I am Puerto Rican, and when I dated a Black lady I was frowned upon and told that it was not happening, We dated on the down low for 1 month, until my father caught us and asked us both what do your Parents think of you dating my son, You can't hide it forever , 1 week later they called my Parents and told them , I was not welcome in their home and they did not want THEIR DAUGHTER, to be welcome in our home, my Mom told them she would never turn no child away no matter what race or nationality . Both of my Parents look white , I was the only child of 9 that had a bit more Mellon. I was the dark 1 in the family. I was discriminated by the whites and Blacks .
@MeMyself984
Ай бұрын
Also, men of other ethnicities seem to prioritize marriage and family. They understand how to build wealth through prioritizing developing their skills and education, marrying good women who have similar values, and building wealth based on all this. It’s very sexy 😏
@curtissmith2398
Ай бұрын
This seems to be a very generalized statement. I've been married to a Black woman for over 3 decades, and we certainly know how to build wealth, and we are both extremely well-educated. Might need to dig a little deeper...
@MeMyself984
Ай бұрын
The difference between BM/BW relationships and WM/BW relationships may be the psychological dynamic. Maybe the WM show more emotional intelligence? Maybe they are more willing to do the things the BW wants to do. Maybe he shows up for her more than BM do. I know I’ve had to pull teeth to get my black boyfriends to do things I wanted to do and when I dated a white man all he asked was when and where.
@degrerickjenkins1617
Ай бұрын
And you still can’t bag one
@MeMyself984
Ай бұрын
@@degrerickjenkins1617 and y’all still mad 🤪😘. This is why y’all ain’t going nowhere as a collective. Just too petty to do better
@BlackTalkTv
Ай бұрын
My daughter knew at the tender age of 14 not to never brig a white boy home..WE dont race mix. And i keep preaching this to her very frequently. We not diluting the dominant superiority of our black genes over here..Never understood why black people would want to WILLINGLY dilute their dominant genes.
@MeMyself984
Ай бұрын
Playing devils advocate here: Black men have diluted the genes on a scale so large the NBA draft looking too different. There are so many single sistas out here, not b/c they’re bad partners or unwanted as so many BM will say about us, but because the pool of good BM is small and so many date out. So are we to stay single like we’ve done over the decades since we are so race loyal or do we go to the other side and date/marry out so that we can have a chance at marriage? I think people should leave BW alone. We mbr our business. When I go on date with WM, BM stare at me like they crazy. But many BM enjoy interracial dating and no one bothers them.
@curtissmith2398
Ай бұрын
Interesting. Growing up my mother instilled in me that I was going to marry a BLACK woman...period! Today, as a father, looking around at the state of Black boys, I'm not going to tell my daughter that she has to either lower her standards or be alone. Numbers don't lie. What percentage of young Black boys go on to college? What percentage finish college? I see a different time, a different set of cultural values and norms. Weed smoking is cool these days. Playing X Box and Playstation all day is what's happening. Black women look around the C-suite and there are no Black men. They look around from their positions in academia, and there are no Black men? Are they supposed to be lonely because Black men aren't stepping up and educating themselves?
@BlackTalkTv
29 күн бұрын
@@curtissmith2398 this is false. i went to norfolk state univ. Now, at every single university, the women outnumber the men and rightfully so cause there are more women in the world then men. However, there are a whole hell of a lot of black men who attend college every year. Of course the same amount does not graduate as enrolled, but black men are still graduating at a larger rate than black women. Stop listening to what black women say. They are the most ENROLLED, not the most educated. Those graduation percentages for black women fall off a cliff compared to the number enrolled.
@silvabakx6396
Ай бұрын
No wife Happy life 💰😇
@MeMyself984
Ай бұрын
I say the same about husbands 😂
@silvabakx6396
Ай бұрын
@@MeMyself984 we're a match made in heaven. let's just shag into the sunset until it's all said & done, then keep it pushin, like normal single ppl... yeaaa baby yeaaa!!!
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