She’s not just a friend. She has been there for her friend when she couldn’t provide for her child. She loves that child. Like a lot of people wish to have that
@miliaelainejones2421
26 күн бұрын
Right
@Butterfly-yk9bw
23 күн бұрын
Fr
@rhodiahicks4459
Ай бұрын
Saying she’s just a friend when she’s financially helped her raise a kid is wild it’s okay she won’t help no more
@kameralkutie5594
Ай бұрын
This one☝️now that she has this new boyfriend now the friend is a problem.😏
@tonyamscateyezmcmillan1417
Ай бұрын
Nawl I think she'll help on her own terms
@tyentbonto5641
Ай бұрын
He meant that on the basis of reality. A God mother is a social construct and at the end of the day she is just a friend. However All those things she did for her makes her a great friend
@rhodiahicks4459
Ай бұрын
@@tyentbonto5641 regardless won’t be happening no more maybe a little but definitely not at the same level
@75jjedison
Ай бұрын
@@rhodiahicks4459 she is just a friend that doesn't change with financial assistance. Status shouldn't have a price on it....
@lunacy3
Ай бұрын
That’s definitely the last time the friend will help her😂 don’t ask her for NONE, ask your man
@EmmanuelLewis2
Ай бұрын
Good! She doesn't need a "friend" that doesn't respect her boundaries. Bye Felicia!🫡
@paolaree8004
Ай бұрын
@@EmmanuelLewis2there’s no boundaries when she single and needs help tho
@EmmanuelLewis2
Ай бұрын
@@paolaree8004 Yes, there are still boundaries. You can't control people just because you're helping them. That's what friends are for.
@EBMSCHOLARS
Ай бұрын
To help someone doesn’t mean that you have to interfere and control every aspect of their lives
@Prettyyluhhnii
Ай бұрын
@@EmmanuelLewis2exactly
@Babysuggs-holy
Ай бұрын
She is an auntie/god mama. She’s good for the child! They just need to understand each other. And respect boundaries
@nicoleraheem1195
Ай бұрын
Exactly 💯
@samanthac.7965
Ай бұрын
I agree 100%.
@75jjedison
Ай бұрын
Any woman that separates a child from her mama it's not good for a child! #unity
@maggiesamson337
Ай бұрын
@@Babysuggs-holy the problem here as I see it is the mother changed the boundaries unilaterally and didn’t update the godmother. Because the mother found a boyfriend, the godmother is demoted to just a friend. All fine, but could have been done more gracefully and not like a user. The friend no knows what type of woman the mother is: a loser that removes blessings from her child’s life🤣
@Queenalika85
Ай бұрын
Right
@Yhsaax
Ай бұрын
I have a feeling she gonna take a huge step back after this 😭.
@elaineclark344
Ай бұрын
Yup she sure will
@chamrithomas1422
Ай бұрын
I agree-She’s hurt. It’s like adopting a child and the biological parent comes back and takes the child. Which is their right but doesn’t dismiss the feelings the god mom has.
@johnsonlin9750
Ай бұрын
I would if that were me
@Honeybeee86
Ай бұрын
Yes she is, When that man leaves her bestfriend that girl going to come running back asking for help. The baby father isn't in the picture at all. She tryna ng to have another man as stepdaddy to that baby.
@swilkerson3745
Ай бұрын
Don’t blame her
@nychellewhite
Ай бұрын
She literally said we were raised her together. That’s all I needed to hear.
@ljabidinginthevine3779
22 күн бұрын
❤❤
@fvkkelle
22 күн бұрын
that mf part
@CYUBAN
Ай бұрын
Sis in the glasses I feel like she holding A LOT OF INFO back to not embarrass the mom. That’s why she ONLY shows up for the kid and not for the mom AT ALL. #IYKYK
@ashwiththebash6905
26 күн бұрын
That’s definitely what it gave
@sheismonalisa3146
26 күн бұрын
You know what, I think Karamo said you are really just the friend to help the God Mother move on. Sometimes, he says things on the low. The God Mother has done more than enough.
@carlamichelle46
26 күн бұрын
THIS is the comment I was looking for, 'cause I've definitely been there. I fell ALL THE WAY back, got married, had my own kids, now they say I'm acting funny!!🤣🤣🤣 I got tired of being put on the back burner until some exorbitant expense or need arose...
@queenlauren7389
24 күн бұрын
That’s what I was thinking too💯.
@CYUBAN
24 күн бұрын
@@carlamichelle46 the gaslighting is INSANE.
@Seemydimples
Ай бұрын
They ALWAYS act funny when they get a "man"....BUT always come back when" the man" leaves or do them dirty 💯
@LIONSUNRISING
Ай бұрын
🎯💯
@Shay-33
Ай бұрын
That’s why I don’t have friends anymore. Either that or lowkey jealous/shady 😢
@nicoleraheem1195
Ай бұрын
Amen to that
@nicoleraheem1195
Ай бұрын
@@Shay-33 Sometimes it's not even jealousy specifically. It's insecurities which is the root cause of jealousy. I think the mom is insecure to be honest.
@zanetahinton2650
Ай бұрын
Yet, her “friend” was homeless and she did nothing!
@teetee6708
29 күн бұрын
This is why people don't have a village anymore. If the village helps it's an issue, if the village doesn't help it's an issue. There is no winning. That's why I don't involve myself with people children.
@Theeultimatedanielle
23 күн бұрын
Yessss! Then they try to hurt you with kids ... crazy...
@angelacleveland75
22 күн бұрын
Amen. The way step-fathers (the bad ones) behave sometimes, I don't blame Naiya for asking questions about this new 'stranger" in the baby's life. I think she's being a fantastic god-mother. 😊
@Redd16
4 күн бұрын
Same. My child doesn't have God parents
@ashleyldportis
Ай бұрын
I wish my kids had a god mama this consistent!
@user-ql8hv2zi6g
Ай бұрын
Facts!!!💯
@angelacleveland75
22 күн бұрын
THIS!
@shaunta963
Ай бұрын
I don’t think the best friend meant any harm. I personally would back up and keep my opinion about the child to myself. She has made it clear her and her boyfriend got it.
@amandabarrett2472
Ай бұрын
She needs to accept what they mean by God mother and not Mother God
@ShayMiW
Ай бұрын
@amandabarrett2472 I don't think the friend meant to be overbearing. When you step into a vital role like helping your friend who's a single parent with their child, it can be easy to step into that parental role depending on how much you're helping. I believe the friend really thought she was helping, and was just hurt that she allowed a man to step into that role that isn't the girl's father or isn't guaranteed to stick around
@dr.dawnew
Ай бұрын
Hopefully the boyfriend stays around!
@dr.dawnew
Ай бұрын
@@amandabarrett2472facts!
@navismith
Ай бұрын
right and even though she clearly don’t. That’s her problem 🤷🏽♀️
@chamrithomas1422
Ай бұрын
I just want to point out how WELL SPOKEN these women are! They express themselves and communicate extremely well! We need more of this
@kellylako1349
Ай бұрын
Well spoken? 😅 Ma'am, I honestly don't hear it but hey different perspectives
@dayciajtalk88
Ай бұрын
Well spoken smh you must be from the hood because I don’t understand anything their saying!!!
@CMichelleWhite
Ай бұрын
@@kellylako1349 If you focus on the actual words they're saying rather than their dialect, you'll see that they communicate effectively.
@nikkijenae9346
Ай бұрын
@@dayciajtalk88person from the hood here🙋🏽♀️that’s where you fall short. Just because you can’t understand them through their accent does not mean they aren’t well spoken. Mama in the black and white is very well spoken, just not many can understand her accent, and not for someone who’s from the hood. Just a young woman in general. It’s hard to conjure up bigger words when u crying and sad. She did it with ease
@kmbutler04
Ай бұрын
Saying "umm" multiple times, "seemed," and "s-express" is not well spoken. Sorry.
@dayum_mi
Ай бұрын
It’s a blessing for this baby to have 2 beautiful women love on her and protect her.
@kianidavis2042
Ай бұрын
I’m on the Godmom’s side! The mom was with it as long as it benefited her then switched up! I’m not feeling that! The Godmom was a blessing!
@user-ep6bo3in2z
Ай бұрын
Yes bc what the child do with the godmother is them bonding
@lickmyphat.10
Ай бұрын
Exactly cause they cant bond? If you trust someone to make them your child god mother shouldn't you want them to treat yours like her own so she got a man and switching up simple... the god mom should just let her go and when and if that man leave her she wouldn't be able to run back to me AT ALL.
@dystanysam9896
28 күн бұрын
That , what a Godmom is support, to do is take care care of your child when you are not able I believed the mother . was getting jealous of the bond that the Godmother was trying to create. I had a Godmother , I hardly even know who is she anymore or I'll recognize my family isn't close to them like they once were.
@doitfor.s
28 күн бұрын
facts!
@emmanormand314
27 күн бұрын
no godmother overstepped her boundaries as god mom she isn’t the MOM of the child so there needs to be clear and obvious boundaries so that child does not grow up confused
@evilsaint771
Ай бұрын
when you make your mistakes don't come running back to her.
@ladyploveroflife5014
Ай бұрын
@@evilsaint771 you know it’s coming. I hope there’s an update. 🙄
@Meemooooi
Ай бұрын
You can't have a friend help raise your baby for years and then be surprised that she feels a motherly connection. She's financially involved, involved in disciplining the child. I feel like the line has been crossed for a long time. If she and her boyfriend don't work out, she's going to go right back to having her friend play a huge role in the child's life. They're both good people though.
@Dvorah__X
29 күн бұрын
The baby is 1...😊
@Meemooooi
29 күн бұрын
@@Dvorah__X they were talking about the baby acting up at school 🤨 wtf
@Dvorah__X
29 күн бұрын
@@Meemooooi I peeped...that's why I get weird vibes from the Godmother...she needs her own baby...she wants one, for sure! 💩, I even went so far as to think Godmommy might be in love with the mom...but then again the homelessness would have been her chance, unless she knows FOR SURE she doesn't rock that way....too much left out for me to know what to think. I do know that I'm just commenting to give my opinion and give my boo Karamo more traction, but end of the day (and the beginning) it's up to THEM to figure out how much godmomming is too much and/or how much raising/schooling has happened in a year..lol If she wanted to help help..she would have kept that money from the shoot and all those matching outfits she had made (unless she made them herself, then yikes🥰🥰) and helped that lady do something to give her and her baby shelter. Just my unwarranted opinion..lol
@jasmincass573
25 күн бұрын
Makes me wonder just what kind of friends they were
@Vidgamechx
Ай бұрын
NGL, this is the type of problem most people WISH to have: someone caring about them too much. The mom probably feels overwhelmed because she's dealing with so much that any type of help feels like an attack. The friend seems like a beautiful person, being the VILLAGE that baby needs in her life. They just need a girls day together and hug it out. I like them and wish them the absolute best of luck❤❤
@TBLady-ic9qs
28 күн бұрын
😂😂😂😂 right! Let me have this problem, please.
@ladyploveroflife5014
Ай бұрын
The friend was not trying to hear all that. She is about to be distant
@EmmanuelLewis2
Ай бұрын
She needs to step back for a min and get hold of her emotions and boundaries.
@ladyploveroflife5014
Ай бұрын
@@EmmanuelLewis2 very true. I just hope she does that and not become bitter.
@domaniquehuckaby6224
Ай бұрын
Y’all delusional, she needs to step back because real is recognizing fake and she doesn’t deserve that💯
@ladyploveroflife5014
Ай бұрын
@@domaniquehuckaby6224 no need to be delusional. Nobody is taking a side.
@brkmv4775
29 күн бұрын
@@domaniquehuckaby6224neither of these women are wrong for feeling the way they do. It’s counter productive to call someone fake and pick a side because both of them present really good arguments. If anything, it’s devastating to see two good friends fall out like that.
@coco.charrnel
Ай бұрын
I absolutely love both of their outfits! So cute and classy!
@nicoleraheem1195
Ай бұрын
I'm surprised Karamo didn't say anything about it. He always compliments cute outfits
@Zee-mu1zj
Ай бұрын
@@nicoleraheem1195He did! He said they both look pretty & cute 😊
@Indigal
Ай бұрын
Classy.. Haven't heard that in awhile
@DanicaCheck
Ай бұрын
@@nicoleraheem1195 he did at 2:27
@cookanita89
Ай бұрын
As a God mother myself, she is the perfect God mother for this little girl and she is a great friend.
@kelly-sh3no
16 күн бұрын
Come be my kids GOD mom you a good GOD mother
@petalsjones
29 күн бұрын
This is wild. Both of these young ladies need to take a step back and look at this through a different lens. When I divorced my daughter's father, she was 4 years old. The woman he got involved with fell in love with our daughter. She didn't have children of her own. She was supportive and always loving. After 5 years, her father and the woman broke up, but she continued to spend time with my daughter. We became closer and friends. We didn't hang out together, but I trusted her. She bought clothing, took her on cruises and places that I couldn't afford to take her at the time as a single parent. I didn't feel offended or jealous. I was so thankful to have someone who loved my child and exposed her to so many wonderful experiences. I found love again and remarried. I didn't cut off their relationship. There is enough love to go around. My daughter is an adult now, with children of her own. She loves me, her father, the woman she refers to as her godmother, and her stepfather. Love can be a beautiful thing when we all work together in a healthy way❤❤❤
@x.pretty.x.music.x
22 күн бұрын
That's so amazing fr!!! ❤❤✨🙌🏽
@andi5316
22 күн бұрын
Amen, what a beautiful testimony. When God says a child will be loved, it will be so! Wow!
@Shay-33
Ай бұрын
The best friend is going to make a great mommy one day . When the time is right , God is going to BLESS YOU WITH YOUR OWN❤
@matisebenign
Ай бұрын
She want her own baby. I don't know what's going on with that, but she deserves a child. She look like she ready ❤
@anissagr523
Ай бұрын
How can someone look ready to have a child????
@GoofyKatelyn
Ай бұрын
@@anissagr523something called baby fever…💁🏽♀️
@lunacy3
Ай бұрын
@@anissagr523 by acting like a parent to someone else’s child. This girl clearly is happily helping raise her friend’s child, no doubt she wants one.
@amandabarrett2472
Ай бұрын
Definitely not ENOUGH to go off of
@lunacy3
Ай бұрын
@@amandabarrett2472 might not be but if she found happiness raising her friend’s child, I hope she’s able to have a family of her own in the future❤️
@dntdnt368
Ай бұрын
Moral of the story: stop helping people! She's good now and now she don't need her
@lickmyphat.10
Ай бұрын
simple cause they both agreed to it and I don't like how Karamo aint address the friend used her honestly cause soon as the man leave she gone miss her friend fr .
@bodiedbybriah7086
29 күн бұрын
No you help people until they are good
@Itsme_bree
26 күн бұрын
I don’t think it’s about that …when you’re in that position you’ll understand how it is …they feel like they can come & step on your toes & as a mother that’s not a good feeling ! 🤷🏽♀️
@crazyrelated7685
25 күн бұрын
Don’t run to help others because when it’s you…they ain’t coming
@wilinafranklin5903
23 күн бұрын
@@Itsme_breenaw the mother gave her the privilege to co parent with her. When she got a boyfriend then it changed. She wasn't stepping on nobody toes. Don't ask people to be a active parent and give them permission to discipline if you don't want that. She don't have a problem asking her friend for help
@Donnawho
Ай бұрын
When he bounce keep that same energy
@kianidavis2042
Ай бұрын
Exactly!
@itsdriaworld5165
Ай бұрын
Exactly
@AngelShardai
Ай бұрын
That part!
@sattasana7753
29 күн бұрын
Oh yeah
@Soulsoother333
28 күн бұрын
Yes!
@christopherfunnyboybrown3271
Ай бұрын
Yeah, the girl was definitely down with the coparenting God mom when she was struggling and now she got a man and wanna downplay their relationship. She was your baby daddy sis😂
@GoddessGuru111
Ай бұрын
This ‼️
@catrocks93
Ай бұрын
!
@KeepinUpWithKi
29 күн бұрын
EXACTLY
@Redd16
4 күн бұрын
I literally was thinking they were in a relationship at first 😂
@Miss_Bias
Ай бұрын
Idc what anybody say she used this girl and now she got a man she don’t need her anymore.💯
@SupremeDreamss
Ай бұрын
Both of their outfit ate and left no crumbs 🔥🔥😍
@jadacovingtoin8476
26 күн бұрын
Ik righttt I’m glad somone mentioned it💜
@mitzimorrison5594
26 күн бұрын
I was wondering if anybody else saw how well dressed these two young women are
@vanessascott5019
Ай бұрын
some ppl just want a God Mother because they know the person is financially stable , it don’t really be about love Fr .
@angelacleveland75
22 күн бұрын
Very true...and sad.
@anika14149
Ай бұрын
After situation like this, then later she is going to accuse her friend of not being there for her and dauther. 😂😂 friendship is always complicated
@itsdriaworld5165
Ай бұрын
Watch soon as the mom breakup with the boyfriend she going to be mad with her friend for ghosting her and the baby.
@CabriniDivo
Ай бұрын
Girl I’ll step so back yall won’t remember me ever being there
@angelacleveland75
22 күн бұрын
But, I'm sure the baby girl loves Naiya and is going to miss her presence.😔
@bossibunz8143
Ай бұрын
As a ACTIVE & REAL God Mommy. I’ve been in my God daughters life since she came out. It’s HARD to accept certain things or want things to be done our way. Especially when you feel like the second mom. As much as we love our God babies & want the best for them, we have to learn & know when to take a step back. Give grace & let the bio parents be parents. They’re gonna make mistakes, it won’t always be perfect but nobody has a rule book on parenting.
@jasmincass573
25 күн бұрын
What exactly are God moms supposed to do? I never had a real one. Do you babysit a lot?
@bossibunz8143
24 күн бұрын
@@jasmincass573 God forbid anything happens to you (the mom or dad) the child goes to the God parent(s). Essentially the God parent(s) should be as active as the parents. It would be asinine for a child to go to a person they don’t even know. To answer your question, I don’t babysit, I parent with her bio parents. Us personally, we have a schedule. She’s with me every other week or every weekend depending on the month. Even my parents are her God-grandparents. She knows her “GiGi” is her second mom & you can’t tell her any different. She’s only 3 but she calls me on Wednesdays & says “Lani go to GiGi house on Friday” lol.
@auntkera
Ай бұрын
Karamo boopie, you missing the part where she’s saying her friend put her in that parent position and basically made her the stand in baby daddy and suddenly it was snatched away so she’s not wrong for feeling that way. Of course she’s hurt, she was a parent to the child too. Clearly she wasn’t JUST a godmom. I hope they figure it out because children need a village and the friend is a very good one. Also, I see nothing wrong with the baby and god mom having pictures together. We’re black and that’s not unusual for us. Our close friends are our family. It’s no different than an aunt and niece having photos together especially if they are really close. But now that we know she was the baby daddy, it’s even more understandable. I don’t like how the friend tried to skip over the fact that they had this dynamic. She knew the friend wasnt just some obsessive friend who didn’t know her place. She gave her the part. She played in her face w/ that but they still both seem like nice girls.
@ibledsoe0405
26 күн бұрын
Facts.
@jasmincass573
25 күн бұрын
Can't relate to any one being that close to me or my child. Never had a relationship like that with any aunt or God mom. And nobody is taking a photoshoot with my baby if I'm not in the picture
@auntkera
24 күн бұрын
@@jasmincass573 Okk..Sorry to hear that.
@stephaniemaraschino
23 күн бұрын
Wonderfully said !! ❤
@chicparlor7590
22 күн бұрын
I agree. Karamo was wrong to say you're just a friend. Friends are chosen family and sometimes support more than your blood relatives. It was a clumsy comment, and the friend was immediately hurt . Who wouldn't want a friend to love their child like that? Be invested and genuinely care. Even more so when Karamo could see the friend was hurt, he didn't try to resolve it before closing out the segment. Smh
@vabeloved
Ай бұрын
Hopefully her and this dude works out, because she sacrificed her friend, and most of all, her help for him. The friend was getting a little overzealous, but that tells me that the mother was fine with her taking that role before the man came along. That type of involvement doesn’t just happen overnight.
@shantelwest8968
Ай бұрын
It's a blessing when a friend loves your kid like that. You have a second mother for your child in case anything happens to you. THAT IS A BLESSING!!!!
@shawn6986
Ай бұрын
She is a terrible Godmother
@terribrumfield4628
29 күн бұрын
Girl bye! Once you make that child her godmother wtf you thought?! Baby if my child god mother doesn’t go hard behind my child I don’t want her! Sis, don’t help her out no more!
@rhondapeeples8684
29 күн бұрын
...period
@Elaine-kz5pj
Ай бұрын
NO NO way this episode was too dammm fast lmaooo. The God mother was really mothering -😊wow
@sassydomie3996
21 күн бұрын
Right there need to be a part to I feel like the godmother is holding back how she really feels.
@isaidwhatisaid..
Ай бұрын
Don't ask me for my opinions and give me permission on your child's upbringing and then when you get a man take it away and then give it back when the man does you dirty It will take a while for the friend to forgive her but while the other friend is in that relationship she cannot be friends with her as she'll blame the boyfriend for the wedge in the friendship They just need space and maybe find eachother in a few years
@lickmyphat.10
Ай бұрын
Right they skipped over that they was agreement she didn't oversteps no boundaries the girl got a new man and dont need her anymore so just go find more people with big hearts like yours cause she'd never hear from me again 💯
@sattasana7753
29 күн бұрын
I agree
@farrahgibson5511
Ай бұрын
Journey and her mom is blessed to have a loving Godmother/friend in their life❤
@maggiesamson337
Ай бұрын
She won’t after this. Any self-respecting person would take a major step back.
@Monique670
Ай бұрын
I just love both of their styles! So girly and classy
@dbly704
28 күн бұрын
I felt her hurt and her shutting down. I think she’s done and will walk away.
@autumnjanee
Ай бұрын
6:00 God Mama is about to fall all the way back …
@theabyss4863
28 күн бұрын
What the friend was doing with her god daughter was amazing. I would love for someone to love and take care of my child as much as I do. Godparents are literally 2nd parents. I get having boundaries, but saying she’s just a friend is absolutely insane.
@neisci
Ай бұрын
Once the man is gone, she'll be back. Once she does, don't let her in. And take it as a lesson, people will use you until they have no use for you.
@shaynasmith3259
Ай бұрын
I WISHHHHHH I had a supporter like this, to care so much for my baby and protecting her. I have a feeling she’s gonna fall way back after this.
@kholedaelam3527
Ай бұрын
I feel like this,don’t ask me to be your child’s godparent if my opinion and efforts aren’t needed. There’s more to being a godparent than buying the child things smh. She seems like she has nothing but the best intentions for the child so what’s the problem?
@jessicatobias9371
Ай бұрын
She was wrong for not inviting her mom to the photo shoot.
@CandiceStraker
Ай бұрын
Absolutely omg
@finessebyrobb9286
Ай бұрын
What’s wrong with a godmother photoshoot? Don’t tell me I’m the godmother if I can’t take pictures with your daughter
@nicoleraheem1195
Ай бұрын
The mom said she didn't have the money to go...
@nicoleraheem1195
Ай бұрын
The mom said she didn't have the money yet to go so apparently she knew about it.
@nicoleraheem1195
Ай бұрын
@@finessebyrobb9286 I literally just wrote a whole post about this on Facebook. If you don't see us being friends for the long run do not ask me to be that child's God Mom. Also what's the point of me being a godmom if I can't have quality time with the child? Also the comments on Reddit that I've read about being a god mom from white people is completely different than what I've read on this thread. White people understand that the Godparent will take guardianship of the child once the parents die. They do understand that it's stemming from a religious background and they understand the legalities of being a godparent. Black people are like oh that's The hand That rocks the cradle. She's overstepping her boundaries. She's doing too much. And I'm not saying it's a white on black thing I just think people got a different definition of what it means to be a godparent. I kind of think that the mother might feel insecure about her parenting skills when it comes to the God Mom doing the most for the God child and that's probably what makes her uncomfortable
@inukoko2012
Ай бұрын
Seems like the friend was doing a lil much but she loves that baby like it's her own. I see both of their point of view but the friend is definitely gonna fall back........ My Godmom does a lot for me.....her and my mom has a great relationship. My mom picked the best person to be godmother. It's a blessing to have two mothers.
@chastitywilliams3294
Ай бұрын
I see y’all never had a village because some of these comments are wild.
@sleepy-peepy
Ай бұрын
Doing photos with just her and the baby is normal in families where the support system is strong, there are fs pics of me and my auntie dressing alike when I was a kid. it doesn't mean she was trying to steal me from my mom lol
@nicoleraheem1195
Ай бұрын
Exactly 💯🤣
@kianidavis2042
Ай бұрын
Exactly! I agree!
@maggiesamson337
Ай бұрын
And the mom knew, but didn’t have the money. I’m blessed to have had a village to raise me.
@theebougieprincess3509
Ай бұрын
EXACTLY!😂😂💯
@sleepy-peepy
Ай бұрын
@maggiesamson337 That was my big takeaway from this lowkey, that baby will never be wanting for love or support. She got people fighting over who gets to be there for her the most 🥹
@KyhmBurns
Ай бұрын
The fact that she scheduled a photo shoot and left the mom out is giving creep vibes. Clearly Naiya doesn't understand the assignment. Does she think she is the "Dad."
@nicoleraheem1195
Ай бұрын
The mom said that she didn't have the money to go.... So how is the creepy apparently she couldn't make it.
@user-cu9nf4yp5p
Ай бұрын
You're responding to everyone's comment let people have their own opinion. 2nd, if my friend who's the mother of my godchild can't afford to come I'll pay for all of us not leave her out@nicoleraheem1195
@user-cu9nf4yp5p
Ай бұрын
Sounds like the friend doesn't care she was homeless or broke
@rrei8151
Ай бұрын
Honestly as a mother if the God mom took my child on a photoshoot I would not be mad for what she is the mother if I die like whattttt
@jayymm6376
Ай бұрын
THIS 🎯
@gorgeousgirlllc8807
28 күн бұрын
I guarantee the godmother takes care of that. Child and mother doesn’t do shit for her and now she feels away. The mother is out of order.
@miiyyyaamiiyyyaa8166
28 күн бұрын
GIRL IF U READING THIS COMMENT. STEP ALL THE WAY BACK FROM THAT GIRL AND HER FAMILY .
@theecaptn
29 күн бұрын
Naiya is gonna stop overstepping those boundaries that Mya is mad about and Mya is gonna be sick as shit because she won’t have that support anymore
@amarabrandt7861
Ай бұрын
When the GM said the first time she met the baby the baby was with their other mutual friend who had come over to do her hair and she later saw the mom at the beauty store instantly knew she was in the right. That girl used her and the love she had for the baby as a life line when she was struggling and never complained about boundaries for multiple years, now that she stable and in a good place all of a sudden she wants to revoke the privileges she was more than happy and relieved to give the GM.
@alilpiggy4u
Ай бұрын
A godmother is a woman who is a godparent, or someone who promises to help raise a child, usually in a religious context. In the Christian tradition, a godmother is present at a child's baptism and promises to raise the child as Christian. She may also offer mentorship or legal guardianship if needed.
@janelwestmoreland1230
Ай бұрын
Unpopular opinion but I dont think thebfriend was wrong. Youbwas in a bad place and you put her in a parent role to help her out and then snatch it away when she got a man.
@Shhh11159
Ай бұрын
I mean, the mom got in a better place, whether the man got her there or not is irrelevant. I understand it will take some time to step down from that parent role when been put in it for a period of time, but the Godmom has to. She cannot replace the mother forever, especially when the mom is now functioning and presents. It's disrespectful to the parent, and will be confusing for the child
@yammieyammie8980
Ай бұрын
She was wrong. A God Parents are suppose to help GOD FORBID SOMETHING HAPPEN TO THE PARENTS. Mother is STILL ALIVE. She takes the baby for pictures WITHOUT TELLING THE MOTHER. She needs her OWN CHILD AND LIFE PERIODTTT. I WOULD BE SCARED SHE WOULD DO SOMETHING OR KIDNAP MY BABY.😢
@kianidavis2042
Ай бұрын
I agree with the Godmom as well
@ashjohnson2406
Ай бұрын
Exactly! She stepped up and helped her with the most important aspect of her life when she was struggling, her child. That’s type of support is priceless. That gave her time to get her stuff together. She chose to meet a man during that time, and that’s her business. But the support she gave her and wants to give with her baby is more than enough. It’s not her responsibility to house her. Her help with the child gave the mom support mentally, emotionally and physically. I don’t think at this point it’s so much about the friendship to her, it’s about the relationship and bond she made with the child. And she’s probably feeling unappreciated and will step back. And friend will come running again when she hit another rough spot. B/c obviously her family isn’t that involved if she’s homeless and struggling with a child. But it’s not right or fair to use a person when you want and use your child as a pawn for that help. Then take the baby away after the relationship and bond is there. She knows that girl wants nothing but the best for her child. She wants to prioritize this man she’s likely shacking with to create a “family.”When this girl has been like an aunt, a god mother and been there for the baby, helped her raise the child. That’s why it’s always complicated when forming relationships and bonds with other ppl kids. B/c at the end of the day they can and will come in and out of your life based on what you can do or won’t do for them. She’s not worried about the best decision for her daughter. I do the think the friend needs to take a step back sometimes but I also think the mom needs to show appreciation. o
@DB-vt1kk
Ай бұрын
I have a question though. What if she got married. Do you think she should still have that level of involvement?
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28 күн бұрын
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28 күн бұрын
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28 күн бұрын
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28 күн бұрын
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28 күн бұрын
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28 күн бұрын
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@clarkwinters8299
Ай бұрын
Obviously she (mom) don’t understand what “Godmother”means. She’s doing just what Godmother is supposed to do and that’s care for the child at all times, especially when the mom is homeless and experiencing lack. The mom needs to be careful with men around her child especially these days.
@itsdriaworld5165
Ай бұрын
Right
@MsBossy2UBustas
24 күн бұрын
That part right there. Because to me it sounds like she's being isolated from the only person that looked out for them by this man. So when things go sour she will have no one to turn to. Predators do it all the time
@thatgirlnajj
Ай бұрын
I feel so bad for the godmother it takes a real active godmother to understand. We live in a damn if you damn if you don’t world! I definitely hopes she finds peace in the situation without it impacting baby girl you can tell she loves her deeply ☹️
@shawn6986
Ай бұрын
She is a horrible Godmother. Playing dress up, photoshoots without the other parents permission, and pretending to be the Mother......is not being a Godmother. A Godmother has two functions. Raising the child if the parents die, and to raise the child like the parents would have. Naiya has zero respect for the parent. She needs the title stripped.
@thatgirlnajj
Ай бұрын
@@shawn6986 in this generation of godparents you barely get half of what that girl is showing dead or alive. As a godmother myself I see nothing wrong with what she has done I get matching outfits, plan photo shoots etc for my girls all the time. I owe it to them not their parents once I was selected.
@shawn6986
Ай бұрын
@@thatgirlnajj You arenot a Godparent then, just acting like a silly Aunt
@majorkei
28 күн бұрын
Sis said “cause where did he even come from???” 😂😂😂 nawh fr. Okay let’s keep watching
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Ай бұрын
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Ай бұрын
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Ай бұрын
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Ай бұрын
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Ай бұрын
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@hashacloud
Ай бұрын
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@itscollysworld1389
Ай бұрын
Off topic that pair of glasses on Karmo makes him look.. different 😭
@itsdriaworld5165
Ай бұрын
Definitely do😂
@talicialeverette7374
Ай бұрын
Soo here’s the thing… maybe I do to much as a godmother but if my Bestfriend didn’t have a husband and asked me to help raise/discipline my goddaughter I’m going to take it just as seriously as she did
@nicoleraheem1195
Ай бұрын
I don't think she should be the Godmother because the mother doesn't know how to handle another woman being a better mother than she is. The godmother probably makes the mother feel insecure about her parenting skills. So, The God mom just just be a friend and thats it. I wouldn't ask about that child, I wouldn't want to babysit that child, I don't have any input about how you raise your child, I might come to your child birthday because you invited me but I'm not going to just pop up with gifts. Any little special thing she does for that child is going to be taken wrong. It's going to come off as if she overstepping her boundaries. But if the mother was to die, god forbid, is she can trust her daughter with the God Mom the god mom is still going to have to do the same as she's doing now and that's build a bond with that child and nurture her.
@auntkera
Ай бұрын
Thank you 👏🏾
@nicoleraheem1195
Ай бұрын
@@auntkera I guess it's rare to treat other people's kids like your own nowadays. I grew up differently. When my mom went to prison for three years, my aunty took me in. My cousins were basically my sisters for three years. We all got the same whooping, same foods, same quality clothing, same chores - no issues. As for me, I don't whoop children,but you will stand in that corner and reflect on what you did, but I really think people's love is so conditional that love and trust is non-existent.
@auntkera
Ай бұрын
@@nicoleraheem1195 So true!
@diamondross7276
Ай бұрын
i don’t know her sign but from one capricorn to another the friend givesss a capricorn, we receive a inch and take a mile! she didn’t mean no harm, we just cherish and and do the most for the ones we love!
@brenetdavis240
29 күн бұрын
I was thinking the same thing… I felt her HARD
@MzMillionDollaMillz
28 күн бұрын
If she was secure in her motherhood she wouldn’t be bothered or jealous by her friend. Shes mad because she has a friend that cares about her child? I’m so damn confused. She doesn’t want her friend saying shxt because she calls her out on her bs. If it was me I would end that friendship. Karamo missed the mark on this one.
@TheKiana600
Ай бұрын
I would honestly step back they got it like she said . But I hope she don’t try and bring her back forward if she and the boyfriend ever break up cause it would be a no
@NayyAmo
Ай бұрын
A big NO
@TriciaWilson
Ай бұрын
U know she will
@keylaniaaliyah3460
Ай бұрын
A lot of people would kill to have a village to help them with their kids
@caroldw1970
28 күн бұрын
I think she’s embodied the role of a godmother. It definitely takes a village!
@VONiiE8
Ай бұрын
No, that’s too much. I can never let my friend feel like she’s another parent. Nor would I want to play parent to my friend’s child. Why are we discussing disciplinary actions? No ma’am.
@amandabarrett2472
Ай бұрын
Exactly
@ZariaZen
Ай бұрын
It should be like that, that’s what wrong with society now. There is no sense of community
@helpkelp3595
Ай бұрын
@@ZariaZenit's a western thing
@mnencess
Ай бұрын
@@helpkelp3595exactly
@VONiiE8
Ай бұрын
@@ZariaZen there’s a difference between being support and acting as a 2nd parent. It’s my job to parent. It’s your job to be supportive of my parenting choices. Not sitting down discussing how to parent/discipline or taking my child to photo shoots for mom and me photos. That’s not crazy to you?!
@anissagr523
Ай бұрын
Im a God mom to my cousin kid & my cousin definitely calls me her BD. So I don’t see a problem I would just fall back tbh
@love.miya.8655
29 күн бұрын
She’s playing the role of a godmother. If she wanted to find a half a$$ Godmama she should’ve picked one 😂. Me and my godmama are closer than my mom but that’s because she was there for me more emotionally than my mom. It had nothing to do with her doing her job as a god parent, it was due to my moms actions (prioritizing men all my childhood) that we’re so close to this day
@torry24
Ай бұрын
What are we watching Clueless? AS IF! 😂
@ablacksquare
Ай бұрын
One thing I think would benefit this episode is for the two young ladies to separately write out: What does it mean to be a god mom. What are you not willing to do. What do you need from me when things are good, bad, and beyond bad. Clarity around the roles and expectations. Some god moms spoil and smother and are the moms right hand, while others only come through in times of strive and crisis. Some are in between. It also feels like mom is learning to find her voice and it will be an adjustment for everyone. This child is truly blessed to have the circle of support. In terms of the photo-shoot, it was a miss for mom to not be invited. In terms of boundaries- it’s a huge pivot to all of a sudden feel like you not wanted when times are good. I hope they can find a balance:
@mandithezombiegamers155
Ай бұрын
I think the god mom raised the baby more than the bio mom, she's not attached to the mom she's attached to the baby. It's a little to far to bash her and tell her to step away from the baby who she stepped up for when the mom wasn't in the best place, i feel there's things the god mom didn't say outta respect for the mom but there's definitely deeper issues than a 15 minute segment on a show.
@ibledsoe0405
26 күн бұрын
Exactly
@cookingwithlove5132
Ай бұрын
Girl come be my kids god mommy lol matter fact come be my god mommy 🤣🤣 you are perfect
@DarkFae888
Ай бұрын
It’s very rare to have that kind of support in modern times. I understand her apprehension about her friend’s bf. I also get the mom’s feelings. We gotta remember to ask loved ones what they need and how we can help instead of assuming we know what’s best for them.
@chademonique228
Ай бұрын
This is sweet …my God mom hasn’t given me anything or pays any attention to me. Being a God mom is huge role …she’s a sweet person. I wish her the best
@diyagirl12
Ай бұрын
She wanted to play mom bc the photoshoot was just weird
@nicoleraheem1195
Ай бұрын
It seems to me she might have been playing God Mom since Mom is a part of that title. I don't see the photo shoot is weird I see her spending quality time with her God child.
@diyagirl12
Ай бұрын
@@nicoleraheem1195 I agree and dont it was only weird to me bc she didnt extend the invite to the actual mom and didnt help her much when she was homeless which will automatically impact her godchild.
@swilkerson3745
Ай бұрын
Nothing weird about that. That’s what godparents do when the mother fall short. I’ll fall back and let her have her baby
@user-ep6bo3in2z
Ай бұрын
@@nicoleraheem1195same I loved my godmother
@theebougieprincess3509
Ай бұрын
@@nicoleraheem1195I agree!
@lmmack8675
Ай бұрын
I think the best friend means we’ll, however the parenting lines are blurred.
@cammiebee54
28 күн бұрын
I can get with the friend asking where is the boundary is! She didn’t know!
@beryl804
Ай бұрын
I wish I had such a friend, treating my daughter like literally hers 🎉🎉❤
@damianu4082
Ай бұрын
It sure seems it is going to be a tough adjustment for the Godmother, but it is a necessary adjustment that needs to happen. I am glad Mom gave Godmother her flowers, but boundaries MUST be established regardless.
@sandrinedavis5578
28 күн бұрын
I would love an update if this episode
@hiddenpayne9130
Ай бұрын
She just has to respect the boundaries
@KrisLim-kz6zh
Ай бұрын
Somebody should have told her to take them glasses all the way off
@niasmomma
Ай бұрын
Boundaries.
@arianahjanae1914
29 күн бұрын
I wish I had a friend like the god mother , sometimes people take people like her for granted. The mother will soon regret that she made a big fuss about someone helping her !
@ibledsoe0405
26 күн бұрын
Sis take her role seriously.... i love that about her
@aishachandler4570
Ай бұрын
Thats the Auntie....she surpassed Godmother❤️❤️❤️❤️
@ibledsoe0405
26 күн бұрын
Facts
@sleepy-peepy
Ай бұрын
The best friend def needed a reminder that now that mom is on her feet it's time to take a step back, that's it that's all.
@kameralkutie5594
Ай бұрын
So now that the bio mom is on her feet and has a “new man” now all of a sudden the God Mother is overstepping boundaries. But the mother didn’t have a problem with the God Mother before this new boyfriend came about.😏
@Lenasevilla-yb4ei
Ай бұрын
The friend is obsessed
@LadyRishae
28 күн бұрын
You wanting to make your own mistakes but you’re going to protect your baby because you love her. This is ridiculous because loving your child sometimes means allowing people to step in and HELP! Being a godmother does not mean you take care of a grown person who is demanding to do her own thing. If you’re trying to grow and get out of poverty then you don’t isolate from your main support… login be all over the place and not making sense 🤦🏾♀️😅😢😤
@ginalmencymarketing
Ай бұрын
Sis needs her own child. She has definitely overstepped her boundaries.
@yywua
28 күн бұрын
I know exactly how Godmom/ friend feels. My heart hurts for her. (I've been through that, as well.) Find peace and step in on tye important moments to create the great, unforgettable memories ✨️ ❤.
@willybeama1
Ай бұрын
Actually, I think the godmother needs to establish her own boundaries. This friendship is actually toxic.
@PrincessPowerranger
23 күн бұрын
On God if you find a friend thats gonna love your child like this HOLD ON TO HER, it takes a village to raise a child
@stormystormy5429
28 күн бұрын
Her fit in the pink nice. But the glasses could have been a little smaller. Their too big her face is small asf for them big ssa glasses 😂❤
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