I always say my greatest regret in marriage was that I didn't finish "me" before getting married and having kids. Even though I did it at 29..I was not done pursuing my own goals/dreams.
@lashaeleaf8842
3 жыл бұрын
At 40 I’m now getting back in to nursing. We’re not married yet but I put my dreams on the back burner due to having a family.
@smileyatthebeach3452
3 жыл бұрын
@@lashaeleaf8842 Lashae..keep pursuing "you" while loving "him and them (kids)"🤩
@smileyatthebeach3452
3 жыл бұрын
@@qdpqbp confused about your reply 🤔
@Heyu7her3
3 жыл бұрын
@@smileyatthebeach3452 The men that comment negatively/snarkily against women on this channel are always confusing.
@augiemems3117
3 жыл бұрын
@@smileyatthebeach3452 it's never to late to follow your dreams and goals I think 🤔 u should still pursue want u want it just may take a little longer with a spouse and kids.🤷🏼♀️👌🏾😊👍🏽💞
@adriennew.5656
3 жыл бұрын
People think about relationships all the time because other people act like a person's life is not fulfilling unless they are in a relationship.
@ew0711
3 жыл бұрын
Absolutely 💯
@melanatedempath3476
3 жыл бұрын
Yep💯💯💯
@bottlesofchris
3 жыл бұрын
Yes. There are so many factors: judgment from others, judgment from ourselves. Love is the most prominent energy in human life so it’s a natural and fair desire but people warp this and settle and/or abandon themselves in order not to be alone and mess up the authenticity of partnership. Relationships should be just as unique as the individuals in them but society is not there yet
@cakesinthecity
7 күн бұрын
This!!
@zionrose007
3 жыл бұрын
Mrs Pope I am guilty of ignoring past signs of incompatibility to avoid being alone. As a result I put my passion and purpose on pause. Thank you for being used by the Most High to awaken us.
@jjphillips6292
3 жыл бұрын
"manage your mindset when it comes to dating" thattttssss a word
@Tfolife528
2 жыл бұрын
When I tried to pursue dreams while married, it was a disaster. He resented me, sabotaged me and became abusive. I’m divorced now. Ive seen marriages fall apart, when people attempt to pursue dreams!
@Ghragle-
3 жыл бұрын
It’s crazy that ppl say you need to go through things while you are single, but ppl get married at 19 and stay together 40+ years. You can do all these things with a partner, we just live in a self centered society, that’s always looking for a finished product. Ppl need to understand that real love from god is patient, and kind, and long suffering. It’s about duty and honor and god. If that’s both ppls focus you don’t need to be single. Single ppl are just selfish the majority are only thinking about what they gain, and not what they can give. You need 2 givers. There is a huge downside to being single. The only downside to being in a relationship is responsibility. Ppl now a-days are too selfish. Being influenced by someone who truly loves you will only encourage your passions. I helped one of my ex’s find her career path, she was lost when we met. I loved her. I fed al of her passions and now she’s business owner, doing exactly what she loves. Another ex always wanted to go to school, I helped her get back in, now she’s working in her dream field. Your partner will not deny your desires, or passions. Your partner loves seeing you elevated.
@Heyu7her3
3 жыл бұрын
Single people are supposed to be selfish. They're single.
@Ghragle-
3 жыл бұрын
@@Heyu7her3 if you are a selfish person how does that make you available to a relationship? Doing things for yourself is not selfish. Do things w/o thinking of other will. Like if I want to be married I shouldn’t behave like a hoe. Being selfish is off putting, the Bible says he who findeth a wife findeth a good thing. Selfish women aren’t wives. This is the problem. Even having that mentality will lead to ruins. Relationships are about give and take. Selfish ppl only take. They give so they can receive not of them self. It’s counterintuitive to want or seek a relationship, after a life of selfishness. Your just gonna change overnight? That’s not how human beings work. Only a narcissist would praise selfishness while speaking on preparing themself for a relationship.
@jjphillips6292
3 жыл бұрын
@@Heyu7her3 theres nothing wrong in making yourself a priority and taking care of yourself. Self care is very important if someone isnt going to love on themselves how can they love anyone else. Dont buy into the lie that loving on yourself is a bad thing.
@ninafrederick6048
3 жыл бұрын
@Tay Loso yh I'm wondering the same thing to. He said two givers, what did they give him? Heart breaks? Cause he's saying their his ex so I'm curious
@kampalamanuel4263
3 жыл бұрын
👏🏾👍🏾🙏🏾
@queenriri9393
3 жыл бұрын
A partner should be able to grow with you and respect you enough to support you bringing your dreams to pass. If he's not like that, he's usually a selfish person who doesn't truly love you anyway.
@stilldmp7891
3 жыл бұрын
Even if he doesn’t get on board you have to run ahead 🔥
@msgameconsciouscarter1475
3 жыл бұрын
Talking to me …. Dang this is all me and my toxic relationships . Maybe this why I’m meeting the same type of men in different bodies, I’m not the healthiest I need to be, I’m not that financial secure. Wow this is so deep.
@omphemetsechake2839
3 жыл бұрын
South Africa ❤ you Ms Carter...😊🔥
@peaceful_and_blessed2879
3 жыл бұрын
Love this Rebecca! Makes so much sense! Ive been single for several years and I love it., I think marriage again for me would be much harder at this point. Marriage/relationship is not an attractive option for me anytime soon. I am FREE to do everything to make myself better with no distractions. 🙌🙏🏻
@joyfitzgerald9878
3 жыл бұрын
💯
@WellWithMel
23 күн бұрын
I’m 27 and every single one of my close friends are in relationships/married so I’ve been feeling down about this , feeling the pressure to be in a relationship. But I do have goals that I’m working to achieve and I’m so thankful for this message to keep focusing on just that! I really needed this. Thank you! 🙏🏾
@mommyme6073
3 жыл бұрын
I love and enjoy going to the gym 💪but if my purpose partner doesn't like 🙃the gym that much he can stay! home but I will be going the gym is my therapy!
@rrb2895
3 жыл бұрын
I've been single/divorced for 4 years now. Our children are grown. For first time, Im actually alone enough to "do me" and I'm struggling to let that sink in. I feel like I'm not even the same person. All of this time for me? I am doing things that I enjoy. Went back to learn a beauty industry skill that I can work in. BUT. I needed this message. Thank you! Also.. Do you have a hair line? I love those colors you are wearing!!!
@ericalevene3125
3 жыл бұрын
I already workout and if he does not workout, we will not workout. 👍🏿
@toussaintan
3 жыл бұрын
🤣
@NursingHubPro
3 жыл бұрын
😂
@toussaintan
3 жыл бұрын
🙅♀️I've been divorced since 1995. I understand and agree with all points you made, however, sometimes I wonder if being content with my singleness has created a stubborn person who doesn't do well coupled with anyone. As they say, "we get stuck in our ways." 🤷♀️
@mesidye
3 жыл бұрын
👌. I often think if I’ll have a freaking meltdown when I wake up one day sharing the bed with a partner. I don’t even understand what having a roommate is like at this point
@toussaintan
3 жыл бұрын
@@mesidye Have you ever married in the past?
@mesidye
3 жыл бұрын
No
@annettecabezas6697
Жыл бұрын
I believe thats true
@Melanie-my6qi
3 жыл бұрын
Your curls are gorgeous... Congrats, on the RLP show.. 👋
@ninafrederick6048
3 жыл бұрын
It's like a mind block for me , that I'm praying about rn. Relationships aren't all that. Life is more than a relationship, especially when you have a good relationship with God, relationship with men/women won't be like a goal that u "must have". I think today as how i see it all around me and then everyone asking if u have a man or whatever just makes u think u must have it. I don't think so . My goals should be more than wanting a relationship and I'm working on it.
@ana-mariaalrasul9231
9 ай бұрын
I wish I knew this a long time ago. I was always focused on love, forgetting what I bring to the table. When I started working on myself I entered relationship and stopped evolving. That ruined my relationship and me.
@daisybarajas23
3 жыл бұрын
Taking The Work Masterclass, and I’ve been struggling to figure out how me and my bf can possibly be together after my healing. But truth be told, it’s not working because it’s not meant to!!!!! My dreams and aspirations are SOO SOOO much more important than a compromising relationship. Im in my singleness stage and it’s time I embrace it and make the best of it! You are God sent, this was absolutely necessary to hear to help me move forward in my decision. 🙏🏽❤️ XOXO
@RebeccaLynnPope
3 жыл бұрын
Good love!!! I'm so happy it helped! 💙
@fabulousfairy96
3 жыл бұрын
Great message Rebecca! Hair & makeup is flawless too
@Heyu7her3
3 жыл бұрын
It isn't single people's faults that they have that mentality. This is the first time in the world that there are older (30+) single/ never married people. It's because marriage is pressured and socialized into us at an extremely young age, and many of our institutions center marriage. Also, we're at a novel time where jobs aren't as stable and people have more options. So, the pharmacist could one year decide become a chemistry teacher. Of course, there needs to be conversations and planning, but changes are more common. Yes, I do agree that work needs to be done. But single peoples' unrealistic perceptions of marriage doesn't come out of nowhere.
@Scole23786
Жыл бұрын
I love this! I needed to hear this! You are so right about getting on your path to your goals while single before being in a relationship. Your partner’s energy is so important
@joywalker2682
3 жыл бұрын
I'm in my 40's and I'm not where I would like to be. I begin having children late in life, although I have various trades under my belt. Now I was very focused on relationships that I lost time in the aspiration department, and he feels I should be just taking care of the children.
@joywalker2682
3 жыл бұрын
..I meant to say solet taking care of the children's needs now, despite my aspirations.
@jasminepearls1047
3 жыл бұрын
Does he also put a lot of effort in his children or does he expect you do it more than him?
@jessabad836
11 ай бұрын
I watch this almost every day! 😅 Love this!! Now Im power lifting and finishing my masters studies!! Thank you for this message and opening us up w this perspective!
@aran08504
3 жыл бұрын
I will try not to date someone who's habits and lifestyle does not align with mine off the top.
@jjphillips6292
3 жыл бұрын
i never understood people saying dating sites are horrible or that the people there were wack I always thought I"m not those things and I'm there soooo i rebuke that ...
@toussaintan
3 жыл бұрын
Hi JJ, Some sites are worse than others though.The free ones....I've never used.
@jjphillips6292
3 жыл бұрын
@@toussaintan still doesn't change what i said.
@ronmance6715
Жыл бұрын
Listen to this woman ♥️ they should teach this in school 🏫 love your videos
@Tfolife528
2 жыл бұрын
Mrs. Pope , you are such an intelligent woman! Mr. Pope is blessed to have you! Thank you for sharing!
@SAnderson54
3 жыл бұрын
This is such an important topic that not enough people discuss. I've seen this happen to many married women around me, but I couldn't quite explain what I was seeing.
@Rolling8687
Жыл бұрын
With all due respect...Look how smart and beautiful she is still bringing the relationship knowledge. Much Respect R.L.P.
@nomodrama2008
3 жыл бұрын
Your look is absolutely beautiful. Your presentation is on point.
@nchantedone2073
3 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for sharing this, I have been struggling with these thoughts myself. This was right on time, as I am entering the next step in my career! 🙏🏽💗
@S_gw2011
3 жыл бұрын
💯 agree! One of the reasons why I am single. Everyday when I have to make a hard decision, I say- gosh this would be so hard if I had to consider someone else. Btw I love your hair color.
@shewize12
3 жыл бұрын
My God!!!!! I "happened" upon this video. Confirmation! On time! Needed this!!! Thank you. God is speaking to me through you...
@nanabrown6670
3 жыл бұрын
What baffles me is that why your channel has not reached millions yet. Lots of blessings to the Pope's.
@biggmonie
3 жыл бұрын
This is EXACTLY what I needed . Great motivation
@lesliedejoya
3 жыл бұрын
Your show will be airing at 1 AM Netherlands time, yet I will be up for it ⭐ can't wait! Will you be posting it on this channel as well?
@RebeccaLynnPope
3 жыл бұрын
Hi love, yes, it will be up on KZitem right after we wrap. Thank you for the love and support! 💙💙
@lesliedejoya
3 жыл бұрын
@@RebeccaLynnPope That's fantastic❣ Have a great show! Rebecca, I'm your abundant crusader here in NL 💫⭐
@norim5503
3 жыл бұрын
Always with good content. So glad your channel is growing and healthy.
@flygirl1942
3 жыл бұрын
I was JUST talking to God about this exact topic ... Literally, just now! Then I saw your email including this video and OMG I realized God was sending this YOU to explain THIS to me! Thank you God and thank you Mrs. Pope!🔥🙌🏽🙏🏽🥰💕
@phil5301
3 жыл бұрын
This Jewel is dropping JEWELS!!!!💎💎💎💎💎Thank you Sister Pope!!!!! Getting back to work!! In my single season!!! Hopefully my wife to be is doing the same before I meet her!!! Our future family will be fruitful because of the seeds we are planting NOW!!! This is exciting!!!!💯🔥🔥🔥
@Whitney322
3 жыл бұрын
You look incredibly beautiful! 🔥🔥🔥
@SanctifiedLady
2 жыл бұрын
This is very helpful. I’m making a full juicy life for myself right now, I’m doing all I desire, I have my silent time to be creative, I go to the gym all times of night, stay home and in bed when I want. I have high standards for myself and living up to it and keeping my routine is imperative. Not sure what adjustments I would be willing to make…but will not put my things on the back burner. I will not compromise my health everything I do now is for my health and longevity. Thank you! ❤️🩹
@jaz1elise
3 жыл бұрын
God has me walking in my purpose as a single woman, and there are certain things in my purpose that I need to get back to doing since I'm not in a relationship right now. Thanks for this, Mrs. Rebecca!
@antonpeep9297
3 жыл бұрын
I Thank God for people like you in a world like this full of confusion this is true clarity
@patrynaswritings7617
3 жыл бұрын
I have been thinking about these things when looking at potential partners. I want someone more disciplined than me in a healthy lifestyle and eating and my business plans etc thanks for your amazing channel
@quandrahodge8908
3 жыл бұрын
Now, I like what this young lady has to say here. I do agree with her.👍⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐❤️ I've been married (he was unfaithful/I divorced him/he asked me 4 times to remarry him🙅♀️🙅♀️🙅♀️No way!). I'm single and I like my freedom, but maybe I'll marry again one day. True, your partner does influence a lot of your decision making. Absolutely.👍🙏
@dkadwoa4114
3 жыл бұрын
Yaaaaaaalll she is not lying.....AT ALL!!!
@ongezwamafunda1376
Жыл бұрын
Watching this in 2022. I have saved this and I love it.
@billhoward4082
3 жыл бұрын
What a nice, uplifter, today? Thanks, RLP!! 💯🙌🏽😆
@RebeccaLynnPope
3 жыл бұрын
Bill! 😘😘😘
@alesiawilson6143
Жыл бұрын
I recently found Rebecca Lynn Pope as one of her talks “suddenly” appeared in my timeline. I saw the title of this one and thought oh, poo, I don’t need this one but okay I’ll listen as I finish cleaning the kitchen. Well, this was a message I needed to hear and apply. My fire has been stoked for me in my single season. And, I have more questions for the man I’m talking with. Thank you.
@RebeccaLynnPope
Жыл бұрын
You're welcome 💙
@passionatepatricia426
Жыл бұрын
Absolutely the Truth❣️Thank you for the confirmation ❣️
@trinap.8904
3 жыл бұрын
Now this is real practical knowledge!! I'm single and working on me!!
@Melly16yr10
3 жыл бұрын
Agreed 😄
@queenofthesouth4205
3 жыл бұрын
Your hair is gorgeous RLP. Thanks for another great message.
@RebeccaLynnPope
3 жыл бұрын
Thank you love! I'll tell my stylist!
@dorothyechols2922
3 жыл бұрын
I love your vibe Rebecca!! Good vibes!
@michaelhodges8005
2 жыл бұрын
I believe you are got something Rebecca Lynn Pope... Keep it coming...👏
@sarai8544
3 жыл бұрын
Your messages always speak directly to me!!
@aubriellemorgan
Жыл бұрын
Thanks for this message sister. Beautiful hair color btw, very flattering on you ❤
@TheEvolutionofJenniferJLewis
3 жыл бұрын
Eagles 🦅 can’t dumb down w/ pigeons!
@Dyrielle
3 жыл бұрын
Your hair is amazing in this video!
@susannaleesings
Жыл бұрын
I know that’s right I’m livin my best life now 🎉
@maryannrussell7263
2 жыл бұрын
GET TO WORK TO MAKE IT WORK! CANT WAIT FOR A PARTNERSHIP, FRIENDSHIP, ITS YOU !
@kimberlyjohnson8674
3 жыл бұрын
Omg!!!! Let’s stop and recognize How gorgeous she is !!!!!!! Black don’t crack
@Melly16yr10
3 жыл бұрын
Thank you Mrs Pope for your wisdom 😄. I had seen this for a while but couldn’t put my finger on it at all.
@andrella7748
2 жыл бұрын
Some blessed people are able to have businesses together and that’s amazing
@DsmooveO1
3 жыл бұрын
Amazing video..... ive been going through this type of situation several times in my life. Thank you
@dominique.8522
Жыл бұрын
what a great talk, I needed to hear this message.
@cherylweirnotary4332
Жыл бұрын
A powerful lesson from REBECCA LYNN POPE.....Now, let's take action.
@billhoward4082
3 жыл бұрын
Rebecca, do I hear a "Misery-loves-company" theme in here somewhere or was it the "Why -you-doin'-that?" part that should've raised my antenna? ) Lol)) 🤣👏🏾 🦅✨
@HD-xb9mj
3 жыл бұрын
Maybe it's better to just be single, when your establishing
@shar555
Жыл бұрын
I loveeeeeeeee being single. I take it too far sometimes , but I believe I will have all I need / want in the right time/season. Thank you Lord for the single season. Mrs. Pope is CORRECT. My motto: I need my husband/ man to be the receipt. I am becoming what I am attracted to in this season, a receipt.
@orvilwalcott3226
Жыл бұрын
Rebecca this is so on point. You are a God send. Your wisdom is from above.
@Chenaiandchenea01
Жыл бұрын
A Word very true thank you 🌻
@Jen_ell
3 жыл бұрын
You told all the truths!
@jaywillie7840
3 жыл бұрын
This will definitely help me articulate myself better to the guy I’m dating. Thank you!
@reneelb7
2 жыл бұрын
That was an awesome word!!! Thank you…51 and divorced. Needed that reminder from my marriage days.☺️
@jessabad836
Жыл бұрын
I love this!!
@soyadavis9362
11 ай бұрын
this is gem 💎💎💎💎
@user-jh8pi4tz3y
Жыл бұрын
Everything you’re saying is resonating with me! ❤
@AnastasiiaUmanets
3 жыл бұрын
Very good point! Bravo!
@lvncsr6166
3 жыл бұрын
Is Mr. Pope going to be a regular on the new show? You are such a beautiful and inspirational couple!
@Metropolitangirl
Жыл бұрын
I love this! As a young entrepreneur this is great advice! I wont rush into marriage!
@jenniferjones4113
3 жыл бұрын
Powerful!!!
@ladyjones09
2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for this message Rebecca! You're such a dope blessing!!! Blessings to you and everything you touch love!
@IndigoWisdom1
Жыл бұрын
Love it!!!
@thudg375
3 ай бұрын
❤❤❤❤❤ Hey Rebecca!!!
@fsjafsja508
2 жыл бұрын
This is a TERRIFIC video! Super timely and informative. 🤗 Thank you!
@dkadwoa4114
3 жыл бұрын
Men and women.......FACTS
@lisasmith8202
2 жыл бұрын
This video has blessed me. I really needed to hear this!!!
@rebecarodriguez2039
3 жыл бұрын
You are so beautiful!
@lazedracheatom5182
Жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for this information Rebecca I’ve been single for about 5years I’m patiently waiting for the Lord to send my Husband I’m still working on myself while I’m waiting and learning the Lord First amen 🙏🏽❣️❣️My Season is coming up for my Partner
@sibo8290
3 жыл бұрын
Thank you for this video. It spoke to me, I keep thinking I will only afford a house when I have a partner / husband.
@omphemetsechake2839
3 жыл бұрын
UZuma useJele wena ula...mjolo vibez🤷♂️lols🤣
@sibo8290
3 жыл бұрын
@@omphemetsechake2839 😂😂🤣🤣
@KiKiCarr
3 жыл бұрын
Lookin beautiful!
@gretchinmorris6491
3 жыл бұрын
Wow! I was told that marriage is not a partnership, it’s a business, there are no copilots(man=pilot/CEO; wife(flight attendant)... please clear this up, I’m confused 🤷🏽♀️ P.S. I developed a friendship/relationship with a Spaniard man(9 year Houstonian). It’s been four weeks now. Both of us artists in our own right (he’s an interior designer, I’m a teacher/freelance commissioned artist). Wish me luck! Btw, I’m still busy working on myself, developing my own business, having a healthy appetite for life, no negative vibes allowed 🙅🏾♀️😁
@carlar801
3 жыл бұрын
🙌🏽💯 Come on here! 💯🙌🏽 This was so helpful. I have forwarded this to errybody ☺🥰
@lexuslawrence9406
3 жыл бұрын
I don’t know if you have gotten this question before who does your hair please I love your hair
@RebeccaLynnPope
3 жыл бұрын
Hi love here's her IG link: instagram.com/hairgeniusofatlanta_?
@onyya3583
3 жыл бұрын
You are a blessing Rebecca. Thank you!
@yolandamurry3122
3 жыл бұрын
Single and Executing!! I Love it!
@breanna7245
3 жыл бұрын
Wow, this is good stuff. Definitely gonna work on this. Thank you for this video ❤️❤️❤️
@quandrahodge8908
3 жыл бұрын
REPOSTING TO MY TIMELINE!!! THIS IS EXCELLENT!!! 🙏❤️⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐👍THANK YOU FOR SHARING.
@dionnetillis
2 жыл бұрын
I needed to hear this. I’m working on me right now
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