They're so obsessed with us but can't scrape up a little basic human empathy to save their own life.
@Sithdan123
Ай бұрын
Maybe it’s because we just don’t trust you guys. Women and especially black women can be racist too. Emmett Till’s mother is still alive. I forget why did they beat that kid to death for again? I forget. Please remind me
@alexdex9439
Ай бұрын
If we didn't have empathy, you wouldn't have rights missy.
@kimberly8695
Ай бұрын
@@alexdex9439 And therein lies your issue.
@OGK-1414
Ай бұрын
@@alexdex9439you mean the rights women had to fight, protest and bl0w things up for worldwide. That men are now mad about and saying they want to go back to times women didn’t have rights. Gee... thanks.
@heyhey439
Ай бұрын
@alexdex9439 Wrong. If you had any empathy, we would have been considered human from the beginning. Women only vote and such now because we demanded that respect. You didn't give women shit and your heart is evil.
@aspiring...
Ай бұрын
Men are extremely emotional but have somehow convinced us that its women.
@ElizabethGeiger-ye1sf
Ай бұрын
Right???
@alexdex9439
Ай бұрын
Nah its deffo you gals
@MalesAreDemons
Ай бұрын
@@alexdex9439No it’s deffo you males committing crime every 2 secs
@MalesAreDemons
Ай бұрын
Read crime stats males dominate them they are very emotional
@MalesAreDemons
Ай бұрын
@@alexdex9439No it’s you males
@I8Spiderella
Ай бұрын
You're right Kiera men seem to hijack any discussion about the safety of women or children, and make it about mens feelings. It gives Abuser/ DARVO vibe.
@Sithdan123
Ай бұрын
Yeah, and women tend to hijack conversation about the threat black men face from accusations. We are still seen as sexual deviants and I don’t see you giving room for your own bias. How do you know that you don’t fear black men? You probably do and this helps justify it.
@Sithdan123
Ай бұрын
Just admit you have a bias towards black men already. Seriously
@AliAnn-fj4uj
Ай бұрын
Well duh. You compare anyone to a serial killer grapest they will have something to say about it.
@frishter
Ай бұрын
Imagine demonising men then acting like the victim. Woman moment.
@colton6867
Ай бұрын
@@AliAnn-fj4uj Women don't want to actually have to debate or justify their reasoning.
@user-dc4cm8nz1f
Ай бұрын
I'm not responsible for anyone else's feelings unless I have some sort of power over them. There is a man, the AG of Idaho, who last week argued before SCOTUS that federal medical rules don't apply to women. That women must be on their deathbed before life saving reproductive care is provided. A high ranking government official is arguing that women dying is collateral damage to their religious frenzy. State sanctioned death sentences for the crime of pregnancy and I'm supposed to worry about the feefees of men who are hurt because we feel unsafe around them? I'll pass.
@DumboBimbo02
Ай бұрын
And those same politicians are whining that there aren’t more babies being made
@AliAnn-fj4uj
Ай бұрын
Cherry pick cherry pick cherry pick
@enravotaboyadjiev7466
Ай бұрын
When a cop k1lls a defenseless person (even a kid or a mentally disabled person) bc they were scared, bootlickers will fall over themselves to defend the cop. But when a lady dares bruise a few men's egos cause she's scared, she's at fault for acting irrationally. Curious 🧐
@ElizabethGeiger-ye1sf
Ай бұрын
The fact that it bruises male egos that we're afraid of them is absolutely wild. Don't they want to be seen as aggressive and full of rage? Isn't that the way they perceive themselves? Why WOULDN'T we be afraid of them?
@mariakyriakopoulou8258
Ай бұрын
@@ElizabethGeiger-ye1sf if you were offended, your ego would be hurt too. You think because we are women we don't have pride which can be easily crushed by criticism? This is related to human nature, not gender.
@frishter
Ай бұрын
Only in cases where it's rational to perceive a threat. For example "unarmed" people trying to attack them with a weapon. I bet you weren't so sympathetic to the unarmed person who lost their live on Jan 6th.
@enravotaboyadjiev7466
Ай бұрын
@@frishter hello, mr./ms. Frishter. How's that boot taste? Need some hot sauce to go with it?
@frishter
Ай бұрын
@@enravotaboyadjiev7466 You're the one that likes the boot of the establishment who trains you to see your very own people as the enemy. Defunding the police doesn't impact them as much because they have their own private security.
@katoe908
Ай бұрын
Also I’m not flattered by the men saying “wow this is crazy we have to do better guys” because to me that shows complete ignorance to the point of being malicious. They should’ve known why we are terrified of them without us having to say we would choose a grizzly bear over a random man. Turn on the news on any given day and you’ll see why we’re scared all the time.
@I8Spiderella
Ай бұрын
they know they are just pretending so women will give them praise and attention
@diannemargaret1728
Ай бұрын
Never! I work around a lot of men and I just say , yeah yall fucking do need to do better, and walk away.
@crustykeycap5670
Ай бұрын
Honestly I don’t hear enough about how fucked women are. All I hear is how entitled, narcissistic and sneaky they are. My bad I should’ve looked for more female victims or something. I don’t know why you expect all people to care about your problems without prompt. I don’t know shit about my parents countries problems but they don’t harass me about it. And also the idea that men are more dangerous then bears doesn’t make sense to me. You have probably interacted with more men then bears so you should know most men aren’t dangerous. See how that’s a weird thing to think? Yeah your more likely to get killed by a man but that’s because there are so many fucking men, and you’ll probably never see a wild bear on your life.
@Kelsea-im8ob
25 күн бұрын
Give them some options of how to respond at least
@I8Spiderella
25 күн бұрын
@@Kelsea-im8ob They don't need to say anything to us they need to modify their actions based in this "new to them information" Show don't tell.
@kinseydesignsbrands
Ай бұрын
Thank you so much for putting words to this. This whole thing brings up a particular infuriating situation I was in with a guy I was dating, who lived in another city. I flew in to see him, and we were on our way to go out, so he ordered us an uber, and when it arrived, I noted that he didn't even check the plate to make sure it was the correct car getting into it, and I simply asked what the plate number was so that I could verify before getting in. And he took that personally lol. When I mean personally, I mean for the entire rest of the night, he was angry with me. So after a few hours of enduring being out in a strange city with a man who was upset at me, I decided to explain WHY it's important to check the plate number before getting into the car, citing that I personally know women who have been in dangerous situations, and how it's important for everyone, not just women, to take all safety precautions. This guy told me I was "weaponizing trauma" against him and almost left me at a bar by myself. He had the most fragile ego I've ever encountered, I'm so glad that I got out of that relationship very quickly.
@Sithdan123
Ай бұрын
Because it is not his job to take care of you!!! What are you a child?!? I’m assuming your a grown ass women. Just because he is dating you does not mean he owes you protection. If you feel unsafe, it’s on you to secure your own ride. Grow up. Statically, Black men face more danger than women anyways.
@Sithdan123
Ай бұрын
Women like you need to grow up. Men are not obligated to protect you at all
@audreydoyle5268
Ай бұрын
How on Gaia's green earth does someone feel angry about being a responsible adult and having the common sense to be safe?! Lunacy
@d53380
Ай бұрын
I ALWAYS check the plates before I get into a Lyft/Uber. Just recently, one of the Lyft drivers caught me doing it. His response? I’m not going to kidnap or k*ll you hehe…. Sure I feel so much safer now 🙄🙄🙄
@Ilovesushi123456
Ай бұрын
The Uber app literally writes it everywhere that you need to check the license plate and it has the sharing option too, because people's safety was being compromised enough for that to be in place. People are so dimwitted.
@amandaford8730
Ай бұрын
The other day, I just happened upon a doc/commentary on Elliot Rodger (not sure when it was published). While the commentator insisted that Elliot was awful and despicable and that incels like him are the same, they were still insisting that people give incels sympathy for their social plights. It really pissed me off that men are equating modern-day women not being so socially reliant on men and being allowed to decline men their emotional/sexual access to the MILLENNIA of bullshit women have been through. Truly men's egos just don't want to grabble with the reality of making themselves likeable AND SAFE to be around.
@canesugar911
Ай бұрын
They even get angry when you say you don't care. They truly feel entitled to our emotional resources.
@sierrahargrave
Ай бұрын
what’s been getting to me about this conversation is it started out as “i’d rather be mauled by a bear because i would be treated better as a victim of a bear attack that an assault from a man” and it got twisted into “oh you feel SAFER with a bear than a man??” and it’s like. no this started because bear attacks are dangerous and terrible but if that happened, people wouldn’t victim blame, accuse the victim of lying, etc.
@user-fg7cd2ci9l
Ай бұрын
Wow okay this makes me more open to the conversation. I'm not on tiktok so my initial response was an eye roll, wondering why the culture was asking women to choose between dangerous awful things. I'd like to ask men if they were trapped in the woods with a woman would you sacrifice her to the bear to get away, or protect her from the bear?? lol In general I do enjoy discourse where men can't help but tell on themselves
@crustykeycap5670
Ай бұрын
@@user-fg7cd2ci9lid fight the bear depending on how much I like the girl
@anthonym840
27 күн бұрын
So lete get this straight...Getting eaten alive is worse than getting SA'd? Do u have any idea what it feels like to get eaten alIve? Few survive it, and those that do suffer severe PTSD, with a forever crippled deformed body thanks to chunks of flesh and bone chomped off of them. Bears will not only eat u alive, they will store ur living self in their din, with ur guts likely hanging out, an save u for later. U have no idea what true fear is.
@crustykeycap5670
27 күн бұрын
@@anthonym840 Nah I don't wanna get touched
@anthonym840
26 күн бұрын
@@user-fg7cd2ci9l Would u leave the man to fend the bear off?
@Ninsidhe
Ай бұрын
The way to avoid this is to ignore it, like the clown in the comment thread to whom others are responding- ignore them.Refuse to do their emotional labour for them. Refuse to be a therapist, a teacher, a ‘nice person’ if they demonstrate that they are enmeshed in wilful ignorance and weaponised incompetence, because EMOTIONAL incompetence is ALSO weaponised. Just do not give energy to those whose intention is to harvest it.
@oooreginasaid
Ай бұрын
My response is to report them for hate speech and violence. Always makes me feel like I'm helping. #teambear
@badasstruckinbabe
Ай бұрын
I so agree with this. Never understand why women waste their time going back and forth in comment sections with these dudes. It changes nothing!
@katherines144
Ай бұрын
I agree. Talk about them like they aren't around. Block and move on. People like that argue for control, not to be right
@JayMor-is3nh
Ай бұрын
Soooo yall report them for having a higher iq and diffrent view. Blocking them is controlling 😂😂😂😂
@JayMor-is3nh
Ай бұрын
@@katherines144Soooo yall report them for having a higher iq and diffrent view. Blocking them is controlling 😂😂😂😂
@amethystimagination3332
Ай бұрын
They’re always the first to say facts don’t care about your feelings until their feelings are hurt. Even though the facts prove that a woman is statistically safer with a bear than a man it hurts their feelings so they ignore it
@AliAnn-fj4uj
Ай бұрын
feelings are nkt facts. About 1 in 3 men in the U.S. were made to penetrate someone during their lifetime. 79% of male victims of being MTP reported only female perpetrators. 82% of male victims of sexual coercion reported only female perpetrators.53% of male victims of unwanted sexual contact reported only female perpetrators. 97% of men who experienced rape, physical violence, or stalking by an intimate partner had only female perpetrators. Women are also much likelier to avoid charges and convictions, and twice as likely to avoid incarceration if convicted. [when crime was reported, female criminals were way less likely to get arrested, which shows police leniency toward women.or this, where men are more likely to be arrested when reported to the police for any crime. Feminist Ellen Pence aslo created the Duluth model. Which is why police have a bias against men. Which is why male victims of abuse get arrested instead of the perpetrator who is female.
@AliAnn-fj4uj
Ай бұрын
yall are literally comparing men to a fucking wild animal and acting as if we are or will be a serial killer or a grapest. I think you're the dolt here. You women always get mad when men have a logical opinion over the bs talking points and scenarios yall make up about us. No. Comparing womem being hunted by men in a society filled with men and women isn't the same as a lone bear in the forest. How can that bear get to you if he literally doesn't live anywhere near you and can't survive in our society? This is a idiotic take from the OPWell of course humans assault and kill humans more often than bears do - people are mostly around people all day long, near every day, they're not hanging out with bears. (Well maybe a zookeeper or Grizzly Adams?) Yes, black bear kill one person a year or average, they attack 1.2 people a year on average. But that is because bears and people crossing paths is extremely rare Bear are territorial and prefer a long range of territory even between each other for one thing. imho black bears are the nastiest but obviously brown or grizzly are actually the most unpredictable and dangerousThe bear population in the United States has been estimated to range between 339,000 and 465,000, compare that with billions of men.... so yea kt makes sense why we would have more humans killimg humans. Look at lions. They kill eachother for fun. Because they live together. I would have thought you would be smart enough to see that
@AliAnn-fj4uj
Ай бұрын
Show me the stats now. Lmao. Let me guess "more men have killed women than bears" well guess what.... women don't live with bears. Bears don't live in our society. We barely interact with them at all. Replace men with bears in this society the bears will have a feast.
@AliAnn-fj4uj
Ай бұрын
Most men are not murderers or serial killers but most bears are hungry and dangerous
@AliAnn-fj4uj
Ай бұрын
Show me the stats now. Lmao. Let me guess "more men have killed women than bears" well guess what.... women don't live with bears. Bears don't live in our society. We barely interact with them at all. Replace men with bears in this society the bears will have a feast.
@viva_.
Ай бұрын
not even five seconds in and speaking such facts, besides the crazy scenario of bear vs man, I think of just a lot of girls and women having to play “dumb” or walk around men’s ego to be safe when they are approached. Simply saying no or straight denying has shown to be so unsafe and harmful. you make such a great point!
@AliAnn-fj4uj
Ай бұрын
An Illinois woman is accused of fatally shooting a man who refused to kiss her during a get-together on Thursday.
@AliAnn-fj4uj
Ай бұрын
Most men are not murderers or serial killers but most bears are hungry and dangerous
@AliAnn-fj4uj
Ай бұрын
Yall act as every man will kill you for saying no. Most don't care and most are not attacking you. A bear will eat you weather you say no or run
@mariakyriakopoulou8258
Ай бұрын
You can still be polite you know. Would you like someone to dump you saying you are ugly or poor? I highly doubt it.
@roxyndra
Ай бұрын
The second someone who hurts me expects me to navigate _their_ feelings about it is the second I write them off. Also, sorry boys, but you can’t compete with toe beans and a bear’s cute lil tail.
@RikoAyaka455
Ай бұрын
men are so much more emotional than they like to act like. and then those emotions get us killed or abused.
@umhi9778
Ай бұрын
Would it be possible for us to create our own police system? Men don't care.
@JETTSTACHI
Ай бұрын
@@yougotOWENdGo away.
@JETTSTACHI
Ай бұрын
@@yougotOWENd Do you really think that applying to become a female cop is going to make a mark in deconstructing centuries of patriarchy?! You're comment was a means to mock...go away!
@ilaly6391
Ай бұрын
Well honestly we should. Women should have each other's back. I personally valued my female friendships more than anything back in high school. But my girl friends only cared, and still to this day care, about nothing more, than their male romantic interests.
@umhi9778
Ай бұрын
@@ilaly6391We can't all be pickmeishas though...right?
@ilaly6391
Ай бұрын
@@umhi9778 I don't even know if they were pickmeishas. They just happened to value couple over friendship, like so many women seem to, head over heels for their boyfriends. I have had a hard time understanding women at all throughout my life, to be honest. I don't get why they all want to be in a couple so bad. I've been single for about my entire life, struggling alone in this mad world since all my school friends went off with their boyfriends. But as for me, there were no man I met that seemed so great I would've chose to live with him. I have a lot of guy friends that I have much fun with, but I wouldn't want any of them for a partner. Either are they too weak, too lazy, too entitled, not deep enough, secure enough, reliable or emotionally intelligent enough. I still wonder to this day what it is women find in men that is so good they would forfeit all their other relationships for it?
@artofaries1113
Ай бұрын
🎉Grizzle grizzle y'all. 🐻
@katherines144
Ай бұрын
This needs to be a hat or tshirt 😂
@clauaome25
Ай бұрын
LMAO
@diannemargaret1728
Ай бұрын
Every, and I mean EVERY time my mom was smacked by my dad/ step-dad we were hushed and forbidden to speak of the incident because it would hurt his feelings. So fucked up. Oh, and to this day.
@katherines144
Ай бұрын
That's awful and infuriating
@raed3240
Ай бұрын
A vigilante of my physical body Ahhhh sadly accurate as fck 😢💯
@dustymural
Ай бұрын
Why is there always the caveat being brought up, even by you, that it's 'not all men' ? I mean, sure, statistics bear that out. But you have to 'assume all men' because you won't be able to identify the Ted Bundy or Chris Watts amidst the others. And honestly, if women are doing a 60/40 split in the best of the best circumstances in terms of labor (because of course emotional labor isn't counted at all otherwise it'd be worse of a skew) then, isn't it All Men? Because aren't All Men cogs in the patriarchal machine? It's not women convincing men it's gay to sleep with women (literally Andrew Tate's most recent take). Fresh and Fit are advocating for living with bros instead of girlfriends because even being near women for extended periods of time results in emasculation. One way or another, no man has fully deconstructed patriarchy.
@tsvnade
Ай бұрын
Why is it that men seem to only bring up issues they have when women want to talk about the issues that they've experienced or when they're voicing an issue? Like if we talk about women getting graped, you'd see some of these men talking about men getting graped too ( which is valid ) but it takes away the focus from women's initial discussion and reframing the conversation to them. I don't know if I'm wording it right but it just is something that I noticed. If they want to talk about their issues, they're always welcome to but for some reason, why are their issues only brought up when we're talking about women's issues or women's experiences?
@yougotOWENd
Ай бұрын
Basically they are saying "can we not discuss SA in general? Men have been overlooked for a long time"
@canesugar911
Ай бұрын
@@yougotOWENdhave they?....
@yougotOWENd
Ай бұрын
@@canesugar911 That is how many men feel yes. They back it up by: - Lack of men's shelters - videos going circling around where men get herassed and no one does anything about it but laugh. - anecdotes of being afraid to do anything back against an abusive partner because court will not take them seriously.
@tsvnade
Ай бұрын
@@yougotOWENdThat's what I mean. So it just is one way to shut down a conversation about women's SA? And in regards to men's SA being overlooked, why can't they start a discussion on their own, bring the issue up and talk about it? Why intrude in or dismiss women who are talking about their own experiences? I'm sure women are able to listen and empathise when it comes to men's SA but why are alot of men so quick to shift the focus of women's SA to themselves, be dismissive or generalize the issue when women are talking about their own experiences? I think alot of men can't seem to just listen, understand and empathise. If they just took the time to understand the issue ( or for why ) that's highlighted when women bring these things up, maybe they can actually do better. I think it shows even when women discuss choosing a bear over a man too. The issue of our safety is being "overlooked" because instead of focusing on how men can do better, the blame is placed on women for bringing the issue up ( and choosing a bear over a man ). It's shifting the narrative to men once more and how they feel when the conversation was about why women would pick bears over men. Instead of reflecting for the "why", alot of men are more focused on how they're "hurt" because women won't pick men over bears when the conversation is about women literally fearing for their safety and why we much prefer a bear over a man.
@yougotOWENd
Ай бұрын
@@tsvnade I would personally also like conversations about women SA to be continued in that same topic. Women have different needs about it and different feelings, so getting that mixed with men's feelings is stagnating progress. Men are by the way, also having these conversations you wish them to have in their MGTOW or whatever other spaces they have. You do also have women chiming in there sometimes that sort of invalidate men's experiences there as well. I can only sort of guess that it is just human nature? To be heard! To want the other half to know what they are doing to them and how unfair things are. I have another threat going on in this channel about why men are upset. Not if I agree with it or not, but just so you get a men's perspective if you are interested in that. I only posted that here because this video was specifically mentioning "menz are hurt", and not to bring it up to intermix with women's issues.
@continuousself-improvement1879
Ай бұрын
Sassy Man apocalypse.
@JayMor-is3nh
Ай бұрын
Masculine 304 apocalypse
@JayMor-is3nh
Ай бұрын
Masculine 304 apocalypse
@JayMor-is3nh
Ай бұрын
Masculine 304 apocalypse
@AboveRubiesTV
Ай бұрын
lol you’ve captured one! Look at the he-motional all over your comment 😂😂
@Staymad304
Ай бұрын
youtube deletes comments. Which is why it's posted this many times. Looks like I caught another heshe who needs to be "pUt iN hER fEmIniNiTy"☠️@AboveRubiesTV
@endTHEhegemony_Today
Ай бұрын
For real. Thank you. This was so well presented! 🖤💜💙💚💙💜🖤 Much Love!!
@movingdragons
Ай бұрын
No ego on a bear. 😂😂😂 You won't have to do emotional labor when being mauled. I'll even take the polar bears.
@emmajoy831
Ай бұрын
Will refer to this next time I hear not all men
@tcm4564
Ай бұрын
God men give me a headache
@TLW369
Ай бұрын
😂♥️
@ravenhadjen7745
Ай бұрын
God women give me a headache
@MalesAreDemons
Ай бұрын
@@ravenhadjen7745 Yet your here why?
@frishter
Ай бұрын
@@MalesAreDemons I'm not the same person but I wanted to see opinions on this. After reading comments, I'm more misogynistic... Your name for one gives good reason to be.
@MalesAreDemons
Ай бұрын
@@frishter I am glad I am also a misandrist so I don’t care now move along out of our space!!! Don’t go on a mass shooting.
@FishareFriendsNotFood972
Ай бұрын
I look up to you so much, sincerely!
@henry4476
Ай бұрын
This video was way more educational than I was thinking it would be. I thought it was going to be about how bears hurt dude's feelings... you know... cause they are so cute but don't cuddle. I appreciate the much more valuable talking points here.
@joycejoy4119
Ай бұрын
XY 🍇 a lizard 🦎 in India Safe the lizards 🦎
@AG-iu9lv
Ай бұрын
Poor lizard 😢
@joycejoy4119
Ай бұрын
@@AG-iu9lv they took everything on their phones 📱 and later ate the poor thing Yes XY consumed the lizard 🦎 after they gange 🍇 it and filmed everything That’s how they got caught
@sunflowerlady2057
Ай бұрын
Such an important message. Thanks for posting this❤
@justanotherpersononyoutube2102
Ай бұрын
It’s a calibration question. The purpose is to assess how a person sees reality in relation to how others see reality. To make a comparison, many men embarrassed themselves in how far removed they are from reality when they said they thought they could score a point on Serena Williams, when asked. The question is designed so that if you say you could score a point, that clearly indicates that you have an assessment of yourself that, to put it generously, is very far away from what a neutral third party would assess. The bear question is largely the same. If you prefer the bear, that is an indication that, again, to put it generously, indicates a vast difference in perception.
@missinterpretation4984
Ай бұрын
No. God, no. Evaluating men inflated egos isn’t the least bit comparable with evaluating women’s sense of fear. This is such a good example of men are scared of being embarrassed/rejected while women are scared of being murdered. Not comparable.
@justanotherpersononyoutube2102
Ай бұрын
@@missinterpretation4984 @missinterpretation4984 Perception is the key factor I was speaking about. I agree, some men have inflated egos. That is central to the point I am making. I also concede readily that men are often rightfully perceived as dangerous by women. However, when you introduce a bear into the equation, i don’t think that there is any comparison. It’s a very, very bad way to become not alive. That is why this functions as a calibration question. The metaphor hinges on perception of a given situation, not on the details of that situation. I hope that clarifies my meaning.
@bingding666
Ай бұрын
A lot of areas of the world have brown and black bears. And people hike, camp, and live with them with little to no altercation every year. Let alone deaths. Those types of bears rarely are predators of mammals, and when they are, they go for small ones like voles and mice. If you make noise while you walk, don’t leave food, have space, and know how to treat close interactions, you will be safe. Without a doubt, I would rather be in a forest alone knowing there was a grizzly bear somewhere over knowing there was a strange man. I’ve happily gone to areas knowing there was a large bear population. I’ve seen a bear 20 yards away. Your point doesn’t apply. It doesn’t calibrate anything. Picking the bear isn’t some form of “different perception of reality for what it is”. You simply don’t know much about bears and base their danger off of assumptions.
@justanotherpersononyoutube2102
Ай бұрын
@@bingding666 my understanding is that the spirit of the question involves a man or bear in your immediate proximity, not generically out there somewhere. As I’ve mentioned elsewhere, I readily concede that men can be dangerous, and it would genuinely be a gamble to have a random one with you. I would imagine that at a six foot radius the odds are in your favor with the man.
@bingding666
Ай бұрын
@@justanotherpersononyoutube2102 “the spirit of the question”? Every iteration of the question has been “would you rather be stuck in the woods/a forest….” Just google “man or bear” to see this. So is the spirit of the question meant to ignore what the question asks?
@ritikasingh9555
Ай бұрын
"Its bcz they have emotions only in situations that involve a woman."😂 other feelings are not emotions. 😂😂😂
@ElizabethGeiger-ye1sf
Ай бұрын
Oh no, they lack feelings in lots of situations that we are involved in. They get big feelings when they feel REJECTED by women. They could care less about our emotions, or their emotions in relation to the needs of the partnership.
@Devonthe12thmoon
Ай бұрын
Isn't the point of a hypothetical question to have this conversation in a safe position? I learned a lot about people from this question. I learned that "strange" proceeds the word Man invisiblely. I learned that men I asked assumed that you were handcuffed to the man or bear. And I learned that women I asked assumed the man or bear was somewhere in the area. I did get concerned when I heard bear so often, as I as a man assumed that I was handcuffed to the bear. But after a short conversation I figured out the unstated "strange" before the Man. We as humans could do with a few more hypothetical questions like this. Knowing that your own experience is not the only experience and that other people's experiences are equally valid to yours, is something many people have yet to learn. Or at least take seriously
@suzsiz
Ай бұрын
I think they Are more hurt becus they think we dont need them. Not becus we Are actually afraid of them. They just dont Get it. They live in a different reality. 🥴
@Emptytopfloor
Ай бұрын
Men need to know fear.
@DancingLobster1
Ай бұрын
Could someone please give this woman some political power? Thank you
@DumboBimbo02
Ай бұрын
Preach
@stefania8708
Ай бұрын
Thank you. Having a debate on this in Italy as well (and in my relationship 🤡)
@rb1278
Ай бұрын
❤❤❤
@normanazoth4181
Ай бұрын
The question itself is the "got ya" most things you are bringing to light are known or understood by the men posting the trick question. It's simple when the question is asked it's asked in a way that removes the very valid reasons you would say I'd take the bear
@uchoobe1876
Ай бұрын
What is the man vs bear argument about?
@frishter
Ай бұрын
A theoretical question of where you're asked that if you're in the woods would you prefer the company of a bear or a random man. A lot of women chose bear. Some men deem it absurd because a bear is always a bad sign whilst a man can help, whilst others like me realised that women really do not like men and that things are way too broken.
@newhappythoughts1628
19 күн бұрын
A bunch of man haters pretending a wild animal that kills people is safer than the average person.
@SCOTT77100
Ай бұрын
New subscriber--I'm trying to help out those I can so I post on both Guys and Women's channels. Both sides need to stop, both sides are imploding. The part in your title "Hurts men's feelings" yes and no, let me explain. There are 2 types of guys "The so called bad boys"--they play games and abuse women. Then you have what I call "The True Guys"--These guys are Loyal, Faithful, (They seek their 1 true female, their Diamond so to speak, they have no interest in anyone else) Respectful, Masculine but would never hurt their girl/woman. They set bounds to protect her, not hold her back. People are throwing everything in reverse. The problem today is trust is disappearing. Women (not all) go with "the bad boys" yet cry "Where are all The True Good Men at"?, These are the guys who only hear "You're not wanted or needed, you're no good"--Yes, their feelings are hurt because they've done nothing wrong and most won't cry thru their eyes/tears but thru their hearts. So they checked out and left. Now you're stuck between "the bad boys" and we know what they're about and the top 1% to 20%. As CEO of Chase bank stated to a girl who wrote a letter "how a pretty girl can date in the top percentage--His response was, You're not a good investment, you're looks/body with age will deteriorate and you want to exchange looks for money. Now you have the bad boys and being single--you women lost what was your intended purpose. And yes, I will defend you girls/women when guys are wrong and they're a big problem as well and as a "True Good Guy", I have no problem offering an apology to women for what men have done. Hope this helps.
@QuarkBip
Ай бұрын
I have no idea what the convo is about, nor did I watch the video before commenting. My answer is bear if we are near water, man if we’re far from water. Bear near water is a safe, bear far from water is a dangerous bear.
@rubypanterra.
Ай бұрын
🇨🇦
@OGK-1414
Ай бұрын
Ya, feelings don't matter till it's theirs
@jamarkellum1370
Ай бұрын
Yall r ridiculous, ur like this everyday?
@GIRLINA101
Ай бұрын
This also applies to men in dresses who try to invalidate women's concerns about physical safety and security. It's important to recognize manipulative heartwashing techniques when you see them. "Be kind" is a trick bag.
@canesugar911
Ай бұрын
Everytime i hear someone explain tphobia, I'm just like sis, this is the female experience. You wanted to be women so badly, welcome to the club......sis
@Allison_Hart
Ай бұрын
wtf is this transphobic comment?? btw i have NEVER heard a trans woman "invalidate women's concerns about physical safety and security." because trans women have usually experienced it themselves. i am friends with trans women and they would not ever invalidate my (also their) concerns. they are at just as much at risk as any other woman, if not more after their partner is feeling "regret" which means violence for them.
@JOHN18042
Ай бұрын
Say hello to Yogi for me 🐻
@lucidlywaking7286
28 күн бұрын
Is comparing men to bears really going to achieve anything for your movement? You can whine about how men got their feelings hurt and so they arent going to listen to you. But lets think practically and logically, by comparing men in danger to monstrous bears, this is going to drive young men away from your movement and not do much to help womens rights or safety in the end, thats just how the world works. This wont help you at all, its like those protesters that throw molotovs around and somehow expect that to do anything against racism. Feel free to have a fit about bears or whatever, but its not gonna change anything for you. And I for one, as a man refuse to sit and listen to you guys whine about how evil men are then go and validate your misandrist sentiment. But it isn't about us anyways, so that shouldn't matter to you.
@trishasurangana2278
4 күн бұрын
You said it correctly at the end, your opinion does not matter to us when women's safety is concerned cuz guess who the perps are? 😂 Why would we listen to perps caught red handed? And yet you wrote a thesis. Write a book, get your bag lil kingie
@user-tg6jg4nw6t
Ай бұрын
I mean... I kinda figured women were saying "bear" out of spite in the first place. But I think this WYR should go even further. I think women should actually analyze how many bears is enough to pick an equal amount of men (after all civilization is built on living around 1 million men instead of 1 million bears). OR swap the bear out with progressively more or progressively less dangerous animals. Now I wanna know about Man vs Deer/Spider/Snapping Turtle. There has to be a threshold and if we are patient, I think we can get a win here.
@missinterpretation4984
Ай бұрын
Out of spite??? I’ve never heard something more out of touch.
@ana-nim
Ай бұрын
@@missinterpretation4984 it's a male, what did you expect 😂
@justanotherpersononyoutube2102
Ай бұрын
@@missinterpretation49849:35 of the video. Hope that helps
@copiouscat
Ай бұрын
It’s literally not about spite or tryna make yall feel a way.. did you not watch the fckin video?!? Lmfao bruh🤣💀😭😮💨
@evergreenforestwitch
Ай бұрын
In 2023 alone there were 83 confirmed grapes committed by men in national parks in the US WHERE BEARS ACTUALLY LIVE. Meanwhile, in the entirety of North America with data going back 240 odd years bears on average unalive .75 people per year or a grand total of 180. In 1 year men voluntarily and for spiteful reasons graped ike 40 % of the amount of people and that's only in the parks and only reported cases. Men are evil. You are doing exactly what she is talking about - ignoring actual data about our safety because your feelers are hurt when we accurately acknowledge that men are dangerous women. Full stop. There are exceptions, but they are exceptions not the rule. Whereas a bear attacking is an exception every time. Bears avoid fights. Men prey on women. That's the difference.
@side_show4145
Ай бұрын
Interesting take on the matter... Though, I find it both hilarious and tragic that it's being taken this seriously... I, however, am beginning to understand your perspective on this issue: After your "rambling," I am beginning to suspect that you aren't necessarily choosing the bear, but you are willfully not choosing the man... don't believe me, then ask yourself: replace the bear in the forest with any other animal and habitat, and would still choose that option over the man?
@kat420365
Ай бұрын
So you came to the comment section to express,…what? See, it’s the, ‘rambling’ part that gets me. You prove what women are saying with that dismissive comment and show how men will belittle women any chance they get.
@AG-iu9lv
Ай бұрын
Grizzle grizzle 🐻
@side_show4145
Ай бұрын
@kat420365 "Dismissive comment," you say? Nonsense... Anyway, I used the term "rambling" to be nice, in a sense... Now, to answer your question: I am mainly here for educational purposes. And with education, comes questions and challenges...
@side_show4145
Ай бұрын
@@AG-iu9lv "No, no... I-I have no money."
@grayace4556
Ай бұрын
@@side_show4145 With your message comes fake "debate" and sealioning. You aren't interested in a debate. You want people to agree with you. Fuck off.
@yougotOWENd
Ай бұрын
It gets men upset because: 1. There is no solution proposed. its just an analogy which cannot be fixed by men, because men are the perpetrators. As you may know, men think in terms of wanting to fix something, and otherwise it does not really hold a lot of value to discuss about. 2. Even if its a backed up statement, its basically saying "you are worse than something people stereotypically think of as a threat"... and that is where the statement ends. Basically you just insult someone, and that's it. So some men respond to this insult defensively, as some would when getting insulted. I think women do this too when saying "your body has so much plastic it causes oil prices to skyrocket". Like would you blame someone for responding to that defensively or hostile? 3. Relating to point 1 again, but men view women nowadays as more capable human beings. If you are shouting out and venting "I have much homework and I feel bad about it" then men are like.... so.... you gonna do homework? Or what? Like what are you trying to say or do? And then women reply with "no I was just venting" or "well teachers should give less homework". And then men go about "so why don't you group up and talk to your teacher?", and so forth and so forth. Very solution based, but there is no solution or action taken to go to a solution. No handles given to get a solution. Its frustrating for men to hear. I hope that gives some insight.
@AG-iu9lv
Ай бұрын
The solution is NOT for women to perform in any way, as you're suggesting. It is for men to fix themselves. Keep your thoughts to yourself and come back when you've done the work. Grizzle grizzle 🐻
@yougotOWENd
Ай бұрын
@@AG-iu9lv Why are you relying on bears to prevent other bears from mauling you? And why are you trying to taunt bears by yelling at them that they are bad? If men are indeed so easy to upset and dangerous when they do get upset, why purposefully upset them by making derogatory statements at them? You know they have small ego's right, so why taunt them if you are afraid of their ego's getting out of control?
@rosevan7845
Ай бұрын
@@yougotOWENd When I was younger there was a hit song called fifty ways to leave your lover. You have blown that record out of the water with your fifty ways to preform so men don't need to grow. Anything, anything at all other than to develop the ego in a mature and healthy manner. Anything, anything at all to say you made me do this rather than I am responsible.
@yougotOWENd
Ай бұрын
@@rosevan7845 Channels like the Speech prof, Jimmy and Relationships and Cyzor are already examples of men telling other men to do better. However, they reach mostly men that are already sort of mature. SA has been illegal for a very long time, and herassment is already being highlighted and frowned upon in the general opinion. So ye, stuff is already going on that men are doing to prevent more bad things from happening. Statistics are however not really dropping on the bad crimes happening, ever since 2015 at least. It seems men are not able to figure things out then. So then what? Like... I hear some "you are responsible" calling from you. Like point 3 of "teachers should give out less homework". I don't think many men will be reached with how you and the other commenter are responding right now, and honestly many other female KZitemrs around this topic do not seem to really offer anything as well. It mostly goes like "your feelings are bad", "this is why we feeling this way" or "men do not understand feelings". I am personally a bit more mature and wish to look into these things, but many men, especially the ones who need to dig into it the most, are getting repulsed by your words and actions. Basically saying, your current mindset doesn't really help with your target group you are trying to reach. Do better if you wish to see improvement.
@krbyp8092
Ай бұрын
nah ya'll are just fragile & can't handle the TRUTH. Plain & simple. You males always expect women to respect your feelings but ya'll constantly shame, insult, berate & degrade us
@gradymorrrowjr37
Ай бұрын
Hurts our feelings HOW the bear will turn on you when they can't find any food so we're good Drizzle Drizzle 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
@wiglicious.
Ай бұрын
Yeah men do the same thing when they’re ego is bruised, this wasn’t the gotcha moment you thought it was
@gradymorrrowjr37
Ай бұрын
@@wiglicious. Ain't NO gotcha in TRUTH Drizzle Drizzle
@VictoryXR
Ай бұрын
A man will get horny and aggressive faster than a bear gets hungry.
@VictoryXR
Ай бұрын
Drizzle drizzle yourselves into gay relationships, we LOVE that for you! Drizzle drizzle
@gradymorrrowjr37
Ай бұрын
@rb1278 Embarrassing myself how when y'all whole life is based off what's happening on the internet remember women are the most in debt the most evicted with unpaid college loans y'all are even the worst and spending money so y'all are Embarrassment to yourselves Drizzle Drizzle 💯
@alexdex9439
Ай бұрын
Listening to a woman is like being lost in a corn maze..."hmm im sure ive been here before and I cant seem to leave"
@punkybrewstar83
Ай бұрын
Leave corn maizes & women alone Kevin & the problems are solved & everyone will be happy... easy ❤
@horror990
Ай бұрын
Listening to men is like being locked in a basement of unimpressive, decaying trophies with someone who puts all of their self worth onto them and is simultaneously unwilling to leave the basement and achieve more even if there's new trophies attached to it And then just as you think you've found one that doesn't do that, he just starts belittling your own achievements to feel better about his and then when he thinks he's watered you down enough and depressed you to the point of not achieving he does exactly the same thing as the others Not to mention, you've totally proven her point and made a conversation about women's safety somehow point to your own emotions bby girl. Like, I'm sorry YOU'RE tired over someone else's emotional agility course 🥱
@heathermooney7013
Ай бұрын
you bought the damn ticket to the corn maze, bone head. You must love it here.
@bingding666
Ай бұрын
This is actually an incredibly great analogy! Instead of using logic to understand a corn maze, you will be frustrated when you don’t immediately understand it. When you get confused, you think “this makes no sense, it’s all the same! Just the same repeating things! This is so stupid!” And cut off any further thoughts. When in reality, there’s a few incredibly simply ways to navigate a corn maze! You’ll not even consider that; you’ll simply act like there’s no rhyme or reason in order to protect your ego.
@heyhey439
Ай бұрын
Clicking on women's videos and commenting on women's videos and repeating instead of simply choosing something that you actually want to watch? It's giving women irl don't talk to me so I need random women on the internet to give me their attention...
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