Do not say 'What mom wants to do' they will call her and harass her. Man up and be the bad guy if you need to be but let your mom just go about her business.
@shawmeck9323
2 жыл бұрын
It's not about being the bad guy, the mom has the power and the son is there to support her. Dave knows what he is saying.
@PurpleRose8725
2 жыл бұрын
If Mom is the owner, he has to represent himself as being designated by her. "Man Up" is not an answer here and they could easily say what he says doesn't matter because he is not the owner.
@ivanvargas2425
2 жыл бұрын
It’s mom house so he also has no say. It’s what she says.
@ravageawakened
2 жыл бұрын
They can call her lawyer and argue with the lawyer.
@AO-nr7kl
2 жыл бұрын
@@ravageawakened But will they? Guy gave them impression they will not make this easy and I bet they call the 83 year old mom vs the lawyer.
@aolvaar8792
2 жыл бұрын
Sell home to a corporate investor, pack bags, leave. The new owner will deal with it, harshly.
@robr268
2 жыл бұрын
So let's be clear....are they paying rent and just don't want to move? Because if so just give them a few months notice to move. He's NOT BEING CLEAR OF THE ISSUE
@Mistak-de9bp
2 жыл бұрын
When he said NY state I know that this will not be easy to evict and will be expensive. Speaking from experience.
@templemanning6180
2 жыл бұрын
Offer them a cash 'incentive' to leave by September 15th at midnight. Of course they aren't entitled to anything, but it will be cheaper than going through a lengthy eviction process, because they will stop paying rent once that process starts.
@braceyourselvesfortruth2492
2 жыл бұрын
Nope, they will then try to say that they were given a choice to stay if they didn't accept. They deserve nothing but the boot at this point.
@davinasquirrel7672
3 ай бұрын
The incentive could be a good idea, and cheaper than a drawn out process.
@annstillwell730
2 жыл бұрын
Send them a certified letter and legally they have to get 30 days notice.
@tonypreston7278
2 жыл бұрын
Tough love is sometimes the only way. It doesn’t mean you don’t care. Enabling can do more to hurt people than help.
@Firguy_the_Foot_Fetishist
2 жыл бұрын
This is true. I tried asking my aunt for money because I was bad with money and she refused to enable me. I bit the bullet and applied for a second full-time job to work weekends on and I dug myself out of debt by working 68 hours a week, Sunday through Sunday (you read that right), and I was able to dig myself out of debt a lot faster that way.
@ChristopherInTexas
2 жыл бұрын
Terrible answer Dave. Offer your family the opportunity to buy. If not then proceed to let them know the home will be sold. The caller wants to sell not the 82 year old mom. The caller is weak.
@bigt1114
2 жыл бұрын
I'm giving this call a "Thumbs.. 👎". he's to weak ( on the phone .. crying 😭)..and the cousin know it ...his 82 year old Mother is being abused .. and he's.. crying...
@slidegirl6005
2 жыл бұрын
@i-mm-o res the uncle gave the old gal the right to take it back when he died. So now it is hers.
@melinda67
2 жыл бұрын
@i-mm-o res yes they bought it together but legally it was always clear that the person who dies looses right to it. Nobody else from family can claim it.
@johndone8045
2 жыл бұрын
Looks like when the mother dies or sells it will be a legal battle and dave is dumb The dad of the cousin didnt leave his child the house but then left to his sister? Thats a longer story than that
@offgridjack5779
2 жыл бұрын
Don't let them drag it into winter in New York. Some states, you can't evict anyone in winter. Get them out ASAP.
@westbccoast
2 жыл бұрын
Sounds like there is more to the story, caller is being very vague probably intentionally.
@catherinep2034
2 жыл бұрын
I'm going to be odd one here & say offer 1/3 of the house price when it's sold. Out of respect for callers uncle.
@nunyabidnes6010
2 жыл бұрын
Lol Dave Ramsey calling someone else ignorant is beyond ironic.
@miketracy9256
2 жыл бұрын
So they have been paying rent but mostly trying to sell a rental with occupants who do not want to move is very difficult. Dave gave a great answer.
@liasilva2789
2 жыл бұрын
Cash for keys would be a good option. They can leave the house in excellent condition with all their belongings gone for a sum of cash the cost of eviction plus clean up divided instead plus a little extra if the mom has it maybe a months rent for each tenant on top of dividing those expected costs if they will comply to avoid those expenses. That’s what I would propose
@Mikeykaysuper
2 жыл бұрын
Kick them to the curb !
@reese44622
2 жыл бұрын
Do they want to buy it?
@Kyleg106
2 жыл бұрын
Exactly what I was think just sell it to them
@kdilli6426
2 жыл бұрын
Get the house appraised and offer to sell it to them for 10% below the appraised value. If not, sorry you gone.
@cmritchie04
2 жыл бұрын
I'm sorry but you are looking this a personal problem when it is a business problem prospective they are paying rent just like any other renter. Is there a contract in place for the rent?
@JoeyNYSDnomad
3 ай бұрын
Someone buy this guy a backbone.
@brad885
2 жыл бұрын
Id give them an offer to buy it at 10% under retail. Other than that, I wouldn't give them any more concessions
@dagobert1234321
2 жыл бұрын
20% under retail is more fair.. no RE fees, inspection, escrow, ect.. and having to clean and renovate house
@stevenporter863
2 жыл бұрын
0:46 What does the bible say about getting taken advantage of and getting walked all over?
@karinbinnie1862
2 жыл бұрын
Jesus said, "Be as wise as serpents and as innocent as doves."
@gafee2001
2 жыл бұрын
Yes. Next caller.
@claudemartelly7421
2 жыл бұрын
Yeah NY is very hard to take someone out.
@davinasquirrel7672
3 ай бұрын
They feel entitled because the uncle (their father) put in some share. Unfortunately for them, the 'sole survivor' thing was in place. As some others have suggested, offer the sale of the property a little below market value. If they do not take it, evict them. But it sounds like any proposal, they will drag out for years. His mother wants to sell up and move, that is the key thing. If they do not want to buy her out (majority share, because survivor/owner), then evict.
@jgray690
3 ай бұрын
right. The sole survivorship is a cut and dry clause in a contract. Uncle agreed to it at the time when he signed it. So no matter how entitled they feel. This isn't a negotiation because they have no legal legs on which to stand.
@jamesross1798
2 жыл бұрын
If the cousins don't leave, just list the home for sale while they're still occupying it. Then once it sells, the new owner can either work out a rent payment with them or make them leave.
@paolaristori6179
2 жыл бұрын
A house occupied by renters, even if they pay regularly is devalued compared to a free house. At least in Italy it is so.
@jamesross1798
2 жыл бұрын
@@paolaristori6179 Here in the US, I've seen homes only sell slightly less, and it's because of the potential risks to the buyer when purchasing a tenant occupied home, but it's no where near the amount of money they're losing by allowing their relatives to live there rent free for years.
@Lcshell
11 ай бұрын
A smart person isn’t going to close the deal on purchasing a home while there are tenants in it unless there’s a clear agreement on how the tenants will be dealt with. As in, they will be out before closing or they sign a lease agreeing to be out by a certain date. You do a walkthrough inspection before closing and accept the property as is (including with tenants) or you back out because the tenants are still in the home.
@loveubye2288
2 жыл бұрын
Its doesn't seem morally right that the uncle was 1/3 owner and also paid off the entire house on his own and for his kids to get nothing of it when he passed. They should give half of the sale money to the cousins to be able to buy another home.
@canadianjatti
2 жыл бұрын
those were his wishes this is why wills exist maybe his kids werent good to him
@Lcshell
11 ай бұрын
I’m betting he set it up so they don’t get anything on purpose. They sound like asshole kids taking advantage of whatever they can from family
@michelhanson1500
2 жыл бұрын
Evicting your family members, God go with you.
@melinda67
2 жыл бұрын
He’s not evicting them since they never lawfully rented it. If you take an item from the store without paying, no sales contract, the shop owner can take that item from you without involving authorities or anyone.
@dis.infectant
2 жыл бұрын
Why did Dave have to bring up the pink bedroom?
@summerforever6736
2 жыл бұрын
i don't need the bible to tell me to be kind or anything!!!! I am without that...
@jimmymcgill6778
2 жыл бұрын
Are they paying rent, do they have a lease. If not, then you can't evict someone that legally lives there. Just tell them to leave.
@paulinoaz
2 жыл бұрын
after someone establishes a domicile then you need to go through the process to evict them, it does not matter if they are paying rent or not.
@vanesslifeygo
2 жыл бұрын
Wish they knew they paid rent for a year sooner lol
@ytr8989
2 жыл бұрын
They can buy the house or move out. That would be my final answer.
@carsonn863
2 жыл бұрын
Run em off
@marshallforeman2051
2 жыл бұрын
If this is in New York , good luck
@arrowarrow17
3 ай бұрын
Tell your cousins to get out. They aren't babies.
@David-wo9un
2 жыл бұрын
I was surprised by Dave’s answer on how to solve this issue; I hope it goes well.
@theforeignerinamerica1817
2 жыл бұрын
Business is business. If the person is not paying, kick the person out.
@pingupenguin2474
3 ай бұрын
Lot of good stuff in the bible. If you read it right.
@bethromanowicz9874
3 ай бұрын
Can’t they just put the house up for sale? Then they will be forced to leave after the new owners take possession..
@clarifyingquestions
2 жыл бұрын
Make it Sept. 30
@mariad4183
Ай бұрын
That poor elderly lady! It's not right
@_Philip_.
2 жыл бұрын
Ramsey team you need to stop this serial spammer he is gonna get someone one day
@JFDSmit-rm6tw
2 жыл бұрын
No business in friends and family, no family and friends in business.
@amireallythatgrumpy6508
2 жыл бұрын
Even better, no friends and family.
@kokoskokso
2 жыл бұрын
Well, you could have water, heating and electricity switched off if they need convincing to leave. They can't really complain if they're living there illegally in the first place.
@Excalibur2
2 жыл бұрын
Some places that's illegal.
@kokoskokso
2 жыл бұрын
@@Excalibur2 well, coincidences happen. Let's not forget they live there illegally also.
@youngboycarlito8927
2 жыл бұрын
Idk lol if the parents just helped get the house for him as just putting it in the mothers name or the down payment help but the uncle was the one who paid the house off. The uncle was the one who owns the house right??? Like morally lol, but if that’s what the uncle wanted then ig there’s only so much to do. I’d feel some type of way if my father paid the house off like all of it and my aunt just comes in and takes it.
@megalodon1726
2 жыл бұрын
His mom, dad and uncle combined to buy the house, with ownership passing onto the survivors when any of them died. If his mom & dad paid 2/3 and the uncle paid 1/3, it's not like she just swooped in and took the house.
@aolvaar8792
2 жыл бұрын
@@megalodon1726 Joint Tenancy with rights of survivorship
@BarelyNoticedADD
2 жыл бұрын
Bank financed sale of home to the cousins.
@wolfgangtritone1280
2 жыл бұрын
The bible says a lot of things. lol
@fenderstratplayer05
2 жыл бұрын
Offer to sale them the house at a fair price
@john-o1g9p
2 ай бұрын
yes.
@genxx2724
2 жыл бұрын
If they’ve been problematic, just have a lawyer send them written notice to begin with. The good thing is all these expenses will reduce the amount of capital gains. So basically Uncle Sam is paying the cost.
@anata.g.4966
2 жыл бұрын
Why not sell it to them?
@musicpro7278
2 жыл бұрын
What makes u think they have the money
@robr268
2 жыл бұрын
Yes like he's not being clear. I felt like they wasn't paying rent but then they were. Idk what's the issue.
@moomouse6676
2 жыл бұрын
It's just how it is the man up
@jimmymcgill6778
2 жыл бұрын
Maybe they have no other place to go to.
@amireallythatgrumpy6508
2 жыл бұрын
There is no such thing as "no other place to go".
@jimmymcgill6778
2 жыл бұрын
@@amireallythatgrumpy6508 Wrong. There is.
@amireallythatgrumpy6508
2 жыл бұрын
@@jimmymcgill6778 Nope. There are plenty of bridges in the USA with nobody living under them.
@nunyabidnes6010
2 жыл бұрын
@@amireallythatgrumpy6508 Ok boomer
@jeepaz79
2 жыл бұрын
Sell it to them
@rachelharrison7961
2 жыл бұрын
Unless they are impeding the sales process, why do they need to be out before the closing?
@paulhathaway5907
2 жыл бұрын
Most buyers will want the house empty before they're willing to close on it...... Unless they buy it as a rental and is proof that the rent has been paid in a timely manner
@estyria777
2 жыл бұрын
I'm just going to guess, but I'm going to say two reasons. First, there's probably improvements or repairs that need to be made before listing the house in order to profit. Second, the caller has zero faith they're going to leave. If he were closing and they weren't out the whole thing would probably fall through and he/his mom might be on the hook for some hefty fees.
@rachelharrison7961
2 жыл бұрын
@@paulhathaway5907 That’s what I meant, gone by the time of the buyer’s walk through. The issue is whether they are interfering with the real estate agent, by refusing to leave during open houses or not keeping the property clean.
@adamseidel9780
2 жыл бұрын
The new buyers aren’t going to be interested in having to evict some squatters before they can move in
@davidtree2511
2 жыл бұрын
@@rachelharrison7961 It is easier to sell an empty house than one that is occupied (and one will usually get a higher offer from the buyer). Trying to sell a house with renters in it is a pain and I don't recommend it even if the renters are cooperative. Even if the renters are OK with the landlord selling (they usually are not), the renters have to keep the place immaculate (that will not happen-- they have no motivation to do so), try to schedule showings with both the renters and the potential buyers, renters have to leave for showings, and so on. Finally, some jurisdictions allow the renters to stay through there contract, or the renters may not move out-- meaning that the buyers will either not agree to close or they will have to deal with the time and costs of an eviction.
@Mr_Fairdale
2 жыл бұрын
Might have to a little “accident” 🔥 and just get the insurance money seeing how terrible the laws are in NY state .
@RJWaynerium
2 жыл бұрын
Please undo the latest updates you did to everydollar. It's become laggy and buggy to the point of being difficult to use.
@Veezy727
2 жыл бұрын
Yes
@grod805
2 жыл бұрын
How can they kick them out. This is their family home!
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