stops wearing makeup quick, because she won’t want to do something that the other girls aren’t.
@Gladuos1
Жыл бұрын
@@StoutProper No doubt many people do things for social approval, but it seems a bit dismissive to assume there aren't many women who do something for their own sake.
@axtondragunov1784
Жыл бұрын
@@lesshuman00 Alot do but not all of them although I can understand why they would because some of the shit I've heard said towards women in multi-player games has been some pretty vile shit
@bloodocean8389
Жыл бұрын
"Do you wear baggy clothes because you don't have confidence in your body?" Damn that felt personal 🤣🤣🤣
@capperbuns
Жыл бұрын
Hit me like a truck covered in lemon juice
@nikolaiisstupid
Жыл бұрын
i just like Jesse Pinkman dawg
@ithought09
Жыл бұрын
@@capperbuns so real
@peepeepoopoovdbhxvbcc6683
Жыл бұрын
This is essentially why even if I figure I look disgusting in a good-fitting T-shirt I will gladly wear it over some huge hoodie and baggy-as-all-hell pants. I see too many dudes who wear whole ghillie suits to camouflage their insecurities
@henryofskalitz2228
Жыл бұрын
I wear somewhat baggy clothing to keep my remote hoke puncher of self defense hidden the wolf in sheep's clothing
@beetheimmortal
Жыл бұрын
The AI voice meme really transcended itself and now these characters give genuinely good advice.
@arielmino643
Жыл бұрын
Except maybe the part of woman just doing stuff for attention, it kinda felt like it makes it scummy
@Jdjdjdujakzgsha
Жыл бұрын
@@arielmino643I mean it’s not strictly exclusive to women but have you been on tic toc?
@Flamme-Sanabi
Жыл бұрын
@@Jdjdjdujakzgsha still though, there are plently of female people who do not seek attention. Tik Tok represents not every woman, nor a majority at all.
@charlieterry8506
Жыл бұрын
I haven't ever played a fallout game before, and I don't really know anything about this character. Is he actually somewhat like this in the game?
@charlieterry8506
Жыл бұрын
@@arielmino643 Yeah I agree. I mean the part about "women only wear makeup for the sake of men" doesn't make sense to me. Now I don't know anything about makeup, but the whole point of makeup is that it's a form of self expression, and makes you look a certain way right? I feel it would be like saying "Men *only* work out for the sake of women." As if no one ever changed their appearance just to be able to smile at themselves when the look in the mirror.
@insanities120
Жыл бұрын
My man Graham made a 7 minute speech that encapsulates the listener for the full duration, beating them up for their prior thinkings and then helping them grow into a new mindset of being an actually decent and flexible person who cares less about the goal and more about the journey. Well said.
@lorenzodelarosa5659
Жыл бұрын
The fact that a fictional character is giving us advice, and very GOOD advice says a lot about reality
@apolloisnotashirt
5 ай бұрын
The internet is our father.
@tharealchef2539
Жыл бұрын
This fireside chat with Graham raised everyone's Charisma by +2.
@loafylovebit9964
Жыл бұрын
Depending on the biuld, it could be a limited buff
@gladoshrh0832
Жыл бұрын
Damn, now I have 3 charisma!
@dakingofbootleg1229
Жыл бұрын
Great this is brilliant now I have 2 charisma ……..
@epigone1796
Жыл бұрын
@@dakingofbootleg1229 At least now you're not unconscious.
@dakingofbootleg1229
Жыл бұрын
@@epigone1796 hold on I got this Player.modav charisma 10 Player.additem 0000000f 5000 Player.modav repair 50
@johankusanagi6323
Жыл бұрын
I genuinely love the idea of him giving the courier all these tips while they’re just trying to do quests.
@jmjedi923
Жыл бұрын
Lol just like over the radio or something. The couriers like "the fuck is a scooter?"
@Journey_to_who_knows
Жыл бұрын
“What clothing are you wearing? Bruh wtf is this game”
@LetsLearnEconomic
Жыл бұрын
Bad advice
@punhosdepano5805
Жыл бұрын
Joshua surely know what he's talking about.
@plfaproductions
Жыл бұрын
@@Canzandridas 🤨
@thefailingfive4597
Жыл бұрын
We need more honest hearts like Joshua
@1-4-johnny.cash.fan-8-8
Жыл бұрын
AAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH!!!!! RAAAAHHHH
@quadroninja2708
Жыл бұрын
I see what you did here
@asdasfasd1984
5 ай бұрын
We should walk roads with lonesomeness
@_rpaqp_
Ай бұрын
HE SAID THE LINE!!1!!
@_rpaqp_
Ай бұрын
@@asdasfasd1984and get a big mountain of knowledge
@robertwolff8928
7 ай бұрын
"You are simply practicing talking" is one of the most genuine pieces of advice I am in awe
@humanperson9049
Жыл бұрын
Hearing josh say “that’s cringe” made my day
@Demon_Slayer213
Жыл бұрын
And it's cursed.
@KillSwitch0447
Жыл бұрын
@@Demon_Slayer213 yet so true
@Hevvvyyy
Жыл бұрын
Wanna know who isn't cringe, The King
@rinconusmc
Жыл бұрын
I find the best line about cologne. “Don’t spray it all over yourself like some goober”.
@onefine5976
9 ай бұрын
@@HevvvyyySome of The King doing the same advice as this would👌
@SupaFlyJedi
Жыл бұрын
"Axe body spray....you might as well tell her you're a serial killer" Holy crap, straight spitting facts.
@joblakelisbon
Жыл бұрын
Bull-shit. I dated four 21 year old chicks last year wearing nothing but Axe! I'm 37 - got that daddy game going.
@Nixx26
Жыл бұрын
Hey i been using axe body spray what the hell is wrong with it
@pablosanhueza5290
Жыл бұрын
@@Nixx26 I think the best place to start is why you are here...in the present time...at this present channel asking this present question, while watching this video.
@Nixx26
Жыл бұрын
@@pablosanhueza5290 that's some weird question
@pablosanhueza5290
Жыл бұрын
@@Nixx26 that is because it is sarcasm friend. just have a chuckle and enjoy the content. Cheers!
@perlin586
2 ай бұрын
Joshua spitting facts so hard, he inspired me to self-improve. He is truly the best written Fallout character ever.
@Fro_ozo
Жыл бұрын
“Ai is gonna destroy the world, it’s gonna destroy media itself!” Ai: “alright, look, here’s how you talk to women.”
@tonyng3285
Жыл бұрын
Duality of A.I
@majoras_swag
Жыл бұрын
@@tonyng3285AI: How about you get some bitches? *_Teaches how to get bitches_*
@MayorofHopeville
Жыл бұрын
It's just a voice
@Decentguy1332
Жыл бұрын
AI:okay humans just procreates!
@Decentguy1332
Жыл бұрын
@@MayorofHopeville and it was just a joke
@Dibious
Жыл бұрын
Hearing Joshua Graham of all people say things like "Cringe" and "Giga Chad" is a whole new level of entertainment for me.
@matthew2531
Жыл бұрын
For as wise as Joshua Graham is he wouldn't let me regrow his burnt skin in the autodoc
@KillSwitch0447
Жыл бұрын
My guy learned, adapt and overcome.
@matthew2531
Жыл бұрын
@Narendra Joshua and Caesar were raised Christian but then joined the church of Atom and witnessed to the savage raider tribes. Over time they became the Legion and Joshua was one of the worst generals. Joshua was blinded by anger and lost the Hoover dam to the NCR rangers. Caesar had him covered in pitch burned and thrown into the grand canyon.
@matthew2531
Жыл бұрын
@Narendra Joshua has a good speaking voice but he isn't wise.
@Croftbr
Жыл бұрын
@@matthew2531 it could be said he is good with words and experienced but not wise. Wiseness take longer to achieve.
@Cliffer_
Жыл бұрын
4:53 this is true, in 2022 I've talked to an girl for 6 months straight, till I realize she is not interested in me, neither did she cared about me, guess what? When I stopped texting her, she never came back to ask how you doing? What's wrong? How its been? Damn I just was so dumb, never let an woman or man take place in your life like it's an "need" or "I need her to be happy", no person in this life should be responsible for your happiness.
@Aogiri_
Жыл бұрын
Yea sadly a lot of women talk to multiple men with no intention to date or romance them, but keep them as emotional objects and for validation and attention. I've seen it a lot, and once you stop giving them that, they may attempt to dangle the "cheese" in front of you more. I'm sure some men do this as well. It's unfortunate behavior.
@demikuna
4 ай бұрын
damn roland, thats rough.
@yeetusdeletus3226
Жыл бұрын
“Axe body spray? You may as well tell her you’re a serial killer” - As someone who did this, I must agree. Axe is women repellant, and I wore it for that express purpose. The only thing Axe does beneficially is make the gym bros more friendly.
@itzzkittens3198
Жыл бұрын
I am willing to follow the great word of Joshua Graham
@Crusader-George
Жыл бұрын
Yes
@Bobby90
Жыл бұрын
Who?
@markrichards7452
Жыл бұрын
Wait till you follow the word of God
@twingames8499
Жыл бұрын
@@markrichards7452fr. Tried it. Gotta say it was the best decision I’ve ever made. Even despite the struggles. Praise be to god bro.
@sealeafharris4151
Жыл бұрын
Joshua graham is the master we all wish we had before our first date to help us learn
@dougdimmiknife7257
Жыл бұрын
Damn man, this got me rethinking my whole life
@whitelinestude0s220
Жыл бұрын
Bro what u mean u the one who said it😭
@recker4672
Жыл бұрын
Zone operator???
@azazel8700
Жыл бұрын
@@whitelinestude0s220 That's the deal, he doesn't remember jack shit of this happening "when the fuck I gave dating advice for the young mormons?"
@mrcocoloco7200
Жыл бұрын
Ah but you said that...?
@danteshollowedgrounds
Жыл бұрын
Damn man this troll changed it up pretty quickly
@talex3844
Жыл бұрын
We're missing some of the most important stuff. Confidence is like the #1 thing, and confidence is pointed out in the video. But where does confidence come from? Make sure that you have something you are proud of in your life, and you can share it with others in a fashion that speaks to your fundamental character. I am a teacher - that's who I am. I am proud of the fact that the person that I embody at work is 99% the same human being that I am outside of work. I am proud that I contribute something to my community, and that I make people's lives better by doing what I do. I also do a lot of reading and exercise, which shows that I am dedicated to self-improvement and new experiences. My wife has always said that my confidence was a huge factor in her attraction to me early on in our relationship, and now I get to be proud that I am married to a bonafide scientist. I was watching the league of legends world championships in her bed around date number 4 (I was spending the weekend over, do not try this during a date of a normal 2ish hours). She does not play nor relate in any way, but I didn't give a fuck because I am in shape and was an accomplished college athlete. The hobby shit that Joshua talks about here does not apply if you are *truly* confident in who you are and how you present yourself as a person. I don't hide ANY of my morals or ethics simply because I don't have to - I worked hard to be a morally upstanding person and that has worked wonders for my young adult life. Tl;dr: develop yourself so that you are *actually* attractive. Do some community service or some shit. Read a book. Go outside. Actively work towards becoming a good person on your own terms. Become someone worthy of the partner that you want. This will make you more attractive than anything else that you can possibly do. Insecurities are the death of a relationship, so become secure in yourself before looking to others for solutions or even comfort.
@potatokilr7789
Жыл бұрын
You just made me think about confidence in a completely different way. However, I don't think most women will think we're cool for knowing a lot of fallout lore
@youtubesadhominem9118
8 ай бұрын
confidence begins by cleaning your room.
@zombiesurvival5500
Жыл бұрын
A couple criticisms: There's nothing wrong with being passionate about a fandom or hobby, and wearing logos. Just be well-groomed, confident, and NOT OBSESSED. There are a lot of women who do, in fact, wear makeup simply because they like to. In fact many women wear makeup more for appreciation from other women, not from men. Trying to measure the perfect time you should take to respond to texts is, in fact, playing a game. While I recognize that many people do this, I believe that if she is the kind of person who does this crap, it's best to move on. The key is not about whether you appear obsessed, the key is to not BE obsessed. Be genuine, up front, respond quickly if that's important to you, and above all approach with the understanding that things may turn out well or into nothing, and that's okay. Hold your peace within you.
@superbrajanek4579
Жыл бұрын
no, if you like something you can be obsessed with it, getting women is not the most important thing in live, live how you want to, dont listen to anyone bc the only person who is right is you
@the_sleeping_idiot9298
Жыл бұрын
@@superbrajanek4579 point, but this is advice for people who presumably want to have a woman in their life. But by your comment, you are right, having hobbies and likes outside of relationships is healthy.
@TheNwahDango
Жыл бұрын
Indeed, this is a great video but thank goodness I don't have to worry about any of this garbage, as I've discovered the secret to being happily single and yet not at all lonely. I can indulge in my hobbies and fandoms as much as I wish and still live healthy and happy.
@calvinware7957
Жыл бұрын
Every relationship I've had, and I am no expert in those, has involved someone who has been clearly interested in texting me even if they take time to respond 😊
@neuswabian9442
Жыл бұрын
@@TheNwahDango you discovered Cope Pill (tm)? Bravo!
@sublimefungus68
Жыл бұрын
Joshua Graham is still teaching us when we were kids and he is teaching us now
@SomeGuyWithABlueMask
Жыл бұрын
He taught us religion when we were younger, now he's teaching us to get bitches. His skin may be burnt but damn he roasts like hell, but its for the sake of letting out a better us
@danteshollowedgrounds
Жыл бұрын
No lol
@qurokee4174
Жыл бұрын
@@danteshollowedgrounds Yes lol
@sublimefungus68
Жыл бұрын
@Some guy with a Blue mask exactly bro
@a.k8185
Жыл бұрын
New Vegas has existed long enough for some players to become adults.
@cyberus1403
Жыл бұрын
the part that always gets me is when someone says “they’re insecure like you are.” it just hits different when i hear it from Joshua Graham
@StarboyXL9
Жыл бұрын
Yes well the root of pride is insecurity. So many of those "proud" (they claim its just self-confidence) women out there are the most insecure ones.
@arnowisp6244
Жыл бұрын
@@StarboyXL9 Proud People don't advertise to others how Proud they are.
@GiacomoVaccari
Жыл бұрын
It’s not true tho
@isaaksaucedo2604
Жыл бұрын
"Don't spray it onto your shirt like some goober". Literally me 😂😂😂
@cityoflights1086
Жыл бұрын
"i will personally fit you in the shin with a Razor scooter" i laughed way too hard at that line XD
@that_Dominic_guy
Жыл бұрын
We all need someone like Joshua in our lives. Sadly, he is too pure for our broken world
@nativepoint14
Жыл бұрын
He's a genocidal warcriminal who only calmed down because he got chucked down a canyon and lost everything. He's not pure at all.
@Ayranenjoyer
Жыл бұрын
@@nativepoint14 Well mf burned to crisp. apparently fires of hell purified his soul
@thatoddball4792
Жыл бұрын
@@nativepoint14 even though he is a sinner, it is believed he has been saved
@hellzminionz4587
Жыл бұрын
@@nativepoint14 o: nice. still really nice stuff. he's helping people out with this type of shit.
@justrandomguy5010
Жыл бұрын
@Jenny Main u female?
@alecstapley9709
Жыл бұрын
Listening to this while changing my son’s diaper, can’t wait to share this wisdom with him someday👍
@mivapusa
Жыл бұрын
Tell it to him like they are the words of a real-life sage of knowledge
@cyberneticbeast
Жыл бұрын
truly, boy become man when he become father of son.
@K17ASU
Жыл бұрын
@@cyberneticbeast man, thats kind of wise words
@hellothere-rr7kc
Жыл бұрын
Please do not teach your child this and instead inform him of the truth
@fackingcant6528
Жыл бұрын
please elucidate your son of the order of chaos
@AwfulWaffle8474
Жыл бұрын
i love how he said this will trigger some of you and then you have people writing paragraph retorts on the exact thing he said. The Burned Man is 10 steps ahead
@randomperson-be7dm
Жыл бұрын
WE MAKIN IT OUT THE FRIENDZONE WITH THIS ONE
@Jesse-jp8bt
Жыл бұрын
"Don't spray it under your shirt like some goober" noted
@25thVictor
Жыл бұрын
But I'm a goofy goober :,(
@goober3097
Жыл бұрын
I never use axe, what do you mean?
@plymouthruckingberg3479
Жыл бұрын
@@goober3097 Axe's products don't last as long as other body sprays and smell absolutely horrible
@ferretmonger0236
Жыл бұрын
I used dr squatch
@25thVictor
Жыл бұрын
@@plymouthruckingberg3479 You missed the pun 😭 bros named Goober, op said "like some goober" Sorry for explaining the joke but had to incase
@KJ-nw8ge
Жыл бұрын
Finally. Tips grown men have been telling grown boys for years. Let's hope it coming from Joshua Graham will give it impact.
@BeautifulGreen252
Жыл бұрын
Alright either you grew up with a lot of good men around you or you're a boomer but I'll break the sad news no one has been telling young men this for years that's the problem.
@aceman0000099
Жыл бұрын
@@BeautifulGreen252 exactly.
@capperbuns
Жыл бұрын
@@BeautifulGreen252my dad did. Some advice better than others, but he did. The problem is, i'm not really big onto the relationship game rn, my last girl dumped me because of past trauma that i still can't get past.
@KJ-nw8ge
Жыл бұрын
@@BeautifulGreen252 No I'm not a boomer but I have been telling young men about this for years. Unfortunately they listen to grifters or black pillers who either trun these men into those with no self respect or no self confidence. Which is a shame.
@theoverseersoffice5533
Жыл бұрын
@@BeautifulGreen252 you act like growing up with good men is a hard thing to do, maybe just don't be so fucking condescending and you'll find those good men. LMAO
@Robloxman226
Жыл бұрын
This is one of the better "AI voice gives you advice" videos because it gives specific, bracing advice and provides reasoning for a lot of it. This isn't just feel-good claptrap.
@NaderVaderYT
Жыл бұрын
i respect that you said sex if you choose fr
@jonathanbourke305
Жыл бұрын
Joshua Graham calling logo shirts "cringe" is one of the most hilarious things I've heard in a long while. I nearly fell out of my chair.
@cesims1230
Жыл бұрын
I already do that. I have a no tshirt rule.
@TheManDude
Жыл бұрын
Joshua saying “goober” is honestly something I never expected… like ever.
@bloodocean8389
Жыл бұрын
Ikr, I died when he said "6'4 gigachad" 🤣
@louisvro
Жыл бұрын
@@bloodocean8389 because it's done by an AI bot thing
@ProTroll69
Жыл бұрын
Best advice I got was “don’t lie about who you are.” You have to be the real you. You can’t pretend to be someone else forever. She will catch on. This attracts a real compatible partner and greatly reduces your anxiety. Just avoid lying to her altogether. That builds trust, and remember that real love is wanting her to be happy. Remember the ending of Bruce Almighty… You can’t force a woman to like you, only fan the flames of pre-existing attraction. Also, consent is key.
@chdata
Жыл бұрын
I disagree. If I were just myself I would be anti-social and avoid women because of social anxiety. Maybe some people listening to this video are currently slobs and need to work on themselves. I surely wouldn't tell them to be themselves. For some things you really have to learn to change and become a new you. "Just be yourself" is the most bullshit wrong advice for men I've heard my entire life to the point that it annoys me when people say it. Learn to be comfortable with yourself, and learn to be comfortable with other people. If you have social anxiety, look up self-help posted by real therapists, there's fantastic videos on youtube on the subject.
@ProTroll69
Жыл бұрын
@@chdata I literally got this advice from Cinema Therapy on youtube. If the real you is a slob or ridden with anxiety, you have to reveal that person to begin to change. Changing bad habits also doesn’t mean changing who you are, it’s changing the habit/behavior. Tbh I know a dude who is absurdly obnoxious, aggressively bisexual, and smells like death 24/7. He has a girlfriend. She’s not hot, but he’s got her.
@fumothfan9
Жыл бұрын
Half right. Be yourself. But Also improve. We never stop growing just some people stop caring. If so it's truly over. Be you but strive to be the best you. Maybe hell idk try video games and move onto coding or maybe watching animal documentaries and move onto bird watching and learning to take care of animals.
@Alienrun
Жыл бұрын
@@chdata Since when did becoming a good person contradict being yourself? Building confidence in yourself can be done without faking it...its being courageous to say "I'm going to be genuine" from a place of genuiness and being fine with the outcome. As long as your trying to be good any girl who is also good will like that...and even if they are not attracted to you they will at least like talking to you.
@underrated7312
Жыл бұрын
@@ProTroll69 what does aggressively bisexual mean lol
@Hammbooligan
7 ай бұрын
bro i dont think joshua graham would say cringe. but ill listen to it anyways lol.
@dancingbanana627
6 ай бұрын
That and saying “kicks” when referring to shoes.
@ThePelicanMan
Жыл бұрын
Man if he finished with- “I know there is someone out there for you, but we can’t expect God to do all the work.”👌🏻
@otoyoto7153
Жыл бұрын
"Don't view this as a game" "Do not text back women too quickly, it makes you look desperate" And people wanna ask why men are done with this shit lol
@DoubleBourbonBaconCheeseBurger
Жыл бұрын
fr, god forbid I just wanna text someone
@scythescythe884
Жыл бұрын
as a woman, you can safely ignore any texting rules. just do not blow up our phones with 3-6 texts in a row if we are not responding immediately, that shit is really fucking annoying. each person is different. I am very busy so I don't always notice when it takes a while to reply. you might get a text back from me in 1-3 hours on average, or you will get a bit of time where texts back are instant for a while. mostly because I'm ass deep in commissions a lot of the time. if anything its a complement if someone like me spends their breaks with you. my perspective is a little different because I am my own business for work. its a full time job and a half.
@justagamer1160
Жыл бұрын
what kind of job do you do ?
@darkachu6799
Жыл бұрын
@@scythescythe884 close your mouth and go back to the kitchen
@pinkkitty3636
Жыл бұрын
Im a wamen, and I can say with confidence that I like it when he texts me back right away. It shows that he cares. It may be because he has other unique aspects as well, but this behavior shows he isn't trying to be mysterious and busy. That shit is childish
@yendrian44
Жыл бұрын
This is... surprisingly wholesome. I don't know the character but the advices are pretty good and respectful, love it
@nathanrayy7239
Жыл бұрын
This is probably some of the best advice I've ever received It was all just so clear, and well spoken
@WowItzAkina
Жыл бұрын
I’m already rocking Joshua’s drip guidelines, now I’ll take the rest of his advice. Praise Zion
@GoatSimpulator
Жыл бұрын
Not too sure bout the "not wearing logo shirts" advice though... Every time I have had girls approach me lately, it was to compliment my shirt or hoodie cause it had something on it they liked, especially my anime shirts!!!
@WowItzAkina
Жыл бұрын
@@GoatSimpulator notice what he says about “that’s what teenagers wear” it’s kinda saying “that’s what girls want not women”
@GoatSimpulator
Жыл бұрын
@WowItzAkina Sorry the word "girl" caused a misunderstanding, I mean women... I'm 34 and the ladies I'm referring to range from mid-20s to my age. And are usually so attractive, I stumble over my words lol
@benakinnusi2518
Жыл бұрын
Tucked in black/white tee with jeans??? That is the farthest thing FROM drip 😂
@treesap9789
Жыл бұрын
@@GoatSimpulator Anime shirts can be cool, long as its not excessive or uncomfortable to look at. First off, try and stay far out of hentai shirts, that is a given. Secondly, keep it simple, it shouldn't be too detailed, otherwise it can become overbearing and distracting. Simple is good. Remember to keep it your size, don't go baggy, but don't go excessively small. A comfortable shirt that is tight enough to cover your body without hiding it is a great shirt. Showing confidence in your body is very important, as even pretending to be confident can make you feel more confident. Confidence is good for thousands of reasons, looking good is just one of them. Keep all of this in mind, and remember to keep to a simplistic color palette or you stick out like a sore thumb. Like Joshua says, keep it simple. White, grey, and black, or darker variants of colors, such as navy blue, look best. In short, don't go out trying to look unique and cool, look simple. Your appearance matters little in comparison to your personality, and focusing too much on looks can make you forget how to act.
@DT-267K
Жыл бұрын
I was expecting this to be a reading of some tryhard or incel parody copypasta, but no, it's legitimately solid, levelheaded, reasonable advice. And it's been condensed into a 7 minute video. This is amazing.
@xtdycxtfuv9353
Жыл бұрын
The same common and tired platitudes is good advice to indoctrinated people. If you are a man, you really ought to know that sexually attractiveness is what will get you a woman and a few facts about male demographics and what attracts women.
@datekaname2246
Жыл бұрын
@@xtdycxtfuv9353 most incel and pick up artists are forever alone, widely hated, and have never genuinely experienced love from the opposite sex.
@xtdycxtfuv9353
Жыл бұрын
@@datekaname2246 The ugly ones, yes. But that is not special to those groups. Being ugly makes you ‘forever alone’.
@datekaname2246
Жыл бұрын
@@xtdycxtfuv9353 plenty of ugly people have ugly partner who love them for who they are and share simular values with, some even get lucky and find someone who's more attractive then them, but we all look the same in old age. Also if you think these """"hot"""" pick up artists are actually getting women who genuinely love them, then your in for some bad news. Stop doomer posting and wallowing in self pity. People can pick up on those vibes from miles of you. You need to be better to yourself. If you can't accept yourself and love yourself, then how can you expect someone else to give you that love and respect you can't give yourself.
@xtdycxtfuv9353
Жыл бұрын
@@datekaname2246 You’re too deluded to start debate with. I have my own anecdotes too. You know, the ones you don’t talk about. The middle age virgins, the used and abused ugly providers, the just wait until your late twenties. Patterns to everything and everyone.
@somboddthatiusdtoknow5939
Жыл бұрын
absolutely gold, very old very true ideas on how to operate in the world of dating as a man who actually wants to seek relationship or even wedlock, most people need it, most won't take it to heart, but in the end getting messages like this out there again and again and in ways like this really shine on the human condition, all in all guess I'm really just saying thanks in a really long way :9)
@dokidokifanboy
Жыл бұрын
Joshua Graham literally just said the word cringe and I love it
@AntonioSoares-im4zm
Жыл бұрын
I never thought i would hear joshua graham say "cringe"...not disappointed.
@HarmonicRex9274
Жыл бұрын
After being in a couple of relationships myself, one of which ended because they were just using me as a coping mechanism for their depression, another was just suicidal and i kept giving her too many chances and that made me worry about people a lot. The only significant relationship i had lasted a while, and we got back together two times, both were significant and we broke up on good terms. This video has basically given me the idea that, maybe there is a good relationship and a meaningful one for me out there if i just better myself. Thank you for this video
@MilesKiyaAnny
Жыл бұрын
Yea, this video helping me feel better after I broke up and how to improve myself even better. There will be time when I ready for another relationship or grow up more. I have girls ask me out but I know deep inside I know myself better than anyone that i not ready for another relationships so I turn her down and she slightly angry. I dislike her actually because I am guy believe in good thing and right thing classisy and I feel like she is crazy girl type. I think we not good match if we going out and then she drag me to date and selfie with her and give it to my friend that told her he would date her if he not already have girlfend then ask me out after she bought herself some shirt.
@thechinesecanadian9013
Жыл бұрын
On god brother, On god
@datuputi777
Жыл бұрын
Nope unless you had a mature relationship with no real malice in it you won't find a meaningful one unless it's somebody you knew from childhood.
@God-nh9lq
Жыл бұрын
@@datuputi777 lol L take
@datuputi777
Жыл бұрын
@@God-nh9lq Yup, call names so people can validate your stupidity.
@kingofthegrill
Жыл бұрын
I've been wearing baggy clothes lately but that's because I've been losing a ton of weight 🙃
@tankhead2645
Жыл бұрын
I picked the wrong dialogue option bro💀
@eliseosterbrink8000
Жыл бұрын
This is legitimately good advice. It's not condescending or aggressive, just well-meaning words of wisdom. I wish more guys got this kind of advice like this instead of from guys who encourage men to treat women like stupid, meaningless objects that only want to ruin your life.
@Talcyon64
Жыл бұрын
Absolutely boggles my mind that people can take people like Andrew Taint seriously, despite his unhealthy view of women, failed relationships and recent charges. Those poor, lost men.
@wladynoszkapitany8277
Жыл бұрын
@@Talcyon64 While there are some things he said I do not agree with, he also said things like "A real Man should protect and provide for his wife and family" and that "all women are precious and should be protected". Absolutely no evidences exist for the recent charges, and most of his ex-girlfriends are protecting him even though they are not together with him anymore. Sure, they could give them money to make statements such as those, but so can others (for example Vice) give money to actresses or literally any other people to play the role of the "victims" they *supposedly* interviewed.
@TheSubso
Жыл бұрын
@@wladynoszkapitany8277 it's a grift. You'll rarely find people in history who didn't say something you also happen to agree with. You have to take this holistically (meaning the whole picture). If I tell you that we should treat animals well and with respect but also happen to own slaves does it make me still worth listening to? He's a rampant piece of garbage and harmed so many people, you don't need that tiny straw of common advice from him. And the reality is thousands start to listen there and then go to follow the rest of his rethoric. Good men, good people in general, can recognize someone paying lip service. And no evidence exists? That's wild, please look into how trafficking works and how the people go about it. Exploiting others sucks.
@datuputi777
Жыл бұрын
uhm how many couples do you know that never had a crisis? how big is your family? I know for a fact in a thousand long lasting relationship you get 3 that never tilted ever well on 997 the women definitely lost their Jimmy's. Though the 997 that nearly failed were exceptional on one thing they forgive the most horrendous creatures God had made.
@matthew2531
Жыл бұрын
For as wise as Joshua Graham is he wouldn't let me regrow his burnt skin in the autodoc
@axios4702
Жыл бұрын
Joshua Graham, the father figure we all needed.
@danteshollowedgrounds
Жыл бұрын
I'm cringing how everyone is taking this way too seriously.
@theonly6blake911
Жыл бұрын
@@danteshollowedgrounds What’s cringe about receiving genuine advice?
@ferrusmanus7973
Жыл бұрын
@@danteshollowedgrounds anime poster all over your room right ?
@wolfiedemonwolf1300
Жыл бұрын
why the hell does a fictional character saying this give me more confidence than an actual human
@dosatron938
Жыл бұрын
I followed that advice about not texting women too soon and my Grandma died in her bed before I answered her text about where I put her medication.
@StaleToaster
Жыл бұрын
As someone that ended a three year relationship on kinda bad terms almost a year ago I needed to hear this. I may not be looking for a relationship, but it’s always a good thing to take care of myself before I can take care of someone else.
@maximilianopenaloza2913
Жыл бұрын
I was in the same situation as you a few months ago but believe me that you will always find a better person in all aspects G
@cyberklashnikov3062
Жыл бұрын
Same boat and while it hurts it's made me look at myself and change for the better
@nictibbetts
Жыл бұрын
Just got out of an eight-year relationship that ended extremely badly.
@fullmetalkriz1179
Жыл бұрын
@@nictibbetts I’m sorry to hear about that man. I’m currently going through it right now too.
@jacksonhart5499
Жыл бұрын
Right with you, lads. We got this.
@thectrqueenmedina92
Жыл бұрын
As a women I feel I have important advice: do you want a girl who loves nerdy stuff, or do you want a girl who isn’t into the same fandoms, games, movies, shows that you are into. I love a guy who isn’t afraid to show what he loves. Graphic tees are great conversation starters but not on dates. Wear fancy stuff for that.
@Borgborg128
Жыл бұрын
I can pull nerdy girls without wearing nerdy crap, that’s bad advice. it’s called 6’4 and attractive
@daniilillarionov9854
Жыл бұрын
@@Borgborg128 your relationship won't last if you have a personality of a rock
@Borgborg128
Жыл бұрын
@@daniilillarionov9854 I’ve been dating a hot gym rat/nerd girl for the last year and a half bro. I look like a massive fck boy, and I grew up playing sports and being a “jock,” but I’ve also played DnD and am a nerd at heart
@moonie1825
Жыл бұрын
@@Borgborg128 then it really would'nt matter what type of shirt you have on
@Borgborg128
Жыл бұрын
@@moonie1825 I just don’t like the style and I’m a vain c*nt. I prob could still do fine dressed like a nerd tho ig. Would lose some overall appeal tho with basic thot types
@thebighurt2495
Жыл бұрын
I love how the fanbase has agreed how Joshua Graham is the true badass of Fallout New Vegas and the Courier, however badass himself, is just his companion.
@brianhasiholanmangoloipard6059
Жыл бұрын
"wait WAIT! Joshua, you haven't taught me about the rizz!"
@myself2noone
Жыл бұрын
"Avoid baggy clothes..." Dying alone doesn't seem so bad now, thanks!
@rathalomaniac6212
Жыл бұрын
I have a girlfriend who flies in the face of nearly every principle set forth in this copypasta. Hell, she _prefers_ it when I wear loose-fitting clothes because she thinks it makes me look comfy and cute. Follow these rules if you must, but don't make any drastic changes to yourself or you'll end up attracting someone who wouldn't really like "the real you." Stay strong, boys. God bless you.
@Literallyryangosling777
Жыл бұрын
I once showed a photo of me in a gun range, she straight up leaved, i dont regret nothing,
@doot4452
Жыл бұрын
@@Literallyryangosling777 She aint worthy then.
@ltb1345
Жыл бұрын
@@Literallyryangosling777 Based. Make sure she accepts the real you.
@walflower3058
Жыл бұрын
PREACH IT
@walflower3058
Жыл бұрын
@@Literallyryangosling777 a woman who isn’t open to self defense other than using fists is just not one to be open to all morals
@noeliatejeda1702
Жыл бұрын
For everyone that is hung up on the anime thing, there is enjoyment and then there is off putting obsession. I have long discussions with my husband on the ins and outs of the anime’s we watch, and I love these conversations because they are stimulation. That is different than my husband spending money (or just a little too much money) on anime t-shirts or decorations. For example, I went to an anime convention and my sister in law got me a Rengoku/Akasa artkwork, it’s beautiful, I love it. I don’t have it on display. I’ve had it for 2 years now, I don’t know if I’ll ever have it displayed. There is a certain slide of maturity/immaturity that is portrayed with display pieces like that and you have to consider what and where you are in your relationship. If all you have is anime talk then there is not much else there, we want more and we often want it with the same level of enthusiasm. At some point they won’t want to have their ear talked off about anime and want to hear of all the things you got done around the house unprompted like taking out the garbage, putting down mice traps, taking the car to get an oil change and having it cleaned out (bonus points if you did it yourself)
@nickthepick8043
Жыл бұрын
I appreciate the point about tasks to be done (Like Car maintenance or daily chores. If you're moving into a new home, changing your mailing address is your top priority). As for the whole anime-obsession topic, along with hording, there is a fine line between being obsessive and being in control of yourself via your spending habits. My thing isn't anime per-se, save for me mimicking the overall art style like everyone else, but my collection of figures and games is more so like me being a curator. I balance my budget, I only go for the best when I plan it, I always keep the concept of postponing gratification in mind, and I don't just buy random things on a whim. I don't buy things I won't need or know that I'll get bored with it down the line. As for conversation topics, you couldn't be more right. It is important to have a foundation for other things to discuss at length outside of entertainment. Politics ain't my thing, but it could be anything from nature, enjoying the scenery of anything, or even stargazing.
@noeliatejeda1702
Жыл бұрын
@@nickthepick8043 absolutely, in my household we have varying topics, the one my husband is ready to talk my ear off with is table top, which is fine most of the times, but we also do politics, not party specific but policy specific and how it will affect us, I live in CA, and there is a case here of a mom who’s child got taken away by CPS because she would not allow “affirming care” well the girl was given “affirming care” by the government and ended up throwing herself in front of train tracks. As parents that terrifies us, because we are also seeing policies that promote that sort of lifestyle for children. How will that affects our son? Do we have to worry about his grade teacher making him question himself and convince him he must be a girl because he likes to cook? Will they give him “affirming care” behind our backs as a concerning amount of school are doing? We also have other topics like skin care (I’m an new esthetician) medical stuff, new research studies in medicine or biology fascinates us. But to be honest, what really kicks the dopamine bucket is my husband saying he got the laundry done, or he did dishes, or that he did chore “x” that really makes me smile and happy, and makes feel better about my ear being talked off about table top.
@michaelshultz2199
10 ай бұрын
As a 6’4 dude who’s pretty good looking it’s true, not all women will be into you, even if you’re some kind of “ideal”
@michaelshultz2199
9 ай бұрын
@breadandcircuses8127 Lots of reasons. Some women genuinely like other kinds of guys. Or maybe it's not the right time in their life. Who can say?
@Onio_Saiyan
Жыл бұрын
I’m not even in the market for a relationship. Someone sent me this after I told them. Most of these tips are good even if you replace “female” with “job interview” or “having a good social life” to some degree or another. Dress well, smell nice, put your hair right and shave are all things I have heard and do my best to do no matter what, and I firmly believe all others should strive to do so.
@Onio_Saiyan
Жыл бұрын
@@thotslayer9914 never did. Not enough money. Can barely afford food for myself.
@vanlongtu1664
Жыл бұрын
@@Onio_Saiyan damn, I hope the best come for you in life. Keep pushing, you will sooner come to the point yourself can look back and be proud of what currently you are.
@Onio_Saiyan
Жыл бұрын
@@thotslayer9914 US. Taxes are high in my city.
@tenjenk
Жыл бұрын
My personal best advice will be this. Dont just only treat her well and with respect in her presence, treat everyone else (within reason) with respect and dignity. Especially socially perceived "lessers". Mean it sincerely. Be that person, not just for her but for yourself. People reveal their true selves in the dark or when they think the rules dont apply, be that when no one is around to enforce them or with people often prejudiced against that they dont think the rules of basic human decency should apply to. Become someone who sincerely means it. Even or especially during conflict or confrontational, losing control of yourself under stress or pressure again reveals the true content of your character. They know you or atleast should know, that you will eventually treat them the same way. You cant fake this forever and you are the worst type of person if you depend on pretending long enough until you "lock" someone in. Not all recognize they are this person, a lot of self righteous people delude themselves into thinking they are nice guys or good people. Work on bettering yourself. At the same time, expect the same from them. pay attention to how they treat others. Dont stay with someone who shows the red flags above in how they treat others or how they act under pressure or when they think no one is looking. They will treat you the same in time, they will treat you that way when they think you cant escape. They are a person and many people are terrible, dont stay with them just cause they act or look pretty. LIke the above said, standards conventional beauty is not as relevant as society tries to convince you it is but ESPECIALLY so when its just a terrible person.
@nictibbetts
Жыл бұрын
Knowing how to deal with women translates very well into other aspects of life.
@Codeman785
Жыл бұрын
"this is cringe" 🤣🤣🤣 GOLDEN, please keep making josh graham voice overs like this. These are epic
@juggerknight4763
Жыл бұрын
Joshua’s voice never seizes to both inspire and sooth the soul, be it a religious text despite if one is religious or not along with giving advice such as this. Part of me has always felt left out and even envied my friends when they speak of their relationships. I’m aware of envy being a sin but sadly I can not help it in my heart. However thanks to some close friends and family I don’t ever truly feel alone, while I may yearn for partner’s embrace as long as o hold my friends and family close I know someday I will be blessed with someone whom I’m able to be romantically involved with. Until then I shall strive to keep myself humble and just, I shall follow the advice and to keep his lessons close to heart. P.S. I really enjoyed this vid, I genuinely felt more enlightened to hear tho vid along with being able to get some things off my chest, keep up the awesome work, I look forward to more vids like this.
@collinrees3672
Жыл бұрын
This is supposed to be serious but I can't stop laughing
@livan8363
Жыл бұрын
this video is simply genious other than the actually useful tips, the key is in the character doing the talking, not just any person no matter if random or famous i think its pretty clear that people, when hearing their favourite character or a character that they respect or is in general seen as "chad" (the doomslayer would be perfect if he talked) are much more inclined into remembering those words, into following them probably wouldnt work the same with memes, having the same video read by shrek would be much funnier, but thats it, a funny video about a meme character giving dating advice, that people probably wont do, or maybe just try "for the vine" so thank you for this video, while there are not as many Joshua followers as we would like, his words wont be forgotten, if heard by the right ears
@Wolfyinasuit
Жыл бұрын
A good one of these types of videos is Master Chief teaching you taxes.
@BasedRedemption
Жыл бұрын
SIngle-father energy here.
@BCFlameLavo
Жыл бұрын
Doom slayer has said about 3 sentences in total.
@minecraftsteve2504
Жыл бұрын
The doom slayer wouldn't be "perfect" if he spoke. We love him because he does not speak. He simply does. Which is enough a lesson as anything.
@decadence_7075
Жыл бұрын
I'm addicted to these videos of Joshua Graham spitting more wisdom.
@danteshollowedgrounds
Жыл бұрын
I was addicted but now I'm at an awe for them now.... Maybe a tad bit.
@decadence_7075
Жыл бұрын
@@danteshollowedgrounds That's the evolution.
@Magnumscrotus
Жыл бұрын
Definitely make some more videos about this topic man. Great stuff
@yeetmcskeet6872
10 ай бұрын
I guess its time to throw in my story (instead of doing my coursework lol). I was not a social butterfly when I entered my teens. Socially awkward, withdrawn, and very inwardly focused. As I progressed through my early teen years, I surrounded myself with like-minded people. Me n' the boys would shoot the shit and talk about practically anything, but it was during that time where I started developing a resentment to my more social peers. I very nearly became an incel, as I felt that I the reason why girls wouldn't talk to me were absolutely superficial. The whole bullshit of girls only chasing assholes and dumb/popular jocks was something that I perceived as my reality (with hindsight, this was such a dumb take for younger me to have). It took me moving to a different country for me to finally break that negative cycle that I had trapped myself in. I finally started working out (I wasn't very physically active when I was in my early teens, and was even pre-diabetic), meeting new people, making new friends, and touching more grass (really it did wonders). I still didn't have any luck with girls in highschool, but I ultimately didn't feel resentment at that. I understood that I was simply not doing enough to better my image, and was mainly waiting for the right opportunity. After graduating and entering a community college, I became exposed to more people with similar interests. I joined a club and finally took greater steps to improve myself. I finally started to shave consistently (My family isn't known for strong facial hair. I just end up getting a scraggly mess around my neck if I don't shave), wear cologne, and acquire a better wardrobe. I ended up meeting some girls, dated some of them, fell out with some, and became friends with some. I took the steps to better my mental and physical image, but it would have amounted to nothing if I didn't develop my social skills either. Just talking with girls raised my self-esteem and made me more comfortable communicating. I went into conversations not expecting anything to happen and it helped immensely knowing I didn't have to impress or flirt. I'm seeing a girl currently and it wouldn't be possible if a mutual friend of ours didn't set us up. She's smart, hard working, kind, fun, and beautiful. We aren't too serious and I wouldn't call her my girlfriend just yet, but i'm hoping that we can get to know each other more and have experiences that make pleasant memories to look back on. I wouldn't have this if I didn't join the club, and I wouldn't have joined the club if I didn't learn to socialize or seek new experiences. I wouldn't have this if I had not taken the steps to better myself. If you read this, what I want you to take away from this is don't sell yourself short. Don't be afraid to step away from your comfort zone every once in a while. Start small and build on previous accomplishments to get to where you are. It'll take time and work (I turned 20 a little over a month ago, and only really entered the dating scene when I turned 18.), but you'll be all the better for it, I know I am. Edit: Also Im a HUGE nerd for history, videogames, and military vehicles. Still I only really bring it up when relevant or asked about it. If anything my knowledge of history impressed the girl I'm seeing since she had a personal connection to it.
@oofyalDAMMIT
7 ай бұрын
You're doing good, lad.
@doomguy.23frommars60
6 ай бұрын
Yo wanna be friends I'm literally the same history video games and military vehicles
@MTH3h3l0l
Жыл бұрын
Probably the biggest thing to remember is that woman are people. Average, run of the mill individuals like yourself or me. Sure they have their own differences and quirks but at the end of the day the only thing that sets them apart from say, a male counterpart are the unique traits they have that may have through their life journey. The biggest wall is accepting (and almost welcoming) the possibility of rejection that stops anyone of us from even making the first step. I'm rambling at this point but my point is, accept that you will get shut down but never let it discourage you or make you feel lesser and if it does, step back and evaluate that maybe you have an issue internally that needs to be reflected on and addressed
@cyberneticbeast
Жыл бұрын
yep.
@nothanks9503
Жыл бұрын
Women are not normal people lol
@capperbuns
Жыл бұрын
Fear is a tool as much as it is an obstacle. Use fear to your advantage, but never let fear stop you from doing what you please, as long as it's not a violation of God's ways, fear should be the drive pushing you forward instead of backwards, thing about it this way "if i'm scared to do something, i should do it exactly because of it"
@darkranger116
Жыл бұрын
"dont simply use these women, enjoy the time and make their lives better through your treatment and attention to them, you might be surprised to learn that looks fade" my boy joshua graham lining them up with the "you're not that hot either and the only thing you really want is someone whos going to want to wake up next to you" shhhiieeetttt
@David-qw5vr
Жыл бұрын
thats a good piece of advice ngl
@bruh8209
3 ай бұрын
At my lowest point rn.
@114_soup
7 ай бұрын
I’m not currently interested in women right now but I’ll save this video for the future
@egorwarpduster9792
Жыл бұрын
Joshua Graham is truly a man of GOD. P.S. it’s so ironic to me that such good advices come from a fictional chharacter
@cervixdevourer
Жыл бұрын
it's a copypasta meme from 4chan
@mustafaabed3598
Жыл бұрын
@@cervixdevourer shhhh let him be happy about a fantasy in his head.
@motivatedman4630
Жыл бұрын
@@cervixdevourer when copypasta gains a voice cover, it essentially gets s new life. Especially when the voice is fitting. He wouldn't know about this 4chan copypasta without this video, and even if he did, Burned Man's voice gives it an entirely different vibe. In short: stfu and enjoy Joshua speaking some facts. I still don't agree on every single point here though. Knew too many girls who were genuinely into anime and stuff. I got into it because of one.
@Shinobubu
Жыл бұрын
@@motivatedman4630 Gravitas. this gave those words gravitas. 🙏
@floobix1
Жыл бұрын
@@mustafaabed3598 well sorry he's not a fucking 4chan user, calm down lmao
@Mystyx-Sama
Жыл бұрын
Joshua Graham single handedly fixed the dating crisis
@roguewave5187
Жыл бұрын
A lot of these tips are pretty good, especially when it comes to self care and how you present yourself. But, as a lady myself, let me tell you this; don't hide your interests, or force yourself to be a spectator in conversation. You should be able to talk about your hobbies with your s/o without judgement-- if she honestly is so put off by something so trivial like anime, she's probably not a good fit. While you should always let your girl speak, short answers can sometimes make you seem disinterested; there's nothing wrong with expressing yourself.
@maexe1778
Жыл бұрын
i was thinking the same when someone shares interests, they can get passionate to the point where it is really attractive, it's nice and fun to see someone's lighten up for things, even trivial the only thing is to notice if you're losing the person or not, to not getting into a full monologue
@Solice-lx8mk
Жыл бұрын
Thank you. It's been years since I've dated anyone (self-imposed. Too busy with school and life. Finally graduated with a nice job). I'm thinking about getting back into dating, but I had no clue how to go about it. Been too long. Actual solid advice. Thank you.
@wulfgar6465
Жыл бұрын
Woman here, I'm glad there are videos like these and i'm so happy to see that you guys are actually taking healthy advices like these. A message that i wanna give to all of you, either you're a man or woman, the first thing that you all should do is be kind to your own selves, accept yourselves the way you are, be it your body shape or things you like, ect. and also try to improve yourselves if you need/have to. This might not mean anything coming from a stranger, but i'm proud of you and i wish you all the best, love you
@leek.3671
Жыл бұрын
❤❤❤
@dylanwenzel1282
Жыл бұрын
Thank you kind woman. Between the video and this comment, I now have the confidence to ask out a girl completely out of my league.
@leek.3671
Жыл бұрын
@@dylanwenzel1282 she’s never out of your league chief, just believe in yourself and treat her like a normal person 👍🏻 And if she says she’s out of your league to your face then she isn’t worth your time. She can find someone just as nasty as she is.
@jacobstep7153
Жыл бұрын
Thanks.
@williamrhodes6865
Жыл бұрын
Thank you comments like these really make a difference :)
@yoitsalexofficial
Жыл бұрын
thank you so very much "Joshua Graham" I can now finally understand what it's like to be mature and respect ourseleves so we could be in an understanding relationship, I've been dealt with depression in the past two years because I was so obsessed of women that I couldn't find myself and now I feel so good of myself of how I decided to watch this video. Pornography is a sadden addiction to most males and some females I started out crying out to God and started praying so I would'nt go through the same cycle of this addiction all over again. My biggest dream is to have a happy family and since I grow through out my pains and suffering through all these years I finally made it! thank Joshua Graham you inspired me.
@methconsumer
Жыл бұрын
bro you're so fucking goofy
@thesaddestdude3575
Жыл бұрын
The only true way is blackpill.
@CrizzyEyes
Жыл бұрын
@@thesaddestdude3575 Way to what? Suicide?
@Ubermenschgaming_
Жыл бұрын
@@thesaddestdude3575 Brutal
@mrn6308
Жыл бұрын
Joshua is my dad's friend who gives me the advice that i never asked for but really needed
@dragonthewizard7684
8 ай бұрын
My man Joshua just roasted me in every language 💀
@Outlaw3-1
Жыл бұрын
This is actually useful tips
@joshbenington6581
Жыл бұрын
Bro gives the best advice in 7 minutes than pick up artist and dating coaches do in 10-20 lessons
@crustybomb115
Жыл бұрын
cuz its genuine advice anyone can use instead of "buy another subscription to my dogshit advice and make me richer while wasting your time!"
@Ofxzh
Жыл бұрын
It’s because they pussyfoot around topics to extend the length of the video or to give you the idea they are an expert for talking longer. Advice is short and simple, it’s goal is to give you an idea of what you need or not do.
@spiritualkelp5503
Жыл бұрын
You gotta keep uploading, this wisdom is what us humans need instead of the endless scroll of shorts decaying our minds ✊🏽
@megamind05
10 ай бұрын
We can't let God get all the women for us
@terrypvcringe9093
Жыл бұрын
this is like advice my uncle would give me, not exactly always good advice but good intentioned enough that i am willing to pick out the good bits
@Darth_Insidious
Жыл бұрын
Exactly, I don't agree with everything said here, but its leagues above the PUA trash.
@charlieterry8506
Жыл бұрын
Exactly the same vibes I got from this.
@chumblesthecheese8580
Жыл бұрын
"Stop treating it like a game." "Wait at least five to ten minutes before texting her back."
@benakinnusi2518
Жыл бұрын
Im glad im not the only one who thinks this video is sum bullshit
@chumblesthecheese8580
Жыл бұрын
@@benakinnusi2518 I also did not like "go up to her asking a genuine question" and "you're just talking for practice." If it were genuine, you wouldn't have the ulterior motive of talking to women "for practice." Can't be both.
@benakinnusi2518
Жыл бұрын
@@chumblesthecheese8580 also when he said women don’t like graphic tees and that having posters of your interests and sharing them will make a women not like you… a real woman understands that the man is his own individual just like she is her own. I can guarantee the uploader isn’t even older than 21 lmfao. This video was just cringe and contradictory shit all around
@queueuof
Жыл бұрын
yeah no this advice was definitely from someone with good intentions but no experience 😭
@SirLied
Жыл бұрын
All conversations are games to some degree. We read into the intentions of others and their mindstates based on nonverbal social queues all the time during conversations. Such games are necessary, as it's impossible to get a detailed sense of someone's nature within the first few interactions without reading into all the information you have available to you. The important part is to not treat the entire relationship like a game. Once you get past the initial vetting process of "this person is not desperate or a creep and seems relatively well adjusted/worth my time" you gradually shed away the game of reading people's intentions and introduce more genuine intimacy. It's from there that you actually see if you two gel on an emotional level and would like to take things further in the long term.
@notsopositivearewe
Жыл бұрын
Dont obsess over the girl you like. Be your own best image and let them come to you 👍🏼
@nathanhitt8229
Жыл бұрын
Damn solid advice been a long time since I have met anyone man or woman who how to wear cologne or perfume.
@aabatcon2536
Жыл бұрын
"I know there is someone out there for you" That just made me more confident and want to feel the moment Thanks AI Graham
@Harvest133
9 ай бұрын
Historically, the majority of men did not reproduce. Given free reign, women will share the top 20% of males rather than monopolize a man in the bottom 80%. We're basically seeing this play out right now with "serial monogamy", which is basically just polygamy in a genetic sense, where a very large pool of women all get ran through by the same small pool of men for a decade or longer.
@MachineMan-mj4gj
Жыл бұрын
"Don't spray it on you like some goober." The delivery sent me.
@Junkyardproduxtions
Жыл бұрын
Some good advice, meh advice, and just stuff I'd downright disagree with on a fundamental level. Respect yourself is a good start. Which means get clothes that give off a look you LIKE not just comfortable with. Wash yourself, treat your body, and definitely learn to talk to others even if it starts online. I dunno maybe I'm the minority when success is made but I got girlfriends from being my weird self and not hiding anything. I'm not ashamed I like cartoons, anime, animation or whatever else you'd call it. I wasn't embarrassed when my gf saw my old collection of decorative swords, toys, or airsoft. Women out there (or anything else we don't discriminate) are attracted to people who they get along with, can be comfortable around, and provide more than just a passing experience. Nothing I say is to discredit the vid but to open the lense a little bit. Ask yourself if you're truly interested because you want a partner (seems to be the vibe) or you want someone because that's what you were told/taught to want. To all anyone on this vid looking for companionship I really do hope you do well in your search. I know it can be difficult and feel meaningless, but just like Graham and many of your idols: the human spirit is indomitable. You only fail when you let yourself fall. Keep moving, rest when you need it and don't break yourself.
@JsphCrrll
Жыл бұрын
Sorry but I have been taught to never trust anyone with that profile picture.
@Junkyardproduxtions
Жыл бұрын
@@JsphCrrll that's a good lesson. I don't trust people who look like me either.
@yazidefirenze
Жыл бұрын
Xbox 360 profile pic having exister
@Lin_Eileen
Жыл бұрын
I haven't watched much of this cause I was certain it would be the same regurgitated manosphere bs we've been hearing from grifters online for years just repackaged (hide who you really are, "game" 🤢) and this comment basically confirms it if u have to hide who you are to get with someone it's not worth it. Most people who think they can't get into a relationship just actually aren't ready for one. I say this from my experience, I just got into my first "real" romantic relationship where we are actually dating & have plans for our future together... it just sorta happened. I didn't go out and try and find my partner we just found each other when u are ready for it u will be able to find someone that's right for you.... period. I've watched a bit more now and it's not as bad as I thought pretty alright but I'd say this is still overcomplicating it. Acting like u need to dress nice, smell nice & act nice to be desirable is just looking at it from a straight guys' pov who wants a girly girl that's clean & pretty. Some people are into gritty & grimy dudes who come home covered in dirt 😊 Just be yourself 💖
@Junkyardproduxtions
Жыл бұрын
@Lin is Nil I'd say dress nice and smell nice are a bit true but not the core of it. Dress how you LIKE is what I say because it will genuinely boost confidence when you get and wear clothes you want. Smelling nice is a by product of caring about your health and hygiene. People will be more interested if you make the effort to be healthy y'know. Like I said though lots of stuff here I'd be critical here myself but I also hate shitty platitudes like "be yourself" and stuff. The vibe is definitely straight guys here I feel like, but my like two points I feel are universal. I'm glad you found someone though. In today's climate I think it's great when people finally find a partner. Edit:OH and smelling nice for a guy is kinda the same for like make up on a woman imo. Mine's explained to me that the make up isn't for me or guys but her. She wears it too look good to her. So I've adopted the smell thing for guys. As pog as it'd be for guys,to like accentuate their jaws or to conture our muscles it's obviously still looked down on to put make up on. So the smell thing is my kinda version of that.
@gopgamer1
Жыл бұрын
The razor scooter bit earned a like.
@JelloPuddingMaster
Жыл бұрын
6:48 I never thought I'd ever have the need nor the pleasure to hear Graham say "goober"
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