I heard a line in a movie. "The past is a construct of the mind. What the heart wants is in the present." This way of thinking has been very helpful for me.
@ZacharyStockill
3 ай бұрын
Nice one.
@BrownSpiderAdventures
3 ай бұрын
Yeah man. I’m 57 years old. I began suffering from RJ with the first girl I had sex with (my 2nd girlfriend) when I was in high school (40 years ago). Here I am almost retired age still suffering, but finally dealing with it in a comprehensive and relatively successful way. I suggest if you’re suffering from this, go ALL IN on becoming more mentally and emotionally healthy. You will NEVER be happy in a relationship otherwise. Period!!!
@domeatown
3 ай бұрын
What an interesting problem to have. I have never had it, but thanks for making content to help people who have it. People I've dated have destroyed our relationships with this stuff. Which was a shame. I loved them. The less dudes out here blowing it with people they care for, the better! Would have been a better situation for me, as well. Better relationships for all! Hyperfixation on damn near anything does chase away people who probably otherwise wouldn't even WANT to leave. Glad you are out here helping these folks.
@ZacharyStockill
3 ай бұрын
Thanks for your feedback.
@Andropodos
3 ай бұрын
I havent asked questions in 6months. I feel like days im free then other days im stuck again. Feel like im on the last hurdle of this issue. Any tips for getting past the line.
@ZacharyStockill
3 ай бұрын
Start here, for free: www.retroactivejealousy.com/free-mini-course/
@HigorMatos
3 ай бұрын
I'm in the same boat. I want to be fluent in english to take Zach's courses.
@HigorMatos
3 ай бұрын
Hey ,Zach! If I end my relationship with my wife, will my symptoms go away while I am alone? Please, if you could answer. Thank you for everything.
@ZacharyStockill
3 ай бұрын
Likely not, unfortunately. This is an issue that needs to be confronted head on.
@summerbourne
3 ай бұрын
So, I have certain sexual dealbreakers for the kind of woman I'd consider marrying. (Is that normal?) Stuff like her "number" being too high, or if she'd had unconventional sex (e.g., with another woman, with more than one person at a time), or if she'd cheated on anyone, etc. If my partner isn't willing to answer a question that gets at one of my dealbreakers, should I still not ask it? How else could I find out the information if she won't offer it freely and of her own accord?
@ZacharyStockill
3 ай бұрын
If my partner wasn’t willing to discuss something important to me, that in itself could be a deal breaker. Beyond that, it all comes down to trust.
@summerbourne
3 ай бұрын
@ZacharyStockill Thanks. I trust her and want to stop asking questions. Still, I'm unsure how much I can tolerate regarding the range of her past decisions and how they affect my desire for her and our future intimacy (we're not sexually active currently).
@HigorMatos
3 ай бұрын
@@summerbourneMan... I made a huge mistake to ask one question... After that, I never asked anymore.... but RJ took my mind!
@drewdrewski6278
3 ай бұрын
Here’s the thing from my and many other’s experience - even if you find this unicorn of a person - your retroactive jealousy WILL grab on to the things they HAVE done with other people! Even if it’s one other person!! The problem is entirely inside you!
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