I consider myself a Red Pill man, very keen with the Alpha Male/Beta Male dynamics in society and versed on the intentions that drive female behavior. Also I have broken lots of social conditioning and cut people out of my life for manipulative behavior/narcissism...I agree with what Rebecca is talking about. This video is very powerful and she hits Bulls Eye several times throughout concerning marriage, doing internal work, etc... Derrick Jackson's wife needs to leave him, she is being manipulated and she hasn't broken any of her social conditioning. It's a shame really. A lot of religious people stay in these trash relationships because of fear of what other people think, etc.. Great video, keep it up !
@godseed79
3 жыл бұрын
Man, this message was so needed. People don't realize the level of trauma at play with both sexes.
@drtee2905
3 жыл бұрын
Had to listen to this! So true! Too many grown ass men out here getting in relationships with NO HEALING!! They think they have nothing wrong. Just broke off a 1 year relationship with a 52 yr old ( never married), and I'm 46. Horrible communication and couldn't even express how he felt about me? DUDE......I'M OUT! I was too patient, too giving, too understanding, and too caring. Taking a break from dating!
@lashondaward2924
3 жыл бұрын
Amen
@alexisagginie4574
3 жыл бұрын
We are over, over worked trying to weed out their toxins.
@jaceem4175
3 жыл бұрын
Just a waste of time! Am i right. You tried did your part but they still want try to express there feeling. You done all you can do. Why not walk away.
@apriljones1216
3 жыл бұрын
Yes its beyond disappointing out here I wish I could start a podcast with someone because this a our communities own pandemic.
@Annjenkins806
3 жыл бұрын
And don't beat yourself up because we all have done it..You just pour your heart to a man that could not love you back like you did..
@intentionalgreatness
3 жыл бұрын
"Women who work on themselves, who are you supposed to be with?" Man this is the MILLION dollar question.
@LionessLani
3 жыл бұрын
Real men of God. Those that intentionally love their wives as Christ love the church. Sacrifice, love, and obedience. Those that understand that submission goes both ways.
@apriljones1216
3 жыл бұрын
When you find out please let me know
@jkrystal11
3 жыл бұрын
I really wish men could understand this, their EGO is usually why women leave. But they well never understand that...this is so heartbreaking :(
@daddyeyez740
3 жыл бұрын
No, women using that vulnerability against them is it. But as usual, women will take no accountability.
@user-hl2rm5db8h
3 жыл бұрын
@@daddyeyez740 It actually is true, when a man's ego is too big, bigger than the humbleness combined with masculine leadership....his ego will push the woman away. It's just sadly the way it is
@sharlettbryant9075
2 жыл бұрын
True, I left a man I dated for 4yrs and one of the biggest reasons was due to his ego and too much of a man to not work on his issues.
@sherrigeorge9151
3 жыл бұрын
25:00 - 25:29 you spoke truth! I was thinking that last night...I’m out here trying to heal and improve myself for what?! The men aren’t doing the same work, what am I spending my time for?! I’ve stopped trying to improve myself “for a man” anymore...I’m healing for MYSELF! If a good, healed man comes along then fine...
@clarnicpsu05
3 жыл бұрын
Yup. It’s about time for men to be held accountable
@HappyHealthyHair
3 жыл бұрын
Amen sis! Same Spread the word
@jaceem4175
3 жыл бұрын
Thumbs ☝.
@nathalie5238
3 жыл бұрын
More and more men do the work, they are still a minority yet they exist! I know a few of them…
@shawnhill8404
3 жыл бұрын
You are speaking a truth , that I myself WAS guilty of , bringing baggage from a horrible childhood which was never discussed or addressed,!!! My fellow Men , please get some help( therapy) , it doesn’t make you soft or a punk , it’s not a overnight process, but if you put the work in on yourself, the rewards will be worth it and priceless !!!
@shawnhill8404
3 жыл бұрын
@@October3074 the abuse came from my mother ( physically / emotionally/ spiritually) it showed itself in my relationships with distrust of women ,whom I was in a relationship with , always operating from a defensive mode , never showing anything emotion ( how I really felt ) other than sexual , not discussing my hurt, my pain MY FEARsS ( these emotions were taught as weaknesses to me and my brother) fighting verbally and physically never knowing how to communicate any other way!
@HappyHealthyHair
3 жыл бұрын
Keep on your path brotha! prayin your peers will follow suit, it's a jungle out here thanks for sharing in the comments
@cecelila5844
3 жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing your experience with us.
@tishataray
Жыл бұрын
@@shawnhill8404 thanks for admitting this. I was a victim of my dad's lack of healing and shame feeling like he wasn't good enough for my mum so guess what...he lashed out on me physically and emotionally causing me trauma in order to preserve his ego and maintain some false sense of power. I think if a lot of men pioneer healing among men, it would force other men to normalise it
@denaynix
3 жыл бұрын
I love her!! It is not our job as women to be a mans healer, therapist or counselor. They must seek help themselves. It’s exhausting to have to pour into someone who is empty and your not being filled. It takes two “whole” individuals, not “perfect” to be in a committed relationship! Period!
@raeanneegan6191
Жыл бұрын
Exactly and you can’t go beyond a person’s will. So all you will do is drain yourself, till you are a shell of your former self. Women we are not rehabilitation centres for broken men 🙌🏾
@billhoward4082
3 жыл бұрын
So right, Rebecca! It's high time for a conversation about this "elephant-in-the-room!" 😇 LORD, help us!! 🙏💜
@sirpoppinchuck
3 жыл бұрын
The Lord will help us thats why we have Godly counsel. The Lord knew what he was doing when he ordained marriage the problem is we dont consult hom on our relationships n wait for the person thats best for us. We choose with no wisdom n dont have good judgement
@jessicasue6604
3 жыл бұрын
My man does the work!! So proud and blessed! But man I’ve been with who she’s talking about! Lol! That’s how I know the difference. It’s like a breath of fresh air to be with someone who owns his part!
@lashondaward2924
3 жыл бұрын
I agree 90 % percent A lot of people Don't do the work and turn around and abuse and Torture pure hearted People - Guard Your Heart and Body's 💘 QUEENS 💘
@Crownlogic821
3 жыл бұрын
All the black 90’s movies encouraged us women to be his therapist. We’re chasing the dream of him being hard on the outside but soft inside. Jason’s lyric, boys in the hood, higher learning, etc.
@AiringThoughts
3 жыл бұрын
I'm a man, and Rebecca is speaking nothing but facts. We as men try to control the narrative of who we are at all times because it's what we've been taught since we were 4. I grew up in a broken home. The history of my family/entended family is abuse and violence. I was never a physical abuser or verbal abuser, but when I became an adult and started dating, I saw how my scars and wounds were hindering not just life in dating, but in friendships, family, and my self-esteem, because in general I was emotionally unavailable. That took SELF-AWARENESS. I knew I didn't want to become a broken man or abuser like my father so I went and did the internal work on myself (Books, therapy, fitness, new friends, relocating). And if you're a person reading this and you can relate, you should get the help too. Therapy is a blessing. No one wants to be around a person is who tore up from the floor up.
@RebeccaLynnPope
3 жыл бұрын
Thank you Aaron for your transparency. More men need this message. You are a leader!
@estherg834
3 жыл бұрын
It’s the glow for me sis! Looking gorgeous!!!!
@annborn6563
3 жыл бұрын
Preach!!! Those damn groups kept me stuck for years-then I started listening to what God was saying to me!
@apriljones1216
3 жыл бұрын
This is why myself and some many in our late 40's are single exhausted ,lonely Settling.. No one is really saying this on larger platform!!
@TiggysTC
3 жыл бұрын
🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🔥🔥🔥🔥 THIS is Why I started following Rebecca Lynn Pope!! She don't sugar coat nothing! She don't "spiritualize" nothing! She keeps it all the way 100 The way God intended!!
@HealthierByGrace
3 жыл бұрын
You had time for us todayyyy! Whew!!! I’m a therapist professionally and it’s hard out here relationally! 🥵
@childofgodskingdom8403
3 жыл бұрын
Ladies this need to go VIRAL.. Send to all your girls_ co-workers, family members, friends... Etc This is on a serious note. PERIODTT... WOW!! Send to the men too. Exposure
@ms.bizlady2956
3 жыл бұрын
Yes men do have more baggage. He has to feel safe to open up to you and willing to do the work. Once he is vulnerable with you guide him to the proper resources.
@sherriespencer2461
3 жыл бұрын
You described my life so perfectly. I went to marriage counselling 4 years before I filed for divorce and the counselor said that you don't need marriage counseling he needs individual counseling or you don't have a marriage AND I did not hold him accountable and I got burnt out and tired so when he did eventually go by himself to seek individual counseling I was so emotionally done I just said I can't take anymore and I just walked out. Now I am the woman that does NOT want to get married again because I don't see the value in marriage. I could write a whole book.... but just know you are speaking to me.
@bklyn2014
3 жыл бұрын
What a great video! As a single woman who is doing the inner work to become the best version of myself..I often have moments of doubt when getting to know educated, decent looking, well settled guys who seem to have zero self awareness of how they present themselves. Once you start healing, others who aren't on the same path become so much easier to spot no matter how many masks they have on..and with guys it's quite obvious..its almost all of them.
@s.e.t1579
3 жыл бұрын
Facts!
@a.r.jackson4590
3 жыл бұрын
Wait ✋ So you mean to tell me a man making SIX FIGURES isn't a cure all?! Lol!! This video was everything! Thank you RLP❤
@scranton9191
3 жыл бұрын
She’s out here coming for ALL the lies of the enemy. God bless you Rebecca, thank you for using your voice!!
@natashaj5581
3 жыл бұрын
This was my previous marriage. That’s why I’ve taken my time getting remarried.
@turklatasha191
3 жыл бұрын
It's exactly why I'm going through divorce process right now! Seperated , getting my babies and my peace of mind back!🥳
@peacefaith560
2 жыл бұрын
i'm not in any hurry ...but i think maybe i'll give it another try
@learnspanishlikeidid4622
3 жыл бұрын
LOL... You're keepin' it too real! I hope some people watch this and think twice about jumping into marriage.
@harleym9671
3 жыл бұрын
Thank you Rebecca for addressing this epidemic in our society today. And I am glad that we’re now having these conversations and redefining the norm. DMX died and I mourned for his loss but my hurt came from knowing that it was his childhood trauma that killed him. We’re in relationships with broken men who are always putting the expectation on us to help them. And yes, it’s certainly unfair because we’re not qualified to help them. We can support them but most definitely can’t help them. They need to seek therapy. We need to normalize therapy.
@raebean6018
3 жыл бұрын
Oooo that cheating comment. "Let you go cheat and see if the man stays around!" Yes! Think on it ladies before you stay!
@TurnLemons2Lemonade_
3 жыл бұрын
You are brilliant. You dropped SO many gems. Thank you. I was wondering why you stopped talking about relationships. Now I get it! I love this message of holding men accountable through action not just words/“suggestions.” Thank you for doing these daily videos. :) I’ve been eating them up!
@dannicakes6837
3 жыл бұрын
I’m half way through this video and (lip smack and pause) and I almost dropped my coffee........ She going in and I love it!!!! okay, let me continue ☕️😝
@kimberly0717
3 жыл бұрын
Same here..she better PREACH! 🙌🏼
@ebony2413
3 жыл бұрын
Yes indeed, I responded the same way when listening to this video. The message is SO GOOD and relevant
@ellamccall1489
3 жыл бұрын
For real i was watching TV and scrolling my phone and came across this chick she is awesome. She's like my twin when i talk like her bitches think I'm crazy.
@kimberly0717
3 жыл бұрын
@@ellamccall1489 it sounds like you may be outgrowing your crowd. I’ve learned that sometimes we need like minded ppl around us. It encourages growth.
@breannabutler8528
3 жыл бұрын
I’m literally giving you all my money Rebecca! This was too real 😂🙌🏽
@diamondgoddess5914
2 жыл бұрын
I yelled at my boyfriend yesterday that he needs to do the work. He’s so emotionally stunted and he tries to logically meet my emotional needs and it’s annoying as hell. Part of me felt bad for yelling at him but being nice for the past few months has gotten me nowhere. So thank you for making this video I definitely feel better about it
@imaginationunlimited482
3 жыл бұрын
Wow!!! This video was scary true!! You were so so so so Gansta in this video! You weren't Rebecca in this video, you let Becca come out in this video!! Lol, 😁😆😂🤣😄 Mrs. Pope you are the TRUTH!! YOU WERE BORN FOR THIS YOU HERE ME, BORN FOR THIS!! Again thank you for your sacrifice of time, love and concern to heal the world through your gifts, experience, knowledge and many abilities! This is not a watch one time video. I'm gonna have to watch this a few more times! God bless you and Pastor Pope and all that you do for humanity! 💓🙏
@greeneyesista
2 жыл бұрын
After an intense argument with my husband, we stopped talking for some days. One day I felt entitled to take his car for a drive (because it's nicer than mine). When the car sound came on, the CD that was playing talked about "how to control your emotions". My husband had been working on himself! 😂 That very same night, I decided to reclaim my husband, who was very happy that I did. 😍 By the way, I never mentioned that I listened to his CD.
@tishataray
Жыл бұрын
Beautiful!!!!
@ShayinATL
3 жыл бұрын
Today!!! Wow Rebeccca!!! You said that. I've listened to you these last couple of days and I have appreciated your candidness and real talk. Sometimes people have to take it straight with no chaser. When we do all of this work, we are preparing ourselves for who, what? You are healed then a hurt man will end up bleeding on you when you never cut him.
@shantewilliams7684
3 жыл бұрын
That's what is meant by the phrase "some times you have to be willing to lose in order to win"
@joannehightower4242
3 жыл бұрын
God Bless You! Sister Pope ❤ "You are a Blessing!" That toxicity goes into the woman's womb creating uterine fibroids, cancers etc. Peace, Minister Hanifah Hightower
@lb4397
3 жыл бұрын
Facts 💯I’m glad I’m watching this while I’m single. Thank you for sharing this video 🥰
@dleveston
3 жыл бұрын
Rebecca Lynn is speaking a whole word on tuhday! "Wives be lying" 🙌🏾
@smileyatthebeach3452
3 жыл бұрын
Rebecca I can't even handle how often I agree with the things you say!! Full agreement video after video after video. 100% Amen. I am writing a final paper right now about Idolizing Marriage
@AscendinSoul
3 жыл бұрын
Prolly the best and realest video on KZitem IMHO.
@TremelJackson
3 жыл бұрын
I gotta agree with the men masking there feelings, when I was 17 my father passed away and when I went back to school I felt as though I had to act as if nothing happened, but boy did I ball my eyes out when I had a moment alone to myself.
@AscensionEternal
3 жыл бұрын
Amazing truths you spoke in this video! I stopped feeling sorry for men or even trying to help them out a while ago. I'm single, healing and happy now and NOT accepting applications lol
@cmechell4702
3 жыл бұрын
Rebeccaaa!!! You did not come to play TODAY Ma’am 🙌🏽🙌🏽
@dawnestate9999
3 жыл бұрын
I just found you! I think your awesome. I am taking coaching certification right now. I wish I had found you sooner. I hope to take a masterclass for relationships. Been in some bad marriages and I am working on my inner healing and have a therapist. However, I love partnership & love and I still want a Kingdom relationship. I believe that the one for me is trying to find me. Thats why this desire has not gone away --despite the failures I have had.
@diane6956
3 жыл бұрын
Don’t you know it!!!! Always giving us the truth. 🙏🏼
@MsLuvlee30
3 жыл бұрын
Rebecca, were you a fly on the wall in my last ✌️ relationships,😄. I truly pray that this message reaches the hearts of people especially the young folks. The youngins need to take this in so they don't waste years of their lives in toxic patterns. 🙏
@LionessLani
3 жыл бұрын
Breaking generational curses! It is happening. All praises to the Most High. 💙🙏🏾
@jeffu3248
3 жыл бұрын
Wow, this was good. Nothing but the truth 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
@eldlos2000
3 жыл бұрын
Oh God I just love you, your realness is the truth!
@fantasia243645
3 жыл бұрын
Damn, the fire was in this word. 🔥 A lot of great things to apply.
@breanna7245
3 жыл бұрын
This is the raw truth!
@jeneasterly1452
3 жыл бұрын
As a 30 something woman in an executive position of two companies, I NEED a leadership book from you! I have listened to so many podcast on leadership, in effort to refine my skill set but just does not have the same impact coming from a man (not to say there are not AMAZING men in leadership). However, until you have been mistaken for the receptionist because you happen to be a women walking through the welcome area of your company, your advice just does not have the same impact.
@DRLEWIS
Жыл бұрын
Rebecca, dig this. A lot of these guys there in a tremendous amounts of pain untreated trauma untreated unresolved issues. And you add to that that version of I'm a man and male pride. I'm a man I know and brother don't know diddly-squat and he will not get help
@TRINIGIRLHANNAH
3 жыл бұрын
When you said you’re logical and strategic. I was like wooooooooo I found someone who is like me. Because I am the way I am I can easily understand men oppose to other women who can’t. So everything you’re talking about as a 23 year old believe it or not I’ve experienced with men. This is why I connect with you. You have to say what you mean and be willing to leave, simple.
@Annjenkins806
3 жыл бұрын
😅😅😅😅 I got to have a whole HEALED MAN ........YESSS ONLY WAY.Me too have too whole ...
@Blckbrry500
3 жыл бұрын
All I can say is AMAZING
@Envlo
3 жыл бұрын
And amen to women lying about their relationship. They’ll tell you how happy and dandy everything is. The only time you find out the truth is if your close family or at the break up. At the break up a toooon of stuff comes out that’ll leave you shocked. Like “you mean THAT was going on the whole time??”. And in the marriage advice books im reading junk like “he hasnt said i love you for 25 years”, “we havent spoken im 5 years even though we live in the same house” all sorts of craziness and dysfunction
@lavenderkisses9461
2 жыл бұрын
This has got to be one of the top KZitem videos I’ve ever watched. 🙌🙌🙌
@lashondaward2924
3 жыл бұрын
Truth Queen I dated a Pro wrestler and he had his money together and a stable life.But the Baggage and Abuse in his personal life was two unbearable for any woman to date him .
@frsh488ify
3 жыл бұрын
Great video, as men we don't share our emotions enough and it started as a toddler. I don't agree that women are more spiritual intuned than men in general. Throughout history all the messengers/ prophets were men, God did that for a reason but that's another topic..Anyway great video 👍🏼
@artbysanders907
3 жыл бұрын
Navigate that by sending his behind back home to his mama so she can finish raising him.
@artbysanders907
3 жыл бұрын
@@October3074 😂😂😂
@trottheblackdog
3 жыл бұрын
You think his mama would fix the problem she helped create?
@sylviah9589
2 жыл бұрын
This is so dead on. This is me all the way. True. True. True. The men say they will do the work but don't. Talk the talk but they want it easy.
@shantewilliams7684
3 жыл бұрын
Omg Rebecca, thank you for delivering the truth in such a passionate and intense way. So many women need to hear this...
@kristysmith4990
3 жыл бұрын
I think a lot of men use sex as comfort from all their issues.
@breannabutler8528
3 жыл бұрын
Rebecca!!!!!!! I have no words. This was just truth bomb after truth bomb ... sheesh
@StyledByEmonie
3 жыл бұрын
you better tell the TRUTH ❤️
@ItWillRainXO
3 жыл бұрын
Every single word you spoke is the TRUTH!!!! Thank YOU!!!!!!
@czar404
3 жыл бұрын
When an individual is truly healed he/she would recognize a toxic person right off the bat. Take responsibility to whom you let into your life. A man would marry a woman worth marrying simple.
@khuntertyler8540
3 жыл бұрын
Oh, Rebecca Lynn Pope is in her bag on this one!! I'm here for IT!!
@billhoward4082
3 жыл бұрын
Hey "nice-for-what" coach!!) 😁😇💜
@PrsWater8
3 жыл бұрын
👩🏾🏫all lessons, without the fluff🤯
@omozeidehenre239
3 жыл бұрын
Men rarely ever talk about their baggage. They seem to always talk about other women’s baggage.
@Itzjoyxo
3 жыл бұрын
It's the hair and makeup for me.. you look beautiful and thank you for your wisdom 🙏
@nellys786
3 жыл бұрын
The intelligence here🤗
@Bigang101
3 жыл бұрын
So much knowledge and passion in the message ! Love your channel and your content!
@anjee6108
3 жыл бұрын
Rebecca!! You are such a blessing. Thank you for your honesty and perspective. I wish I'd had this insight 24 years ago. When you know better you do better.
@ebony2413
3 жыл бұрын
This message is SO GOOD! True wisdom..thank you , thank you!!!!
@rachealwanjiru6599
3 жыл бұрын
Rebecca, I'm so grateful I discovered you. Following from Kenya
@DSTRAZ98
3 жыл бұрын
Wise words throughout but 29:00 on really hits.
@herofreshy406
3 жыл бұрын
I thank God for your honesty these videos really are helpful
@Kmoniek
3 жыл бұрын
I love your transparency. It is refreshing
@Beauty20ify
3 жыл бұрын
I can’t wait for your book!!
@raeanneegan6191
Жыл бұрын
That’s right Rebecca!! Thank you for saying straight- it’s time to hold men accountable. If I’m in therapy for the past 3 years working on childhood and complex trauma, and meet any man who is not bothered, boy bye! I’ve done my time and I draw the line! No more. I’d rather be healed, happy, at peace and single than be in a relationship going no where, re-traumatising me and abusing me. No sir! Ladies we’ve done our time! ENOUGH IS ENOUGH!!! We are NOT rehabilitation centres for broken men who see no issue with toxic behaviours!
@feliciacarrington6690
3 жыл бұрын
This here made me almost wanted to scream, thus is the truth,thanks for this message, you helped me more than,you will ever no.
@learningearning8385
3 жыл бұрын
Men have emotions? Beyond being a momma’s boy. Or anger.. I can’t tell..
@daddyeyez740
3 жыл бұрын
It's attitudes like yours that create and keep this going
@user-hl2rm5db8h
3 жыл бұрын
@@daddyeyez740 no one's attitude has control over you. always remember. if you don't want a woman to control YOU, then you cant let HER attitude control your life
@keishamwms
3 жыл бұрын
I'm crying over here, 🤣😂👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼💯 Well said! Recycling toxicity. ♻️
@tashekagillam5118
3 жыл бұрын
If I could like this message a thousand times....Lord Jesus!
@dawnnb1
3 жыл бұрын
When I tell you this video has so Blessed me!! Healing & doing the work is critical for both men & women ❤
@Musicfreaklolduh
3 жыл бұрын
Preaching Rebecca!!!! Let us be awake and feel the pain in order to be set free! We have to do it ourselves. :)
@noirfit9721
3 жыл бұрын
LADDDDDDYYYYYYYYYYY!!!!!!! My goodness you preaching!!! 😩😩😩
@hadiyamascoll8305
3 жыл бұрын
This makes so much sense. I totally understand and agree with everything u said. Rebecca u ain't playing wid this. This is real talk. Made me look at certain things differently
@LionessLani
3 жыл бұрын
I'm glad I came across this video because it helps me to understand my purpose in my spouse life. To be that pillar of rest, not taking for granted his trusting me enough to be open & vulnerable. Ecclesciasticus 36:24 “He that getteth a wife beginneth a possession, a help like unto himself, and a pillar of rest.” The word of God is the measuring rod when it is divided properly.
@arlenecollier2011
3 жыл бұрын
I LOVE this woman!!!! Your wisdom is spot-on! I have lived this stuff.
@sunbright2245
3 жыл бұрын
U ARE PREACHING....TRUTH AND WISDOM THANK YOU
@jacquelinewellons3131
3 жыл бұрын
Rebecca you have blown me away with this one... Thank you
@rmercedes971
3 жыл бұрын
28:15 I’ve literally heard men say that it’s impossible for a man to r@p€ his wife because he’s just using what belongs to him... My jaw just dropped to the floor 🤦🏽♀️🤦🏽♀️
@regale1995
3 жыл бұрын
Yes. I tell men that all the time and they have friends who have the same issues so it’s like the blind leading the blind. Therapy is a great tool.
@monicaivy2497
3 жыл бұрын
Rebecca, you went all the way in!! Love it, you are not lying. Blessings, very powerful💯
@dannicakes6837
3 жыл бұрын
I appreciate this video so much. Definitely helps as a positive reinforcement for me to watch this video. I’m single and want to be married but, I’m afraid of the thought of it😳
@drtee2905
3 жыл бұрын
I understand. I was formerly married ( 1 year). I'm good...lol. No marriage for me. Boys in college and enjoying my SINGLE LIFE AND LEVELING UP!
@joycewatt800
3 жыл бұрын
Marriage is a beautiful thing when you become the right one, encounter and marry the right one. Not just anyone but the right one for you. You only need one so make sure he’s the right one. The problem is or one of the problems is many marry for all the wrong reasons and also don’t truly understand what marriage is. God had a mandate for marriage and that has not changed. He has not changed His mind. We jack it up. Men and women NEED to HEAL and be whole BEFORE marriage. Do the work. Do the homework. If you’ve done yours please don’t tolerate or settle for a man that hasn’t done his. God should be the foundation. Life is hard enough by yourself than to attach yourself to someone and make it twice as hard. Anything built on an unstable foundation will eventually fall. It’s important to be equally yoked and that’s not just “we both go to church.” No it’s gotta be deeper than that.
@GeekMODE_
3 жыл бұрын
Started my day off with Napoleon Hill and The Popes 🙌🏾
@feliciacarrington6690
3 жыл бұрын
You need your own talk show,because no body tells it like you and pastor Blakes
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