I think I'm going to call my brother, tell him I love him.
@ArtLenLa
3 жыл бұрын
I understand, Xanlink. Go ahead and do it if you have not already.
@TheTuesday11
6 ай бұрын
I would give anything besides my family to be able to call my brother. He was killed by a drunk driver at the age of 7. He was such a special boy, wise beyond his years. He was an old soul, he cared far more than most adults even. So if you didn’t call your brother, please do, if you did call him, call him again today. You’ll never regret the times you called, but you may regret the times you didn’t. 💕
@0i0l0o
3 ай бұрын
@@TheTuesday11 I lot of wonderful humans in this comment section.
@mariaotto6732
3 жыл бұрын
This poor woman. Her remaining kids are keeping her alive. Idk how she is dealing with all this heavy stuff but i will pray for her and her kids.
@somieltadeo6246
3 жыл бұрын
@@oyinbabebamigboye9823 shut up
@chichimamushka5851
3 жыл бұрын
i have NO idea how she is doing it all
@bobberry1463
2 жыл бұрын
you can tell she kinda just pushing it to the side when she talks about it she speaks really fast than change the subject.
@kaythegardener
5 ай бұрын
And the son was only 16? She still has 6 more children to watch over!! Will say prayers for this family, so no more will die!!
@alladreamwedreamed
5 ай бұрын
Autopilot ❤ my heart breaks for her
@bovinebeautymoo2884
3 жыл бұрын
This poor poor Woman... she has NOT GRIEVED and due to the fact she CANT... she is treading water because she has younger kids to take care of...
@freedom4063
4 ай бұрын
What a coward husband and dad to leave all those kids and wife like that😢
@user-bl4lf9rg8m
4 ай бұрын
@@freedom4063 Really agree, like cowards who died from cancer
@freedom4063
4 ай бұрын
@@user-bl4lf9rg8m ???what
@SprinkledFox
3 ай бұрын
@freedom4063 how dare you say that
@freedom4063
3 ай бұрын
@@SprinkledFox ?? Huh??? He left his wife and kids without thinking about them or caring . 😢 he needed help
@teddieryan2288
4 ай бұрын
My father and my 20 year old son both committed suicide. The grieving is never over. There is no closure. Thirty years later the pain is still there.
@TruthIris
4 ай бұрын
💜🙏
@ugandanchungus8455
3 ай бұрын
I'm very sorry for your loss. My condolences to you and your family🙏
@eatanotherzio6811
3 ай бұрын
Please take solace in the fact that they are not in pain anymore
@estellewadsworth4187
3 ай бұрын
I am sorry for your loss. This is very very tough. But take comfort in our Lord Jesus comforting arms. That is where your help comes from. Earth has no sorrow heaven cannot heal❤
@jayaom4946
2 ай бұрын
I'm sorry.
@BryceJohnson88
3 жыл бұрын
I feel like John is the most under appreciated Ramsey personality. He deals with HEAVY conversations. I hope it doesn't weigh on him, but I'm sure it does. Take care John.
@OvalleInspiracion
3 жыл бұрын
Agreed
@snoozyq9576
2 жыл бұрын
He hopefully is used to it and also has the required tools / resources. You get used to leaving your work at the door in these sorts of jobs.
@ArchThaBoss
Жыл бұрын
John is the type of person that gives me hope. He’s just an all around good human
@MS-uj5ui
6 ай бұрын
It may sound awful to some people but both my husband and I really like to talk about and approach hard things like this both with each other and with others. People we barely know tend to open up to both of us together and individually. It’s very emotionally draining at some times, but is the most fulfilling thing in the world. Connecting with others over heavy subjects is an experience that helps you grow as a person and can even help you work through things in your own life.
@TheTuesday11
6 ай бұрын
@@snoozyq9576I was in healthcare and when I got to the place I could see young parents holding their newborn that passed away and I could just walk away “leave it at the door” so to speak, I knew it was time to move in my position. Of course you can’t let other peoples grief take over your life, of course you need a boundary, but if you can leave it at work and it doesn’t affect you anymore, it may be time to do something else.
@ThistleKing
4 ай бұрын
There is a suicide epidemic going on right now. Particularly among young men and it’s not discussed enough.
@westonblanchard5404
4 ай бұрын
Yeah cuz nobody cares about young men. Or even men in general. I say this through experience.
@Man_in_a_Gucci_Suit
3 ай бұрын
I definitely think suicides are under reported
@joshswain6495
3 ай бұрын
I get this. Men are told to deal with it and it's weak to cry. This lack of empathy is what leads to it.
@NoEvidenceForGod
3 ай бұрын
Source? Not sure you know what epidemic means :/
@Ragman312
3 ай бұрын
@@NoEvidenceForGod "The su!c!d3 rate among males in 2021 was approximately four times higher than the rate among females. Males make up 50% of the population but nearly 80% of su!c!d3s." --Quote from CDC To be fair to the other person's use of the word "epidemic," it's hard to quantify what's considered an epidemic since it's subjective, but we see an increase of 4.44% from 2020-2021, and 14.63% from 2011-2021. This is from the CDC's website, but I can't post the source URL since it has the "S" word in it :/
@893263007
3 жыл бұрын
Probably the toughest call in the history of the show, and that's saying something.
@refiloendlovu6518
2 жыл бұрын
I thought the deepest was the guy who contracted HIV through his gf’s cheating but this is also so deep💔
@rosedewittbukater5763
5 ай бұрын
💯
@onlyamir4ge
4 ай бұрын
Just saw one with a volunteer firefighter responding to the scene of his 12 year old who passed in an atv accident… i don’t know how anyone can be expected to handle that level of pain. Although finding someone who took their own life is worse in a sense since it’s even more guilt that one would feel
@zachjaeger2518
2 ай бұрын
@@onlyamir4gethat was so heavy. This guy does such a damn good job though with advice that most people have no idea what to do
@DarthFurie
3 жыл бұрын
"I have some hard stuff to tell you, but I'm blessed." My goodness. God please watch over her and her family ❤ I said a prayer for you Leanne and I am thinking of you
@NoEvidenceForGod
3 ай бұрын
God could've prevented this tragedy but he didn't. Or maybe he couldn't? Not a very powerful, loving God is he? :/
@bliviously5484
3 ай бұрын
God could have prevented this tragedy but that would have taken away from their free will. God grants us free will, you cannot cherry pick in what circumstances those rules apply, no matter how tragic they may be. I’m sorry for whatever reason you have been hurt in the past, but God is not to blame for the brokenness of the world. Sin has made it so, and only in Heaven will we truly be happy. He gives us the resources to grieve.
@AwakenTheEarth
3 ай бұрын
@@bliviously5484- you fell for the freewill bullshit eh? This is tough and FAR from freewill bs. When won't people like you understand?
@Blaine-
2 ай бұрын
@@AwakenTheEarth what do you get out of trying to convince people that god isn’t real? do you feel intellectually superior or…?
@AwakenTheEarth
2 ай бұрын
@@Blaine- - no because other than caring about people...I couldn't care about people's opinions
@Chosen302
Жыл бұрын
My big brother committed suicide 3 months ago. He was 45. I genuinely believe that unless you experience the lost of a loved one thru suicide, no one will ever know what it feels like. 😔
@danielgiordani7625
7 ай бұрын
Sorry for your loss. Depression is an absolute monster.
@nickbarcheck1019
6 ай бұрын
@@danielgiordani7625 Exercise more. Eat better. Depression is a made up thing.
@itielelpida
5 ай бұрын
I am so sorry!
@beverlyg3444
4 ай бұрын
I agree. If you have not experienced this, they really don't know.
@IcarusRising866
4 ай бұрын
The guilt will NEVER go away. Even if you manage through and it does for a while, it will always come back.
@mckennalewis3690
3 жыл бұрын
I lost my boyfriend of 7 years 3 days ago. I don’t know how I’m supposed to move forward. I’ve been feeling so much guilt. She gives me a little hope
@troycarpenter3675
3 жыл бұрын
I'm really sorry for what you're going through. Please treat yourself with careful hands.
@GUITARTIME2024
2 жыл бұрын
Very sorry for your loss. I can tell you that serious clinical depression is like a brain cancer, it can be seen on scans, and it absolutely hijacks normal thought processes and reasoning ability. Everything feels catastrophic and crippling. There's nothing you could have done besides encouraging him to see a psychiatrist and expressing your concerns. Let yourself off the hook for a serious disease that would have appeared even if you had never met him.
@jennyspicer6900
Жыл бұрын
❤
@fire12731
11 ай бұрын
😢😢😢so sorry
@ceironkosterec
4 ай бұрын
I'm so Sorry to hear. How are you today?
@davidmartens7253
3 жыл бұрын
My brother died by suicide in April of 2019 at the age of 18 and that was the most devastating thing I’ve ever experienced I can only imagine the hurt in this family and pray for healing and hope for their future
@seyijames7439
2 жыл бұрын
I pray and Hope you smile every time you remember him
@lorimorgan5374
Жыл бұрын
This family has my heart and prayers. God Bless this family and Dr. Delony for his help and compassion
@SofiUk0319
Жыл бұрын
I'm so sry for the loss of your bro, I think it makes it harder because it's suicide? I say that because we lost our momma in Aug of 2022 of cancer, it was definitely hard but I feel blessed for being able to spend the last year of her life w her, and you probably didn't get that. . My sister opened up to me that she was thinking about taking her life while back, I told her that whatever she needed me to do to get her help or help her myself plz plz tell me, because the thought of that happening takes my whole heart.. God bless you and thank u for sharing
@jennyspicer6900
Жыл бұрын
❤
@brandyk
4 ай бұрын
@@SofiUk0319 wow I hope she n you are doing better now. I wish you were my sister so I hope your sister knows how lucky she is in that regard. My family essentially drove me to attempt suicide though obviously it was my decision to take such a drastic step but I saw no way out of the pain n anger I felt 14 yrs ago at age 43. Even when they found out months later n I was hospitalized n even with nowhere to live had to live in mental health housing for next few months and eventually yrs in between bouts of homelessness living in my car twice for a year or so each. When trying to work things out with them as they were still claiming and occasionally even saying they loved me,I invited my sister to join me for a session with my therapist when she was over to visit my parents nearby and she did most years ( she lives with her family in the UK) she initially agreed when I sent her the email before she flew over but once in NY she became more n more resistant now requiring day before the session a written agenda with specific point I wanted to discuss. She even went on to say that this was all my idea so it shouldn't be too much for her to ask n me to do. And perhaps not by why had she not asked initially or anytime over the next 3 weeks? Why the day before. Most egregious perhaps is when she said in the same phone call that going to a therapist isn't exactly a fun thing to do on her vacation ( the Brits call it holiday however) Again true enough but what kind of person says that. And compared to most people they travel quite a bit. They are very wealthy and have condos in FLA as well and as her husband originally from Italy with family there they have made numerous trips there was well. They work hard I'm sure but they've owned their own business with managers n staff to see to most things in their absence. In fact on this 2 weeks stay at my parents home in LI they had already been here for 11 days and had gone to NYC and Jersey for few days to visit a friend and this all after having been in Italy a week or two before. And it's too much to spare an hour for you sister ( less than 2 hrs with the drive time) who had attempted suicide 2.5 yrs ago but had been hospitalized for similar thought a few times since even 6 months ago. And if all that was not bad enough, 5 years prior to this she was the one who very rudely with no good reason other than I lived paycheck to paycheck n my parents were worried about this as well as being unmarried and approaching 40, that I "needed to get psychiatric help" I eventually did for my own reasons n when the time was right but even that did not prevent my suicide attempt due mainly to conflict n estrangement with my family. Prayers for this woman n her kids. What a tragedy. His parents as well
@stacyannjohnson4219
3 жыл бұрын
Don't know if I'm I'm strong enough to listen this one.
@lb1798
6 ай бұрын
I am really trying HARD not to sob‼️‼️‼️
@SweetEssie
5 ай бұрын
It can be triggering and you don't have to
@emiliehedelundemilie6304
5 ай бұрын
@@SweetEssiesweet of you comfort a stranger like that ❤️
@Scratchy314
4 ай бұрын
Better to confront a scenario like this when you have a layer of separation from the situation than to have to work through it all at once if it happens to you
@rabbittko1421
3 ай бұрын
And she's living it
@littlegem1472
Ай бұрын
Our son took his life in 2020 in our shed. I totally get it. No closure. No end of the pain. I hate this for her, for me, for everyone who is going through this.
@Opxbest
4 ай бұрын
When I was that boys age, I witnessed my dad trying to attempt suicide by hanging himself. I held on to the rope and it traumatized me. I remember replaying that moment in my head every day for years. This could have been my family. I grieve for this women as I’m 36 now and my relationship with my father is better than ever. Sending healing prayers out to the family.
@nattcattt
2 ай бұрын
I’m glad to hear your dad is doing better now and I hope that you were able to heal from that traumatic experience ❤
@dylanmooney3221
3 жыл бұрын
My dad passed 13 years ago and then I lost my twin sister a year ago. I don't know how my mom does it but moms are the strongest people in the world. Thoughts are with this caller.
@Chanju84
3 жыл бұрын
I'm so sorry for your losses, Dylan. Hugs to you. 💜
@turkicfish
3 ай бұрын
No they aren't. Some moms are absolutely awful
@Teamshmo
3 жыл бұрын
I have no idea how she was even able to laugh and act cool at the start. Even telling the story she kept it together pretty well. She's super tough.
@MrJaywalk
4 ай бұрын
Yeah I can't lie I was starting to think this woman had something wrong with her! But as the video went on... yeah, she was just putting on a brave face bless her soul.
@cbisme6414
4 ай бұрын
Some people in a lot of pain, often mask it with humour, because to acknowledge that pain, would be too much to cope with.
@beardedrake9983
2 ай бұрын
I think its clear why she's so upbeat
@jayaom4946
2 ай бұрын
@@cbisme6414That's me. Some people tell me I always have a smile on my face ... but I'm in so much pain. It's not appropriate to show this pain and so I've developed a habit of always putting on a happy face, no matter what I'm feeling.
@TheItachi90125
2 жыл бұрын
Anyone else listen to this show to find ways to deal with your own stuff and then calls like this happen and you realize just how minor your own stuff is? May God bless this woman. There is a special place in heaven for her.
@YesWithYesse
11 ай бұрын
Absolutely
@TheRealHerbaSchmurba
4 ай бұрын
I get the sentiment but it really isnt good to compare your own problems to others. If you have a problem take it seriously, dont minimize it cause you’ve heard worse.
@Proverbs--tx6yr
4 ай бұрын
Well said friend 🩷
@missyfrank880
4 ай бұрын
@@TheRealHerbaSchmurbait allows people to put in perspective their challenges and realizing through it all that there ARE reasons to be grateful in life
@Lipstick_mama_
4 ай бұрын
YES. 100% me too!
@haleytruslow7200
3 жыл бұрын
What a strong woman. Those kids are blessed to have her as a mom. I can’t imagine going through this
@joshswain6495
3 ай бұрын
Every child deserves a mother like this, these children are as far from blessed as a person could be.
@karenhultgren7810
9 ай бұрын
My heart goes out to the lady who lost her son and husband to suicide. Sending her prayers of strength.
@AltraTara
5 ай бұрын
What a story…a former classmate of mine lost her father and her brother a few years apart from suicide. Her mother never recovered from the pain and committed suicide too some years later. Now she’s has no more family, only her husband and daughters.
@azpersonal
4 ай бұрын
Omg!
@h.w.4482
2 ай бұрын
I sincerely hope she holds on to the family she has, and stays strong despite what's happened. going through that must have been absolutely world shattering the first time, let alone the third.
@k99krig
6 ай бұрын
Wow, she starts off the call by saying she is doing good and is blessed. What an amazing woman.
@cherokeedream1313
2 жыл бұрын
Struggling to type this through blurred vision as tears have carved a river down my face. You...Woman, Mommy...are in the league of the strongest Women to ever exist, but not just that, your selfless dedication to your children is a rarity in this lifetime. You could have easily become lost in a realm of deep depression, but you stayed strong, for your babies! My sincerest respect- to YOU!
@sandyshealingjourney
3 жыл бұрын
This one hits home. About 2 months ago, one of my friends from school died by suicide 30 days after her oldest (teen) daughter did. She leaves behind several younger children and a husband. Some of the kids aren't his but he is taking care of them all while healing a broken heart. I can't even begin to imagine what kind of a battle the survivors of suicide fight every day. These people are so strong.
@azpersonal
4 ай бұрын
That’s so unfair to the other kids. So sad 😢
@nathanheinl7975
3 жыл бұрын
Sobbing. Can't imagine the way some peoples lives take unimaginable turns like this. Thankful for this show. God bless you Leanne for your sacrifice and courage.
@manifestwthedomesticgoddess
9 ай бұрын
I just lost my baby 14 yr old son to suicide by hanging a month and a half ago after an argument about me holding boundaries as a parent that we'd had so many times before 😭 and it's so hard. The getting through today thing is exactly right time is just fleeting and passing me by and I have 3 more boys under 5 years old. God I would love to talk to John 💔💔 the only way I get through my days is by being numb. Yet I love my baby boys so much I try to be present still I read them books I try to laugh with them but it never really feels like I'm present...
@rebeccahicks2392
4 ай бұрын
I am so so sorry.
@L.Fontein7
4 ай бұрын
I don't know what to say except that I'm so very sorry. I hope that you have found a professional you can talk to - John isn't the only one, there are many good ones out there - please don't give up on getting the help and support you need - no one can be expected to get through something like this on their own strength. God bless you and please take care of yourself. Hugs. ✨
@lorettacollins3061
4 ай бұрын
I am so sorry. God bless you
@johncochran3590
2 ай бұрын
I wanna start out by saying I am so sorry that happened to you. No one should go through and feel that pain. My first name is John and reading that for some reason hit so hard, my childhood was not good at all stepfather was very abusive to me and my mom. I’m so grateful she was able to let him go and hold on to us me and my brothers and my sister. What I’m trying to say is it’s very hard to let things go especially if you feel like it’s your fault or up to you to fix but your kids that are still here are probably your world so don’t let them go. Hold on to life, and grow with your beautiful kids. I support my mom 100% with whatever she needs in life. We all make mistakes but we must move on and grow, We have too. Moving on and growing being happy again is not wrong of you. I do hope you see this some day. I also hope you are doing okay in life and are smiling happy with your kids. Please be best mom you can be all we all can do is try our best
@jayaom4946
2 ай бұрын
I'm sorry.
@LiveLuckyGaming
3 ай бұрын
This women's feelings are the exact reason i am still walking this earth. I could never do this to my mom.
@TheEnigmaticmuse
3 ай бұрын
Good job! Whatever keeps you here, you cling to that!
@aliciacarstensen7904
Ай бұрын
What a sweet heart you have. Fighting suicidal ideation is brutal. I know. Take care of yourself and your mom. Thinking of you my friend
@azmv5285
Жыл бұрын
I have seen and experienced someone committing suicide by hanging and it is NOT an image that you get over easily. Leanne is so strong to live with everything she has gone through. I really hope she and her family heal and find peace.
@me_shell
3 жыл бұрын
My nephew took his life when he was 20 and the guilt I felt as his aunt was huge but I can’t imagine the guilt you feeling as a parent. My nephews death changed his parents, his younger brother and our entire family dynamic drastically. The could’ve, should’ve, would’ves just don’t seem to stop. My heart aches so much for Leanne, I don’t even know how she is able to even talk about all of it without just sobbing. I am praying so hard for her and her family to find some peace in all of the madness.
@joshuacastillo9469
3 жыл бұрын
This was a tear jerker. My heart and prayers go out to her family for healing.
@sla6234
3 жыл бұрын
She needs to look her children deep in their eyes and tell them, "Repeat after me: This was not my fault. They were sick, and there was nothing I could've done to prevent this." Every day if she has to... an open dialogue is key for this household to continue grieving together as a family unit.
@kamarwashington
3 жыл бұрын
@@oyinbabebamigboye9823 how do I massage another man over the internet?🤔
@daniellelevine9638
Жыл бұрын
my brother was living with me when he killed himself. I have guilt that I wasn’t a good enough sister so hearing this is nice because my brother was very mentally unwell and that is not my fault. 🥺
@karenkramer3760
5 ай бұрын
Amen
@NXT_LVL_DVL
4 ай бұрын
Why is he mentally unwell ?
@azpersonal
4 ай бұрын
So sorry
@JETHO321
4 ай бұрын
@@NXT_LVL_DVLBecause he committed suicide. It's self explanatory.
@NXT_LVL_DVL
4 ай бұрын
@@JETHO321 so, he became mentally unwell by committing suicide .
@salomepereira6967
3 жыл бұрын
This was such a tough one to listen to.. so sorry for your loss Leanne! Praying for her and all her wonderful little kids!
@salomepereira6967
3 жыл бұрын
@@oyinbabebamigboye9823 so scummy
@TBoneSports
3 жыл бұрын
Woah, NEVER heard of something like this. Deloney has a tough job, but is great at it
@samirdhindhwal7591
2 жыл бұрын
I agree. He's a great counselor. I enjoy listening to him
@wesleyhite8203
10 ай бұрын
After my only son hung him self, I went to support groups. It was good therapy for me to talk to others that had been through the same thing. I had read about the Near Death Experiences. After Chris died I just happened to find a book on the same subject. I wasn't looking for it, I just stumbled on to it. Those stories helped me to cope with all the pain.
@murdahmammiez
6 ай бұрын
So sorry for your loss
@jk76111
4 ай бұрын
Sorry to hear that, and I am glad that you have found good therapy. I appreciate you naming him here. Rest In Peace, Chris❤
@NXT_LVL_DVL
4 ай бұрын
Why did he do that ?
@nongcalirubushe
3 жыл бұрын
I don't know if I can finish this one. No words just hugs.
@tinalindsey1598
3 жыл бұрын
Mom: your kids will be the counselors, ministers, teachers, amazing partners, friends that the future needs. Not fair but this will be their gifts. Praying for all of you!! ❤️
@kerry-annmcpherson1011
3 жыл бұрын
Agree with this so much
@LoveJonesFam
3 ай бұрын
Amazing encouraging words! God bless
@shellbyhall5259
3 жыл бұрын
So sorry Leanne. I lost my little sister to suicide and it affects siblings DEEPLY. Praying that you all can get through this. The pain never goes away, but we do learn to carry it better. The PTSD we're left with after a trauma like this is horrific, constantly worried it'll happen to another family member. Sending you love and deeply praying for you and your family.
@It.is.kayladiaz
3 жыл бұрын
Definitely a hard one to hear. As a Mom of 7 also this had me teary. Many prayers to your family Leanne. 💕
@Shay-yg7nm
3 жыл бұрын
I just want to say this mother sounds like an amazing parent . god bless her and her family
@marystrenke3050
3 жыл бұрын
Life has been so difficult for me. Life itself. No one's fault. Suicidal ideation for me is curtailed by medication. Much therapy, meaningful worship, I actually want to live now. I still have depression but not at risk of suicide anymore. My message-- the illness is REAL. My entire family has had it for decades. Coping is hard. NO ONE could make me feel loved, even though everyone loved me the best they could. At age 58 I stopped loathing myself. If I'd succumbed to my illness, NO ONE would be at fault.
@brockb3692
3 жыл бұрын
I am so glad you've been able to carry on. I hope you are more at peace now.
@chukah9484
2 жыл бұрын
You stopping loathing yourself in your 50s gives me hope
@Veracityseeker7
6 ай бұрын
God bless you
@794jewels
3 жыл бұрын
My Ex-husband (my children’s father) commited suicide this past January and his dad (my children’s grandfather) commited suicide a few years ago. Very tragic for all the family...prayers for her and her children 😢
@sandykoshenina4892
Жыл бұрын
I too have lost my child, then husband to suicide. My 21 year old surviving son (17 at time of sister's death, 19 at time of dad's death) is shut down after losing his big sis, then dad 15 months apart. This caller...I'm in awe. I hate being told that I'm strong...we aren't given an option and shouldn't have to be THIS strong. I just want to tell her she's not alone. There are the messages where we are told it is ok to break down, it's ok to feel and show those feels...sometimes we don't know how. The mom inside is biologically designed to protect those kids, this makes feelings difficult to fully access and express. Literally. I won't speak for this caller, but that's the way mom survival mode is for me. Numb to my own feelings, desperately trying to keep my son alive and help him to be well...and she has 6! Sometimes I wonder if mother nature or god or whatever built moms this way for a reason? Sending love and hugs.
@Kristen-ek9rz
Жыл бұрын
I'm so sorry about your loss. I will pray for you and your son. You are an extraordinary mother and soul.
@kathrinscharrer3923
6 ай бұрын
Of course mothers are built like that for a reason. Prehistory and the likes were no walk in the park, people would die, kids would witness it, kids would die, their siblings witness it. It is because of a mother's strength that the rest made it. And had children. And so forth. We are here because of that strength.
@dareal5401
3 ай бұрын
you say that you are not given an option. but you do, plenty people go down under the stress, grieve and depression, but you dont even see it as an option. so give yourself that compliment
@gabrielagabi787
3 жыл бұрын
Sobbing here!! I don't have words, just that I am sorry and I will put your family in my thoughts.
@mspoofycat
3 жыл бұрын
Oh. I cried through this whole video. Praying for Leeanne and her kids. This is heartbreaking.
@maximwilson1482
2 жыл бұрын
The strength and resilience in this woman is amazing! My eyes teared up when I saw the subject line.
@CaptPicard81
3 жыл бұрын
I cannot even imagine...this poor woman deserves the world after what she's been through
@djdesign2
3 жыл бұрын
Dr. Delany, you are such a caring and compassionate person. Thank you.
@djdesign2
3 жыл бұрын
Leanne, I am so very sorry for your loss. My prayers are with you and your kids. May God's love and peace hold you close as you go through all of this in your lives.
@freedomfan4272
2 жыл бұрын
Suicide is no JOKE I remember when I was a volunteer firefighter we went to a call once where a younger guy hung himself in a garage and I will tell you it took me quite a while to get over it.
@mrs.elentz2336
5 ай бұрын
Do you even "get over it" though?? Genuine question. I know it's something that is probably sadly common for those in your field and law enforcement, public services, etc.- but it would be very hard to not separate something like that mentally (in my mind anyway). I know if that were me, it'd fundamentally change me seeing something like that. I think this is why there's high rates of suicide in these fields. It takes a very special someone to work in those fields (although I have to acknowledge there's that small number of people who go into it for the power and control) and they're way underpaid!! Thank you for your service to your community ❤🙏
@patmclaughlin107
3 жыл бұрын
John has a tough job. He has a great head on his young shoulders. I really appreciate him.
@Kristen-ek9rz
Жыл бұрын
Such a powerful and healing conversation....I wish Leeann and her family peace, love, and healing. I lost a sister to suicide in 2021 the day after another family crisis, so I understand her fear of losing another loved one to suicide. It's a moment-by-moment journey for me. I can't believe she had to work, raise 6 children, and grieve all this. I wish there was a fund for her, but maybe working is a necessary distraction that was needed, in addition to financial necessity.
@VestigiaLamenta84
Жыл бұрын
Thank you for this. I hope this lady and her children are thriving and winning at working through all this trauma. This lady's a hero.
@carieyounginsurance
3 жыл бұрын
I will never for one moment think I’m a victim...lord almighty- hugs to this women. Left me with tears
@spike3346
3 жыл бұрын
Man! I'm so sorry 💔
@purpleviolet207
3 жыл бұрын
What a tragedy!!! Praying for this poor woman and her children!!!✝️🙏✝️🙏✝️🙏✝️🙏✝️
@lyndkent-cl2oe
Жыл бұрын
IT WAS NOT YOUR FAULT!! I hope lady is in more peace today.....Wonderful Mother!
@lb1798
4 ай бұрын
11:18 This was so hard to hear this lady cry❤💔💔💔❤️
@ErinWilke
3 жыл бұрын
As a woman whose mother never showed emotion, please please please show your daughter she can have and express emotions.
@nanb7149
3 жыл бұрын
My heart breaks for that family and she is amazing! She has such a hard lot and I can tell she's strong, what a lovely woman.
@salonsavy6476
3 жыл бұрын
My heart breaks for this lady ,,absolutely gut wrenching,, may the lord bless you and keep you strong ,, 🙏🙏🙏
@jack7240
Жыл бұрын
My sisters husband took his life a week after their divorce papers were filed.... watching these clips to try and understand what my sister is going thru so I can be there for her as much as I can be. Thank you for your Channel and all the Ramsey show personalities. You all have helped my life more than you know so far.
@jonanna8516
3 жыл бұрын
You are one strong lady Leanne. I will keep you in my prayers. Iots of love and light for you and your family.
3 жыл бұрын
Oh my goodness! What a tragedy. One of a wife’s/mother’s greatest fears. Thank you to Leanne and Dr. D for sharing. I will share this with my husband and family. It helps me understand more why kids take everything on as being “their fault” - whatever situation we’re talking about.
@tanpham7411
3 жыл бұрын
This situation is a nightmare becoming reality. I hope she and the rest of her kids find peace and hope for the future.
@Candace-M-
3 жыл бұрын
When something awful like this happens we can wish so hard to turn back time and do things differently so we can stop it from ever happening, and it's so hard to let that go because it's not possible.
@more444store6
2 жыл бұрын
What he says about writing a letter to them really works, one of the hardest parts about losing someone is that you can't talk to them anymore, but when you write a letter to them, it gives you that back. My 17-year-old daughter was killed in a car wreck in 1992 one of the things that helped me cope more than any other thing was to write a letter to her and tell her all the things I had wanted to say but never got the chance. I'm glad he is telling people to do this, it is a good tool. It truly helps with closure.
@erickrodriguezarechiga7934
11 ай бұрын
My God, the fortitude of this woman is astonishing. I am incredibly sorry for your loss but thank you for being there for your 6 children. My father died when I was really young so I know what absence can do. May God give you peace.
@seaisland2010
3 жыл бұрын
Prayers for this Mom and her kids. Wise words from Dr. Delony.
@kathypenner3478
3 жыл бұрын
My heart goes out to her and her kids. I can’t even amazed what she is going through. My prayers go out to her and her family.
@stephanied.k.3589
3 жыл бұрын
She sounds like such a kind, good and strong person....just wondering if she has really allowed herself to adequately do the ANGER bit of the grieving process? Just hearing her story makes me want to mow the house down.
@deborahparrish8861
3 жыл бұрын
I pray for this precious lady and her children. HUGS!!
@strajearocks11
3 жыл бұрын
LeAnne- I don't think you are a minimizer-I think you are a strong & Godly mom who focuses on the good & knows that God is the great physician. LeAnne- I believe that the holy spirit is giving you peace. Please don't let open wound psychology tear your wounds open before their time- don't force your emotions-let your emotions come naturally & on God's time. My sister experienced your same loss-husband & daughter passed 3 months apart. LeAnne-as you may have already experienced that your grief is worse when you are overly tired-please let friends, family, church family & neighbors help you. LeAnne- I know this may be an overly used expression but you can trust to "let go & let God" lead you. I do think the letter idea is a good idea though. LeAnne- Prayers for you & your children🙏🙏🙏
@misirbina16
4 ай бұрын
My sister's husband is psychologist , and I remember him saying that once you have children you shouldn't even have suicide option, since the message children get is that they were not worth it.........
@TheRealHerbaSchmurba
4 ай бұрын
I understand that logically because it would be wrong to bring a child into the world knowing you have plans or are susceptible to leaving this world, but that advice seems idealistic because people who are suicidal have a tremendous amount of negative emotion they feel that they cant just logic out of. Many parents who commit suicide have probably thought about the impact it would have on the kid, but the pain was clearly the victor, so while your brother in law is right it’s a bit idealistic.
@koul3709
4 ай бұрын
A lot of people who have severe depression think their family will be better off without them, and that they are a burden. It's a difficult thing to navigate unfortunately . . .
@azpersonal
4 ай бұрын
Exactly! I struggle with psychosis, postpartum depression, and suicidal ideation but I know I will never do that to my twins and husband.
@TheEnigmaticmuse
3 ай бұрын
My spouse and I have both dealt with these thoughts to extreme degrees. I do believe it is one of the greatest "sins" one could ever commit. I have always reminded my spouse and myself that we would just be dumping our pain onto our children and everyone else. My children are one of the biggest reasons I never did it.
@ChrisM-dx8up
6 ай бұрын
Having 6 other kids probably plays a huge part for her strength while already having lost so much. An incredible thing children can be.
@youKnowWho3311
3 жыл бұрын
A prayer comes from my family today. Lord please bless and help this family in their journey. We had some bad news recently as well. To all those who need it, we are pulling for you!
@user-yf6cd9bb8t
6 ай бұрын
My mother in law. Lost her husband and her son (my husband) to suicide. I lost my husband. Suicide runs in families. If you are suicidal, remember, if you carry through with it, it is contagious.
@McTrump
4 ай бұрын
Omg this poor woman. She is so unbelievably strong.
@maximwilson1482
3 жыл бұрын
This was such a touching call...for anyone's who's interested i definitely recommend listening to a podcast episode where her story is expanded upon. I think most of us have been effected directly or indirectly by depression and suicide. God bless this woman and her family, it's tough beyond words. She's doing a public service by moving past the shame and sharing this story.
@Kristen-ek9rz
Жыл бұрын
where, how?
@7somekindofsomething
Жыл бұрын
Firstly, I’m so deeply sorry for your loss. I paused the video to say a prayer for you and your six kids with you now, and for your husband and kid who passed. I also just want to say that you sound like such a good person. You can tell from your tone, how you speak and your resilience in such adversity. I can tell you this, your kids are going to appreciate you so much as they get older. With such trauma I’m sure some bumps may come along the way, and they may possibly even say some hurtful or insensitive things, but try to remember their kids trying to process their emotions in a world that’s been tough to them already. They will love you, respect you and admire you so much the older they get though and understand all you’ve done for them. Sending strength, positivity and a big hug to you.
@pattyajones
3 жыл бұрын
Leanne, NEITHER DEATHS have ANYTHING TO DO WITH YOU. I realize it was harder with your son, but it had 0 to deal with you. it was about him! Please, just send BOTH of them love and healing.
@lasseandersen2215
4 ай бұрын
Discovered this show at work -- not a good place. Gets me in tears all the time
@IanGoesBoom303
4 ай бұрын
This woman is STRONG.
@jebbo2320
6 ай бұрын
My son committed suicide 2 years ago and when he told her it’s not her fault I cried 😢cause I know how she feels and it soooo feels like its your fault no matter what anybody says 😢my son was 20 and my daughter is 18 and I feel like she had to worry about my break down and didn’t have her chance to break down like she needed too - I tried to get her to do therapy and she refused 😢
@mish375
5 ай бұрын
My family lost two great-uncles (brothers) decades apart the same way. The most recent was in 2012. It's never easy. In my family it isn't appropriate to talk about this kind of pain, so you grieve privately and never ask for help. But I just wanted to say please don't blame yourself, Leann. If you are lucky enough to have family rally around you, you are blessed. I know what it's like to feel that unnecessary guilt and it is never your fault. Don't think about what you could have done because it will drive you mad. You are doing the best thing by being there for your kids and trying to get family counselling. Bless you and your family.
@Sparkle132
Жыл бұрын
To go from having a large family and enjoying life to losing your husband and oldest child must be so emotionally and mentally crushing. Not only is the fried heavy but the responsibility she now has by herself for all the other children is major! My heart goes out to her and the kids. I’ll be praying for them.
@daylepereira3528
3 ай бұрын
I love the way John handled this. My heart goes out to this lady.
@carena8478
3 жыл бұрын
Keep up the good work Dr. J! Delony's Homies, roll call!
@GitarPicker
3 жыл бұрын
Delony's Cronies?
@user-hq5ub1gm3s
5 ай бұрын
This women is an absolute WARRIOR
@mrsmayes7545
3 ай бұрын
My dad took his own life when I was 12, I'm almost 36 and 24 years later the pain is still there. I think the people you love the most you never get over. Any unexpected death, where you don't get a goodbye stays with you. It gets easier in time to talk about them and you learn to live with the different, but you dont go back to the same person you were before it happened. Good luck to everyone grieving, daily life gets easier each day.
@igot5onit423
3 жыл бұрын
I love how he goes into calls cold.. Keeps you on your toes
@zara198522
4 ай бұрын
I lost my sister to cancer in 2022 and the pain is indescribable. Sitting at the front of a funeral, hits different. Yet the pain I feel for this woman who had to survive the loss of her husband, whilst grieving and still trying to parent. Only then to have to repeat it, for her own child, I can't even comprehend her pain. This is that call, that just puts sh*t into perspective. (Forgive the language).
@JJJJ-he8bz
3 жыл бұрын
As someone who has these thoughts it’s extremely difficult to even kill your self your body will always take over when the rubber meets the rode because it wants to live it’s nearby impossible to break through that wall.
@wendyfrick4262
3 жыл бұрын
JJ JJ- do you have somebody that you can talk to about your struggles?
@chukah9484
2 жыл бұрын
You only break through when you truly believe in the moment it is the only solution you have
@terichavez1751
3 жыл бұрын
You are not at fault! Your kids r not at fault! You are a wonderful mom and woman. God bless you🙏
@TheWeejens
Жыл бұрын
This one hits hard and close to home, lost my older brother in 2019, and my dad a week after the 3 year anniversary. Just a few months ago.
@user-ij8rl4hk6k
Жыл бұрын
Sending u peace
@Veracityseeker7
6 ай бұрын
God bless you
@marthatierney2632
3 ай бұрын
Sending love and healing to this lovely woman and her children. Prayers to you all.
@JustATotalNerd
3 жыл бұрын
This was really hard to listen to. I hope she finds her peace
@PINK912611
3 жыл бұрын
Tears. Praying for you, dear. You are strong and amazing.
@jeanniejewel2272
3 жыл бұрын
Sorry for your loss. My son in-law went that way. My grandkids carry that burden with them knowing their father passed in such a manner. I pray for all the survivors. I pray for their shame,guilt, and any remorse and pray for their healing.
@melaD333
5 ай бұрын
It sounds like she’s had to be strong and hasn’t been able to fully experience or really face her grief. And she’s trying to help her children heal. Bless her.
@MeganGarzaWellness
Жыл бұрын
I internalized so much grief after I found out on my birthday that my grandfather passed away the day before. I somehow felt it was my fault and I slipped deep for many years. I can't even imagine what this beautiful woman is feeling/going through. Bless her and he family 🙏🏻
@sakurisake4201
2 жыл бұрын
Neither of the deaths were your faults Leanne. Such a depressing topic and double hit for her to suffer through. Lots of hugs to her.
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