It's not a man's job to erase a woman's trauma...get therapy
@cocolokoflacco
2 ай бұрын
that's what I told my homegurl, but she claims self healing and God will fix her because therapy is too expensive😒
@aaronsummers432
2 ай бұрын
@@cocolokoflacco can't save em all...she definitely is going to have to put the work in then
@Dante00721
2 ай бұрын
@@aaronsummers432 No that's not a man's job, but apparently according to a lot of women, it's a man's job to pay for it. This is crazy thinking by women. What if Men had this stupid ass mentallity? What if a man made $130,000/yr and said "now that I make over 6 figures, I'm not dating a women unless she makes at least what I make or more". There will be no relationships and kids. This is just crazy!!!
@PreparewithRealEstate
2 ай бұрын
I was 40 with two girls when I became a wife. A few months in, I cooked up a delicious meal on the spot and he proposed. He said that he wanted to marry me because I wasn’t in his pockets. I didn’t learn how much he made until I’d known him for almost 18 months. These salary requirement ladies just don’t know that they are repelling accomplished men with their rhetoric. Maybe just say that you want a man who’s successful.
@dennisjohnson7139
2 ай бұрын
Yeah because I've never asked a woman how much she makes. As long as she can take care of herself and her kids.
@London2ATL
2 ай бұрын
Exactly, married women need to speak up. I don't care if a woman makes 500k, at home you need to be feminine! Maybe I like my woman to be nurturing, be attentive, cook, be that. Who cares about how much she makes if she can't be true to the essence of a woman. Would a woman care if her 500k man couldn't protect her at home or in public?
@candorsspot2775
2 ай бұрын
They aren't wives. Women who come on with delusional requirements are just looking for more booty calls. They prefer to live in delusion. Being a wife is work. This woman is too lazy for all that.
@mjgotbeats
2 ай бұрын
Yea but you know how to want and keep a man. These women are single looking for one on Kendra G’s show, I just decided this is the crazy demographic
@jay4341
2 ай бұрын
It’s funny because you can get a sense what a person makes simply by asking them about their career. She’s her own worst enemy
@joshuapeoples6795
2 ай бұрын
She sounds like she's in competition with men. No man wants to hear a counter for everything they say... Pops setting her up to be single lol
@bruceleeroy8302
2 ай бұрын
Exactly, she wants an exceptional man, but wants to compete and humble him. That's not going to work
@joshuapeoples6795
2 ай бұрын
@@bruceleeroy8302 not at all 💯
@bruh-in-I.E.
2 ай бұрын
Wise words...Yes she is in constant competition with men. SHE works in a male dominated industry...NO man wants to compete with his woman.. After working/competing all day for 8-12 hours come home and still competing with his woman!
@bruh-in-I.E.
2 ай бұрын
PUT YA HANDS IN THE AIR AND SAY NONOPE
@wanderlustly313
2 ай бұрын
Bingo!!
@CedricG-mo3py
2 ай бұрын
Avoid this woman at all costs. She’s not in touch with reality .
@temptsrule
2 ай бұрын
Amen brother , I work with women in IT/systems exactly like this left over woman and they are now reaching 40's and 50. and still single being passed around with false dreams
@user-zg3lp3gw7i
2 ай бұрын
What do you mean, she has her confidence.
@Brothapocalypse
2 ай бұрын
Lol at least you didn't use the word "delusional" like Kendra predicted
@deewavy7182
2 ай бұрын
So you telling me a person who's not in touch with reality is raising the next generation of black men and women? that's extremely problematic.
@CedricG-mo3py
2 ай бұрын
@@deewavy7182 I’m not telling you shyt. I’m addressing the men population. Mind your business.
@MrNobodyJones
2 ай бұрын
Fellas, if she’s not impressed with your character and personality, keep it moving. Impressing women with material things is for dudes who don’t have character and personality.
@problactive285
2 ай бұрын
Then maybe stop with the money requirements. You're leading with money then contradicting yourself saying "impress me with your character"....it's all cap.
@MrNobodyJones
2 ай бұрын
@@problactive285 Agreed. I’ve dated women who work at Popeyes Chicken. I’ve dated project managers. I’ve dated women that I didn’t really know what their job was because they worked from home. As long as they aren’t buying what they want and begging for what they need, I don’t care how much money you make.
@MrNobodyJones
2 ай бұрын
@@problactive285 First, have 200k. If you have 200k, I’ll allow you to impress me with your character. 😂
@problactive285
2 ай бұрын
@@MrNobodyJones trust and believe @250k I'm not concerned about impressing anybody. If you don't show me something that peaks my interest from the jump I'm not even going to break stride to talk. When you make above average income you get numb to people who lead with money requirements those people are plentiful and are to be avoided.
@Ronni-hh1vj
2 ай бұрын
@@MrNobodyJonesbecause you are just there for the bootie....nothing matters at that point...Popeyes...really dude???😮
@lindseynero1000
2 ай бұрын
She never mentioned a good role model for her young boys or someone to pour into these young black men. Just focused on the money… 😢😢😢
@c3servicesofatl
2 ай бұрын
Not only that, but also her math is off. He don’t need $200k to live her same lifestyle. Him making $100k is equivalent to her making $200k with her 2 kids.
@shaunoffrange8122
2 ай бұрын
Are you encouraging men to be role models to children that are not theirs?
@Troystreetzproduction
2 ай бұрын
@@c3servicesofatl200k with two kids in the Bay Area is more like 70k
@slinkiegirl2001
2 ай бұрын
They always do
@Shay-rx4xu
2 ай бұрын
That's what they dad is for
@KirkBlackJr
2 ай бұрын
She wants a man that make 200k but in the same breath he can’t impress me with money and gifts and material things. If that’s the case then why do he have to make 200k if none of that can impress you. Make it make sense 🤦🏾
@Ajack1710
2 ай бұрын
Exactly 💯
@elroy1rose139
2 ай бұрын
She doesn't know what she wants and she lying too
@ClassNeverOutdated
2 ай бұрын
Yeah that didn’t make any sense
@bruceleeroy8302
2 ай бұрын
It's like a man wanting a super model who dresses in a hijab a baggy clothes and never goes outside
@brandonlongdikjones8117
2 ай бұрын
Right🤔😮🫡
@Girlgonewise
2 ай бұрын
She is going to be single for the rest of her life. She thinks it’s a flex saying “no man can impress her” lol.
@bruh-in-I.E.
2 ай бұрын
She miss=took advice from Dad not to be impressed when guys flash items...Im sure her DAD do not want her to be in competition with her romantic partner. She is in competition with her romantic partner. smh
@citrustaco
2 ай бұрын
If no man can impress her, then that's what she gets. If a man said, no woman could impress him, they would call him shallow or gay and he'd be alone.
@citrustaco
2 ай бұрын
Also, she wants a man to show up in his masculine energy. If she's not showing up in her feminine energy from the start, he doesn't want you. So tired of all of this conditional femininity. No man comes on this show saying "Well, I'll be masculine for the right woman". There is no flipping of a switch. Be feminine and submissive up front. I'm not trying to compete with a woman.
@Haz2288
2 ай бұрын
She completely misinterpreted her dad's intent. Turned a positive (not being easily impressed) into a negative (unable to appreciate someone else's accomplishments)
@trell_money7789
2 ай бұрын
@@bruh-in-I.E. you described it perfectly
@kdkyrie1292
2 ай бұрын
So for a 40 yr old female with 2 kids I have to make $200k. And I get to take care of another man’s kids ? Wow what a catch
@demetriusjames9535
2 ай бұрын
A helluva deal, eh? 🥴
@kevinlee9929
2 ай бұрын
Don't forget stubborn, always ready to compare you to her father, and big tattoo that is a RED FLAG
@longbeachmaumba7059
2 ай бұрын
Sadly they'll will never try to see it from a man's perspective.
@Iceberg_Mac
2 ай бұрын
wtf 😂😂😂😂
@toeaxn
2 ай бұрын
I’ve never seen tattoos etc being an issue until social media My hubby actually designs and pays for my tats and yes he’s a high earner 😂
@real-ishstraighttruthnocha1687
2 ай бұрын
200k to play stepdad? No, thank you. Best wishes. I'm not down that bad.
@image0987
2 ай бұрын
Are u down for someone who makes under $45K? 🤔😂😂
@jyoungspins2200
2 ай бұрын
😂😂😂😂
@twashington9983
2 ай бұрын
🤣🤣
@PrettyMoneyLife
2 ай бұрын
To an annoying fake confrontational combative or competitive annoying cocky/arrogant woman..... smdh
@theeamazingkrabb5358
2 ай бұрын
@image0987 you have to think from a man's perspective. Why would any sane man (regardless if he has kids or not), who makes that kind of money, sign up for a baby mama of 2 kids with a bad additude.
@theeagleslairchannelwithcoacht
2 ай бұрын
My husband of 28 years still tries to impress me and I eat it up and allow him!! A man must be able to be a man in your presence.
@johnjay3308
2 ай бұрын
Smart woman! Good 4u! 👏
@Troystreetzproduction
2 ай бұрын
Your husband won a million bucks marring you high quality women are going extinct as far as dating wise
@rekanova3757
2 ай бұрын
I love that! I'll surely take that advice with my relationship 😊
@khalayii
2 ай бұрын
Amen. I let me husband do things for me I can do for myself (don’t tell him). lol.
@bargainbeauty7529
2 ай бұрын
Love that for you! 👌
@josephgrinder8051
2 ай бұрын
You got 2 kids and want me to make 200k!!! I would get a woman with no kids for 100k
@ariuwg4186
2 ай бұрын
True
@kingjamesmayo8232
2 ай бұрын
Facts
@anthonymclaughlin2346
2 ай бұрын
She said family oriented....so he can raise your boys, FOH!!!
@toeaxn
2 ай бұрын
Do you have kids? I met mine and we both have kids from a previous relationship
@sleepy1760
2 ай бұрын
@@toeaxn You are what’s called a one off Mam
@derrickjones6442
2 ай бұрын
She has been on the market for twelve years and still single. At 39, her standards are high like a woman in her early twenties without kids.
@RT-xs6fq
2 ай бұрын
Kendra was really putting her on game right here about presenting feminine, but you could tell she doesn't actually get it.
@JustBree716
2 ай бұрын
It went right over her head
@bruh-in-I.E.
2 ай бұрын
Tru DAT....Kendra did try to throw her a life preserver but she was not connected to the cloud enough to understand and grab hold....
@PreparewithRealEstate
2 ай бұрын
@@JustBree716IKR, her eyes glazed over and she kept interjecting.
@MrsMagi
2 ай бұрын
@@JustBree716right
@MrsMagi
2 ай бұрын
Kendra preaching baby 💯💯💯
@bruceleeroy8302
2 ай бұрын
All the 6'2" $200k+ men are on here looking for 40 year old single mothers! She should have no problem finding that man. Also, of course a woman looking for men making high income also are very humble and won't lead with their money and accomplishments.
@DanteFortson
2 ай бұрын
😂😂😂
@theeamazingkrabb5358
2 ай бұрын
Exactly
@justsaying5633
2 ай бұрын
These 3’s and 4’s and their demands 🤦🏾♂️ $200,000, really? Enjoy those spontaneous trips with your kids.
@kingjamesmayo8232
2 ай бұрын
💯
@image0987
2 ай бұрын
Agree!! 😊😊
@Quinten4M
2 ай бұрын
Insane 😂 this is so crazy demand 😂
@OneBadBad
2 ай бұрын
So true she's not pretty.. sorry... NEXT!!!
@brianal7143
2 ай бұрын
She spoke with her chest too! 😂
@checkerslane
2 ай бұрын
She said her Dad raised her well but this dad that supposedly raised her well couldnt teach her not to have 2 children for a man without marriage
@Pkunashamed
2 ай бұрын
Or be compliant to the men she wants
@Richard-Reloaded
2 ай бұрын
Either Dad failed her or she rebelled.
@gospelofyashua
2 ай бұрын
Speak on that 😂
@FollowPickMeekPodcast
2 ай бұрын
I’m sure he did, but often time we do what we want and face the consequences later
@twashington9983
2 ай бұрын
Ohhhhhh.....Down goes Frasier!
@meangreen6044
2 ай бұрын
Ma’am if you think you are entitled to a man making 200k, with you having 2 kids.. what kind of man do you think women childfree should get? Most men don’t make 200k and you expect him to come raise your kids when he can start from scratch with a woman who has no kids, and younger ? I know there’s a lot of delusional males and females out here. It’s just unbelievable they have seen the other get dragged and come up on the show in the same situation confident they are deserving but the others aren’t
@toeaxn
2 ай бұрын
I guess I’m in the minority 😂
@Rashaadthegr8
2 ай бұрын
@@toeaxn How much you make AFTER taxes.
@Rashaadthegr8
2 ай бұрын
You said everythign I was going to say. Now one thing I can say at least she "makes what she requires" because alot of women on this show don't make no where near that but want a 6 figure man. Heck, most people on here be lying about making 6 figures. 6 figures with 2 kids and 6 figures with no kids are two different numbers especially after taxes and defintely if you live in NY, CA, etc.
@ShabazzStone
2 ай бұрын
*FYI: With all due respect madame, 2 kidz **_automatically_** disqualifies you from being able to demand (i.e. request) ANYthing.* 🤷🏾♂ *#NoStepCrashDummies*
@Astrapionte
2 ай бұрын
And then she ain’t even got no ahh, like…
@ColdIce99
2 ай бұрын
6’2, 200k, that wants an average looking damn near 40 year old woman with two kids. 😂😂😂😂😂😂
@adewoleabioye8540
Ай бұрын
It is absolutely laughable. She ain't serious. The delusion in western society is real.
@beaniemac
2 ай бұрын
The way they casually request a 200K salary is laughable
@Quinten4M
2 ай бұрын
Right lol
@aroukapenn
2 ай бұрын
*MOST LAUGHABLE!!!*
@theeamazingkrabb5358
2 ай бұрын
Totally! But her baby daddy probably made 20k at most!
@beaniemac
2 ай бұрын
@@theeamazingkrabb5358 u already know
@Real.Name.Hidden123
2 ай бұрын
I am from the Bay Area. In her line of work, $200k is pretty common. She just need to understand that it may be difficult to find outside of California. Also, a man making $200k may not want a woman with 2 kids, but there are some who will be okay with it.
@C.Y.773
2 ай бұрын
For all the women who come on here talking about how they deserve this top 5% earning men, where are the updates with said man?
@TheThriftyQueen
2 ай бұрын
Her masculine energy is holding her back.
@Quinten4M
2 ай бұрын
Right
@liljerry496
2 ай бұрын
You can’t tell her that ..🤷🏾♂️
@grindhard4312
2 ай бұрын
Thank for being truthful
@Wgz945
Ай бұрын
And the 2 kids definitely don’t help
@andreaharris7397
2 ай бұрын
It doesn't matter how you look if your energy is masculine.
@kaykaye
2 ай бұрын
Imagine growing up, and your ambition in life is to make $200k a yr, just so you can attract a 40yr old with 2 teenage kids that ain't yours.......hmmmmm the delusion is off the chart
@Seeingisntbelieving
2 ай бұрын
*delusion😊
@corasbloom
2 ай бұрын
She has confused sexual attention (I.e. her sexual encounter from a few months ago) with a man trying to lock her down
@kaykaye
2 ай бұрын
@@Seeingisntbelieving thanks for the spell check ✅
@Wormanatti
2 ай бұрын
Exactly !
@bruceleeroy8302
2 ай бұрын
40 year old mom of 2, wants a 6'2" man making $200k. MmmHmm go ahead Kween, get all you deserve.
@PreparewithRealEstate
2 ай бұрын
😂
@bruh-in-I.E.
2 ай бұрын
De loo loo, De lew leaux, Da lu, De lu, DELUSION IS REAL???? Delusion is a hell ova drug!!!!!!!!
@jhenrymusic1
2 ай бұрын
You only deserver what you work for. Not what you demand.
@bruceleeroy8302
2 ай бұрын
@@jhenrymusic1 agreed. I hope my sarcasm was obvious enough 🤣
@temptsrule
2 ай бұрын
@@bruceleeroy8302 It was for sure. For an average looking woman with no glamour and two children almost 40 years of age looking for top 2 - 3 % black men is very unlikely
@Gotinks
2 ай бұрын
Picture a man thats making $200K and hearing from her kids "You not my Father, I don't have to listen to you". 🤣
@kingjamesmayo8232
2 ай бұрын
Facts
@ClassNeverOutdated
2 ай бұрын
He probably has children too
@myronbourne6937
2 ай бұрын
@@ClassNeverOutdatedhe can get a childless woman
@Richard-Reloaded
2 ай бұрын
@@ClassNeverOutdatedmissed the point.
@MrEOM41
2 ай бұрын
While eating the food you bought them 😅 damn lol
@coreyflagge5850
2 ай бұрын
She has relegated herself to being just a bust down. Women just never seem to see the difference between sexual attention and marriage minded attention. Of all the questions women need not to answer, it's the money question. Kendra gave her great advice as well and I hope she listens.
@wanderlustly313
2 ай бұрын
@coreyflagge5850 Yes!! And the fact that they get sweated ALL the time, just confuses their little heads. They are convinced that the 1000 men lined up all want to marry her when NONE of them do, they all just want to hit...twice. Doing my best to make sure my daughter understands this basic truth.
@QueLoQue-Eh
2 ай бұрын
I disagree. Please ladies speak your truth… Easier to spot and stay away from the hyenas… 😂
@coreyflagge5850
2 ай бұрын
@@QueLoQue-Eh I tried...
@black_thoughtz777
2 ай бұрын
The fact that Kendra had to educate s 40 year old mother of two about a man speaks volumes.
@KevinHunter-jt2rd
2 ай бұрын
She got some nerve..Kendra need to bring her male circle of friends(that she talks about) to the show and give their thoughts
@London2ATL
2 ай бұрын
The women won't listen, they'll say "it's just those men"
@KevinHunter-jt2rd
2 ай бұрын
@@London2ATL That is what they'll say ain't it...🤣🤣
@DLShoulders29
2 ай бұрын
Does she REALLY have this circle of male 🤔friends??
@Wgz945
Ай бұрын
They will still argue with you about your preferences
@AmberJailee
2 ай бұрын
Join the rest of the baby moms that comes on this show and requested 200k…newsflash YOU WONT FIND IT just like they haven’t.
@randommusings4957
2 ай бұрын
Shouldn't she be impressed by their effort in trying to impress her? She should show appreciation for the fact that the men try to impress her. It sounds like she enjoys letting them know what they did is "nothing special."
@brianal7143
2 ай бұрын
Very true.
@halftimehomes
2 ай бұрын
Why do women think the more money they make qualifies them for a high earning man? He doesn’t have access to your money and he doesn’t need you to provide
@ukan.536
2 ай бұрын
Being with a man that makes significantly less is not attractive. Sorry.
@NewWorldOrder19
2 ай бұрын
She doesn’t even make 200k she said she don’t 😂🤦🏿
@Coolsnacker
2 ай бұрын
@@ukan.536 That may be. But then don't complain about being alone.
@factsunloaded4808
2 ай бұрын
@@NewWorldOrder19yup...an average cloud computing engineers salary is 100k to 125k...she is asking the double what she makes 🎉
@ghariiscool
2 ай бұрын
They think we think the way they think
@RT-xs6fq
2 ай бұрын
Maybe she'll find him... I genuinely still believe she has better odds finding bigfoot
@DanteFortson
2 ай бұрын
She has better odds finding bigfoot riding a unicorn on a rainbow beside a leprechaun riding a dragon while eating a golden goose egg. 😂😂😂
@RT-xs6fq
2 ай бұрын
@@DanteFortson🤣🤣
@QueLoQue-Eh
2 ай бұрын
Finding a chupacabra out in the world is also a possibility…
@ShabazzStone
2 ай бұрын
*There is a desperate SIMP out there somewhere.* 😂
@rogers5622
2 ай бұрын
@@DanteFortsonnot Bigfoot riding a unicorn 😂
@Iceberg_Mac
2 ай бұрын
This woman is not listening 🙉 to Kendra 😂😂😂😂
@AmberJailee
2 ай бұрын
She’s not listening bc she’s looking for a wallet for her kids.
@jamarjohnson6077
2 ай бұрын
At all
@jesterarts734
2 ай бұрын
Yea…She’s busy reading the comments…
@chilled4lyf
2 ай бұрын
@@AmberJailee100%
@Iceberg_Mac
2 ай бұрын
@@thespadestable are you serious 👀👀👀
@jjayphilly342
2 ай бұрын
Her EGO is out of control. R.I.P. to the childrens' father, but she would be exhausting.
@Ronni-hh1vj
2 ай бұрын
She's ultra intelligent (book smart)
@mizzmee1976
2 ай бұрын
And she seems like a stick in the mud🤷🏾♀️
@Issey_B_Devo
2 ай бұрын
She’s insufferable
@LadyAsh8888
2 ай бұрын
Women like this would pair much better with a more feminine/beta type male! I don’t know why they don’t realize this
@myronbourne6937
2 ай бұрын
They don't want nor respect beta males.
@elroy1rose139
2 ай бұрын
That's why I say women don't know what they want. Sorry to say that's why they don't make good leaders
@moneyisviscous
2 ай бұрын
But a woman like this will not respect that kind of man. Masculine energy will never attract a masculine, providing man! I would expect a woman calling herself Pretty E to be more aware of the power of her femininity.
@takinganewapproachpodcast2994
2 ай бұрын
Especially in the bay area. Its a lot of suckers.
@Troystreetzproduction
2 ай бұрын
Because he is more than likely broke and is a prison bae 15:31 there’s a small amount of betas that available
@teezyfbaby252
2 ай бұрын
Rip to her children's father, but the correct answer was "No, he didn't make $200,000" ...him being deceased for 12 years doesn't matter. Y'all weren't kids, 12 years ago you was 27. You had 2 kids by a man that wasn't making that amount and now you're requiring another man to come in and make that amount. Can't make this up
@Mr.Boring_Man
2 ай бұрын
Great points!
@kane99560
2 ай бұрын
Yeah, I was disappointed in KG for letting her avoid the question.
@Richard-Reloaded
2 ай бұрын
Pure deflection.
@tvlover1492
2 ай бұрын
Not many 27 year olds make that amount of money. If we’re being realistic. She’s in her what late 30s early 40s and she’s now touching 6 figures. Imagine a 27 year old woman coming on here who isn’t making 6 figures herself requesting her man make 200k instead of building with him while they’re both young. Y’all will have a field day with her in the comments.
@Richard-Reloaded
2 ай бұрын
@@tvlover1492 that request would be more reasonable than what she's asking for as a 40 year old single mother of two. What y'all don't understand is your income doesn't qualify you for a man of a certain income. If that was case Oprah would be the most desirable woman walking.
@shaylabrown6038
2 ай бұрын
Ladies you have to look like you deserve what you're requesting. She's not dressed like she even hangs in those type of social settings.
@johnjay3308
2 ай бұрын
Cuz she dosen't
@rdot8869
2 ай бұрын
Manipulation is always the name of the game with women.
@iwilson3950
2 ай бұрын
@shaylabrown6038 So true! She is in no way polished. Look at her nails and her teeth. I usually don’t talk about Sistas but she is basic with a capital ‘B.’ I don’t believe her.
@SugaDontPlay
2 ай бұрын
WHAT???!!!!! What a stupid ass thing to say smh You clearly have no ability to think outside of tropes that you've seen displayed smh YOU'VE clearly never been around people with 6 figures or else you'd know that cash doesn't equate to "flash"! Is Oprah flashy, what about Bill Gates, Jeff Besos, Elon Musk, or all the people in upper middle class neighborhoods???? Most of the tech industry earns 6 figures, basic software engineers make $200,000+, you don't see them "blinged out" and/or "refined", because they're regular people, who do a regular job, who make good money. What it is is that you're used to "hood rich", "ghetto fabulous", fronters, etc, who care about being flashy and displaying their "wealth". Hondas are the most common car amongst those who earn 6 figures. So many people in these comments need to speak on only things they know about and stop conjecturing on things you haven't even been close to experiencing or being in the proximity of someone else experiencing.
@missjoy6685
2 ай бұрын
Cuz she doesn’t hang in those circles. The nails are a dead give away. My collages would laugh at me if I showed up with nails like that lol
@Jennifer_Lewis_Beach_Living
2 ай бұрын
Ladies, Professor Kendra gave another great lesson in this clip. If this guest didn’t listen, hopefully some other ladies looking for love listened and took notes. Also, this woman is around engineers of all races that make that kind of money, but none of them are asking her out or introducing her to their friends. If that’s not happening, she needs to look at herself and make adjustments so she gets what she’s looking for. If she has straight male friends in that income bracket, she should talk to them to see what they look for in a partner. She does come off as arrogant and a “know-it-all”, so that may be turning off potential suitors.
@kayk2899
2 ай бұрын
This!
@takinganewapproachpodcast2994
2 ай бұрын
As a person in saas and cybersecurity, they are not paying like they use to in tech. Many ppl are losing their jobs or taking less to just get job security somewhat. Most who would make that money arent blk 6'2 n looking for a 40 yr old blk woman with kids.
@tctopcat1981
2 ай бұрын
@@takinganewapproachpodcast2994 exactly. I can definitely attest to this. You are at a good company if you earn 200k. I think most, even google etc, actual salary (excluding stock options) for senior level engineers is like 200k.
@Marc-oy9sd
2 ай бұрын
Factz! Engineering has men all ovver the place! The aint checking for this attitude. You dont get an engineering degree and bust your azz for this attitude...
@IAMHERE486
2 ай бұрын
She better run down to Silicon Valley and get a short man.
@ShaneusSnake
2 ай бұрын
Indian and Asian dudes aren’t checking for BW at all, and all the goofy white guys are hunted by Asians. She’s in big trouble!
@Troystreetzproduction
2 ай бұрын
Most of those guys are young fresh out of college with a clean and no kids the men her age in the tech field are married and dealing with their own children she’s too masculine
@jonnyseablue6911
2 ай бұрын
If you haven’t realized by now these women aren’t looking for men
@arinekandem
2 ай бұрын
How can she believe there is a 6'2 man out there, making 200K and wants to vacation with her AND her kids??? But she does. God played a cruel trick on women.
@jodezod
2 ай бұрын
It’s not God. These women choose to act and operate like this.
@islandgirl101
2 ай бұрын
"Don't try to impress me with material things, but come making $200k..." Girl, if u don't go sit down😂
@Noname-hc5uw
2 ай бұрын
Not just sit down, but shut-up and sit down!
@UpdatedView
2 ай бұрын
As a brother in the top 5% of earners and married for 15 years, most of us will have an ego. Self awareness is key and “Pretty E” has one as well. Your confidence has to radiate when negotiating deals upwards of $80M like myself. I can’t waver in my confidence, because clients will lose trust and it spills over a little into my home life (wife loves it though). All of the responsibility lies with me and I’ve been in leadership roles for the past 20 years. My wife and I experienced a lot of things together as we grew so there was no one upping each other as she described. Here is the truth, if you are in the top 5% of men, you don’t have to deal with a competitive disagreeableness. You can go find a woman that was raised by her father in the opposite manner. Good luck to the sister🙏🏽
@cuzzitsmee
2 ай бұрын
She is staying in character girl we not at work 😂🤦🏾♀️
@its_allintheblood
2 ай бұрын
😂😂😂😂
@1BeautifullyBlessed
2 ай бұрын
She said it too. It's like an interview
@Geneiusbeatz
2 ай бұрын
Too much work for no return
@bruceleeroy8302
2 ай бұрын
Exactly, he has to be an exceptional man but be humble. I don't think she's as valuable on the dating market as she think she is. Matching a boss chick is not something men want to do
@Geneiusbeatz
2 ай бұрын
@@bruceleeroy8302 these type of women just don’t get it
@renx5609
2 ай бұрын
Agreed. She wants 200k but don't try to impress her with material things😂?🤡
@Geneiusbeatz
2 ай бұрын
@@renx5609 they must be stopped lol “The madness”
@GETBIG4WARD
2 ай бұрын
@@renx5609it sounded so stupid she also pulled the it takes a man to make me feminine so she is only a feminine when men around when men not around she is a man 😂😂
@Richard-Reloaded
2 ай бұрын
Imagine travelling overseas being surrounded by all the beautiful women of the world with a washed up baby mother of two. I'd be way too embarrassed and ashamed.
@Issey_B_Devo
2 ай бұрын
Exactly! It’s not that men don’t like to travel we don’t want to travel with 40 year old mothers of two! You’re right imagine showing up for 10 days in the south of France or Mykonos with her ass they say “Don’t bring sand to the beach”🤣🤣🤣
@19971de
2 ай бұрын
😂😂😂😂
@Marc-oy9sd
2 ай бұрын
Damn.... it is true. The babymama part doesnt bother me as much as the entitled personality...
@Mr_Rich-theGreat
2 ай бұрын
Another one for Kendras 200k club ..
@njc9776
2 ай бұрын
It’s really sad how superficial this generation has become
@liljerry496
2 ай бұрын
That part …😏
@thelessons3768
2 ай бұрын
1:32 "He has to travel and have a passport... You have to STIMULATE me or I get bored." 😳 Womanese Translation: I am highly neurotic and will always be looking forward to the next temporary dopamine hit provided by social stimuli, you will be my court jester, I'm impossible to please, and I think I'm better than you. These are my kids and if you don't like it bounce.
@main1033
2 ай бұрын
You have to be her entertainment. Not a man
@reddi672
2 ай бұрын
You appear to be a highly trained Sniper.🤣🍺
@thelessons3768
2 ай бұрын
@@reddi672 😂😂😂
@QueLoQue-Eh
2 ай бұрын
This lady’s father is probably helping or will help provide for her through an inheritance. I hope that is the case because the lifestyle she describes. Living in SF, traveling all the time, two children to provide college funds for - AND saving and investing for retirement - would require $600-700K minimum in CA.
@marythomas3152
2 ай бұрын
VERY WELL PUT.....& I TOTALLY AGREE 💯%
@LadyK007
2 ай бұрын
Just because a woman makes $200,000+ and wants the same from a man doesn’t mean those men will want her. Leading with money is silly. It takes so much more than a high income to make a marriage minded relationship work. Does she want a husband or a travel buddy? She has two sons. She’d be very fortunate to find any compatible professional corporate man who wants to wife her and treat her sons like his own.
@firstbloodwarrior3868
2 ай бұрын
Me being a woman, she triggered me with the money requirement. Money is not everything. I hope she finds loneliness and snuggles up to depression, because leading with money will lead you wrong. 🚮
@Giggy7373
2 ай бұрын
Amen!!
@jay-t1030
2 ай бұрын
Lol men have been saying this for decades, but they are always labeled as woman hating, insecure etc.
@DIGGY_DUBAI
2 ай бұрын
I almost spat my coffee lol!!!!
@kdh255
2 ай бұрын
She definitely thought it was flex!
@firstbloodwarrior3868
2 ай бұрын
@@jay-t1030 So have I. I was raised to value character over materialism.
@BlankName600
2 ай бұрын
The problem with women today is that they are the biggest pocket watchers and not dating looking for love. Most will be alone forever 😉
@jay-t1030
2 ай бұрын
Imagine a man saying “Its a woman job to take me out of my feminine” 🧐
@leramfreeman2950
2 ай бұрын
Bingo!
@loyalandkindsunshine3382
2 ай бұрын
Got em!! ❤
@tctopcat1981
2 ай бұрын
🤣🤣🤣🤣This comment sums up women's mentality these days perfectly.
@YA-BOY-ZB
2 ай бұрын
🚩🤣
@Humblearrogance_TX
2 ай бұрын
Her dad taught her how to be a good man - failed at making her a good woman.
@JustBree716
2 ай бұрын
Bishhhhh😅 Preach
@tam6011
2 ай бұрын
Is that her fault? How do you define what a good woman is ?
@ArethaRenee
2 ай бұрын
A father can’t teach a daughter how to be a woman. He can teach her survival skills.
@blackmancool9983
2 ай бұрын
200k to be a stepdad?????????????
@MsTKO-le7us
2 ай бұрын
Plus she’s a older woman don’t forget that part 😂 A man that makes 200k going to go younger,hotter, cooperative, and no children 💯
@kane99560
2 ай бұрын
She wants a man that makes 200k, but its a turn off he shows he makes that without outright telling you😅 Maam, stay single 😅
@bruceleeroy8302
2 ай бұрын
Exactly, she doesn't get that clear contradiction
@myronbourne6937
2 ай бұрын
Straight yapping. At her big age 😂
@joemomma3208
2 ай бұрын
that’s why the disclaimer “for entertainment purposes only” exist
@jalanjackson1242
2 ай бұрын
Out of all the red flags they list, being a baby mama is not one 😂
@MrEherndon5
2 ай бұрын
Right
@luvfashion101
2 ай бұрын
The dad passed away so she doesn’t have a choice but to be a BM😒
@jalanjackson1242
2 ай бұрын
@luvfashion101 she still could've been married but I definitely get your point. It still stands that she was a baby mama. She didn't have to be one.
@jongreene5605
2 ай бұрын
@luvfashion101 she had Two kids without marriage. Still a baby mama. She should have married before she carried
@burrell897
2 ай бұрын
Usually I agree but her children's father died so the circumstances are different
@MrNobodyJones
2 ай бұрын
Dude tried to impress her with a watch, who’s she dating, rappers????
@RECHARON
2 ай бұрын
It’s possible that he had just purchased it and was telling her about it. She may have assumed he was trying to impress her.
@reddi672
2 ай бұрын
She made that lie up. She hasn't dated in that tax bracket. And most likely never will.
@MrNobodyJones
2 ай бұрын
@@RECHARON This is true. Never looked at it like that. Thanks for the new perspective.
@richard2461956
2 ай бұрын
After seeing her laughing, she's in no position to have teeth requirements.
@takinganewapproachpodcast2994
2 ай бұрын
I thought i was the only one that saw that. 😂
@iwilson3950
2 ай бұрын
🗣️🗣️🗣️
@user-pl7ud6dq5q
2 ай бұрын
Yeah I thought it was my phone.
@melodyirving
2 ай бұрын
I totally agree with Kendra. Let the man shine
@myronbourne6937
2 ай бұрын
She doesn't make 200k nor has she dated men who make 200k.
@hotboy80baby18
2 ай бұрын
The way she said it made me think she was lying 🤥
@SegunOpebi
2 ай бұрын
99% of black women do not personally know a 6-figure man let alone date one.
@factsunloaded4808
2 ай бұрын
yup...an average cloud computing engineers salary is 100k to 125k...she is asking the double what she makes 🎉
@ahuman1082
2 ай бұрын
She's not an engineer. Just an accounts manager.
@linaluv215
2 ай бұрын
Most men who make that kind of money have their "Day one" wife already. In other cases, they dont want to settle down and love sliding in and out of every pretty young thing moving. That rare available single guy wont likely lock down a mother of 2, thats the reality
@Coolsnacker
2 ай бұрын
You are correct. But the "anything is possible" brigade are already on their horses cosigning her BS.
@carlcwms
2 ай бұрын
Saying you are feminine will never ever out weigh showing you are feminine.
@Lalalivinlife
2 ай бұрын
I read a book recently called “How to not die alone” I think a lot of these folks looking for love on this show should read or listen to it. One chapter specifically talks about dealbreakers - not having a passport (unless they are unable to access one legally) should not be a dealbreaker.
@Matthew7.7
2 ай бұрын
Kendra is spot on with letting man impress you. We live for it. And we want our ego and appreciation stroked when we do impress you
@qbizzy37
2 ай бұрын
When will these women learn. Wonder why we don’t want them leading
@theeagleslairchannelwithcoacht
2 ай бұрын
A woman is supposed to naturally be soft and feminine. It’s not an until….I was born a natural feminine. I love being a woman and soft and pretty and lady like and EVERYTHING that goes along with being a lady. I’ve always said that way before it became trendy.
@duronc6338
2 ай бұрын
These men are above average and feel proud of setting themselves apart. Same way you do. Your dad raised an image of himself, not a wife. It shows.
@JustBree716
2 ай бұрын
I'll just say this, my sister actually makes that plus more and has been married for 20 years to a man who makes less. One things for certain and two things for sure, if you ever get depressed, losing your parents, all the highs and lows that life may bring that 200k demand is not gonna hold you tight, wipe your tears or make you some soup if your sick. The way she shrugged at a 100k man because she wants to live a certain lifestyle...... Buy a dog. Buy two and a cat, i heard they can at least lick your tears
@lomaxlomax6152
2 ай бұрын
And like Kendra said they can still travel and enjoy some exotic places! When you vibe with someone, you should not have an issue with adding a little more than your mate. Cause if the guy is making $100,000 she is not going to have to support him in his day to day like but maybe she will have to pay a little more towards the exotic vacations she wants to go on. Yeah she is gonna have a hard time
@LizWhite.
2 ай бұрын
I thought these women asking for 100k was a lot, but this right here is doing too much. 🤦🏽♀️
@jayo3074
2 ай бұрын
She's dated a guy making 200k but it didnt work out because they wanted someones less intelligent? 😂
@mackximus1
2 ай бұрын
She’s annoying. Who wants to come home to all this energy and attitude
@jermainewilliams9206
2 ай бұрын
There's no way I'm looking for a woman with 2 kids and I have a income of $200k. You may be better off with the 🐻.
@BeautyNBrains86
2 ай бұрын
Not the bear!!! 😂😂
@brittanyb7568
2 ай бұрын
I feel a lot of people are so set on a salary amount, not even thinking that a job can be gone tomorrow. Why base the quality of man you want on a dollar amount. The true reality is that she can find that millionaire, but what if he's not good with money? What if she loses everything, will she be able to rely on her partner to help her? It's more than money...
@MrsRease2011
2 ай бұрын
Yes!
@twashington9983
2 ай бұрын
6:45 - So you want a man to match your energy? But when he does, you consider it "little things"? She's too wrapped up into herself to let someone else in! 9:35 - So you want a man that makes $200K and you're turned off by materialism? 11:58 - The head shake means she's looking for a break from her current life. 16:54 - The conversation goes back to the money!!! 18:45 - The reaction to this question proves that men are not listened to!!!! 3:54 - All About the Benjamins Baby!
@Letstalk17
2 ай бұрын
Same story different woman . That’s why I say majority women are the same and men know it that’s why these women get played so easy
@isaiahallen244
2 ай бұрын
39 yo and wants more kids, and she's smart? She is just a fun girl, and I'm pretty sure that you don't have to make 200k to hit her.
@tctopcat1981
2 ай бұрын
some rando was smashing 3mo ago. Probably makes no where near 200k
@ieo92
2 ай бұрын
She's the man she's looking for. What do you need a man for when you're completely capable of doing EVERYTHING yourself right? She will remain single if she keeps this up. You gotta let a man feel needed and not try to match him cause that's a headache for him.
@jadriangarner6374
2 ай бұрын
Sick an tired of baby mamas with these unrealistic high standards you have 2 kids lower your standards you be single forever
@jeffreyspriggs1924
2 ай бұрын
Bay Area is expensive as hell! $100k is bare minimum in that area.
@Quinten4M
2 ай бұрын
Now you have a point. 100k there is like 50k everywhere else
@dramaxitytvcle6755
2 ай бұрын
But She Been Single for 12 Years 😂😂😂
@Babyluv_
2 ай бұрын
@@dramaxitytvcle6755she’s been single for 3 years, not 12 years
@AshLeynn9
2 ай бұрын
Thank you! I’m glad somebody said it. It’s expensive as heck in the Bay Area. People are scraping by making $100K so asking for $200K isn’t that far fetched.
@factsunloaded4808
2 ай бұрын
@NewWorldOrder19 yup...an average cloud computing engineers salary is 100k to 125k...she is asking the double what she makes 🎉
@loyalandkindsunshine3382
2 ай бұрын
2 kids too much, y'all act like 200k just grow on trees huh. please point me to that tree I need a nice vacation too.
@MrsRease2011
2 ай бұрын
😂🤣😂
@lennylink8772
2 ай бұрын
"You're not my daddy" for 200k 😂
@mosaictwin
2 ай бұрын
She is seriously missing out on a wonderful guy with these unrealistic expectations. She really thinks like a man. 😢
@bubakshain
2 ай бұрын
She will run into the same issue all these other women who claim to make a lot of money. The man they want doesn't care how much they make and isn't trying to compete with them. She is the type that if you are talking about travel and say you have been to 30 countries she has to say she has been to 31.
@Terrijennipher
2 ай бұрын
If your dad raised you so that no man will impress you, he raised you to be a strong single black women. She should be blaming her dad for being a single Bm. Nevertheless I do believe she can find someone
@thelessons3768
2 ай бұрын
Aht, Aht! Blame her dad for her being strong independent? Sure. But you can't blame her dad for having children out of wedlock. You cannot question a woman's reproductive decisions or rights. That is totally off limits especially in the b community. Those are two different things ma'am.
@thelessons3768
2 ай бұрын
Besides, she is grown and 40 years old. Why don't our women ever realize things and change course?
@merouria6524
2 ай бұрын
As long as a woman is physically attractive she will have options.
@FreeAgent797
2 ай бұрын
You want a man making a minimum of 200k annually, but he is not allowed to impress you with material things??.....somebody please make it make sense. Did I miss something??
@tam6011
2 ай бұрын
Because material things don’t mean anything. I have never been impressed with material things and any income bracket. Do I like them sure and will buy them. However I am not impressed cause a guy bought it. I would be more impressed if he built a set of condos to add to his portfolio.
@FreeAgent797
2 ай бұрын
@@tam6011 Well then, she should adjust her financial standards a little bit. Alot of people who make that kind of money love to show off their hard work. It's common knowledge.
@tam6011
2 ай бұрын
@@FreeAgent797 why do equate 200k to material things? Thats your shortsightedness. No they don’t. It’s okay to say you don’t know. Someone making 200k may or may not. For example, I lead a team of 50 folks. My youngest engineer is 25 and makes 250k. He is as cheap as they come. In fact , we compete to be the cheapest. Stop telling yourself this lie. We don’t care about that. It’s about ROI.
@lomaxlomax6152
2 ай бұрын
Cause if he was frugal and wanting to take her on weekend vacations to the states she seems like she would have issues with that. Some of the stuff she was saying was not adding up. She just sounds like she is so competitive in a relationship and I’m sure that can become annoying to a guy.
@tam6011
2 ай бұрын
@lomaxlomax6152 what is funny is a lot of guys are competitive in relationships. Meaning they see you making more they are going to go out and try to achieve that. You don't have to say anything it's just who they are. I am not talking about dating, either. This happens in marriages.
@GreyMann2
2 ай бұрын
Cute woman, but she lost the little handful of potential suitors when she started "masculine" and "impress" talk. 🤨
@ClassNeverOutdated
2 ай бұрын
Yeah she has some work to do with that
@xtraxtra2359
2 ай бұрын
She tells lies!!! Kendra said so they have to make more than you she said yes to the 200k. She's dizzy
@concretejungle6938
2 ай бұрын
Guaranteed she's not making anywhere near 200k,she needs a man making 200k to take care of her & them kids.
@Issey_B_Devo
2 ай бұрын
She’s just tired of working and she has two sons approaching college age and now she’s desperate after years of consumer debt and living beyond her means she’s full of 🧢
@factsunloaded4808
2 ай бұрын
@@concretejungle6938 yup...an average cloud computing engineers salary is 100k to 125k...she is asking the double what she makes 🎉
@Iceberg_Mac
2 ай бұрын
Y’all never say y’all want a man that’s at least 7 feet tall 😂😂😂
@thelessons3768
2 ай бұрын
🧢"If you make ONLY $100K you have to be willing to grow." Womanese Translation: "From the day I commit to you you are on a time clock and I will stay on your case and call it "inspiring you" until you somehow magically double your income because I don't really know how income growth works. Until that happens I am subconsciously going to view you less than, and will not fully submit. And best believe Rico who makes $40K but is a human 🍆 tripod will still get it on the side regardless."
@clauvensdurace1717
2 ай бұрын
New Zodiac sign - Delusional🤣🤣🤣
@SpiritSoPoetic
2 ай бұрын
and ppl like kendra steady saying “because men have egos, it’s ur job to feed it” is crazy. First of all, every person has an ego, not just men..and it’s ur job to master ur ego and keep it in check. You’re not supposed to go through life operating from ur ego, that’s basically operating from the lowest chakras. That’s why Carl Jung and so many others have books on how to control your ego
@BleuReign13
2 ай бұрын
This "match your energy" mess is out of control..u dont always have to one-up people in conversation. Competition is unnecessary.
@leramfreeman2950
2 ай бұрын
Good girl!!👍🏾
@Retro89Dec
2 ай бұрын
BW view BM as rivals and not companions, sadly.
@BleuReign13
2 ай бұрын
@Retro89Dec Maybe some but not all and that's definitely an unhealthy perspective to have..We r not men
@myronbourne6937
2 ай бұрын
The Kendra Komedy Show is back!!! She better stock up on pet supplies and wine 😂
@lovette7684
2 ай бұрын
Sis, it is hard out here: your main criteria for a man should be confidence (not competition), and passion in his career, but he may not earn your number yet. Good luck!
@RosaX305
2 ай бұрын
No, the main priority for finding a man should be his CHARACTER, which trumps confidence. I’d take a quiet loner that will treat me right over a boisterous man that will dog me out any day.
@c3servicesofatl
2 ай бұрын
Only a person who wants a sponsor has a money requirement that high.
@Astrapionte
2 ай бұрын
And on top of the kids, shean even got nothing to work with! Back flat as h3ll
@hotboy80baby18
2 ай бұрын
She ain’t cute either with the grey gums
@timothywise5855
2 ай бұрын
Stupid flat lol
@jodezod
2 ай бұрын
😂 bruh
@logent80
2 ай бұрын
😂😂😂😂
@etuitivemillionaire
2 ай бұрын
No offense; but, a world traveller who's upwardly mobile is either already married or looking for 25 y/o pink.
@myronbourne6937
2 ай бұрын
20*
@etuitivemillionaire
2 ай бұрын
@@myronbourne6937I didn't realize you were a pink connoisseur. 😂😂😂
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