Learning that self-gentleness has been so difficult. Three years in, and I’m just now learning it. Thanks so much for saying these beautiful things ❤
@mathildewilliams9608
4 күн бұрын
You are helping me so much. My husband died just more than a year ago. And yes, the body remembers and it's terrifying.
@meeluanistyn1644
10 ай бұрын
Definitely. I’ll be going through this next week for the first time. I won’t be doing anything else other than staying at home and, probably, crying a lot. That’s how I’ll get through it. I hope.
@jennifershort3104
10 ай бұрын
This video showing up at this time is one of those synchronicities. My mother died on December 7, 2022. It was my 54th birthday. So this year is her one year anniversary and I have been so conflicted. I don't have a plan for the day. I can't think about that day without going through her last breath, her final exhale, and the peaceful release. It was truly peaceful, but in that moment I knew my whole life, my world was forever changed.
@jillgran490
10 ай бұрын
It's amazing how much we remember..... I just passed 2 years and find myself remembering more and more experiences spent with my son. It is still so hard, although I know it has softened, and will continue to soften. In my grief, I am grateful we spent so many memorable days together ❤
@KathyAlone2023
5 ай бұрын
Just passed week 54, I was blown away just how devastating that last week/month was. Your videos really do help, thanks.
@ghostdog7306
7 ай бұрын
I just went through several first anniversaries. The anticipation and fretting of it was the worst part. Don't cause yourself more undue stress than necessary. Deal with it when it arrives. Don't plan or worry about it until it gets there. Perhaps easier said than done.
@panagiotispapageorgiou3476
9 ай бұрын
Ms Devine, you're a valuable counsellor
@peteporcelli2346
6 ай бұрын
I'm doing this. My wife's birthday is tomorrow she just died January 26th. Life surely isn't fair. I did buy her book. Im on chapter 5
@carolyngreen223
10 ай бұрын
I so needed this. Gentle
@panagiotispapageorgiou3476
10 ай бұрын
Totally relatable
@michaeld.williamsiii9026
10 ай бұрын
Loss my beloved adopted mom a year ago five days before Christmas.💔😢💔 Her passing anniversary is coming up again it’s weighing heavily on me amongst others who are gone. Including my beloved biological dad the Holidays are more meaningless no longer the same.😔😥😔 Without my phenomenal mom she made this time of year, along with my birthday so special little, or big.💔😭💔 Just not the same anymore, she was the mom I never had, my greatest true anchor, no one will truly love or care for me like her ever again. Sadly even friends don’t understand or get it. There’s no timeline grief hurts, the stigmatizing platitudes don’t help either, at times the entire family also becomes destroyed after the loss.💔😰💔 I feel simply just done with it all, she was the mother I never had as an adoptee, I miss my father even more.😭😰😭 Feeling simply orphaned, unwanted, isolated, abandoned & alone.💔😢💔 #UnbearableGrief
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