One more thing I want to say , we need to be around with the people who has positive energy. You have no idea how happy we can be when around the good nice positive energy. How out going we can be !
@PSYCH-O
2 жыл бұрын
Very true, we've mentioned this concept in previous videos. We soak up energies, so the INFJ people see is very dependent on the energies they bring to the table. 😅
@ajadoenruffin3359
2 жыл бұрын
THISS!!!! bc once I'm around someone who is always negative or keep saying negative things... I go from 😋🥰😆 to 😐🥱🚶🏾♀️
@user-ry9fu6ob6y
2 жыл бұрын
I kind of sort of agree with that and I'm not trying to step on anyone's toes I'm not trying to make anybody mad I just know that when I was younger I was I was the life of the party I was in the center of everything but now like ever since I turned like 25 I just kind of wanted to be up on the hill looking down and letting everybody else do their thing and it's not so much that I want to be alone but it's just the little immature things people do that set me off. like eating with your mouth open lips and Jaws just chomping tongue smacking
@arvinjohnguevara677
Жыл бұрын
Yeah, INFJs are sensitive and easily influenced by the energy(positive or negative) around us.
@vernonbigham4760
11 ай бұрын
i would agree but also add the every personality type/human needs to be around positive energy
@amore_93
2 жыл бұрын
The hardest thing to be an INFJ is to explain the to others the things you see, you feel that others cant!! Is a struggle
@kimkeck6266
2 жыл бұрын
1,000% accurate! I can see, feel, and sense it all just by looking and hearing. INFJ and HSP pick up on the nuisances and subtitles of everything...at least I do!😳🥴🤭😉
@gloriakatabazi8055
2 жыл бұрын
I'm 29 and I thought I had hit quarter life crisis. I've already set boundaries and starting to engage with the world more. I think I've finally figured myself out especially trusting my intuition and I think I'm better at reading people. Art is my creative hobby and now my new career
@gloriakatabazi8055
2 жыл бұрын
@@MaryDunford 20 teen 🤣🤣🤣. Thanks it's been quite a journey. So many ups and downs. I even became numb at a point. People around me are still adjusting. So I'm I. I hope others can find themselves. Finding out my personality helped a little.
@BryanChance
2 жыл бұрын
Yes!! I feel you -:)
@Stevie671
2 жыл бұрын
Make the most of it and don't take it for granted. Eating peanut butter on toast is not the same at 60 as it was at 30. Drink life deeply Gloria.
@sonjawalkerreactionscommen3501
2 жыл бұрын
I think I'm almost there.
@sonjawalkerreactionscommen3501
2 жыл бұрын
And I'm 25!
@Rev_GC
2 жыл бұрын
Pretty close to on point. Although I think it's vital to note that these developmental stages can leave the INFJ vulnerable to predatory people.
@kimkeck6266
2 жыл бұрын
YES to this! At 18 I fell for a malignant narcissist and just escaped after 40 years and $700,000 of my inheritance...gone! HE stole my intuition, my life, my money, and my daughter who we adopted from CHINA....at least for now - she has door slammed us both! I did not find out that I was an INFJ-T, HSP, empath who could go DARK until 57, and at 58 found out that my Cancer traits read just like an INFJ! I had no idea what was wrong with my ex however I knew something was. Then my daughter and I heard the word narcissist and both of us were in shock...there it was...exactly 1,000%....he is a malignant narcissist! I know without a doubt my daughter is an INFJ too...that is why we could always just be...without him. He was always gone....looking and needing narcissist supply. I feel like I have a PhD I'm psychology. I have always loved it. I am in complete shock about everything BUT I am at peace now because I am free! I could write a best seller detailing my path....I would love too however I am just too tired after living through my entire life. Now I just want to be left alone AND I treasure my solitude. My prophetic abilities have always been very good and now that I know exactly who I am and listen to my Ni - I get proved over and over and over JUST how uniquely special I am!! It is a blessing and a curse! 🌷🙏🌻🥰
@remijiog
2 жыл бұрын
@@kimkeck6266 Sorry to hear that Kim, definitely glad you're doing so much better. I can relate in the sense that I too had dated a narcissistic guy and well he's still attempting to harass me currently. I'm surprised he hasn't moved on but it's gotten a lot better now for me too.
@boyhero3194
Жыл бұрын
I think we need to trust our intuition mre cause it's the main tool we use to detect a toxic behavior.
@jennifergraham5615
6 ай бұрын
Narcissist will never stop unless you go silent or in my my case I told him I was building a case against him and will call the cops on him. He got through all my blocks. Just incredible people!
@Rev_GC
6 ай бұрын
@@kimkeck6266 I wish you nothing but love and peace after all that suffering. Take comfort in knowing that your strength is a guiding light to others that would have gone mad in the same situation. Although my experience is not a "cut and paste, I can definitely sympathize and empathize with your journey.
@Bai699
2 жыл бұрын
I’m 32. I think I’m at the adulthood stage. Im still looking for something I can put my passion in it. And I’m learning to set the boundaries to protect myself and the relationship with others ! And I’m not try to please everyone anymore. And I’m not going to treat Everyone as my friend anymore.i need to be more confident and mean enough to take over the situation, instead of letting my empathy side to make the decision ! Now I’m way more sensitive to read the situation now ! It took me one day at my new job to see how can I make it better and what’s going on in the system, I can tell if a person lying or not in the first 10s.people treat my kindness as weakness. Not anymore.
@coryskaggs4033
2 жыл бұрын
Right there with you
@boyhero3194
Жыл бұрын
Respect
@msmanager2775
2 жыл бұрын
This is why I live this channel. Once more I have gotten to know that I’m not just the weird one because all of the above stages happened exactly bang on time for me. I remember the rebellious age and the very sociable age. Then came the upsets having drawn to relationships even family that uses my empathic nature until I felt rundown and couldn’t give anymore. Then boundary settings and extreme withdrawal which shocked the closest of people in my life. At that stage been dreaming of living like a hermit and run to the Himalayas. I’m in U.K. so that’s quite a move. But now figured at 40 it’s unrealistic to be totally alone besides I like the city comforts 😄. So I found that I can still Live protected by the draining energy of society. I can socialise but when I want to and most importantly I choose the people and topics of conversation I want to engage in. Always someone who tries to emotionally blackmail me into helping them or their causes financially. I tell them straight i am still helping people but not when I’m being made to feel guilty and blackmailed to help. I now know who deserves my help and who doesn’t. I steer myself away from other peoples drama. I help those who are helping themselves to move up from where they are. Not those who are constantly whining about their life and yet doing nothing about or doing things that make it worse. I think I have just started stage 4, I could easily feel and rad people’s motivation. My intuition always protect me to be ‘ aware’ of someone I just met socially or in the workplace. Often , it is justified as down the road, they show their true colours. Thank you for this channel as I found other people who had the same life and I think I just found my community here! More power to your channel!!
@PSYCH-O
2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing, my friend, and thank you for the kind feedback! I think it can be difficult for INFJs to relate to the average INFJ traits that we all know (and love?), because we go through such dramatic stages in life, only truly settling into our intuitive ways later in life. Complex creatures indeed 😅
@DaydrmBlvr
2 жыл бұрын
I agree 💯. I also experienced every single step. Recalling the very actively social time to the point of cutting EVERYONE off. Now after sitting as a hermit for 10 years which people are still in shock about , I've come to my reality that life is good and short and I want to live it on my terms. So with my boundries set I have slowly started doing that. I see the fake in people and it drives me crazy because I'm also Demisexual, go figure, so I'm still reading people like crazy, I just know what to do with the information today where I'm at peace. Thank you for sharing
@KS-nc2ie
Жыл бұрын
Thanks for sharing. I'm 26 and left everything my cooperate job, city life and my possessions and ran away to my parents farm house and cut off from everybody.
@TheBATSnape
2 жыл бұрын
I grew up with overly controlling parents and led a sheltered life. I see today how much that gravely hindered me as an adult. I' am in my 50's and still rely on asking people how to go about doing something I lack experience in.
@najiabushibba8963
2 жыл бұрын
Finally i get it all ....extroverted sensing is the key to live the epic life that has been always swiming in the ocean of our imagination created by our introvered intuition.🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗
@PSYCH-O
2 жыл бұрын
Haha yup that basically sums it up! 😆
@properpsychology1276
2 жыл бұрын
“In order to be open to creativity, one must have the capacity for constructive use of solitude. One must overcome the fear of being alone.” -Rollo May
@danduntz9112
2 жыл бұрын
I’ve been there since 2016 with the help of Wayne Dyer, Anthony De Mello, and others.
@remijiog
2 жыл бұрын
This right here. I'm scared of it though if I'm being honest. I'm 29 living in a city away from friends and family and I just got out of a narcissistic relationship. So it kind of sucks being alone, although I very much enjoy it.
@lillypicadilly4048
2 жыл бұрын
An INFJ that is taught lack and victim mentality by their role models can be incredibly destructive and hard to break free from.
@Stevie671
2 жыл бұрын
Looking back , I remember being struck by my imagination. There were no boundaries, other than the imagination itself, everything was possible, it opened up a rich interior life and it became a critical survival mechanism. Anyway, I'm older now. My message to those early stagers who feel like 'spectators' at life and 'misfits' in society, it will all work out fine. Be yourself, you won't regret it.(Do you have a choice?) As a teen I was always fascinated with the idea of spending my later years as "a hermit in the forest". I still take my place in society but I feel the gradual withdrawal of my senses to just becoming in Nature. Keep your integrity.
@PSYCH-O
2 жыл бұрын
Yes!! And great point, integrity is absolutely key in every stage 🙌
@Levigna1983
Жыл бұрын
Now that I am 40, and definetly in my last stage, I can look back and say this is FRIGGING SCARILY ACCURATE.
@fazzaustralia8932
2 жыл бұрын
I'm 50 and this is100% spot on for me. Thank you!
@user-ry9fu6ob6y
2 жыл бұрын
Best way I can relate to this video let me see. Remember the first movie Saw? well if you've seen the movie and your jaw dropped and layed on the ground for about 30 seconds at the end of the movie when the killer got up off the ground and slam the door shut then you'd know how I'm feeling. I'll be 39 in a week and I'm just now getting close to the third stage and I really really wish that I could have found this video like 25 years ago 30 years ago when I was 9 years old would have been perfect everything in this video made perfect sense and I'm in disbelief that's something I felt for so long and just couldn't understand on how to get it out you were able to do that for me and make me understand better who I am and for that I'm greatly appreciated thank you so much. for about 15 years now I've said I think my real-life job wish to be a detective because it's just so crazy about how much stuff I notice and pick up on almost like its a curse. 99.999% of the time I just want my brain to shut off just stop thinking anybody else feel like just before you lay down like right when you lay down and go to bed but that mind is kicks in and all the sudden your inventions start kicking in if only you had a pencil and paper you could write it down but at the same time you're trying to go to sleep so you try to forget about it but you can't she just keep thinking so stressful
@beauxcarroll8348
Жыл бұрын
I hit all phases late. I am 60 and just starting stage four. Enjoying this part of my life and can't wait to see where I end up.
@svenkaahedgerg3425
2 жыл бұрын
I still have a hard time adjusting to social interaction. I think that it stems from being able to see through people's facades and I usually don't like what I see.
@donaldcook3112
2 жыл бұрын
. . . The key is Sven , don't bother yourself with that ' adjustment .' So accurate and true about ' seeing through people's facades .' Not worth the bother or effort . Saw right through most every teacher from early to mid teens onwards. We just had no way of knowing what we knew at that age in those long ago days . It is all so transparent and have come to understand ... always was .
@svenkaahedgerg3425
2 жыл бұрын
@@donaldcook3112 I know what you mean.
@mortarpestle2487
2 жыл бұрын
My hooman 💕 I hope you'll find your passion in life. I used to suffer from that so-called quarter life crisis. Thankfully, after few years of contemplating, overthinking and isolating myself I finally found my passion, baking. It was a rough road and exhausting but worth it as I looked back.
@BrandyTexas214
Жыл бұрын
I got this result when I had to take the test for psychology class.. I had a traumatic childhood and always attributed my intuition to be caused by never knowing what mood my mom was in and having to judge everyday what would happen based on her mood.
@nedthestaffieegan3452
2 жыл бұрын
It's really sad to reflect on where my life took me as it's nowhere like I'd have liked it to be. Only found out recently and can see how my environment was not supportive or ideal for an INFJ, and I developed mental health issues as a result. The Myers Briggs test should be done with children and adolescents at key developmental stages, especially when they are trying to figure out what makes them happy, to figure out the most suitable career path before choosing college courses. It should definitely be a part of the process of career advice guidance without a doubt, as it makes it much easier to go down the best path for a fulfilling career. Instead most kids like myself choose without having any idea of what they are suited to, and before you know it 20 years has passed and you have wasted it doing a job that's not right for you.
@dbraymore
Жыл бұрын
I married at 25 a narcissist, my development was put on hold as I drank the pain of being with her away, now over 20 years later, divorced and with the help of resources like this and much more confidence life is freaking amazing, I have been on a thrilling ride of self-discovery, these experiences have been compounding.
@boyhero3194
Жыл бұрын
This video gave me hope that i'll eventual be a better person than i am now and i'll finally get to enjoy life, thank you so much. -Infj
@sonjawalkerreactionscommen3501
2 жыл бұрын
Goosebumps. I feel like I'm about to cry. This really made me reflect on my life, and made me realize this is truly who I am! Thank you! The scary thoughts resonated with me the most!
@youtubecommentergal4346
2 жыл бұрын
I'm going to be twenty one this year and I'm starting to become more independent and I'm starting to put boundaries, which is good. It's shocking for my family. 😆
@PSYCH-O
2 жыл бұрын
Great point, people around the INFJ can begin to wonder if they're slipping into a depression of some sort when in reality it's just part of growing into their own character 😅
@Velandonie
2 жыл бұрын
Wow: my life. Thank you, I feel less crazy now. I'm in stage 3, and it did start with a breakdown, but now, even through the confusion, I finally feel I’m going somewhere. Glad to know I’m not alone.
@williamkoscielniak7871
2 жыл бұрын
Terrible bullying in gradeschool made it virtually impossible for me to go through my EF stage in a remotely healthy manner, as I just trembled in fear while in school and eventually stopped going. As a result I became extremely introverted and developed my TI more quickly than I otherwise should have, and thus I lived in a NI/TI loop for a long, long time. By the age of 19 or so I had basically door slammed society and became an alcoholic hermit.
@kimkeck6266
2 жыл бұрын
Well it is up to you now that you can say you are an alcoholic hermit to stop drinking. Please I beg of you! My beautiful smart sister died at 45 from alchoholism. Please do everything you can to stop and take care of yourself! 😔😢🙏
@TarzanHedgepeth
2 жыл бұрын
kim, I am sorry. I finally quit at the age of 37, but I should have quit a lot sooner. Don't be an alcoholic hermit, it WILL destroy you. And those people that damaged you are WINNING by you doing that. I know it's hard, I've been through it. But they're still bullying your mind. Stop agreeing with them and destroying yourself. I say, believe in Jesus so that you can be saved. That kind of assurance gives us an edge in maturity. Don't fall into works based theologies, though, they're dangerous. Just believe and then let the Holy Spirit take over your growth.
@jonahhanes5963
2 жыл бұрын
Bridging phase 3 to phase 4 here. What a ride..
@juice_lime5114
2 жыл бұрын
I don't know that it might be early for my age, but already started stage 4? Stress factors definitely affect the rate of growth for individuals. They pushed me to the extremes in the form of reality breaks TWICE, and I realised that an adopted mindset just wasn't working. Imaginations and reality both exist, there just needs to be acceptance and balance. That's when I really "woke up", and all mental boundaries were gone. But yea, sensing activities like creative arts really help a lot with self-development. The naturally curious INFJ will try to find the meaning behind even their own creations, uncovering more of themselves or the world in the process. That's how it went for me, I found out about myself by decoding my own art as symbols, finding the reason why I made them in the first place.
@Velandonie
2 жыл бұрын
Yes, can relate. The same happens to me with poetry, , sometimes I don’t know why I write something until I read afterwards. much love to you.
@annmowatt7547
2 жыл бұрын
Absolutely true. Phase 2, I was always being sought out by a whole variety of people as a friend and I was happy to do whatever they suggested. I was incredibly sociable, for me, and was regarded as a special friend by all of these people. Then came the withdrawal although I could still be a chameleon but was reluctant to engage.Although successful outwardly in my career, I was very dissatisfied in myself as I saw so many things I found unacceptable as unfair, foolish and so badly organised and handled. I wanted to change virtually everything but I spoke out so often and refused to go along with the others as I disagreed so much that I was seen as a trouble - maker and was side - lined. By stage 4, this need to change things and to help others are my main priorities although I do write now more than ever, generally poetry so that creative apsect - I was always creative in the workplace - has developed.
@PSYCH-O
2 жыл бұрын
YES! Great breakdown of your personal expereinces, totally relatable. Thanks for sharing! 🙏
@prschuster
Жыл бұрын
Music works for me. I have learned to be social, but there is always that intuitive part of me that I can never fully share. It's that hidden talent that I can't explain that intrigues others.
@moose_tracks41
2 жыл бұрын
Again, I’m impressed at how accurate this breakdown feels. Who studied the infj enough to nail down these phases?!
@annmowatt7547
2 жыл бұрын
Phase 2, I was incredibly popular and sought out by all different types of people. I had every reason to be happy as I was also very successful at school, played sports and sang in the choir, loved my family, even had a boyfriend BUT I had suicidal thoughts and wished that I had never been born which I thought were normal. Was this as I was so dissatisfied already with the world systems in general ? Did anyone else have suicidal thoughts?
@Velandonie
2 жыл бұрын
Yes, different reasons though
@DaydrmBlvr
2 жыл бұрын
I am at my final stage and this video helped me understand exactly what I've been going through. Finally I've been less self critical and more understanding of my personal value which helps me to be more social and controlled with my intellectual intuition. . Today I know what to do with the feelings and overload of information I retain. With lots of cognitive therapy and help from other therapists being an INFJ don't have to be so overwhelming and lonely like it once felt. Today I take on my abilities to my advantage and see my surroundings as a mental exercise. We are overthinkers so I empower myself and use that as a positive Today instead of a negative. With all the tools in my toolbox I feel empowered and free in my own sense of the word😉
@boyhero3194
Жыл бұрын
Congrats on reaching your final stage , lm just 18 but i fell like am in my second stage , lt feels so overwhelming sometimes but im trying to take it easy on my self l just need to remind my self that it's not about perfection it's about the journey, I hope i can reach my final stage like you did one day.😊
@blunt92
2 жыл бұрын
i think growing up as an identicle twin it affected my development. she would speak for me and I was her caregiver helping her with her physical delays and challenges. they were concerned with my development but we had our own language and I did not want to communicate with anyone but her cause she got me. I miss her have abandoment and attachment issues. I am about to celebrate my 10 birthday without her.
@gee-wizz.5050
2 жыл бұрын
I'm sorry for you, it has to be a loss like no other! You have to go on though, in whatever way you can make it, just be sure to honour yourself and be kind to yourself, and take whatever time it is that you need to communicate and grow in a way that is authentic to you. Trust is a huge issue for us in general, so cut yourself the slack that you need and acknowledge that that's ok, regardless of others opinions - in other words, "do you" discover your uniqueness. 💛
@juliafloyd7623
Жыл бұрын
I am currently in phase three at eighteen. I believe that this is due to my need for self improvement and my desire to see the truth, not just my perspective. I have a need to see things how they really are, even if I don't like it very much. I feel very fortunate to have been able to have the resources available to learn more about myself.
@Cal1hippie
Жыл бұрын
Extraverted sensing...we do like people and the outside world around us. We just need something to help ground us...the creative use of our hands! Now I understand why I have a fascination with movement, DIY projects and creative outlets. It helps me focus and release my energy in self life giving ways. And this explains why I want a man with strong hands, lol! I am so encouraged because I thought I was a late bloomer, but at my stage of life, I am where I am supposed to be, becoming who I was meant to become!
@Year-tk9ii
2 жыл бұрын
Woahh!! You just summed up and answered some of the questions about myself and my experiences from childhood up to now. I am amazed!! And everything u said is right and on point!!
@BryanChance
2 жыл бұрын
Your points are 100% spot on. I think i’m in the late 3rd phase and beginning the 4th phase.
@PSYCH-O
2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for the feedback!! If you're approaching the 4th phase, don't be surprised if you find yourself going in and out of the 3rd for a while 😅
@allcreativemind
2 жыл бұрын
I'm 37 and I went through a sort of quarter life crisis, not knowing I'm a INFJ. Sensing others emotions, especially the negative, drove me almost crazy. Now I know it was a last stage of spiritual awakening. I went from 100% introvert and shy to now enjoying other peoples company. I even found some great other FJs to socialize.
@tlhogid663
2 жыл бұрын
After almost a year of self-isolation (beyond Covid protocol), I have started dating and socialising again. I also find that I am a lot more discriminating with those I allow into my personal space. I am way better at setting boundaries. I am also 37 and believe that I am experiencing a spiritual awakening.
@Wednesdaywoe1975
2 жыл бұрын
47, and yes, stage 4. I think it was the isolation of Covid that began to turn me outward toward others.
@DanFedMusic
Жыл бұрын
Finding the true God and finding this was my personality type are the first and second greatest moments of my life. So glad these videos exist.
@ariabey7614
2 жыл бұрын
I had no idea that people like me (INFJs) existed, or that this was even remotely close to any "personality type". I'm currently in phase 3, where my mid life crisis is too much to bear.
@moonder96
2 жыл бұрын
Would you mind describing this mid-life crisis .. also i hope u pass it well and that it will be a great source for maturity and happiness
@_ar.ti.facts_byritadrake
Жыл бұрын
Literally just had that talk with myself today about entering my 30s this month. Stage 3 is about to begin 😂 scared and excited 💜🌸😭😊 wish me 🍀!
@hikmadesing3279
2 жыл бұрын
I'm in early 20s i can say now i can be a little selfish and learning to know im the one who need most emphatic side of my side.. ...all my fellow infj please take care your self....
@antjep4643
2 жыл бұрын
Thank you very much for this video! I like all of your videos but this one has taught me something completely new and has been super eye-opening. I'm 20, so right at the start of phase 3, and lately I've been feeling very unstable and lost. You explained well what happened and why and it has already helped immensely! From now on I can act accordingly to this new knowledge and with more confidence. Thank you so much! 💕
@theumentf
2 жыл бұрын
I feel like you are just a decade behind the curb for me but a few years ahead of another infj I know. All and all these phases are pretty accurate but impossible to put an exact time on
@PSYCH-O
2 жыл бұрын
Yes so true, it's difficult to put an exact time on things, but I think every INFJ will go through each stage at different points, sometimes even falling back to previous ones at times 😅
@steveemmins3728
2 жыл бұрын
You guys already know I love your stuff so rather than be repetitive I’ll just give you a big 👍 and say Cheers from Toronto 😎
@PSYCH-O
2 жыл бұрын
Thank you, my friend - always love seeing your kind comments! 🙏
@sonyaleksander2327
2 жыл бұрын
x and a couple more friends @
@KS-nc2ie
Жыл бұрын
This video gave me hope that my life is going to be okay. I'm 26 and left my high paying cooperate job, city life and and cut off from everyone and living in my parents farm house in seclusion.
@debbysmith5346
2 жыл бұрын
I am 63 and have never felt like I belong anyplace. I still don't. A lone wolf, never a part of any pack, never a part of any clique or group. I guess I never will.
@TarzanHedgepeth
2 жыл бұрын
Maybe you belong to Jesus. I am the same way, but that's because I belong to Him. The closest I get to a group of individuals I can be around is other Christians - but only certain kinds. They can't be works-based(for salvation), that grinds my gears.
@Thilosophocl3s
2 жыл бұрын
Lol... definitely all of these phases... but not any one of them complete before moving on, and then falling back to complete the previously undeveloped parts
@lindawallace369
Жыл бұрын
Thank you for this video. I am 49 and I have entered stage 4. I am still learning and am very much an introvert and I have to use my boundaries or I will go too low on my energy. Especially around the holidays. The holidays are my least favorite time. Very exhausting. But I reward myself for enduring the holidays in early winter and spring by taking a class that I will enjoy! This year I will be taking a class about INFJ’s and how to live an epic life! I can’t wait!🎉🎉
@rkoff5744
2 жыл бұрын
I'm wondering what happens if you don't develop in a healthy way. For a long time I thought I was evil or crazy. At 50 I feel I've lost something special and can't get it back. There is little encouragement in self development (where I'm from).
@jasonsaddler3225
Жыл бұрын
Missed me with that theory! Maybe that's how normal INFJs are made.. maybe I'll write a book when I'm done. Or maybe I'll just be grateful to God for how He made me. Really, I still don't know why He gave me all these gifts & talents, but He did. The least I could do is be grateful.
@johnonorato6094
2 жыл бұрын
I'm a 53 year old INFJ and this video really was pretty spot on.
@joshuateh8995
2 жыл бұрын
Yes. I have imaginary friends and fantasy super heroes when i was a kid....and im learning a new artistic hobby in my 30s
@Jinxy1199
2 жыл бұрын
31 and I think you are on point, good to be confirmed that you are sticking to the right path tho’ thanks!
@prschuster
Жыл бұрын
We learn to be more outgoing with age, but that is not the same as being extraverted. Extraversion and being out going, are not the same.
@OneThousandHomoDJs
Жыл бұрын
There were times when I was a kid (two that I recall clearly) when I was talking to one of my peers and part of me was struck by their gullibility or ego about one thing or another. Being all judgey about it for years, I simply made peace with the fact that part of my childhood involved me being kind of a judgmental jerk. Oh well. :)
@missalsharki
2 жыл бұрын
What I need to get rid of is the all or nothing mentality. I’m either 100% or 0%. Yes or no. There is no maybe or in between. I feel like it’s ruining me
@TarzanHedgepeth
2 жыл бұрын
I don't think so. Just be all about Jesus. Believe in Him and get assurance. Then you can be all about Him and everything else will be in proper perspective. Don't get sucked into works- based theologies, they'll ruin you. Just BELIEVE and the Holy Spirit will guide your growth.
@sixpackkorkman8069
2 жыл бұрын
Feels like I've reached (or almost reached) level 4. Awesome af. I've played the guitar since I was 12. I used to criticized my skills as a musician. I don't do that anymore and just let the music flow through me. It's awesome.
@rebeccaellis3128
2 жыл бұрын
I so so agree with some comments that said we I mean infjs would be so outgoing around people with positive energies. I mean I met a person who was a total stranger at the library but she just smiled and let me get in yesterday. I became so much happy although I had a really bad day. you cant imagine how much this kind of little details can affect on ma life. maybe you call it so much emotional person but I call it a better world. with less grumbling and toxic people because that's not exaggerated because that would show people's personality and how they are. even that little smile
@Michael_Lorenson
Жыл бұрын
INFJ children are easy to traumatize through their extroverted sensing. Imagine reading / feeling your narcissistic mother's absolute contempt, as a young child, for example. So the age-ranges of cognitive development stated here can be delayed indefinitely in ways, I would say, that involve development through experience more so than those based on physical brain development. An INFJ can become _very_ unbalanced in the process, and might never get out of the resultant mental maze.
@5iveDeeLiving
2 жыл бұрын
Spot on actually helped me to make sense of why some rings happened and didn't happen in my life as well as why I do and say and feel the way I feel .
@philiphennings5167
2 жыл бұрын
They all sound familiar. In fact I'm 32 and I can already say that I'm entering the 4th stage. For me now life is very free and flowing in such a way that I don't even need to stress or worry about many things. I feel more connected with myself and where my life is going
@MiguelRodriguez-xj8ly
2 жыл бұрын
Dang! This is so accurate!!! 👏🏽
@PSYCH-O
2 жыл бұрын
Lol, thank you for the feedback!! 🙌
@AlbertoVazquez-bi6sc
2 жыл бұрын
😂 I played my life like a discovery documentary of my self listening to this
@jacobpuckett
2 жыл бұрын
This is uncannily accurate...
@user-vq6pm3zz1z
Жыл бұрын
Many of us are not so self aware as you are saying especially with a not so great childhood.
@afriendlysmile2002Backup
2 жыл бұрын
Completely on point except at 20 I'm already getting good at phase 4 and passed phase 3 within a little over 2 years, but the rest was exactly on point with the time-line
@lauraarmstrong5276
2 жыл бұрын
Right on. Been peeking in my life's window.
@caric86
Жыл бұрын
I am stubborn but finally getting it at 36 😅
@vidaflores5532
2 жыл бұрын
Pain!
@Naomi-dz1yp
Жыл бұрын
At 48 I’m a wee bit creeped out at how accurate this is…. 🤨😆
@jamrock7040
2 жыл бұрын
You nailed it Psych.o
@PSYCH-O
2 жыл бұрын
Thank you!! 😊
@harvestn.a.u.1149
2 жыл бұрын
This helps so much!!! Thank you!:-)
@PSYCH-O
2 жыл бұрын
We love to hear it! Thank you 🙌
@tadzamerritt6077
2 жыл бұрын
WF 14 INFJ meets BM 24 NPD in 1991. 2019 and the F stumbles across an article as she was still asking herself the same questions from the 90s. 28 years of stories you can only imagine and add in a 17 year old son and now the F eyes are opened .. who is ready for the book? 😡
@kimkeck6266
2 жыл бұрын
Can you please explain to me in simpler terms what you wrote above? I do not understand it all. 😳🥴😉 Then I can answer you. 🌷🙏🌻🥰
@TarzanHedgepeth
2 жыл бұрын
kim, I think Tadza said, "White female INFJ meets Black male 24 Narcissist in 1991... it's a relationship, there's a son involved, she's been catering to this guy for 28 years, not only that, the son is turning out like the father." It sounds like Tadza became a kind of enabler and didn't see what was happening and didn't feel like she had control and is now seeing the culmination of it all... I think I read your code right, Tadza?
@nikomedessene1592
2 жыл бұрын
Superb. Now i realize and start to love and understand more and more sbout this type as my full being
@dee-lightt8997
Жыл бұрын
Never had any of that scary negative mental stuff or imaginary friends. I had two very real siblings to play with. I don't read people well or their motives. I was very serious as a child and determined to stay out of trouble. Punishment is for those who desire to break the rules. To me that's foolish beyond reason. Can't put every INFJ in a box.
@andrewpearce1723
2 жыл бұрын
Very interesting video, some things make a lot of sense.
@user-ig1kx7fk3q
2 жыл бұрын
I love this channel. Thank You 😊
@PSYCH-O
2 жыл бұрын
Thank YOU for the support, my friend. Kind feedback goes a long way 💙
@spectredivision8971
2 жыл бұрын
I'm 25th on a path of focus, goals, and priorities. And also HAHAHAHAHAHAHA GENOCIDE !
@danielbast352
2 жыл бұрын
Infj. When the emerald tablets of Thoth make sense to you. Psychedelic version. 🙄🤫✌️
@joyreinhardt7621
2 жыл бұрын
Yes, I do seem to fit into what is described at 7:43 min where it has taken me well past the 'typical' 35 , and up time period. ( I am close to 70 years old ).
@gee-wizz.5050
2 жыл бұрын
Same here! For me, I was trapped for decades with a nark who squashed any development - that, coming off a traumatic childhood has massively held me back - and yet, now in my mid 60's, I see myself finally, unavoidably catching up after all - perhaps it's inevitable 😄👍
@tressarose9909
2 жыл бұрын
I’m wondering what can happen when there is abuse in the INFJ ‘s first developmental period?
@johnnyavilaJourneyman
2 жыл бұрын
This is me... wow ...my life in review!
@christinajanejulian6645
2 жыл бұрын
Very much so I am 52
@aristhelynranalan2161
Жыл бұрын
so me.before I thought im abnormal😊.Im just okay.😁
@kurtking8452
2 жыл бұрын
Yes they do.
@godlovesyousomuch5894
2 жыл бұрын
I feel sorry for INFJs
@Jinxy1199
2 жыл бұрын
Don’t feel sorry, appreciate us
@PSYCH-O
2 жыл бұрын
Haha every type goes through their own stages in life and the transitions are rarely comfortable 😂
@TarzanHedgepeth
2 жыл бұрын
Hey, God loves you so much, indeed. Thank you for those feelings about the INFJ, they're true, LOL. But with Jesus, we can have assurance. So it's all good, it's just a little rough.
@joeyidc3212
2 жыл бұрын
im 27 fits pretty well .....
@battysky6458
2 жыл бұрын
I'm in phase 3.
@jeanross7430
Жыл бұрын
Pretty accurate.
@gabrielpaduano1748
2 жыл бұрын
Familiar
@Unsafe202
2 жыл бұрын
Familiar, yes most definitely ! 😁
@ChristianGuilbert
2 жыл бұрын
I’m between stage 3 and 4.
@EwaGardiasz
2 жыл бұрын
Thank You
@ArcadePerfect
2 жыл бұрын
Do U not find it 'spiritually' rewarding in such IV clarity???
@TarzanHedgepeth
2 жыл бұрын
In Jesus, yes. Very much so.
@ryanceryance5159
2 жыл бұрын
Yesssss!!!
@dalejohnson3036
2 жыл бұрын
It's the sandman story, the land lord child mother only trying to frighten me with the sand man , thus is a male sigma INTJ , quote A vase broke , Dale who broke the case, I don't know it mist have been the sandman and all imaginary talk of sand men were never mentioned in that house I'm mordant
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