Powerful Video !!! 👍🏾👍🏾👍🏾 I'm Glad you addressed Alot of Possible Issues 😂🤣
@iwantyourcookiesnow
Ай бұрын
My Filipina wife annoys me with; being late to everything, using her phone constantly, acting like we are supposed to have maids, ignores the sleep requirements for health, treating the husband-wife relationship like it runs on autopilot after having children, values the opinions of other Filipinos way too much, and thinks of herself at pious and beyond reproach and can’t see past the Catholic Church. She acts like her money is her money but my money is “our money”. Also there are “divorce coaches “ around who are experts at using men, always some know-it-all that thinks they are so smart and wise ready to give their “sisters” bad advice.
@MarlonJoseGE
Ай бұрын
Agree!
@PingYmsum
Ай бұрын
Foreigner's get offended when there's ants and flies on the food. 😂
@Phoenix_Renatus
Ай бұрын
Salamat po! Points #1 and 4 are so true. People here LOVE to hold conversations in crowded doorways. Block walkways for picture taking. Hold up checkouts to grab extra items. Walk like how they drive 😂, etc. I've pissed off many pinoy by giving truthful feedback that wasn't all positive. I had an Airbnb host harrass me over a review once. I love the people in terms of hospitality and politeness. Just wish more would realize that the world doesn't revolve around only them. Great video!
@Phoenix_Renatus
Ай бұрын
@@thegoodtom1718 Not my country, not my people, not my responsibility. You're absurd.
@kepcontube
Ай бұрын
Add this one, set up a time to meet for a date she shows up an hour late and not even mention it let alone apologize.
@scotthenry-hs2po
Ай бұрын
Thank you for your honesty .
@stephenbruce8320
Ай бұрын
Thanks for sharing Des! When I am home I like my peace and quiet time to relax. I understand there are times when people have parties but not all nighter's. I do not do well with Jealous People but have commented on this in the past. I don't mind helping people out and encourage others to do it but never help out a lazy person because all you will end up doing is encouraging them to be lazy. If I help others I keep it private. I am a social person I like to interact with people but I am also a private person so I tend to keep to myself. I am not into parties and night clubs but I do enjoy small gatherings. I also have a great respect for others so if I want to listen to loud music I will put on headphones no matter what time of day it is. Some people work nights so they sleep during the day and the last thing I want to do is interrupt their rest.
Thanks for your information. I appreciate it. Im watching your videos and others before i come for my visit. So i can be as much informed as possible.
@MarlonJoseGE
Ай бұрын
The video makes valid points. But why do they think it's okay to touch my nose? Respect my personal space please!
@kennyh5083
Ай бұрын
Yea pick the WRONG gal and you will be miserable! Pick the RIGHT gal and you will be in heaven! That's just how it works!
@marcodamanlius
Ай бұрын
Des, I never been to the Philippines but.. yeah I already seen that on chats I had with then in past 2 years and long ago. Long story anyway. Yes many others asked for money I say go get a job and bye to them. 2nd. Jealousy oh my goodness! Its really bad compared to here. Although, Des, 5 girls in my old school had physical fight because they were Jealous because they wanted me. One of them told me about that about 20 years after the fight. I was engaged to her but she died before we ever gor married. Others madw pact not to like me at all. Sad! Then in 1997, 2 adult females from another state were fighting over me physically and I was right there. IN the shopping mall! They were fighting in the bathroom because both wanted me. Some lady came out and told me about the secret fight and then when they came out seen red face torn shirts you name it. Then I had a talk with them and they gasped that I had witnesses saying those 2 fought about me. Right there I said its over end done with both of them and never seen them since. Well my gf is really jealous and I have been trying to make her change. Nope. In past 8 months. Wow. J actually said to her one more J am done with her and the Filipinas! I am approaching 60.... I noticed its worse wifh Filipina on rhose per peeves especially wifh eafing, sleep requirement, and their jealously. I have been doing like what you do.. with my singles ministries and did missions to Central America and more. Now I do videos like you do too. And I do teach ASL.. American Sign Language. Wanna learn a new Language, Desiree? 😁
@whysosyria1
Ай бұрын
#2 I know all too well. The bringing of people who weren't invited by you but by other in-law members. This happens to Latinos/as too. Stbx, is Latina and my daughter's 3rd birthday not only "cousins" that she never knew but members of her parent's church. All they did was eat and leave, not even giving my daughter a damn card. Oh we put a stop to that the next day
@rabidfarmer9765
Ай бұрын
IT is easy to find replacements. I do not see any problems at all if they mis-behave. I just leave her where I found her. Easy and done. LOL>
@Pilbaratrucking
Ай бұрын
My wife is very inconsiderate and very sensitive. She also doesn’t know how to manage money. I also can’t communicate with her as she also thinks she’s always right? Appreciate any help or did I get a real bad one.
@therealbronxbull8541
Ай бұрын
I'm from The Bronx and I've been called worse, by better people.
@Nomad-XA
Ай бұрын
My favorite thing about Filipinas is they are so naturally small 😍. In the US women are four times bigger 🙂↔️ in all the wrong places 😅
@rabidfarmer9765
Ай бұрын
Why do you think we grow so much corn in the USA? LOL>
@eurasia1963
Ай бұрын
So that's where all the buffalo went....
@FilipinaDes8888
Ай бұрын
WTH because USA got this unlimited supply of soda in many soda dispensers. We have a lot of big ladies here too.
@texpatrobertrice8309
Ай бұрын
When my wife and I got married we went not invited 10 people to the wedding, and the reception.
@ManWithNoName-t2d
Ай бұрын
I had a date show up with 3 of her girlfriends to a very expensive (2,500 pesos was the cheapest dish on the menu) resteraunt in Cebu City. It was our first date. I told the girl that her friends had to leave, as the date was between me and her. She said she felt safer with her friends there. I ended the date right there and asked them to leave. They all started a scene in the resteraunt until the hostess threw them out. VERY embarrassing. I had two drinks, waited until I was sure the girls were long gone. I tipped the staff very well and left. I still dine there, ALONE, and the hostess and I still laugh about it.
@KimmyPat
Ай бұрын
Well done. Not enough men have the courage to do what you did.
@davidwollenberg1758
Ай бұрын
Well I definitely don't want to support her relatives. If you marry a province girl and bring her somewhere else in the Philippines away from her relatives would that be a partial solution. Maybe not marry her but have her as a long-term girlfriend/wife. I definitely do not like drama. I definitely do not like loud karaoke. Is karaoke going all night long in nice neighborhoods in the Philippines. Will your Filipino wife/girlfriend allow you to have massages if she watches professional masseuse.How can you teach your Filipino significant other how to discuss problems. I definitely do not like plastic surgery. You bring up a lot of good points.
@robbleeker4777
Ай бұрын
With how many ppl watching their phone in PUV's on max volume, I doubt that any Pinoy has any consideration towards others around them..
@Geoduck.
Ай бұрын
Very helpful information! Remember for every negative cultural aspect there are many many positive ones! Some foreigners focus on the few negate experiences forgetting all the good ones. My experiences; If a foreigner plans on having a relationship with a Filipina he must be willing to accept and adapt to her culture except unhealthy aspects. Open respectful dialog to your wife or girlfriend is critical and to an extent her immediate family as well. You must be very clear in any specific expectations and be sure she not only agrees but feels the same way. Tampo is a deal breaker. If a girl friend uses this passive aggressive control tool explain to her its unacceptable and continued use will end the relationship. Excessive jealousy is another deal breaker. Filipinas often can be insecure and jealous this is somewhat understandable. Again having a clear honest loving dialog will help with her insecurity. The "Face" aspect comes into play as well. For example being a bit too friendly with an attractive waitress could cause your wife or GF to lose face.
@Geoduck.
Ай бұрын
@@Who_Cares300 Very good point. Compromise and understanding is needed from both for a successful relationship.
@MediaCreators
Ай бұрын
No women is able able to insult a real man.
@jdsim9173
Ай бұрын
You must not have experienced Tampo
@MediaCreators
Ай бұрын
@@jdsim9173 I did. But I’m used to children having tantrums.
@Sick_Buffalo
Ай бұрын
Can I come with my friend? 😂
@TokyoTraveller
Ай бұрын
You forgot about Tampo
@penttimuhli9442
Ай бұрын
Instead of videoke they should be studying something, gain some skills for employment
@FilipinaDes8888
Ай бұрын
Oy oy oy hey!!! 😆I love videoke. I got no problems when my neighbors sing as long as they follow the videoke curfew. It is Filipinos way to enjoy with friends like you guys when you watch football games.
@FilipinaDes8888
Ай бұрын
I agree with you. City has a lot of noise pollution obviously. Provinces have animal noises. I got used to noisy cars and neighbors, airplanes pass our area too. My family lives here so we aren't that bothered much with the usual noises. It is what it is.If a foreign man doesn't like these noises he should live on top of a condo building or in the middle of the ocean.
@penttimuhli9442
Ай бұрын
@@FilipinaDes8888 I have pushed some people's buttons I can see 🙂 Some videoke is okay but to do it all like all weekend? Should spend more time gaining education which is an investment into one's future. I am a bit hypocritical in that I should study more instead of watching too many youtube videos, but I do try study each night after work
@CarlCutts
Ай бұрын
People is just a difference in culture. Just adjust.
@JuanManuelOgame
Ай бұрын
Many of the things you describe I have seen even in Thai girls, Latin culture is very similar to Filipino culture in these matters,It seems to me that the men who may feel affected are the Anglo-Saxons, it even happens in the United States, Anglo-Saxons in that country complain about the same things about Latin women.My girlfriend lives in the Philippines and we are very compatible in many ways.
@DavidSmith-oy4of
Ай бұрын
What about a video of all the ways foreign guys offend people in the Philippines? lol
@FilipinaDes8888
Ай бұрын
@@DavidSmith-oy4of Well you can make a video about it. My channel is not mainly for Filipinos.
@pltatman1
Ай бұрын
@@FilipinaDes8888 True. However, knowing what not to do by learning from others' mistakes can be valuable. And also, entertaining. I'm not suggesting it as a topic necessarily, but I have found value in those types of videos as well.
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