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@Betterversion09
11 ай бұрын
For those reading this right now, remember, you cannot get well in the same environment that made you ill. Hope this helps you today.
@danjeltv
11 ай бұрын
❤👌🏽
@spaceman513
11 ай бұрын
Yes, it did
@steadyeddie7
11 ай бұрын
You can if you believe in yourself. What other's think of you is none of your business, THE BUDDHA
@ushaiyer3655
11 ай бұрын
Absolutely true.....
@randygoff2563
11 ай бұрын
Brilliant and so necessary. Excessive gentleness can be perceived as permission; a reaction that allows continuing delusion. That is not compassion. That can’t help and I would contend is cruel to others while encouraging arrogance in self.
@katlehomacholo9986
11 ай бұрын
This video resonates with me.... I hate how my gentleness always places me in a position to be used 😭😭😭😭
@MAGAPARIS
11 ай бұрын
Another way of seeing it is that you’re useful if you ever feel useless look back on the times you were used . You have utility. You’re a resource! 😊
@Puuws
10 ай бұрын
not perse, it's probs more your attachement or your genteleness is actually fear of being authentic and part of a fawn response. You can see the truth just as clearly and walk away gently, thete is no opposition there, just the willingness to see and have your sense of fullfillment within enough to walk
@amandacarrion8383
10 ай бұрын
Very true.
@QuestionsanswersaboutBuddhism
4 күн бұрын
How do you balance ambition and the Buddhist teaching of non-craving?
@AwakeningAscendancy135
9 ай бұрын
*The wisdom of Buddhism is like a guiding light in my life. 🕊 It's about embracing the present moment and spreading kindness. 💖*
@amolpawar3186
11 ай бұрын
It is really going to change my life. For the whole of my life I was excessively soft with everyone but unfortunately they took disadvantage of my nature. This story is immensely inspiring. Thank you for sharing. ❤
@InspiraZen.
10 ай бұрын
Thanks for sharing!!
@ggates5371
9 ай бұрын
Although this video wasn't what I was expecting, it's nice to see an approach to Buddhism that's not all “sunshine and rainbows.”
@rachel112263
11 ай бұрын
Sometimes the only way to successfully set boundaries after using all appropriate methods of skillful means requires the use of being harsh. This will ensure the person finally realizes your boundaries which are, at this point, impenetrable.
@Puuws
10 ай бұрын
the only boundrie you need is the willingness to walk away and maybe protect yourself with immediate danger. Someone needing endless/agressive reminders of your boundries usually dont care about how you feel
@innerlightvalley
10 ай бұрын
I am grateful for a great lessons! Sharing a lesson (formular) from my zen teachers so we can apply to solve life problems 1. Listening 2. Understanding = love 3. knowledge 4. Logical or rational 5. Wisdom 6. Compassion 7. Courage
@angeladallimore8079
11 ай бұрын
Wise words ,However it's hard to change your nature ,Sometimes you need to put a hard shell on your back ,certainly in today's world ,As people see your kindness for weakness
@h.r.kustagi6884
10 ай бұрын
I too agree
@EmLightening5
10 ай бұрын
Self Compassion is Key - thanks for the reminder x
@Manike-ub2nw
11 ай бұрын
Thank you for this video. I have been wanting to change my habit of being too gentle. It makes me angry with myself. I have to develop equanimity to help myself in this situation. Namo buddhaya 🙏
@PallasAndDove
10 ай бұрын
But maybe that is who you are. You can’t change your nature.
@marydoccuvi9871
5 ай бұрын
Thank you 🙏
@InspiraZen.
5 ай бұрын
You’re welcome 😊
@NK-jx7oc
5 ай бұрын
This video has changed my life in a way I cannot explain. Thank you for teaching the importance of the middles way and not clinging to the rigidity of being overly gentle. It’s so important to be authentic while being compassionate
@InspiraZen.
5 ай бұрын
Glad it was helpful!
@storyBuddhas
9 ай бұрын
"This video made me smile and appreciate the beauty of life around me."
@LetDeepCricK0
9 ай бұрын
Sir Mera bhi ak channel hai mai bhi inspirational, motivation, life lesson etc related video upload korta hu thora visit korke ou... "Krishna's Motivation"
@enji_artista
11 ай бұрын
Hi there, community. I came across this video a few days ago. I was looking for answers due to way I have been feeling and thinking. My love life is not the best, and meeting a new person gives me anxiety. Anxiety for not corresponding to her, anxiety for losing her, anxiety if I will be target of another cheating experience. I'm almost 30 and feel disappointed that I couldn't get my feeling on track. This video is a relief. And soon, my life would probably continue as it is now. The reason I'm writing this is to raise awareness and unity. I'm not alone, and for those who can help give us a hand. Thank you.
@thomasraven2024
3 ай бұрын
Anxiety is a clinging to what could be and not receiving it, depression is clinging to what has happened and how it was. You got to be here, right now, and stop thinking about the what could be or what has been. Just be you and to hell with the consequences.
@kingmo565
7 ай бұрын
Especially true for the simps! Stop being a simp to women.
@pappathyrackan5006
8 ай бұрын
This story has taught me to go through life accepting how to live abalanced life ❤ Thank you
@beamnelson
10 ай бұрын
It's profound to learn Excessive Compassion = Enabling (that's crippling the person to be stuck in their ruts). Also, that's divine confirmation to emphasize that one can't heal in the place where they got sick, to begin with! God, please expand my horizon & equip me with insights to see my stop line + confidence to execute healthy boundaries. In Yeshua's Name , I pray. 🛐 Amen!🙏
@SadhanaPol-vz2rm
8 ай бұрын
Thankyou.
@InspiraZen.
8 ай бұрын
You're welcome
@starros1
11 ай бұрын
Beautifully presented. May it light the way for our New Humanity.
@Bijou_248
10 ай бұрын
Thank you ❤🙏 This is my new daily aspirational reading - to reflect, ponder and meditate upon. Namaste ✨🌌🕊️
@InspiraZen.
10 ай бұрын
You are so welcome
@LetDeepCricK0
9 ай бұрын
Sir Mera bhi ak channel hai mai bhi inspirational, motivation, life lesson etc related video upload korta hu thora visit korke ou... "Krishna's Motivation"
@motivemystic
8 ай бұрын
Wow, this Buddhist story really spoke to me. It reminded me of the importance of not being afraid to stand up for yourself and not let others take advantage of your kindness. It's so easy to get caught up in being "soft" to everyone, but this story inspires me to find a balance between being compassionate and asserting boundaries. Thank you for sharing this enlightening video!
@stevewiencek1354
10 ай бұрын
While the words here try to point to something, it really leaves everything up to interpretation. Saying "it's wise to set boundaries" it doesn't say which boundaries, when, how much? I don't deny that setting boundaries can help my "well-being"....but how do I decide what is truly necessary and what is just me avoiding things I don't like? Being kind, gentle and compassionate are all practices. If we decline to face situations, we forfeit the practice in difficult times where it might be of most use if we have the courage.
@PallasAndDove
10 ай бұрын
If we focus on the root cause of most of our suffering and become our true selves, those things happen naturally.
@suesmith9665
11 ай бұрын
Chinese budist/I say dont let western changes way of thoughts in your own private pool of ones own journey. Be soft enough to bend and not hard enough to break.
@stephenbrazil6552
10 ай бұрын
Resonatingly profound. Thank you
@InspiraZen.
10 ай бұрын
You are so welcome
@amdeko
10 ай бұрын
❤❤❤❤ i needed this😢😢😢
@InspiraZen.
9 ай бұрын
Glad it helped you!
@lucbedard7564
10 ай бұрын
I've never learn about Buddhist and yet i've been learnning those skill without know it exisit. it must been an natural for me in my domain, I've been self taught since i was 14 in 1976. don't ask me how i knew this
@StimParavane
7 ай бұрын
You are recognising the teachings that you studied in a previous life.
@MindfulExplorations-op7bg
11 ай бұрын
I see Buddhism as more a philosophy than a religion.
@niks660097
3 ай бұрын
That's right, most people try to make him a "god", while Buddha himself said, "everyone can become buddha", its a philosophy of not living life as an animal, instinctual and reactionary, but like a human who has free will, that's why there are 6 paths(state of mind, not real places),Hell- > Preta-> Animal-> Asura -> Human -> Deva.
@RRaavs
10 ай бұрын
Thankyou Pls share more stories about Buddha
@InspiraZen.
10 ай бұрын
We sure will share more stories. Thank You for listening 🙏
@bhaviniparmar9756
10 ай бұрын
We are taught to always be kind to everyone and end up being taken advantage of at times, but this teaching is so powerful! Thankyou again for the wisdom!
@buddhistinsight
10 ай бұрын
Namo Buddhaya🙏
@YaSminCreaTes
7 ай бұрын
This has been my true weakness all my life as a result I have totally isolated myself from people and after the passing of my daughter very recently my boundaries had been totally broken as I was at my weakest point in my life Now I get extremely panicked when being talked to plus most of the talk I am not interested in. I really need to address this issue. Thank you so muchhh
@StimParavane
7 ай бұрын
I am so sorry to hear that your daughter has passed away.
@roscioocasio4385
6 ай бұрын
Namasté! 🕉️🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🕉️❤❤❤💐🕉️
@VirgeinaThornton
11 ай бұрын
Don't be soft to those who are hard on me . Bad influence is the start of a bad tomorrow. Live today like it's the only day and tomorrow will be given to us to choose what we will do we with it.
@Barbywinston
8 ай бұрын
Agree, not be hard and unkind to everyone. being nice you do get walked on by others. But we like people being nice to us don't we?
@kristantianri6596
9 ай бұрын
Thankyou at this moment I desperately needed to hear this thankyou ❤🎉
@InspiraZen.
9 ай бұрын
Glad it was helpful
@Mr._Johns_Productions
11 ай бұрын
Great Saturday morning start
@tracypattin3746
10 ай бұрын
Wonderful! I love your narration.
@PallasAndDove
10 ай бұрын
AI is amazing!
@InspiraZen.
10 ай бұрын
Glad you enjoy it!
@TendoKateregga
8 ай бұрын
Thank you for the wisdom please share more
@janahabalasundaram3480
11 ай бұрын
Very well explained Too honest person always been humited.. Honesty never wins why
@Puuws
10 ай бұрын
it does but its very threatening to many, thats why they lash out. Its not personal
@thomasraven2024
3 ай бұрын
Have lies won? At least if you honest, you can fail with dignity.
@masterchief8042
11 ай бұрын
Randy Orton is Awesome!!!
@prathapuramabhiram
11 ай бұрын
This is a great channel I regularly follow...
@paulemerson4476
11 ай бұрын
The teachings of this brother, not the religion that was formulated by man's opinion of what he said, just like we see in the many denominations of Christianity. Helping me on the path to meeting God Himself.
@kathrynphillips3710
10 ай бұрын
this was so enlightening ❤🙏❤ Thankyou 🙏
@ms.steveygolden1118
11 ай бұрын
Informative ♥ Good research tool's
@andrewbryant6495
10 ай бұрын
Sometimes, it is better to not think.
@StimParavane
7 ай бұрын
Yes, most of the time.
@joeycredible
10 ай бұрын
Listen at the end of the voice narration... "Around ooose...open heeerts" 😂 This video is so valuable. But I'm reminded about balance with levity.
@nilanthamaczilan2145
10 ай бұрын
Very valuable lessons with many more things to get. May you accumulate much merits.
@InspiraZen.
10 ай бұрын
Many many thanks
@zzz5829
11 ай бұрын
This is chatgpt for sure
@lep8622
11 ай бұрын
Tuff Love 💪🏾
@jazziejae1609
10 ай бұрын
I enjoyed this ❤
@InspiraZen.
9 ай бұрын
Thank You for listening 🙏
@sugerlipsxjamiewright4170
10 ай бұрын
You are more than foolish if you take My kindness for a weakness . In reality And I believe that it's is your own loss if you do so. Sadly I don't have to wish Bad on Anyone because I don't believe it to be necessary . nor warranted . It Not something I need in order to achieve peace. I Just do Me . And that is to be happy whenever possible . I don't allow others to determine my approach. By I'll feelings . To me it piontless to let them gain the upper hand on how you best portray yourself and your heart.
@Journey_Sparks
9 ай бұрын
nice
@InspiraZen.
9 ай бұрын
Thanks!
@sushamapethkar483
11 ай бұрын
These are the teachings of Hindu philosophy!!
@heerosanosyuy1173
11 ай бұрын
That which resists is slowly eroded by the running waters
@juliafisher5844
10 ай бұрын
Each person is unique ie there will be a' holes lol .. treat accordingly!@
@gildalaroya5319
10 ай бұрын
Baha’i Teachings is a revival of the Buddhist Principles! Meaning, the fundamental Divine Teachings are renewed in This Day in the One Cause of God, in His new sent Manifestation - Baha’u’llah (The Glory of God)…. eternal in the past and eternal in the future! Yabaha ‘ul-abha!
@jayasathyajai5037
10 ай бұрын
Wisdom n enlightenment 6.31am india
@sebastianwrites
10 ай бұрын
Well, I've tried this, and found the middle way, tried to help... but some people will not even respect the fact you have an alternative opinion. I'm finding women, and met some women I really admire, but others are really very abusive, and as I said won't even accept a difference of an opinion. I've just come out of prison, refused bail, which is why I went to prison and was hunger and water strike because I'm tired of the false allegations of such bullying women. And to be honest, I 'still' don't feel like I've done enough to change things.
@PallasAndDove
10 ай бұрын
What do you need to change?
@sebastianwrites
10 ай бұрын
To not be judged unfairly, and not just unfairly, people's efforts to do the right should be recognised@@PallasAndDove. Certainly, they shouldn't be criminalised, and a man judged on his gender rather than the merit of his character and what he is trying to achieve?
@ThetkhaineOo
10 ай бұрын
🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
@jingerhaley5886
10 ай бұрын
❤
@anonimofied
8 ай бұрын
@0:13 Gotham city buddha
@maluty904_
9 ай бұрын
Are we able to ask about something we need education on?
@arezakkhoshmilan5793
11 ай бұрын
🌺🙏🌺
@shardavajjhala5075
11 ай бұрын
Very hard to implement
@patjackson1775
10 ай бұрын
How do I balance in the middle way living with a narcissist and their flying monkeys
@QuestionsanswersaboutBuddhism
4 күн бұрын
How do you balance ambition and the Buddhist teaching of non-craving?
@DevInvest
11 ай бұрын
🙇🏻♂️🙏🏻🍁
@lalee2009
10 ай бұрын
It is Very misleading to "encourage" non-gentleness. & according to comments here, they've been misled.😢 Be Gentle Always in addition to discernment, wisdom etc. People pleasers & those who've yet to deal w/ their "attachments" may find, not being gentle to everyone, a fake easing of their internal stress. But it's not wholly healthy.
@Iguana2289
11 ай бұрын
How to be hard and not to be gentle ?
@Garry-x4p
4 ай бұрын
T 13:07
@KarabasappaKarjigi
11 ай бұрын
👍🙏
@SecretSage01
10 ай бұрын
What form of Buddhism is this? Not Theravada...would Theravadins approve? I would say practice meditation on the four limitless states (love, compassion, rejoicing, equanimity) and don't care about being soft or hard care about the joy and bliss within yourself that destroys the concern of being hard or soft...enlightenment is the highest enjoyment, bliss, and freedom...think of a memory when you were very happy were you concerned with being hard or soft? What if you could always be happy all the time?
@VickiYJones
11 ай бұрын
👍
@padmanabhapade5887
11 ай бұрын
Is it Buddhism and Zen are same ?
@hithere748
11 ай бұрын
So don't be gentle be compassionate?
@PallasAndDove
10 ай бұрын
Depends on the person. Just do what feels right to you without giving too much of yourself away in the process.
@Ks23l-n6b
10 ай бұрын
If you never had shit in this life, desire less
@kasper-jw2441
8 ай бұрын
i tell my self. dont mistake this for being direct. it doesnt work.
@steadyeddie7
11 ай бұрын
I don't believe the Buddha would approve of so many materialistic advertisements.
@raigikidsvideo1559
11 ай бұрын
Budia born in Nepal not a India.
@Letgojustbe
10 ай бұрын
🙏❤️🪷🪷🪷❤️🙏🌎
@user-btmbangalore
10 ай бұрын
Mothers are too soft, a corrupt mother even more. It hurts the kid, the son of such mother or father will kill her or him for not teaching him to be respectful and considerate, make him realize being responsible and trustworthy makes you very likable and popular. This pampered son will find the world avoids him, wishes he were dead. He has a hard fate. He will one day realize his old parents avoid him too. Now too much hardness is going to hurt a little kid, you forgive many mistakes your kid makes, the punishment or lesson must not destroy the trust he has in his elders. Same is to be adhered to by his teachers. The middle path of Buddha was evolved so as to be reachable to family kind, his hard path for the monk had no relaxation. Not that he was a monk trainer either, he himself had followed the rules that his predecessors found useful. As monks we have to find happiness in the vast, can we be limited in bliss? No. Leave behind the concepts of "I", the "person", these are root for pain and pleasure cycle, break that circle to feel the process, find the strength of this imaginative process.
@diva2k9
11 ай бұрын
Utter confused story.
@baz4098
11 ай бұрын
Not a To The Point video as per the thumbnail
@antoineleblanc2509
11 ай бұрын
Well just read the thumbnail then
@loismoulton2417
8 ай бұрын
We are SICK of the narrator's voice!
@Luckey900
9 ай бұрын
Bunch a Hokum, Limy guy too to make it sound legit ???
@BabbaYagga
10 ай бұрын
boring
@RoxanaKamber
10 ай бұрын
Thank you 🙏
@InspiraZen.
10 ай бұрын
You’re welcome 😊
@jparsit
11 ай бұрын
The West politicians need the East lessons to make world peace. BEAUTIFUL PRESENTATION.
@luckytau6331
10 ай бұрын
You may say that again n again n again n again! 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 Loving Buddha teachings!🙏
@jillpaull2206
10 ай бұрын
I need to listen to this every day. Trying to defend myself from judgement and thinking less of myself for not convincing the perpretrator that he needs to respect me. Seems to happen when Im least expecting it. From my own son. I dont want to talk to him ever again. Again. Thank you for thia video. I will overcome my fears and live my life like someone left the gate open.
@noona9369
10 ай бұрын
Buddhist teachings is so practical. How one can apply in every situation, everyday. Such great wisdom that brings PEACE in today's chaotic world.
@LetDeepCricK0
9 ай бұрын
Bhai Mera bhi ak channel hai mai bhi inspirational, motivation, life lesson etc related video upload korta hu thora visit korke ou... "Krishna's Motivation"
@yeetoner8431
11 ай бұрын
This seems to be a GPT generated script with the prompt being something along the lines of "Write some ways in which Buddhism isnt just about being "soft" to others. Thats why the narrative isnt allignining with the title. GPT just cant reconcile "who should a good Buddhist be hard on?" with the actual teachings of the Buddha. Thats actually really beautiful if you think about it :)
@arjunataylor
10 ай бұрын
Or as Krishnamurti put it “It’s no measure of health to be well adjusted to a profoundly sick society.” It’s seems that Buddha had the same predicament as Jesus, using words to describe the indescribable. The level of education in those days was marginal and literacy was relatively low, so it’s a blessing that much of this wisdom survived.
@MariaTCosta-kz5ry
10 ай бұрын
I do not wish to be part of any religious denomination. However I enjoy such cultures.
@Synchronicety
6 ай бұрын
honesty can be missused. If i hear english i warned.
@ZenInsights-vp8nb
11 ай бұрын
"Thank you for the sharing. It's so inspiring. 🙏👍 "
@nomanalamgir8160
11 ай бұрын
Amazing Video which Voice over AI do u use?
@stevenlafleur8474
10 ай бұрын
Definitely NOT an AI voice. Sorry 😞
@christinalubumad
10 ай бұрын
😂 Thank you for whatever you called teaching , teach . Talking nice doesn’t mean I’m soft or hard . What happened to your thinking or your thoughts. Do you have headaches cuz you keep repeat the same thing . Take some medicine to clear yourself 😂❤✌️
@Osman-bp6js
9 ай бұрын
Admirable values of of his teaching on how to conduct our life wisely in dealing with others.Tq.for sharing valuable moral strength in personal development
@soulhealingquotes
10 ай бұрын
It is your determination and persistence that will make you a successful person.. Good job and all the BEST to you.
@nimmy6468
10 ай бұрын
Yes we were taught by so called society being humble and kind was considered good and end up being thrashed up by these people 😢
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