“Sorry Huddy” “It’s okay” Those 2 sentences took me out. They are so precious
@medb8882
2 ай бұрын
So cute, me and my second eldest brother used to fight all the time. It got to the point where I figured out if I ran into my room and put a shoe against the door, the rubber would stop him from barging in 😂😂 good memories tho, we talk about them all the time. Once he hit me with a sliotar and I put a plaster on the bruise, which made him mad for some reason lmao
@MargueriteFairProductions
2 ай бұрын
That's a good mom.
@fifihull4587
2 ай бұрын
The two phrases melted my heart.what beautiful little humans they are.well done mimma❤❤❤❤
@aneshawarren7216
2 ай бұрын
Sentences 💀 but anyway it’s still super adorbs
@wendysaville8423
2 ай бұрын
Me too.
@RitahName
Ай бұрын
I love it when she said, " don't push people that way, instead of ' don't push your brother that way" . In this case, its not only his brother but anyone else. Waw may God bless you 🙏
@eternallife9786
Ай бұрын
@@seanhughes6697they're probably a little assholes then
@Sungirl88
Ай бұрын
I hope to be a wise mother one day too this is a great example thank you
@nulifersen7034
Ай бұрын
Genau so 👌❤️🔥🤝❤️🔥🤲🤲🤲
@nulifersen7034
Ай бұрын
👌❤️🔥🫂❤️🔥🤲🤲🤲
@eyelavadershine
Ай бұрын
❤❤❤❤best mother must be hard 3 brothers. Take good care of yourself mom too❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
@jerrykimmons7399
3 күн бұрын
Thank you for sharing this!!!! I love that you offer a choice afterward. I always offered choices to my son, so he felt as if he were in control of his world and had some autonomy. "Would you like to put your shoes on NOW or IN THE CAR?" He was GOING TO PUT THEM ON, but control over WHEN was no big deal for ME!!! But BIG for him!!!
@sloanefrances1189
Күн бұрын
Thank you for exploiting your children, not sharing is more like it.
@yollyjacobofficial9729
Күн бұрын
I love the way mum said "don't push people down. It's general, not only the focus on his brother. Well done mother! I hope they grow up with a good heart❤❤
@ashleyg8671
18 күн бұрын
See when I think of gentle parenting THIS is what I’m talking about. Still very firm, but soft and understanding. Job well done, ma.
@GoldenLight22
14 күн бұрын
yes this is what gentle parenting really is, different than no parenting which is what people think gentle parenting is. It just means no screaming or hitting, but talking firmly and kindly
@TuscaGabriela
13 күн бұрын
😊😊
@Getclappedboyeeee
13 күн бұрын
@@GoldenLight22 so what are you gonna do when your 5 year old kid smacks you in the face when you don’t get them the toy they want. Are you gonna tell them to go on a timeout for 5 min? 🤣
@annaglass9943
12 күн бұрын
@@GoldenLight22w
@eileen3046
11 күн бұрын
@@GoldenLight22THIS EXACTLY! You couldn't have explained it better
@samuelpotter6919
2 ай бұрын
Awesome work, i am hopeful this next generation will be kind and understand boundaries
@sylvia7958
2 ай бұрын
Unterstand boundaries by broadcasting children, crying children to millions of strangers on the Internet?
@samuelpotter6919
2 ай бұрын
Looks like you watched none of the short. Kids who are disciplined through conversation as opposed yelling and physical altercatios will learn boundaries through verbalizing their needs. Do you do that? @@sylvia7958
@dirkdiggler8427
2 ай бұрын
@@sylvia7958 yes. It’s 2024. It’s a very common income. It’s so important new moms or even older moms, see other moms discipline methods. You don’t have to share a thing hahahahhaa let them make the $$$$ 🥰
@kyranx602
2 ай бұрын
NICE FUCKING JOKE BUD
@samuelpotter6919
2 ай бұрын
@@kyranx602 who even are you
@harumih.3727
3 күн бұрын
She is a great mother! "Review and reflect on the behavior" - this is a discipline that many people lack, instead, refusing to admit a mistake, refusing to improve. Human life is a journey of learning, and without review and reflection, you can never learn from "experiences"
@deborahs2322
5 күн бұрын
We need more moms like this to eradicate the bullying at schools, social media, and otherwise
@SJ-ce6rn
3 күн бұрын
Agree, Moms need to be home to teach right and wrong, with love, understanding and patience.
@cristinauto
Күн бұрын
Moms who make their kids act for likes? 🤦♀️what 4 yo says reflect on my behavior? Y’all are lost
@GimmeACiggyYaGronk
Күн бұрын
@@cristinautoNobody ever said that he said that. Maybe you should avoid having an opinion until you can at least understand what you are watching 🤦🏻♂️
@cristinauto
Күн бұрын
@@GimmeACiggyYaGronk 🙄 what kind of mom stops in the middle of disciplining her kids to turn on the camera first? Just stop
@GimmeACiggyYaGronk
Күн бұрын
@@cristinauto Lmao could you shift the goalposts any harder?
@shaikhauae-ln1cc
2 ай бұрын
The way the baby hugged his brother warmed my heart ❤️
@goodguyaus
2 ай бұрын
I pretend he's leaning in to whisper, "I'm gonna git you later"
@blaackberry
2 ай бұрын
So cute! He wanted to get in on the action 😂
@DazylinLambert-bo8gq
2 ай бұрын
Me to ❤❤❤
@hopeomoregie3416
Ай бұрын
Me too so cute!!❤❤❤
@hananatiyah1268
Ай бұрын
@@DazylinLambert-bo8gq❤❤❤❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️💟💗😢
@karendionne2228
Ай бұрын
I also appreciated the Mothers tone of voice. It let the child know that this was serious and Mom's not joking around. Great lesson in how to administer proper discipline with hugs all around afterwards.👍🙌
@juliasnow-xz4kt
Ай бұрын
I agree with everything you said, I really do. Now what happens when the child does the same thing a bunch more times and in the same day. That's the reality.
@battyboifided6629
Ай бұрын
Facts @@juliasnow-xz4kt
@TheEijkmanProject
Ай бұрын
@@juliasnow-xz4kt It's obvious the kid is aware it isn't right, he is being taught totally decent manners by a mother with a kind and honest heart and a great set of brains. The little tantrum is ignored, not criticized, as a child that age can hardly control his emotions when felt overcome by them, but mom handles everything with respect to herself and every child around her, appreciating good traits, making them aware of bad traits. Only a mother with respect and kindness in her heart and mind would do this. One without would not do any effort to raise the kid as she should, but would fall prey to any mannerisms badly taught to her in her youth.
@juliasnow-xz4kt
Ай бұрын
@@TheEijkmanProject Are you speaking from theory or experience? How many kids have you raised, just curious? There's a reason you see frazzled Moms, Moms who raise their voice or Moms who ignore their screaming child in a store. None of that is good, obviously. I was lucky in that of my four kids only one of them would do things on the sly when I wasn't looking. The others would respond to discipline much like these cute kids, but I also adopted my sister's kids when she died and I also did daycare and there are kids who don't learn lessons the first time, or the second, or the third. They have a stubborn streak or get moody, are young and don't want to share. It's reality. That's all I'm saying. I thought I was such a good Mom because I genuinely didn't have a hard time with my own kids, but when I tried to apply the same rational, talking it out and explaining like this Mom did I didn't have quite the same results and was often left frazzled at the end of a long day of fits and tantrums. (both my sisters kids are ADHD). I stopped judging Moms like I used to after that. Do what works. Every child is different. Start with what the Mom in the video did, but don't be surprised if it doesn't work and you have to move to time outs, taking things away etc...
@ruckyg3177
Ай бұрын
Maybe he accidently pushed in enthusiasm and I would say sonething like be careful, no pushing. But making it a huge issue creates a rejection for him. He is the bad guy and sent to his room. I think it could be handles lighter while still explaining him to be gentle with his brother.
@Urtypicalflatearther
4 күн бұрын
You remind me of my mom. She is the most amazing woman on the planet. You're doing great.
@debracox1049
23 сағат бұрын
This brought me to tears!!! She is a good mother. Letting him decide what he wants to do. These kids will grow up knowing... They were loved!!!
@ranns2805
2 ай бұрын
This is how I raised my sons. Growing up they have always just had a nice, easy going, respectful, let’s talk it out, kinda personality! Good job, mom.
@nataliegillmore7436
2 ай бұрын
She's doing a 1derful mom.
@user-ll1nc2ru4t
2 ай бұрын
And good job to you too what a wonderful gift to give the world
@maryam.asadi97
2 ай бұрын
Good job to you mama
@darayy6352
2 ай бұрын
GOOD JOB TO YOU
@braelynnmarie8590
2 ай бұрын
Just because you were abused doesn't mean other kids deserve to be abused too Derek.@@ponz-
@swansonchoo
Ай бұрын
I love that her emphasis was not punishment, but learning, change, and reconciliation. I love that she didn’t lose her temper and speak out of anger, but spoke firmly, calmly, and lovingly. That’s great parenting.
@gomezaddams6470
Ай бұрын
This comment deserves far more attention and likes❤ The only thing I can see that should be different is a little bit of explanation about feelings. Explaining empathy is really important
@lhmccool67
Ай бұрын
I agree! Her voice was clear and firm, as well as calm and even toned. There was no attempt to shame or I still fear. She also maintained that with Hudson and didn't switch to an overly coddling tone, which can be confusing for children and potentially create a friction between siblings. Great job mama!
@spittinfireALLNEW
Ай бұрын
Wait, this is great but, every kid is not as gentle some kids need a lil more aggression.
@sybilsadie620
Ай бұрын
This is how Supernanny do it Love to watch her videos
@spittinfireALLNEW
Ай бұрын
@1nf3ctedd Not all the time, some times kids develop their own personality and it could be more aggressive then another. This is why parents of many tell you all their kids have different personalities. Even if the parenting style is soft and gentle.
@chrishoy8649
3 күн бұрын
Great mom! Good teacher! Hopefully she can teach other moms how to raise children the right way! kudos to you mom!
@annanyasingh845
5 күн бұрын
How nicely she managed the situation and taught her son, how behave with people not only his brother, which is really appreciating. Good manners ❤❤❤
@vhaydenu
2 ай бұрын
"sorry huddy." the CUTEST ever!!❤ thx for the likes!!
@user-mn2ii9vd6w
2 ай бұрын
Ikr ❤
@Justicia007
2 ай бұрын
MELTED
@margaretgrabill9842
2 ай бұрын
God bless this beautiful mom for doing the very best for her children 🙏 ❤lovely little family - blessings to all of you❤❤
@abadahoussem4866
2 ай бұрын
Supermom❤
@CameronTucker06
2 ай бұрын
Ain't it!
@diederikjanvantiggelen1075
Ай бұрын
'Now give me a hug' is so important. The little child now knows his mother only rejects his behaviour he showed, but not the child as a person. Socialy smart mother.
@shssddg88
Ай бұрын
Was searching for this comment! It's really important. In this way, the child will not be embittered against everyone. Children's psyches are very vulnerable. Therefore, it is necessary to make it clear to the older child that he is also loved, despite his mistakes.
@babyrne78
Ай бұрын
And the "good boy" comment.
@stevostevo5773
Ай бұрын
Hugs are for celebrating after you score a goal and/or girls
@Nikos169
Ай бұрын
Yes never label a child as ‘naughty’ . Focus on reprimanding his behaviour .. *You still love your child, but you don’t love his behaviour, in that moment.
@Nikos169
Ай бұрын
Telling your 2yr old 'Give a hug’ is fine. Asking 3-5 yr old ‘What can you do to make your brother feel better?’ is appropriate also. *Encourage your child (3yrs +) to think of a solution themselves
@shannachung4012
4 күн бұрын
great example of gentle parenting. people like to act like children dont understand when you speak to them...they absolutely do!!!
@user-tz3zy3bu4x
3 күн бұрын
@@jupiterRyanwhat age are you? 13?
@kermitthefrog5446
2 күн бұрын
@@user-tz3zy3bu4x it happens more than you think. don’t underestimate how low people might stoop.
@bevhearts3220
Күн бұрын
Gentle?... naw...she's a GANGSTA...A GREAT MOTHER. THAT UNDERSTANDS THAT SPOILT HORRIBLE CHILDISH BEHAVIOR TURNS INTO SPOILT HORRIFIC ADULT BEHAVIOR...
@Aish5641
23 сағат бұрын
I love the way you called your son and then atlast hug him with love..that validation was necessary ❤
@mariahooper6664
2 ай бұрын
She has such a calm voice. Very patient. Teaching her children at the same time. Beautiful
@Venus_baby_18
2 ай бұрын
I like how it's was calm and assertive but she didn't talk to them like babies. She talk to them like human who are going to be adults one day and need to know now how it ought to be
@sweng0717
2 ай бұрын
@@Venus_baby_18 yes and she also wasn’t shouting or raising her voice She simply had a calm and firm tone of voice when addressing them
@ceeejay9112
2 ай бұрын
perfect tone, when disciplining and when validating etc also
@Venus_baby_18
2 ай бұрын
@ceeejay9112 yesss , goes ti show u can teach kids and discipline them without making them feel like shut abt themselves because really what does that even do. Accept your mistake apologize and move one good mama. No need to go on an on an on this will prevent alot in the future :)
@Ahbhswrzq9221
2 ай бұрын
I actually felt the tone to be harsh more than assertive and you can tell the child was scared and felt shamed. I believe the tone should be much lighter.
@thetruesoulofanaquarius9302
2 ай бұрын
Notice how the youngest boy was comforting his brother when he was crying. That is how you know they are being raised in a discipline yet loving household.❤❤❤
@berkyvalerio4095
2 күн бұрын
You're a great mom. Discipline while explaining teaches them consequences & right from wrong. Love this! ❤❤❤
@Writer777-wanna_be.
Күн бұрын
Mom did good and by hugging him she showed she still loves him and not rejecting him, I like how she explained why he was in trouble then hugged him letting him know she loves him but needs to know he can’t do that…hats off to mom
@smitanikam5648
2 ай бұрын
So perfectly handled. No shouting on the lil boy , yet your message was very clear to them.
@AG-yc7vt
2 ай бұрын
Once they go to school and outside influences start shaping their life, we’ll see if “no yelling” works. Because the bully at school who was constantly yelled at and that is the only way for them to actually change their behavior won’t care what Little Timmy says in a calm demeanor. So Timmy will have to figure out a way to stop the bully in another way that isn’t “having a civil conversation”. And Timmy will learn yelling. Greatest parent in the world, but you can’t keep your kid in a protective bubble 24/7. (Technically you could keep your kid in a protective bubble 24/7. But would you be the greatest parent in the world anymore? Releasing them at 18 or 25 or 30 into the real world after being sheltered and shielded for decades. )
@AandM8
Ай бұрын
@@AG-yc7vtare you suggesting we teach our kids to be the bully because they may get bullied?
@AG-yc7vt
Ай бұрын
@@AandM8 I’m saying no matter how well you parent. Outside influences will throw a monkey wrench into your plans.
@cecynay7369
Ай бұрын
Man, the self control and sacrifice it takes to be a good parent.. it's so touching. Thank you for your service to this world and your sweet kiddos ❤️
@livjowen
Ай бұрын
Thank you for your kind words and your support ❤️
@tracygarrison892
Ай бұрын
I love how you kids are so kind and respectful. I'm so happy for you because you have kind and respectful kids. I'm going too have a kid I am 8 weeks pregnant I hope my kids are just like yours. I found out my baby's ginger its going to be a baby girl. Ween I was a little kid I wanted to have kind and respectful and honest kids so I hope she is just like that. You kid are also honest. And you are sooo pretty are you are a great person and mother. And also ween I was younger I always wanted to have a baby girl but I am haveing a baby girl I would be also fine with a baby boy but I always wanted a baby girl I am coming a mother I don't have any kids yet but I just wanted to till you that and I subscribe your channel. 😊
@kaylamccorkell8453
Ай бұрын
I'm crying and that is sad bc now he thinks he isn't allowed to play with his brother bc his mum disciplined him
@afifanec
Ай бұрын
@@kaylamccorkell8453 What? Where did you get that from?
@85Wright
Ай бұрын
@@kaylamccorkell8453lmao did your brain fart or are you a troll?
@paulinaoppongkesewah7384
3 күн бұрын
I salute you mum👏👏👏👏. Teach a child the way he should go, and when he grows, he'll not depart from it.❤❤❤
@user-vg8tt2pr4l
6 сағат бұрын
It’s very close to the “one minute for each year” time out. 6 minutes can feel like a lifetime and it definitely shows that the child reflected on his behavior . He originally left pouting but came back calm and collected. Talking to Mom and then apologizing sincerely and hugging his brother Superb parenting! ❤
@edmenfranky9893
2 ай бұрын
This is what REAL gentle parenting looks like. Setting clear boundaries with your children and still maintaining an atmosphere of unconditional love.
@kainejoyes2981
2 ай бұрын
No such thing as 'unconditional love'
@bryanblandon
2 ай бұрын
@@kainejoyes2981everyone has their own standards, don’t ask others to abide by yours
@RuthEsther-nn6qe
2 ай бұрын
We use the Bible method!
@chimpouh9402
2 ай бұрын
Yes there is unconditional love. Actually all love is unconditional. When something it is conditional, it is not love
@RevealedFilms
2 ай бұрын
Yea then 5 years later we hear she’s been arrested for abuse of those same children. I don’t trust any KZitem channel that profits from their kids anymore.
@blueRosesforme
2 ай бұрын
She did a great job! Explained without shouting or getting upset. Teaching respect and being kind is so much better. Gentleness is not taught, it is a blessing! I wish more mothers could see this and teach their toddlers kindness and to be caring!
@toodleloo2253
2 ай бұрын
And it's so cute how siblings can Forgive each other so quickly!!..Boys need very firm, but kind, boundaries, & she did it SO well for them!!- Kudos!!- :)
@sandramartino3243
2 ай бұрын
Then giving him a choice....loved that.
@T.R.6105
2 ай бұрын
More Mothers and Fathers...
@geljune7557
16 сағат бұрын
these brothers love each other so much! also i think it’s super cool you gave the older boy the option to play alone, i feel like often older children get overwhelmed around younger ones :)
@RhondaKanayurak
2 күн бұрын
When my daughter was little, we did this. So proud of the young woman she is now. Always has a smile and is teaching her son the same way. ❤❤
@AmosMantyla
2 ай бұрын
That's the kind of parenting that eliminates narcissism. Good job.
@gabbysegura7453
2 ай бұрын
She is a amazing mom to show her kids responsibility
@debussy842
2 ай бұрын
@@gabbysegura7453 She's a highly irresponsible mother. I am a single male, 39, with no kids. The reason I am boldly prefacing with that is because what I am about to say is blatantly obvious to all human beings 30 years and over: It is highly inappropriate to film, and broadcast your children like this, in general, but especially for cash. Also, they are so used to being constantly filmed they are not even looking at whoever if filming them. This broadcasting would have been unthinkable 15 years ago but the new generation can not longer distinguish trash. To her defenders, that a mother needs to make a living, how do you think mothers made a living prior to tictok 5 years ago??? The answer: a real job, not posting their children on the internet.
@ludwigwittgenstein1280
2 ай бұрын
No it DOESN’T! That’s a physical condition!
@peepeepoopoo8498
2 ай бұрын
@@debussy842i totally agree but it’s also showing examples for a good cause it’d be nice if her kids didn’t have to be involved though to get the point across
@tub-tube7686
2 ай бұрын
@@debussy842 you are so right. I am male, 37, father of one Kid. Never ever would I film such a highly emotional situation and load it up. Also this is not how to eliminate narcism. This is narcism at its best. Selling the emotions of your kids on the Internet.
@VidaGrijalva
Ай бұрын
She is a good mother and sets a good example for those of us who have children, teaching them values and respect in time.
@nataliaiwaniak8682
Ай бұрын
Cute❤❤❤
@lidip8700
Ай бұрын
This is what a strong foundation looks like. I bet she'll not need to discipline them much as they grow older because she did so well as they were younger. And don't you think they'll want to be just like mommy, someday! Some cultures the parents just scream & are out of control. So sad.
@RichAsher
Ай бұрын
Not really isolation is not good for kids
@user-qh3xq2dc5f
5 сағат бұрын
💖I love this. The constructive criticism and calm reprimand is a refreshing change from what alot of other types of parents do. No yelling. No threats or acts of violence to intimidate a child into correcting negative behavior. It all starts at an early age, and constancy is key. Good job, mom!🥳😇
@TTPDforevertv
2 күн бұрын
i’m crying, they’re adorable ❤
@freetocomment1946
2 ай бұрын
The way he ran back to his room the second time shows how he was happy and confident that he is loved
@bianka5824
2 ай бұрын
saying, 'Don't' to a child gives way for an unhealthy child. you are defying their natural instinct to survive (learn). thx
@bb7961
2 ай бұрын
No, it made him feel like he doesn’t deserve love and playtime for a small Mistake. Children don’t know what’s boundary and space
@SKY031
2 ай бұрын
no, it shows that being sent to a place with toys isn't punishment, and the kid learned nothing.
@zoiefinnian3540
Ай бұрын
This was plenty for this small child to think about what he had done and apologize for it. That’s all he needs at this age. Parental guidance with love.
@peaceofmindofpeace1650
Ай бұрын
@@bb7961 I agree.I feel pain as he runs to his room to sit on his bed. Maybe he accidently pushed in enthusiasm and I would say sonething like be careful, no pushing. But making it a huge issue creates a rejection for him. He is the bad guy and sent to his room. I think it could be handles lighter while still explaining him to be gentle with his brother.
@nscales20
2 ай бұрын
When he said "sorry Huddy" my heart melted. so cute and sweet.
@patmanpatmanson
2 ай бұрын
And this is the reason why you guys, women, do that. I think you have the best intentions but you do it because you want to feel something and not because you want to teach the best lecture to them. I think stuff like the woman does in the video makes them weak as a man. I mean what has the other one done? He pushed him down is what she said? I tell you to shame a boy because of being a little bit aggressive makes them weak and is the best way to make them that they never can get beautiful women and make a family. It just makes toxic shame in them.
@SJ-ce6rn
3 күн бұрын
Very well done. Good parenting takes time and patience. Consequences, understanding and love will always be the best teaching. Good boys. Mom is home raising her kids. Sorry Huddy, so sweet. Now everyone is HAPPY AGAIN.😊❤
@emmalongfellow2158
3 күн бұрын
That is a wonderful mom she told her child what he did was wrong but she didn’t scream or yell she was calm and collected but firm
@shannonsheehy2438
Ай бұрын
I really appreciate that you didn’t tell any of the kids to “Stop crying.”
@eileen21
Ай бұрын
Her tone of voice used for disciplining was perfect. Way more effective than yelling and screaming.
@AnnaLee33
Ай бұрын
yelling and screaming should't even be an option.
@markmitchell4400
Ай бұрын
I don't know about that, but she did do a GREAT job!!!
@chokingonflowers
Ай бұрын
@@markmitchell4400why would you want to yell and scream and be aggressive towards your children
@ljc6295
Күн бұрын
If only this was the kinda of videos that went viral!! It all starts at home! What an amazing world we would live in if more parents did this!
@theresstillhope3168
2 күн бұрын
Every woman may give birth but it takes someone special to be a 'Mom'💐💐👍🏻👍🏻
@annefricker8474
2 ай бұрын
Firm, fair and reasonable. This is how discipline should be.
@michaelheery6303
2 ай бұрын
the Americans in will buy GUNS.
@conny-zk7et
2 ай бұрын
but not on camera in social media!!!
@BryanMetcalf-ld7cb
Ай бұрын
@@conny-zk7etthere are parents who need to see this. Why is it wrong to post this?
@kermitthefrog5446
2 күн бұрын
@@BryanMetcalf-ld7cb no, there aren’t. they need to read a book if they can’t grasp such a simple concept.
@XX-pe4sj
Күн бұрын
@@kermitthefrog5446damn you s0und m!serable
@satya_kartik8795
2 ай бұрын
You are not only growing up a good children, but a good gentlemen. Great Mother,Respects madam😊
@magorzatamargaret294
Ай бұрын
No, she is growing CASTRATED GUYS, who in the future will not know how to act like the real men. NO BALLS, CRYING LIKE BABIES when they are adults. She is deeply indoctrinated by this stupid propaganda which is running around nowadays and which is PLANNED...
@MGT_1960
Күн бұрын
Good Mom! Need more Moms like you! I know someone that works in education and the bad behaviour is off the charts! Many kids never seem to have any consequences for their actions.
@SWIFTIE432
6 сағат бұрын
This is probably the best parenting I’ve seen in a while….. like now every parent just lets them get a away with this kind of behavior and her kids when they grow up will be good and respectful as to all the other kids that do bad things and there parents let them get away with it will grow up to be bratty and if we had more parents like her the world a better place❤❤❤
@davidirvingcpa
13 күн бұрын
Parenting - real parenting. The most important and rewarding job in the world. Patience, kindness, firmness and wisdom, paying close attention to the child. If I could have anything I want, I would want this for every single precious child on the planet at all times.
@CanadaMotors-xk8ym
Ай бұрын
This mother is amazing. She knows how to raise children. She communicated with her children. Disciplined, comforted and reassured that she loves them.
@ekinie3854
Ай бұрын
knows how to raise them except for the fact their lives are documented for millions to see...
@susanbarker2525
Ай бұрын
Not my experience of life with kids!!!!
@susanbarker2525
Ай бұрын
Not my experience of life with kids!
@burntieburntwell7111
28 күн бұрын
I want you to imagine that other person standing in the room with the camera right on top of those kids and in their faces. And then tell me how the HELL this is “amazing”
@troythemighty3683
28 күн бұрын
Almost like she’s done this before. I wonder if those are her first kids she’s killing it as a mom
@nanykomary9424
3 күн бұрын
All my respect to this wonderful mother . God bless her and her beautiful kids
@prettypeggy98
10 күн бұрын
What a great Mom you are and the entire issue was handled beautifully 💕 Thank you for being such a wonderful example for your children. A shining star for Moms everywhere.
@levity90
Ай бұрын
This was the perfect combination of sternness and compassion. A lot of parents are way too soft today but she was very clear to him with her tone, choice of words, and eye contact that what he did was unacceptable. She made him understand that there are consequences for bad behavior when she sent him away and allowed him to reflect on his behavior. Then she reassured him that she still loves him and that he can make it up to his brother by apologizing and setting things right.
@ShadowLinkFanGirl
Ай бұрын
Either too soft or don't care enough. Alot of the bad kids in our area. Have parents who don't give a shit about the kids. 😢
@jasmineburgess9029
2 ай бұрын
Hudson saying “you’re ok” was just so precious. Huddy loves his big bro no matter what? This is amazing parenting and the children are just so sweet. Good job mom and dad!
@babygirleg4522
5 күн бұрын
I also love the way the baby brother kind of hugged his brother when Mom was hugging him while he was crying he put his little word on his back. That was so cute. disciplined with a calm voice and once he got sent to his room to think about it, everything was OK. Great discipline but if your kid doesn’t want to listen and go to his room, then you got another problem, but this worked out great.
@emoewatchedthis
8 күн бұрын
This is exactly how gentle parenting is done successfully. It is hard to do, but worth it in the end.
@Nabisoul28
Ай бұрын
It's the best example of loving-kindness and patience. And making the time teach in such a way that their children are not damaged by it. I saw the video and I started crying. It's so wonderful to see someone actually take the time. To love on their kids
@rain3743
Ай бұрын
Exactly. I never had to strike my children. Little ones can understand consequences and time outs and then corrective experiences. Really sweet little brothers. Boys can get super aggressive and it’s sweet to see a Mama take time to patiently teach her children how to be better humans.
@philipplangenbach5534
Ай бұрын
I'm a Father of a 6 years old, this made me cry. Good Job. Really good job.
@michellebrennan82
Күн бұрын
It’s hard but SO BEAUTIFUL 😍 AND Respect to an amazing mother who is teaching such important skills for her babies lives LOVE IT 👍🏽 Bless gorgeous little babies and family 🙏🏽💞💞
@uzairafridi5589
3 күн бұрын
When the younger one said it's okay, it just melted my heart. He is such an angel ❤️😘
@irenemoore444
2 ай бұрын
UR A GOOD MOM I CAN SEE IT IN UR EYE'S . BOY'S ARE BLESSED WITH A BEAUTIFUL MOTHER. 🌹🙏💙🙏🌹
@heskehypnotherapy6369
2 ай бұрын
❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
@ChristineCurtis-gc6dd
26 күн бұрын
Thats called being a mom 👏🙏🏼
@normacollins3844
17 күн бұрын
AMEN!!! I didn’t know people these days knew how to do that!! If more parents did these things, teaching their kids right from wrong, there would be more adults that knew how to act and that would teach their children the same!! That way when the children were taken out, like to eat, they wouldn’t act like heathens!
@A-saysitasitis
8 күн бұрын
Though the reaction after being convicted of the crime and being punished - punishment: go to your room and sit on the bed was hilarious 😂😂😂Cutest kids ever❤.
@jscott502
13 сағат бұрын
Keep it up momma! Nothing worse then these passive parents, beautiful children. May you keep blessing them with your love and discipline.
@sanjuanwin
Ай бұрын
I'm OLD and LOVE THIS! She does it all perfectly: Accountability, modest transfer of displeasure, specific about misconduct, age appropriate consequence, relationship restoration, status quo. GOOD GOOD!!!
@trrulieeeee
Ай бұрын
my concern is that she never asked him why he pushed his brother. it’s possible that he was responding to something inappropriately. he could be getting the message that other people can do bad things to him, and he can’t do anything about it. if that’s the case, he also hasn’t learned an appropriate way to respond when his brother treats him badly. he also may have hugged his mom for the purpose of regaining favor, when hugs should be reserved for authentic love. that’s why i never demand a hug, i only ever ask. she also told him to apologize instead of asking if he wants to apologize, which is bypassing his own moral compass and forcing him to abide by hers instead of his own. if he didn’t want to apologize, she could have explained to him why she would apologize if she were in his shoes, or she can explain how he and his brother will feel if he doesn’t apologize so he can have a better understanding of how to apply the skill in the future. there’s nothing inherently wrong about what happened here, especially when you’re busy, but there are many opportunities for teaching and connection that were missed here.
@tikkun888
Ай бұрын
@@trrulieeeee Вы абсолютно правы! У Вас абсолютно ЗДРАВЫЙ взгляд на ситуацию! Спасибо Вам за мудрость и привет Вам из России! 🙌😊
@breeze_japanese
Ай бұрын
There's no universal textbook. Case by case. Family by family. Individual by individual. What works for her, might not work for others. Also, this is a montage. We don't see what happened between cuts.
@dreamchaser7177
Ай бұрын
@@trrulieeeeeI used this method with my kids and they are all adults now. They are emotionally stable and know how to treat people as well as how they expect to be treated by others. I guarantee that this mom addresses both sides before making a final judgement.
@Phogramo
Ай бұрын
@@dreamchaser7177no you didn’t, if they’re all adults then you’re a liar. Look at how confused this kid is when they have a camera recording the situation. They did this for views and it’s disgusting.
@theresakerr7206
2 ай бұрын
That was so excellent. You covered everything perfectly. You explained things beautifully and gently, you were down at their eye level, you sent him to his room for an age appropriate amount of time as a reasonable punishment, you had positive, loving reinforcement, you had him explain to you the reason for the punishment to ensure his understanding, you had him apologise to and hug his brother, and you gave him the choice to continue playing on his own or come out & play. Everyone was happy, no hard feelings by anyone, including your viewers. I highly commend you and your life-teaching methods. You're outstanding. I can't think of how you could have done better. You're raising some wonderful kids who will go on to bring your teachings to their children, friends and/or coworkers to help bring about a beautiful future. Thank you.
@teknci9925
2 ай бұрын
I remember the days when dogs were trained.
@angelmiguel4180
17 сағат бұрын
Way to go Momma , you are raising real loving and respectful men
@arabian_empress
5 күн бұрын
The best mama award goes to this lady ❤
@annamarielewis1853
2 ай бұрын
Love the caring way she disciplines!! So important and her kids will be happy people!!
@carolinewilson8048
2 ай бұрын
Yes.
@lidip8700
Ай бұрын
Momma's physical touch affirms her words. She gets on their level, is looking at them directly, in full control & speaks clearly & non-emotional, so the boys understand. THESE PARENTS ARE RAISING LEADERS.
@cherrydinnall6397
10 күн бұрын
Great job mom! Excellent job! This world needs a lot more mothers and fathers like this smart mom!
@riannehoogenberk922
6 күн бұрын
Never ever send your child away, after a confrontation, out of the the same room. For the child it will say: “My feelings, my emotions and the way I do things (even it was not nice) are not welcome.” When you leave your child in the same room, sitting on a chair and have a little break it will say: “I’m ok, my mother still loves me, even when I do things impulsively because sometimes I do not think.” Because children of that age are to young to see the differences from a moral perspective. They discovering life. They’re moral perspective starts to develop when they are 8 years old.😊 The mother is doing her best with the knowledge she have, I can see that. But through my pedagogical point of view it’s not the correct solution.
@FoundationstoFlourish-ix6bg
6 күн бұрын
Yeh I was just scrolling the comments wondering why everyone was ok with her sending him to his room 🥹
@blee349
2 күн бұрын
That is not ture. Moral perspective start to appear when they are under three.
@amydamrell
8 сағат бұрын
And thoughts on her forcing him to say “sorry” from the research I’ve done, this teaches kids to just say sorry but not understand what they are apologizing for or glazing over the empathy…just to appease or not get in trouble. I get this has been engrained us though so hard habit to break.
@newsomesunlight7050
2 ай бұрын
Precious mom, teaching how to play correctly & be respecting others! God bless your family & your husband!
@markcarr992
Ай бұрын
A rare example of a positive short video. Well done to you the creator 👏 ❤
@rushatarwarabridsobol9601
21 сағат бұрын
The mother teaches her son very great way how to be nice to others ❤
@sundarayara9759
5 күн бұрын
I always cry of joy when i see your babies so sweet & understanding. I cry because they're tooken care of by a great mom that loves them ❤ God bless your family ❤
@TonyToad22
2 ай бұрын
_Beautiful_ example of Peaceful Parenting. Calm and gentle, yet firm and assertive of the consequences of actions with guidance towards preferable behaviors. The world needs more of *THIS* from all parents/guardians in children's lives.
@sarahgoff4795
2 ай бұрын
Oh she did a perfect! Appropriate amount of time in timeout, repetition of the reason why in terms a child can understand. Love it!
@sorenludwig3978
2 ай бұрын
thats totally bs. You cant handle a child like a small adult.
@darylmorrison6598
2 ай бұрын
Try that with a kid with ADHD or ODD. Good luck!
@AG-yc7vt
2 ай бұрын
@@darylmorrison6598exactly what I was gonna say. That word shizz don’t work with ADHD. They need to be affected by the repercussions. It’s technically a mental illness even though they aren’t acting out 24/7 like some of the more extreme illnesses.
@miguelkaka1889
2 ай бұрын
Nah she didn’t kid is gunna be soft as can be when he’s older he started crying more when his mom sent the other kid away your suppose to make your kids tough not little girls crying just cause a feather hit their shoulder
@valerieickstadt4044
2 ай бұрын
@@sorenludwig3978yes you can, what I wouldn't do is make them say sorry, saying sorry means nothing if you don't mean it. But the rest, especially because if the age, is amazing. When this happens with an older kid you can encourage them to think about other solutions in time out and talk with them about it afterwards, but i think that kid is too young for that.
@deaconessg2468
3 күн бұрын
Great discipline mom.they will not grow to be bullies in the future.i applaud you as a mom you were even greater when you gave him a love 💗💗💗
@l3thallll
Күн бұрын
aww his little run after apologising to his brother is so cute
@jenniferrosenfeld6216
Ай бұрын
we need more moms like her teaching her sons how to be kind and gentle to one another. little brother just wanting to comfort his brohters
@jennifercigainero3739
Ай бұрын
Yesssssss Momma!!!!! And that’s how we raise productive citizens, honorable adults, and just overall wonderful people!
@darrylmatthews5184
Ай бұрын
You can’t be serious!!!!!!! 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
@michaelirvin4555
Ай бұрын
You mean getting your husband setting up a phone and taking a video and then you post it. That’s how you raise kids lol
@IMPORTGUY15
Ай бұрын
LMFAO seriously
@mirzetklinac794
Ай бұрын
That's how you raise a simp not a man
@Lakingsfan140
Ай бұрын
@@michaelirvin4555I can tell you have never had good parents.
@samanthamilton
2 күн бұрын
Discipline and how our children treat others starts at home. Make time to parent. Job well done mom!
@lanceschieman2833
3 күн бұрын
She's a great mom in those kids are going to grow up with a lot of respect
@pamelameadows9717
2 ай бұрын
I love the way the baby brother came up and hugged the middle child to comfort him.
@krock2382
2 ай бұрын
Nice job mom. Brings the siblings together. If only all parents understood the importance of discipline.
@Cujo71
8 күн бұрын
The little one coming in for hugs too. Awww.
@ibrahimshahid3391
10 күн бұрын
This is what you call a good upbringing and proper discipline, and most importantly, great parenting! You don’t have to be super soft with your child and spoil him or be super strict and make him dislike you for life, u can be like this! Well done!!
@akhyasahay310
2 ай бұрын
I love how people these days are seeing parenting as a important thing. Much love to everyone who is working on themselves to make the next generation better.❤
@kelliintexas3575
2 ай бұрын
Yeah, but CLEARLY they are NOT PRACTICING IT. We would not be coming apart at the seams as a country.
@annataymond9529
2 ай бұрын
@@kelliintexas3575bro did you not watch the video
@imonlydancingsal1509
Ай бұрын
A breath of fresh air to see how compassionate discipline is a win win all round. Without resorting to the scary, impatient, aggression I see in so many parents. We need a licence to drive a car, but NO licence to be a parent. But this is the most important role in the world. People need to be taught, shown, and to have standards, if there is to be hope for the future.
@rln8575
3 күн бұрын
Smart mama. She handled the situation perfectly,
@123noworry8
10 күн бұрын
I thought I taught my nephews and nieces the best discipline a parent can offer until I watched your way. You are so a perfect mother anyone can have. Bless you.
@lah_bang2179
Ай бұрын
This kind of woman deserves to become a mother of dozens! Thank you for helping making the new generation better ❤
@johnnydarnell4830
Ай бұрын
😂😂
@soniamartin4914
Ай бұрын
I wish I had their upbringing. What a wonderful mother. Those children will grow up to be productive, kind and happy adults!
@3pleSss
Ай бұрын
Give me a break. All she did is sent a kid to his room while blasting him in front of everyone for show and likes at his expense. Yea grate mother she is. SMH
@kasey3210
Ай бұрын
@@3pleSssthat’s not why she posted it she posted it to show the effects of proper parenting
@svetlanamihajlovic7464
Ай бұрын
Molim prevod komentara na srpskom..hvala
@chrissylucas237
Ай бұрын
@@3pleSss You obviously don't have children or shouldn't have a child be in your care! This was amazing from a mom of 3 to achieve such respectable results means so much in the moment not for the camera ...you jackass!
@chrissylucas237
Ай бұрын
hope your sterile lol
@user-bo5hv5zd8m
6 күн бұрын
WHAT A FANTASTIC MOTHER, SHE DID THE WRIGHT THING. SHE LOVE❤❤ HER CHILDREN. ACTION SPEAKS LOUDER THAN WORD'S 😊😊😊😊
@KianaWilliamson-yh8nh
8 күн бұрын
Wow. . . U r such a gorgeous mom and ur parenting is so effective. ❤LOVE IS PATIENT, KIND, AND UNDERSTANDING.❤
@jessyejames7905
Ай бұрын
Best way to teach your child. Let them tell you what they did wrong. Then you know they have learned. I do the same thing. Love it. Your a great mom and your kids are amazing. ❤
@tur74d56
Ай бұрын
True but kids do lie a lot
@megv7481
Ай бұрын
@@tur74d56 this is different, the situation happened in front of the parent so they know that their mom knows and they cannot lie. why would they? also this gives them a chance to explain if something else was bothering them like "he pushed me first!' or "I didn't push, he tripped!" clears up the situation. always give kids a chance to talk
@ders972
Ай бұрын
@@megv7481the punishment was reflecting and reviewing.... She almost had it.... Everything she did was great except there were no actual consequences. It'll be a rude awakening in society for him when there are still consequences after reflection and apologizing
@ders972
Ай бұрын
@@megv7481normally I would never tell someone how to treat their own children but she is posting this like a smug tutorial. She needs humility.
@chloesullivan.jpg777
Ай бұрын
The clear and firm tone at the beginning just shows how volume doesn’t need to be involved in discipline. The level you spoke at was awesome. Everything about this was awesome but that’s something that I really appreciate
@nwamakaezeano4410
Күн бұрын
I hope to remember this when faced with the same situation. I pray that I would be emotionally intelligent enough to do the right thing. I hope that I won't be carried away by my own pains and inflict and affect them with negativity. Amen 🙏 This is beautiful to watch but I really pray that I remember ❤
@shirleysarradet9486
3 күн бұрын
How sweet. A long, long time ago- in another time- we did not know this way. All turned out so good and loving and generous and brothers and sisters- but much harder discipline .
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