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@LoveLaRieXO
Жыл бұрын
Your merch is always🔥🔥🔥 The blue you're using is the perfect shade! Also, I don't know who this girl is, but she was COOKIN' at 24:40. She lit their behinds UP. They were speachless... that was all I needed to see. 'Cause I have seen them going IN on women and she left them speechless. LOLOLOL! K, back to the video....
@WWJD-MIA
Жыл бұрын
Why would Giselle’s father give her colorism lessons? Many of the civil rights activists unfortunately were perpetuators of colorism and chasing whiteness unfortunately. RHOP is triggering as a DSBW to say the least and I’m proud of you Kim for speaking up in this topic.
@PinkCloudsClown
Жыл бұрын
The civil rights movement was actually about black males fighting to have the right to marry white females so it’s really not surprising those “activists” are colorist
@ketoandcouture
Жыл бұрын
come on in with this word. lets be for real.
@smilealwaysnatasha3423
Жыл бұрын
Really? I’ve never heard of this
@real_abiola
Жыл бұрын
Don’t forget that’s why we got Rosa parks. It was colorism and the male civil rights leaders pushing that Claudette wasn’t good enough because of her look (her words) and Rosa parks would be more acceptable to wp (they really meant bp).
@Shay416
Жыл бұрын
Yup forefathers of colorism lol
@itsyourgirltee3754
Жыл бұрын
The irony with all the colorism on RHOP is that the women who would be deemed the most desirable have the most tumultuous and unstable relationships/marriages.
@arianna5270
Жыл бұрын
It makes perfect sense. Their personalities and value have been tied up in their desirability so their relationships didn’t have substance outside of that.
@isharamsi2595
Жыл бұрын
@@arianna5270 Well said. Just a Trophy basically
@DorothyDandridge
Жыл бұрын
Yes but it’s also the type of men they attract…you do know Giselle ex-husband Jamal Bryant the pastor? No woman would have any success with this narcissist lying cheat yet Giselle believed in her pretty privilege which lead her to believe otherherwise she could somehow tame this man
@myyoutube34
Жыл бұрын
I genuinely believe their toxic relationships is their payback on being shitty colourists. I don't ever feel sorry for a woman who puts down other women when she gets shitted on.
@queenbeaute9967
Жыл бұрын
U kno what they say real pretty women are crazy
@madmann1000
Жыл бұрын
Giselle father is a light skin creole man from Louisiana, who married an even lighter skinned creole woman. Their entire identity and upbringing is the epitome of colorism.
@preciousaryee2901
Жыл бұрын
Thank you for this comment! I was thinking this when Kimberly mentioned her father. You have to be rooted in Louisiana (and Mississippi) culture or know the history to understand the colorist culture inherent in the traditions beginning in the founding of the state by the French. Surprised Gizelle married and had children with Jamal since he looks darker skinned. I know television makes Black people appear a couple shades darker than in person.
@brooklyndecember
Жыл бұрын
@@preciousaryee2901 No those bright tv lights will make you look lighter at times it anything. Contents creators with their ring lights all look way lighter on screen imagine high level pro lights.
@Mariah203
Жыл бұрын
@@preciousaryee2901 surely because of his status.
@preciousaryee2901
Жыл бұрын
@Mariah203 I thought about his status also. Don't know much about him but a preacher seems on the lower end of the totem pole and he's darker. I know he's big on the East Coast and in Atlanta but hadn't heard of him prior to this show. It wasn't like he was T.D. Jakes or Creflo Dollar. Was just shocked when I first started watching (no longer watching) the show.
@preciousaryee2901
Жыл бұрын
@Verde Lane I understand. Whenever I see celebs in person, they appear lighter, shorter, and definitely skinnier. Now TV does put a few extra lbs on you. That I know for sure. Anyways, couldn't believe he was her ex-husband and children's father. Can you imagine her as a 1st lady??? I sure as hell can't based on what she portrays on that show.
@ebonih7138
Жыл бұрын
The weirdest thing was if the cameras weren’t there, this really could drive wedges in people’s marriages. Sinister behavior.
@kic.7679
Жыл бұрын
“I mean of course their husbands want us, we’re light skinned!” Said all the light skinned women on Potomac. And that’s what they really think..they’ve automatically got one on the darker women. It’s so nasty. It’s like watching white people act like racism doesn’t exist. And I understand it’s not right to speak on peoples looks, but Deborah, get real. 👎🏾 I can’t even watch Potomac anymore, it’s stressful and not fun. The gaslighting is too much. I’m disgusted by Gizelle, Robyn and Ashley. And the irony of these women thinking they are better than the dark skinned women, meanwhile, lusting for their lives and husbands like theirs. It’s a joke.
@canduscanty8583
Жыл бұрын
Honestly it is really sad to see them in the state of bondage they are . And it's really sad the people that are impacted by this just sad
@mikamika2508
Жыл бұрын
This is sooo on point... I dont talk about looks but sesame street is not all that just cause she is lightskinned bull... Lightskinned is not always pretty... And Candice said Gizelle is beautiful but she is a shell with a bunch of nastiness inside facts...
@eleciastewart
Жыл бұрын
The joke is that the women they are attacking or feeling that their better than are in seemingly good relationships.
@maryqueenofscots3006
Жыл бұрын
Who has been filling Gizelle’s head that she’s beautiful? Sounds like dark skin BW promote lightless and cry when those women tell them they are better. I can’t take BW and their self hate and vicariously living through light skin women seriously.
@eleciastewart
Жыл бұрын
@@maryqueenofscots3006 we not all like that. I love all the hues of us. Stop perpetuating that we all are like this. Sick of reading it.
@Kharyne
Жыл бұрын
We all know a lot of civil rights leaders and organizers are definitely both classist and coloristic
@kic.7679
Жыл бұрын
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@loriamonique
Жыл бұрын
Periodddd!!!!
@vfr3589
Жыл бұрын
I thought y’all wanted dark skin people to stick together
@seachelle2316
Жыл бұрын
@@vfr3589 bad bait, try harder
@Unknown-dj6xc
Жыл бұрын
@@seachelle2316fr
@cee2cee
Жыл бұрын
Getting a man is not an accomplishment but getting the man you WANT…as a life partner,husband, father of your children is an accomplishment, who you partner with as a WOMAN or MAN, who you procreate with is one of the most important decisions you’ll ever make in your life.
@wahoo4uva
Жыл бұрын
what you describe is a decision (your word) - a very important one! (as you said) - it’s a lifestyle choice and maybe a blessing but NOT an accomplishment. there’s a difference.
@SailorMoonicorn
Жыл бұрын
“Men have been socialized to believe that women are just tools for their self-actualization.” Hoooooo Lordy do I gotta sit down and process that sentence in the context of my trauma from men.
@alexandrahendrick4352
Жыл бұрын
Crying over men is senseless, espeacially when you are in your 20's. Men are sociopaths for real. Some of them actually enjoy your pain. The more you cry and chase them, the more they want to hurt you, it feeds their ego somehow... sick! I say move on, the quicker the better.
@yoki1234
Жыл бұрын
I agree with this so much.
@MesheherKim
Жыл бұрын
Brittany is a classic tale of the 30 + women. They always get desperate and switch up. I can’t tell you how many 40+ women I know who get pregnant by extremely unavailable men who don’t even care abt them and the child just to have a baby. We women needs to stop doing these things to ourselves. Brittany wants a “husband” now. She’s a single mother and I’m guessing finding how hard that is. It’s very cliche but we see it all the time. More often than not.
@ashleyb.8217
Жыл бұрын
True
@adaezez8378
Жыл бұрын
@@MesheherKim you are very clearly a man trying to push some kind of agenda in these comments
@ageofaries6185
Жыл бұрын
Why do people listen to Brittany Renner? I’m so confused. She’s famous for what? And when women like J-Lo and Halle Berry, who obviously stay in the gym, have been cheated on and discarded, did staying in the gym really serve them well in the romance department? And who stands around waiting to be “picked” nowadays? Just some silliness that Brittany’s pedaling, a throwback to a time I thought we were getting away from. But go off, Brittany. Guess that truly great man you’re with right now is proof? I mean she stays in the gym. Where is he?!!
@moustik31
Жыл бұрын
Exactly. Add Derrick Whatever and that host of the morning show. Some men are only loyal to themselves: being picked =/= being loved and cherished.
@yougotgamesonyourphone6947
Жыл бұрын
As someone who is really into lifting and goes to the gym 5/6 times a week, having a fit body got me fetishized and sexualized before being romantically wanted. It really doesn’t help as much as the community keeps pushing when it comes to dating. I know people that have never been in the gym or look “fit” that have happy marriages. It’s just another thing people are adding to their “pick me” list
@magdalaone
Жыл бұрын
@@yougotgamesonyourphone6947 exactly.
@eleciastewart
Жыл бұрын
No one is listening to B Ren. It is these commentators giving her light. I didn’t even know who she was before yesterday while watching Lovely T and then again today. No hate, but I only pay attention to whom I would follow the footsteps of and even then, I move with caution and stay true to me and my spiritual guides. Did you know of B Ren before? Maybe it is just me.
@MayMay-el4wg
Жыл бұрын
Kevin Samuels made her famous and shuffled her off to Deion Sanders who had her give some kind of crazy speech to a group of black high school guys. My husband and l laughed for days because Sanders damn sure wouldn’t have brought her anywhere else to give a boys talk! Rennes is also biracial with a white mother!
@timaal5897
Жыл бұрын
Whenever I feel that I'm wasting my 20s you always get me so excited for the future for the woman I'm going to be at 30, 40, 50
@sheenabees
Жыл бұрын
RHOP was built on colorism. You had to squint to determine the races of the women during the Season 1 lineup. This was absolutely deliberate. People don’t voluntarily abdicate their privileges. Robin and Giselle are attractive women but they are no more physically beautiful than Wendy or Candiace… and Wendy and Candice are FAR MORE INTERESTING and TALENTED. So, yeah, violent and unwarranted attacks ensue.
@kic.7679
Жыл бұрын
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@nahlabricolage-rapartmusic6504
Жыл бұрын
I really thought Robin was a white woman with a tan during the first season until I saw her dad 😂!
@bydivadream
Жыл бұрын
Very good points. Also... it seems to gone under the radar how Monique's complexion was drastically different in seasons 3-5 compared to season 2 and then the season 5 reunion.
@zeetuslupeedus
Жыл бұрын
The first time I saw the Potomac women in a photo I was like Oh! They got a white lady on this one. Thinking Robyn was a white lady this whole time lol
@helena4440
Жыл бұрын
@Séverine Rosalia M. I'm white and trans (which is why I will never support Candiace and her transphobia regardless of looks) and to me Candiace and Wendy are the best looking along with Monique yes. Gizelle as well I do find beautiful but Robyn is plain to me and Ashley...no comment
@monimuppet6132
Жыл бұрын
I knew there'd be a handful that disagree with the Girl's Trip section. It's about common courtesy. Regardless of gender or sexuality, inviting someone without the knowledge AND consent of the other guests is rude and immature. That friend becoming violent does not make the other's actions any less disrespectful. Two people can be wrong at the same time. Your romantic partner is YOUR romantic partner, not mine. There are things I'm comfortable speaking about and ways I'm comfortable being around my friends, but your partner is NOT my friend. And let's keep it a buck, ladies, don't pretend as if you don't expect your girls to censor certain behaviors and discussions when your man is around. Stay home if you don't have the ability to respect the plans that were made.
@FromMiamiWithLuv
Жыл бұрын
I agree, I feel like I have to not just censor myself, but to coverup more when a friend's significant other is around. It's honestly annoying when the original plan was for a girls' outing/trip.
@ten2pat
Жыл бұрын
I also thought her man brought other people with him. that would rile me and the recording to try to paint a different scenario. there's an assumption because one is cool with each other that that automatically extends to each friend's own circle of friends.
@soroyale7805
Жыл бұрын
Well said! My thoughts exactly!
@meditationmindbodysoulmusi1195
Жыл бұрын
Ok but to physically attack your friend over it? Girl bye
@monimuppet6132
Жыл бұрын
@@meditationmindbodysoulmusi1195 Did I condone the violence? No. So who are you saying 'bye' to? Her upset doesn't become illegitimate because she got physical. And the friend's disrespect doesn't dissipate because she got physical either. Can you only comprehend in the binary? Can a situation only be 'this' or 'that'?
@Loveviajanika
Жыл бұрын
As a queer woman I would also say that my girl is not invited to a trip that is supposed to be devoted to me and my homegirls. I don’t even think it has to be such a gendered dynamic. Respect your friends and the plans you’ve made.
@TheSomethingnew1
Жыл бұрын
I love this. These conversations often overlook the perspective of queer couples. I think people just assume that queer relationships don’t have the same type of conflict.
@Tobi_Eros
Жыл бұрын
@@TheSomethingnew1 I think Kim prefers not to talk for or over the rainbow collective that's why she stays in her hetro lane when it comes to the romantic relationship conversations.
@monimuppet6132
Жыл бұрын
Agreed. Romantic partners absolutely change the dynamics, the comfort levels of everyone else. If you can't be without bae for a weekend then just stay home.
@TheSomethingnew1
Жыл бұрын
@@Tobi_Eros that’s fine and absolutely understandable. However I wasn’t limiting this to her. Whenever topics like this occur on social media, it turns into a gender war or gender bashing. It’s just always refreshing to read other perspectives because I’m not queer lol.
@backtalk9343
Жыл бұрын
I'd feel safe if she was around though, I'd be disappointed at best. The conversation is gendered because gendered based violence always has to be factored into shit like this.
@crystalpowell8619
Жыл бұрын
I had the opportunity to attend events with some affluent Blacks and I was appalled by the colorism and pretty privilege (white supremacy filtered through us). I thought that these intelligent people would not allow these ignorant tropes to stagnate them. I was most troubled that the next generation of black daughters born into wealth would be learning this.
@kic.7679
Жыл бұрын
Because white standards still have a lot of Black people in a chokehold. Still reaching for white greatness or adjacency.
@RVince-so5vg
Жыл бұрын
Which confirms that Blacks aren't as intelligent that they portray themselves to be because actions speak louder than words. If Blacks were truly woke... it'd be reflected in our actions, lifestyles, communities, the new generation, our words, politics etc.
@arianna5270
Жыл бұрын
Yoooo I was apart of a Black debutante organization in high school and they let a mestiza Mexican girl in my class and the way these HBCU educated elders were FAWNING over that girl and the ways she looked was so shocking to me. Like this is supposed to be the center of Black beauty leading young women into Black succes but at the end of the day they just wanted white adjacency because that’s what that elitism is at it’s root.
@MayMay-el4wg
Жыл бұрын
@@arianna5270 …high school? Was it some school sponsored event? Or perhaps a sorority linked one? Debutante balls have a specific purpose and therefore are mostly generational and have nothing to do with outside institutions and organizations. They are privately funded and by invitation only. More importantly, they are family-oriented.
@arianna5270
Жыл бұрын
@@MayMay-el4wg What about what I said was confusing? 👀 I came out my senior year of high school, hence the “in high school” portion of my statement. It wasn’t a school sponsored event it was held by the local Black Debutante organization and what does any of this have to do with the internalized anti Blackness I was discussing? 👀🤔
@LotsofLisa
Жыл бұрын
Speaking of black activist families who having stupid descendants, their queen is named Porsha Williams of RHOA, who thought the Underground Railroad was an actual train with actual stops…
@bronzebomber814
Жыл бұрын
*LOL*
@marie2511
Жыл бұрын
That statement/question from her set us back 🤦🏽♀️. Porsha seems cool to hang out with, but is a pretty idiot. I was SO hoping that statement/question was scripted.🤦🏽♀️
@LotsofLisa
Жыл бұрын
@@marie2511 I don’t know what that I thought. I just know the other cast members aren’t geniuses either, but there just got quiet, mouths open and looked at her like, “girl… What!?”
@tanettacaleb7767
Жыл бұрын
Well I don’t know…I don’t really follow these HW franchises (especially bc of the colorism) but is Porsha just a product of our missed up education system like many? I am a mother of a child in public school and even though I am a product of private school and a public school education-these history lessons are a mess! I didn’t think the UG was a train with stops but I didn’t fully understand the significance, networks and how it fully operated until I did my own extensive research in the pandemic-like I am sure many did because all we had was time! The interesting think is why Critical Race Theory is not a conversation we are having while others are. History is getting worse and whyte washing is getting more intense-trust me I live in a Republican state that is constantly romanticizing these slave masters. And the argument is always-well you need to teach them at home! But I feel this is a shaming tactic because your tax dollars should mean something! That is why these Republicans are fighting so hard to make sure there children feel good because they feel if I am paying for it by way of taxes you teach what I say you teach. Not oh I will just teach them at home. And while we are at it colorism should be taught in school! Here is a helpful tool I wanted to share. There is a lot of psychological damage that needs to be addressed to heal! heritagemom.com/2020/09/03/teaching-colorism-the-power-of-a-story-part-2/
@So-what692
Жыл бұрын
That scene was embarrassingly hilarious 😂
@molivie1624
Жыл бұрын
That girls trip video was very disturbing. She was def wrong for inviting her man to the trip without at least asking if it was okay and the other woman was definitely being too hostile and aggressive she could have expressed her feelings without getting violent.
@DorothyPrince1
Жыл бұрын
"making your own money is undefeated" first of all FELT - men do not care about women - to be at the mercy of someone else - a MAN no less - is a clear risk, and one that "mOdeRn" women have the luxury of avoiding!
@monimuppet6132
Жыл бұрын
Fr. I don't understand why it even has to be a debate. In a system that's engineered and not naturally occurring in the first place; how you gonna tell me that I'm supposed to depend on a man? And before someone comes in here with their perfect man story telling me to "choose better", it ain't about finding a good man. It's about my autonomy as a human. My right and desire to find my own path and then MAYBE find someone to share with romantically. I just do not have time to make some fantasy construct, conjured up by people that have long been dead, the center of my existence. It doesn't matter if I don't make a lot of money. It matters that it's mine and it gives me freedom and options.
@adaezez8378
Жыл бұрын
Yep. Truly forever blessed for that.
@natalierose1072
Жыл бұрын
I think Brittany saw how much money/attention she could get pivoting to whatever current version on herself she portrays herself to be. Plain and simple.
@Sto0necO0ld
Жыл бұрын
I didn’t know how to say it but THIS. It feels too convenient. I Feel like alot of the sex positive/liberation conversations are backfiring and and people are no longer subscribing to the message. she needed a new gig
@UrbanDecayLova247
Жыл бұрын
@@Sto0necO0ld it always happens - there’s been a lot of talk how Gen Z talks like Baby Boomers. Just one extreme to the other 🤷🏾♀️
@appealingtodasenses
Жыл бұрын
I am confused about why women keep calling her ugly like men don’t cheat with ugly women. My issue with her is her lying not her looks and we as women who don’t want to be judged based on how we look shouldn’t continue to use “she ugly” as an argument on why Chris couldn’t have done it versus the bigger discussion of what people will do for a bit of fame and money.Deborah is willing to ruin a marriage just to be on RHOP and that is sick and speaks to clout culture
@aminaa208
Жыл бұрын
One thing about men, they will cheat on their pretty wife/girlfriend for a uglier girls with a nice body. Men also sleep with anything.
@brieoliver
Жыл бұрын
Her looks are part of the conversation because she's made them part of the conversation. Chris wasn't even talking to her at first. Didn't even know that lady existed yet she concocted this lie around her desirability and how these men were flirting with her and acting like they were single around her. That's why her looks are now being talked about. She's delusional.
@addictiveone4616
Жыл бұрын
@@brieoliver 💯💯💯 exactly !!!
@kic.7679
Жыл бұрын
@@brieoliver Precisely! And I don’t care about people addressing her looks because she is completely lying on someone that could potentially hurt them in real life. So go after whatever, it’s all fair game at that point.
@appealingtodasenses
Жыл бұрын
@@brieoliver the issue is the lie not whether she was desirable enough for it to have happened or not. People are conflating the two. She is lying so she can be part of the show not because she thinks she is soo hot that all the husbands want her. That’s the narrative people are spinning cause they want to call her ugly and delusion.
@riruahm2960
Жыл бұрын
I am getting out of a marriage that I depend on my partner for financially. I am so glad I am making my own money. There is nothing better than financial independence.
@cuzinangel2355
Жыл бұрын
So the girls trip thing....I literally don't understand why some women can't be without their (man friends) long enough to go on a trip. I think it's annoying and weird and I wouldn't go on another trip with them.
@shellymelly1828
Жыл бұрын
But it’s never worth the beef
@urmamasmamasmama
Жыл бұрын
I think it's about insecurity. they don't want to leave their significant other alone ,bc they don't trust them
@imo.124
Жыл бұрын
I love how you discussed this at 16:31 explaining "delusional colorism". Perfect term and it definitely fits someone like Gizelle and the light skin crew. I must say the attitude there is these dark skin women on Rhop have husbands but they desire US light skin women. I actually had a light skinned friend like this and I had to cut ties with her. She constantly tried to block or make convo with guys that were obviously interested in me. She was competing with me and thought her light skin meant the guys wanted her more. Not the case and they can't handle it either.
@RERK8
Жыл бұрын
The tragedy is a lot of "light skinned" black women hate the privilege or better than narrator but everyone knows that its real. I believe these women don't have the lives of the darker women and are extremely jealous. So we are just seeing ingrained self hate perpetuated by them through colorism. And in all honesty, none of them look better than Wendy or Candiace. They definitely don't act better.
@PinkCloudsClown
Жыл бұрын
A lot of them don’t hate the privilege or better than narrator it is what their personality is based off of it’s all that is to them
@kelliezee
Жыл бұрын
From my experiences, its more light skinned women that don’t acknowledge the privilege and choose to see it as their uniqueness instead of colorism. It is a jealousy. the environment has created a system of competition for these women with no system of value, confidence, or esteem building. Its sad but (as a light skin woman) we need to be accountable and understanding to the real deep seeded issues that brought us here.
@DorothyDandridge
Жыл бұрын
I’m sorry maybe the other LS women but Giselle is a 10…she’s Vanessa Williams beautiful. Yes Candace and Wendy are beautiful likewise Robyn and Karen, but of all these women Giselle is in her own league.
@GraduateJLN
Жыл бұрын
@@DorothyDandridge If Giselle was dark skin with brown eyes, and had the exact same face nobody would feel this way
@choleymoley
Жыл бұрын
Yikes. My best friend did this for years before she got married. I love her husband but he is super awkward and almost childlike. It’s really hard to gauge if he’s enjoying himself or not. She’d always bring him to one on one plans which I’d argue is even worst than a group thing. Again, I love him, but it almost makes the situation go from no holds bar fun to something like a work event. It’s like I gotta code switch for your man now too? Booooo I have a few other friends that would bring their wet blanket ads husbands to shit so I just stopped inviting them. 😂
@LethalLemonLime
Жыл бұрын
That video of the man who said he didn't care about his gf while she was crying was traumatic and I've never even had a boyfriend before... but that's scary jfc
@theaisforamazingmd1902
Жыл бұрын
Straight up! I once asked a friend to buy her dinner at a pretty fancy restaurant for her birthday. I was paying for her bc it was her birthday. She shows up with her friend; telling me “she invited herself.” Her friend had no money, so guess who payed for everyones meal? I was so heated 😤 why do ppl do this?! I have NEVER invited this friend to a dinner again AND she is no longer friends with that particular friend. SMH 🤦🏾♀️
@neisci
Жыл бұрын
You paid? You are very nice. I'd have told the friend to turn around because my budget did not cover her. They could both turn around lol. The audacity.
@markeyap2537
Жыл бұрын
I just wonder if Giselle had dark skin, kinky 4c hair, and dark brown eyes would people praise her looks so much.
@FromMiamiWithLuv
Жыл бұрын
No, they wouldn't. The same facial features on a darker skin woman would not be praised and it's just the truth.
@stupidk1000
Жыл бұрын
Now that would be pretty af - the bone structure with those features would give 😍
@aliasteward9366
Жыл бұрын
Hell no lol
@jamzonitai8968
Жыл бұрын
No, she looks like leather to me. All she has going for her is green eyes. No talent, no couth, no self awareness, nothing good has come from her but beautiful daughters 💁🏽
@stupidk1000
Жыл бұрын
@@jamzonitai8968 LMAO
@qhough7966
Жыл бұрын
I had my first kid at 35 and I love my daughter beyond words. But I can say that if I never had kids I would have been happy and fulfilled
@bleusles
Жыл бұрын
rhop has been giving colorism since s1 and it comes up as a topic of convo amongst fans almost every season. end! it!
@moustik31
Жыл бұрын
Right, what else is new?! Colorism is part of the script of every reality tv-show with a Black cast. 🙄
@tab0108
Жыл бұрын
Every season!
@PinkCloudsClown
Жыл бұрын
@@moustik31 Colorism is apart of black everyday life 🤷🏾♀️
@BeautifulEarthJa
Жыл бұрын
I didn't get pass episode 1 🙄
@moustik31
Жыл бұрын
@@PinkCloudsClown I dont see, how that excuses anybody (cast and/or producers) to use it as a plot point everywhere. Audiences deserve more creative stories.
@oprincesslivie02
Жыл бұрын
Comparing someone stealing your purse and a man willing cheating on you is……..a choice….
@1stdaughter
Жыл бұрын
The Forties Goodness is SO REAL AND REFRESHING. I'm about to be 41 and it's only going to get better! Can't wait! My mom had me at 39, so I was raised by a women in her 40s and 50s. I didn't have to see or live in her messier years, haha! The grace and self-awareness and self-possession she embodied... it was gorgeous.
@brieoliver
Жыл бұрын
Deborah had me ROLLING with her delusions lol. Ma'am...these men were not looking at you with desire. I dont want to talk about her looks. But its giving meerkat lol. Exoticism has some folks sooooo delusional. Being able to flip your hair back and forth is not giving you any points in 2023 lol
@truthteller816
Жыл бұрын
RIGHT 🤣 Like flip your hair all you want girl, but it's not giving what you think it's giving like 🙃.
@yougotgamesonyourphone6947
Жыл бұрын
Meerkat 😂😂😂😂
@amab1853
Жыл бұрын
Right. She literally made that up. It was so delusional. Candiace's husband was waiting for his drink at the bar paying her no mind
@amab1853
Жыл бұрын
@@yougotgamesonyourphone6947 🤣 meerkat is accurate though
@real_abiola
Жыл бұрын
The meerkats association would like to distance themselves from that Sesame Street character.
@mzzzzzzday
Жыл бұрын
I am 27 and haven't liked myself more. I would not go back in time to just be young. maybe to make different decisions, but I feel more confident and I love myself more.
@Mariah203
Жыл бұрын
Girl you are still very young!
@mzzzzzzday
Жыл бұрын
@@Mariah203 I knowww that's what I meant. Lilke even at 27, I still am likeee damn I like who I am. When I was 20 I didn't feel this way. But I can literally feel myself getting more sure of myself.
@kanmoore2793
Жыл бұрын
Her husband was probably walking around saying my wife is hot and now he realises that others don’t feel that way.
@sunshine-xh9tp
Жыл бұрын
😭
@prettywicked101
Жыл бұрын
Colorism and Featurism got Deborah thinking she’s a bad bitch 😂😂😂 cracks me up. Her confidence is there tho
@TheSz2012
Жыл бұрын
The girls' trip thing is ridiculous. The hint is in the title of the trip lol. GIRLS' trip. I had a similar experience happen after returning from a trip. The driver decided to make a detour from the airport to her man's house; as if the rest of us weren't also missing our significant others. If i had known we were making a detour, I would've gotten in cab. It's just selfish and inconsiderate to disregard your tripmates' feelings and understanding of the situation.
@naraedwards
Жыл бұрын
“Making your own money is still undefeated” 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥 I know that’s right!!!
@zharak843
Жыл бұрын
HWOM showed me how a man can meet you young (I am 22), shape and mold you into the perfect mysogynists dream to keep you delusional (albeit pretty) and then leave you financially, emotionally and literally LOST
@beans9499
Жыл бұрын
I just looked up Houswives if Miami and I read in one of the episodes in season 2 she said " He built the perfect wife and I built the perfect life." 😒
@zharak843
Жыл бұрын
@@beans9499 LITERALLLLLY disgusting
@crystalpowell8619
Жыл бұрын
I have ADHD but I write things longhand to remember and it works! And I am an auntie (older than 33).
@Merinkous
Жыл бұрын
I need to start doing that. I got diagnosed at 29, still trying to find the best routine. I'll be 33 this year.
@aircabrown4070
Жыл бұрын
I wish yall would stop calling yourselves aunties in ur 30s lmao Ur not an "auntie" until u hit 50 or unless ur ass an actual auntie ...stop letting social media terminology make yall older then you actually are!!!
@crystalpowell8619
Жыл бұрын
@@aircabrown4070 I am 57. genuine auntie! And I agree- don't call urself auntie unless over 50!🤣
@aircabrown4070
Жыл бұрын
@@crystalpowell8619 for 57 you look tf Goodt!!! 🥰
@rickihosein
Жыл бұрын
@@aircabrown4070 ...you say that like a 57 yr old should be all wrinkly and dying and it's amazing she's still standing and looking good😂...57 is actually not old at all...she's just a good-looking woman...period!
@Val--H
Жыл бұрын
To add to the girls trip convo, sometimes you can get along really well with someone and then realize while traveling or cohabitating that you're not compatible in that way. I've definitely experienced this before. Not in a that person tried to fight me kind of scenario, but there was conflict that I did not anticipate for sure. It happens 🤷🏾♀️. I now feel very fortunate seeing from the internet just how left those kinds of things can go.
@ChrissyPoo516
Жыл бұрын
I completely agree. I've been on a few different trips with a friend and it wasn't until the last trip that I realize she's not a friend I truly enjoy on vacation. I always came back from the trip slightly annoyed due to unnecessary confrontation at some point on the trip.
@Val--H
Жыл бұрын
@@ChrissyPoo516 you really don't know until you have the experience sometimes. I understand NOW that I should look for travel compatibility in a person I go on trips with, but before I learned that I'd just be like "this is my friend, why wouldn't I go on vacay with her?".
@monimuppet6132
Жыл бұрын
Very true. Different situations reveal different facets of people, and of yourself. For girl's trips, if someone wants to bring their man, I simply won't go. Idc what people think of that, I know me and what kind of fun I want to have. My circle of girlfriends is now very small and outings are always fun and comfortable. You gotta find your people.
@zeepickens9049
Жыл бұрын
*Gurllllll, how dare YOU SAY: ".....I'm average." You're absolutely BEAUTIFUL and don't forget it!!!!* 💕👑💕
@zorgnaxstash
Жыл бұрын
Agreed. Kim is glowing!!
@KimberlyNicoleFoster89
Жыл бұрын
Thank you! But it's ok to be average! I'm not putting myself down.
@syreetathibodeaux6114
Жыл бұрын
I agree she is NOT average. I really need to send her images of average Hollywood women. Not ugly just average. Kim is pretty. Beautiful clear skin. Symmetrical face. Gorgeous teeth.
@ebonih7138
Жыл бұрын
Hopefully I glow like her in my early 30s, I find her to be stunning and so graceful. She got it going on ❤
@zeepickens9049
Жыл бұрын
@@KimberlyNicoleFoster89 *you're absolutely right, it is ok to be **#AVERAGE**, but you're Brains, Beauty, and Compassion.... that's the wholeeeeeeeee package, and that's **#AboveAverageAndSimplyBEAUTIFUL**.....PERIOD!!!!* 💕👑💕 *No talking back, I'm old enough to be your YOUNG😆AUNT! HAPPY NEW🎊🍾🎊YEAR, SIS💕!*
@annieothername
Жыл бұрын
“If you were the one, I would have cared/loved/respected you” is…too common a story. It happened to me and still took me a month to register the cruelty and leave. So glad I did. Like you said “you get better when you know yourself better”. Thank you for another great video
@andyouwilldeal82
Жыл бұрын
"Making your own money is unmatched" I said aloud I know that's right lol
@wildcatste
Жыл бұрын
The capitalist “girl power” era had issues but I’m grateful the spice girls taught me that it was best (and more fun!) to be able to finance my life myself
@theegoddessathena9553
Жыл бұрын
“Annoying their friends with the same f*cking stories”! Cackling 😂
@ElegantPaws01
Жыл бұрын
There is a sensory reason you can remember pen to paper. Literally, it employs all your senses. We are fundamentally tactile beings.
@MarcustheWu
Жыл бұрын
Re girls' trip: Listen to the angry woman. It was hard to hear but I did hear her say that the man was weird and no one liked him. I think there might have been some fear under that anger.
@Msyinett
Жыл бұрын
I agree on traveling with people. Like we need to discuss it all. Expectations, people's budgets, what is and isn't allowed where staying, hell even alone time like on this day I'm doing xyz. I am not going to waste my resources to end up upset. I can stay home.
@jeytriumphant2921
Жыл бұрын
As a disabled person who can't use my hands to write what is the best way for me to remember things- just wanted to point it out it's all love
@joelsantiagosays
Жыл бұрын
I think a workable alternative would be using the voice memo feature on your phone. Pretty much the same as jotting down a quick note.
@helena4440
Жыл бұрын
Colourism is something that I as a white pale as a ghost person will never fully grasp but all I know is that growing up most Supermodels I looked up to were not only Black women but dark skinned Black women at that. I'm trans and obsessed with make up/fashion and Black women/femmes made this world so much easier to navigate not to mention more fun, interesting and intelligent. For ALL of us and I will forever be grateful for the Black supermodels, designers, fashionistas, beauty gurus etc
@theresamw3559
Жыл бұрын
I hand wrote both of my bar exams. I felt that handwriting would better help me organize my thoughts under time pressure. Passed both times.
@JDStar1295
Жыл бұрын
@40:00 the irony with this behaviour, that is so common, is that a lot of these same men will point out how women don't allow men to be vulnerable or how they disregard men's feelings... It's like they have collective amnesia to how often they do this to women yet want women to extend that grace to them... its frustrating Reminds once when I saw this MRA dude talking about a study that showed teen girls where shown more empathy than teen boys as some proof that women are more cared for... what he left out that the teen girls in the study showedempathy to everyone... more empathy than teen boys showed other teen boys - he omitted the fact that the girls where more but complaind that the boys werent recieving the same (empathy) as the girls.
@jamaica5177
Жыл бұрын
Sadly a lot of the Civil Rights Movement is based in colorism as well. Rosa Parks wasn’t the first person to refuse to give up her seat on the bus. Claudette Colvin actually was but since she was a darkskinned, young teen. She also became pregnant later and it they felt she wouldn’t be a marketable for the Civil Rights movement. So I can definitely see how she doesn’t have that humility and tact about colorism because it was within the very movement her father represented.
@sdc8598
Жыл бұрын
In the clip the one yelling says he basically came with 3 friends who I’m sure they didn’t know but was in their space. Even if the girl friends knew her boyfriend friends it doesn’t mean it was okay for them to be in the space only God knows if any of them weren’t respectful. It’s clear the friends didn’t ask for company. So not only did her boyfriend come by house, he came with guests😤
@maxdminimalist715
Жыл бұрын
That part! 😑
@ST-wh1eg
Жыл бұрын
Not only do we need to vet who we go on trips with, we need to be open to conversation, before hand. We don't know the back story at all, but there is a clear lack of understanding here and if those conversations are not had, this is how we get here. I've been on a many a trip and when issues arise or people feel some type of way, it is because there is a lack of understanding/mismatched expectations that were not communicated. Additionally, we also do not need to record and air out all of our shit. If yall are friends, hear each other out. This situation is no one elses business. So, clearly, the person on the camera, doesn't value her friend either, the way she herself is hoping/expected to be valued. No one is a friend here. Plain and simple. And, set expectations before yall go on these trips.Too much money is being passed for yall not to be on the same page.
@calikeisha365
Жыл бұрын
The manosphere grift is paying everyone but the actual manosphere they are still on the struggle parade. Britney Renner realized this is her way to redemption or at least more coins, and I actually wouldn’t be surprised if she becomes the next voice.
@aj2thamaxx742
Жыл бұрын
Exactly and I think she realized that she need to start making money on manosphere stuff so she can transition to trad-wife content. The video in Kim’s video told the tell….she needs a rich husband….she is traditionally attractive, so I see that happening actually and she also need some financial security for herself just in case the situationship marriage doesn’t work out…..hey! why not k!ll two birds with one stone? 🤷🏾♀️
@lakajk
Жыл бұрын
I have friends who have frozen eggs to give themselves the option in the future, but ended up giving them to infertile family members years later
@ericaa.1934
Жыл бұрын
Thanks for pointing out that bringing a kid is not the same as bringing a grown ass man. I’d still be annoyed of an unexpected kid at brunch, but you are legally responsible for keeping it alive so it’s more understandable then bringing your man cause god forbid you can’t see him for 2 hours.
@electricmoxie6433
Жыл бұрын
Just wanted to add. Technically another housewife, Katie, called them the "green eyed bandits" and they now use it as a joke.
@crissidasouvenir1935
Жыл бұрын
Hey Kimberly! Would love a “Are Y’all Okay?” mug🤗
@AlitheaJ
Жыл бұрын
Great for zoom meetings ;)
@anonymousone9699
Жыл бұрын
“A thirsty B-word” Kim walking away from calling people bitches because it’s not useful 😅
@MRYpls
Жыл бұрын
The fact that Brittany calls this “a game” still and not to actually change to be a better human being… is the give away 😅
@Byebandit50
Жыл бұрын
I already said she’ll be smoking again before the plane lands
@nateking2829
Жыл бұрын
I lost it at “I mean I’ve driven past a house or two” 😂😂😂
@naturallybeautiful9109
Жыл бұрын
Honestly I had that experience where I was crying this man was just like why you crying and I don’t feel sorry and won’t comfort you. That probably the most traumatic thing in the world
@banefulbty
Жыл бұрын
The girls trip part: Tbh going from low class to upper middle class. People from my community be having relationships based on nothing. proximity, access to resources, boys etc. Thats why they go on trips and shitz be happening. There's a reason why Harriet left some people.
@jerusalema4eva434
Жыл бұрын
girls trip gone wrong.. that was terrifying. literal nightmare.
@PinkCloudsClown
Жыл бұрын
From what I’ve observed it’s best to go on trips with one person
@dajiyahmcae1880
Жыл бұрын
Cardi B is constantly embarrassing herself and I hate that for all of us.
@camerongaillard8567
Жыл бұрын
The way I have been waiting for a nuanced discussion to be had regarding this show and it’s obvious colorism issue. Thank you Kimberly 🙏🏾
@SheIsFearfullyWonderfullyMade
Жыл бұрын
Yes, getting a man or being in a relationship is not an accomplishment. Any and every one can “have a man”, be married, engaged, etc🙃🙃🙃
@MesheherKim
Жыл бұрын
No they can’t. If they could we wouldn’t have so many broken homes and baby mam culture wouldn’t be rampant in our society
@adaezez8378
Жыл бұрын
@@MesheherKim nothing she said was a lie. Getting a man is easy because men are easy. Finding a quality men is the real challenge because there are about 16 walking around.
@queenbeaute9967
Жыл бұрын
Getting a man is easy to fawk u but being able to keep one and him seeing u romantically is the battle most women can't seem to win
@tresvegan3633
Жыл бұрын
I’m not going to lie, I was disappointed that I didn’t do anything “great” to be on the 30 under 30 list, but I am also proud to say that when I saw young people especially women of color on that list (black) it made me smile and I was inspired. All of us aren’t going to be recognized but that doesn’t dim our lights any. Just like we shouldn’t dim the lights of those who are working their butts off and being recognized for it as they should be. 🙏🏽♥️
@ajsutton9053
Жыл бұрын
Thank you for saying what I’ve been saying for a while. H fact that Gizelle’s father worked so closely with MLK during the civil rights movement and this is how she displays herself on television is disgusting.
@Seekwhatwillbefound
Жыл бұрын
Yup and young people are watching.
@cmac40
Жыл бұрын
I’m not surprised bc a lot of pro black men talk Blackity black while sleeping light,bright and white so I’m ACTUALLY Not surprised ol gilt is like this
@rickihosein
Жыл бұрын
Mlk wasn't shit!...he was colorist too...a lot of these "leaders" who've been put on a weird ass pedastal in the black community are problematic at the core...so, she's displaying herself the way she was taught!
@kic.7679
Жыл бұрын
And I think a lot of people are forgetting that just because people worked in the civil rights movement and fought for our people does not mean they were not colorist. It was even worse then… I mean, aren’t her parents around the same skin color..
@amab1853
Жыл бұрын
Yeah. Alot of people were shocked that Gizelle is a daughter of a civil rights politician. Because the way she carries herself on TV is questionable
@theniceone06
Жыл бұрын
The black experience is so layered. These are the black issues that really deserve our attention. These are the issues we have within our communities. I am a dark skin, overweight, black woman who has worn glasses since the age of 3. Thick glasses too 😆 Self-worth, ooooo child! It took👏🏾some👏🏾time, okay. But as a member of this beautifully rich diaspora of black women, we are so much stronger when we are together and unified.
@TranquilTresses
Жыл бұрын
“Colorist delusions” has me weak 😂😭
@fatabk
Жыл бұрын
As s soon as I heard Karen day her and Gizelle raised their children in Jack and Jill together it all made sense lol
@_hunnybe
Жыл бұрын
I'm also transitioning back to analog for memory! Cool to hear it's not just me.
@princessjasmine4723
Жыл бұрын
Regarding the girls trip - I understand the need to save money, but at my big age of 33, the only person I’m sharing a hotel with is my husband. I don’t give a damn if we been best friends since 1901, we aren’t sharing a room. Sorry. I need my own space.
@PeanutJelly90
Жыл бұрын
I don’t like this sharing a room business.
@monimuppet6132
Жыл бұрын
Then don't go on girl's trips. Not going IS an option.
@FromMiamiWithLuv
Жыл бұрын
You can ask for an Air BnB situation if that is what you prefer, but if you don't like the conditions of a trip, you can elect not to go. It's okay to have your standards, but be considerate, that's all.
@princessjasmine4723
Жыл бұрын
@@monimuppet6132 I’ve been on many..sharing a room is not a requirement. Not sure if you knew that or not lmao
@princessjasmine4723
Жыл бұрын
@@FromMiamiWithLuv I’m confused on why you think I don’t know this. I’ve been on plenty of group trips. I’m saying sharing a room is not FOR ME….not that I don’t know about other options. Lol
@rashidab4846
Жыл бұрын
You had me LMFAO when you said" Its not like these men ( the uninvited +1 parter) are super interesting and charismatic..."", so incredibly true!
@moreafterthistime
Жыл бұрын
Potomac is the most colorist show on tv it’s almost racist for the producers to endorse any of the behavior
@notoriouslyNAY
Жыл бұрын
The girls trip clip gives "we wanted to go abroad but needed the other girls money & all my girls dont have men so i used the excuse of a girls trip but knew my man would pull up all along"
@tuesdays_child85
Жыл бұрын
Candice calling Deborah a sesame Street character was very fitting. Her features are interesting and strong if nothing else
@favsaki3931
Жыл бұрын
Even sesame street characters look better than her
@queenbeaute9967
Жыл бұрын
😂
@natabedi
Жыл бұрын
This video was awesome Kimberly! My favourite one yet. Loved the ‘men are sociopaths’ part
@luvthisway
Жыл бұрын
"We're just doing really really bad!"....when I tell you I felt that in my soul. 😭😂
@tiyanal.2052
Жыл бұрын
Let’s not forget how they billed Ashley about her natural hair
@charlybrown5264
Жыл бұрын
Kim and everyone happy new year 🎉 to y'all 2023 please be nice!!!
@PinkCloudsClown
Жыл бұрын
Happy New Year’s 🎉
@VanTheeBrand
Жыл бұрын
Kim I can’t stand yooooouuu! LMFAO 😂 😂Talking about, “Deborah… 😬 😖🙃! …But Deborah is not a Gizelle!” And you are 1,000,000% right! She believes her biracialness and “exoticism” place her above the rest! SMH 🤦🏾♂️
@alexandrahendrick4352
Жыл бұрын
Lmao @ "women annoying their friends with the same f'in stories. Sounds like me in my 20's🤷♀️ i'm ashamed now. Wasted tears over people I didn't even really love.
@Mariah203
Жыл бұрын
Is Chris not a chef? I'm not understanding the downplaying of his career. I didn't watch seasons 3 and 4 when Candiace was introduced so I'm asking sincerely.
@amab1853
Жыл бұрын
Yeah he's a chef 👨🍳 and owned a restaurant before
@user-mb8rf7qk5q
Жыл бұрын
As a gay woman, this was intense af but I listened to the whole shit even though it’s none of my business 😂 Shit was entertaining 🤷🏽♀️ 😆
@oliviadiann1507
Жыл бұрын
"Meanwhile you've left behind DECADES of MESS" say it sis
@keepitsimpleplease9039
Жыл бұрын
I agree studies show that handwriting notes helps you recall info better than typing notes.
@shellymelly1828
Жыл бұрын
It’s not worth fighting but was definitely wrong to invite 4 dudes on the trip to Airbnb
@StylishlySaved1
Жыл бұрын
Some men can’t handle the energy that is reciprocated back to them. Poor thangs! She ate them up, they were quiet! Don’t get me started with Pearl! My lawd! Traditional women did what they needed to do and modern women get to do what we want! We can honor the past without tearing down progress or evolution!!!! Some people will let that go over their heads. I just scroll past it.
@SaltWataDawta_
Жыл бұрын
Your facial expressions when talking about Debra had me CRINE! 😂😂😂😂 Exoticism is a thing.
@vadnuana
Жыл бұрын
Brittany Renner is just trying to get wifed up. She’s singing a different tune.
@bronzebomber814
Жыл бұрын
Not gon be windmilling in the club about a serial cheater... girl that part I love my man and he's great but I aint built for none of that
@SE-gs6gd
Жыл бұрын
The RHOP thing was so sad and weird. Sorry but I was thinking the same thing. Deborah is not a super attractive lady. They weren't looking at her at all. They were being ummmmm....normal humans and acting politely lol
@23ahndra
Жыл бұрын
Brittany is Absolutely doing her Female Kev Sam origin story. She’s about to have the same men who dragged her, eating out her palm. It’s terrible.
@lovelylaughter11
Жыл бұрын
I don't even watch this show. I clicked for the analysis!
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