Long time ago i was introduced to a China lady and we went out. Suddenly in a handbag shop she asked me to buy her a bonia bag. To me it was an expensive gift and we were only just meeting for the first time.
I view this as a case of a PUA who is playing the role of a girlfriend while the deceased was too naive and emotionally manipulated and financially exploited till he saw no way out after being totally depleted and disillusioned.
整体来说页子博主是有道理的,也为这事件感到遗憾。同时想补充一下,人类是感情丰富的动物也有不同观念,所以也不敢说之百正确,纯是个人的想法。认为有三点可以多专注一下。Money ,temptation and ego. 觉得钱财是比较适合感情深厚稳定了才去讨论,理财这方面。有规划能为将来维持家庭有概念,而且很可能避免不必要的矛盾。两个人结婚后也不能有利己主义的。结婚不只是一张证书而已,是包括包容与包含。很重要的是诱惑。诱惑不只是男女之间异性的诱惑,金钱,房子,车子,事业,娱乐,饮食等等也可以是一种诱惑。别人有的,没有必要去跟随和比较。活在自己能力范围才是最重要。夫妻之间要懂得这一点。如页子所言,在金钱方面有各自的能力是最佳的。 互相挟持也不要太计较。说的容易,做的难,所以大多时可要多积极一点。最后只想说,女生怀孕生子是最辛苦的,这时的男士可以大男人一点,应该说绅士哈哈,为你的女人多关怀,多爱。。。
@sillycrab
5 ай бұрын
Firstly, Condolences to the deceased family. May him RIP. 新加坡开始多数会是男方付钱要现的大方但交往一段时间恋爱阶段后出去女方也会付钱因为男女平等。女方也有功做经济自由所以不会跟男友拿钱💰。 结婚新加坡家庭多数不会要彩礼 (到现在都没听过有要彩礼),婚礼和房子都是两夫妻自己负责但也有些父母也会帮垫些钱帮孩子减些负担😂😂😂 。 婚后夫妻多数会开联名户口进同等钱用于每个月家庭开销其余多数是AA字如买自己所需。 有些老公每个月还会给老婆领用钱即使老婆也有工资以表达对老婆的❤爱和辛苦。😊
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