How I See the US After Living Abroad: kzitem.info/news/bejne/pYVr3pOqg3Sfaqw 🌎Money Transfer Account I Use While Traveling Internationally: bit.ly/travel_wise 💰
@sean_vikoren
Жыл бұрын
Wise is my main banking squeeze. The one thing they seem bad at is transferring large amounts. Like for property. I get the feeling that they know as much about this side of the banking system as I do. I am in week five of attempting to satisfy a property purchase agreement. Although it is possible that this is just a feature of our international banking system.
@martinvegas1327
Жыл бұрын
kzitem.info/news/bejne/zZB4vmmdsIN8lGk Snap😎
@ThisAlexia
Жыл бұрын
This is an interesting phenomena and I’m glad you mentioned it. There used to be a time when I felt homesick after being on vacation away from the US. It felt so good coming back. However, as I got older I realized that my “homesickness” was really just for conveniences and material familiarities. After I made a more conscious effort to immerse myself in other cultures (while still living in the US) I’ve noticed that a lot of my real values/interests resonate more with Europeans. Now I am “homesick” for Europe! So in essence, it’s a state of mind.
@TravelingwithKristin
Жыл бұрын
Interesting, Alexia; I think it’s really significant that by bringing awareness to your experience and being intentional about it, you had a new outcome
@fboness368
Жыл бұрын
Once you see firsthand that things at home aren’t as great you’ve been told i.e. propagandized into believing, it’s easy to feel isolated. These are great suggestions K.
@TravelingwithKristin
Жыл бұрын
Thanks FB; glad these tips helped. You’re not alone
@willdanger6833
4 ай бұрын
@@TravelingwithKristin Europe is not the utopia you think it is
@katiewright2232
Жыл бұрын
These are such great observations. I went through this reverse culture shock years ago, when I spent six months in Germany, and when I came back, I knew I was changed in so many ways; however, I was delighted by that realization, and did not have so many negative feelings. But I certainly understand why and how someone could have that negative reaction. All that said, things are pretty bad in the US right now, so if you are having some negative reactions, don’t dismiss them automatically The citizens of the United States need to wake up and understand what is going on with globalism, and how it is negatively affecting our country. The problems have been building over decades, but we are reaching a critical point. There is a concerted effort to destroy our culture, our economy, and our way of life. One world government controlling everybody and everything is their goal. So don’t automatically dismiss what you see if you are having a negative reaction. It could be a very healthy reaction resulting from being awakened by your travels.
@TravelingwithKristin
Жыл бұрын
Great point Katie; there are very valid reasons for concern in the US. Unfortunately they seem to be getting worse in recent years…
@lucchese20
Жыл бұрын
Thanks Kristin for this video. 🙏🏻 I agree with everything you said. 👍🏻 I lived in Italy 🇮🇹 for 5 years when I was 15-20 years old-very formative years. So, yeah, definite reverse culture shock when I returned to the US-big time. My parents (who emigrated from Italy) were my biggest support as they understood what I was experiencing. Now that I’m retired, I can honestly say I never totally recovered and have learned to adopt-as you say. This propagates almost every day for me-when I go to an “Italian” restaurant (which I try to avoid), during US holidays, when I watch the Super Bowl half-time show, and (most frustrating) during my work…I feel my perspective is usually very different than my colleagues. These feelings are stronger when I return to Italy to visit family and friends. We talk about stuff and the US-reverse culture shock just comes back. I say to myself “Wow-no one in the US really thinks that way or would do that. I need to come back.” So now that I’m retired and have US/EU citizenship, I’m working on returning back to Europe-maybe Portugal or Italy. Thank you again.
@TravelingwithKristin
Жыл бұрын
Thanks for sharing, Lucchese; it’s a tricky one because it’s a lifelong challenge. But I wouldn’t change it for anything 😊
@blue18404
Жыл бұрын
The US was never really our home. We need to return to our homelands.
@soccerdad93446
Жыл бұрын
I’ll never forget the first time I came home from a trip and realized life just went on without me. All my neighbors, local businesses and even my friends just went about their lives almost as if I was never there. It kind of shows how temporary we are. I do like to travel and feel like I return with new firsthand knowledge of how others live and what other natural beauty exists. I think this becomes a part of you which is why you don’t look at your previous life the same way. Thank you for another great video Kristin.
@TravelingwithKristin
Жыл бұрын
Thank you for watching the video and sharing your thoughts, David. I'm glad you enjoyed it! 😊
@smenor
Жыл бұрын
Part of it is that it's genuinely that bad in the US between healthcare and the lack of walkable cities and public transit and‥
@TravelingwithKristin
Жыл бұрын
Good points, Scott.
@punditgi
Жыл бұрын
I had this experience after returning from France at 21. I am now 73 having never returned to France but I am still depressed with reverse culture shock. I watch France 24 in French but it's still not the same. C'est la vie, hein? 😢
@TravelingwithKristin
Жыл бұрын
I'm sorry to hear that you're experiencing reverse culture shock and feeling nostalgic for France, Ezra. It's normal to go through these emotions, and it may take time to fully adjust. I wish you all best and feel better soon. 🙏
@JLTravels
Жыл бұрын
You are so right, Kristin! Experienced this many times & embraced it as I grew exponentially!
@TravelingwithKristin
Жыл бұрын
Great job, Jan! It’s tough but you feel stronger on the other side
@JLTravels
Жыл бұрын
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@louisb5563
Жыл бұрын
I relate to the "cracks in the matrix" comment you made. When I came back to U.S. from Surrey U.K. back in Nov 2002 I definitely felt "out of water". Even when I moved down south, I still was not settled about being back. It wasn't until 2008 I "made peace" with where I was; shortly thereafter, we moved out of state. I am ok with it now👍🏻
@TravelingwithKristin
Жыл бұрын
Wow - 6 years; I can relate as after 3 years in the US during the pandemic I still didn’t feel adjusted. Glad you’re at peace now!
@scottman895
Жыл бұрын
Although I have not lived abroad or been away from the US for more than 2 weeks as of right now, I'll even experience a little bit of reverse culture shock. I notice it especially when I go to restaurants where at first I'll feel a little intimidated when the server will consistently come over to ask how everything is after not having that when abroad. I'll also point out the smallest of things in my mind for what the country I came from does better than my home country. These are all great tips!
@TravelingwithKristin
Жыл бұрын
Very interesting, Scott! Yes the service is quite different and can be overwhelming. I always feel rushed when I’m eating in the US
@jankelsey9738
Жыл бұрын
Over 25 years ago I did a full semester study abroad in a suburb of Mexico. I've never been the same since, and honestly, a good part of me wondered why I ever returned here in the first place. Many years later, I ended up marrying someone who was an international student, and we frequently lament the dysfunctions & oddities of American so-called culture. I love my family here, but can truly see myself retiring someone in Europe. Excellent video Kristin.
@TravelingwithKristin
Жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing your experience and perspective. I am glad you liked the video as well. Wishing you all the best in your future adventures. 😊
@yasminbarry7941
Жыл бұрын
I have been around French expatriates in various countries, all my life. I am talking about people who are away from France, working for the French ministry of foreign affairs, usually at the French Embassy. When assigned overseas, they receive all kinds of perks, such as a "company" car with a driver, a "company" house (nicely furnished, in a nice neighborhood), AND, many times, they also have domestic servants in those countries. One day, I attended a luncheon with a group of such French ladies, and I discovered that, when their assignments are about to end, and they have to head back to France, many of them actually feel sad, restless; sometimes they panic; and some even suffer from depression! Everything that was done for them abroad is not anymore, and no more domestic help of course. No more elegant receptions with presidents and other embassy personnel, etc... They also tend to miss the sunshine, the beaches, the camaraderie among themselves when they are abroad (which disappears once they land back in France). Loneliness also becomes an issue. I understand (from one of them) that they actually have support groups for returning French foreign office civil servants.
@TravelingwithKristin
Жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing your observation, Yasmin. It's interesting to hear about the perks and challenges they face when transitioning back to France after their assignments abroad. It's reassuring to know that there are support groups available to help them navigate these transitions. Thank you for sharing!
@noahjuanjuneau9598
Жыл бұрын
Gotta say this definitely happened to me after spending time in Java, Bali, and Lombok… Had to return ‘home’ to New England in the middle of winter after living in the tropics… I knew exactly how to navigate a cold climate and how to live well in my native landscape but I was painfully ‘homesick’ for my tropical life back in Indonesia. To make matters worse I had no family in my ‘home country’ while in Java my sweetheart and her lovely, kind family were inviting me to come be a part of life there… So… I decided to get rid of all my possessions in US and return to SE Asia. And I proceeded to do just that. Left everything behind and moved from New England (ever been thru a New England winter??) to live in the Tropics where if you wear more than a T-shirt, shorts & sandals, you are overdressed. It’s more than the weather - the culture, the food, the customs, the environment - all so different and so alluring. This is great advice in this video. Thanks for sharing it! Terima kasih banyak!
@TravelingwithKristin
Жыл бұрын
Terima kasih, Noah 🙏 Those NE winters sound tough! It sounds like you made a good decision and are very happy now. 😊
@davidgavney6711
Жыл бұрын
Great story, It makes me want to pack my t-shirt, shorts and sandals and never come back, lol.
@jenniferlindorff9710
Жыл бұрын
This happened to me almost 20 years ago as well! After returning to the US from Italy, the first thing I noticed was that I could understand EVERYONE. It was kind of annoying actually, understanding all the conversations around me. And then the depression hit hard. Going from living in Florence to the backwoods of VT was a huge shift.
@davidgavney6711
Жыл бұрын
Interesting perspective about understanding everyone, but I get it. More interesting when you can't.
@YogaBlissDance
Жыл бұрын
@@davidgavney6711 It's actuallyt slightly restful, as the brain is blocking the words it doesn't understand...and is quite focused being in a new language/culture.
@TravelingwithKristin
Жыл бұрын
It sounds like you had quite a transition, Jennifer. I hope you've found ways to adapt and appreciate the unique aspects of each place. Thank you for sharing your experience.🙏
@sean_vikoren
Жыл бұрын
Great video! Best travel content on the planet. For me, the old way never did return. But as you said, being the change you want gives a deeper sense of meaning. In the end, the world I saw outside the US, started an irreversible process that eventually made it impossible to live the way Americans live. It might sound sad, but it really has been a steady improvement in the quality of life. I also worry about people not being aware of their own social needs. For whatever reason (possibly just 'man') I have spaceman powers. Three months inside the machine, with no face to face, is just a guilty pleasure. A year is pure glory. I should probably try to get a job running a lab on the south-pole. But back to the point, I have seen a lot of lonely people on the road. It's worth it to do deep thinking about how one is going to handle that side of life in a new place. The one outcome you touched on, is that you may now be a revolutionary. A citizen of the planet, instead of a vassal of the one that rules your birthplace.
@TravelingwithKristin
Жыл бұрын
Thanks Sean! Cheers to being global citizens 😊🌍
@TheScottydog44
Жыл бұрын
Definitely a real thing. I experienced this when I returned back to the UK after 3 months in China.
@TravelingwithKristin
Жыл бұрын
Would be a big shock to go from China to UK. What did you find hardest to adapt back to? What do you miss most about China?
@marylennon1524
Жыл бұрын
This is such an important topic! Thank you so much for this video. I went through all those things when I came back to the US from Greece. Isolated, depressed.. thought the conversations I was having with my friends were boring. (And I love them, but the convos were all about shopping, consumerism etc.). I dealt with it by going back to Greece on a D visa 😂. But honestly, I’m still trying to figure out where I belong. I would love to hear more on this topic. Thanks again.
@TravelingwithKristin
Жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing your insights Mary! It's great to hear that you found the video on this topic important and relatable. Exploring different options and finding where you belong can be a journey! Wishing you the best! 🙌😊
@azdbuk
Жыл бұрын
Valuable info. Some of these points are so well articulated......
@TravelingwithKristin
Жыл бұрын
Thanks AZD 🙏🙏🙏
@StealthyshiroeanHumbleReviews
Жыл бұрын
This is really on point. Especially the part about it taking time to process just how much a person changes when being abroad. My wife and I lived in Japan for four years and moved back to the US about a year ago. It was something that we thought we wanted but we eventually realized that we were different and there are definitely things that we don't like about the US. After much discussing as to how our lives might be in the US versus Japan, we ended up deciding to move back to Japan. Great video!
@TravelingwithKristin
Жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for sharing your experience! It's great to hear that you and your wife have had open discussions about your lives in the US versus Japan and have made a decision that feels right for both of you. Moving back to Japan sounds like an exciting and fulfilling choice. Wishing you all the best in your upcoming adventure, and may your return to Japan be filled with new experiences and continued personal growth. Thank you for watching and for your kind words! 🙏🙌
@Kevin60611
Жыл бұрын
Thankyou Kristin, dealing with this subject right now. So hard to adapt to Canada after South East Asia. Everything you said is so true.
@TravelingwithKristin
Жыл бұрын
So glad it was helpful, Keith. I should’ve made a video about this sooner. Let me know how things progress
@Kevin60611
Жыл бұрын
@@TravelingwithKristin
@Kevin60611
Жыл бұрын
Thankyou Kristin, you are an inspiration. I followed you in Portugal, not the same issues, as returning from Asia. So strange. I am in limbo in direction. I love Canada but..........
@debbieg8951
Жыл бұрын
Such a timely video for me, Kristin. I’ve been thinking about reverse culture shock a lot lately because after living in Morocco for the past 6 years, I’ll soon be returning to the U.S., probably for about 6 months. I’m very adaptable and fully aware of many of the shocks I will experience and how to deal with them, but I know there will still be many things that take me by surprise and many emotions that will sneak up on me at the most unexpected moments. Thanks for these tips and reminders.
@TravelingwithKristin
Жыл бұрын
You're welcome, Debbie! I'm glad the video resonated with you. Returning to your home country after living abroad for an extended period can indeed bring about various surprises and emotions. Remember to be patient with yourself and allow time for readjustment. Best of luck with your transition back to the U.S.!😊
@debbieg8951
Жыл бұрын
@@TravelingwithKristin thank you!! :)
@Ammanas69
Жыл бұрын
I love your videos on this sort of thing. You are absolutely right that you can experience this when travelling to countries other than your home country. This past winter I travelled from Thailand and Malaysia back to Hungary and it took a little time to readjust. Weather, for me, is a big factor too. When I was in Thailand and Malaysia, I was very active. The weather was beautiful. I was constantly exploring in my free time. When I got back to Hungary, it was still cold and wet. It was difficult to keep the same level of activity. As the weather got better, so did my perspective. When I got home, back to Canada, I experienced it again. Even now, I am missing the weather in Hungary/SE Asia but it's getting better. You have to reflect on the things you enjoy when travelling and try to incorporate some of them into your experiences when you get home. The honeymoon phase when you return home fades very quickly. Old routines creep back in to the daily habits, and you start to lose the habits you gained when travelling. Take some time to reflect on what you enjoyed when travelling. Maybe you can't incorporate all of them when you are home, but you should be able to take some of those experiences and build upon them.
@TravelingwithKristin
Жыл бұрын
Great reflections and advice here. It’s an ebb and a flow. I’ve found that habits can depend a lot on one’s environment. Certain places are easier to stick to good habits by design. I always look for 1% improvements, which can add up over time.
@jaylewis9876
Жыл бұрын
“No one can cross the same river twice” - Heraclitus (who at least visited Greece, turkey and Persia). Everyone and every country change with time. Its just those who never leave their home town change the slowest and with the town and notice it the least
@TravelingwithKristin
Жыл бұрын
Indeed. Thanks for sharing your insights Jay! 😊
@mbayatab4326
Жыл бұрын
When you come back to the States from Europe, it’s probably not a culture shock, but a “lack of culture in America” type of shock😅
@gregalonzo747
Жыл бұрын
As much as I love Santa Barbara, no sooner than I am home I know that it is time to once again hit the road. 🥂
@TravelingwithKristin
Жыл бұрын
Been there 😄
@juhilla749
Жыл бұрын
Americans don't just understand culture, they don't understand civilization either. Oscar Wilde said; "America is the only country that went from barbarism to decadence without civilization in between."
@heatherclark8668
5 ай бұрын
The best thing about America is the flight back to Australia
@stephenweeks5267
Жыл бұрын
Fantastic As Always 💞 Happy Birthday To Your KZitem Channel 5 Years And Counting 💃🌬️🌎🌹🎂
@TravelingwithKristin
Жыл бұрын
Thanks Stephen!! 🥳
@davidpeterzell789
Жыл бұрын
The corn syrup vs sugar thing...
@TravelingwithKristin
Жыл бұрын
Technically we shouldn’t have sugar either, but still… 😄
@stevemellor7989
Жыл бұрын
You are spot on with this! I have felt this many times, and as you say, it does change you and your perspective, even after 40+ years. I now deal with reverse culture shock by NOT comparing the differences but appreciating the differences. To me, these differences make traveling and living abroad more enjoyable.
@TravelingwithKristin
Жыл бұрын
Glad to know you resonated with me Steve! Thank you for sharing your perspective! 😊🙌
@pm6183
Жыл бұрын
I migrate between 3 countries seasonally and I spend only a week or two in my actual home country (a forth country). Always something to look forward to while you enjoy the best time and weather in the current location.
@TravelingwithKristin
Жыл бұрын
That sounds like an exciting and dynamic lifestyle, PM! Thank you for sharing! Enjoy your time in each location and the anticipation of what's to come!
@talesfromtheleashexpatdogl1426
Жыл бұрын
One thing Ive learned living outside the country where I was born is just how freaking bad it is. Its 💩. Im sooooo grateful I dont have to live there all the time. Definitely disillusionment occurs when I go back because the level of stupidity and insanity is beyond. After two weeks, Im ready to catch an international flight ASAP
@TravelingwithKristin
Жыл бұрын
Glad you're able to get out when you want!
@dananderson47
Жыл бұрын
Hi Kristen. Great job with the video! I can relate to most everything you said. Wanderlust never goes away. Cheers, Dan
@TravelingwithKristin
Жыл бұрын
Thank you, Dan! I'm glad you enjoyed the video and could relate to the experiences shared. Cheers to the adventurous spirit within us! 😊🙌
@hammersteve2746
Жыл бұрын
Thank you for your thoughtful videos. Enjoy them very much.....👍
@TravelingwithKristin
Жыл бұрын
Thanks Steve!
@travelvideos
Жыл бұрын
These are good tips. I always expect reverse culture shock to hit after 3 months and I think those tips are helpful. I think making shorter trips and experiences also helps.
@TravelingwithKristin
Жыл бұрын
It can probably happen after a couple weeks!
@Abuelitahere
Жыл бұрын
I just came home yesterday.. I feel absolutely terrible, just watching the news .
@TravelingwithKristin
Жыл бұрын
So sorry to hear that 😔 hope you feel better
@Keith_Aerotrunk
Жыл бұрын
Hello Kristin, all you said in this video are definitely TRUE. Thank you for sharing this to us. Great work!
@TravelingwithKristin
Жыл бұрын
Thank you, Keith!!
@Keith_Aerotrunk
Жыл бұрын
@@TravelingwithKristin ❤❤❤
@alanbarnes3569
Жыл бұрын
Hi Kristin, thank you for your reply today for the UK video. I have subscribed to your channel now and have really been getting into a lot of your past videos. I find you very easy to listen to. I am 57 now, I am retired after a 40 year career working as a pastry Chef. I live on the south coast in the town of Worthing and have found a place to live hopefully for the rest of my life, where I can enjoy my retirement. In many ways I can relate to the life you have now with travelling as I worked my way around the world using my job as a chef to reside in different countries and work as a chef in each place. Many people stay in one place all their lives until they retire and at 65 they say “let’s do all the things we have been wanting to do and have promised ourselves now we are retired.” But you and I have Done lots of travelling while we were Young, so do not feel the need to rush out and see the world at the age of 65 as that’s the age when you actually want to take it easy, but we have the satisfaction of knowing that we did it when we were young, so I don’t regret moving around because now I’ve got it out of my system and I can relax and have peace of mind now I’m older. Look forward to more videos from you and stay safe. Take care 😊
@TravelingwithKristin
Жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for your kind message, Alan! I'm glad to hear that you've subscribed to my channel and have been enjoying my videos. It's amazing to hear about your career as a pastry chef and your experiences working in different countries. It sounds like you've had a fulfilling and adventurous life, and now you're able to enjoy your retirement in a place you love. I appreciate your support, and I'll continue sharing more videos. Take care and stay safe as well! 😊
@cindyk3076
Жыл бұрын
What a wonderful video, Kristin! The terms culture shock and it's reverse we have all heard about for years, but I, for one, never gave it much thought. I'm so glad that you made this video because there are probably so many out there having these feelings and not knowing how to deal with them, this will certainly help.
@TravelingwithKristin
Жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for your kind words, Cindy! I'm glad you found the video helpful and I appreciate your support, and I hope the video can provide some guidance to those who may be going through similar experiences. 😊
@TheWanderingHartz
Жыл бұрын
This is good advice and thank you for the suggestions. We experienced this last year coming back to the United States after our 4 month trip in Europe. We've been living outside of the U.S. for 6 months now and we will be going back in another couple of months and have been worried about dealing with depression setting in while back in the U.S. I think the suggestions you made will help us with our transition back. I also agree planning another trip helps a lot because you have something to look forward to and you know you will be leaving again!
@glynbrookes6456
Жыл бұрын
I hope you carry on your travels, I imagine that there isn't anything that could distract you from learning the world of humanity
@TravelingwithKristin
Жыл бұрын
Thank you, Glyn 🙏 I told my parents I should’ve been an anthropologist 😄
@jsalsman
Жыл бұрын
I miss nomad life so much. During the pandemic I managed to get my effective monthly expenses in California to under $400 and now I feel trapped, but I'm going to do something about it this month.
@TravelingwithKristin
Жыл бұрын
Thanks for watching and sorry to hear about your current situation, James. I wish you best of luck with your plans to make a change this month!
@aquietmonokeros
Ай бұрын
Thank you for this video. I'm experiencing this big time after a Summer in Greece/England. I dont know how to relate to my life anymore.
@utubecomandante
Жыл бұрын
Wow, Kristin! You are really on top of your game these days. Great insights. Great script! I like the prodcution and editing quality. Superb video. You are a DN superstar! -M 30-years-a-digital-nomad
@TravelingwithKristin
Жыл бұрын
Thanks ChaCha! Really grateful to read this comment as I spent a lot of time editing this one 😄
@bpmz30
Жыл бұрын
🇨🇴 ->🇺🇲->🇨🇷->🇬🇧 this trajectory still makes me miss CR but home is wherever we plant roots
@kevinporter3212
Жыл бұрын
Thanks for sharing. As a socio-cultural anthropologist who has travelled the globe what you are sharing is fascinating and resonates with my own experiences and from what I have observed over the years.
@TravelingwithKristin
Жыл бұрын
Thank you for your kind words, Kevin and I am glad that you resonated with me. Cheers! 😊
@timothybird4264
Жыл бұрын
Definitely seen more you tube videos lately of Americans living in the uk lately
@TravelingwithKristin
Жыл бұрын
It’s a lovely country!
@timothybird4264
Жыл бұрын
@@TravelingwithKristin to much lately used there , lol
@katrinapaskevica9807
Жыл бұрын
Thank you for this video a lot! ❤
@planetangell
Жыл бұрын
been studying abroad in Buenos Aires, Argentina for a whole year now and getting ready to go back home to California this month so this video came at the perfect time as I do feel a sense of nervesousness to go back to cali and expect things to feel very different when i arrive back. thanks for this video Kristin!!!
@TravelingwithKristin
Жыл бұрын
You're welcome, @planetangell! I'm glad the timing of the video was helpful for you. Remember to give yourself some time to readjust, and don't hesitate to reach out for support if you need it. Best of luck with your journey back to California!😊
@philipadam7870
Жыл бұрын
I won’t ever return to San Francisco, the city I left in 2010 no longer exists. Yes, things change but in these post-modern apocalyptic times you can’t go back, only forward… keep going and find a new place to call home if you can.
@TravelingwithKristin
Жыл бұрын
Thanks for sharing your perspective, Philip! Moving forward and finding a new place to call home can indeed be a positive step in creating a fulfilling and meaningful life. I wish you all the best in your journey of exploration and discovering a new place that feels right for you. 😊
@anna_m59
Жыл бұрын
You are dressed very in European style
@TravelingwithKristin
Жыл бұрын
Thanks Anna - I love this top - it’s a sweater/collared shirt by Anatomie share.anatomie.com/Kristin6 😍
@hotrox2112
Жыл бұрын
@@TravelingwithKristin Yes, and, somewhat Regal... It certainly helps in making those sparkling blue peeps of yours pop!
@jtfritchie
Жыл бұрын
Thanks for this. We’re going back to the States after 19 years in August.
@TravelingwithKristin
Жыл бұрын
Let us know how it goes!
@AlissaChiara
Жыл бұрын
This video is made for me. I just arrived home in Germany last week after 2 years of living in South Korea (over 1,5 years) and Malaysia. I left my home because i felt unsatisfied, trapped and unhappy. I experienced a life time of experiences and adventures abroad. From my first own apartment to new jobs, new friends, new routines to even getting engaged and married. Even tho it was not easy at all and being a foreigner in a country/culture so different from your own is super exhausting, it became a home. My husband is Malaysian so we spent a few months over there too and it was a blast to meet my new family, getting familiar with the culture and traditions and calming down from the busy life in Korea. Now i'm back in Germany. Alone. Lost. Starting from 0. I moved back to my childhood room in my parents home, struggling to find a job because i've never been happy with my career but since i need money asap, it's faster to go back than changing it. My husband is still in Malaysia. Visa struggles, I don't know when i can see him again. Home stayed the same but changed so much at the same time because i changed. Going for a walk in the fields next to the house feels nostalgic but mostly brings back the feelings from before moving abroad. The "I can't wait to leave" instead of "It feels good to be back". Seeing friends still hanging out at the same places doing the same things and as much as it makes me smile, I can't overcome the random thoughts of "You still hang out here instead of doing something meaningful with your life? The world is so big." As if the time stood still while i was gone. I wanted it to change so bad but instead i changed and i feel like being stuck in the past now. Maintaining a long distance marriage is hard. Not knowing when and how life's going on is hard. I experienced so much in this short time that i feel bored and underwhelmed now back at home with the same sh*t from before. At the same time, I don't want to leave again this fast. I want to stay here and calm down and accept all of that. I want to feel at home again. I want to find peace inside of me but i feel like it's going to be a long way.
@TravelingwithKristin
Жыл бұрын
Hi @AlissaChiara, I am glad you resonated with the vide. I can understand that returning home after living abroad for an extended period can bring about mixed emotions and a sense of being lost. It's natural to feel nostalgic and adjusting to a familiar environment that may not have changed much can be challenging. Take things step by step, be patient with yourself, and allow yourself to adapt and grow in your own time. Wishing you all the best in finding that sense of calm and acceptance. 😊🙏 Thank you for sharing your insights and experiences!
@clairemon5897
Жыл бұрын
Love your channel ❤
@lorrainychen4339
Жыл бұрын
In recent years, I experienced a lot of moments of culture shock. Until I passed the examination for Psychological Counselor in our country and I learned this professional psychological word named "Culture Shock" which means that one person usually needs to spend six months or more time to get through the period of Culture shock. When we come from different cultural environments, different religions, values and societies, and even different law systems, sometimes it is a little uncomfortable and difficult for us to live normally as before at the beginning of time. But we can be allowed to feel uncomfortable or difficult when we met any culture shock. Give ourselves enough time to adjust. Now I felt much better after I met any culture shock." Culture shock" also can bring a positive side that it can make us more inclusive in our minds and understand different people's lives. ❤
@TravelingwithKristin
Жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing your experience with culture shock and the positive perspective you've gained from it, Lorrainy! You're absolutely right that culture shock can have a positive side too. Thank you for sharing your insights, and I'm glad to hear that you are feeling better after navigating through culture shock. Wishing you continued success in your journey of cultural adaptation and understanding! ❤
@asiatravels007
Жыл бұрын
Just a quick reminder Kristin that Manchester will be locked down and roads closed from late afternoon to evening tomorrow, as the mighty blues tour the streets in an open top bus after creating football immortality yesterday! You're more than welcome of course to join in the fun with the hundreds of thousands lining the streets! 😯🥳🥳👍
@TravelingwithKristin
Жыл бұрын
Thanks for the heads up! I’ll go into the center to check it out 😀
@pnkfuzz
Жыл бұрын
I definitely still have reverse culture shock and it’s been 13 years since I’ve been back. I don’t know how to make the restlessness of wanting to travel go away. Maybe it’s a gift, I am always open and willing to try new things.
@TravelingwithKristin
Жыл бұрын
Thanks for sharing your insights and experiences, Christy! I hope you could travel again soon 🙌😊
@Rovingkiwi0516
Жыл бұрын
You should wear this color all the time, Kristin. Looking gorgeous!
@TravelingwithKristin
Жыл бұрын
Thanks Frances 🥰 I love navy blue 💙
@andyhorner1446
Жыл бұрын
Actually very concise and informative.. Struggling with your tiny pupils all the time though !
@TravelingwithKristin
Жыл бұрын
Thank you for your feedback, I am glad you found the video very concise and informative! I appreciate your comment. 😄
@goldsilvertravel
Жыл бұрын
All good tips.
@TravelingwithKristin
Жыл бұрын
Thanks, Howard! 🙂
@MrChris20912
Жыл бұрын
Very much this after 2 years in S. Korea. Took me months to adjust back.
@TravelingwithKristin
Жыл бұрын
Thanks for sharing and for watching the video, Christopher!
@dragasan
Жыл бұрын
Wonderful video Kristin, thank you. I split my life between two countries right now, but every time I return to my birth country, the US, I end up laughing at the lunacy I see everywhere. I also jot down ideas that are great in the States in order to possibly introduce them abroad. I also consume my time analyzing the costs of everything. I just keep busy, and plan my next exit. I've been told that when I return to the US, it's like I carry with me a secret because I smirk a lot. :))
@TravelingwithKristin
Жыл бұрын
Thank you for your comment, @Drăgăşan! It sounds like you have an interesting perspective on living between two countries. Enjoy your journeys and continue to find joy in exploring new cultures. Safe travels! 😊
@dragasan
Жыл бұрын
@@TravelingwithKristin Thanks so much! I appreciate that, and you're right. Those of us willing to explore are a special breed. :)
@Greatpacificnorthwesterner
Жыл бұрын
Yes. When I left Japan after 4 years, coming to the US was depressing. 💔
@TravelingwithKristin
Жыл бұрын
Sorry to hear that, Lydia. I can understand how transitioning from one country to another can sometimes be challenging and bring about feelings of sadness or longing. Remember that it's normal to feel a mix of emotions during such transitions. Wishing you all the best! 🙌😊
@Greatpacificnorthwesterner
Жыл бұрын
@@TravelingwithKristin Thank you. I think I am realizing the US is just not for me anymore. It's a very messed up country.
@christina9238
10 ай бұрын
how's that going for you? @@Greatpacificnorthwesterner have you relocated or finding joy in the us?
@davidgavney6711
Жыл бұрын
I haven't experienced this first hand, since I've only been in other countries for up to 2 weeks at a time, but I've watched your videos and others about comparing the USA with other countries and it is interesting to learn the differences people experience and how it affects them emotionally and psychologically, besides just the obvious and observational cultural and ritual differences. The closest thing I've experienced is learning about other cultures and economic systems over the years and not being able to freely discuss anything at say a dinner table with any kind of understanding since most Americans don't really know anything different than the American way. Maybe that's a learned or virtual culture shock.
@TravelingwithKristin
Жыл бұрын
I appreciate your perspective! Thank you for sharing your thoughts, David.
@markmuir7338
Жыл бұрын
I experienced reverse culture shock when I went back to Scotland after living in California for over 10 years. The economic downturn in Scotland combined with the weathered buildings made me notice negative things I never saw when I grew up there. Now I'm not sure which place I want to live in. The USA has gotten a bit crazy lately - or at least the media has - and I don't like the depth of poverty that exists even in CA. But people in CA genuinely don't care who you are or how you are, and are more likely to try new things - especially in business. I guess that's why there are a lot more wealthy people in CA than in Scotland.
@phoenix-xu9xj
Жыл бұрын
Cannot understand why anybody would want to live in America for 10 years. Just from the point of view with healthcare and guns.
@markmuir7338
Жыл бұрын
@@phoenix-xu9xj A lot of money was involved...
@rennhoalohaloren6211
Жыл бұрын
Yes, Kristin: "Reverse Culture Shock" is what they used to refer to as: "How you going to keep 'em down on the farm?" And nothing is wrong with feeling extremely differently after living abroad. It's only natural. One realizes that the world one grew up in and lived in is much smaller than the world that is actually out there. And, as an American, one realizes one was propagandized like few others on this amazingly diverse and wondrous planet! As a crusty old bastard, I say enjoy your RCS and embrace it for the awakening enlightenment it is!
@TravelingwithKristin
Жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing your perspective, Renn. It's true that living in a different country can open our eyes to the diversity and wonders of the world. Each person's journey is unique, and it's great to see that you have found value in your own experiences. 😊
@garyrobinson8665
4 ай бұрын
My mother doesn't understand why I want to go back to Portugal every year. I have friends there I miss them and I love to go there to relax and get away from my everyday life. I don't bother talking to her about my trips anymore. Shes not interested. She doesn't get it. I hate the reverse culture shock I get. As soon as I get back I'm looking forward to my next trip.
@archiebald4717
Жыл бұрын
This definitely real and quite intense.
@TravelingwithKristin
Жыл бұрын
Indeed, reverse culture shock can be a powerful and intense experience. Hope you are doing well, Archie and thanks for watching the video and leaving a comment! 🙏
@tedrocks
Жыл бұрын
I think the biggest shock I have when returning to the USA is always the cost of things. I already struggle with trying to figure out how much I should pay in different places and currencies and then when I go back to the USA, it makes me not want to spend money on any experiences because it is likely 2-3 times more expensive than what I did in other places I've been nomading in. I am trying to nomad around USA and not have any home base, so it is a constant whirlwind.
@TravelingwithKristin
Жыл бұрын
Thanks for sharing your insights and experiences, @tedrocks! The cost of living can indeed be a significant factor when transitioning between different countries.
@oscara9737
Жыл бұрын
Buxton and the peak district says hi, visit if you can
@TravelingwithKristin
Жыл бұрын
Thank you for the suggestion, Oscar! Will definitely consider 😊
@keith1222
7 ай бұрын
I wish I'd seen this 20 years ago when I'd just returned from Japan!
@earlofsmeg
Жыл бұрын
That's exactly how I feel every time I come back. Maybe I'll just stop coming back altogether. 😁
@TravelingwithKristin
Жыл бұрын
🤣
@dkdisme
Жыл бұрын
There needs to be another alternative for lower income retirees who want to become expats. Specifically, I mean the standard warning that you should never move to a country without visiting first. I definitely understand the wisdom of this advice, having failed to follow it it myself. But the fact is, if you're looking for a country where you can live on $1,500 per month and that's all you have, paying for those extra plane tickets to visit becomes problematic. Now I do have a credit card and I do know how to buy plane tickets cheaply. But I am not in a position to visit a half dozen different countries before I decide which one I’ll settle in. Maintaining my home base while I'm gone is daunting enough. Is this an insurmountable barrier? Is there no way to be prepared for the culture shock without experiencing it? Probably not. But do you think there is a way that a low-income expat wannabe can successfully negotiate a transition without a ton of extra expense? How might you approach it?
@JoseReyes-ov2tu
Жыл бұрын
I always say that when you leave home and come back, you have grown so much but everyone who stayed behind is exactly in the same place, so it is a weird feeling.
@TravelingwithKristin
Жыл бұрын
It can be, thanks for sharing your insights, Jose! 😊
@tbnyc3472
Жыл бұрын
hi Kristin .. have you consider Georgia(Country) as your next travel destination? I think this tiny country is going to amaze you!
@TravelingwithKristin
Жыл бұрын
Thank you for the suggestion, @TBNYC! Will certainly keep it in mind for future travels. Exploring new places is always exciting! Thanks again 😊
@capncmbk
Жыл бұрын
Love the outfit.
@TravelingwithKristin
Жыл бұрын
Thanks, Damon!
@lucchese20
Жыл бұрын
Thanks!
@TravelingwithKristin
Жыл бұрын
I got you 🤜🤛
@glastonbury4304
Жыл бұрын
Fantastic vlog...❤
@TravelingwithKristin
Жыл бұрын
Glad you liked it, @Glastonbury! 🙌
@glastonbury4304
Жыл бұрын
@@TravelingwithKristin ...you are super bright and understand social media and extremely articulate, good luck to you love 👍😉
@pharaohphoenix8348
Жыл бұрын
Whole lot of cope here, tbh. I get your point though.
@TravelingwithKristin
Жыл бұрын
😅
@bruce0750
Жыл бұрын
No, I don't wanna feel "normal" when I go back to the states in a few months. I intentionally seek out cultural shocks when I travel.
@briancshort
Жыл бұрын
I think this is a great way to keep the psyche flexible. It's maybe not easy, but when the sense of alienation is somewhat innate anyhow (it is at least with me), this adaptation and continual re-adaptation more or less comes naturally, if never quite completely..
@TravelingwithKristin
Жыл бұрын
Absolutely! Thanks for sharing your thoughts, @tripolyblipthe!
@csjrogerson2377
2 ай бұрын
Where is Coaster Rica? Virtually nothing was said about reverse "culture" shock. Missing the friends etc from where you have just left is not a culture shock. Neither is it a reverse. A reverse would be the culture of shock of getting back to your place of origin, ie finding American culture shocking. This was more a lecture on the psychology of travelling.
@amiraounis6962
10 ай бұрын
I am experiencing a severe reverse culture shock tho it has been 6 months since i cameback home from the US to Algeria, it is really irritating and sad i am still lost. I am wondering how long does it take to fade away?😢
@keepitreal1547
Жыл бұрын
If ever you need any info on Manchester or its surroundings, ask away. I'm from there 😊
@TravelingwithKristin
Жыл бұрын
Thanks, @KeepItReal! Will keep that in mind. 😊
@Fred-yd9md
Жыл бұрын
Reverse thumbnail picture shock😂
@TravelingwithKristin
Жыл бұрын
😂🙃
@alanbell6999
Жыл бұрын
What happens when you return to your home country after 30 years
@TravelingwithKristin
Жыл бұрын
It would really depends on the person Alan, we all have different coping mechanisms and experiences. Thanks for sharing your insights!
@wilsonsmom411
Жыл бұрын
This is spot on. I just spent two weeks in Ireland and didn’t want to leave - and come home to ugly Americans. The Irish are so lovely, warm, gracious…sigh…
@TravelingwithKristin
Жыл бұрын
I'm glad you had a wonderful experience in Ireland, @Wilsons Mom! Thank you for sharing your experience. 😊
@terryashley4674
Жыл бұрын
I still wish I had your Spanish language skills. 😔
@TravelingwithKristin
Жыл бұрын
Thank you for your kind words, Terry! Learning a new language can be a rewarding experience. If you're interested in improving your Spanish language skills, you can check out this podcast www.badassdigitalnomads.com/the-best-way-to-learn-a-foreign-language-fast/ 😊
@Cicero82
Жыл бұрын
This sounds a LOT like, ‘Post Brasil 🇧🇷 Depression Syndrome’.
@TravelingwithKristin
Жыл бұрын
I get post-travel depression often
@geot4647
Жыл бұрын
Thumbnail cleavage didn't materialize.
@caiyen9298
Жыл бұрын
Evita mom in white sAS ⬜ SAs God dad die another day.
@jeffright6627
Жыл бұрын
You just saved 170k people $200 for terapeft.Thanks for the free psihology 20 min.terapy.
@alaxn542yyggghbhbbbbbbbnnj
Жыл бұрын
I do get that reverse shock thing, when i am in Asia whenever i tell a girl I am American i get my pen... sucked. But in AMerica i dont get that specail treatment
@commiebastard3633
Жыл бұрын
You summed this up really very well. I'm unsure if I should head back out in my mid 50's? I just feel more chill away from my home country.
@TravelingwithKristin
Жыл бұрын
Glad to know you resonated with me, Commie! Follow your heart and choose the path that feels right for you. Cheers! 😊
@alfiebrindle4537
Жыл бұрын
I’m near Manchester 🤣your hot 🥵 aren’t you ,do you fancy bed +breakfast?🤣🐑🏴💯
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