The first story had an update: OP told the boss’s daughter and is filing for divorce, the husband and friends have been fired and are having charges brought up about it. Ironically, when OP told her parents, they said they are on the husband’s side and it’s “not worth ruining the marriage over”. However, the husband’s parents are firmly on OP’s side.
@fanfictiondreamer7836
10 ай бұрын
Perhaps OP and her ex should trade parents if her in-laws are siding with her but her own family isn't. Chances are they're just as disgusting as he is. They already are for supporting him but it might actually be worse than that.
@KadeStringer2.0
10 ай бұрын
We know that
@julydaydreamer404
10 ай бұрын
I think OP and the Ex husband should swap families for that, because wtf. How is the EX HUSBAND'S FAMILY on OP's side, but HER OWN FAMILY ISN'T?????
@Shimonotoki
10 ай бұрын
Regarding OP's parents: That's the problem with the "keeping the peace" mentality.
@hirohiroarikawa6806
10 ай бұрын
At least she has a family on her side
@KittenUndercover
10 ай бұрын
There’s an update on story 1. OP told the daughter, who went to the police. She’s also divorcing her husband. All the guys involved were fired and OPs husband is moving back in with his parents, who are disgusted by him. On the downside, OPs family is not taking her side - they, especially her mom, are angry with her for being a divorcee and embarrassing the family instead of sweeping it under the rug.
@minnarosenqvistmr
10 ай бұрын
Oh my.. that's absolutely horrifying.. I feel so bad for op, but I'm so happy that she told the daughter..she deserved to know.. and op's family can go f themselves.. If they think she should forgive him, for this vile behavior, they are what's wrong with this world also . op's husband is absolutely disgusting...
@kaykay8855
10 ай бұрын
Why? Are are people willing to throw the victim under the bus instead of the creep?
@NekoYuki
10 ай бұрын
This makes me think there's likely a lot that OP has gone through that she thought was "normal"... That wasn't really normal... "embarrassing the family"? Instead of, oh idk, sitting and suffering a horrible sexist husband, who is a potential R-word-ist? Who is palling with other people of that nature? Who has set intricate "revenge" fantasies that are of that nature? Something tells me that' a narcissistic family dynamic she grew up in. And this is just the tip of the iceberg.
@natytambasco
10 ай бұрын
Her family prefers that she stay with a creep, groos🤮
@tawnyacosta9091
10 ай бұрын
Ummm... excuse me?! Why are OP's family angry at HER when the ex-husband is hitting on underage girl? Glad the ex's parents are far more disgusted by their son's behavior, and on OP's side.
@SkyEcho751
10 ай бұрын
Story 1: No, this is NOT 'him trying to release the desire', this was him actively feeding a mania about this girl causing him to fall much deeper down the rabbit hole. The correct sort of thing would be to pull away from the 'temptation', by not interacting with the girl in anything but a professional sense, and even then keep contact to a minimum. Whether he would actually do these things or not, he was NOT trying to fix this situation.
@minnarosenqvistmr
10 ай бұрын
For real.. I've had fantasies of someone, but never ever wrote or edited pics,or took pics of them in secret, and tell to anyone how I would r word them.. That's so next level sick.. I'm happy that op got away from this situation.. if this ex, is hanging around with those type of men, that do bs like that, it makes even worse.. they crossed the line between fantasy and what they would do in actuality..
@dudeorduuude5211
10 ай бұрын
Not excusing him, as his brain is twisted. But I wonder if more traditional cultures, breed perversion because there aren't outlets to catch it when it is small? They are Bangladeshi and divorce is very frowned upon, and in OP's updates, her parents wanted her to sweep this under the rug.
@TheMadagascarqueen
10 ай бұрын
Thankfully there was an update. Op warned the boss's daughter and Op is divorcing her. Charges are pressed against the husband and his friends. When OP told her parents, they were against the divorce. "It's not worth getting a divorce over😒." Thankfully, the (soon ex) husband's parents are on OP side
@ScooterBond1970
10 ай бұрын
This was my thought as well. Paraphrased: "Any man who CONTINUES [emphasis mine] to stare after a woman so as to develop a desire for her has already committed adultery with her." Or, in this case, the R word.
@Aristeides
9 ай бұрын
I disagree. In so far as even reducing contact to a professional level wouldn't help. It is like letting a bottle of booze or a baggy full of heroin sitting in front of an addict. In substance abuse alone the smell or sight of the addictive substance can lead to relapse. Same goes for obsessive behaviour over people. Especially if you have no support network involved in the recovery process to fall back on. The right move if possible would be to seek psychiatric help and looking for a new job.
@THEDubbleHelixx
10 ай бұрын
I dated a dude just like story 1, long long ago. It isn't just talk. He wasn't just trying to safely express his emotions. These behaviors escalate, and he was already putting himself in a position to do so. That is a dangerous man.
@harouttorkomian5897
10 ай бұрын
Wrong. You dont know him so stop trying to make it sound like he's a monster. The only thing him and his friends did that was over the top, was the creepy pictures they secretly snapped of her from far away
@DopeioThePhoneBoi
10 ай бұрын
@harouttorkomian5897 Okay rapist apologist, lmfao. Yeah, the little girl that's barely legal that him and his buddies were talking about raping isn't in ANY danger. I hope women stay away from you, freak.
@dshoultz6110
10 ай бұрын
@harouttorkomian5897, your reply and mentality are disgusting
@survivedandthriving
10 ай бұрын
I dated a guy like that too, a good while ago. You're correct - it isn't just talk, and he will almost certainly escalate. It is a shame there are so many incels and enablers, and incel-enablers who will try to gaslight people like us, and people like OP and the daughter-boss about it - apparently, according to some who have posted updates in this comment feed, OP's family is gaslighting her as mine did me, and as some in this comment section apparently wish to do. Fortunately, there is a growing voice of sanity and decency that is pushing back against it.
@savvystarfire6667
10 ай бұрын
Unfortunately, fantasizing and building up the scenarios like that, may well have escalated to the point that fantasy isn't enough anymore and something terrible happens. From the updates, I'm glad OP told the daughter and I hope she's safe from those vile dangerous creeps
@Sanodi21
10 ай бұрын
So there was another update about ten days ago going over what else happened after she told her boss' daughter and left and this is just the TL;DR. To start, OP went through everything with the boss' daughter and made a very detailed HR report about everything. They know not much will come from it but they do plan on going to the police anyway, that she'll take with her father on OP's behalf, and that everyone else involved will be held on until everything makes its way to the top then fire them on the spot with no reference or experience certificate. OP then went to a lawyer about divorce and was told that it would be an easy case since nothing is joint. As for the STB ex, he was blocked by OP but he went around lying to everyone including OP's family to get them on his side. Unfortunately, even though she told them the truth, just about everyone minus her MIL and FIL were on his side and gaslighting and shaming her to not leave him. They all think that *planning* *to* *assault* *someone* is not enough grounds to end a relationship. Lastly, the day before the update, the boss' daughter called in everyone with some police and fired them as she had mentioned. I think she had the police there for intimidation and for the police to have their faces so everyone should be safe. OP is now staying with a friend, she's looking for a new apartment, and the STB ex might have to move in with his parents who are currently angry at him so she's surviving.
@BiancaWeatherlight
10 ай бұрын
It's a shame that OP has so many toxic people in her life, but she's got good friends and the fact that her ex parent-in-laws have her back while her own parents don't speaks volumes. Thanks for the update!
@Sanodi21
10 ай бұрын
@@BiancaWeatherlight The absolute garbage part was that OP mentioned an aunt was cheated on and the take was 'forgive and forget'. That how the family looks is more important
@BiancaWeatherlight
10 ай бұрын
@@Sanodi21 That's horrible. If my family told me to stay with a cheater I'd air all their dirty laundry to friends, extended family, coworkers, literally ruin their lives as much as humanly possible. And then I'd still divorce the asshole.
@adamb89
10 ай бұрын
In the mid 00's my boss's daughter took an unhealthy obsession with ME. She was 14 at the time, and I was 25, so even if she weren't the boss's kid that would've just been a terrible idea. Daddy issues, a princess complex, and had entirely too many wardrobe malfunctions when I was around. (Stupid ones too. "Oops, my entire bra somehow fell out of my shirt as I was walking past." I guess was supposed be a version of the "dropped handkerchief" thing, but really it made me think of that scene in Zoolander where Ben Stiller gave himself an atomic wedgie trying to remove his underwear without removing his pants.) Fortunately enough of the guys knew about her and her strange obsession with me and were very careful to always have my back any time she tried stuff like leaving a flavored condom in my bag, but ultimately the threat of having some teenager ruin my life through some allegation was too much and I ended up quitting.
@leeannsampson6050
10 ай бұрын
Damn Man, that's Scary AF! I'm sorry that happened to You. That's why I've always told my Son to becarful about the situations he might catch himself in. You just Never Know! Not All women/girls are bad and not All men/boys are bad. But there are some Genuinely Messed Up People out there Both on the Female and Male side! It's Not the Gender of a person that Decides This, it's the Character of That Person that Does! Women can become Obsessed with Other Women and Men can Become Obsessed with Other Men just the Same as Becoming Obsessed with Their Opposite Gender. It's a Scary World Out There For Sure! Everyone Should Always be on the Lookout for this type of Behavior! Sometimes there are just People out there that will have the Worst of Intentions towards You for Whatever Reason so do Your Best to Protect Yourself!
@d.phantomfan1216
10 ай бұрын
Story 1: this is a group of grown men talking about how they want to sexually assault a girl they knew since she was 15. That they are taking secret pictures of during work, you also know that your husband has been working late meaning he's been alone with her in the office. You would be a terrible person not to say something. Let the person along with all the other woman you saw on his laptop decide if it's not as bad as you think.
@TheMadagascarqueen
9 ай бұрын
Thankfully there was an update. Op warned the boss's daughter and Op is divorcing her. Charges are pressed against the husband and his friends. When OP told her parents, they were against the divorce. "It's not worth getting a divorce over😒." Thankfully, the (soon ex) husband's parents are on OP side
@pumpkinpatch2203
10 ай бұрын
Not me yelling at the screen "Tell the daughter, tell the daughter, TELL THE DAUGHTER!!!" Throughout the first story. She was in active danger throughout this entire thing and everybody who got mad at OP for telling, is directly saying they're fine with putting another woman in danger. This was so fucked up and I'm so glad OP told her and they are filing charges Second story: Your husband is a groomer, get out asap and maybe have a talk with other young family members about whether or not he may have been cashing in such favors for them too
@billy9144
10 ай бұрын
The first story is creepy as hell. I'm glad she convinced him to open the Whatsapp because if not, she wouldn't realize that it was a coordinated effort orchestrated by multiple parties. Yeah, she's in danger and these creeps need to be exposed. I really hope she gets the boss & police involved.
@wayfareangel
10 ай бұрын
The guy in the second story didn't cheat, he groomed and abused a minor. Big difference.
@abiean222
10 ай бұрын
ah, no, he did cheat. he just did so while grooming and abusing a minor. both statements can be true simultaneously.
@heinzkitzvelvet
10 ай бұрын
Uuummmmm. "A young adult at the time, almost 22." Which part of that quote says 'minor' to you dingbats? Last I checked, 21, 22 years old is a full on adult, in every country and municipality on earth.
@memecollector1437
10 ай бұрын
right? which honestly makes me look at the wife sideways for saying that she might find it in herself to forgive him if he didn't do that to her niece. Like girl.......your husband groomed and then coerced a young woman into giving him sex. How can you find it in yourself to forgive him? I understand she's in an extremely difficult situation (NEVER be financially dependant on a partner I cannot stress this enough) but like.....damn
@heinzkitzvelvet
10 ай бұрын
@@memecollector1437 wrong. No "grooming", no coercion. She was grown, and not forced to do anything. You women today, so "stunning and brave" and make your own money and don't need nobody for nothing, until you do some dumb shit, that's when you suddenly need a man to blame for your stupidity. Not only typical, but simple.
@ArcanineEspeon
4 ай бұрын
She was 22, which is definitely not a minor, but still vulnerable and still fucked up. Source: Used to be 22 a short time ago. Was not an adult. Am not an adult.
@chowmuggins
10 ай бұрын
Story one is terrifying, that level of obsession is a slippery slope into escalation. The boss’ daughter is in active danger from not just the husband, but also the other scumbags in that chat. I hope they were able to warn her and take legal action to protect her. Story 2: So he COERCED op’s niece, which essentially makes that his niece too, into se*ual situations. The guy definitely knew what he was doing. If he knew her since she was 15, it’s likely there was grooming/manipulation involved. I hope OP is able to find a place and rebuild her life, hopefully she has a good support system that can help her.
@juliaboskamp9666
10 ай бұрын
Story 1 it always start with with calling young girls/woman mature for there age and it always ends up like creeps like OP's husband
@Diamondr11Blue
10 ай бұрын
Or any victim of grooming in general
@TheMadagascarqueen
9 ай бұрын
Thankfully there was an update. Op warned the boss's daughter and Op is divorcing her. Charges are pressed against the husband and his friends. When OP told her parents, they were against the divorce. "It's not worth getting a divorce over😒." Thankfully, the (soon ex) husband's parents are on OP side
@TheMadagascarqueen
9 ай бұрын
@@Diamondr11Blue Thankfully there was an update. Op warned the boss's daughter and Op is divorcing her. Charges are pressed against the husband and his friends. When OP told her parents, they were against the divorce. "It's not worth getting a divorce over😒." Thankfully, the (soon ex) husband's parents are on OP side
@shibbygirl98
10 ай бұрын
It's not "harmless fantasizing" if the details are written out: that's a premeditated plan.
@abiean222
10 ай бұрын
harmless fantasizing stays in your head.
@ReigoVassal
10 ай бұрын
There's so much "Nope" in that post more than words dictionary.
@maieen2665
10 ай бұрын
I've read this story before. What OP's husband and fellow colleagues did was disgusting, and I hope they get their karma. It's sad that OP's boss is used to that behavior.
@TheMadagascarqueen
10 ай бұрын
Thankfully there was an update. Op warned the boss's daughter and Op is divorcing her. Charges are pressed against the husband and his friends. When OP told her parents, they were against the divorce. "It's not worth getting a divorce over😒." Thankfully, the (soon ex) husband's parents are on OP side
@silverflight01
10 ай бұрын
Story 1: The sheer obsession is insane, and it's not even just him. OP made the right choice. And then came the update mentioned by comments of this video. OP did follow through with talking to the daughter, and the dudes were fired and OP divorced. Honestly, I hope the daughter stays as far away from those guys as possible
@NinjaBoy641
10 ай бұрын
Obsession story: Dude needs therapy, not a spank folder. And here I thought the story from yesterdays video was bad.
@silverflight01
10 ай бұрын
Story 2: Yeah, if he hid the fact that he made advances on OP's niece, what else is he hiding. Could he have done it with others?
@Dani.J.
10 ай бұрын
Not being a creepy predator is a lot harder for some people than I realized
@sarah-my1xp
10 ай бұрын
I listened to this on the podcast last night and had one main thought about the boss’s daughter. OP’s husband and coworkers are all going on about how it’s “a bit of fun” and “not hurting anybody”… what about the daughter when she finds out? My brother used to have a friend group who would constantly make sexual remarks as “jokes” about me in their group chat. It made him really uncomfortable but they made him feel ridiculous for calling it out. They even added me to the group chat a few times “for a laugh”, but it made me feel really unsafe. The story reminded me of my experience and how uncomfortable it was, but I didn’t have to work with any of those freaks. I’m glad to read the update form the comments, they deserve everything they get
@sampersonguy5337
10 ай бұрын
(Story 1) Ops husband has no idea what is happening with those photos that his coworkers have. It is entirely possible the boss’s picture are out there on the internet somewhere spreading like wildfire. Also he was clearly growing quite obsessive changing his work schedule and all.
@joeythegalaxycloud91
10 ай бұрын
You need to leave him and don't look back.. never allow someone to tell you they don't want you more than two times.. he showed you he didn't want you.. which means it's time for you to leave.. he is a predator and that is not OK. Divorce him
@TheMadagascarqueen
9 ай бұрын
If you mean the first story, Thankfully there was an update. Op warned the boss's daughter and Op is divorcing her. Charges are pressed against the husband and his friends. When OP told her parents, they were against the divorce. "It's not worth getting a divorce over😒." Thankfully, the (soon ex) husband's parents are on OP side
@SpellCastor
10 ай бұрын
The point it went too far in story one is when pictures and edits got involved. The fantasizing is creepy but it isnt inherently harmful. However, once you are using their likeness to make porn without their knowledge or consent is when it becomes inexcusable.
@75ur15
10 ай бұрын
Thinking, ok, writing it down, I would say is where it started...the photos just made that worse. I do agree however that attraction you don't choose isn't bad....acting on it, by writing, editing or.....never ok....is when it gets bad.
@Davtwan
10 ай бұрын
“Harmless” he says even though he’s violated privacy many _many_ times over. That word doesn’t mean what he thinks it means.
@heinzkitzvelvet
10 ай бұрын
Violated privacy in what way? There is no reasonable expectation of privacy in the work place. Not even close. Cameras are EVERYWHERE. Her social media was public. What privacy?
@madambutterfly1997
10 ай бұрын
The fact that he would allow himself to develop sexual attraction to someone who was only a child up until recently is disgusting
@MordorProject
10 ай бұрын
That’s moot. We all were a child a some point. So using your own logic, it’s basically disgusting to feel attracted by anybody !. Beside, he’s not attracted by the child she was, but by the woman she is. She’s no kid, she’s 20. At least, the office creeps, didn’t do those disgusting things when she was 15. It’s a cold comfort.
@jay2thaudy
10 ай бұрын
@@MordorProject 🚩🚩🚩🚩🚨🚔
@ashleysalomon4349
10 ай бұрын
@@MordorProject someone call the police
@MordorProject
10 ай бұрын
@@ashleysalomon4349.🙄🙄🙄🙄
@nationalinstituteofcheese3012
10 ай бұрын
@@MordorProject 1) Considering he’s consistently bringing up her age isn’t a moot point. 2) Most adults don’t feel sexual attraction to people in high school 3) Maybe he was waiting for her to get older so it wouldn’t technically be considered pedophilia in the eyes of the law 4) Writing out very explicit scenarios to rape a girl who’s college age isn’t attraction, it’s obsession 5) I doubt you just develop love and affection for someone only when they hit the age of consent 6) You’re a bigger red flag than a confederacy parade
@Fatso97
10 ай бұрын
Yeah the first story, the husband commited a crime. Creating fake porn of someone is considered revenge porn, the creepshots and upskirts are sexual harrasment and can land you on the sex offender registry.
@heinzkitzvelvet
10 ай бұрын
Creating fake porn of someone is NOT considered revenge porn unless it's "posted online without that person's consent especially as a form of revenge or harassment". That's just a ridiculous argument to make.
@Snailman3516
10 ай бұрын
I like that line from the first story about how it's not OP's place to forgive. I always say that with these sorts of crimes, the victim(s) should take priority over everything. Apparently OP already did what I think she should do and handed everything over to the boss. Also, the husband is a fucking idiot for telegraphing his obsession.
@Iflie
10 ай бұрын
That's so often the case, guy acts modern but then you get this crap, not only does he have no urge to control his urges, he shares them with the other guys in the office. Which is exactly what those cultures have issues with. Group rapes, killing women, blaming the woman for their thoughts, parents saying you can't divorce over that. All rooted in seeing women as sex objects and not equals and never being told to control their desires.
@BrooklyKnight
10 ай бұрын
That second story, that ain't "cheating". That's just straight up coercion. Yeesh.
@heinzkitzvelvet
10 ай бұрын
Coercion? Nothing in the story even suggested it was forced. She did it because she wanted to. She was an adult, perfectly capable of making her own decisions.
@buddyburrows
10 ай бұрын
6:00 emotional cheating is still a form of cheating. If there's an understanding of boundaries that usually is just being monogamous with some relationships were they're comfortable complimenting looks of another but this level is far from that.
@heinzkitzvelvet
10 ай бұрын
How is this "emotional cheating" if the girl, not only doesn't reciprocate, by doesn't even know it's going on.
@buddyburrows
10 ай бұрын
@@heinzkitzvelvet you're looking at the wrong person and that would explain the confusion
@heinzkitzvelvet
10 ай бұрын
@@buddyburrows hogwash!
@thetruth1816
10 ай бұрын
Story : This story is flipping scary man.. The husband is a flipping psycho..what kind of " grown man" stalks a 20 year old kid.... dude is a freaking creep glad op told the kid the truth.. Update: 🤮🤮🤮🤮 this story is so messed up.. Story 2 : what the fly mother duckers is going on with some people?? Leave op ..do exactly what rslash said plan your exit before you go..
@in4theride75
10 ай бұрын
What story did you hear? Bosses daughter was 20 in story 1.
@Clownbunnycosplay
10 ай бұрын
Well no, because she’s 20, she first met them when she was 15
@thetruth1816
10 ай бұрын
@@in4theride75ok fine 20.. still the stalking is messed up.. dude is still a frucking psycho ....
@thetruth1816
10 ай бұрын
@@Clownbunnycosplaywho's to tell that he didn't start stalking her at 15....
@purefox652
10 ай бұрын
God I hope she's safe. I wouldn't put it past the husband to stalk her home
@kelleyk28
10 ай бұрын
Whenever a creep says it's "not as bad as it looks/sounds", it's that bad or worse.
@hectorillusiii2795
10 ай бұрын
The definition of "Boys .... group chat got leaked"
@TheJasonBorn
10 ай бұрын
Yeah, be sus when anyone starts repeatedly driving home a younger persons maturity for their age. It's one of the early signs of things that take a left turn to cringe town.
@Akira625
10 ай бұрын
What was going on in the first story was beyond creepy, it's criminal behavior.
@heinzkitzvelvet
10 ай бұрын
What crime did he commit?
@TheMadagascarqueen
9 ай бұрын
if you mean the first story, Thankfully there was an update. Op warned the boss's daughter and Op is divorcing her. Charges are pressed against the husband and his friends. When OP told her parents, they were against the divorce. "It's not worth getting a divorce over😒." Thankfully, the (soon ex) husband's parents are on OP side
@heinzkitzvelvet
9 ай бұрын
@@TheMadagascarqueen What charges?
@TheMadagascarqueen
9 ай бұрын
@@heinzkitzvelvet didn't say. I just mentioned what others in the comments are saying. The main point is the predators got canned.
@TheMadagascarqueen
9 ай бұрын
@@heinzkitzvelvet he had thoughts (THOSE thoughts) about the boss' daughter whom they've known since she was 15. Taking inappropriate pics of her (creep shots. you can guess where) he and his colleagues talking about having fantasies of forcing himself on her. He's a pedo in the making
@rabbitunicorn9535
10 ай бұрын
Even if the husband in the first story didn't plan on or want to hurt the daughter, there were other guys involved and what if one or more of THEM decided to hurt her? And the only thing that stood in their way and prevented them from acting was that OP exposed them and her husband. OP saved that poor girl from a potentially dangerous and horrifying situation. I really hope that she and the boss's daughter are safe and doing ok and that those guys get put away (or at the very least, be put on a list or something. What they did can't go unpunished).
@TheMadagascarqueen
9 ай бұрын
Thankfully there was an update. Op warned the boss's daughter and Op is divorcing her. Charges are pressed against the husband and his friends. When OP told her parents, they were against the divorce. "It's not worth getting a divorce over😒." Thankfully, the (soon ex) husband's parents are on OP side
@JohnSmith-xq1pz
10 ай бұрын
Reads title... Yeah she better divorce and report him
@yabe-kfptentacultist
10 ай бұрын
An update from OP says she told the boss's daughter and filed for divorce. Bizarrely, the parents in laws are on her side but OP's own family is against her for filing a divorce.
@balazsfoldes4700
10 ай бұрын
It's like the cheaters have a handbook to read from. "I'm soooo sorry" "This didn't mean anything" "It was just a mistake"
@dichromatism1681
10 ай бұрын
s1: holy freaking crap. this is multiple perpetrator stalking and is a crime. holy crap. i know OP is divorcing, thank god. i hope boss's daughter can get the prosecutor to press charges on all the men.
@TheMadagascarqueen
9 ай бұрын
Thankfully there was an update. Op warned the boss's daughter and Op is divorcing her. Charges are pressed against the husband and his friends. When OP told her parents, they were against the divorce. "It's not worth getting a divorce over😒." Thankfully, the (soon ex) husband's parents are on OP side
@juanhaines7295
10 ай бұрын
Story 1 I heard this one. Glad op told her everything.
@rhiannonhamilton4427
10 ай бұрын
I heard the first story, and the updates that come with it. Yes it was talk. Yes nothing happened. But that doesn't mean that there wouldn't be any sort of action in the future. I would rather act, get my ducks in a row, and be safe rather than dismiss it as harmless 'guy talk' and be sorry later. Maybe not from the husband but from the other men in that group chat. Regardless, you can't guarantee such things after spouting what you spout! Now at least there will be a record of what these men did/say. So if and when they do act, this could be used as evidence.
@trout512
10 ай бұрын
Genuinely shocked nobody told her to go to the cops in story 1. This is a crime. Flat out. Not reporting it to the cops is morally wrong, if not outright abetting. All of those men need to be on a list.
@dudeorduuude5211
10 ай бұрын
They did go to the police, but the police in Bangladesh don't take these kinds of things that seriously. Police were there when they got fired, though. OP doesn't update beyond that.
@trout512
10 ай бұрын
@@dudeorduuude5211 I didn't see that update. That sucks, but most laws regarding stalking and women's safety usually do.
@TheMadagascarqueen
9 ай бұрын
Thankfully there was an update. Op warned the boss's daughter and Op is divorcing her. Charges are pressed against the husband and his friends. When OP told her parents, they were against the divorce. "It's not worth getting a divorce over😒." Thankfully, the (soon ex) husband's parents are on OP side
@traciwoods-dennis6181
10 ай бұрын
It's not harmless. That's called premeditated and you can get 5-10 for it.
@dudeorduuude5211
10 ай бұрын
Ha, in Bangladesh? I highly doubt it.
@traciwoods-dennis6181
10 ай бұрын
@@dudeorduuude5211 Fun Fact: Bangladesh passed anti stalking laws. Intentional insult with intent to provoke breach of the peace has up to 2 years, prejudicial acts by words is up to 7 years, and something called Word, gesture or act intended to insult the modesty of a woman is up to a year. So I said 5-10.
@wingracer1614
10 ай бұрын
premeditated what? You can't be charged with a premeditated crime until the crime is committed. The word you are looking for is conspiracy
@heinzkitzvelvet
10 ай бұрын
Premeditated what? Also, "stalking" Is defined as; "the act or crime of willfully and repeatedly following or harassing another person in circumstances that would cause a reasonable person to fear injury or death especially because of express or implied threats." Now, this girl had no clue these guys were even looking at her. She did NOT fear injury. She did NOT fear death. There were NO express or implied threats. You can't just throw words like "premeditated" & "stalker" around without know what the hell you're talking about. It was harmless fun guys have.
@Nerobyrne
10 ай бұрын
why is it that pervers always have like thousands of pictures? I love lots of things. Tanks, beer, boobs, cats, landscape shots, etc. I have no folders with thousands of images of any of these. But you always hear stories that when pervs get caught with stuff like CP, it's literal terabytes of images. Like the 5492th wasn't enough. Had to get one more.
@heinzkitzvelvet
10 ай бұрын
That would be 5492nd. Not 5492th.🙄🙄🙄
@amazehub3644
10 ай бұрын
With story 2 you always need to be sceptical of all clames like that without evidence. If there is no evidence confront the husband in a place that can be recorded. Make sure there is no possible motive to lie. Unfortunately there are scum that lie about this so you need to treat the claims with care and kindness but reasonable scepticism
@nbdjz1058
10 ай бұрын
funny how ops husband seemed to think op was upset about him wanting to cheat. not, you know, the fact that he's into a woman he knew since she was a child, and him openly sharing and reveling in rape fantasies.
@heinzkitzvelvet
10 ай бұрын
Women have r*pe fantasies all the time. But men can't? Also, what difference does it make when you meet someone? She's now of legal age. I have no right to be interested in her because I met when she wasn't? Where do you people come up with this ridiculous shit?
@strawberrysoulforever8336
10 ай бұрын
Story 1 actually reminds me of this joke in the musical of Beetlejuice when a business partner of Charles sees Lydia for the first time and she's all smiley in this yellow dress to pretend she's not made a plan with the ghosts to ruin the dinner party. Anyway, Maxie turns to her dad and asks why he's been hiding his daughter - is he worried Maxie will marry her? Out of context, it's just a throwaway line, but it's actually foreshadowing for the second act where she is almost forced to get married (keep in mind she's no older than fifteen).
@rhondah.1478
10 ай бұрын
Small update for the 2nd story just based on OP's responses: she's setting up a consultation with a lawyer and in the meantime is trying to act normal though she is thoroughly disgusted every time her husband touches her. OP's niece says the oral only happened once and another time he put his hands down her pants and tried to have sex with her but she told him she was on her period. Niece's husband thought she was having an affair with OP's husband and flipped out on OP b/c he thought OP was okay with it so niece is going to take a polygraph to prove she is not lying. OP believes her though. She also emphasizes the niece was not a minor when this happened
@nancypantsss5957
4 ай бұрын
Story 1: This story is the reason that I do not take my opinion of a man into account when talking about them doing inappropriate things. Men can be very charming etc, it doesnt mean they are above being creeps/predators. Smh. U wouldnt believe the deep dark things some men think about.
@nosc0pe
10 ай бұрын
Story 1 has an update on bestofredditupdates by a different user
@dardarbinks3391
10 ай бұрын
What was the update?
@meegy2
10 ай бұрын
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@Unapologetikallyblaque
10 ай бұрын
None of this screams that the dude isn’t “tech savvy”
@Hatsunemigulover
10 ай бұрын
Idk just the fact that he even has the fantasies in the first place is incredibly alarming, wether he actually assaulted someone or not. Obviously that would be worse, but yanno.
@fendviyo
10 ай бұрын
Guy needs to be thrown in prison ASAP
@heinzkitzvelvet
10 ай бұрын
For breaking what law?
@cameronhill2881
10 ай бұрын
@@heinzkitzvelvetbruh u definitely fantasise about r wording your co workers you sicko
@j.d.l._666
10 ай бұрын
The first story is just crazy!! I'm so glad that OP went through with it and told the bosses daughter!! What OP's Ex did HAS to be illeagel! It's disgusting, for sure!! I would not hesitate ONE second if I saw sth like that on my partners device!! I mean, don't get me wrong, someone can have "naughty pictures" on their device! But only if the person who is IN the pictures knows about that and gave consent!! Talking in a group Chat about r*ping phantasies is just.. Wrong!! That could go sideways really fast! Poor girl! Imagine she worked with OP's Ex ALONE in the office because they both worked overtime! He could have "lost" his "control"! I'm feeling sick just fearing that! OP did just the right thing by revealing it.. It's just SICK! and I hope these guys get a criminal record for that or sth!
@guitarbass22
10 ай бұрын
Both stories are extremely messed up, but I can’t believe the OP’s soon to be ex in the second story assaulted a family member. That’s so messed up.
@heinzkitzvelvet
10 ай бұрын
"assaulted"? What assault?
@sophietremblay3795
10 ай бұрын
Story 1 absolutely disgusting op put him in jail so the prisoners take care of him
@theamazingalex99
10 ай бұрын
Yeahhh today’s episode has made me lose faith in relationships. I think I’m going to stay single forever
@goobiegoobert2789
10 ай бұрын
I was patiently waiting for rslash to do my dishes loll
@mh11213
10 ай бұрын
Why would he do your dishes?
@Jadeelmao
10 ай бұрын
@@mh11213context clues. They listen to Rslash while doing chores.
@TellyKNetic
10 ай бұрын
I wouldn't stop at showing the boss. I would go to the police if I was OP.
@jls5171
8 ай бұрын
If I had found that on my man's laptop and phone, there wouldn't be telling the boss. Just going to the police with the laptop and recordings. That is child p, as, as far as I remember, she was 15-16? All those guys getting arrested, and the cops can tell the boss what happened.
@destinedtogame
Ай бұрын
She's an adult. She first showed up as a 15 year old
@hurricanemarigolds2818
10 ай бұрын
Coming from someone with dark fantasies, this guy in story 1's outlet is definitely NOT harmless. That chat room is outright stalking this girl & being very obsessive about it. From the way they are talking & escalating, they will eventually end up actually doing something to that girl, they are constantly feeding their fantasies to a dangerous degree & tentatively starting to float plots. That, & the fact they have been taking photos of her without her consent is a massive red flag.
@samuelmurray
3 ай бұрын
I asked if he thought she was prettier than me, and I expected a female answer, but instead got a male answer, and it made me so unhappy.
@destinedtogame
2 ай бұрын
You're what's wrong with the world
@stephanie3241
10 ай бұрын
You know, if you read the ACTUAL stories, instead of substituting or putting your own words in sentences, then you might actually have noticed she said "friend" instead of "cousin"
@cjandauntieyaya1446
10 ай бұрын
That is a conspiracy to commit a gang rape of the boss's daughter. It is highly immoral as well as illegal AF. If OP didn't report it, she could have been charge with complicity after the fact. If any of the employees involved in this sordid chat group actually acted upon their fantasies, the whole LOT of them could be charged with actual rape, etc... OP needs to get the daughter involved and she should press charges. The fuck is wrong with these assholes? First off, their sexualization of the boss's daughter is in itself insubordination and disrespectful to both the daughter and her father. Then it is insubordination as they lack respect for the daughter's authority over them.
@WiseMfear3
10 ай бұрын
Op needs to leave her husband. That’s his niece too even if by marriage; who’s to say he hasn’t done worse to other female family members?
@mut57
10 ай бұрын
So, from the first story: now having fantasies is forbidden. Yep, sounds about right
@heinzkitzvelvet
10 ай бұрын
Yep. We are in the "thought crime" era for sure.
@chantelinsertnamehere4513
9 ай бұрын
So you're just gonna skip past the taking pictures of her without permission, including cleavage and under skirt pictures, secret fucking cameras, photo shopping her face on to people's bodies, having a group chat with them fantasising about forcing themselves on her??? So you remove the entire context of the story and believe what you want, how interesting
@jackanarchy99
10 ай бұрын
Story 1 is incredibly dangerous. Cause if people are desperate, they'd just murder them. They're headed to prison anyway.
@heinzkitzvelvet
10 ай бұрын
Headed to prison for what? Photoshop? Talking to each other? Gtfoh
@GlitchyOnAChair
10 ай бұрын
Hello people I hope you got a snack because this story is wild
@NIronwolf
10 ай бұрын
Love the use of Mark Whalberg from Fear in the thumbnail for this one.
@hualni
10 ай бұрын
That first story reads like a First 48 episode.
@guardianblackwolable
10 ай бұрын
Story 1:husband joined a group that was encouraging the way that they were thinking and viewing a woman. It would have been a skip to actual action if they let it. He's not sorry that he did it, just sorry to have gotten caught. Story 3: husband is full on ready to commit incest and OP can only think about what to do in terms of staying in the house/place she's in. If incest isnt enough to get up and get a job then nothing will be. She's already blaming his actions on drugs, so she's not even committed to leaving or confronting him because it means she'd have to step up
@cef90501
10 ай бұрын
😦 I feel robbed! that first one NEEDS A CONCULSION!! No, → I ← need a conclusion 😳
@analyticalchick3064
10 ай бұрын
There's an update people have shared in the comments here. All the guys on that team got fired and OP divorced him.
@spectersz3395
10 ай бұрын
Damn, usually I play video games while listening to these videos but for the first story I had to just pause my game and sit and listen. Crazy how nasty mfs can be, the husband and dudes in the chat need to be thrown in jail idc if they ‘didn’t do anything’ it’s fugging nasty.
@TheMadagascarqueen
9 ай бұрын
Thankfully there was an update in the first story. Op warned the boss's daughter and Op is divorcing her. Charges are pressed against the husband and his friends. When OP told her parents, they were against the divorce. "It's not worth getting a divorce over😒." Thankfully, the (soon ex) husband's parents are on OP side
@NovaTheAngel
10 ай бұрын
How can a video have over 600 views in shorter time than the video is long? And 100+ likes before they finished the video?
@littlered8060
10 ай бұрын
11:00 these people stalked and photographed this woman and speak on taking her against her will! Report them
@heinzkitzvelvet
10 ай бұрын
It was NOT stalking. Learn something.
@littlered8060
10 ай бұрын
@@heinzkitzvelvet re read the story.
@heinzkitzvelvet
10 ай бұрын
@@littlered8060 read the definition of stalking and learn something.
@littlered8060
10 ай бұрын
@@heinzkitzvelvet you should actually study hahahah
@heinzkitzvelvet
10 ай бұрын
@@littlered8060 already did. Studied the definition of stalking and this story absolutely, positively, unequivocally DOES NOT fit. Try again, champ.
@MsRose-ix3xq
10 ай бұрын
Bro i hope op went to the cops that man and the fantasing coworkers are literally a threat to this woman. No bs. Thats insanely creepy especially since hes been tryin to stay with her at work alone and that he's done this shit with other women and shares these gross pictures with coworkers. I saw another comment saying there was an update where op did divorce him and that her family was on the creeps side. Those men actually need jailtime. Like they are actually unhinged regardless of them doing anything physically.
@mr.scarlo2234
10 ай бұрын
I hope that everyone is having a good Saturday!
@gojosatoru__
8 ай бұрын
it’s obviously not all men but it’s far too many of them. i don’t even know what i’d do with myself.
@pedromonteiro8484
9 ай бұрын
When the bois group chat gets leaked
@lordMartiya
10 ай бұрын
About story 1... I have my own weird fantasies, but I have no problem ignoring them. I'm not an animal. Scratch that, I was insulting animals: if my dog can learn to wait my permission before eating, these guys are worse than animals. In fact... Who here doesn't have some less than noble fantasies that they can easily ignore because we are better than that?
@lyrikalstyles8040
10 ай бұрын
That wife is a dam snitch, its only pictures 🙄
@sonikmajor
10 ай бұрын
First story is crazy to me because yesterday I saw a post where the OP placed a tracker in his wife’s car an discovered she was gambling. Everyone said he was the butthole for invading her privacy. But what’s the difference between this wife invading the husband’s privacy?
@aponinaapu2973
10 ай бұрын
wau...he dont hurt anyone....my ex have a friend, and this friend was in to me, and he start fill his head with "what to do" i ended in hospital, sure rap*st never wanna hurt anyone, girl RUN
@sheanamclaughlin8940
10 ай бұрын
Sure…plan your exit. When she just said life is crazy and housing market nuts. Ffs you think it’s that easy? I’ve been trying to get away for four years now. Thanks to the planned Demic I’m now fucked . Sure it’s easy to say it’s not easy to do right now. Ffs 🤦🏻♀️
@cfavano1
Ай бұрын
op stole her husban'd laptop and ruinedh is life over nothing. I'd sue. Not that i'd actually do what op's husband did, but op is too sensitive and is jealous
@StRose9
10 ай бұрын
Jesus Christ.... I would involve police right from the start
@franciscojaviermendezrinco1902
10 ай бұрын
First story: Oh god, nothing less than castration without anestisia is staying short on a punishment for those involved in that chat.
@Diamondr11Blue
10 ай бұрын
Therapy 👍
@franciscojaviermendezrinco1902
10 ай бұрын
@@Diamondr11Blue is useless. Trust me, I tried.
@Diamondr11Blue
10 ай бұрын
@@franciscojaviermendezrinco1902 works for some, not all. Switch your provider
@THEECOOLERPERSON
10 ай бұрын
First time I’m this early 😭👍
@MrEgo2366
10 ай бұрын
I love your videos
@codm22712
10 ай бұрын
Ok the husband was in the wrong but op we t way way to far
@destinedtogame
2 ай бұрын
How? That's not too far at all. Those are consequences! You probably are one to say it's what she wore. Also way to be an anime nerd. Go hit the gym
@wannabehistorian371
3 ай бұрын
Why did you read “gifted” as “girly”
@dorothylloyd1804
10 ай бұрын
Have a good Saturday. Thanks rslash.
@TheHipocritical
10 ай бұрын
Good Morning
@codm22712
10 ай бұрын
First 5 seconds yay
@dachless
10 ай бұрын
I'm not sure about the second story. Is there any evidence of cheating taking place? I know it doesnt matter what my opinions are, OP of the second story will do what she wants, but I cant trust somebody randomly saying "oh, so and so cheated on you btw," regardless of if its a woman saying it or a man. Some people say shit sometimes to intentionally blow up a relationship when nothing wrong ever happened.
@zeroenders2954
10 ай бұрын
I did it I'm first
@gd4155
10 ай бұрын
6th
@TheAidanodian
10 ай бұрын
Nope
@izzy_main
10 ай бұрын
Nice
@codm22712
10 ай бұрын
No your not
@meegy2
10 ай бұрын
It was a tie
@salemontrial7
10 ай бұрын
Morrning folks
@nachotwinsmama4737
10 ай бұрын
Morning rslash!
@KaiMoth47
10 ай бұрын
good morning bro
@queencrowne
10 ай бұрын
Good afternoon!!
@GaiaOnHerKnees
10 ай бұрын
Story 1: What he did is weird but OP is pretty vindictive, its pathetic. What gives her the right to take his laptop and even more so, show it to other people? If she is no longer with her husband, this is no longer her business but she just wants to ruin lives. Sad.
@sunnydaixse2398
10 ай бұрын
Ruin lives? Dude OP is literally doing the opposite of ruining lives, she saved that girls life! So you saying you rather have the boss’s daughter in risk being SA rather than just “ruining” the husband life? Seriously?!
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