There’s so much truth to this! They condition you over time. It’s insidious how they slowly chip away at reality until there’s none left.
@crankiemanx8423
Жыл бұрын
Even worse when they convince others that you're crazy.because when you want to call them out on their behaviour no on believes you & they all accuse you of causing trouble.
@southerncatlady
Жыл бұрын
YES! I am dealing with this right now, and it is rapidly wearing me down. And the worst part is that I have PROOF that I am not lying or crazy... But of course, no one will take the time to even look at it...
@LION-on4gd
Жыл бұрын
@@southerncatlady Talk to a professionnal who knows about these persons personal disorder...he or she will hear your truth and will believe you..give you advices..get you feedback ...too hard alone with these impossible persons!!
@southerncatlady
Жыл бұрын
@@LION-on4gd I'm about to start therapy. I joined a support group, and that is helpful sometimes. But there are also trolls who harass people looking for help. And all this stress and trauma has made me so paranoid that I keep thinking that the trolls are this person's flying monkeys coming to give me hell, or even the person themselves stalking me. So yeah, I'm gonna have to talk to someone. Before my mental health gets any more out of hand.
@dianevitale1214
Жыл бұрын
Covert narc i'm divorcing right now has alienated my 9yr old grand daughter against me. He is not blood related to her. 'YOU MADE MY PAPA CRY' It's even worse than that. long story. EVERYONE sees him as the most wonderful guy. I'm in a tough fight for truth and justice.
@southerncatlady
Жыл бұрын
@@dianevitale1214 I'm so sorry you're going through that! I hope you are able to talk to her and get her back on your side! 🤗
@fluffbabiesRcrazy
Жыл бұрын
The narcissists in my life both tried to convince me I was crazy, but I finally learned to keep receipts and document and it's really paid off.
@littleiodine9480
Жыл бұрын
This can also be a grown Child that you love beyond words!
@jacquelinefroehle3583
Жыл бұрын
I have 2 adult kids that repeat what ever their narcissist dad says and they are like him.
@PassionateFlower
Жыл бұрын
I love how my dad screamed at me my whole childhood and it's "discipline" but I send my father a text saying, "You have Narcissistic Personality Disorder and you emotionally abused me my whole life" and it's eLdEr aBuSe and hArRaSsMeNt!!!!! O.o Oh my lord🤦♀️😵💫
@crankiemanx8423
Жыл бұрын
Then they come back with respect your elders "because I've been on this planet longer than you & have more experience" or " back in my day we respected our parents". ...even when they are wrong ...
@rosameijering5161
Жыл бұрын
I am proud of you giving him a chance to see the reality if he wants. Meaning you wish everyone the best. Just speak the truth that is it
@rosameijering5161
Жыл бұрын
Yes i thought it was my death but G-d had grace over me and made me come out of this and realize this. I just dont believe him anymore and learned i am not dumb and to use my strength and intuition
@PassionateFlower
Жыл бұрын
My parents gave me a lifelong mental illness because of their shenanigans. Irresponsible is what they are.
@Nyc99
Жыл бұрын
Its hard to forgive and dont be mad, hard like more than all school i did
@leticiamilo4387
Жыл бұрын
Thanks Danish!❤⚘
@Nyc99
Жыл бұрын
they scared because i go nuts if i dont see compassion, its the end of world
@SpiritLives
Жыл бұрын
This is happening at work. Cameras are definitely helpful sometimes.
@carmen6693
Жыл бұрын
We must work at the same place!
@trying2survive602
Жыл бұрын
This has been going on for more than 3 decades. You are so right, Danish!! On my way to healing!!!❤
@winifredokolo1861
Жыл бұрын
They project such painful guilt and shame. Gaslight you and use your weaknesses against you and you inflict this blame or internalize it themselves
@ccsx222
Жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for making these videos and sharing knowledge and genuinely helping those of us who have been raised by narcissistic abusers
@michaelhenault1444
Жыл бұрын
I love the Dame Edna comedy acts. Barry Humphries gaslights strangers 😂😂to make such behaviors outrageous. And outrageously ridiculous. Worth checking out.😂
@nvk743
Жыл бұрын
Ugh my narc ex would watch me react to bs behavior from his family or friends and tell me to BE THE BIGGER PERSON. And if I was not he wouldn’t talk to me
@takiniishere
Жыл бұрын
Ughhhh same with mine, except he said the bigger person and act like a woman, stop acting like a child. Smh. So glad to be free of it.
@nvk743
Жыл бұрын
@@takiniishere same!!
@yolandaholliday4964
Жыл бұрын
This is so true!
@shehnazhassankeshwani2997
Жыл бұрын
So true.. I was to believe..😢
@Earthoceanfire435
Жыл бұрын
He definitely tried!!
@4freethinking
Жыл бұрын
Very true!😢
@rockhard5390
Жыл бұрын
O God protect me, amen
@annegelsano745
Жыл бұрын
So true...relate ✔️
@texasrefugee7888
Жыл бұрын
Thank-you ❤
@LION-on4gd
Жыл бұрын
...or telling you "You feel worser than you think"...brother said that after 1 year of battle with an ex narc.."safe" back in the family again I thought....it continued with older brother and father..actually where it started..empath mother had become coodependant enabler willing keep up the family image..soo mostly I wasn't heard..😢..hurted a lot empath mother had changed that much but she did it to "survive"..she passed away 😢❤🕊...paying a high price..missing her every day.❤.no more contact with the others...😢🤨..the only empath left..🍀🕊
@kanchangupta8546
Жыл бұрын
Very true
@hartmut-a9dt
Жыл бұрын
So true
@Nalot56
Жыл бұрын
I think the most dangerous mind games a narcissist can play is by using the “twin flames” story. Please discuss this. It’s cult-like programming that can devastate victims.
@godschild8995
Жыл бұрын
God help and protect every person -and especially children & the pure hearted- from these types of evil in Jesus Christ's name, Amen
@aklev5745
Жыл бұрын
Yes
@Yeshuaseekinggirl
Жыл бұрын
Yep
@terridillon3053
Жыл бұрын
So TRUE! You lose your God given intuition Get out! And start healing ❤️🩹
@geana113
Жыл бұрын
he told everyone that im crazy or narc when he cought cheating while im pregnant😅
@rosameijering5161
Жыл бұрын
Whow girl the fact you came out of this says you are the boss and you are amazing. Honestely it breaks my heart when women go through this but I believe in you and am proud of you keep going like this you have always done
@geana113
Жыл бұрын
@@rosameijering5161 thankyou sis, he is my husband.. he took my son (2 yo) as his weapon bcs he know i dont work bcs im pregnant and no power to take my son back. poor me.. im alone .
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