Right before Jojo Siwa did a big rebrand and started being annoying in interviews, Jojo and her mom was credibly accused of abuse by members of XOMG Pop!, a girl group they were running. I think a lot of what she is doing is to ensure the bad press directed towards her and her mom is about her being weird and arrogant, instead of being abusive and cruel.
@refillpan
Ай бұрын
yes a lot more people need to be aware of this. unfortunately i think the way abby treated jojo made her think it’s ok to talk to her own group that way, but it’s still not okay what they’re accused of.
@sillyguy444
Ай бұрын
cycle of abuse goes crazy
@Geraldine_Z_Rivii
Ай бұрын
Yeah, that's what I *thought* they were gonna talk about! I can't believe their (Siwas) planned distraction basically worked. My thought was that internet doesn't hate her because she's cringe, they hate her because she's using it as a smokescreen to hide her *literal* documented abuse and fraud.
@LimeG0ds
Ай бұрын
My theory was that theres a pf team behind jojos experimental era, mostly because she doesn't understand the references in her own outfits. Like im sure she CHOSE the vibe of her outfits, but she's not the artist, so to speak. Cheers if shes making this transition solo, but shes got a lot of shitty things to answer for. I dont think that means you can make fun of her experementing, but I do think it's bizzare the way it's been going, she's got very messy ex stories, the XOMG stuff is rough, and she's also got this whole thing, which only slightly feels like it was her idea
@saggguy7
Ай бұрын
@@sillyguy444I forget where I heard it, but I once heard her publicly tell a story about how her dad walked in on her and her girlfriend having shmeggs and then instead of being a normal person and closing the door and never speaking of it again, or apologizing and learning to knock next time, he texted her immediately afterward basically being like “nice!!” She was telling it like it was funny, and my jaw was on the floor in disgust. Ever since then I’ve just felt like there must be something so off and disturbing in her family. Something isn very screwy with her parents.
@wikipediagirlfriend
Ай бұрын
i am now so interested in jordan's alternate reality where jojo siwa is an ex slime youtuber
@doublerainbro3304
20 күн бұрын
She is tho.... kzitem.info/news/bejne/o4WbyYl8npqXf2U
@elle_rose_xx
Ай бұрын
Pick me originally was a tool to point out women putting other women down due to internalised misogyny. Tara Mooknee made a great vid about how ‘pick me’ has now evolved into more misogyny
@gauner1312
Ай бұрын
I used to be a pick me. I went to therapy and understood why I did that. I owned up to it and was able to change. so it is possible to get out of it 🩷
@mapleglass1401
Ай бұрын
@@gauner1312same! Way to grow. It’s great, as uncomfortable as it can be while it’s happening
@roachno.24
Ай бұрын
it happens to every meme thats about women. it sucks
@elle_rose_xx
Ай бұрын
@@gauner1312 absolutely! I think almost every girl cause done something because of internalised misogyny, that doesn’t make you a bad person if u realise, apologise and adapt. Issue is now it’s become a thing on TikTok where EVERYTHING makes you a pick me now even if it makes absolutely no sense and it’s just become another way to police women
@MalekWithoutFear
Ай бұрын
I love when Jordan asks if JoJo Siwa did slime videos and everyone gently explains it to him like he's their confused child
@TweekingCat
Ай бұрын
also Jojo did make slime videos back in the day so he wasn’t technically wrong 😅
@sleepdrunk
Ай бұрын
idk about anyone else but my problem with jojo isn't her being "cringe" or having her transitional phase from catering to predominantly kids. it's her repeated ableism (the spina bifida girl), classism (the grueling work conditions she puts literal kids through as a Millionaire), and victim blaming (looking down on her teammates for not coming back to the dance moms reunion due to their trauma) that her and her mother perpetuate repeatedly. i understand she's 21 and young, but being a person that has that responsibility and that platform and condoning these things is just inexcusable, because you shouldn't have to be 21 years old to realize that telling a disabled teen to stick a maxipad onto their bleeding belly button to keep dancing before their spinal surgery is an objectively scummy thing to do. she has also attributed the colleen balinger situation to her being "cancelled with no proof" which is also baffling
@SQU1D404
Ай бұрын
you said exactly what i was thinking. i feel like less people have heard about these things she's done because her promoting karma took attention away from it, because i was surprised that it wasn't brought up during this episode
@LizardKingRequiem
Ай бұрын
SPEAK ON IT 🗣️🗣️🗣️
@Moxipoxie
Ай бұрын
Not to mention her being horrible to all her exes and then sending her fans towards them to harass them after they break up
@skunkskiestink6620
Ай бұрын
also she recently has not only defended colleen ballinger but also minimized victims accusations towards her. it’s really sad too because jojo seems to be a victim of grooming in her own way- she has been groomed to believe that being overworked, to the point of hurting your body, and taking verbal/emotional abuse from people in positions of authority over her is normal if she wants to be successful. i feel like her being desensitized to a lot of the very many complex traumatic/abusive things she has experienced contributes to her thinking that grooming is only sexual and you cannot be groomed to take on other forms of abuse.
@LordDomielOfElysium
Ай бұрын
@@skunkskiestink6620 I mean, she definitely seems to have a thing for pedos. Makes sense being that Shane Dawson was friends with her SINCE SHE WAS A MINOR, may I add…
@Stardustuk
Ай бұрын
Jojo is "cringe" or whatever, but she's still besties with some of the most problematic creators whom she defended heavily, not to mention her abusing other dancers and defending by saying that's how she was trained that's how it is in the business, that's why people keep turning back to her and picking on her because she attracting the problematic type of attention
@toniwilliams3469
Ай бұрын
^my only issue with Jojo Siwa.
@martafiord
23 күн бұрын
I think she was rage baiting but in her podcast she insinuated that Trisha Paytas was a creep when she was hanging out with herself when she was 13-14 years old but still finds it great that groomer Colleen Ballinger was hanging out with her at the same time. Both Colleen and Trisha were in their 30s then.
@rabbit6546
Ай бұрын
For anastasia: jordan is entirely not joking about the military recruitment ads here they’re literally all about like finding your identity and forming friendships a lot of them follow a formula where they’re like i was born in (town in the uk) but i was made in (military corp)
@donutcat5535
Ай бұрын
The military ads I’ve seen (USA) are mostly just “serve the country honor patriotism raaaaa 🦅 🦅 🦅 “
@megan-mr9vk
Ай бұрын
@@donutcat5535the US is relying on poor(first gen) kids and generational military families imo
@Khronogi
Ай бұрын
That's generally how all group advertisements work though isn't it? You ever seen an American university ad?
@rabbit6546
Ай бұрын
@@Khronogi i mean i’m from the uk so no LMAO i would assume they’re very different from uk military ads tho in that they don’t show people going through warzones or working on military vessels while talking about how they would be nothing without the military
@ember4714
Ай бұрын
THE PODCAST ABOUT FEELING AND OTHER THINGS ALSO
@toasty5032
Ай бұрын
I am jarbis
@toasty5032
Ай бұрын
And I am jobon
@banannarama
Ай бұрын
ₐₙₔ ₒₜₕₑᵣ ₜₕᵢₙ₉ₛ ₐₗₛₒ
@Evo-B.
Ай бұрын
@@toasty5032i’m jonsæn
@Lunathedoll3
Ай бұрын
YIPPIEEEEEEE
@overripekiwi
Ай бұрын
"I have a torso the size of a bowling ball and then like three tree trunks coming off my body"
@livingsalami6529
Ай бұрын
what does he mean by "like three" 😭
@Tseidys
Ай бұрын
I caught that too lmaoo
@renskedegroot5876
Ай бұрын
Yeah the 3 trunks is also confusing me😂
@saintnikz
Ай бұрын
It's a dirty joke y'all 😂 I love that Jarvis didn't catch it at all
@eternallustformedusa4844
Ай бұрын
idk if it’s meant to be dirty or if he just said 3 instead of 4. he did say “LIKE three” so technically 4 is basically “like three.”
@johnheimerl-sv6xm
Ай бұрын
Wait...THREE tree trunks? Good for you
@SkeleMusic
Ай бұрын
He did that on purpose didnt he 😂
@Andre_the_Lion
Ай бұрын
I assume he genuinely forgot he had the hand that was holding the mic, but also - hilarious
@mapleglass1401
Ай бұрын
@@SkeleMusicJordan has such a consistent stream of jokes, I vote purposely
@wartygourd
Ай бұрын
@@SkeleMusic i caught that as well 😂
@allyrose6437
Ай бұрын
@@Andre_the_Lion I thought it was a big penis joke 😂
@allyssaward5691
Ай бұрын
I was telling my husband about how I almost joined the Navy to pay for college because I got a decent score on the ASVAB when it was administered in my high school health class, and my husband was like "hold up, they had recruiters administering a test in high school" and then I had to explain how I went to a low income school in a rural area and military recruiters are just flocking those schools like vultures to be like "hey we know you're broke as fuck, how about you join the military"
@donutcat5535
Ай бұрын
At my school they had recruiters coming into ROTC classes as soon as freshman year. The recruiters also had us fill out a form on what type of jobs we would want.
@jon-cx7jq
Ай бұрын
Genuinely demonic
@gauner1312
Ай бұрын
that is called poverty draft
@andimatos7298
Ай бұрын
This is how I learn that it’s not a normal experience for recruiters to come to your high school/take the ASVAB in high school 😮
@Dude-hs7zm
Ай бұрын
Yeah, I went to two different high schools. The first was in more of a rural/impoverished area, the second was a rich kids “up in the hills” type school. (I only got into the second school because I was technically within their zone lol). At my first high school there were recruiters all the time. They had this pull up bar set up by the main office so often that people would only comment on when they WEREN’T there. The recruiters would often speak at assemblies, they’d go into classes and give presentations. And then when I moved I noticed the new school didn’t have that. For like one week out of the year there’d be a recruiter who was out of the way in a hall that not a lot of people passed through with fliers. And then the recruiter was gone. Looking back the difference was stark, and now I know why.
@w4439
Ай бұрын
Jarvis sporting his holed sock is the bravest most genuine thing ive ever seen. Ill seriously mismatch if others will see them
@starman12122
Ай бұрын
Sad to welcome a boyz about jordan and other things Jarvis im podcast and im feelings
@mikeyahl7363
Ай бұрын
*I'm also
@daisyallen4954
Ай бұрын
also
@starman12122
Ай бұрын
Thanks I forgot
@mikeyahl7363
Ай бұрын
@@starman12122 We're all doing our best
@jijitters
Ай бұрын
true
@jbora-ih4nl
Ай бұрын
i get that they said hard cut to something silly, but the switch to 'skibidi toilet movie' hit like a truck
@miike2
Ай бұрын
which to be honest kinda pissed me off since skibidi toilet is a masterpiece
@jbora-ih4nl
Ай бұрын
@@miike2 :[
@oliverrose7796
Ай бұрын
I work for my local public defenders office and have so many horror stories about mistreatment of unhoused people at the hands of the cops. I have also unfortunately heard with my own ears someone saying that if they went to jail at least they'd be housed and fed. ("three hots and a cot" if you're unfamiliar with the phrase) It's super depressing. We need to do better by our unhoused population. We need to recognize them as part of our community in need of support, not vagrants to be exiled. A key part of this is syringe access programs and supervised injection sites. Drug addiction should not be a barrier to housing and trying to get one's life on track.
@GreenJuicePouch
Ай бұрын
On the homeless thing, I think something could also be said about how quick people are to dehumanize them on social media, specifically when it comes to homeless people owning animals. Its always something like "Oh that poor dog..." and never actual concern for ANOTHER HUMAN BEING?
@mapleglass1401
Ай бұрын
I’ve always thought the same. It reveals such a disgusting perspective.
@kyay10
Ай бұрын
Zero shade on D'Angelo at all, but it feels like some people misunderstood his message as "go harass all creators to talk about this" and that this momentum might carry over to every controversy in the upcoming weeks
@GreenJuicePouch
Ай бұрын
SPEEDING UP? AND GOING AROUND??? if a man SPEEDS UP behind me??? i am running away!!!
@PhaythGaming
Ай бұрын
I speed up behind women all the time. Not on purpose for them being women or anything. But never at night. I always walk faster than most but specifically at night I make sure to keep distance or even cross the road.
@PenelopeAstony
Ай бұрын
Also, even if someone does do this, at LEAST give me a "Hey there! Coming up on your left!"
@hippyhop33
Ай бұрын
weird question but whered u get ur glasses in ur pfp i acc love them so much 😭
@LizardKingRequiem
Ай бұрын
Walk faster then you’re blocking the way
@chiknnugget2511
Ай бұрын
@@PenelopeAstony if someone did that in the uk though i would absolutely bolt off running
@laylalove123
Ай бұрын
I think Jarvis and Jordan are two people that I would feel absolutely safe with. They give such gentle and kind vibes.
@OpposumParty87
Ай бұрын
REAL!
@wind_chives_
Ай бұрын
personally i think it’s ok to clown on jojo bc of what she did to the young girls that were dancing for her group. no matter what, it’s not acceptable to know about a child who you’re training’s suffering and only make it worse. obviously the allegations are still allegations but i personally believe them.
@AnAmelieAnomaly
Ай бұрын
Guy Branum, who self describes as "creepily gigantic", talked about how if he's walking behind a woman at night, he will start singing to himself so they can hear his extremely nonthreatening "gay voice" (his term not mine)
@miike2
Ай бұрын
a creepily gigantic man walking behind me and singing in a voice that doesn't match what i expect from a creepily gigantic man? i'd triple shit myself
@unamiryo
Ай бұрын
yeah i was afraid to click on anything regarding what happened with ava kris because the fear in me it was just done in bad faith/being eager to dog pile a trans person
@Communistdaughter
Ай бұрын
yeah same I’ve seen too much shit on social media with transphobes just clawing onto it
@RatEatRat
Ай бұрын
I can't handle it at all as a trans person. I've been called a p3do literally for just existing and I just can't engage with it
@Joe90h
Ай бұрын
It seems like Ava has quite the series of edgy skeletons in her closet, but there's no getting round the fact there have been falsified screenshots, and the testimony they got from the minor that was DMed who used to be in Mr Beast's community was under false pretenses (They were lied to about a job opportunity) so clearly this isn't about any form of 'justice'. The 'evidence' also started to be compiled around a year ago, which is around the time she came out publicly about her transition, and seems to have been leaked now to 'gotcha' people attacking Dr Disrespect. In fact, apparently the person compiling the evidence reached out to EDP445 to 'break this story', a guy who would have been jailed for messaging a minor with intent to meet up if not for negligence on the part of the p*do hunters that were pursuing him. I think her behaviour and her online persona from back then are dreadful and rightfully ought to be called out, but this is absolutely different from Dr Disrespect's situation.
@Khronogi
Ай бұрын
@@Communistdaughterpeople will dogpile onto anything a person of a group they don't like does. I mean just a recent and easily identifiable example is the hms isr conflict. Go look at a rally and you will see strong phobia directed at the entire opposition group.
@screameureka7029
Ай бұрын
my brother and i were talking about it and isaid 'the dangerous minority isn't trans people it's big youtubers'
@NightmareonKelpStreet
Ай бұрын
These first 20 minutes really meant alot to me this week thanks boyz. I often very regularly think about how i may be one of the only transgender or nonbinary person this cisgender person knows or may ever know, and how that may reflect on the community or how they view queer people going forward, but also stay in line from my fiancé’s reminders that i could never speak for all trans or nonbinary people so speak at most of your own experience first and their assumptions will be as it may. Love ya fellas, thanks for this one ❤
@spinelstears
Ай бұрын
Ava had no illicit intentions with a minor. She is being purposely targeted as a famous transgender woman and all of this is a very big case of mass trans misogyny, no hate to you of course but she is currently being used as a scapegoat for transphobia. Her so called "victim" has already made Multiple statements saying this is all lies, and the fact that so many people are believing the accusers before doing any sort of research is very disheartening. She is innocent. She just had the misfortune of being a public figure as well as being trans.
@emocatmom
Ай бұрын
at the sad boyz straight up casting it… and by “it”, lets jusr say my pod
@YaminoMizu
Ай бұрын
Karma was absolutely released to cover up the fact Jojoand her mom were being called out (credibly) for abusing members of a pop/dance group they were running, one of the members having a physical illness that they had no empathy for and it became *very* dangerous because of how the two treated her. It was becoming a big thing but the moment she released Karma, the internet completely forgot about it to dunk on her, which was likely her intent because her team and her probably are well aware that the internet will move on from one thing to another in a snap, if the other thing is incredibly cringy.
@pb_and_nutella
Ай бұрын
While I'm sure there are some people who feel entitled to a woman's body that are angry that Jojo isn't wearing less clothing, I think about 99.99% of the reaction/ backlash to her rebrand has absolutely nothing to do with that
@burtney__
Ай бұрын
Pick me did NOT originate from Grey's Anatomy and I really wish people would stop saying it did 😭 the context of Meredith Grey "pick me, choose me" monolog has a COMPLETELY different context from how it came to be a thing on the internet
@ArtsySpinch
Ай бұрын
For a podcast called “**sad** boyz” these videos sure do make me happy
@prince_buer
Ай бұрын
Regarding parasocial relationships, I've tried to more actively acknowledge when a creator does/says something I don't agree with (even minor stuff, not inherently problematic or anything). I think an important part of maintaining distance from creators to be able to recognize that you don't always align with them, and that's okay, and you can still enjoy content while acknowledging you and they are different people.
@GuyPerson-jt9tv
Ай бұрын
Speaking of Jake Paul, did we all just collectively forget the r*pe allegations against him?
@rabbit6546
Ай бұрын
And all the DV/DA accusations against him too like idk why ppl just ignore the history of violence/dangerous disregard of safety towards women the paul brothers have
@taylorg7563
Ай бұрын
@@rabbit6546 I think its cos they're very good at doing shitty thing after shitty thing so that actual serious crimes just tend to get lost in the noise. Also there is so much happening on the internet that they then get buried even further
@wysarde
Ай бұрын
Woah -- this is the first time I've heard of these allegations, which would imply to me that they are indeed getting buried in his other controversies. That's horrible wtf
@ember9361
Ай бұрын
no. the world just doesn't care about rapists. they'll always have their bros covering their backs. take cody ko for example, he kept his (convicted) rapist buddy around for years, going as far as making him his best man. bros don't care.
@GuyPerson-jt9tv
Ай бұрын
@wysarde yes, like 2 years ago, a woman came out and said that Jake forced her to have oral sex with him in the team10 mansion. Look it up, it's disgusting.
@WallebyDamned
Ай бұрын
"Coming around your left/right" is something to say if speeding up to pass someone, especially with some speed walk arm pumping and hip waggle to look like the elderly mall walkers.
@SimsWhoSmokeWeed
Ай бұрын
i go with my kitchen/fast food working experience- just loudly say "BESIDE" and they'll know ur beside them 😂
@salemmdean
Ай бұрын
if you’re in the midwest you can throw in a “ope lemme squeeze right past ya”
@barbzthings
Ай бұрын
If I see a man walking behind me and it's late at night, I will DELIBERATELY fake having to stop for a sec (or I will slow down) so that he can walk in front where I can see him - it feels safer and I can always stop/slow down again and put more distance between us.
@mnilbydntkt
Ай бұрын
Yes!! I also do this during the day! Although it's definitely not the best solution when you are actually being followed lol
@Blue-hy2nw
Ай бұрын
1:10:40 the thing that really bothered me was that he was saying "don't hurt me" with the same tone of everything else he was saying. and the kids were being taught to ignore it, treat it as just another crazy thing this crazy person is saying. like you guys said they're being taught to handle these situation in the most unempathetic way possibe.
@ladycalily
Ай бұрын
Oof the conversation on female perspectives and black perspectives of otherness and exclusion and identity hit crazy as a black femme who grew up in primarily white spaces
@onyxz8171
Ай бұрын
0:29 What did Jordan mean by THREE tree trunks coming off his body 😭
@branchbtw
Ай бұрын
Sturong
@coolmel1
Ай бұрын
i think you know…………
@ecliiipsssse
Ай бұрын
@@coolmel1 one would think 5 trunks, so which 3 was he referring to
@Magnus3144
Ай бұрын
Two legs and one arm
@julius_pepperwood
Ай бұрын
one arm little
@Mcraw2603
Ай бұрын
It's easy to have empathy for Jojo, but we do need to remember that her and her mom are responsible for the abuse of the children in the dance group they started. A lot of people speculate that the dramatic rebrand is her trying to take attention off of that issue. Shes also very publically friends with both James Charles and Collen Ballinger. Shes young but shes also an adult that shouldn't have put children in danger or support groomers
@GrayYeonWannabe
Ай бұрын
while i agree we have to keep in mind the harm she & her mom have done, i actually disagree that it's easy to have empathy for her (not for me, or, obviously, for you, but most ppl) also she is 21 and has never Not had her mom helicoptering cheers
@kiteflight
Ай бұрын
@@GrayYeonWannabekinda agree with this- hard to believe that her mom WOULDN'T be super controlling or abusive towards her as well if that's been a recurring pattern with her mom. Like it's seriously nightmarish to think of how being raised by one of those dance moms might affect someone. It's hard to avoid all empathy for her when you know how these situations can impact kids growing into adults. Sometimes you'll do anything to try and gain approval from an abuser, and while that absolutely doesn't EXCUSE harmful behavior, it does cast an interesting light on it. I'm not even necessarily saying there is or has been any form of abuse going on from her mom, just that she VERY much seems a product of her environment. Especially on the being friends with problematic ppl bit- she has been friends with people who have been predatory to kids SINCE SHE WAS A KID. I feel like that HAS to speak for itself, right???? Like, again, environment seems kinda toxic for anyone growing up like that, ABSOLUTELY not surprising she is the way she is. I would definitely shy away from judging her as a 'bad person' because that implies some heavy personal responsibility when I think it's arrogant for people to say with certainty THEY would have been better, growing up mentored by and pressured to please all of these kinds of horrible people.
@Mcraw2603
Ай бұрын
@@kiteflight I agree with a lot of this, but I do think that telling a child with a disability to slap a maxi pad on her bleeding belly button does ere on the side of "bad person" Like theres product of your environment and then theres cruel No matter how you were raised theres always a line where you have to stop and think about if your actions are hurtful towards others
@kiteflight
Ай бұрын
@@Mcraw2603 I think probably for me it has to do with my personal measurements regarding 'bad people' which are a little different than most people. Almost all of the worst people are 'a product of their environment' and not considering them a bad person doesn't mean removing all accountability for their actions. I honestly just find 'bad person' to be super restrictive and arbitrary generally- people change for the better and worse all of the time. I absolutely believe actions should be taken to limit some people's harm to others and that those people should be made to face their mistakes. I just don't know if a catch all label for ppl who did bad things ever is even all that useful, aside from third party satisfaction and superiority. There are a million reasons she could've done that, and none of them make such an awful thing okay. However, her being fundamentally morally defective just seems like a bad conclusion to jump to. That's how I feel the term 'bad person' is thrown around often.
@shumwaybunch5522
Ай бұрын
Sometimes I forget other people aren't hearing every little detail on a situation. I'll here stuff about jojo and people just don't know she had a reality show with children where they were over worked by her and her mom (This is an over simplified explanation it wasn't just they were over worked) and that she befriends people like Colleen and James Charles putting them on her channel for her child audience. People think the worst she has done is act weird and say stuff for attention which isn't the case BUT I ALWAYS FORGET NOT EVERYONE IS INVESTED IN THIS KIND OF STUFF SO THEY ONLY KNOW ABOUT THE DANCING AND INVENTING GAY POP STUFF Anywho hope everyone is having a good day MWA
@SimsWhoSmokeWeed
Ай бұрын
i know right? i fear her distractions are working 😔
@matthewbrooks5470
Ай бұрын
Jesus Christ. My only exposure to Jojo was that my niece likes/liked her music. “Craziest” thing I had heard about her was her coming out, but that’s messed up
@P4Stalot
Ай бұрын
Yeah, for real
@gays4wumbology396
Ай бұрын
Yes omg like she’s never been my cup of tea all these years (too old for her target audience), but I never had a problem with her until all the alleged exploitation and defending/hanging around known predators ☠️
@breauseph
Ай бұрын
I'll always go hard on Jojo Siwa, she's the same age as Adam McIntyre and she went on Howie Mandel's podcast and straight up called him a liar for coming forward about being groomed by Colleen Ballinger. If he knows better she has probably even more reasons to know better since she's been in the industry and dealing with nightmare adults for so long, but instead she *chooses* to side with those nightmare adults.
@honestlythough7250
Ай бұрын
I do wanna say for the jojo stuff that some ppl are also criticizing for stuff beyond… being cringe. Before she started getting attention for the rebranding stuff she was being criticized for support alleged pr*dators (colleen ballinger & shane dawson) and (mostly) for this failed attempt she did as a dance mom-esc show where a bunch of little girls signed up to be mentored by her and made into a girl group. Stories were coming out of her and her mom being (allegedly) ableist and abusive to these girls. Ppl speculate that the cringe rebrand stuff is a deflection. I wouldnt discount the idea that shes making bad decisions bc she doesnt have good ppl around her/ she’s young and has growth to do in private, but… theres more goin on here
@P4Stalot
Ай бұрын
She's continued the cycle of abuse in a big way.
@hazelbro119
Ай бұрын
crossing the street wouldn’t even register to me tbh. i would much prefer someone pass me out because knowing someone is behind you is so much worse than being able to see them
@emiliedudgeon8246
Ай бұрын
time and time again i am blown away by how kind and well rounded you both seem. thanks for what you’re doing it means a lot to a lot of people!
@aj7058
Ай бұрын
I dont have anything worthwhile to add to it but what Jordan was saying about the loke false essentialisation of authentic self was a great thread of thought.
@michaelrogers6008
Ай бұрын
I'm not trying to equate my experience with the ones shared here, just sharing my own story. I’m a white, Jewish guy, 32, and back in the early 2000s, all I wanted to listen to was rap music. Country and rock were just background noise from my parents. My reality back then was simple: I was a nerdy kid who loved rap. But in my racist town, everyone around me-friends, adults-assumed I was trying to be a "wangster." That label made me question myself. Why couldn’t I just be a nerdy kid who liked rap? Why did loving rap have to mean anything more? This confusion messed with my identity. I spent my teen years wearing baggy clothes because everyone said that’s who I was supposed to be. It took until my early 20s to rediscover who I really am: a nerdy dude who loves hip-hop culture. To top it off, I was in Santee, California-a town so racist it was nicknamed Clantee. I was the only Jewish kid around, and I caught hate for that too. I was jumped twice for being Jewish. Whenever I’d bring my binder of CDs-especially Ludacris's Chicken-n-Beer album-I’d hear horrible comments like "no one wants to listen to that N- shit," and the silence from everyone else made me feel isolated. It made me constantly question, "why am I so weird?" Now, I know it doesn't have to mean anything more than that. We do a lot of projecting, and it impacts others deeply. As a society, we need to look inward more before making definitive statements about what certain qualities mean about someone else. Despite the negativity, those experiences made me acutely aware of racism from a spectator's perspective. As an angsty teen, I thought I could take on anyone, so I got into a lot of fights over it. Now, I’m more tactful, but I still have zero tolerance for that kind of stuff. It molded who I am, for better or worse. It feels worthwhile to be more aware of my impact on others than my peers ever were.
@user-xl8kj4lg2r
Ай бұрын
THANK YOU for clarifying that people should not conflate Ava's actions with ALL trans people. Her identity is completely separate from her personal decisions, past or present.
@ansigatico63
Ай бұрын
im 4'11 i think and Jarvis could never scare me his face resembles a muffin, to me he is not only friend shaped but friend sized (probably i dont know him) Jordan on the other hand, terrifying (british)
@shirin9452
Ай бұрын
Why is this so funny
@queenemmers
Ай бұрын
"(british)" is so funny lmaooo
@shirin9452
18 күн бұрын
@@ansigatico63 how do we get them to see this
@yourfriendlyrobot5415
Ай бұрын
i feel jorden with the “do you ever feel scary” question
@casteanpreswyn7528
Ай бұрын
For real. I have, what my friends have take to calling "resting murderer face", so I apparently look very scary when I'm just relaxing, so I've taken to introducing myself to my neighbors and the security in my building and complex so at the very least those around me know I'm not trying to be scary.
@yourfriendlyrobot5415
Ай бұрын
@@casteanpreswyn7528same when i zone out i look like im planing a murder lol
@12MyNameIs
Ай бұрын
Is it weird that I feel kind of bad for Jojo?.. She's been through a lot and she's probably traumatized. I just want her to try talking to a therapist.
@SimsWhoSmokeWeed
Ай бұрын
100% she needs space from her mother who is STILL essentially running her life for her :(
@Hyperfyre
Ай бұрын
I feel bad for all child stars because they didn't get a say in having to inevitably latch onto whatever makes them and the people around them money, but she is now old enough to be ABLE to find out and be better lol
@Stardustuk
Ай бұрын
She's old enough to realise that she needs help and old enough not to abuse others and defend creeps and child abusers
@rabbit6546
Ай бұрын
On a human level i do feel bad for her and hope she helps herself, but even with knowing everything she’s been through i can’t ignore her continuing the cycle with the teenage girls she’s hurt and the victims of predators she calls liars, i can acknowledge that she’s in multiple toxic relationships that have warped her perspective but she is ultimately still responsible for her actions and the impact of them
@minikawildflower
Ай бұрын
I think that's normal - it's super obvious that she's acting out in all these ways as a reaction to her life up to this point, which she claims was great and fine, but most of her peers who went through it call it abusive.
@fizzy8367
Ай бұрын
I went to a wildlife camp that was very military style and I remember crying because I wanted to call my Parents to take me home but I knew they wouldn’t. They took our phones at the beginning of camp but I was able to hide mine. One girl hid her phone and was able to call her parents and they took her home and I was so jealous. I didn’t know where I was going or what was going to happen. Most of the other girls there were very weird and intense and I had never shot a gun before and was so scared. We had punishments and a grueling schedule and I went home with a different outlook on life. Whenever I meet other people who experienced that camp it’s a bonding moment, and I keep up with a lot of them because you can’t not get close when you are in these conditions, but the thing is most people who went through it either went into the military or fell into addiction and it was a second source of tragedy in my college years since most of us ended up going to the same college.
@deckofcards
Ай бұрын
The main thing about trying to come off as safe around women is this: There is nothing you can do that manipulative men looking for a victim cannot also do
@paranoidlizard6338
Ай бұрын
Strangeaeons did a really good video about the “i’m not like other girls” phenomenon, and i really like how she puts it because the idea of what is “girly” or what a stereotypical girl looks like is not an actual person. Every girl has unique interests and depth and even when they do appear to fit that “other girl” stereotype, seeing them as nothing more than that is being dismissive of the things that make them a 3 dimensional person or treating the interests you *can* see them taking part in as inherently lesser.
@dannyslemonade976
Ай бұрын
Honestly I don't think you need to speak about every creator who does something horrible when you dont even know the person. There are so many venues and channels purely dedicated to spreading that type of information
@ArtistFormallyKnownasMC
Ай бұрын
Thanks for being here for us. I’m a sad gurl tonight and haven’t slept yet because of it. I had the Sims 1 on PinkyPuffyPuff’s channel (for anyone who may enjoy no commentary game play). But it was just distracting. So I immediately reached for one of the full length pod videos. Thanks, you guys are really kind and are good for my laughter and mental health.
@Xela_Redna
Ай бұрын
Hear me out: Jojo seems like the antithesis of Jennette McCurdy.
@inflatablesoup1084
Ай бұрын
Direct opposite trauma responses
@chuckmcluckin6082
Ай бұрын
No wait this is an interesting take
@_wheelofcheese
Ай бұрын
On the Cadet Police Academy section: as a part of No Child Left behind, schools have to grant military recruiters free access to students or the school's federal funding will be revoked. So yes, if you go to school in the US they will absolutely try to recruit you. The aggressiveness of it depends on your demographics and socioeconomic status, but I would be surprised if any american student didn't at least have them show up with the pull up bars and clipboards full of info/ sign up sheets. They came to my school once or twice a month, and we had a decent amount of kids in JROTC from sixth grade onwards.
@hughjanos3992
Ай бұрын
the jrotc kids were the biggest bootlickers. like imagine being gen z and not being disillusioned with the united shitholes of america.
@jijitters
Ай бұрын
Thankfully they never came to my school, but I guess they knew art school kids were a (proudly) lost cause for the military lol
@mapleglass1401
Ай бұрын
What the FUCK?! Ugggh- thank you for sharing this knowledge!
@chiknnugget2511
Ай бұрын
50:18 OMGG, when i was in primary school, i was just chilling in class when a boy called my my name and when i turned around, said the N-word to my face (im black/mixed) and the absolute SHOCK i felt, and everyone in class heard but the teacher like JUST left.. i didnt say anything to the teacher but my friends did and im so grateful for that ❤ but like wtf possessed him to do that?? (for context i was one of the 5 black people in the ENTIRE town, the only one in our school)
@marmalar
Ай бұрын
Yeah, I grew up in NYC as a Colombian young man with some black in my roots and could pass for Mediterranean when I was younger. Had an old Italian woman at a bodega say, "This neighborhood was so nice before all the n*gg*rs and sp*cs came." I really wish I was stronger and had spoken up about how shitty that comment was - but I was a teenager and insecure, so I just nervously smiled and left.
@MaePekoPeko
Ай бұрын
The "use this as an opportunity to divest yourself from influencers" made me immediately *like* this one. Such an important thing to remember in this age of the internet.
@mumblingelf
Ай бұрын
Feel genuinely bad for people like these guys that HAVE to declare their disapproval over every single youtuber pedo scandal lest they risk being attacked by the mobs themselves... like to even have to mention how fresh the mr beast videos were at the time of recording this is so irritating lol.
@scottcuyler8231
Ай бұрын
A "bowling ball with tree trunks coming off my body" is how I'd describe myself if I had thicker arms
@machinate
Ай бұрын
Guillermo Del Skibidi-Torro
@marmalar
Ай бұрын
I love how KZitem is offering to translate your comment with "one o' dem hispanish names".
@SarahtoninSerum
Ай бұрын
Seems like we just had an episode, then I realize we kinda did, and um, oh no I'm tired ..
@pickleshits
Ай бұрын
Jarvis doing the apple dance when??
@goldendew5759
Ай бұрын
Who up sadding their boyz rn
@nixiedust5010
Ай бұрын
As a short person I try very hard to be scary , it’s a challenge 😤😂
@SimsWhoSmokeWeed
Ай бұрын
lmfaooo me too. dark eye makeup is everything
@queenemmers
Ай бұрын
Same but it's a little tricky to do in a mini floral dress lol
@cleoc6698
Ай бұрын
"i have glass skin and avian bones" hahahah still scary but at least funny
@jerryrose9472
Ай бұрын
20:23 I legit thought he said Urinal Del Toro and I thought it was the funniest thing. Oh well.
@sourgreendolly7685
Ай бұрын
"I don't like it when people do things for attention" Now, miss ma'am! 😂
@hey_its_haze
Ай бұрын
if i could offer just a tiny critique about talking about Ava, please don't use they/them pronouns for her, when she explicitly uses she/her. Obviously the situation is disgusting, but degendering her signals to the trans community as a whole that their identities are conditional on cis approval. just a tiny note, not a big deal
@gipadonimus
Ай бұрын
I feel this sm. It's similar (but a little different) to how people will be so supportive of a creator with a bigger build, until they do something immoral then suddenly it's so easy for everyone to comment on their appearance negatively.. Inherently though, when people think it's suddenly okay to misgender, body-shame in any way, or even start questioning validity to that person's identity because they've done super terrible things that are completely unrelated, that's just wrong and is clearly coming from a bitter place..
@salemmdean
Ай бұрын
i just wrote a comment similar to this and i felt kinda bad but i’m glad it wasn’t just me pointing it out lol
@occamsaturn
Ай бұрын
was gonna say this too
@gipadonimus
Ай бұрын
@@OldManYellsAtClouds If you use it in certain context. Especially when the person's gender or even existence was recently unknown. Like, "I've never heard of them before." or sometimes vaguely things like, "I think they're a good person." In general though, if the person has openly only used she/her it's fair to not even bring that into it, if the aforementioned person has some intention to misgender as a punishment at least. Jarvis and Jordan didn't come in with a lot of aggression in that way or anything, just in general ig.
@wolfwoods_
Ай бұрын
i was going to write this also but hoped someone else had first, so thank you
@CarolineCalvano
Ай бұрын
that fact that jordan crosses the street to make women more comfortable or speed up and go around makes me cry happy tears, that amount of effort should be the bare minimum and it’s so appreciated, i live in downtown la and whenever im around male presenting people i get so nervous and sometimes they don’t seem to understand personal space, i agree with anastasia but i also think it’s super helpful to at least try
@miiiira_
Ай бұрын
This episode came out at just the right time to go to bed with it
@SimsWhoSmokeWeed
Ай бұрын
it came out at the perfect time for me eating dinner :) they're so in sync with their fans
@NoiseDay
Ай бұрын
Take the episode out to dinner first!
@cadwelltanner7616
Ай бұрын
just because the episode is gay doesnt mean it wants to sleep with you
@clownscola
Ай бұрын
"we still need to watch the finalie" DAMN RIGHT. ITS LIKE YOU KNOW IVE BEEN WAITING.
@milesn64
Ай бұрын
Ty for uploading while I am recovery from the hospital! Love sadboyz!
@soldiaz7261
Ай бұрын
good luck on your recovery!! :)
@juiceboxfromthevoid
Ай бұрын
I hope you have a good recovery!!! ❤
@milesn64
Ай бұрын
@@soldiaz7261 Thank you!
@milesn64
Ай бұрын
Thank you so much!!
@kaiyajo23
Ай бұрын
Jarvis the hole in your sock around 57:52 is INSANE
@FirstNameBunchANumbers
Ай бұрын
Tom Macdonald crossed off the bingo card
@queenemmers
Ай бұрын
Those Cadet Academy videos brought me marching band flashbacks. Nothing that extreme happened but I could tell our coaches got some sort of power trip out of yelling at and discipling us. Not to mention that the struggles we TEENAGED students faced in school and our personal lives, especially during Covid, were completely dismissed as "excuses". I'm glad that's all behind me now.
@bongpoquito
Ай бұрын
Dear god. Dear god. Dear god. Its been 6 years but I hated the Cadet Police Academy. I call that my piglet era, it was a weeklong bootcamp for kids, which at the age, traumatizes them. I quit after attending the academy 4 summers in a row. I hate that part of my life, honestly.
@bongpoquito
Ай бұрын
The last year I went, I met someone; we bonded over the dislike of the camp and we clicked. We've been together almost 6 years and we won't be doing this to our kids.
@_peachgardens_
Ай бұрын
was not expecting a tom mcdonald mention this episode and i am so happy
@notlegallyskylar
Ай бұрын
I love that this podcast is now four people, but two of them are off camera
@joanaecho
Ай бұрын
I understand not wanting to speak on Jojo Sewa because shes growing and most of what you see is just her being kinda cringe, however, there are clips of her concerts (which children go to) of her putting her hand inside her pants. So i think that crosses the limit.
@jijitters
Ай бұрын
There are many reasons not to like or support her but kids being at her concerts isn't one of them. it's simply not her problem or responsibility that kids like her music if she's not catering to kids, which she no longer is. They tried to shame Lil Nas X for the same thing just because kids liked Old Town Road but it's just not fair to subject adults to kid rules they don't want just because kids like something they made. Out of all the things she deserves criticism for, I still think she has a right to act like a 21yo instead of a 12yo and the 12yos present do not get to dictate that.
@LayZeeChill
Ай бұрын
THREE tree trunks?? 👀
@salemmdean
Ай бұрын
hi idk if y’all will even see this and i know jarvis likely didn’t have any negative intention i just want to say for future reference please use she/her when referring to ava tyson, using they/them for a trans person who doesn’t explicitly use those pronouns is still misgendering ! i think it’s important to recognize that trans people are not immune to problematic behavior and should absolutely be held accountable for their actions HOWEVER we should still always refer to them with the correct name/pronouns. that being said again i absolutely don’t think jarvis had any bad intentions behind that i just wanted to bring attention to it okay i’ll get off my soapbox now thank you love y’all
@tylermartin9225
Ай бұрын
not trying to clap back but “they/them” are perfectly fine to use for any one identifying as anything they are gender neutral pronouns, unless used with malice i personally see nothing wrong with it. Sorry if that came off as aggressive.
@SapphireSeahorse494
Ай бұрын
@@tylermartin9225 they/them is for people when those are their pronouns, or when you don't know someone's pronouns. if you know their pronouns and it doesn't include they/them, they/them is still misgendering.
@tylermartin9225
Ай бұрын
@@SapphireSeahorse494 i understand where ur coming from, purposely saying they/them as opposed to preferred pronouns is definitely rude (malice) in my personal life i use it all the time even when referring to a cis male or female makes things easier… less brain power lol
@hello_world2767
Ай бұрын
everything ur saying is totally correct i just wanted to add that ava’s pronouns were listed on her socials as she/they for a while earlier this year and if jarvis/jordan didn’t look at her socials specifically recently they might not have known
@xMythStarx
Ай бұрын
@@hello_world2767would take 2 seconds to check and they should’ve
@FreshBakedPi00
Ай бұрын
When I was younger I was the definition of the “not like other girls” pick me, then turned out to be a trans dude, and I’ve sorta noticed the “pick me” mindset evolved with my identifying as trans. Like I’ve gotten really hyper-masculine the longer I’ve identified as trans out of fear I’d be seen as a woman or even just mildly feminine like it’s a bad thing. I’ve caught myself sorta judging other more comfortably feminine trans dudes even though I know for a fact you don’t have to be super masculine to be a dude?? I have no idea how to help this situation either cause I know only a few other trans dudes and I’m scared they’ll rlly judge me for my fear of being feminine and just see me as misogynistic even though I feel incredibly guilty about it. I get so dysphoric over not even outright “feminine” things like being mildly bad at SOME video games or not understanding some tones since I’m autistic. Really hope I get over this soon since I am just a teenager and have like ZERO confidence and little support from any adults in my life.
@wolfwoods_
Ай бұрын
its completely understandable as a trans guy to want to distance yourself from femininity, coming from a trans guy who used to do exactly that. as i've gotten older ive just gradually become more comfortable with fem things in my private life, i dont know if id be comfortable expressing most of it around strangers who could misgender me but at the same time, its important to be honest and authentic with yourself. some cis guys like fem stuff and thats perfectly fine, just as is the case with trans guys. the things you like and enjoy, and your gender expression, can be completely unrelated to identity and even if you already know that it can take some time to process and be comfortable with the thought and fully confident and comfortable with how you express yourself. sorry if thats a lot and doesnt make total sense, its very stream of conscious
@absoluitfruit5793
Ай бұрын
After a week of seeing absolutely insane takes it’s so nice to hear y’all being so reasonable
@chuckmcluckin6082
Ай бұрын
I want to say this is the most frustrating time to be a twitter user, but to be honest I can't remember the last time it wasn't completely miserable and inflammatory.
@avc793
Ай бұрын
I've had so many times where men are running quickly behind me and I'm like PLEASE BE AWARE OF YOURSELF
@Baralai
Ай бұрын
Every time, my brain does not cease to fail me as it always expects them to go (Jarvis): I’m Jarvis (Jordan): I’m Johnson
@noam3561
Ай бұрын
Jarvis's reflection on the psychology of being a "pick me" or "not like other girls" is so apt, and I think a really crucial missing piece in the discussion! In growing out of feeling superior to feminine women I had forgotten that some of that came from the fact that me not being feminine was socially hindering as a little kid. Of course the idea that this standard i couldn't meet was actually vapid was appealing, it wasn't just an idea i heard and latched onto in a vacuum. i feel like i understand the barbie movie monologue better. thanks
@demoncorejunior
Ай бұрын
speeding up and going around makes it obvious why you were “approaching” them. i think in that situation, resolving the fear conclusively by passing by could be the simplest way to diffuse the fear that is part of women’s existence in society
@Jordan83709
Ай бұрын
Don't forget, Jojo defended Ukulele apology video lady!
@vitaminwater9662
Ай бұрын
Colleen Ballinger. Calling her ukulele apology video lady makes it sound like a meme and not a serious attempt at an apology for very serious allegations. I hate how that situation was treated
@xMythStarx
Ай бұрын
@@vitaminwater9662it was not a serious attempt tho let’s be so fucking honest. She knew what she was doing.
@Jordan83709
Ай бұрын
@@vitaminwater9662 I forgot her name But they both suck
@hooniesdiamond
Ай бұрын
As a Brit, I can report that military cadet camp was a huge thing in my small town, and that loads of people in my school would brag about being an air force cadet, navy cadet etc. They let teenagers shoot real guns and fly planes while definitely indoctrinating them to join the military at the same time... I just took it for granted as a regular after school activity while I was surrounded by that, but now looking back it was very weird...
@kollo5678
Ай бұрын
Thank you for having subtitles available!
@thebadpoet
Ай бұрын
I’m a cis woman, and I do find it most unsettling if someone is behind me and staying steadily behind me. Someone speeding up to pass might be scary in the brief moment of noticing someone speeding up, but once they pass you the threat feels resolved. I’m also 5’10” myself, so there aren’t many human beings who are significantly taller than me, and I know that makes a big difference. General advice, though, is don’t have headphones in/on while walking in public. It actually can be dangerous.
@Imowe_
Ай бұрын
Not Jojo saying she doesn’t like when people work for attention like she’s not finna leave that interview in her car with her face all over it
@will_beck
Ай бұрын
If I'm walking behind someone alone at night I just hold my keys so they can hear me.
@ChelsAly
Ай бұрын
Growing up half black, half white, and Jewish in a mostly white Jewish school.... This episode really resonates with me. Thank you ❤
@BunnyDanger
Ай бұрын
Didn't Ava's alleged victim come out and say that she didn't do any grooming? I don't know the exact context of the allegations, but I'd like to see this looked at too
@e1le_
Ай бұрын
yes, but another person came forward. it is worth noting they misgendered her the entire time when describing what happened though
@xMythStarx
Ай бұрын
@@e1le_id be very suspicious about it at this point considering the context here. I almost always believe victims first, as someone who’s been a victim myself, but between people having harassing her and making shit up about her being a predator w 0 proof or actual allegations beforehand (basically ever since she came out), the proven to be false allegations that someone else just made about her, AND the INTENTIONAL MISGENDERING?? It smells exactly like the shit transmisogynists everywhere make up about trans women all the mf time to get them attacked or killed.
@xMythStarx
Ай бұрын
@@e1le_being intersectional in our activism means we also need to be cautious we don’t fall for the tricks oppressors pull to paint the people they’re oppressing as degenerate monsters, because then it makes it easier for them to get away with the atrocities they commit on these people and those who are in the same marginalized groups as them.
@xMythStarx
Ай бұрын
@@e1le_very reminiscent of white women calling the police on black people for literally existing, where the white person makes up some false allegations of violence, causing the black person to get brutalized or even killed by police. something that we see happening all the mf time. Similar to how right wing pundits and their crusty little henchmen spread lies about all the drag queens or trans people in kids spaces, or even just in public, (especially trans women and black and brown queers) being evil and “grooming kids” when nothing remotely like that is ever occurring in these situations. While yes, some trans women absolutely can be predators (because anyone can be), it’s important we are more careful about what we believe and from where and who it’s coming from regarding allegations against queer folks but ESPECIALLY against trans women, who are the consistently the most targeted out of anyone in the queer community, and who make up the majority of the names we list off every trans day of remembrance.
@e1le_
Ай бұрын
@@xMythStarx yes i definitely agree! i was just pointing out someone else had come forward, but that doesn’t automatically mean she is a predator
@user-nw9vc9lx9u
Ай бұрын
Jojo actually has become very sexualized BY HERSELF and everyone hates it
@wesaidsomething
Ай бұрын
I think one thing about Jojo Siwa compared to other former child stars is that she grew up on reality tv, where literally any attention is good for views. I think reality tv encourages drama and behaving in outrageous ways because that's what drives interest and views. Reality tv thrives on people behaving awfully. Whereas a lot of child stars grew up on Disney and Nick where they had to be squeaky clean and family friendly, and so they probably grew up insanely image conscious as a result of the network's pressure. I feel like maybe Jojo Siwa and her team around her are continuing with the idea that any attention is good attention, there's no such thing as bad press etc. But that's really keeping her from transitioning into a serious artist, you can't really sustain a career with continuing to do outrageous things, people get bored. There also doesn't seem to be any artistic vision or authenticity behind what she's doing, which I think people want. Even with someone like Miley Cyrus, she did sing a lot of songs about her exes and break ups and stuff which is at least relatable to most people. I think you can do outrageous things if people recognise some kind of artistic vision or authenticity behind it. Someone like Lil Nas X has done a lot of out there stuff, but he has a strong artistic vision and he has also spoken up about a lot of things like being a gay black man who started out in country music. He's also really up front and acknowledges that he does do stuff for attention, which feels a lot more authentic to most people. Even Paris Hilton has managed to be taken seriously, despite previously being seen as a blonde airhead, because she's spoken up about her past traumas and fought really hard to amplify voices of people who have been abused at wilderness camps like she was. Whereas Jojo Siwa hasn't really given the public anything to like about her? It's not even like she needs the money, she made millions as a child, so her whole "rebrand" just comes off as an inauthentic, greedy grab for more money and attention.
@LoneRanger-et7gq
Ай бұрын
Jordan's story about being resistant towards befriending/embracing another black/mixed person within a predominantly yte friend group is fairly common; it speaks to a larger societal issue: there can only be one. There are so many stories about black people being denied opportunities/positions because companies "already had a black person." There are stories about black employees'/professionals' growing anxieties over newly hired black employees; they automatically assumed that the new hire(s) were their replacement. Sadly, in too many cases, they were right.
@benwetzler6912
Ай бұрын
The boyz have been so active lately big ups
@yrn3992
Ай бұрын
The fact that there are men who are understanding of the fact that we have to be on guard all the time is nice. You can’t make sure that everyone is going to feel safe. But crossing the street and walking on the other side is definitely a good thing to do, that will make most women feel slightly less threatened. Also because I’m a white woman I worry that when the random man I’m avoiding on the street alone at night, happens to be a poc they’ll think I’m racist. I hope people don’t assume that like nooo I’m afraid of you because you’re a man I don’t gaf about what colour you are.
@BeansFreak
Ай бұрын
I can only pay my bills with this podcast on. Idk if it's become a routine or if I need the comfort of it but I am NOT paying my car payment until I hear Jordan do his intro
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