I love how women rationalize working for a boss who doesn't gaf about them and can fire them, yet refuse to respect a man who provides. Smh.
@slinegaming3836
Ай бұрын
I’m sayinggggg
@dragonkingsports
Ай бұрын
Personally I find it gross to be a woman’s personal piggy bank. I’m a human being not a paycheck. I want us both to work.
@legiontepes3474
Ай бұрын
@@dragonkingsports depends on what she wants and what you want. I'm not saying she must.
@KRATOS...12
Ай бұрын
@@dragonkingsports who's gonna grow and take care of your kids? The maid? Or the caretaker, either way it's stupid asf
@jakeand9020
Ай бұрын
@@dragonkingsportsDepends on your definition of "work." A good SAH definitely does more than enough work. If the sentiments of it offend you that much think of it as she is working, you just happen to be the one paying her.
@moosecouture1
Ай бұрын
He has complete control over you... Like your boss has over you
@jakeand9020
Ай бұрын
Right, except if the SAH decides to change jobs she gets half his stuff, or more depending on where they live.
@TheLuconic
Ай бұрын
@@jakeand9020that’s looking at it in a very negative way. I view it as a long lasting happiness cuz they have a healthy communication and can work their problems out and stay married until they both die and never needing anything more. While the other can easily lose their job and can go into deep depression and even commit suicide. Point is, we shouldn’t judge others cuz I did do a negative view on the boss lady but the positive view is that she keeps going up the ranks and has the power to help others…. Depending if she’s got a good heart. If not, more negative view is that she’ll die lonely.
@rauminen4167
Ай бұрын
@@TheLuconic "as a long lasting happiness" Yeah, with the right woman. Which... basically none of the current western women at this point.
@cheporestrepo
Ай бұрын
Absolute facts
@goldenpony822
Ай бұрын
not really, if you've got a good cv you can just hop to another better job one month to another
@ananbaban123
Ай бұрын
so let me get this straight if a woman stays home and do chores or like make dinner she is a slave but if she works 50 hours a week she is an independant queen?
@abigaillopez1410
Ай бұрын
Cause at least she is rewarded with money
@elisabethkurkina5472
Ай бұрын
Not money only can be rewards 😅@@abigaillopez1410
@jaredgibson7462
Ай бұрын
@@abigaillopez1410🤦♂️
@notreallydavid
Ай бұрын
independent Kick me.
@ZeroTheFianceeToSal
Ай бұрын
@@abigaillopez1410as if a man cant give a reward. seek help
@judsonsouza6239
15 күн бұрын
This only works when it’s a good man with a good woman
@theteamgroundworksoriginal2332
6 күн бұрын
...and that only works if she's a highly skilled, efficient worker with an understanding, not too ambitious boss.
@kevind411
6 күн бұрын
Modern western society has been discouraging the attainment of good and instead has been encouraging selfishness. Modern relationship problems are downstream from that.
@mattbeisser3932
6 күн бұрын
Good isn't a binary trait. Relationships only work if two people are healthy / good.
@user-dw4wo6vm2m
Ай бұрын
My daughter worked her way through college and met her husband there. She worked until she started having children. She is now a stay at home mom, homeschoos her 5 kids, and runs the home while her husband works. To my knowledge, she's very happy with her life and, as a father, I couldn't be more proud. 👍👍😁
@TheCamCat777
Ай бұрын
Poor kids
@Sanxioned1
Ай бұрын
Does she have any teaching credentials to home school her kids? I distinctly meeting 3 homeschool kids when I was in grade 9, and none of them, not one of them, could do basic math. Like they couldn't explain what multiplication even meant. They also seemed to think round earth was a "theory" only.
@ZeroTheFianceeToSal
Ай бұрын
@@TheCamCat777seek help
@Scorp497
Ай бұрын
@Sanxioned1 there are no special qualifications to homeschool your own kids.
@Scorp497
Ай бұрын
@@TheCamCat777 Whose? Yours?
@isaacgorski6054
Ай бұрын
"He controls you" So how's work life?
@AltezzaGang15
Ай бұрын
Feminism is the idea that it’s unacceptable to submit to a man in the household but totally okay to submit to a man in the workplace.
@brandonfeeley514
Ай бұрын
Yet her boss or bosses don't control her to the point of having no life and being stressed out? Even if they are all females it's still basically the same thing.
@Sanxioned1
Ай бұрын
@@AltezzaGang15 Please look up the word "equivocation" and then understand how you're equivocating on the word 'submit'. Try again.
@athenanc.
Ай бұрын
"He controls you"... at work. Bosses don't control your spending, friendship, family dynamic, relationship, etc. And you can leave that controlling person at anytime without feeling guilty, being in danger, or experiencing emotional pain. I do have a partner, for people who's thinking I'm negative because I'm single or something. But it's always good to have your own money. I know a lot of people have this concept of "what's his is ours", but when it comes to money, it's difficult to do that. Since he's the sole breadwinner he most likely would question her every spending (in most relationships). And if he's the sole breadwinner, what if they break up or get divorced? Sure if they got married, she's entitled to half of his money, but what if they're just in a domestic partnership? And what about the independency and self-reliance that she needs to gain back in order to get back on her feet and start earning again? Possible employers are gonna ask her about the gap in the resumé, what skills did she gain during that gap, etc. I'm not judging a SAH, but I personally just don't feel like it's safe. The feminism that encourages women to work, be independent, stand at her own feet, provide for herself, and be self-reliant I strongly believe is beneficial and protective towards women. A lot of women need to realize that they cannot rely on other people (their partner / men) to protect them in every aspect, especially financially
@tesladrew2608
Ай бұрын
@@AltezzaGang15relationships shouldn't be about one person submitting
@danielcoimbra5944
Ай бұрын
I'm 24M and since I was little, my mother taught me every PERSON should be able to take care themselves, and never depend on any other person. If the relationship ends, or god forbid, the provider dies suddenly, the dependent one would need assistance before getting back on the job market and we all know how that road goes. Idk, I would feel better creating a family with someone who I know would be able to provide for the children if something happens to me. To each their own, I guess 🤷♂️
@hannahcampbell8196
Ай бұрын
I like that! Even within this video the SAHW says she was a paralegal so if all hell did break loose she could go back to that and still make some money.
@lastdefenderofxhotl
28 күн бұрын
@@hannahcampbell8196Sure but she'll likely be notably older than the other paralegals, have a gap in her resume, minimal or no network and overall just be less desirable to prospective employers.
@edelweiss-
27 күн бұрын
Jobs are needed. Which assistent to get back on a job?
@GenX-RadRat
26 күн бұрын
You're mom was not wise. In fact, women always give bad advice (especially about other women). Did you grow up without a dad?
@TheNotSoRandomDude
7 күн бұрын
"24M" This ain't Reddit pal😂
@kydrury637
Ай бұрын
"He controls you" Husbands: I dont think that word means what you think it means 😂
@DavidZ4-gg3dm
Ай бұрын
There's no husband mentioned in this.
@hinoron6528
26 күн бұрын
@@DavidZ4-gg3dm Kyftury637 is speaking for all the husbands in the world.
@sweetlioness3735
Ай бұрын
So... My mother is a stay at home and she endured all kind of sh*t from my father while trying to take care of us. She reversed on my and my sister all the abuse she was living with. She's often drunk and when I visit them we have long talks at 2 am, while she keeps saying she's stuffed with her life and got nowhere to escape. But she might have been just unlucky, and most men aren't like my father. It's a very very risky BET. Might be the best decision of your life. Or the start of the dawnfall and all on your shoulders to be able to maintain the relationship through changes, and of the other person who carries you. Personally I always try to be the most careful person out there. Yes, to love yes to trust. But also with modern days, no to total lack of backup. It's true that if something happen you can always restart, but not with the same means of before. (for jobs you need experience, also if you decided to stay at home your boss might think you might wanna return that way, lack of savings, etc) still we shouldn't judge life choises. Only life can.
@th3_jelly_one114
5 күн бұрын
You Spelt Choices Wrong At The End...
@RetireEatsDelivers
Ай бұрын
When we first married, my wife and both worked, but we worked toward the day she would be a stay at home Mom. It took patience, and commitment as we worked together toward that common goal. We just celebrated 34 yrs of marriage. Oh, and don't let anyone think "stay at home mom" isn't a full time job.
@shieldwolf65
Ай бұрын
Real attitude & the true program to follow.
@fk319fk
Ай бұрын
Just hit 28. Wife has been home for 25. My favorite story is about the washer that broke after 20 years. As it was going away, I looked at it and thought I had never done a load of laundry in that machine. WE couldn't be happier.
@DavidZ4-gg3dm
Ай бұрын
There are no kids shown or mentioned in this.
@TheRevengeofThemDawgs
4 күн бұрын
@@DavidZ4-gg3dm He's sharing his experience. What is wrong with that?
@adalinares4659
21 күн бұрын
I'm a stay at home mom and let me tell you I really regret giving up my job and trusting a men to provide for us forever. The worst decision EVER. Don't ruin your life girls. You can be happy AND have a husband without giving up your career.
@AleishaJones-ek1mi
Ай бұрын
There's a difference between being a workaholic and a girl boss, chica. There are happily married ladies who run their own business and make time for their friends and loved ones. Some of these lovely ladies do girl boss habits videos to help others with productivity and work/life balance. You should check them out some time. 😘
@cocor.3653
17 сағат бұрын
Yea but what you just said has nothing to do with this video. It’s not about weather or not being a girl boss is bad or not. A lot of women look down at women who choose to stay home. I know from personal example. I got married at 23 (35 now) and it shocked and weirdly disappointed a lot of people I grew up with. They thought I had so much more potential and felt the need to tell me what they thought I would be based on how they knew me from HIGH SCHOOL. Most are on the girl boss track, single and complaining. I know all are not like that (as you mentioned) but it feels like the overwhelming majority that have something to say, a like the Second Lady on this video.
@AleishaJones-ek1mi
17 сағат бұрын
@@cocor.3653 I don't think you understand the narrative that this woman and other people in the red pill community are pushing. Homemaker is very much a career as anything else. Males tend to devalue women's labor at home because they're not receiving a paycheck. And if they were, they would be making bank. Most boss babes are happy. My family is full of them. And I believe homemakers can also be a total girl boss. I do think these amazing ladies need to have financial protection in case the husband loses his job, passes away, or becomes abusive. I celebrate choices. All women are career women and I think we are amazing. I hope that you're living your best life, sister. You are the CEO of your life. 🩷
@RishwanChanda
Ай бұрын
She's gonna flirt with coworkers and promote the ones who do the devil's tango with her and fire the ones who don't. Perfect life for people like her
@jorodino1317
Ай бұрын
?
@reissoliver8853
Ай бұрын
Weird comment
@juniorschwazz1979
Ай бұрын
erm ok
@sinistarz0253
Ай бұрын
You are right. These days no one knows
@shieldwolf65
Ай бұрын
Maybe, or flirt till they say something that can be taken as inappropriate in front of witnesses. THEN Go to HR & get him fired BC she wants his job.
@carlessola343
Ай бұрын
For modern women it is better to be under corporate slavery than let a loving husband take care of her
@jankom.7783
Ай бұрын
Corporate slavers will tell you how much you will get from them. And you can find better one whenever you feel like it. But you could never be sure whether your loving husband is really that loving.
@carlessola343
Ай бұрын
@@jankom.7783 since women initiate divorce 70..90% it's pretty accurate say men are, by far, more loving and women are more like mercenaries searching for the next better payroll
@rauminen4167
Ай бұрын
@@jankom.7783 Yeah, you can, by choosing the right man. Also men are really bad at lying.
@jankom.7783
Ай бұрын
@carlessola343 The question is not who is more loving, but are men loving enough. Like, if you want to buy an ice-cream and she has 2 zł and you have 5 zł, but an ice-cream cone costs 10 zł, she will find somebody who has at least 8 zł. Dude was more loving than her, but not loving enough. If you expect fairness in relationship, prepare yourself to be dumped by first opportunity. That is a loser talk and women don't like those
@freddilon
Ай бұрын
@@jankom.7783if she can dump her man who has only 5zl for a second guy who has got 8zl, she should expect to be dumped by the second guy too, coz he’s gone go for more a better woman. Then she will attempt reconciliation with the first guy she dumped, but he will be gone with another “better woman”. Then she ‘lol cry out loud the famous “There are no good men.”😂
@tonydiego2566
12 күн бұрын
Yo, that pre-law/paralegal talk hits a little too close to home. That’s where I’m at rn.
@Otuomi
Ай бұрын
The difference is it’s typically quicker to find a new job if things go south compared to finding a new relationship. Unless you have savings from somewhere, somehow, in your relationship, you’ll usually have a good chunk of savings as a safety net with a career. And you can usually go from a career into a relationship (as a stay at home) but the other way around is more difficult. The point being made in the video is a good one, but there’s also nothing wrong with wanting to be able to provide for yourself with a good career for more safety.
@AmyThePuddytat
Ай бұрын
The thing is that nobody said there was anything wrong with having a good career. However, it isn’t providing for yourself. If you’re not hunting and gathering, you’re not doing that. You’re relying on an employer to give you money. They can stop.
@Sanxioned1
Ай бұрын
Your representation of the stay at home mom is utterly dishonest. Any decent woman would still be tired as hell after wrangling kids, getting them to school, returning home, cleaning after the, going out, doing more chores, helping the rest of her family, prepping for dinner, cleaning up, getting the kids back home, and dealing with all of that. Stop trying to make worklife seem terrible for women when it's really not. Everyone needs balance in their lives. Also, if her husband dies -- she's utterly beyond fucked.
@eddardgreybeard
26 күн бұрын
Life insurance, retirement pension, etc. They've been around for decades.
@GenX-RadRat
26 күн бұрын
God, you're dumb. Husband's have life insurance
@quietprofessional4557
16 күн бұрын
Only lazy women find staying at home hard work.
@chesspwn7457
14 күн бұрын
She never stated that either of them were tired, just that the stay at home was happier and didn't have to stress about work and home chores. If she was working, many of the items you listed would still need to be done. Sure at that point half could be handed to husband, but that still more overall
@jakelugenbeel2666
13 күн бұрын
Her videos make a great, albeit, one sided point. Would be cool if the two persona's could be happy and supportive of each other's life decisions, but maybe that's the point. Are women, even friends, just not supporting each other when they're making decisions that don't fit into each other's world views? Imo we should all aim to do what makes us happy and fulfilled. ✌️🫶🤝
@goofydufus
Ай бұрын
I just don't see why the implication is that it ALWAYS has to be the woman with the option to stay at home. There's a reason nobody talks about "trad-husbands." It's because men have ALWAYS been expected to be traditional providers. If only women loved men enough to provide for them like men have done for centuries (especially with the vast majority of college students now being women).
@athenanc.
Ай бұрын
I like this perspective. It's very unfair because when women stay at home they get praises for some reason. Like they're the best wife/partner or mother for doing that. They're dedicating their lives to raise their kids, take care of the household, and be a good wife. Yet when the husband stay at home, he's taking advantage of the women's career / financial security. Why can't it be the same? If you're going to judge men for being SAH, judge women for being SAH as well.
@chrislisenby2681
26 күн бұрын
There are some couples where the man stay at home taking care of the children because he made less money than her.
@goofydufus
26 күн бұрын
@@chrislisenby2681 It's nice to know that this can exist, albeit rare.
@luigimrlgaming9484
10 күн бұрын
@@athenanc.No, I like traditional gender role, I just wish they were followed.
@athenanc.
10 күн бұрын
@@luigimrlgaming9484 just because you like it and think it's the best way, doesn't mean everybody should. At the end of the day societal roles are subjective. Just because something has been for generations, doesn't mean it's objectively correct and that other ways are wrong
@AngryDuck79
15 күн бұрын
"A loyal husband who loves me is a tyrannical overlord, so lemme devote my life to a boss who doesn't care about me at all."
@danslavallee
12 күн бұрын
Exactly. Loyal husband and caring of me are not guaranteed and especially in a long term way. The husband has the power of my happiness while i dont. Hierarchy in the personal life and no reciprocity are the worst feelings of the world. Money at the end of the month to be able to live (and leave if things turn bad) is guaranteed and no feelings involved.
@jazlynhawkins6679
Ай бұрын
I love my nursing career because I get to make my own money while only working 3 days weekly 🥰 there’s nothing wrong with balance. You can be an amazing wife while still contributing finances. My husband and I are both working and are very happy. The days I am at work it’s usually around 99% other female nurses so I see it as a social outing. 😊
@InternetSyndicate
Ай бұрын
This. So much this. So much of the comment section is so lost in arguing over this that they can't realize life isn't a zero sum game. You can work and be at home while he/she works more, or if he/she's wealthy enough you can be full SAH or whatever else. There's options, you just have to look for them! I'm so glad you're happy with your life.
@sturmgewehr449
Ай бұрын
do you really think most women get to choose their own hours?
@rickcoona
Ай бұрын
Don't misconstrue, it is great that you have a part time job that you enjoy and seem to draw great satisfaction from. it's the "Wife and *"MOTHER"* part you are leaving out of the equation here. Sure, you can be a fine part-time "Working Wife" but you are forgetting the most important part of the Marriage... *Motherhood* and if you think it is *NOT* important, than congratulations! you have *Ended both of your Genetic Lines* study your Genealogy to understand what your ancestors *SACRIFICED* to give you this life and know that you will have to answer for that at the *Review stage* when *Defending your Life.*
@joepharmasst
Ай бұрын
"only" is still 156 days a year
@jazlynhawkins6679
Ай бұрын
@@rickcoona I am a full-time registered nurse. We work 12 hour shifts 3x weekly. I never said anything you just stated lol but a lot of my co-workers are mothers and seem pretty happy. Of course it must be stressful at times but I was just trying to say there is nothing wrong with balance.
@poeticeclipse
Ай бұрын
My ex had control over the finances and then I found out he was spending OUR money on p0rn and maxed out our credit cards, so I was left dealing with that. Not really sure how being a trad wife helped me then.
@quietprofessional4557
16 күн бұрын
Choose a better man. Stop complaining. You made a choice, if you could not see the red flags that's on you. If I were to choose a woman who is narssistic and abusive, no one would give me sympathy and why should they. I don't see why you get to have that. Sadly, women need to be better at detecting a****oles instead of seeing the delusion they want.
@chesspwn7457
14 күн бұрын
Being the sole provider doesn't mean controlling the money. A couple should both be involved with the family finances.
@ArnoldsDesign
Ай бұрын
There's nothing wrong with being a stay at home woman. But I also think an education/skillset is important for her, in case she needs to go on her own again if the man turns out to be abusive.
@USS_Sentinel
Ай бұрын
Or if her partner passes away. Life is super unfair.
@case6189
Ай бұрын
As a guy I won’t say women are wrong for wanting a career or enjoying something but at the end of the day if you want a family imo the ideal scenario is the man to make enough to let the woman turn the house they bought into a home. Both roles are important. Though nowadays that American dream seems impossible for 90% of us to even consider
@USS_Sentinel
Ай бұрын
@@case6189 "It's called the American Dream because you have to be asleep to believe it." --George Carlin.
@Mateo_Vert
Ай бұрын
@@case6189I def disagree..both my parents worked when I was growing up and was able to provide me and my sister with a great home life ..there's no wrong way to have a family as long as roles are understood
@allthingsaremadenew236
Ай бұрын
My husband makes $50 an hour and he only has his GED. I think its good to remember that we don't need a college degree to thrive at a job :)
@EmilyW-2000
Ай бұрын
I have my own business so most of my work is at home on my laptop. I don't mind helping my husband pay some bills because two income together would work great together. If he lose his job, he have other jobs back up ready for him because I have connections. I respect that he's a hardworking man so I would help him. I'm glad that we have our own business together because more money is coming to us. I don't support this girl boss nonsense at all.
@Long_Machine
Ай бұрын
You don’t mind, ha ha.
@diego032912
Ай бұрын
@@Long_Machine Just what I was thinking lol
@MarshawnCarter
Ай бұрын
That's what I called a real woman and a strong wife.
@jyotiology2142
Ай бұрын
Neither of the choices should be looked down upon. Ultimately it's what a woman is comfortable with 😊
@TheTravellingCritic-ke8kh
Ай бұрын
Exactly.
@david7384
Ай бұрын
no, society is destroyed by feminism
@true_plays_games
29 күн бұрын
But women *constantly* look down at other women that choose to stay at home, and I think that’s the point here.
@TheTravellingCritic-ke8kh
29 күн бұрын
@@true_plays_games Truly, that's the problem of the person who is looking down. If you are happy with the choice you made, what do you care about what others think?
@eddardgreybeard
26 күн бұрын
@@TheTravellingCritic-ke8kh No, I'm pretty sure there's an entire danged movement looking down on women being housewives and mothers.
@gobouarko
Ай бұрын
Honestly both sides of this coin have their advantages and disadvantages, and we should all stop arguing about this bullshit, and choose the side we think is best for us, without insulting someone else for choosing the other side
@brandonfeeley514
Ай бұрын
Yes but at least stay at home is trying to help, where paralegal or whatever you want to call her was all in for the money and ridicule anyone who thinks differently to include calling them a b**** out of jealousy maybe?
@Babylon6969
Ай бұрын
Doesn’t matter because most women are never happy. I know working women and stay at home moms and they eventually become miserable no matter what.
@Adanu191
Ай бұрын
No. Both sides do not have their advantages. Women overwhelmingly prefer people over things, and want good relationships.
@Kira110lol
Ай бұрын
Yes... That is the point of the video... Tell the Boss bitches to stop acting like a monkey whenever someone makes a different choice.
@WiseWordsbyWiki
Ай бұрын
@@brandonfeeley514except this isn't a real conversation. This is a fake argument. This girl came up was to win.
@EricMoore790
Ай бұрын
The boss babe will try to hookup with her coworkers and then go complain to HR.
@Cuda_Clutch
Ай бұрын
Pretty sure I got shadow banned from a conversation similar to this. Can someone reply to this or like it or something to confirm or deny this?
@AltezzaGang15
Ай бұрын
@@Cuda_ClutchI see you brother. I get banned all the time myself
@Luigi2Wild
Ай бұрын
And wonders why they are still single…
@reissoliver8853
Ай бұрын
That’s a weird thing to say
@markfunair8711
Ай бұрын
No its not@@reissoliver8853
@th3comb1ne13
17 күн бұрын
This is a bad take. People change throughout marriage/long term relationships. Your “loving” boyfriend/husband may one day become not so loving. This is why so many women get stuck in abusive relationships. The working woman actually has the option to leave abusive relationships and even change jobs.
@zra1788
12 күн бұрын
You can a leave a relationship either if you work or not😂 wtf are you talking about
@th3comb1ne13
12 күн бұрын
@@zra1788 Leaving a relationship when your partner owns everything will literally make you homeless.
@ahtunyarlathoteppy2360
12 күн бұрын
@@th3comb1ne13 You're clearly not familiar with the legal system.
@th3comb1ne13
12 күн бұрын
@@ahtunyarlathoteppy2360 You clearly don’t know what a prenup is.
@zra1788
12 күн бұрын
@@th3comb1ne13 you can go back to your parents till you find a decent job...idk man, my girlfriend relatives were in the same situation, her uncle provided, by working 2 jobs and her aunt was staying home taking care of their two childs. All good until she started to bring her lover home when her husband was at work. The husband found out about that and he was willing to continue (what a moron), but the lady decided to divorce him and move with her lover...and now the lady plays the victime on the social media and in front of their relatives. So don't take the side of a specific sex, both sexes can make mistakes at any time.
@toja2891
15 күн бұрын
Something can always go wrong. Its irrational to bet everything on one card and let go of your own carier. In 10 year, it may be to late to get some experience and, if you have kids, really stressful to survive. People change, so does loving boyfriends. Always have plan B
@Imae08I
Ай бұрын
"He can take advantage of you" Meanwhile shes working on a papper on her mothers birthday party
@athenanc.
Ай бұрын
Says the person that can't spell paper correctly. Obviously you don't fit to work.
@Imae08I
Ай бұрын
@@athenanc. Un pequeño error, hablo 3 idiomas en todo caso. Gracias por la corrección. willst du es auf deutsch? Ich bin Anwalt und habe in den letzten 15 Jahren gut gearbeitet
@Anna-ws6di
Ай бұрын
I feel bad for her that she made independence seem wrong. It's neither bad having a job, nor staying at home as long as you have a balance life and you're happy with that. STAying at home is also some kind of hard job. So why judge other people who also have a job and sharing home responsibilities with your partener?
@DavidZ4-gg3dm
Ай бұрын
BRB insists that being a housewife is the only correct way to live & that all men be high-earning fools who spend a fortune on them.
@lauraw2526
Ай бұрын
For real. I don't have anything against women who stay home and take care of kids. If it works for them, great. But I like my job and the freedom and challeges it provides.
@ZephyrorOG
25 күн бұрын
She's just another woman trying to profit on bashing other women. Sad tbh. If she had any shred of intellectual honesty she would realize that countless women were abused and were incapable of escaping abusers due to not having financial independence. Women can make whatever choices they want, but they have to realize that if you put yourself in a situation where you have no power to leave, you are opening a door to abuse and you are relying on someone else to not turn abusive. They may not, but they also very much may and there is literally zero you can do about it.
@pacov.8300
Ай бұрын
a century of fighting for emancipation going down the drain in just one tiktok
@cecilrhodes2153
7 күн бұрын
If only it were actually that easy…
@Prometheus_Alt
Ай бұрын
There is also the possibility, however, that the man who was once perfect suddenly ditches the woman, so she should have some sort of safety net first
@schweinhund7966
Ай бұрын
It is called divorce. Men who fail the marriage get taken to the cleaners in a divorce! Many men are afraid to marry due to a woman possibly after their financial gains.
@7shinta7
Ай бұрын
"He also gave up a certain standard of living" Exactly. It's not as if it's that easy to feed two or more mouths with just one income if you still wanna have somewhat of a private life and a certain standard of living. I'd encourage my wife to at least work part time for a couple of hours per week.
@taylora8845
Ай бұрын
Staying at home should be an option that can apply to either. My wife is the breadwinner & it works out great. I just don't' think you need to make it a gender thing with who stays home, (as plenty of women have nicer jobs than guys.)
@TheJacali
Ай бұрын
Haha man that ending was spot on 😂
@DavidZ4-gg3dm
Ай бұрын
The career girl has plenty of financial assets. The stay-at-home GF could become broke & homeless any day.
@TheJacali
Ай бұрын
@@DavidZ4-gg3dm that’s why they should get married first. And not move in together and play house without talking about things and making important decisions.
@DavidZ4-gg3dm
Ай бұрын
@@TheJacali So that he's stuck with her costing him a fortune & she can divorce him & take half his belongings?!
@TheJacali
Ай бұрын
@@DavidZ4-gg3dm that’s why no sex before marriage isn’t only to protect the women. It’s also to protect YOU. From women who will do things like that.
@DavidZ4-gg3dm
Ай бұрын
@@TheJacali How does it protect you? She can still divorce you & claim half your belongings.
@pinowlgi4946
Ай бұрын
Both girls have great points honestly. Thought it might be wholesome for a moment with one friend being concerned for the other but boss B just seems jealous :/
@williammatthews5422
14 күн бұрын
The ending is hilarious. Is that really what women say about each other after such a conversation?
@davidward9550
Ай бұрын
Ok, the last part actually made me chuckle 🤭
@kesdasan3603
Ай бұрын
People!!! Mental health >>>>>> shit ton of Money
@k.sxraiiii9597
20 күн бұрын
Having no money or too little money of my own will ruin my mental health🫶🏾
@indiasupportstrumpwwg1wga927
Ай бұрын
I stay at home dad and take care of the children and still control the relationship. I have the best of both worlds!
@hisato1998
12 күн бұрын
Stay at home is just your happy day
@hakuei7530
Ай бұрын
"I'm less-stressed at work, and he's less-stressed at home." Those are the golden words. People don't get it how difficult it is. Divide and conquer is the way.
@m.akif_khan
Ай бұрын
As long as they remain loyal, both would work for me.
@timothygibney159
Ай бұрын
I would love to see a video of a stay at home husband proclaiming this? 😂
@anttikettunen8601
12 күн бұрын
Wow. The comments are hilarious. Hit a little close to home that one, eh?
@JohnFeldman-ss8jo
2 күн бұрын
I absolutely love how down-to-earth you are. You are completely and totally awesome.
@42roadsforman44
15 күн бұрын
No guy is impressed with the strong successful female,.. he's also not intimidated by her
@horsegirlb7120
25 күн бұрын
Bosses don't kill you when you try to leave. The man's quality of life didn’t change at all, he still works but now has a surrogate mother at home taking care of him. He didn’t give up anything, she gave up financial independence. This is a dangerous video.
@quietprofessional4557
16 күн бұрын
Projecting much.
@kendrikhawk7436
Ай бұрын
He totally takes advantage of her. That's how children are made. 😂
@tobigrantlbart
Ай бұрын
How this conversation goes in her head: This video How this would go in the real world: "Oh good for you, hope you're happy" "Yea sure, hope you're happy at work" "Sure am, anyways gotta go back my break is over, have a nice day" "Byee, hear ya later^^"
@mariepowell3749
16 күн бұрын
Yes. Yes. Yes. A thousand times over. Most independent women, unless they hate the husband, are happy for their friends living the lives they want to live.
@mickeyspeer4919
Ай бұрын
The ending lines up perfectly with what Bill Burr said about women never being happy.
@nebula_wolf3132
26 күн бұрын
to the people in the comments, it's not about one or the other, it's about having the choice. we didn't get that in the past, we do now, and we won't give that up
@kc0lif
Ай бұрын
stay at home lady lives a better life.
@WhoisSayge
Ай бұрын
You ever thought about what happens when the stay at home lady gets broken up with?
@allthingsaremadenew236
Ай бұрын
I agree! I've lived both sides of it; working 5 days a week and now I'm a stay at home mom of almost 4. I prefer being a stay at home mom 😊 My husband and I have been married almost 10 years and it just keeps getting better. ❤
@DavidZ4-gg3dm
Ай бұрын
Lazy in luxury - until he tires of her.
@rayh.2700
Ай бұрын
One of the things I appreciate most about my mom was the fact that she didn't NEED a man because she made her own money. When the divorce happened, she didn't have to get remarried right away like many of my friends' moms.
@elmxity_jayvon203
13 күн бұрын
When misery doesn’t get their company
@cjgaming3605
Ай бұрын
Both sides were very condescending in this lol
@tenou213
Ай бұрын
So - for the job you can absolutely assume your company doesn't actually care and you're still solid because of your professional momentum and experience. If you put your career on hold for a partner - that's leaving your extremely vulnerable. At least earn your own money until you're married and a child comes along.
@gustavomeuren
Ай бұрын
This narrative is true *if* the people are good to each other, respectful and loyal till the end. If a couple divorce, on their 40's, 50's, and he has work, has skill, he will be able to financialy provide for himself. If she was a stay-at-home her whole life, she won't. And she'll have to fight legal battles to have alimony. Or even worse, he died. Accidents happen. They have kids. She doesn't have any skill to provide for their family. Only be stay at home of you trust the man with your future! And make preparations for the worst scenarios.
@quietprofessional4557
16 күн бұрын
Parenting is a skill all by itself. The better parents do it, less messed up children grow into antisocial adults.
@Valerie-mw6ih
Күн бұрын
@@quietprofessional4557but this “skill” doesn’t pay rent or food. You cannot even go work at school without a masters degree, so without the guy you are basically homeless, at best with a minimum wage
@Malko_pile
Ай бұрын
Not married, no kids and playing house with a boyfriend for 2 years. Not just career women, but stay at home wives will also question the lack of commitment and missed income opportunity.
@Waterwave37
Ай бұрын
This is…so out of touch. First of all, there’s no assurance here for the non provider in this relationship because they aren’t married. She’s stopping her career completely, no mention of any minor ways of making money just in case. And it isn’t only “what if he breaks up with you” he could die, he could lose his job, he could get seriously injured, and with any of these, you get nothing from being with him. At least if you were married, and assuming he’s financially planning properly, you are entitled to his finances, and have some security. And if you want to get a job, you’re just miles behind where you should be to sustain what is likely an inflated lifestyle from him “taking care of you” Not to mention, most people just can’t afford this, it’s not realistic in 2024.. Lastly, I don’t think if my friend did this I’d end the call thinking she was a bitch or wishing her ill will, I’d just think she wasn’t thinking about the situation rationally. For the comments saying it’s like a boss but he actually respects her…it really isn’t. If you get fired or layed off, you have still had those hours of experience on your resume, you can move on and get another job likely more easily then you did before starting that job. If you tried to get a new bf on the other hand, that relationship experience fors not benefit you whatsoever
@Chaka2014_
Ай бұрын
Lol this is so relatable I had a friend whenever I had something going good for me or just good news or a positive experience she would respond with "bitch" I was like uhhh ? It's hard to be happy for youirself when you're friends are not.. Also she always said she was jealous of my body I was like you're an amazing beautiful woman and person like stop comparing yourself We are not alike for a reason We are all on our own journey Now I have zero friends and have God 24/7 my bf and daughter and I've never been happier and busier actually living my life the way I want ❤
@yhird
Ай бұрын
I tell my 19-year-old stepdaughter to finish her education an get established in her career before settling down. The future economy is bleak and will require both partners to work. If the man gets injured and cannot work, then what? Her ability to earn money during a crisis maybe the only thing that can save the household until the man returns to work.
@AltezzaGang15
Ай бұрын
My girl will not have to work in a year. We’re going to have a kid by then and she’ll be staying at home to look after
@kc0lif
Ай бұрын
only man works
@Kira110lol
Ай бұрын
First.. you have a stepdaughter. Questionable in itself. Then you assume the she will take care of a man in need instead of dumping him the second he won't be able to support himself anymore. That's how women work. And before you try to disagree... You are a stepfather... So unless you are some unicorn exception to every single rule, you clearly don't know any better.
@WiseWordsbyWiki
Ай бұрын
@@Kira110loloh who hurt you?
@autarko
Ай бұрын
@@Kira110lolTrue. They frame it as "so I can leave if he becomes a*usive" or "so I can support the family if he gets injured". But we know how things actually go.
@charliecollings5515
Ай бұрын
People are missing the fact that there a difference between a woman who works and a ‘girl boss’, going to work may be needed, but letting independence go to far can destroy relationships. This is especially true if said ‘girl boss’ is a mother as it can an adverse affect on children, because on natural biology and temperaments. Traditional role reversal only works in the minority of cases. There are other ways to make up missing money, or get an independent ego fix without having a 9-5, and being work obsessed. All in all, if you can’t balance desire with responsibility, no matter your sex or goals, you will fail.
@chriswilson7211
18 күн бұрын
"I just decided to quit once we got serious, I get to live an awesome life chilling at home." ...mmmmhmm.
@tk3828
Ай бұрын
This is 100%!! Boss babes need to stop pretending that stressful life at work is more enjoyable than raising kids at home and taking care of the house
@athenanc.
Ай бұрын
Not everybody wants to raise kids at home and take care of the house. I've watched some SAH that I know got depressed after being a SAH for losing the independence of earning her own money, having to deal with the kids' mess and tantrums, while also fighting with her husband about money. She's currently desperate looking to work again in order to pick herself back up and gain back her self-esteem, self-worth, and basically just sense of self to be her own person instead of just a wife and a mother who's completely dependent on the husband to give her money every goddamn month and begged him not to leave her whenever they fight. Not everybody lives the classic fairytale of happily married = husband work + wife at home
@tk3828
Ай бұрын
@@athenanc. maybe guy doesn't make enough to get what wife always wants? I agree all situations are different, but more than likely she will divorce once she feels she's regained her independence
@tesladrew2608
Ай бұрын
@@tk3828money helps, but it doesn't buy happiness
@minervarose7664
Күн бұрын
I literally hate housework and being at home all the time, it's nice for a few days but i get bored and frustrated after a couple of weeks. On the other hand, my job is super stressful but i love it. Everyone is different.
@oahujuniorgolfassociationc6656
Ай бұрын
She gets to be on social media making videos of herself all day.
@minervadigra3321
Ай бұрын
Yeah exactly! Funny that she doesn't even follow what she preaches... lol 😂
@sturmgewehr449
Ай бұрын
probably earns her money. it's a job you can choose your own hours for, but largely stay at home what's wrong with that exactly?
@oahujuniorgolfassociationc6656
Ай бұрын
@@sturmgewehr449 nothing.
@leminer4049
3 күн бұрын
You look so fuckin good in a suit bruh azula vibes
@Cuda_Clutch
Ай бұрын
Ya, ngl I genuinely feel bad for the “girl boss” sticker club women.
@markharris409
Ай бұрын
I would love to do the stay at home thing. Literally everything about my mental health would be better.
@mjsteward5508
Ай бұрын
Thank you for these short videos Billie. Have a safe day!
@canebro1
Ай бұрын
"He has complete control over you" "I'm late for my meetings"
@riyabhosale210
29 күн бұрын
A huge aspect that goes unnoticed here is a boss pays you to work and you definitely can save up as much as you want to attain financial freedom. Thats not the case if u r working for your man and also what if he dies? You are left with no security!!
@Liquefaction
4 күн бұрын
The worst part is not only the corporate chick not happy her friend is happy, she actively despises her being happier than she is
@JA-xv3qp
21 күн бұрын
Both sides have truth
@startaplin9680
Ай бұрын
Well, for that you have to assume that the husband in question is capable of providing for two people with his job. Which is quite unrealistic for most of the people in this world, adding inflation to the cost of living as well. So there’s that. There’s also the class of the people in question that plays a role. If you are upper middle class, you more or less have a certain amount of money to fall back on or family members that are willing to take you back if (and only if) there’s a situation that could cause a divorce. Middle class women probably don’t even choose to work. They have to. Otherwise what’s the alternative? Being homeless? That’s what this society says, at least. And there’s stay at home women who don’t choose to - it’s simply forced upon them. Without considering the culture around that in every other country in the world. I truly wonder if it’s fair to judge the women who are working. Who chooses to. What would we know about it? And if being a stay at home girlfriend is a choice you can make without hindering your independence (as in the possibility to leave the relationship without it significantly affecting your life / your financial security) then do it. But there is a certain amount of things to consider before making a decision like this. I wouldn’t make it - that’s, well, for one, the only option I do have and just plain survival.
@JayHindo
Ай бұрын
This is actually great writing. there’s a good movie that could be made from that story in the current climate. The “Intransigence of Freedom”
@dil7508
Ай бұрын
Dude that stay at home version of you is loyal never lose her
@KellyAlbright-tg9kz
Ай бұрын
Neither one is right. Pick which one works for you. End of story.
@fatimaalsaabri
27 күн бұрын
Exactly !
@user-wo6xj4se8b
24 күн бұрын
Yeah.... I think it's actually really sad she cares this much about how other people live their lives.....it doesn't affect her at all
@samtye6811
Ай бұрын
Loving yr new presentation style, 2 sides shown. Smart woman. 😊
@francescobondini3051
Ай бұрын
I agree that we shouldn't criticise a woman who is happier staying at home. But at the same time I think we shouldn't demonize a woman who is happier working at a firm. Especially the last line of this reel clearly depicts the office working woman as someone who isn't satisfied with her life, but that might not always be the case. Why can't we accept that some peopke actually like that kind of life because they find it stimulating?
@JoyJoy-cr5us
28 күн бұрын
You can be a BOSS AND be happy in a relationship. 😉
@John-Jay-Allen
Ай бұрын
Best contrast yet between less Stress stay at Home and Boss Babe power tripper!
@plenplen3082
16 күн бұрын
What job is he working cause I want it 😂😭
@russellharris-jp1bk
Ай бұрын
You’re clearly a comic genius
@royalewithcheese09
Ай бұрын
Love that eye roll at the end
@rossolsen7710
Ай бұрын
We need more women like you
@tiffanygrever8092
5 сағат бұрын
Sometimes true, depending on how demanding the spouse is you can stay at home but he still might give you a giant list of things to do then complain like heck if it isn't done right and as for the money you might have to just about beg for it or you might be lucky to get a bank card but you probably will haft to account for every penny spent.
@Luigi2Wild
Ай бұрын
Boss babes are normally the most miserable ones 🤣💯
@poeticeclipse
Ай бұрын
if a woman has a job is she a boss babe?
@Luigi2Wild
Ай бұрын
@@poeticeclipse if we are talking about a promotion then yeah
@WiseWordsbyWiki
Ай бұрын
So was it the girl who wouldn't take you to prom or the time you lost a promotion to women that you're projecting all other woman? Or like have you just always been a bitter man child?
@athenanc.
Ай бұрын
@@Luigi2Wildthey're miserable because they're more assertive, disciplined, and willful?
@Luigi2Wild
Ай бұрын
@@athenanc. those three things are important, however using them as a coping mechanism that you “don’t need a man” isn’t an excuse
@ElyJamesandJamesStreetRockers
Ай бұрын
ya, she's wrong at 'he holds all that cards!' She only pursued those Master's Degrees and such as a woeful voidfill. That's...until he came along! Equals out in the end!
@lovingly4092
27 күн бұрын
I learned that when I do become a stay at home mom, that we should still have some sort of side hustle and separate bank accounts with a joint account. Trust is, of course, key. However there should always be plan a, and b in all aspects of your life so you are never caught off guard. ALSO, apparently a pre-nup is to protect yourselves against the government as well. So a prenup should be made, unless you want the automatic prenup the government set up for everyone
@mariusg8824
25 күн бұрын
As soon as you have kids you are a slave to the family, anyway, no matter if you work or not. Find someone you can trust, have a backup plan.
@TheSBleeder
7 күн бұрын
Wasn't sure where you were going with this at first. I'm blessed to be able to make enough for my wife to stay at home. She is not under my control.
@Quetzalcoatl_22
Ай бұрын
Bruh, two people’s salaries can barely afford rent in today’s economy. Let’s not act like we all can take care of someone and a whole family like we did 50+ years ago.
@Aboguaboga
Ай бұрын
I see where both of them are coming from. One is operating from the place of “anything can happen and I don’t want my life screwed if something does happen” and the other is moving from a place of complete trust in her partner, the stay at home mom does have more risk if the relationship fails
@WiseWordsbyWiki
Ай бұрын
Not just fail like that's the thing we all point out, especially in this case where it's just a girlfriend. So there is no financial support in the case of alimony. But what happens if he dies or is no longer able to work or even if something happens to his career? Like one partner having no work experience and no backup is just unsafe for multiple reasons
@Aboguaboga
Ай бұрын
@@WiseWordsbyWiki I agree, that’s the general idea I was pointing out, that’s why i said the stay at home has more risk involved
@slkjvlkfsvnlsdfhgdght5447
Ай бұрын
ok, but both ways of living are legitimate...
@tobefrank4040
Ай бұрын
Nothing less attractive than a “boss babe”
@jacklaker1939
Ай бұрын
How dare a women be passionate about her career
@Guillelrpr
Ай бұрын
This lifestyle is not possible in todays economy for most people.
@AmyThePuddytat
Ай бұрын
Which one? lol
@325figgy
Ай бұрын
If a woman wants her own job and work that's fine, but don't be demeaning of stay-at-home moms. Most of the ones I've met are legitimate bad@$$es. That $#!ts a legitimate job all on its own, especially when you start adding kids into the equation.
@WiseWordsbyWiki
Ай бұрын
Ironically, most people I know who are like feminist or boss babes or wherever the hell this woman hates don't dislike stay-at-home moms, they just think it's incredibly risky. A lot of them were kids of moms who were stay-at-home and suffered because of it. Either because the mother was stuck in a bad marriage or the family wasn't really financially secure enough to have a stay-at-home parent. Like I haven't really met many boss babe feminists who actually hate stay-at-home moms. We just think it's a very bad idea but you do you. Ironically, a lot of anti-feminists really hate anyone who's not like them though. Despite the "we just want women to have a choice and not be forcing the evil feminist agenda" b******* they spout
@325figgy
Ай бұрын
@@WiseWordsbyWiki seems that way. I understand the 'risk' that women take in letting the man be the sole provider but since each couple is different, that's when we get down to case by case scenarios I geuss. I'm perfectly fine giving women options since I just want people to do what makes them happy so long as they don't infringe on others rights or happiness but they still need to understand that choices/actions have consequences, both long term and short term. Basically, my biggest problem with 'this' whole topic is the women/people who say "only men seem to be able to/can have it all." My answer to that is just, "No, women AND men can have it all. BUT, no one can 'have it all' all at once."
@leonkenedy2988
5 сағат бұрын
No matter where these women go, they'll always be lackey for other people whether at home or work. But the difference between being married at home and being single independent at work is that you at least get compromise and giving up equally with the former. While you dont have a choice with the latter as your boss are the one calling the shot at the end of the day. Seriously, the girls that is less stressful and had it all work out with her husband is the one who gets the last laugh.
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