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@msngr2422
3 жыл бұрын
I think nofap is the first step in leveling up for modern man. That dopamine chase won't get us anywhere in life.
@KraziChidi
3 жыл бұрын
TRUTH
@BetterLoveMovement
3 жыл бұрын
💯 agree with you!
@MarswaggerOG
3 жыл бұрын
i disagree... Everything that you do is solely because of the need for pleasure(ie dopamine rise). Without the dopamine chase, you might as well end up having no motivation to do anything(even no hunger or need to breathe).....
@danlo5102
3 жыл бұрын
@@MarswaggerOG true but I think he meant the dopamine chase from porn where it’s so easy to feel it that it’s unhealthy; no work is needed
@Hypno_BPM
3 жыл бұрын
@@MarswaggerOG eating and breathing compared to masturbation ? lol. one are necessary to live the other isn’t.
@DivineLogos
3 жыл бұрын
NoFap has been more powerful to me than exercise even.
@TheRoommatesPodcast
3 жыл бұрын
That’s great!
@folaslife
3 жыл бұрын
What’s no Fap?
@tyson9047
3 жыл бұрын
nah man
@bradleydiaz01
3 жыл бұрын
@Eugene Fisher shutup
@bradleydiaz01
3 жыл бұрын
@Eugene Fisher yes you are very wrong
@jboog9128
3 жыл бұрын
Almost 50 days in. Being able to control your sexual energy is a big game changer
@goldtiger9453
3 жыл бұрын
Good shit bro day 12
@scottbrown6505
3 жыл бұрын
Day 5
@jboog9128
3 жыл бұрын
Day 3 for me. Let's do this
@Nemy360
2 жыл бұрын
@@jboog9128 you said 50 what happen?? you folded??
@jboog9128
2 жыл бұрын
@@Nemy360 yeah man I folded. Im back on the grind though I let life and bad habits get in the way
@ConfidenceCreator2
3 жыл бұрын
NoFap isn't the goal, NoFap is the gateway through which your goals are empowered... I dropped a video on Nofap yesterday to 💪🏾
@hlulanizitha9920
3 жыл бұрын
Agreed it's not so much a destination as it is a life style.
@manuelalonsodominguezvazqu2145
3 жыл бұрын
Great insight.
@ConfidenceCreator2
3 жыл бұрын
@@manuelalonsodominguezvazqu2145 💪🏾💪🏾💪🏾
@TheRoommatesPodcast
3 жыл бұрын
Great!
@whitenoise127
2 жыл бұрын
Day 7
@nazthegoat5772
3 жыл бұрын
Ever since I've done semen retention I've put the weed down, confidence started boosting all the way up, and started to talking to more females more. At school tried to initiate a hug at the end of passing period and she hit me with the "I got a boyfriend" line. I didn't give a damn and i told myself "Move on bro, life is not always how u want". I'm 17 and thank god for this redpill platform. I was raised with a single mom my whole life and it gave me a lot of beta tendencies. Now I'm learning and improving on what it takes to become a man. No excuses!!!
@e36blur
3 жыл бұрын
I put the weed down too man! Motivation right here I need to stop so bad.
@TheRoommatesPodcast
3 жыл бұрын
That’s great!
@nazthegoat5772
3 жыл бұрын
@@e36blur bro we will get through this together
@AZrakoon
3 жыл бұрын
Good for you man!....I didnt reach that kind of maturity till my 30s.
@trevorarmstrong6641
3 жыл бұрын
You got this young g ✊🏿🤜🏿
@craigfrober316
3 жыл бұрын
Doing God's work, Hafeez. I wasted my 20s with porn addiction but slowly managed to wean myself off it. Never been more optimistic and motivated for the future since cutting out that cancerous habit!
@yourstarbucksorder4828
3 жыл бұрын
I’m working on it to man at 28
@lamarbrandon4730
3 жыл бұрын
Dope..man trying to get there. Long way to go
@310.raised
3 жыл бұрын
How old r u now? @smfh
@jackstephensonbuschman7923
2 жыл бұрын
As someone in there mid twenties this is really supportive to read. I get very fearful being 26 and still navigating this issue - like I'm a failure. Hearing older men like yourself be able to work through it is really motivating. Thank you
@d3einc393
3 жыл бұрын
Pornography lowkey teaches us to jump from one woman to another. For example if we are not satisfied with Khalifa after some time we jump to Kendra Lust. Then we start practicing that in real life 😔the devil has ways of attacking us
@joshuacampusano5128
3 жыл бұрын
Ong and make u picky wit race and stuff
@310.raised
3 жыл бұрын
Lol
@jayjalloh3631
3 жыл бұрын
Meditating helped me TREMENDOUSLY. Locking or deleting social media over a addiction is like covering a trap with leaves. The trap doesn't go away and one day you'll take the wrong step and fall. This porn addiction is no joke, I suffered from social anxiety and depression FOR YEARS and thought of the worst outcomes in random situations EVERYDAY; it made me react to people like a oogling creep, ways I did not want to react; It felt like a never-ending nightmare. If your struggling, then do your best to not let in because that's what the porn/insta-hoe industry want you to do, make money out of your lust and pain. And those girls you bust from don't give a dam about your outcome because they are satisfying their natural need for attention and validation. The struggle is a pain in the ass, but it won't last forever. Stay strong.
@The.god.newsss
3 жыл бұрын
So proud of the men in the comment section, you guys are doing an amazing job.
@mohamedsamaraat7834
2 жыл бұрын
life is horrible for men in the west
@drivenbygrowth7924
3 жыл бұрын
As men we all relapse and fall down in life. Its about getting back up and chasing the mission again and again 🙏🏽 its not about the day to day failures , its always about the bigger picture men . Keep up the great work man !!
@dereckg31
3 жыл бұрын
Semen Retention is the best thing that's ever happened to me in my life. Perspectives have changed, feeling more confident, and filled with lots of life! Been on the grind with Semen Retention since October 9th. No Nut November is gonna be a piece of cake. Stay focused on your purpose and hobbies boys. There are blessings coming our way. Love y'all kings!
@TheRoommatesPodcast
3 жыл бұрын
That’s great!
@prodqt3906
3 жыл бұрын
Still going bro?
@dereckg31
3 жыл бұрын
@@prodqt3906 by all means man!
@anubisgod23
3 жыл бұрын
Did you know you can be just as focused on purpose and hobbies as any other man and still have a daily wank?
@Nemy360
2 жыл бұрын
@@anubisgod23 that's not how it works...you really don't understand the power of semen retention smh
@THESKYLEE
3 жыл бұрын
I’m on day 13 I’ve relapsed so many times, but every time I come back stronger 😤😤the key is to channnel that excess energy into other PRODUCTIVE activities, anytime I feel myself about to fall off, I go workout or go run or go for a walk, trust me this helps A TON, so KEEP GROWING MEN 😤😤😤🗣
@reecehayes7340
3 жыл бұрын
Even if you do relapse it’s still an improvement from doing that shit everyday stay focused guys🦁
@OshaneC92
3 жыл бұрын
I speak to my friends about this all the time. Fapping and porn is crippling men and masculinity. Demotivating men and distracting men from their purpose. A lot of us struggle in silence.
@dariuswray5773
3 жыл бұрын
He’s absolutely right. I started watching porn when I was 13. From middle school to all the way I graduated high school, I always struggled with my confidence and focus. It wasn’t until a couple months months ago ( April or May) that I realized that watching porn and fapping was the reason. So when I realized that, I challenged myself to not fap or watch porn for two months. After 2 months of NoFap and not watching porn my focus and confidence boosted. I was more motivated to get shit done that I needed to get done. I was more energized and said to myself “ I can used to this”. That challenge helped me. Now we’re in November and I’m still been fighting myself to not fap or watch porn. Ever since I was a kid people always said to me stay from shit like weed, meth, crack, perkys, xannys and etc. But they never told me that porn was another drug to stay away from.
@pl0xmytank
3 жыл бұрын
Speaking the truth brother stay on the grind!
@Boethiah-666
2 жыл бұрын
So true. Masterbation is an addiction too
@herlittledove
3 жыл бұрын
reading the Bible is strong food for your soul to help You overcome as God's Word is living and active
@lightskinnedbrother6599
3 жыл бұрын
Damn this video came at the right time bro I'm not gonna lie
@Tmoney9444
3 жыл бұрын
He's the best
@ljthesage
3 жыл бұрын
Same 💯
@TheRoommatesPodcast
3 жыл бұрын
Now go thrive
@BetterLoveMovement
3 жыл бұрын
Hafeez, I'm SO grateful for you and your podcast. My son fell into the pornography rabbit hole after being exposed to it at his father's house during spring break last year. He almost failed the 11th grade! I've recently turned him on to your channel and he has been resistant to watching it but I pray daily for him to get more healthy male mentors. His father has been addicted to porn for 30+ years after being exposed to it when he was 9 years old. I pleaded with his father to talk to him about this and to at least care enough to save his son from this horrible habit. Fellas, trust me when I tell you that this "harmless" habit can ruin your life and your marriage for sure! My son has been seeing a black male therapist for about 9 months now and he's just never been the same since being exposed to this. Do everything you can to break free from this addiction or even casual porn use. You'll be so glad you did!
@jdong7527
2 жыл бұрын
You sound ridiculous with the whole "he was exposed to it at his father's house", you don't have to like the man but to go that low blaming him on something like this is pathetic. Your son has been watching porn since he was probably 10 years old, hell he probably started watching it during the time he's been with you.
@starrjohnson1327
Жыл бұрын
Good job mom!
@e36blur
3 жыл бұрын
The day I started ignoring women(online/and real life) my life turned around. I will NEVER go back. Shieet, I love myself again
@delakidzz8131
3 жыл бұрын
If all men stopped paying attention to all women then the human race would all die out. We need to reproduce thats just fact. In terms of relationships if you follow what the bible says you avoid many of these problem we face as men nowadays
@delakidzz8131
3 жыл бұрын
You don't have to read all of it but just google what is says about the role of women and what it says on marriage and sexaul immortality and then apply your own red pill knowledge to it. The answer and guidelines has been there for us all along
@e36blur
3 жыл бұрын
@Dark Caesar Lol yea I have these girls actually coming to me and saying hi now lol. Girls dont care about you unless you dont care about them. Shows them youre more valuable or whatever. 4 months of NoFap still strong, semen retention is the killer for me. Im not red pilled, I just do what works for me.
@masonridgewell8063
3 жыл бұрын
@@delakidzz8131 Humans don't need to reproduce because the human is no good to the world and nature.
@generaldarmith2506
3 жыл бұрын
@@masonridgewell8063 if your parents dint't "reproduce" you wouldn't even exist so your point is?
@kelcibee1648
3 жыл бұрын
Porn almost ruined my marriage. My husband emotionally and physically withdrew. For the first time in over 17 years we separated, sold our home at a loss. I learned later how much he struggled as well- it took me a while to believe it was truly addictive, but its true...! He said it would make his "mind race" yet feel empty & depressed. Addiction is the lose of control, a leveled up man should always be in control for himself and his family. Society sells cheap sex, and men feel immune to the various consequences. Good Luck everyone!
@anubisgod23
3 жыл бұрын
Genuine porn addiction occurs is less than 1% of porn viewers. Sucks your husband was one of the extremely rare people
@nathanrichard4357
3 жыл бұрын
I felt shivers going down my spine after hearing the story about the 2 brothers. Thank you man you’re really helping me change my life. I love everything that you do man🙏🙏🙏
@youllmakeit
3 жыл бұрын
The number one thing to help with no FAP. Specially if you're a religious single person. Do not fantasize.
@andretaylor2501
3 жыл бұрын
👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽! Exactly!!! It has been 80 days since the last time I watched porn. I noticed there is a main gateway although it can be hard to point it out. When I first stopped watching it I thought in my head just avoid pornography. Then I got on social media and noticed I was seeing attractive people and feeling like I wanted to watch and masturbate it was like my mind was being triggered by non sexual images of attractive people. I deactivated my facebook and unfollowed all of the people I deemed attractive on Instagram. I noticed I would see people in real life and start to but the main thing I have learned is that if you fantasize it leads you back to porn. I know the world has said “there is no harm in fantasizing” but unfortunately there is. I believe if you are walking in real life ajd see someone attractive you can’t help it at all if you look but when you walk past them and look back repeatedly that’s when the danger comes cause now your actively lusting and fantasizing.
@youllmakeit
3 жыл бұрын
@@andretaylor2501 right on! Proud of your streak! But would you also say that if someone messes up a streak, the most important thing was not masterbating and not the streak itself?
@andretaylor2501
3 жыл бұрын
@@youllmakeit hmmmm it all goes hand in hand. I masturbated 3x and I regret it because I almost went back. It is known that when you watch porn and been addicted and then you cut off porn when you masturbate it is a dangerous road because it can lead you back to porn. The reason is because masturbating with no stimuli is very boring because in your brain you know there is something you can do to make your orgasm amazing vs when you just masturbate and orgasm with no stimuli. Fantasizing while masturbating about stuff is extremely harmful because you are most likely going to fantasize about porn scenes or have Porn-like fantasies which are just strengthening those neural pathways in your brain and not weakening them. All in all the streak is important because it’s evidence to yourself that you can fight the battle that you can really do this.
@christianhenry4173
3 жыл бұрын
Don't fatasize but have a better life. You have to work jobs, get a better hobby that keeps you busy. If you spend a lot of time on social media or on the internet your damaging your brain. Here's my advice I take to this day. - Stay in Shape - Eat Healthy. - Release Negative Emotions. - Work. Not just a job maybe a business vision too. - Get more educated. A trade, a degree, etc. Get busy if you need to. - Enjoy your hobbies, Whatever your talent is keep it alive. Because once you start a family, or get married. It's extremely hard. It's no longer about you it's about sacrifice if you get married so cherish singleness. You can always discover your purpose single in your 20's or 30's but don't waist potential that can transform into bigger blessings.
@TheRoommatesPodcast
3 жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing
@petros0323
3 жыл бұрын
Nofap has changed my life!
@rissroo4325
3 жыл бұрын
Some food for thought: Ted Bundy said that porn was the reason for his depravity and he even said to warn young men of the dangers of pornography not long before he was executed. This interview was published in the Chicago Tribune in 1988/89 I believe.
@zaccstacc4568
3 жыл бұрын
interesting
@anubisgod23
3 жыл бұрын
Porn was in no way the reason for what Ted Bundy did. Not even remotely true. Ted might believe it, but science tells us that it isn't...at all.
@bowskee
3 жыл бұрын
porn wasn't even accessible back then there was only magazines.
@joseph6243
3 жыл бұрын
@@bowskee No, porn was very accessible back then. They had porn videotapes, 8mm film, 16 mm film, porno theaters and peep shows and porn video rental stores. Porn has been widely accessible to adults since the early 1970s.
@sylviahodge7096
3 жыл бұрын
@@bowskee Bundy found a trashcan full of porn mags in an alley behind his house that someone had thrown away. He took them home with him. That was his first introduction to porn.
@michaelrobinson2941
3 жыл бұрын
I’ve had an addiction too PH, last week was the first week in a long time that I haven’t watched it been very difficult but I feel so much better. Keep hard guys!
@homerunswithjules
3 жыл бұрын
💯💯💪🏾💪🏾 keep it up
@michaelrobinson2941
3 жыл бұрын
@@homerunswithjules thank brother still going strong 💪
@largelizardsoftheworld7301
3 жыл бұрын
Gotta love this guy man ! Love his content and he knows brothers out here struggling ! Just want to say thanks brother man ✊🏾
@Altairego
3 жыл бұрын
This video came at such a perfect moment, I have been off and on with semen retention and not watching porn but I always end up going back even if it was just for "something fun to watch and promise I wouldn't bust a nut" then I eventually get to that point where I do.. I've been watching so many guides and talks from other self help coaches like MJGetright and the room mates and I'm just so tired of being in this self perpetuating cycle man.. I have my life heading in a good direction but for my own self I want to stop this. I've been doing a lot of self searching and honestly I believe that I'm watching porn because I want a partner that understands and connects with me but it seems that whenever I meet someone there's a disconnect or she's inaccessible e.g. being in another country. I'm not even sure what's got me in that cycle but all I know is I want to break out. I NEED to break out
@cristobalmunoz331
3 жыл бұрын
you can do it g, just keep seeking for yourself and you'll find a more precious treasure than a partner!
@Altairego
3 жыл бұрын
@@cristobalmunoz331 thank you man, I do pray for that that to come to reality but I understand that it's the quality of partner rather than attracting anyone and part of that is how I deal with my own insecurities in life
@charlestondarling7923
3 жыл бұрын
I can definitely relate brother. My longest streak was 4 months in 2018 and ever since then I’ve been off and on. And at this point similar to before I went on my 4 month streak, I’m tired of being tired. I’m extremely close to accomplishing certain goals in my life and I told myself that the more I relapse the further away I become from accomplishing my goals and to top that off, I’m compromising my relationship with TMH by doing it so on that note I’ve made up my mind couple of days ago to be done with that shitZ 🙏🏾 Couple seconds of high ain’t worth it all brother. This world is already coming to an end, and time is limited. Therefore we gotta make the best out of these last years and become strong strong righteous men of God. Good luck and keep pushing brother ❗️ Gone pray for you 🙏🏾
@TheRoommatesPodcast
3 жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing
@tyusjacob5069
3 жыл бұрын
It’s so crazy my girlfriend left to go on about her day and I was sitting here by myself and suddenly I felt the urge to masturbate and look at pornography which I have been struggling with and I ran across this video. Perfect timing. Wish me the best along this journey as I do for my other brothers out there!
@0425549345
3 жыл бұрын
Hafeez - thank you so much for not being ashamed to talk about God in your videos. So many self-improvement channels on KZitem now, with a lot of great truths and advice. But I appreciate you acknowledging the ultimate Truth, even if you’re not a specially dedicated Christian channel. We need more of this, and I just wanted to give you props for that! Seen just a few of your videos so far, but I just subscribed and look forward to more!
@peterc2696
3 жыл бұрын
Honestly ridiculous how porn is even legal. It's destructive especially to young men. Also how is it that prostitution is illegal yet porn is not? That makes no sense.
@SAMSARALIVEEEEEE
3 жыл бұрын
Prostitution is just as bad as porn. Both mindless lust
@zombieboy937
3 жыл бұрын
Banning it won't do any good. There would be no justification for throwing someone in a cage for beating there meat to porn.
@peterc2696
3 жыл бұрын
@@zombieboy937 not the people watching porn, make the creation of porn illegal. It literally has no constructive benefit to society.
@zombieboy937
3 жыл бұрын
@@peterc2696 Why would consumers be less guilty than suppliers when it takes two to tango? You can't have sellers without buyers. drug addicts who get caught with drugs still go to jail. The system doesn't care if you are an addict or a dealer when it's drugs why would it be different with porn? Regardless of the effects porn has on society throwing someone in a cage for a relatively benign activity done between consenting adults is not beneficial for society either. All you would do is create a billion dollar black market that would be impossible to regulate, and just like the war on drugs, you would waste endless amounts of money needlessly trying to stop something you know you can't stop. You and I understand the harm porn can cause, but by comparison to other addictive habits, porn is pretty benign. You won't die from watching porn, and making porn doesn't kill anyone. The mature way forward would be to educate people, not throw them in jail.
@KaiisEgo
3 жыл бұрын
I wish my older brother was up on game, we were both raised by a single mother with little instilled discipline and he’s 23 years old doing nothing with his life and mom holding his hand. I’m 17 an glad I was able to learn what NOT to do from his beta mistakes. Learn from the people around you!
@penelopekitty606
3 жыл бұрын
Another great reason for not using porn is because of the women and girls who are trafficked, harmed and degraded in those videos. Each time you watch you a supporting and endorsing the degradation and harm of women. Ask yourself why you find women being harmed and degraded sexually exciting. Especially if you consider yourself a religious person. Every man here has a mother, some of you have daughters. Think of what your habit does to them. It's not all about you.
@devin4613
3 жыл бұрын
I'm not into porn but thats not true, those women sign contracts to do that stuff they aren't "trafficked". So no sympathy for them here. Kind of like onlyfans, they exploit themselves for money nobody is forcing them to.
@self-publishinghelp8596
3 жыл бұрын
@@devin4613 trafficking is a huge problem in porn. How can you possibly know if what you’re watching is “ethically sourced” porn (as if there could be such a thing.) And how does it affect the way you view and treat real women in your life?
@quido3698
3 жыл бұрын
Tommorow it will be two weeks for me . Lets go guys full month nofap , keep improvising keep grinding , you are a man you have to be the leader !
@brianjanssens8020
3 жыл бұрын
2 weeks of NoFap. I am struggling man, because i still have those tendencies to look at some IG models. I am procrastinating alot too but that was exactly the same as before. One thing i noticed is that my doubts and fears seem to have faded away, and i feel alot more relaxed troughout the day too. What i mean with relaxed is not the type of numb and relaxing feeling after a nice session, thats called exhaustion. I mean feeling more calm and collected with a clearer mind. Keep in mind, A LOT of NoFap video's are overexaggerated. You wont get super powers, you just get the controller back for your avatar. Living life constantly masturbating is like living life on 500 ping and 30fps (you're always behind on everything and dont feel in control). If i had to play on such crap i'd throw the controller away too LMAO.
@3Dgamespot
2 жыл бұрын
Don’t count it okay if you do that not good
@Nemy360
2 жыл бұрын
Put that energy on use, like working out which is great, reading, or go out and jog
@danielrenoj1932
3 жыл бұрын
1 month on the 18th of this months since my last relapse Let’s get it! 💯
@sharonthomas8807
3 жыл бұрын
It makes my heart sing to hear men talking like this. Pornography is toxic for men, the women they want to or already have relationships with, it's killing natural responses and behaviour, anticipation, passion, real connection. Not only that, porn culture is affecting our wider culture, oversexualising women and girls and creating expectations that they need to meet this unrealistic and highly undesirable norm - how the hell did onlyfans become a thing that women are unashamedly open about using for making cash? And the myth that all participants are consenting adults and that sex work is work is highly damaging and has been supported by woke liberal feminists, but women are waking up and starting to fight back and reclaim our womanhood, and we need to do it side by side with strong men as our partners. I am not your target audience but I have sons and I love this channel- I'm glad you are here.
@zfs2123
3 жыл бұрын
I’m on my 7th day of no nut November
@cristobalmunoz331
3 жыл бұрын
keep goin g u can do it
@cesarmendez5161
3 жыл бұрын
Don’t just stop at November
@Hydra2k12
3 жыл бұрын
Stay strong soldier
@jayrahvisions
3 жыл бұрын
No nut November is just a bullshit trend. It's NO nut never fam keep it goin
@joshuam4049
3 жыл бұрын
@@jayrahvisions but we all human and we all gonna make mistakes. I fucked up yesterday after nearly 4 weeks but instead of getting down about it I told myself that mistakes happen and I will be better. Motivated me to avoid getting stuck in a PMO rut.
@Aquarat86
3 жыл бұрын
It’s true. I once did nofap for like 100 days and my mood and energy levels were off the charts. The beginning was the hardest though while my brain was rewiring itself. Do it. It’ll change your life completely.
@colinw9908
3 жыл бұрын
Started 4 years ago as a joke. Currently on a 1 year and 7 months streak and life has never been this good
@fliu5282
3 жыл бұрын
365 + 210 = 575 days ... amazing. You are 1. getting rich and 2. realizing you are GOD [within]. Sincerely, SR Days# 191. You don't count days, you lose.
@fliu5282
3 жыл бұрын
You now realized you are Moses and saw GOD. Contined thy path, you will know you are GOD.
@thesonofdarkness936
3 жыл бұрын
It's like a War unlike any that Mankind has ever faced...
@thesonofdarkness936
3 жыл бұрын
Idk if that made sense...
@pelper1
3 жыл бұрын
Stay in your grind , like really FOCUSED on your purpose , hungry make a plan , write it down step by step and attack it relentlessly. Keep busy and you will be good fam
@certified_vg2200
3 жыл бұрын
2 months in and I’ve gained so much confidence and I hope I don’t relapse
@jerryma3644
3 жыл бұрын
Well stated sir. Your God-granted wisdom is unfathomable for me.
@csamuels184
3 жыл бұрын
I really wish parents would start educating children about sex at a very early age. How to resist the temptation of a pop up of porn sites or pictures. Children are vulnerable and needs parental guidance and prayers because the temptations and struggles are real...
@mikeskybrowser
3 жыл бұрын
Great video. When I listen to people who have a porn problem it usually started when they were somewhere between the ages of 10 and 13. One problem is that 1/3 of the internet is porn. It's so easy for a child to fall into it even if they have innocent intentions whilst browsing. Personally I want it to end completely which is unlikely to happen to a billion dollar industry but at the least it should be better regulated, the ease of access to it in most countries is ridiculous .
@donthehero5985
3 жыл бұрын
Doing Gods work man! 💪🏾 Not all heroes wear capes
@Shamically
3 жыл бұрын
I was on a month and 6 days but recently relapsed. I just want to escape this. I want to stop and not waste my life doing this.
@L0B0TV
3 жыл бұрын
Day 55, I've noticed after 3 weeks porn loses it's appeal.
@TheRoommatesPodcast
3 жыл бұрын
That’s great!
@jeanmendez718
3 жыл бұрын
I try to not even say the word, it’s forbidden to enter my mind
@lukas_432hz
3 жыл бұрын
Not even appeal, some pornos are disgusting, literal disgusting but When you are watching it often it doesnt seem That bad, after not watching for a few weeks you thing about the things they do on film and its really fucked up, and far from reality
@federicoatri6063
3 жыл бұрын
Thank you for putting the not before the to and not after. Love, An english teacher
@Mr-ep2qi
3 жыл бұрын
Read the first chapter of surfing for God and has already helped me tremendously. Thank you for the recommendation bro!
@bklightspeed1745
3 жыл бұрын
7 Days Strong 💪🏽 going for two NNN in a row
@slyk179
3 жыл бұрын
im 17 and just cant stop relapsing i don't know what to do anymore ive tried everything
@rsmpride8267
3 жыл бұрын
bro im 33 and i still struggle same as you. its just one of the perils of the modern world. We just gotta try one day at a time. one day at a time. one day at a time.
@ShaquilleShow
3 жыл бұрын
Delete social media for a while
@cardonastudios6346
3 жыл бұрын
Start praying and meditating to stop thinking about women
@adrianbachelor9082
3 жыл бұрын
I’m a week in a half in! I work 7 days a week so I don’t have the time to bust a nut. You gotta keep yourself busy I guess
@joshuachijinwankwo1958
3 жыл бұрын
Go to bed early take a cold shower cancel IG for a while
@micahmaggio6431
3 жыл бұрын
Reading the Bible mixed with nofap is a recipe for greatness
@perfectshotfilming
3 жыл бұрын
Definitely is!
@pt7930
3 жыл бұрын
You know it!
@anubisgod23
3 жыл бұрын
so reading a book about nonsense written by over 60 different people over the course of hundreds of years and not doing something very natural and in fact beneficial for you is a good rercipe? something seems....off about this equation
@pt7930
3 жыл бұрын
@@anubisgod23 Hey man I just read over what you said. From what I can tell you, that's an incorrect statement. The bible has(and continues to have) helped millions of people around the world from it's inception to modern day. I just want to let you know that regardless of the pain you experienced, God loved you and still does. You just have to be open to him. God Bless you and I'll be praying for you ^^
@anubisgod23
3 жыл бұрын
@@pt7930 ive experienced very little pain thanks. I dont need anything from a thing that doesn't exist thanks The Bible has hurt and killed more than its helped soooo....
@anime_mythology_tv17
3 жыл бұрын
cold showers and meditation my friends....
@suru7064
3 жыл бұрын
I'm not gonna lie for me personally not fapping after the first 3 days it became easier. But there will be moments where you'll need will power.
@jonnyboy715
3 жыл бұрын
Last fapped on October 22nd 2020. Will come back and comment here once I complete a year of Nofap on October 22nd 2021! I'm also going to add exercise and read books as I want to see a big change in me a year from now.
@yungmatt009
3 жыл бұрын
Relapsed yesterday. When I’m off of PMO completely I feel so much better. But sometimes the build up is too much imo
@fatsomanamela8372
3 жыл бұрын
How many days?
@yungmatt009
3 жыл бұрын
@@fatsomanamela8372 Like 21 days. The amount I released did not look normal lmao.
@fatsomanamela8372
3 жыл бұрын
@@yungmatt009 lol I feel you bro. I'm tryna go the whole of November
@joshuam4049
3 жыл бұрын
Bro same. I relapsed yesterday after 3 and a half weeks I don’t know the days exactly but I don’t regret relapsing because I felt I needed to go through that experience to remind myself why I started nofap in the first place. I realized how much I dislike porn and how much relapsing drains me of my energy
@joshuam4049
3 жыл бұрын
@@Chupacabbra1121 you just have to do it. If you slip up once, don’t let the temptation keep you down. One slip up won’t bring you back far, but multiple will put you in a rut. Ask yourself what you want in life and go for it. You are stronger than you will ever know
@joshuachijinwankwo1958
3 жыл бұрын
Thank you for counseling young men in the faith
@scorpio4412
3 жыл бұрын
I wish my 13 year old self was not exposed to this even though i was gonna be exposed to it my life consumes to this i struggle everyday sometines i dont have the urge to talk to woman is like my mind blanks.
@lisette1976
3 жыл бұрын
My brother was also 13 when he got exposed to it and he struggles with the exact same thing! He feels like he goes blank when it comes to girls because he feels like his secret is on display when its in his head. Youre not alone.
@tristvn7845
3 жыл бұрын
You talk like a big brother I wish I had, I appreciate you for your work, keep striving 💯
@fixitglenn2692
3 жыл бұрын
This is a non-related comment but I never feel so thankful for a platform like the Roommates podcast. Havent use Patreon before but you guys are gonna be my first patreon. Thank you Hafeez and Chris for everything.
@james271993
3 жыл бұрын
So happy that more and more people are talking about this. A taboo subject for such a long time but such a destructive thing. Cutting porn out of my life is my first priority right now.
@JohnnyWalkerBlack142
3 жыл бұрын
Betterhelp is not the best thing because my counselor sucked. He told me that everybody watches porn daily and it was normal, but for me it was something I couldn’t stop even if I wanted to. Maybe somebody else will have better luck on there. The best way I have learned to handle porn addiction is to have an accountability partner and to install a website blocker. Also NoFap of course
@CloudTribe
3 жыл бұрын
Day 19th, going thru a flatline right now I need to keep pushing thru this
@GrimYihan
3 жыл бұрын
Bro im trying I started day 5 and its hard. When i was beating girls were aiight, but now 3s look like 11s man
@hlulanizitha9920
3 жыл бұрын
Day 4 lets make it to day 21
@cause1845
3 жыл бұрын
Little by little bro, keep at it !
@keiko909
3 жыл бұрын
🤣🤣🤣 keep at it sir
@dunklebaumwolle164
3 жыл бұрын
I'm day 6, going on 1 week!
@GrimYihan
3 жыл бұрын
Slim Tek Stay strong King
@RaymanMArenaCommunity
3 жыл бұрын
You gotta sacrifice your short term pleasures for long term gains 💪🏻
@JAYFULFILMZ
3 жыл бұрын
We all appreciate you bro! That salt water in the desert analogy was extremely accurate & on point! Thanks for the book recommendation as well 💯
@jayc.7135
3 жыл бұрын
I hear ya. I dont have an addictive personality...so anytime things get too addictive or more addictive than my control, I shut it down. But that's just me. Lol
@ARSHXVN
3 жыл бұрын
It's been a week . My longest NNN streak so far . Pray for me guys
@hypermangi8265
2 жыл бұрын
9:00 love the analogy 👽
@Joe-dk1wt
3 жыл бұрын
2 weeks in and i feel different im leveling up 🆙!!!
@2011DAB
3 жыл бұрын
I haven't watched porn since last Sunday & I feel much much MUCH more focused. I had to realize that I have an issue watching porn & the REAL DANGERS of consuming it. Sex is not a priority for me right now. I am working on myself & making amends for my past transgressions. I love this channel already & I have not been subscribed for more than a month. I CANNOT WAIT TO SEE HOW I PROGESS DURING 2021. LOVE THE CONTENT & TRUTH COMPASSION. Peace My Fellow Kings.
@christune4326
3 жыл бұрын
I needed this right now
@rob_341
3 жыл бұрын
It's okay to not be okay, but it's not okay to stay there. That's fantastic, I new there was another part to that. Thank you 👍
@norbsj
2 жыл бұрын
Is not only porn but the way social media puts all these girls on your explore page.. the tik tok challenges and what these songs/or trends make these girls do..now almost every female has a only fans, im 2weeks in nofap…I’ve notice is a war going in my head, just control it guys and do better choose better..We need more Real Men in this world more leaders.. we can all strive 🤝
@brandonmoncion1290
3 жыл бұрын
I'm 65 days in of nofap.
@keiko909
3 жыл бұрын
How do you feel after that long?
@YuniorGamboa
3 жыл бұрын
Love that shirt Great content brother👌
@rockiecheng3090
3 жыл бұрын
I like you, I can feel your full of generosity!!! I believe we need more people like you in this world. And this is not me stroking your Ego, but me just speaking Truth of what I Honestly see of you, Hopefully when larger success come your way you will be able to remain as modest as you are in this video!!!
@LuccatielD7
2 жыл бұрын
It’s only been 3 weeks but I feel a lot better already.
@techguydre
3 жыл бұрын
On Day 11 of No Nut November. This time last year I failed, but I feel more determined this year more than ever.
@BiggieSmalls946
3 жыл бұрын
Day 1 of no fap/semen retention. I stood up the entire day without taking a nap, Lifted weights and cardio and went thru martial arts class effortlessly, I feel like I can run 5 miles at 10pm at night. My energy is off the chain.
@shanemathew6364
3 жыл бұрын
Love your genuine attitude. Keep it up
@marcelchalobah7946
3 жыл бұрын
I haven't watched porn over 9 months how do sign up for a session I live in Europe. Time difference mite be an issue
@Wealthy_Mystic
3 жыл бұрын
marcel chalobah thats incredible man I envy you, how old are you and how did you make it so long?
@marcelchalobah7946
3 жыл бұрын
@@Wealthy_Mystic TBH I just told myself every day I'll stop watching porn. I was really bad habit last 2 month of Last year, porn is fucked up if you watch documentaries about porn stars it might change your perspective
@keezemojito1278
3 жыл бұрын
We gon get through it all together we better than that
@TheRoommatesPodcast
3 жыл бұрын
Link to our Patreon in the description
@dmoon6137
3 жыл бұрын
Wow. I commend you. This is one area, especially I'm glad you are addressing on your channel. Nice work.
@skinnytimmy1
3 жыл бұрын
Trying again and turning off Instagram notifications
@demondgoshea9572
3 жыл бұрын
Relapse today and I’ve been struggling through this since I was 12 and I am now 15 struggling Through the same issues I was so hurt today when I Relapsed I Was so drained and depressed When is painful that I got to keep going through this
@adanabdulle3456
3 жыл бұрын
Don't give up..God built you for the struggle. You are strong and will persevere! God willing!
@joshuachijinwankwo1958
3 жыл бұрын
Amen Adan
@zetroc7990
3 жыл бұрын
This video was deep... thank you bro 🙏 much love
@alexjuniortv3281
3 жыл бұрын
Good job with this video!!! Keep’em coming and educate us out here... thanks!
@johnnyboykins1389
2 жыл бұрын
I admit I struggle I’ve had plenty of ups and downs but I won’t give up
@sanelleric8875
3 жыл бұрын
SOOOO valuable advice(s). BRAVO!!!
@jlotto10
3 жыл бұрын
I did NoFap for a month and I could actually tell the difference. I had more motivation, confidence, and my mood. I relapsed after a month in March. Im trying not to relapse again and I haven’t watched any porn in the past 5 days.
@21Seamoney
3 жыл бұрын
Discovered Nofap 3 years ago and have been struggling ever since. Im 22 now. Dont get me wrong, struggling with it is still better than being unaware, which is what I was throughout high school. I want to end this before its too late. Day 5 now, Ive started journaling, meditating and trying to find any positivity to fulfill me in a healthy way. Wish me luck!
@munyumbamutwale2985
3 жыл бұрын
Here is a helpful tool that I have found helps me combat and has helped reduce the urges a lot more. Every time I feel the urge I immediately do 10 Air Squats, 10 Push Ups and if I can 10 BICEP CURLS as quickly as possible.
@zstrauss1
3 жыл бұрын
Good stuff. Love the show. Thanks for the help
@elijahfeliciano8439
3 жыл бұрын
On day 27 of no fap + celibacy I'm seeing small changes but changes none the less been actively curving females to focus on my goals & purpose. Stay grinding guys
@hypermangi8265
2 жыл бұрын
2:50 - 3:06 bleep bloop is cursed 👽😳
@BEYONDTHEWEIGHTROOM
3 жыл бұрын
Man you are grinding with your youtube videos!! Lets get you to 200K soon
@The.god.newsss
3 жыл бұрын
Love this, thank you for making this for men
@nisuperman
3 жыл бұрын
Always pushing to my limit which is 1 month: no fap, no porn, no sexual encounters. After a month, I relaspe.
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