This made me cry. I'm pretty new to the trans community, just figuring things out, and it's videos like this that give me hope, and help me feel that these mentally painful things I'm feeling are ok, and that I can become what I've always known I am. Keep being awesome and inspirational. Sincerely, Eryk.
@charlesasher
9 жыл бұрын
DancingCrow127 Eryk, I'm so glad you found some comfort in this video. Everything you are feeling is ok. This process can be really painful and difficult at times, but having others to relate to who are going through the same thing helps so much. Feel free to drop me a line if you have any questions or ever just want to talk. :o)
@thetranspinkpanther
12 жыл бұрын
Thank you . I have been watching you for 3 years . You have helped me so much.
@vosogo
12 жыл бұрын
You're awesome Charles. I think your points here about self-acceptance are spot on. Thank you for making this.
@wish1were
12 жыл бұрын
I like the way you put this verbally! It applies to both trans men and women. Good Job!
@daysleeper4792
8 жыл бұрын
I find you incredibly interesting. I'm not trans but I think people like you, using your voice to educate and bring people together, to help others understand, is a beautiful thing. I'd be honoured to be with a man like you ❤
@charlesasher
8 жыл бұрын
Why thank you. I appreciate the compliment. :o)
@ZanOrion
8 жыл бұрын
This is beautiful.....like poetry, of transformation.....no hangups, just you encouraging, challenging how we all could be more free in our bodies. For you as trans it involves much to deal with, surgeries, testosterone and so much more. But, when you say cis gender people are uncomfortable in their bodies too at times....that really is me. I could expose more.....but, I don't feel to safe to do so on social media.... I am just grateful that you have shared your recognition that there is really not a clear line between trans and cis gender, at least this finally has been put in words for me. Because this is where I am "in between." For me I would say I feel uncomfortable in my body often, and then I feel comfort. I don't think, for me changing my gender would be what would change this because it is not totally about "body parts" or even what I would call gender dysphoria, like it is for so many trans people. That is how it is for my trans friends.....about body parts and the associated dysphoria. Your video seems to understand that there really is a spectrum between cis gender and trans, and so few people seem to feel comfortable talking about this. I know that when I try to, some of my trans friends have "cut me of," and for the 1 friend in particular I think he needed to do so because, it probably messed with his own reality, as he was going through a particular stage of his transition.....we do not talk about these things anymore and I feel sad about that.....yet it is refreshing to hear your perspective, because, I feel at times a need for a safe place to talk about my feelings. and also, to feel accepted for who I am, for who I express myself to be. Boxes and boundaries, and limitations do not do it. And social norms....really mess with my head!!! I have felt quite alone in this.....your video, your art, your transformation have shown me and given me a new sense of freedom!!!! Congratulations on your transformation and your willingness to say it like it is.....I am happy for you and happy mostly that you seem to have found a new sense of freedom in yourself.
@charlesasher
12 жыл бұрын
thank you so much for the kind words. i appreciate them. i hope your weekend is going well!
@Chrisforder82
12 жыл бұрын
Hey thanks for making this video, it was so beautiful put together & so much of it I & so many others can relate to!! S I just want to say a BIG thankyou
@BillyBarnacle
12 жыл бұрын
Moving words dude. Thanks again Charles.
@jjbeemer
12 жыл бұрын
Great video, Charles!
@eawass
12 жыл бұрын
great vid! loved the shaved hair at 5:48!!!
@zetabyte99
12 жыл бұрын
Hey Charles. First of all I'd like to say you've been a source of inspiration for me since I first watched you over a year ago. You were the first trans guy I watched and I was wondering if you could do a video that I can send to people to come out and explain what transgender is an what I'll have to deal with and how I'll need their support. It would be so wonderful if you could. Thank you so much. P.s. if you don't know what I mean daveywavey has a gay equivalent on his channel called "mom, d
@danielandreas97
12 жыл бұрын
Beautiful. Thank you for making this :)
@mnaz650
9 жыл бұрын
great video. this is irrelevant but there was a clip of you skateboarding in front of my elemtary school...random but i got excited since it was unaccepted and i was trying to figure out where you are from/where these clips took place haha
@charlesasher
9 жыл бұрын
mnaz650 where are you from? this video was filmed all over.
@Chrisforder82
12 жыл бұрын
I think u look fantastic! Such courage!!
@MadyJay76
12 жыл бұрын
wonderful video :) Beautiful presentation
@daisyuadiski4841
9 жыл бұрын
I'm not crying, you're crying!
@MichaelAdventure6
12 жыл бұрын
Very moving! Thank you so much!! Btw; when did you move from San Francisco?
@charlesasher
12 жыл бұрын
thank you so much!
@Dots_thepuppy
12 жыл бұрын
Coming from me a cis gender female I never really felt right it's taking years to feel I'm ok just being me I even had bulimia in middle and high school (age 11-17) I think as humans we search for acceptance from others and learn it within our selfs too
@ohgodwhyagain
12 жыл бұрын
I love this.
@dutumasalpha
12 жыл бұрын
Loves this.
@kevinskates13
11 жыл бұрын
Great vid!
@gypsykatcher30
8 жыл бұрын
We all have our own personal, tailor made battles and tests in this life. I cant walk in your shoes, and you cant walk in mine.
@ThatPunkBrent
12 жыл бұрын
good video man
@keloreilly7017
11 жыл бұрын
Beautiful i
@zetabyte99
12 жыл бұрын
ad, I have a secret". But what I'm asking from you is something more comprehensive and trans related that explains what trans is. Nothing about binding or packing or depression. But just explaining what it is, etc.
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