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@pumpkin.spiced
Жыл бұрын
I think ensuring that values align ahead of time is crucial.
@roxyjay5571
Жыл бұрын
100
@CleansingGemAesthetics_Chii
Жыл бұрын
People also change and develop new characteristic traits. Any relationship is going to have compromises. My partner and I have a lot of core values in common but there’s things that I don’t care for or even value but I know they love it so I try to participate and vise versus, there’s things I like and they don’t care for it but they’ll do it for me. We just find what works for us and communication is very important.
@Taisha12001
Жыл бұрын
So true. We have to learn that our way of doing things doesn't work for somebody else.
@jocelynford4209
Жыл бұрын
Facts! Great answer! It’s quite the adjustment but we must learn what our partner needs. Rather than what we think they would like or what would soothe us if we were in their situation. 👏🏾 💯
@ladyt_speaks_truths3923
Жыл бұрын
In order to learn what our partner needs takes our partner communicating what their needs are instead of trying to learn via figuring it out on our own. A pastor said once, your partner can't read your mind....
@tawanagriffin2743
Жыл бұрын
Communication is key!
@musizlovva1570
Жыл бұрын
and transparency too.
@tawanagriffin2743
Жыл бұрын
Most certainly. Keep it simple don't over complicate things.
@cyyrious
11 ай бұрын
No other way
@annetta7886
Жыл бұрын
Love & Communication with One another & God is the key ... #1 Real Talk (Valuable) 🙏❤️🙏
@musizlovva1570
Жыл бұрын
Don't forget Sacrifice too doing things that the other person want you to do just because they just want you to do it SOMETIMES.
@nicolerice8844
Жыл бұрын
I agree yet what I heart was “ I want “ from both parties. She said she would like communication bc at the end of the day that’s the ONLY way a couple can get through issues. If I don’t know you like space when you’re stress bc you haven’t communicated that to me then it’s going to cause an issue bc I’m going to overthink and try to figure out how to help. One way or another a couple MUST put their wants and needs on the table from the beginning and learn how to blend our needs together so everyone is happy.
@shanky_jayg-o8372
Жыл бұрын
Yeeeeeep! I agree with this 💯!
@TMYPiscesSunandMoonRising5548
Жыл бұрын
When courting one of the many things my husband and I discussed was conflict resolution. We realized we were polar opposites and it was definitely based on our childhoods. We decided that neither was a right or wrong way. So we had to come up with a compromise that will work for both of us. Communication even when it's hard has to happen.
@christinajackson646
Жыл бұрын
Communication and compromise and understanding each other is the foundation.
@CleansingGemAesthetics_Chii
Жыл бұрын
I just commented this! Yes..
@elainewilliams3114
Жыл бұрын
Respect each others process in the relationship
@musizlovva1570
Жыл бұрын
Ok this is not HARD just give it n you should receive it back if you Not u may want to RECONSIDER the relationship.
@HumbleBeauty679
Жыл бұрын
Right, and the only way to find out is by ASKING your partner!
@strongwomen630
Жыл бұрын
This is such a great topic. Conflict resolution
@konfidentlothevirgo
Жыл бұрын
Good Ish! There's no cookie cutter way to this...listen to your mate on how to handle them(with the ultimate goal being resolution) so peace will be the end result....otherwise pick a new mate..Love Ya'll❤
@shemireyahlilly5521
Жыл бұрын
His answer is on point.
@OtapGoddess
Жыл бұрын
Truth spoken 👏🏽
@sandraestraume9835
Жыл бұрын
Wow, you're right, rubbing the back. You can talk about things cause it's proving when you put your hand on the other person
@cynthiagomes2979
Жыл бұрын
That part!!! Let me be me. You be you and respect and accept that and we will become one eventually.
@Chocolatoy
Жыл бұрын
He is always on point.
@elainebuchananart4757
Жыл бұрын
Love this guy
@tamekabuckley2991
Жыл бұрын
Thank You All this is amazing content 🙏🏽💗👈🏽
@aishahoskins1188
Жыл бұрын
I showed "I" was willing to comprise for "US"... "I" WILL scratch your back, WILL "YOU" GIVE ME your ear...
@KillahGoCrazy
Жыл бұрын
A lot ppl definitely fail at realizing this, just because you like when ppl be like awe what's the matter and ask you over and over then you spill what it is doesn't mean that's what i like cuz now you're annoying and irritating me and i really don't wanna talk now.
@brwnserenity2351
Жыл бұрын
It's always great to see comments from men. Thank you!
@ladyt_speaks_truths3923
Жыл бұрын
Just gently say that bc sometimes we don't understand just the same as men don't understand women at times and men want to help but don't know how....
@marthaanoushian3470
Жыл бұрын
Facts on toppa Facts 💫
@RealbyCina
Жыл бұрын
This is good information and content ❤
@deborahowens8008
Жыл бұрын
Kiddos she beautiful
@vanessasmith4960
Жыл бұрын
Damn this right on time
@noomiyyisrael5565
Жыл бұрын
That's WHY there is NO I in TEAM!
@innocentlife2346
Жыл бұрын
I'm overly qualified for a lot of men out here. They wanna come into my life like a rushing wind 😮 seeing the structure and foundation of me. Why draw up a fake resume!😮 on trying to impress me. When I let them all know it's only going to take one type of man that can fit my frame of life..😮😅
@applez247
Жыл бұрын
Amen
@tunathecat1608
Жыл бұрын
Men like this are the reason I stay single. She’s communicating amazingly. he just sounds like he’s trying to gaslight and muddy the water till she’s questioning her own thoughts and feelings on things
@Thoughtsrdeadly
Жыл бұрын
PROFOUND
@von527
Жыл бұрын
True ❤
@jalicarenee
Жыл бұрын
I would just wait and do what I can reading the room, body language, facial expression, just do me as a woman, bring about and be his peace. That's just me, the type of woman I am. People communicate differently based on who they're communicating with. Like he said .. to each his or her own.
@mzyotruthnlove8263
Жыл бұрын
Rubbing your partner's back is great and can definitely help relieve stress. However, it can't solve problems that need communication or a viable solution.
@JustAJ2022
Жыл бұрын
Real talk...
@alegnarolyart5133
Жыл бұрын
A person who doesn't want to communicate probably shouldn't be with someone who values communication.
@MelissaLona
Жыл бұрын
It’s more about I handle my problem differently than yours so don’t try to make me handle it like you would. Men will communicate just not when you want them to. Just because he’s not telling you right now doesn’t mean he won’t. We really have to learn to just love a person for how they are instead of saying something is wrong with you because you don’t do it like me. Communicating differently doesn’t mean we don’t communicate.
@chicagomycity
Жыл бұрын
@@MelissaLona "Just because he’s not telling you right now doesn’t mean he won’t".....But some men actually won't TELL YOU, they think being vulnerable or showing they have problems in front of their woman is weak. They are avoidants, whether emotional or communication avoidants. This is an emotional maturity issue. Women want to still be kept in the loop and want to stay in tune with their man and what he got going on. When men stay overly secretive that's when you start having women assuming the worst or like he hiding something. (even if he not). If a man feel he can't let her in or talk to her....he chose the wrong woman.
@MelissaLona
Жыл бұрын
@@chicagomycity well there’s a difference between a man not telling you anything at all and a man just deciding to tell you when he’s in the right headspace to tell you. I’m not talking about men that don’t communicate at all. I’m talking about men that communicate on their terms. The best situation is when you both can agree on how you communicate. It requires you to give a little and for him to give a little so y’all can be on the same page.
@latushasmith1016
Жыл бұрын
❤
@TheSarahIR
Жыл бұрын
🙏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
@areyoufreeenough1372
Жыл бұрын
Two cannot walk together unless they agree. In a relationship there is no "I" it is "we" ship
@musizlovva1570
Жыл бұрын
Ok there no I in the word WE.
@cristysmith3797
Жыл бұрын
So true
@goddesstemptresstango674
Жыл бұрын
Men say they’re not difficult, but that mess sound difficult to me 🤔
@theresajohnson2405
Жыл бұрын
👏👏👏👏👏👏👏💯💯💯
@angelaholloway5321
Жыл бұрын
💯
@Kevlar_Nutz
Жыл бұрын
We don't talk like that though. I was in group therapy the other day with 8 women. And 2 men guess who talked and fussed the entire time and who just sit there and listened. You guessed it women but that's how different we are. We act it out you all talk it out.
@sameernelson9684
Жыл бұрын
understanding
@chanelle8021
Жыл бұрын
Your wife is so beautiful
@123Sblade123
Жыл бұрын
‼‼‼
@joannebynum2483
Жыл бұрын
Sho Nuff...
@kimberly0717
Жыл бұрын
Love languages…
@michellemills2968
Жыл бұрын
Decide early how to resolve conflict
@AlyssaClark-ik2yu
Жыл бұрын
😊 my therapist told me never say I Say we need to talk and can we have a conversation
@satchelthomas8425
Жыл бұрын
Wait this the same dude that said communication is key but now he saying communication is not the way bc he doesn't care so leave me alone or leave the relationship this the problem with ppl men and women want the partner to do something they wouldn't even consider
@ritakoomson4254
Жыл бұрын
What if the 2 of you are having issues and one decides to go silent, how are you going to solve that problem when he doesn't believe in discussing problems.
@nayjavu
Жыл бұрын
That's literally what she said right? Lol guessing she didn't agree with him and will continue doing her way. 😅
@melgood8
Жыл бұрын
Shh is not that hard!!! Have compassion. Shhhh is not selfish. It’s SELF LESS!!! Do dat shhh when your single. Like damn!!! Be loving and fn caring. Damn
@MelissaLona
Жыл бұрын
It’s not so black n white. Sometimes it need to be broken down exactly how he said it. Because she thinking rubbing his back and having a listening ear is loving him and showing concern. She want to know what’s going on so she can help. She’s not realizing that she can help by letting him process it his way. Sometimes we don’t realize we’re pushing our way onto someone. The real key is how she responds once he says I don’t want to do it your way or I don’t want to discuss it while you rub my back. If she get upset and make it about her, that’s a problem. But if she receives and approach it differently, more aligned to him then it means she is open to learning and adjusting to her partner.
@pbfairley
Жыл бұрын
What id they wont tell you?
@thetraveldynasty7915
Жыл бұрын
Is this his wife
@THEHONEYBOXNETWORK
Жыл бұрын
Who is the baseball doctor relationship expert all this is boring and worldy 😢
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