Being a triadwife, the only laundry my husband does is money laundering.
@skylarkkralyks4496
5 ай бұрын
Lmao “triadwife” we didn’t know she was polyamorous!
@Manifestandchill
5 ай бұрын
Hahahahaha
@fortyshorty2459
5 ай бұрын
😂😂😂😂😂😂
@yousufsoomro7003
5 ай бұрын
I think she is talking about the Chinese Triad (mafia).
@marciamartins1992
5 ай бұрын
That was funnier than a fart at yoga class.
@rivermoore1716
8 ай бұрын
im a tradwife, i dont need to be a ceo! which is why i started a pyramid sche-
@audreym3908
8 ай бұрын
😂
@fionna_cool_girl
8 ай бұрын
"I'm my own boss!" Literally on my way home from work I saw a car with a giant "Scentsy" sticker on the back of it with a website and everything saying "support my business" lady that's not your business. You're selling bullshit
@bgos4727
8 ай бұрын
😂😂😂
@abbie_joan
8 ай бұрын
"and got this awesome pink car!!"
@-SteampunkTraveler-
8 ай бұрын
Absoulutely based
@pipsqueakerdoobie
3 ай бұрын
My mom started working as a maid at 10 to bring in money for her family. Her parents sold her to an older family friend as a domestic worker. She worked there until she was 23. Then she met her first husband who whisked her away to the United States. She had her first kid and became a housewife. She didn't really have the option to learn anything else. So she pushed me to study. She refused to let me get a part-time job in high school, and she would collect recyclables to earn extra money for my high school expenses. She cried when i graduated with a bachelors, then a masters, got promotions. She didnt have a choice, but she made sure I did.
@palomatahn
3 ай бұрын
Your mom is amazing 👏 I hope she is doing well after all that hard work
@helloguys7624
2 ай бұрын
That's a remarkable lady you're talking about😢 Btw, have you ever asked what's your mother's dream if she had given a chance like you?
@AnnaGrace603
2 ай бұрын
Bless your mama.❤She lived the live full of sacrifise as many women do. She made sure you don't have to. Special women
@biseraciric454
2 ай бұрын
That is beautiful... 💕
@alishashadows9599
2 ай бұрын
And yet you’ll only want a family in the end.
@whitet-shirt9140
5 ай бұрын
The last sentence "feel free to buy..." is the key 😂
@joel.ha.
3 ай бұрын
Core? What does that even mean
@magicmoonart
3 ай бұрын
Feel free to buy my corn
@couchtable
3 ай бұрын
@@joel.ha.I’m assuming the full was “course” as in she made an online course going over steps and advice on being a tradwife or how to be one. Cause ya know, all the influencers have to have overpriced courses
@alicjaantonina4663
3 ай бұрын
Trololo lolo lololllo lollo ho ho ho ho ho
@klocugh12
3 ай бұрын
@@couchtable more often than not those tradwives also have OnlyFans...
@rocketpsyence
7 ай бұрын
"It's never been harder to be a trad wife with my 20000 dollar stove and 20 invisible staff members"
@queen_of_ravens
6 ай бұрын
Haha yes. Wish my house looked liked that, on a single income. (Maybe I should create a trad wife channel 😂)
@Nameless6477
5 ай бұрын
Seriously man . What the hell she's talking about.. tell her go touch some grass . Go and look how really are trad wife's are . She's here on KZitem earning money and then talking all about this.. i mean come on man seriously 😒
@CM-pf1xc
4 ай бұрын
Omg yes!
@kellygriffin8232
3 ай бұрын
Don’t forget that beautiful solid marble countertop, 😂
@Manalaun
3 ай бұрын
I know who u mean 🤣 And she had time to win beauty pageants too.. a month after giving birth!!!
@dontwannanewname
9 ай бұрын
Not "edgy, alternate lifestyle" with the quick transition to the sales pitch I'm weeeeeeeak
@emilyadams9986
8 ай бұрын
It was the black yoga pants under the frilly pink dress for me. Tyler, do you always wear that dress for your tradwife videos? I'm new to your channel, and I've only seen a few so far (but I'll be back).
@ButterflyScarlet
8 ай бұрын
I hate the whole tradwife thing because it's not traditional. Women weren't perpetually stuck at home cleaning and popping out babies, that lifestyle was only afforded to upper middle/high class women who had servants (or could afford outside services) to do 90% of the tough shit. Lower class women worked. They worked hard day in and day out. Historically, women have always been working, even if we had to swaddle the baby and tie them to our backs while in the fields. Tradwives aren't traditional. People just have a flawed, oversimplified idea of what the past was like and are falling for the "appeal to ancient wisdom" fallacy where they assume everything was better in some nebulous prior time based on those assumptions. If you want to be a housewife and/or SAHM and can afford it, congratulations, but you're not traditional. You probably just like the 50s aesthetic.
@lingy69
8 ай бұрын
Advocating for a traditional lifestyle and calling it edgy and alternate is probably the biggest oxymoron on the planet lmao
@ly_sho
8 ай бұрын
@@ButterflyScarletFr and I feel like a lot of those tradwifes TikToks are just some hidden fetish that they have but don't want to accept it because “it would be too weird and weird is not traditional!” or something 💀
@hobomike6935
8 ай бұрын
Everyone in a family will have to work a minimum of 2 jobs just to survive by 2050. They’re already lobbying in some states to lower the minimum working age from 15 to 10, and to treat kids working as “unpaid internships” or “skill development classes” so they can further exploit commoners for free labor and generate higher profit margins.
@Inferno-Clan
8 ай бұрын
It's harder to be a trad wife now, because it's harder to live on a single income.
@douglasharbert3340
8 ай бұрын
Then stop marrying losers with no degree who work at McDonalds.
@AxelNder
8 ай бұрын
@@douglasharbert3340or stop judging people?
@glenbuyer8738
8 ай бұрын
Bingo, lots of families would be so much better off with one SAH parent, it’s a simple fact of economics why this isn’t the norm
@Terra.E.
8 ай бұрын
@@glenbuyer8738tbf, most families would be better with not one, but two parents that were around most of the time. That’s what’s actually traditional if we’re going by the majority of human history, but that also comes down to economics
@WojciechowskaAnna
8 ай бұрын
maybe if you would grow your veggies, not use a car, like true traditional wives - then it would not be "that hard".
@feef94
6 ай бұрын
Bring back 1960’s rent and drugs and I’ll happily obsess over a sparkly clean dish and perfect dinner garnishes instead of go to work. 😂
@handsdowntoo7150
4 ай бұрын
Haha right?? Can't be a proper tradwife without copious amounts of amphetami.....oh, I mean "legal diet pills" 😂
@MaynardOwns
3 ай бұрын
I think the key is, there is a very small percentage of men who make enough to support a family alone in today’s economy. And and even smaller percentage of women who “meet the standards” of said men. Basically need to be modest not a hoe agreeable not a pain in the ass the men needs to see “yup I’d let her raise my children” type of vibes. Idk if I’m making any sense
@Thobeian
3 ай бұрын
yes, addiction to prescription speed/benzos is essential to get the real 60s housewife experience
@godisawesomeasalways6004
3 ай бұрын
Coca-Cola had cocaine in it. I bet the house did shine😅😅
@patrickmeier357
3 ай бұрын
You mean cigarettes and morning cocktails?
@hai2a
9 ай бұрын
“I rebel to this culture of working women!” *Sells a course online* I love your videos! Keep it up! (Not some people using this as an excuse to be misogynist in the replies)
@Emma_esthetician
8 ай бұрын
Also becoming a content creator who records themselves non stop then edits and uploads while answering multiple emails all day about brand deals or responding to people in comments
@Matoelukka
8 ай бұрын
"And remember to use my code TRADWIFES 15 for 15% off you purchase!"
@error-try-again-later
8 ай бұрын
@@Emma_esthetician classic case of the "I hate social media!!" people being addicted to social media lol
@synem6620
8 ай бұрын
stop that's literally brett cooper lmao
@ZeroTheFianceeToSal
8 ай бұрын
yeah women who force themselves to be CEOs and managers, etc. its not really a job, its just posting courses that people can buy. its like a side thing, and its beneficial for both. but ofc women wanna bitch and moan about a woman that isnt sucking up to feminism. if a tradwife breathed, yall would fold lol and start acting like dogs, barking left and right just because she did literally anything. bitches be exaggerating, damn
@weirdgalstudios
8 ай бұрын
I'm a stay at home mom. I make bread, cookies and almost all our meals from scratch. I'm the primary caretaker of our children. I'm also politically progressive and believe women should have a right to choose their own way in life. Two things can be true at the same time. I think a lot of the online tradwives think you either stay home and take care of your husband or you're a career woman with short hair that hates men and there's nothing else 😆
@error-try-again-later
8 ай бұрын
They believe that because it's what their husbands believe lmao
@annegrey3780
8 ай бұрын
doing cooking, cleaning, and childcare full time is hard, absolutely necessary, and largely unappreciated work and I fully respect stay at home parents (regardless of gender) because it *is* a full time job. I hate when people imply there's something wrong with being a stay at home parent - feels very misogynistic to me - it's like "oh, that's a role *women* used to have to do, so clearly it has no value." Like, why would traditionally female roles be worth anything less than traditional male roles? But my thing with Trad Wives isn't that I don't respect stay-at-home parents, it's that I feel like they don't respect that it's not for me. Like, I'd probably murder someone if you left me alone with a child all day. It's just not what I'm cut out for. lol.
@bambicrandi
8 ай бұрын
@@error-try-again-laterthey believe that because of social media.
@LluviaAva
8 ай бұрын
@error-try-again-later Or maybe women are allowed to believe something different than you, regardless of if you like it or not?
@LluviaAva
8 ай бұрын
@@annegrey3780exactly, perfectly put and itnworks for bith ends of the spectrum. People need to stop shaming women for wanting to work and stop shaming them for wanting to be home builders.
@lizzfrmhon
8 ай бұрын
I don’t shy away from traditional roles. I love taking care of my kids at home. And you know what really helps? These essential oi-
@worldsbestaquarium08
7 ай бұрын
😂😂😂
@Silent_J3lly
7 ай бұрын
LMAO I CAN'T
@BeczaBot
7 ай бұрын
Lolololol
@Lazy_berry
7 ай бұрын
The sponsor of this video! Raid sh-
@Datwaltuhdawg
7 ай бұрын
Buy 2 and get 1 for the price of 2
@bringmychariot
Ай бұрын
Dear Tradwives, No one is shaming you for being a tradwife. We're shaming you for shaming other women for making a *choice* to not live the same way. We're shaming you because you made the choice to live the way you do and yet shame other women for not making that same choice. Sincerely, The sane part of the Internet.
@jmiquelmb
8 ай бұрын
>Rejects modernity >Obsessed with reaching an audience online
@Be1New2You3
8 ай бұрын
Yes that’s less than 1% of stay at home wives.
@bilbo7115
8 ай бұрын
@@Be1New2You3I agree I think the ones that r online do be posting like crazy but it's also the algorithm ig.
@juleswifey6003
8 ай бұрын
when did valuing being a stay at home mother and looking after your kids mean that you reject modernity?!?
@Therodinn
8 ай бұрын
>greentexts on youtube stfu 🚬
@aliveslice
8 ай бұрын
@@juleswifey6003traditional opposes modern, they dispel modern values not just embrace being a housewife - that's reductive, they do pretend to reject modern idea of women's lifestyle but don't commit to it (cuz they're often not married/not doing all this outside of the camera. Also they run a business. People who live and portray lifestyle closest to the traditional usually don't shit talk on modern lifestyle (or sell something) at all.
@mcrmakesmedance
8 ай бұрын
tiktok tradwives are so funny when you realize that the wife is probably making double the money her husband does from ad revenue on her videos lmao
@person1420
7 ай бұрын
Do they even have a husband?
@maks-tldr56
7 ай бұрын
@@person1420i mean its in the name
@hana-a-cha
7 ай бұрын
@@maks-tldr56 Claiming to be a thing doesn't always mean you are a thing 🤷 Why wouldn't it be possible for a lady to use the brand and talk about her husband without having one, who's gonna check?
@BreezyCloudlashes
7 ай бұрын
i can feel the tears behind this comment
@mcrmakesmedance
7 ай бұрын
@@BreezyCloudlashes im gonna touch you
@danielbergonzi7319
8 ай бұрын
Edgy, alternative but loves her children in the condition that they never develop contradictory personalities.
@error-try-again-later
8 ай бұрын
Or gay. The children absolutely _cannot_ be gay.
@GalinaEv
8 ай бұрын
Physical punishment is a valid learning process in this household
@danielbergonzi7319
8 ай бұрын
@@GalinaEv All it teaches you is to fear your parents and not get caught
@GalinaEv
8 ай бұрын
@@danielbergonzi7319 cheating is a tradway, right?
@No-longer1
8 ай бұрын
@@GalinaEvCannot tell wether this is sarcastic, a troll, or genuine
@kyriacarica5862
5 ай бұрын
SAHM here. And I bet a majority of trad wife content creators have about 10-20 staff doing the work at home when the camera isn’t recording. Their husbands also probably make bank.
@Abcdefg-tf7cu
3 ай бұрын
"Trad wives" have always had a full staff of maids and butlers doing most of the work. Here in the south, we make fun of rich people who say stuff like "I can't be racist. The woman my mother hired to raise me was black."
@robertafläc
3 ай бұрын
@@Abcdefg-tf7cuwhat's offensive about hiring a nanny for your child?🤯 do you think working as a nanny is somehow humiliating?
@tracyk.7717
3 ай бұрын
@@robertafläcit's like saying "I'm not racist, I have a black friend(s)", only you paid them to be your friend.
@mamavibetribe8878
Ай бұрын
@robertafläc there is nothing wrong with hiring a nanny. The problem is in the Southern US states black domestic workers were paid less than minimum wage. They were passed down in wills. So basically they were still treated as slaves.
@Abcdefg-tf7cu
Ай бұрын
@@mamavibetribe8878 What do you mean black domestic workers were passed down in wills? You do know you can't pass your employees down in your will, right? When do you think slavery was abolished?
@jessieridgeway8334
8 ай бұрын
That dress actually looks so pretty on you.
@togaprentice9927
8 ай бұрын
Right? I was just thinking how pretty that dress is
@jaybirdishhhhhh
8 ай бұрын
i honestly wouldn’t take that off if i had it it’s so pretty :0
@hiimstayxd
8 ай бұрын
I was thinking the same thing
@hiimstayxd
8 ай бұрын
I was thinking the same thing
@Victoria68213
8 ай бұрын
Where is the dress from 🥺
@tinycrimester
8 ай бұрын
"never been harder than now to be a tradwife"; gets murderglared by millions of peasant ghosts from the past who had to get the dinner started at 6am and do the laundry by hitting it with rocks.
@shadowsinmymind9
8 ай бұрын
Right, my grandmothers had to wash their laundry in a stream and cook outside using pots and cauldrons. And this was in the 60s 😅
@JackgarPrime
8 ай бұрын
If you've never even cut down a tree, can you really call yourself a tradwife?
@zoro115-s6b
8 ай бұрын
@@JackgarPrimeThe "traditional women" crowd would be in for a wild ride if they traveled back to pre-industrial times and saw their tradwife idol's callused hands butchering hogs, chopping wood, and carrying heavy loads back and forth.
@mandisaw
8 ай бұрын
@@zoro115-s6bOr taking in mending, working part-time at a manor house or in the harvest, watching other kids/siblings/cousins, etc - you know, all the out-of-home work women did even in pre-industrial times. Even rich and/or noblewomen had a ton of work to do minding the holdings, the staff, the social calendar for the family, incl any marriageable children. Besides the misogyny and hypocrisy, their sheer ignorance of actual women's lives throughout history burns my bacon.
@Shield954
8 ай бұрын
And were beaten and graped by their husbands.
@BecxyBoo
8 ай бұрын
The problem is not them being housewifes, the issue is they shame women who aren't. They have the choice to do as they wish with there families whether it is being a housewife or working, both should be seen as valid options for a mother. Also Tradwives I see online always are either selling courses or making online content as they cannot make it on one income alone. So they're actually both working and being a housewife also...
@melaneephillips8721
8 ай бұрын
I've been a 'tradwife' for 40 years. Homebirth. Homeschool. No social media influncers for 3/4 of it. Made extra by teaching music stimulants, sewing and working at my kids dance studio. And I am not dressed up.like this for working. Believe me I got plenty of shaming for living my lifestyle.
@alexelion7084
8 ай бұрын
@@melaneephillips8721 There are always people from both sides who go too far and obviously there will be people who think this kind of lifestyle is anti feminist by default, but the main goal is still equality and that means that women (as well as men) can choose their roles. Nothing wrong with being traditional as long as you don’t think it’s the right way for anyone (and enforce it in some way. You can think what you think, obviously.) Homeschooling is another topic, there is a lot of criticism around it, because it can easily be abused to shelter or indoctrinate kids because you can cut them off from outside influences, so I get why you might have been shamed for that. I don’t know you or your situation though, so I won’t assume anything
@RandomSwiftie13
8 ай бұрын
The online tradwives are just social media influencers. They make money by making content. Garbage content but still content that gets sponsored.
@ladygodiva2
8 ай бұрын
@@melaneephillips8721tradwife is different than a SAHM or house wife!
@peachy_talisman
8 ай бұрын
They’re also grifters. They say controversial shit essentially as rage bait which either makes people hate them more (which gives them attention and clout) or makes people more radicalized (which gets them more money when people buy into their pyramind scheme type shit)
@carinathegriffin
3 ай бұрын
A warning to trad wives: My aunt was a trad wife. She never learned to drive nor do the household finances. Her husband died first and it became very hard for her to get along, especially with how freeways got built up, cutting her off from being able to walk to town. So, be a little more modern. You may have to care for yourself one day. Have the right tools. Otherwise, enjoy your life.
@jonathanderbidge598
3 ай бұрын
Back in the day. The husband in his estate and everything else would have another male family member pick up where he left off or would have a fiduciary who would allow her to be just as she is while taking care of the finances
@DutchWestFilms
3 ай бұрын
@@jonathanderbidge598it didn't work out that way for my Grandma. My grandfather died at a young age. The best bet is to try to set yourself up in life to avoid having to rely on anyone. I worked for a tax preparation company, and after seeing everyone's financial life in detail, I don't trust any government or financial group to have my back.
@SableZardYT
3 ай бұрын
That's the right attitude to have. I don't know why we're calling housewives trad wives now, but if you enjoy the lifestyle rock it! Just don't stop learning how the world works, because just like everyone else, you'll need to know eventually.
@carinathegriffin
3 ай бұрын
. Thank you. I tried to teach this to one of my nieces as well, knowing how unstable relationships were becoming. She was a homemaker and had a couple of children, but then the pair divorced and she was at a loss for a while. While I wish homemakers and trad wives happiness, being able to drive kids to appointments, keep track of expenditures, and such is a boon to the household.
@nielskorpel8860
3 ай бұрын
An uncle of my parents really struggled to look after himself when his beloved wife died. He never learned to cook!
@ah5721
8 ай бұрын
I'm a tradwife- I don't need to be a boss- buy my course 😂. Dead on
@NMaxne
8 ай бұрын
It’s because they can’t afford to not work!
@laurendaryani4893
8 ай бұрын
@@NMaxneHey now, that's not work! That's a.... "necessary hobby" 😅
@IconoclastX
8 ай бұрын
@@NMaxneare you happy about that fact? Am i reading too much into that exclamation mark?
@IconoclastX
8 ай бұрын
No conservative is against women having side hustles. A set rigid work schedule is very different from selling home crafted goods online. Infact, the making of those goods is a service to the family because she is practicing necessary skills that can be used at home.
@IconoclastX
8 ай бұрын
@@laurendaryani4893everything is work silly. Conservatives are against women doing a very specific type of work
@s4ltenj0y3r
9 ай бұрын
Did her husband give her permission to post this?
@thechiefwildhorse4651
8 ай бұрын
He provides in many ways -COMANCHE NATION
@TheCoralie87
8 ай бұрын
🤣
@Nithinithinith
8 ай бұрын
@@thechiefwildhorse4651 okay, we still need to see the permission slip.
@arosegaming4793
8 ай бұрын
he runs the channel!
@Hollyberrystreats
8 ай бұрын
Spoilers, they live on the money from HER work!
@trinaneveri
7 ай бұрын
It’s the unhinged eyes for me. 👀🤣
@TeosDiary
3 ай бұрын
Loved that. Must be from how amazing and fulfilling the trad-life is😁🤣.
@SerFaceless
3 ай бұрын
“Cooking recipes for men” killed me. Not even her husband. It’s just THE MEN 😂
@unavailablemixi
8 ай бұрын
You forgot to add the part when they shift from complaining about being looked down on for choosing to be a housewife, to critiquing other women for not being housewives
@RobertMorgan
8 ай бұрын
Women complain about other women? Breaking news, do a expose lol
@Souflouz
8 ай бұрын
I think it's rather the opposite most of the times
@StarDreamMemories
7 ай бұрын
.....yea Bitch (to these oh so joyful women) I do the same shit and I work a full time job, so watcha want?!
@lilyflower5895
7 ай бұрын
Or perhaps it's a defense mechanism considering how belittling being a housewife has become. For a very obvious reason, women entering the workforce became arrogant and started looking down on housewives. This is an occurrence spanning several generations now. With social media and woke culture, this has become even more egregious. Isn't it fair that housewives are doing a bit of venting now? They've been treated like dirt by other women for decades.
@Teajay21
7 ай бұрын
@@lilyflower5895This video isn't a criticism of house wives its a criticism of tradwife culture. I'm not saying house wives/SAHM aren't devalued but we're not talking about them.
@abigailloar956
8 ай бұрын
My favorite trad wife videos are of the ones that are clearly millionaires. Im a SAHM and they are so unrelateable i can't even finish the videos.
@izzytodd4242
6 ай бұрын
My favorite is the one who apparently used to be on OF, so now she’s barefoot in all her videos, wears super expensive dresses, has videos of her planting vegetables, then she harvests them two weeks later, and lives in an urban area with a tiny yard but regularly visits some random farm to film videos of her petting cows, supposedly has a fiancé, but he has never been seen and neither has a single belonging of his and I don’t think she wears a ring, but hey. She occasionally posts good cooking videos with recipes, so I put up with all the rest.
@jkimmyloser
6 ай бұрын
@@izzytodd4242 I want to see these inconsistencies LMAO
@joylynch5204
5 ай бұрын
What’s her channel?
@vanessarickford6260
5 ай бұрын
Thank you that's what I'm saying. It's unrealistic unless her husband is a billionaire
@mintandfruits
5 ай бұрын
My mother was a SAHM during my infancy and when I was 4-12. It wasn’t easy, especially with her mother-in-law living in the house with us and her needing to make 3 meals a day, do laundry, dust, sweep, and tidy the house, and clean the bathrooms and kitchen. She’d lie in bed after, tired to move, and I felt bad so I tried to help her by cleaning the kitchen and tidying the bedrooms.
@lilangelbunny42
7 ай бұрын
the ending got me. the entire thing is perfect but the "buy my course" rly made me cackle loudly. perfection.
@natspunk-rat2158
4 ай бұрын
I thought it was “buy my corn” (soft way of saying p.orn) hahaha 😅
@tinaschmidt5rn
4 ай бұрын
That’s honestly better than “buy my lularoe leggings!”
@LiveRussian
3 ай бұрын
Plus the pants under her trad dress)))
@ChineduOpara
3 ай бұрын
@@natspunk-rat2158 I literally thought the saaaame 😅
@TheSwordThain
3 ай бұрын
"I'm just a home maker," standing inside a kitchen that costs 100 grand. Smdh.
@PenguinSebs
8 ай бұрын
Don’t forget showing themselves cutting veggies while simultaneously demonstrating they’ve never cut anything by themselves in their life
@StarlightDreamer12
8 ай бұрын
I do agree that it's never been harder to be a tradwife... Now that most households need two paychecks to support a traditional family.
@Damathmatical
8 ай бұрын
My girl is submissive and wanted to be "traditional" but I had to tell her she can be a trad wife all she want but u still gonna have to find a way to help with the bills.
@texasktea
8 ай бұрын
Idk for us I'm a sahm bc I would be paying someone else my wage to watch my son while I work. It would make no sense.
@Damathmatical
8 ай бұрын
@texasktea my wife is a sahm but she worked from home and started her own small buisness but for 4 years after we had our kids I supported her while she raised the kids. She wanted to continue being a sahm so we compromised and I helped start her business.
@texasktea
8 ай бұрын
@@Damathmatical my son is barely one rn. I don't even have the energy to do anything else. And I work one day too. Id work more but don't trust anyone w my son.
@girlonfire4421
8 ай бұрын
@@Damathmaticalsounds like you’re not the man for her…
@LeoDBW
8 ай бұрын
Nothing wrong with being a SAH parent, but the biggest issue is that Tradwives think that's all they should do and all they're worth for. I saw some other tradwives online who said things like "my husband's desires are above mine" or "i only live for my children", they have no personal hobbies, barely any friends (outside of their husband's) and are completely financially dependent on their husbands income. Ladies, you have the right to live your own lives outside of your house once in a while, because otherwise, that's how at worse, you get trapped in a toxic/abusive marriage or at best you'll feel nothing but emptiness and depression once the kids move out. Edit: I feel like I have to repeat something: nothing wrong with being a SAH parent, or being dedicated to your family. My own grandmother was what we could call a "traditional stay at home wife/mother", she had 4 children, she was very religious and family oriented BUT she also had a fulfilling life outside of her house, she had lots of friends, she had her own hobbies, she took care of her garden and most importantly, she wasn't a servant to my grandpa, and they BOTH worked very hard on their family and their house. Even if she was from a different time, she had a way more healthy and balanced lifestyle than the toxic tradwives we can find on tik tok
@sunlightangel87
8 ай бұрын
As for the " are completely financially dependent on their husbands income" I am also completely dependent on my husband's income but that's because I have an auto-immune disease and can't work due to illness. Because of his income we make too much for me to get on disability. There's nothing wrong with being financially dependent on someone else when you have no choice in the matter and as long as it's not an abusive situation forcing you to rely only on them.
@sunlightangel87
8 ай бұрын
"my husband's desires are above mine" doesn't have to be a negative thing, as long as it's not an abusive situation forcing this and it's a choice. My husband works 16+ hour days sometimes at a hospital where he's in surgeries teaching the surgeons how to use the tools and joint implants. His patients are primarily elderly in need of hip replacements. He's had patients who have held his hand and told him their life stories and all about their grandchildren before they go under anesthesia, only to die on the table because their hearts couldn't take the anesthesia. He's had to do cadaver labs and organ harvests as well. His first organ harvest was a 33 year old woman who died in a car crash and was an organ donor. He had to be there to witness the surgeon tell her family that she was braindead, the surgery failed, and there was nothing more they could do for her. Then he stood there and watched her 2 kids under age 5 cry because they didn't have a mother anymore. I couldn't do what he does. Acts of service for the people I love is my love language. And if I can have a clean house for him to relax in when he comes home, and if I can have a meal ready for him when he hasn't eaten all day, then I am happy to do that for him.
@LeoDBW
8 ай бұрын
@@sunlightangel87 of course I completely understand your point and your situation, but I meant that these women basically put their whole lives into someone else's hands, especially when they have the freedom not to. You may rely on your husband income, but your whole existence doesn't revolve around him (I hope?).
@LeoDBW
8 ай бұрын
@@sunlightangel87 what you do is perfectly fine (and even wholesome) because its care, you're trying to make things easier for him when he's got a hard job. The tradwife who said that quote (saw her on tik tok but can't remember her name) however basically let her husband do anything to her (in the bedroom, I mean) even things that made her really uncomfortable or even hurted her physically and mentally, but she said it was more important to please him (sexually)
@sunlightangel87
8 ай бұрын
@@LeoDBW That to me sounds like a woman in the throes of abuse. She should be helped, not mocked on social media. Some women were raised that way by abusive fathers, and that lifestyle is all they know. That is generational abuse, which is a very difficult chain to break. I lived that life, too. My mother is in that situation. I broke that chain. It doesn't sound like I did, because I too became a SAHM/SAHW, mainly due to illness but also it just costs so stinkin' much money to have childcare now, we were losing money because childcare was so expensive. When I did work, ALL of my paycheck went to childcare, and then some of his. So we actually saved money by me not working. Anyway... I think women should be lifting each other up. And realize that her words probably come from a place of pain, where she has had to convince herself that this is right and normal.
@jerikromero1746
3 ай бұрын
Tradwives prior to the industrial revolution: working alongside their husbands in the fields, workshops, farms, storefronts and still minding the household.
@Sonnittaja3tonninen
2 ай бұрын
Yeah, this fucking bugs me. Conservatives keep saying that women belong to the house with the kids, inside 24/7, because thats the traditional way, eventho its modern as fuck :D We used to work because we had to. There werent enough people to do just mens and womens work. You had to do what you had to do. 50's housewifes was a phase. Before that only the richest of them richest could afford a life like that, and even then they didnt do any wife duties, just gave birth and gossiped 😂
@anitafoxworth6564
Ай бұрын
Thank you so all this soft life when this woman worked 💪🏿 no nails hair fake lashes ect work work work they didn't have a food processor
@dianedavidson5283
Ай бұрын
Yes. The traditional wife has generally worked. The myth of a wife relaxing at home is new. And, anyhow, it's not relaxing to cook and clean all the time. But you do you.
@SmallCactus22
8 ай бұрын
Erm, is someone gonna let her husband know she's wearing PANTS under that dress 🤨
@sarahrobertson634
8 ай бұрын
Ahahahahahaha!!!!
@_st4reater
8 ай бұрын
i felt betrayed at first too, but then i realized it’s to cover up her ankles as those are for her husband’s eyes only
@ontxtteredwxngs
8 ай бұрын
@@_st4reatertoo much arm exposure though
@make_me7459
8 ай бұрын
That’s the style the tradwife capital of the world uses. Iran and Saudi Arabia
@Andy-xx3tt
8 ай бұрын
It’s funny to me how all of these tradwife grifters are always made up with nice dresses and their hair and makeup done. It just goes to show that their whole view of traditional wives is based on the 40s/50s pinups with dusters or baking trays in their hands. I’m not talking about the girls that wear vintage, I’m talking about these dummies that are selling this glamorized version of what it means to be a traditional housewife because they think housewives got glammed up to do housework. GRIFTERS 😂
@ACP1609
8 ай бұрын
Tradwife but they still do 50/50 on expenses, so they gotta sell those courses 😂
@user-ly3li3ex8c
8 ай бұрын
Who says they do 50/50 expenses and just because she chooses to have a side hustle? A husband's money is the wife's money and the wife's money is only the wife's money.
@mimilune2746
8 ай бұрын
@@user-ly3li3ex8cyou'd be surprised 🤣 men nowadays want a trad wife but she has to work otherwise she's a gold digger !
@miryam815
8 ай бұрын
@@user-ly3li3ex8cspoken like a tradwife
@botanicalitus4194
8 ай бұрын
@@user-ly3li3ex8cif its her only hustle its not a side hustle, its a job Imfao just because they work from home doesnt mean its not work, these "trad wives" are just lazy working women. The reason why they wont embrace being a real trad wife is because they KNOW it sucks
@noth9617
8 ай бұрын
I don't think they can call themselves trad wives if their husband doesnt provide for them. Traditionally the woman would have zero income and be unable to do that. I like "kept woman" better. My husband pays for everything for me and my 4 boys and I use the $660 per fortnight that the government gives me for putting into each of our boys accounts, paying my personal trainer and gym membership, buying food for my 6 pets and also paying the boys piano tutor. ❤
@olivia8243
8 ай бұрын
I'm fully convinced that most tradwife influencers have a team of servants and don't actually do any domestic work themselves lol
@tartpeony8446
7 ай бұрын
Well, in the 50s, they did.
@Badartist888
7 ай бұрын
A lot of them do. There are a lot of call out videos about tradwife influencers. People spending 50k on a brand name artisanal stove to bake bread aren't doing all their all own housework.
@olivia8243
7 ай бұрын
@@Badartist888 I'm not surprised. No one's kitchen is THAT spotless without a full team of waitstaff
@helenanilsson5666
7 ай бұрын
Not a team necessarily. I've worked as a home cleaner, a house normally takes about 4 hours to clean professionally (6-7 if there's a basement to clean too), so if they buy a weekly service it shouldn't be too hard to at least maintain a polished look in the parts where they film the videos.
@olivia8243
7 ай бұрын
@@helenanilsson5666 Oh, that's good to know, thanks for sharing your experience
@Emma-hf4zf
6 ай бұрын
They're acting as if career women don't take care of their children and husbands🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️
@Sepa493
8 ай бұрын
It's completely fine to want to be a tradwife as long as you're not like "every woman should have my exact lifestyle"
@Catthepunk
8 ай бұрын
That is a trad wife. You're talking about cosplaying the trad wife lifestyle.
@Sepa493
8 ай бұрын
@@Catthepunk I don't get what you're trying to say
@Catthepunk
8 ай бұрын
@@Sepa493 ita not fine to be a traditional wife. Because that means relinquishing your sexual, financial, and spiritual agency to your husband, and teaching your kids to submit to the husband's authority. Your husband has the final say in all things as the head of the household.
@Sepa493
8 ай бұрын
@@Catthepunk oh I understand now
@love-giftofafairytale3849
8 ай бұрын
I think what you guys are both saying is: it's okay to be a stay-at-home parent, as long as you're not judging other people for working.
@evinalesca7830
8 ай бұрын
The only thing that bothers me is that they always seem to talk as if women who work don't also do all of these things. I work full-time but I also love to keep a clean, pretty home, do my hair and make-up each day, wear dresses and cook meals for my family. Plenty of women do this; I've never seen a tradwife video showing them doing anything that working wives don't also do.
@evinalesca7830
8 ай бұрын
@charlesyoungblood9414 what do you mean? I'm sure being a stay-at-home wife doesn't make someone any less likely to be unfaithful? I've been faithful to my husband since we met as teenagers, and I've always worked. I don't really think the two points are related?
@MiamiPush2theLimit
8 ай бұрын
@@charlesyoungblood9414ever hear of celibacy or asexuality? They do exist. I’m 38 and haven’t had sex in 12 years. Just focused on my career and being a good member of society.
@basedshaman6183
7 ай бұрын
@@evinalesca7830lol you dont know how satistics works...
@StarDreamMemories
7 ай бұрын
Bingo!😉 My husband doesn't do house chores. Yes I hate that, but I also work 35hrs a week B.
@farah.mp3
7 ай бұрын
@@basedshaman6183 you and the other guy don't know how statistics works either since they reference a certain pourcentage of a certain demographic yet you talk like it's 100% percent of women who work cheat... make it make sense
@alexray230
8 ай бұрын
Nothing says rebellious like a strict adherence to tradition
@RobertMorgan
8 ай бұрын
Actually, this IS a rebellion, because the norm now, the status quo, the ESTABLISHMENT, is go to college, take on $100k debt that turns into $300k for a job that earns you $36k/year, ignore men, complain about ignoring men, earn tons of cash and blow it all, complain no man makes as much but has tons more cash because they don't blow it. On and on, I have 6 sisters, I could write a book series just listing woman complaints.
@mrssmayberry
8 ай бұрын
Tradition that genuinely is rarely followed these days, yeah. I don't care what you choose to do with your life but I choose to have traditional values and that's okay, just like it's okay for you to choose otherwise. Posts and comments like these just proves tradwives point that we are disliked for going against what is normal for this age.
@Aescalona
8 ай бұрын
@@Kitsuragi556 The original Comment was just pointing out the hypocrisy of calling yourself a rebel and then sticking to tradition. The whole point of rebelling is to break tradition in order for a better future. I have nothing against tradwives, live your life however you want to live it. I'm just explaining the original comments point
@Snuzzled
8 ай бұрын
@@mrssmayberry Ma'am it's just pointing out that it's literally the opposite of rebellion. You seem a little defensive.
@troywright359
8 ай бұрын
@Snuzzled sir, please go look at a dictionary definition, as "traditional" is not the norm anymore, not following it is no longer rebellion
@JackRex-gx2il
3 ай бұрын
Cleaning a counter with glass cleaner. Definitely rebellious
@musiclist4792
2 ай бұрын
Haven’t you ever seen My Big Fat Greek Wedding? Windex has many uses!
@skyr5247
8 ай бұрын
Don't forget abt the crunchy tradwives that insist on raising their own farmstead at home and doing everything by hand and homemade but conveniently leave out that they come from big money/married into it, which is why they could afford the land, expensive rustic furniture, chickens, and equipment for canning and shit in the first place
@magdadom2505
8 ай бұрын
Ohhhh, that's a good one too...
@danielthompson3928
8 ай бұрын
Right, just like a female CEO likely comes from money and has a degree from a top notch school. I think the point is to be able to choose from your available options and not have to be a sheep and do exactly as society tells you to do.
@aliyahcole7663
8 ай бұрын
This is EXACTLY my problem with the Pioneer Woman.
@LadyDnMiller
8 ай бұрын
That part 🫠
@Balrog-tf3bg
8 ай бұрын
@@danielthompson3928why do anything when you can just exist and do menial household chores?
@strangergoat
8 ай бұрын
That lobotomy stare
@IconoclastX
8 ай бұрын
The doom stare after realize you're going to be working a 9 to 5 for the rest of your life and leave no lasting legacy on the world because you hate beauty truth and goodness
@DOLLZGUTS
8 ай бұрын
@@IconoclastXgirl what
@strangergoat
8 ай бұрын
@@IconoclastX lol wut
@uberculex
8 ай бұрын
@@IconoclastX At least we don't hate using commas in a list of nouns; unless beauty truth is supposed to be one thing.
@Xxsorafan
8 ай бұрын
@@IconoclastXhoney you don’t even know if YOUR legacy will last after you’re gone stop being so vain
@ratihcahyani9438
8 ай бұрын
They're almost always generationally wealthy too, otherwise... those shiny and color-coordinated kitchen appliances?
@CrashHoax
7 ай бұрын
Or they just married rich.
@MrFredstt
7 ай бұрын
They leave that part out
@thekyleprojekt7996
7 ай бұрын
Its called marrying a man that has more aspirations in life than working at taco bell. Maybe you should stop dating losers lmao
@vineboom9372
7 ай бұрын
@IsmailShields- lol this isn’t true.
@Nuckingfutsnix
3 ай бұрын
They are also young. I mean when you are wealthy either by birth or by marriage and often combination of both, first 2/3 years of married life could easily by idyllic. I would like to see what happens to them down the line if they aren’t wealthy. Also I personally don’t care for them, but its the subtle or direct demeaning of other working women or women living different lives than them is just irksome.
@kristimartin9531
5 ай бұрын
Women fought for a choice. It's okay if some choose to stay home. Especially with the price of child care. Most of the time the price is so high it makes having that second income not even worth it. No matter which spouse chooses to stay home they are just trying to do what's best for their families.
@TheSnowdogsShorts
3 ай бұрын
Choice is very important.
@BobManHobbit
3 ай бұрын
The price is higher than any currency can encapsulate. When you choose to bring a child into the world but do not raise it yourself, you give up the only thing that is in child rearing for the parent
@christophersmith8316
3 ай бұрын
Feminists attacked Tradwives from the very start. They never were interested in choices for women.
@wolfman-zd1ed
3 ай бұрын
That's nice. Now I'd like trads to shut up about choosing the "default" settings. They are not special. They are not revolutionary. They are not a better woman than others, or especially better mothers for staying home. All of this performative nonsense just feels like a projection or predation of female insecurity. Depends on the person. THAT is the only reason why non-trads even care that tradwives exist. Otherwise go off, girl, live your life, I'm non-sarcastically genuinely happy for you.
@aa.1151
3 ай бұрын
When did women do that- in what period? I kind of understand that the fight for women's rights has always been done by men. Or strongly supported by men - I do,t think that women alone have fought for any rights from men without men wanting to give them. And at least two decades equal rights have had nothing to do with gender... It's not even about rights... it's about possibilities between different social statuses. And all over the world and throughout history... worst life is where people are forced to have equal possibilities. With exceptions for the 0,1 % chosen ones.
@emm_uhh
8 ай бұрын
"Rebels" against the culture of working women... also runs a business from her home 😅
@Geminilion100
8 ай бұрын
I guess most folks don't know how much buisness was done from the home way back when. Candlestick makers, what's that?
@weirdarthistorian
8 ай бұрын
@@Geminilion100Yeah, but then they lie about their lifestyle. If they run a business and being additionally a full time influencer, then they are working women and not trad wifes with a provider, as they picture it in their content.
@ZeroTheFianceeToSal
8 ай бұрын
ah yes, lumping them all together. grow up
@ZeroTheFianceeToSal
8 ай бұрын
@@weirdarthistorian bullshit
@weirdarthistorian
8 ай бұрын
@@ZeroTheFianceeToSal Stating "bullshit" without providing any valid arguments is basically bullshit.
@l.g.2888
8 ай бұрын
The repackaging of absolute conformity as rebellion sets my teeth on edge almost more than the weird religious drivel.
@d3pr0fundis
8 ай бұрын
Agreed. We have so many family members that go on and on about their godly role as women and they all are either depressed hypochondriacs, high functioning substance abusers, or in abusive relationships. Sounds like a great lifestyle to embrace 😬
@MatthewCoast
8 ай бұрын
Well, when polyamory and boss babes are the "cool thing" these days, being a tradwife is literally the opposite of conformity, at least to the culture.
@table2.0
8 ай бұрын
@@MatthewCoastpolyamoury is still extremely looked down upon and marginalised. Boss babes get so much harassment for simply existing as women who have confidence in what they do publicly. What “culture” are you talking about??
@billybeergut5766
8 ай бұрын
Its not religious it's literally just natural order.
@table2.0
8 ай бұрын
@@billybeergut5766 “natural order” lmao, go talk to a biologist and a sociologist them come back when you have any semblance of understanding of human nature
@dianabakes1
7 ай бұрын
They missed the part where feminism means having the CHOICE to be a career woman or a SAHM.
@kyon-kyon-
7 ай бұрын
people nowadays think being a feminist means hating men and rejecting them. feminism noun the advocacy of women's rights on the basis of the equality of the sexes. the people who changed the meaning of the word and make women and other men feel bad for being feminists are the misogynistic men who want women to be their slaves.
@whitneyriddle1088
7 ай бұрын
Not anymore. That’s where it started but not how it has ended up.
@ImnotassweetasIusedtobe
7 ай бұрын
Feminism was never about choice, it has always been about dismantling the patriarchy. But that seems way over your head.
@MsBlueHand
7 ай бұрын
@@ImnotassweetasIusedtobe Dismantling the patriarchy is the only way we get choice. FIFY.
@theartoffemme2997
7 ай бұрын
that was the lie they sold...
@mugglepotato
3 ай бұрын
Love how they speak as if we want to be working constantly and while being paid peanuts
@msshannonigans
3 ай бұрын
They do. They're the type of people who wouldn't accept being saved from drowning if the person saving them disagreed with them on political issues.
@lillianblack8749
8 ай бұрын
They’re all so mad that people want the freedom to not be them.
@ZeroTheFianceeToSal
8 ай бұрын
nah, people have options now. some wanna live that kind of life, they shouldnt be stripped from it. every bitch is hypocritical, damn
@lillianblack8749
8 ай бұрын
@@minatorres5261 I have no problems with trad wives until they start trying to shame other women for not living like them and say “this is a woman’s place”
@laurendaryani4893
8 ай бұрын
@@lillianblack8749And they do so on the false premise that women who have jobs or live more independently are shaming women who want to stay at home and raise children. Like... where? When I've casually mentioned that I don't want kids, it's like 20 wolves leaping for my neck in comment sections. When I hear women casually talk about being a SAHM/W, there'snot a single remark against it unless there's actual abuse and mistreatment going on. People who unironically and deliberately push this "tradwife" movement are the same weirdo paranoiac conservatives who can't see someone scratch their own nose without thinking it's "woke."
@IconoclastX
8 ай бұрын
@@lillianblack8749i like how you say that an entire group of people are angry and mad because they're jealous of wage slave women; but then claim that you have no problem with them. Maybe you really are this cognitively dissonant(which i mean in no offense) but you can say you have no problem with a group of people but clearly a large majority of modern people have a subconcious bias against mothers who want to raise their kids
@lillianblack8749
8 ай бұрын
@@IconoclastX all you just said was “I don’t talk to or listen to women” that was the most mansplainy thing I’ve ever heard I have met literally dozens of women who are “wage slaves” and yeah they hate mom wage and how greedy companies are but they don’t hate on other women about it they hate on the men who own the company and run the country.
@awesome23018
8 ай бұрын
They're so annoying 😑 Aren't they supposed to be seen and not heard?
@josiet199
8 ай бұрын
Wow you really got us there 😂
@dementia8745
8 ай бұрын
😮😯😲😂omg
@michelleb7399
8 ай бұрын
No, that’s the children. Tradwives are supposed to be barefoot and pregnant.
@GalinaEv
8 ай бұрын
@michelleb7399 are they also suppose to sing beautifully? Or is that disney princesses?
@SmashedPancakes3939
8 ай бұрын
Y’all crazy, I see so many comments talking about “they act like everyone is against them and they aren’t” while also seeing comments like this. And let’s not even talk about the video because all it’s doing is making fun of them.
@sydneyruewho13
8 ай бұрын
I think that the whole point of feminism is you should be able to do whatever you want without ridicule. If I want a career I should be supported and if I want to be a stay at home mom then I should also be supported. If a man wants to stay at home then he should be supported in that decision as well. Feminism isn’t “all women need to work” but “women who want to work shouldn’t be ridiculed”
@off6848
8 ай бұрын
Nah feminism is about ridiculing women who want to be complimentary to men Hence this video which is ridicule Because that’s what feminism has always been and really it just goes back to witchcraft and female supremacy goddess worship etc
@melissadavenport5176
8 ай бұрын
I’m really happy to see this comment. I am a stay at home wife. My husband and I are not rich. We didn’t come from money. In fact, we are currently selling our home so that we can downsize to my husband mom and I living in two tiny trailers on 1.2 acres that we worked really hard to find for cheap and are fixing up ourselves. I am so happy that some women want to be CEOs and have positions of authority, but I worked myself up to a position of authority in my last job, and I hated it. It was terrible for my mental health. All I want is to stay at home bake bread, plant a garden, make pickles, tend chickens, and create a simple life in the country where the cost of living isn’t triple what any human could afford and it kind of bothers me that there’s so much content on the Internet just making fun of women for wanting to do what makes them happy.
@sydneyruewho13
8 ай бұрын
@@melissadavenport5176 thank you for sharing 🤍
@em77775
8 ай бұрын
My thoughts exactly. I'm a woman who's worked full time then decided to stay home to raise babies. Then I built a freelance business while at home with them. Then went back to full time as they got bigger and had to keep working because I ended up divorcing a bad husband. Now on my own on CA.
@MariaPaula-uw3ds
8 ай бұрын
The problem is, a woman that doesn't work doesn't have her financial independence and is she is beaten or cheated by the husband she can't leave the situation. If you think being a stay at home mom is fully a choice, when in reality there are many cultural, religious, historical and economical factors at play, you didn't understand feminism at all
@laurathomason9338
4 ай бұрын
They don’t even see the irony that if they are working as a content creator online, they are in fact NOT a traditional wife 😂
@Kirsten_is_cursed10
8 ай бұрын
There’s always a persecution complex 😅
@themanyouwanttobe
8 ай бұрын
Now buy my book: "My Struggle"
@hoottasshell
8 ай бұрын
Yes, because it's not about just living a different life. It's about blackmailing women to live on same or worse standards than them.
@IconoclastX
8 ай бұрын
This coming from a feminist who may or may not blame the patriarchy for a myriad of problems and the oppression of women. I love the irony
@AnonymousPerson270
8 ай бұрын
@@IconoclastX My thoughts exactly. Feminists are constantly whining like damsels in distress about the most mundane and innocuous things, dramatically declaring them oppression.
@yoeyyoey8937
8 ай бұрын
@@IconoclastXlol
@chloopsie
9 ай бұрын
Love the dress with sweatpants underneath XD
@Rae-cheese
8 ай бұрын
Can't have anyone seeing her sinful ankles! Now all she needs is a modesty panel.
@lh9591
8 ай бұрын
Those are ahem pantaloons they add volume to the dress
@hineraable
8 ай бұрын
"I don't need Feminism therefore no one does, also you should be financially dependent on your husband with no backup, it can never go wrong! Anyways I have this course...".
@TheTen20
7 ай бұрын
You do realize Feminism and the Trade Wife movement are equally trash right? How about we do what best for us individually and stop pigeon holding are beliefs into premade group-think ideology's.
@wolfofthewest8019
7 ай бұрын
"I'm a strong independent woman who doesn't need a man. What do you mean my company just downsized me and left me destitute and now I'm an old woman with no family and completely at the mercy of the abusive El Salvadoran nurse the government provided me with. She beats me with a spoon and steals from me!"
@liviasantos3509
5 ай бұрын
😂Hypocrisy, they keep deceiving innocent women. While these women keep taking money from their husbands to give money to these influencers.
@ezraf.7759
3 ай бұрын
These same women be like 'nobody wants to work anymore!!"
@Alexa-md2uk
8 ай бұрын
The problem with these titktok “tradwives” is that they completely undermine their own point by making a career out of posting about their lifestyle. Lame
@platinumkale2940
8 ай бұрын
Exactly 100%
@off6848
8 ай бұрын
Nah that is traditionally how women used to hustle always have always will
@nicolasleroux5302
8 ай бұрын
No. The problem is people like you who feel the need to belittle others for the sin of trying to make money by teaching others how to do things. You think Tradwives are bad because they wanna make money teaching women how to cook. You think gym bros are bad because they wanna make money teaching men how to build muscle. People like you belittle others and accuse them of running pyramid schemes even though 99% of the time they’re just selling a cookbook or a gym routine or a writer’s guide or whatever. You’re not above it all- you’re just bitter.
@stentual
8 ай бұрын
@Kitsuragi556 but the mindset can be dangerous for some people who buy into it. No problem with trad wifes, but telling someone to not get their education is bad advice
@moyin282
7 ай бұрын
@@stentual in addition to that, these women rejecting any way of taking care of themselves is such a horrible set up for them and a terrible decision for their kids. What happens if their husbands lose their job or pass away?
@ineedmoresleep3728
8 ай бұрын
Don’t forget the part where none of them actually have any of the skills for home making
@ChesireWaltz
8 ай бұрын
Yeah it's always hilarious to see them wearing these fancy dresses and decorations on like the mixing machine or something that would get in the way or anything actually working. You can't actually do housewife work with any of the stuff in their videos so you know they're lying
@shaniatreyu9303
8 ай бұрын
Not an apron in sight! Do they just not have splash back problems when cleaning the dishes?!
@IconoclastX
8 ай бұрын
This is a reason to train girls from birth to be homemakers not a reason to reject traditionalism
@caseyjc5
8 ай бұрын
@@IconoclastXYou literally said in another comment nobody is saying every woman should be a tradwife, and yet here you are implying women should be trained to be as children 🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄 Also traditionally most women DID work besides doing household chores and raising children.
@IconoclastX
8 ай бұрын
@@caseyjc5 no, I said that my perspective is unpopular and almost nonexistant. By "nobody" I meant very few. People like me have no real influence because we have no numbers. so to suggest we are oppressing wage slave women is absurd. They can just block us, literally everyone else in America will publicly support them. No, wage slave women are oppressed by their own concious because they're either forced to(which I sympathize with) or choose to not properly raise their kids because of a career.
@spiceyartif1cey753
8 ай бұрын
I love how these types of women are like "Feminism HATES this!" like.... ma'am, feminism defends your right to be this. It also defends your right to change your mind at any point, too. So like.... go off ig?
@EmilyInALoop
7 ай бұрын
lol not always true I’ve ran into plenty of “feminists” who give me looks and laugh when I tell them I don’t want a career and am going to quit my job when I get pregnant and be a stay at home mom.
@paulstiner1818
5 ай бұрын
So true. I am a stay at home mom and the only people that have ever treated me like I’m worth less because of it is women. I honestly think it’s guilt about not raising their own children, and deep seated unhappiness about not feeling truly fulfilled and not understanding why. Otherwise, why would anyone else care what I’m doing or not doing? And trust me, I’ve done the career thing (medicine) and the homemaker thing, and the latter is definitely more difficult.
@rappingbeaniedog347
5 ай бұрын
@@EmilyInALoopthen those aren't true feminists. Those are assholes who claim they're feminists
@artespeck8091
5 ай бұрын
@@paulstiner1818 you really think their issues comes from not having kids? Really? Like actually?
@maryallouche9490
5 ай бұрын
@@paulstiner1818I’m in med school and there’s no way being a stay-at-home mom is harder than working in health care. Not to mention, if the doctor has kids, she does at least x10 the efforts and work you do, taking care of patients and raising kids (alone, considering that most men don’t contribute to parenting or housechores) is not to be compared to being a SAHM.
@karebushmarebu233
3 ай бұрын
No one: Trad wife: I believe in the traditional lifestyle in which a woman stays at home and the man is the sole income earner, except for the fact that’s impossible for most people cause it’s so expensive so I’ve started a social media channel so I can pretend I’m a stay at home non working wife while also making more money than my husband. It’s a secret tho shhhhh
@jackieruiz2348
3 ай бұрын
I think the point of being a stay at home mom is being at home with the children. Working from home or making money on the side is irrelevant. Basically, if your not at home taking care of your own children, someone else is..
@Linkolite
3 ай бұрын
But I mean that’s pretty great tbh.
@karebushmarebu233
3 ай бұрын
@@jackieruiz2348 But that’s not the lifestyle tradwives project, because we already had stay at home mums, they are a separate and distinct thing to Tradwives.
@karebushmarebu233
3 ай бұрын
@@Linkolite It’s great making more money than your husband for sure, but it’s not great projecting a lie. If they truly wanted others to live that lifestyle then they would also promote leftist political positions that would allow for higher wages in order to allow for more single income households
@gammawolf3
8 ай бұрын
I once had an argument with a woman on Reddit who literally said: “I don’t know why other women want equal rights so badly, I love being comfortable as a stay at home mom!” Like, how do you even explain to these people that women are individuals?
@JustanotherYoutuber771
8 ай бұрын
I also don’t understand how anyone could just flat out say no to equal rights? Like girl if he abuses you- you have the right not only to leave but to sue him. You get the right to vote so that you have a voice about the things that matter to you. If you don’t want to exercise any of those rights you’re also free not to. But they’re there in case you do. Why are you complaining?
@palespaghetti
8 ай бұрын
Yikes
@oceanspotions4401
8 ай бұрын
I hope she never has children, unless she develops a higher level of emotional intelligence, compassion, and critical thinking skills, because yikes for that woman
@HackersSun
8 ай бұрын
Equal rights means equal right to stay at home or go have a job. Either and both can exist
@Andy-xx3tt
8 ай бұрын
Women like that hear equal rights and automatically think you’re trying to convince them to get a job as a lumberjack and be treated like men. And the men just think “Oh, so I can hit girls now?” 🙄 These people think in extremes and can’t wrap their minds around the concept of equal rights being purely about choice and respect for other people regardless of what’s between their legs. It’s crazy.
@kayakat1869
8 ай бұрын
Lol, I've been starting to speak up against these types of posts because they are genuinely insane. Honestly, I love a good homemaking or cooking video, but I hate how they add misogyny into everything they do! And its always funny to me how these women say us feminists cant cook, when all of the food in the tradwife videos looks like it will give me salmonella and ebola.
@taylorrae3947
8 ай бұрын
Literally!! I work with kids & think cooking is fun. But the misogyny is insane. Yeah, it's so freeing catering entirely to your husband while you bring in income on the side /s. I honestly feel that toxic patriarchy indoctrinated in some religions is a huge culprit here. The strict gender roles and adherence being a reflection of character, for example. The original trad wife was super toxic. Talked about tying up her kids to wait for dad to punish them, claimed spousal r*pe doesn't exist, promoted physical punishment. She's religious, as plenty of these women are. It's a perfect storm for the conservative movement right now, but it's just as cringey as it ever was.
@kayakat1869
8 ай бұрын
@@taylorrae3947 i hope cps got her kids
@jenelle5331
8 ай бұрын
@@taylorrae3947I'm near certain most of them just have a kink they're too conservative to admit so they have to convince themselves it's some greater truth they're superior for recognizing.
@demetriam2408
8 ай бұрын
Yeah, they don't seem to recognize that feminism is meant to give them the choice to be what they want, whether that be a tradewife or not.
@kimmiewise1044
8 ай бұрын
Found the man hater...
@NWORB_21
7 ай бұрын
The psycho eyes with the head tilt at the end is just… **chefs kiss** It’s a 10/10 for me 😂
@jiliciar.1423
3 ай бұрын
"Feel free to buy my..." So she is a C.E.O
@Lalaland666-k3x
8 ай бұрын
They always have the savior complex too! 😂
@GalinaEv
8 ай бұрын
Youa re right! I never though about it, but families like that probably believe if it wasnt for them world would collapse
@riotto1802
8 ай бұрын
Say it with me now! Tradwives ≠ housewives! "Tradwives" follow the aesthetic of being "traditional" but don't actually understand the hardwork of a housewife, and they often use their chosen status as a way to put down the choices and actions of other women. A true bombass housewife knows her worth, keeps a backup plan incase her man chooses the not cool moves, works really frickin hard within the home, and doesn't raise her children with the hopes they'll become her new vlogging opportunity 🤷🏽♀️
@JuniperLovesLearning
7 ай бұрын
Right. Housewife or SAHP are choices that are inherently risky, not available to most, right for a few. Some people are SAHP because of disabilities or neurodivergences that make it the only viable option for their family (or they’re SAHP to support a disabled / neurodivergent person who can make good money but can’t do much else, no matter how much they might want to). The “trad wife” movement is a movement based on cis-straight-white-male supremacy. It’s inherently harmful and evil.
@pocasanchez
7 ай бұрын
What's the backup plan? Just wondering how that works bc I invested 110% into my family and bc of that, there is no back up plan and if there were, I'd have fallen short as a mother. I have zero help, so maybe that's part of it, but I certainly put all my eggs in 1 basket bc it was just necessary and the only option for me.
@Teajay21
7 ай бұрын
@pocasanchez They mean that they have money/resources/skills so that if their husband ever leaves them (or dies) they aren't left high and dry with no income, no marketable skill, and no work history.
@pocasanchez
7 ай бұрын
@Teajay21 I completely understand that, which is exactly why I asked. If I'm teaching ABCs, running kids to swim practice, cooking(could NEVER for work bc my back is broken in 2 places), cleaning, educating, bathing kids, grocery shopping, running errands, potty training, nursing, reading bedtime stories, doing laundry etc., do you think I have the time to develop a marketable skill? I've had to drop out of school multiple times bc there just aren't enough hours in the day. I've tried learning about stocks but it's like I can learn for an hour a week and by the time I can find another hour, I forget what I've already learned. I've tried multiple times to both work and go to school while raising kids and it is just not physically possible for me, unless I actively choose to be a lower quality mother. Every time I've made a penny, my kids have had to sacrifice and it sucks. I remember one time I was selling things on Amazon and I'd be doing customer service while one kid wakes up from a nap yelling song lyrics, another fell down and is also suddenly hungry etc and one day I just shut my laptop and gave all the inventory away bc it just wasn't worth it anymore. So anyway, when its all said and done, I think the only difference for me at 18 vs 40 is the development of patience, gray hair and a fuller heart! Lol if I had to do it all over again, I'd still choose to be the best mother I can, but without the naivety of thinking I might be able to do it all. Of course there's the "don't have kids until you are well-established" line, but my kids are birth control babies and if I had waited until I was well-established, I just wouldn't have any kids at all bc my last "healthy"/full term pregnancy was @23. I'm also glad that I was so young and active w them bc although my parents were well-established, they were also super old so I practically raised myself while they were in their 40s/50s. Anyway, I can see how a woman could do both with the help of her husband, family, friends etc., but if you're on your own like me, it's truly one or the other🤷♀️ (Side note, I do homeschool and could choose not to, but I'm just not going to force my kids to go to public, especially considering I have ptsd from what went down in public school as a kid)
@ZeroTheFianceeToSal
7 ай бұрын
someone is stupid
@eynainfilms1496
7 ай бұрын
I will say, my mom was a stay at home mom for me and my four siblings. Most working women would talk down to her, saying things like, "I wish I could stay at home all day" not realizing my mom was making breakfast, lunch, and dinner from scratch while somehow keeping the house clean, washing loads of laundry, and trying to keep us out of trouble. My mom didnt think it was beneficial to get a job that would only earn enough money to pay for someone else to take care of her kids. And I mean no judgment by that to anyone else when I say that. My dad was a workaholic and I barely saw him. I do think tiktok has a tendency to make any normal part of a person's life look like nothing more than a trend or something to monetize. But I can tell you, my mom couldnt make friends because so many working women looked down on her for staying home and doing "nothing". And the other women that stayed at home, well, they were also home so maybe that's why she never met anyone who shared in her lifestyle. I just think it's silly to look down on someone because they choose this lifestlye or that. Just live your life and do what's best for you and your family. Most of the shame to work or to stay home comes from us, women, and that's sad to me.
@ayrasohhel
5 ай бұрын
I feel for your mom but we are not making fun of people like her the creator of this video is making fun of “tradwife influencers” who often putting down working women for not “taking care” of their husbands and children. Also give your mom a hug from me, she sounds like a nice person
@eynainfilms1496
5 ай бұрын
@@ayrasohhel That makes sense. And thank you. She is!
@ayrasohhel
5 ай бұрын
@@eynainfilms1496 :)
@Morgan313
4 ай бұрын
My mother was an SAHM also. That is completely different from a “tradwife influencer” who is a working woman pretending to be a SAHM while putting down other working women.
@rowanlaverne
4 ай бұрын
There is nothing with being a stay at home parent. Its the tradwife's emphasis on subservience to men and the shilling of goods while not even truly walking the talk that we are talking about. I don't like that they make their whole life revolve around service to their husband and then tell other women that's what they were created for. You do you, of course, but don't go around telling other women that is there "place". Gross. Your mother sounds amazing. You are very lucky. Give her some extra love for those of us without moms.
@plantastix
5 ай бұрын
Accurate 😂 these people think people are against them, but nobody really cares. I support women having the choice to do whatever they want.
@dasikakn
8 ай бұрын
I was a tradwife for a few years during the time my kids were babies after working in roles identical to my husband. The dynamics of the marriage changed and eroded my agency so hard I went back to work. For most women, it’s not about becoming CEO, but that their work is their insurance.
@conceptsmorose
8 ай бұрын
Sad but true..the power dynamic changes in the man's mind and leads to abuse. Not always. But it's not uncommon.
@sparkzbarca
8 ай бұрын
Yeah but that's just a marriage problem. I mean you say you have a marriage but also an eye on the exit door. If someone says "having kids eroded my agency so hard"" or "I had a second kid as an insurance policy in case the first one isn't a success." you'd probably judge that. You can say being a wife effected your agency but not being a mom, even though both are true. You can say you want insurance against your marriage but not your kid even though some number of kids wind up in and out of jail by 20 years old. If you go into marriage properly which is trying as hard as possible to make it work and going "if I fail I fail but I'd rather fall hard than spend time in my marriage preparing for it's downfall." Then perhaps you wouldn't need the safety net your busily building.
@wyleecoyotee4252
8 ай бұрын
So true
@RobertMorgan
8 ай бұрын
Pick better men and you don't need insurance. Men, any woman is the complete loss of YOUR agency and insurance, avoid them. That was my dad's advice. Never get married or have kids son, it ruins your life, as he hugs his great grandkids...
@wyleecoyotee4252
8 ай бұрын
@RobertMorgan There are no 'better men'. You mean get one that wouldn't die an untimely death? Insurance is always needed.
@jessicawelch8809
7 ай бұрын
Being a trad wife is unrelatable if you grew up with abusive parents and feel like you can’t trust your husband to care about you for real. I’m glad it works out for many women, but it’s just not for many of them who need to make their own way.
@alice.in.gondaland
7 ай бұрын
Why marry someone you can’t trust
@TheSorrowfulAngel
7 ай бұрын
I don't know about "unrelatable". Your (abusive) parents should not define you after all(easier said than done, though). I also do not see why this has to be relatable.
@ZebraLuv
7 ай бұрын
1. This is satire making fun of influencer women who use flowery soft ways of speaking, vintage clothing and decore, and rage bait misogynistic ideology just to sell things. They're essentially scamming, preying on the unmarried and selling the idea of stability through conformity, safety over liberty. A lot of them are independently wealthy off their social media and not actually married so they have no idea what they're talking about. 2. You may want to look into switching therapists because yours clearly isn't helping you with that childhood trauma. Yes there are trust worthy and marriage worthy men and women out there but you have to really look hard and absolutely can't sleep with every date along the way. And it is best if you can support yourself without a man because there is always a possibility something might happen to him or that the economy may collapse again. That's why they say if you want to be a mom, prep to be a single mom. Not all men are bad, not all women are bad. However you've been given what's called a negativity bias, that means you're looking for traits slightly similar to bad people so that you can self affirm the new person is also bad. A lot of women are afraid of men who like sports because of their fathers. A lot men are afraid of women who use hair dye because of one mean ex-girlfriend. Most men like sports, most women use hair dyes, neither of those are signs of an abuser but a negativity bias will make you believe all these people behave the same as those who caused your trauma. It's the same as a child afraid of all dogs after being bitten once. It's a form of paranoia and avoidance. And sadly we live in a time where birth rates are declining because everyone under 40 is afraid of the opposite gender. It's silly. Remember this, men are equally as afraid of you as you are of them. They don't want to be attacked or abandoned or disrespected or have their reputation ruined. Men are shockingly human and very uncomplicated. Humans are by nature emotionally delicate, feelings bruise easily. I'm really tired of the men vs women BS. Spoiler, every human fundamentally is the same, we all have the same basic needs and wants. Just treat everyone the way you want to be treated. You won't agree with everything, you won't get along with everyone, but you still have to make conscience effort to be courteous.
@eab576
7 ай бұрын
My wife was born to abusive parents and was adopted by abusive parents. She definitely felt like you did when we were younger and she had recently left her house. She was super self sufficient and had a good job and saved her money "just incase" she was always "protecting herself" because people had shown her they werent dependable. After 7 years together, she has stopped working and wants to stay at home to take care of our children even if our income will drop by half. I think she has realized over the years with proof obviously that I will do whatever I have to, to support her and "our family" and has put her trust in me like she should. So I understand where you're coming from but like stated above. It might be hard. But don't be married to someone you can't trust.
@lilaschwarz6014
7 ай бұрын
That's why trad is a movement and not just an individual decision. Teaching young people to choose someone kind an reliable over a hot adventure is part of it - as is finding and building communities where homesteaders and likeminded people can support each other.
@KaylaAnnStudio
8 ай бұрын
Tip: Don't clean quartz countertops with anything other than hot soap and water. Harsh cleaners will ruin them over time.
@mylillilu
6 ай бұрын
I clean my granite countertops with granite cleaner
@imnotacat5299
6 ай бұрын
Pro Tip: sanding will remove *anything* you could possibly have on the countertop
@zaco-km3su
3 ай бұрын
Being a tradwife means not having a job. Good luck living on 1 income.
@thomastonnessen8056
3 ай бұрын
Me and my wife do it on a $31 an hour income but offset with a large garden and raising egg and meat chickens and meat rabbits 🐇 😂
@cherrybomber69
3 ай бұрын
Some people can, not everyone is struggling
@PandoraStolen
3 ай бұрын
I mean some people make that work.
@LoveBagpipes
3 ай бұрын
Have done this since 2007...I'm not some massive income earner, but entirely possible 🤷
@leftseat30
3 ай бұрын
It's not that hard STOP WHINING. My wife dropped out of work when I was my 35K a year 10 years ago and had our kid.
@cherrychocolate7587
8 ай бұрын
they also act like any woman that doesn't want to be one is "acting like a man"
@c6ure
8 ай бұрын
who is they literally none of us think that yall are j trying to find any excuse to drag on and attack any woman who makes the decision to stay at home and for what it deadass affects u in no way none of us give a shit if u stay at home or not rest assured
@nymphstellar
8 ай бұрын
@@c6ure no they absolutely do, atleast on tiktok
@Geminilion100
8 ай бұрын
What's wrong with the sentiment of "acting like a man"?
@cherrychocolate7587
8 ай бұрын
@@Geminilion100 it implies that being strong, independent , or not revolving your life around being a mother or housewife makes you less of a woman
@minervarose7664
8 ай бұрын
Yes the whole "working women and their MasCuliNE EnerGy" 😂
@ruwayda9847
8 ай бұрын
cant forget mentioning that they submit to their husband like 12 times 😭
@wyleecoyotee4252
8 ай бұрын
They have to succ d to keep a roof over their heads
@RobertMorgan
8 ай бұрын
Meanwhile the modern woman can't even get her man to submit her in bed once a year lol.
@heatherwilliams3748
8 ай бұрын
That's very specific. Why 12??
@Leafling
7 ай бұрын
@@heatherwilliams3748Just a number made up for the joke and to point out it's part of a submissive fetish.
@ZeroTheFianceeToSal
7 ай бұрын
thats crazy because theres NOTHING wrong with that. imagine belittling someones relationship because youre so stuck up that you cant make your partner happy. selfish ass. no wonder why youre lonely
@user-qo2jv1tz8i
8 ай бұрын
Lmao😂 I’m so glad you made this bc this is correct. I hate seeing influencers say they quit working to be a SAHM and then they are working from home selling courses and products and doing promotions. Like, that’s a job, babe. You work from home.
@aliecarey
4 ай бұрын
It's about choice, my dear. I was a stay at home mom until my son was a teen. Best years of my life!! ❤
@purplecarrot8982
3 ай бұрын
❤
@aprilmh
3 ай бұрын
"Trad wife" does not mean "stay-at-home mom." There are similarities but the term implies an ultraconservative bent and a belief system tied to "a woman's place." There's also some fetishizing about trad wives and the majority of women peddling this lifestyle are doing it through monetized videos and socials. No one is coming for you for having been a stay-at-home mom when they talk about the scourge of trad wives because most women respect the choice to stay at home or work. Trad wives judge anyone who doesn't do exactly what they're doing.
@jesshallock5346
7 ай бұрын
I don’t mind tradwifes (I technically am one), but I HATE that it’s a trend. At this rate, the hipster inside me is going to demand I become a CEO.
@SigFigNewton
3 ай бұрын
That it’s a trend only means that there’s an audience for it. Doesn’t mean that large numbers of people are simultaneously embracing this idea AND stumbling upon a high earning partner despite not attending college so that they can actually implement the idea
@kaitb07
3 ай бұрын
I don't necessarily mind people showing a more traditional lifestyle. I do struggle with the fakery of it all. I think as long as people understand it's totally unrealistic, but maybe they have a good recipe or it's relaxing to watch, or her dress is pretty. The nanny, cook, housekeeper, media manager, cameramen, and so on, make the real trad life magic happen.
@Bettersucksaul
3 ай бұрын
@@kaitb07I want them to do whatever makes them happy, but my main concern is that being a trad wife is a major risk to the woman because it means she is financially dependent on the man for survival. If he’s abusive, or negligent, or cheating, this means she’s trapped. If he leaves her for whatever reason, this means she’s screwed. Jobs don’t like people with decades long gaps in their resumes. This is why women were fighting to join the work force for so long.
@UmatsuObossa
7 ай бұрын
I'm all for tradwives, would be one myself, but the way the women all feel the need to be self-deprecating and misogynistic and man-wordhipping while they do it is ridiculous and demeaning. Traditional marriage is a partnership where the man is the breadwinner and the woman the homemaker, both with distinct but equally important roles.....It's NOT supposed to be a woman playing housemaid to a man because they both agree he's somehow superior. Making the money does not make you superior, because you can't eat money. You can't just throw money at children and make them grow up right.
@christophersmith8316
3 ай бұрын
From your attitude you hate your partner and don't like any woman who doesn't.
@scarlettrhea309
3 ай бұрын
@@christophersmith8316 can you read bud?
@kcjd8659
8 ай бұрын
“Feel free to buy my course”-you’ve hit the nail on the head. Being outrageous and shocking and instigating online arguments leads to exposure that makes these people money. That’s all they really care about. Who knows what they really believe.
@JackgarPrime
8 ай бұрын
Putting out an aesthetic that gets Weird Dudes to get their view numbers up so they show up in women's feeds to sell their courses. Working both halves!
@StarDreamMemories
7 ай бұрын
...or what they are really doing? Probably more like a modern "Peg Bundy" online all day socializing 😂
@kcjd8659
6 ай бұрын
@@JackgarPrime oh gross. 🤢 Probably true but 🤢🤢🤢
@kcjd8659
6 ай бұрын
@@StarDreamMemories exactly. It could be anything.
@cowgirllife8123
4 ай бұрын
Trad wife is hard, business career is hard. Pick your hard, everything’s crazy 😂
@musicandanimeare
8 ай бұрын
"Let's rebel women!" *does what men want them to do with no hesitation*
@massimo4307
8 ай бұрын
"Let's rebel women!" Goes to work a 9-5 to survive and waste their life away with cats.
@jaquiramiunique1628
8 ай бұрын
@@massimo4307why do you guys assume women who want security for themselves are lonely. You’re actually statistically more likely to live better more financially secure lives with double the income being that financial issues are one of the top reasons for divorce having double the income also decreases the chance of divorce and financial abuse
@massimo4307
8 ай бұрын
@@jaquiramiunique1628 Because statistically the women screeching that they're strong and independent are lonely and sad lmao
@Hello-hello-hello456
8 ай бұрын
I think that goes for a LOT of men, buddy @@massimo4307
@stentual
8 ай бұрын
@@massimo4307 idk were getting those stats from lol
@ariannavaz-harrison8274
8 ай бұрын
Its hard to be a tradwife bc “the help” can no longer be owned or criminally underpaid!😂
@thaloblue
7 ай бұрын
Saying the real shit! 👍🏾
@midnight_x_edits
7 ай бұрын
Wow your racism is showing
@thagomizer4711
8 ай бұрын
“Conservatism traditionalism is the new counterculture” sure feels “freedom is slavery” to me
@hsnell1222
8 ай бұрын
Well... it is. The fact that we are mocking them like thier idols mocked the hippies and feminists back in the 60s.
@gonzoengineering4894
7 ай бұрын
@@hsnell1222 the difference is, their idols were old foggarties out of touch with the cultural current, we're their peers
@Raindr0psssssssss
6 ай бұрын
It's the "edgy alternative lifestyle" for me😂😂😂
@dusklvr
8 ай бұрын
Never rely on a man or anyone else to provide your financial security.
@massimo4307
8 ай бұрын
So, no society?
@jonathanallard2128
8 ай бұрын
Why not?
@jessicahaehlen501
7 ай бұрын
Why?
@CrashHoax
7 ай бұрын
Have fun playing on hard
@laya8880
7 ай бұрын
The fact that this is controversial at all, is sad. People asking "Why?" Are you serious? I come from a very conservative background, leaning more towards traditional, and every female AND male in my family has told me this. My mother, my father, my uncle, my grandmother...the list goes on. You wouldn't want your son to be financially dependent on any wife or friend or other. Typically it's females who historically end up dependent financially on a man, and it's a bad place to be. You never know what could happen. Maybe your husband isn't so great after all, or he changes. Maybe he dies. Maybe he didn't tell you the whole truth about your financial situation and you're left high and dry one day. Maybe he just isn't making a whole lot. Nobody should be in the position where they're defenseless and at the financial mercy of someone else. Nobody. I've seen it too many times. Mostly women, and they all suffered for relying on a male for financial security, as tradition demanded. My grandmother is poor and will work into retirement age because she made the mistake of not building her own finances and trusting her husband. Absolutely terrible and could have been avoided if she had planned for it. No, no...I will not make that mistake. My father would never want that for me, OR his sons, he would never want me to be trapped or crippled like that. You just never know. You really don't.
@spg1794
8 ай бұрын
housework in a party dress and that psycho smile nails it😅
@nazlsenay7312
3 ай бұрын
"I just have to obey my husband cant divorce and he can beat me"
@maneckineckbeard1749
8 ай бұрын
Oh, lordy...that deranged look she gives the camera when she's wiping that counter, LOLOL!! Gave me goosebumps AND made me laugh! It's fascinating for me to see the whole "tradwife" thing evolve. See, my mom was born into a world where she was refused entry into medical school solely because she wasn't a man, (despite having such high grades she was one of the top premed students at her university) was told that if she stepped out of line sexually that "her life would be over and her reputation permanently destroyed," couldn't get birth control pills without showing the doctor her marriage license and a note from my dad, and had to fight at least 3-5x as hard as my dad just to get the same job recognition. And she accomplished more than most men ever will, all while birthing & caring for 2 babies by the time she was 22! My dad, despite being born into the same generation, was a passionate feminist for as long as I can remember. He encouraged my mom to finish her education and build a business, and always told his female kids that he'd support any lifestyle they wanted. I've always thought that that was the sign of a man who's secure in himself, and who wasn't intimidated by women's empowerment or independence. I always feel bad for these "tradwives," since IMHO their husbands/fathers must have SUCH low self-esteem and confidence that even the idea of competing with a woman for anything scares the heck out of them. Sigh. I really wish they could've had dads like mine, who would have accepted their life choices no matter what. But sadly, most of them seem to come from families where they weren't encouraged to be anything but "tradwives"...as if their fantasy of 50s housewives was ever even a real thing! Women have worked outside the home, run businesses & farms and pursued higher education- all whilst raising kids- at least since biblical times. There simply never was a real time when most or even many women lived the "tradwife" lifestyle. Oh, and of course the entire movement involves a massive dose of total erasure of the traditional lives of minority & POC women in the west... 🤬😡😤
@sambeetle6080
8 ай бұрын
My biggest issue is when people ask me if I work. If I didn't work, my family would live at a homeless shelter. No man is ever asked if he works🤦♀️
@nicholasoneal1521
8 ай бұрын
Wouldn't you say though that it makes sense that men aren't asked if they work? I mean, there aren't many men who are stay at home husbands, whereas there are quite a few women who are stay at home wives (I actually come from a household where my father was a stay at home parent while my mother worked but that's besides the point). Just trying to understand your perspective better
@averycheesypotato
8 ай бұрын
@@nicholasoneal1521 “quite a few” is not most. Or even half. The majority of women today, have jobs. In fact, the majority of women throughout history worked jobs beyond caring for their own home and children. Job opportunities, equal pay, the right to own property or hold all the full rights granted by citizenship may have not applied, but working women has always been the norm
@nicholasoneal1521
8 ай бұрын
@@averycheesypotato I'm not saying it's not normal for women to work, it just seems a fair question to ask when a significant percentage (less than half, but still) of women (with families) stay at home while their spouse works. For men, there is not a significant percentage who stay home while their spouse works, so the assumption is that a man works. Why would you assume either way for a woman?
@averycheesypotato
8 ай бұрын
@@nicholasoneal1521 A woman who works for a living, provides for her family and probably takes pride in doing so, is never going to appreciate the assumption that she doesn’t. Logically, there is no reason to make such an assumption. So why would it be fair to ask? Would making a similarly negative assumption about a man, perhaps that he is an absent parent, not upset a man who is a present parent like your father?
@nicholasoneal1521
8 ай бұрын
@@averycheesypotato This is where I am getting really confused. I don't understand how this is an assumption. It sounds like the opposite where you just more about someone. Wouldn't not asking be making the assumption? And I really resent even remotely comparing being a stay at home parent to being an absent parent. There is nothing wrong with someone choosing to be a stay at home parent, acting like it is this negative, bad thing is ridiculous and insulting. And actually, my father was a stay at home parent while my mother worked. So, according to you he is on that same level as an absent parent.
@Thebloodylies
7 ай бұрын
Not sure where its from, but a friend had a great quote a while back: "Tradition is just peer pressure from dead people."
@4luv2cuppycake0
3 ай бұрын
Not the sweatpants under the dress 😂😂😂😂
@BlowinFree
3 ай бұрын
People who say “not the……” is annoying AF
@roxycauldwell544
8 ай бұрын
Tradwives are the new girl version of guys online sharing edgy joker quotes
@Back_and_Better_Than_You
8 ай бұрын
And just as obnoxious!
@kelpo6304
8 ай бұрын
For the commentors: Being a tradwife is not the same as being a "traditional wife." Tradwife is a reactionary conservative ideology that women should adhere to traditional gender roles, submit to their husbands, not work outside of the home and be solely responsible for managing the household's domestic labor. A lot of women in these comments saying they are or were tradwives, are not actually tradwives! They're stay-at-home moms or homemakers; maybe a traditional wife, but not necessarily a tradwife unless they align with that political stance. It's like saying you're a socialist because you like socializing with people. Yeah, socializing and socialism both come from the same word, but socialism is a political term with very specific meaning.
@Teajay21
7 ай бұрын
Yes! People need to understand this isn't about housewives, SAHM, or household influencers. It's about a specific type that believe in subservience of women and that women shouldn't work while working as influencers!
@thekyleprojekt7996
7 ай бұрын
Dude your comment alone says you dont know what a trad wife is. You literally commented every misconception that liberals make when trying to generalize these women. Good job showing how sexist you are dude, keep it up.
@LulaMae21
7 ай бұрын
@IsmailShields Should probably do some historical research before making that claim. Women have basically always worked in some capacity, whether outside the home or in their husband's business. This includes the Middle Ages, colonial times, etc.
@rebeccasam3434
7 ай бұрын
Good points!
@LulaMae21
7 ай бұрын
@IsmailShields Basically every historian everywhere disagrees with you, but I'm sure you're right.
@LexifromZargon
2 ай бұрын
They're always like " i dont work women don't need jobs" as if being an influencer isnt a job
@personalive7962
8 ай бұрын
Theirs nothing wrong with being a house wife but why do they have to act like everyone is against them edit: yall need to calm down in the comments it’s not that deep frfr
@PoisonEngene
8 ай бұрын
I think it's bc housewife and tradwife are different terms for different ideologies. From my understanding, a housewife is a wife who stays at home and takes care of the house and the people in it. Housewives may be feminist and chose housewife life. A tradwife is a housewife with a belief that she's supposed to be a housewife bc she's a woman and women need to "stay in the kitchen". She lives under her husband's thumb and acts like it's ok and/or deserved. The tradwife also actively tears down women who do not chose homelife/marriage and says that women can't/shouldn't be working or in power. They're kinda sad bc they're victims to misogyny but they're also enemies to feminist advances.
@unoriginalquote8132
8 ай бұрын
I think there's a big difference between actual housewives and tradwifes. Because housewives are generally chill and respectful to other women who choose career paths outside of the house, as well as men who choose to be househusbands. Meanwhile tradwifes are... Like this...
@personalive7962
8 ай бұрын
@@unoriginalquote8132 thanks for the better understanding/definition because I personally know housewife’s and tradwifes they are very different
@witchykittyy
8 ай бұрын
I’m a housewife but not a tradwife
@personalive7962
8 ай бұрын
@@witchykittyy tbh being a house wife is one of my goals I would still like to continue/pursue a career but would love in my 30’s to late twenties to settle down and be one (not a tradwife ofc)
@watovit
7 ай бұрын
My mom had an incredible career before she got pregnant with me at 31. She did continue to work full time for the first few years of my life because she had to, but eventually gave it all up to be a single parent and find other ways to sustain our little family. She had my brother at 40 and never left us. I am amazing at how resourceful and smart she was. Although we were poor, we traveled all over the country, she home schooled us and hand wrote all our curriculum. She cooked incredible homemade meals. She could sew. She took care of our pets and our home. So tidy and hardly ever slept... She was an academic genius as well. She was also a writer and changed the minds and lives of many, probably without even knowing it. She was humble. I wish so badly I had appreciated her more...she passed away from cancer last year at 59 and now I'm about to have my first child on a single income household. I'm also disabled. Luckily I have a good partner and we will figure it out, but I really miss and love my beautiful traditional mama. I want to be half the woman she was. ❤ People just DO NOT understand.
@daniellem5195
4 ай бұрын
Your mom sounds amazing! Don't forget that "Tradwife" has a lot of ideology behind it and is not the same as the terms "homemaker" "SAHM" or "Single parent". Unless your mom was preaching SAHM as the ONLY correct option and saying that her only purpose should be being subservient to her husband's every want and need, she was not a tradwife.
@Cyber.Thunder
3 ай бұрын
Wow she sounds amazing! May she rest in peace. ❤
@Thobeian
3 ай бұрын
key word there, she was a writer even while raisin, which is an income (unless that was all before she had you). She also had an education and could plan a family to wait until she was 31. Many of these tradwives advocate for basically surrendering to your spouse and marrying/having babies ASAP like my mamaw. Except my mamaw also ran her own tax accounting business out of the home and tailored dresses for money on the side. All while raising two kids and managing the finances. She's absolutely a role model to aspire to, but some traditional values were easily sidestepped because many people around them were poor and most wives did the same side hustling unless their husbands were executives at RJ Reynolds. She also did farm work with her mother until she got married. Despite being the literal definition of a traditional Southern Baptist community, they knew the score.
@breathJONNYstay
3 ай бұрын
She was too good for the world and she did what she was meant on this earth. She is still with you every day and can see and feel how much you truly appreciate her especially now ❤
@grimtheghastly8878
8 ай бұрын
Anyway this is your reminder that domestic labor is still labor and housespouses (and their working partners) deserve a living wage as compensation 💕
@aliannarodriguez1581
8 ай бұрын
It is, but you can be sure that the guy will complain bitterly after the divorce that she took half “his” money.
@wyleecoyotee4252
8 ай бұрын
Their husbands should pay, not the state
@Ian-mo1vg
8 ай бұрын
@@wyleecoyotee4252 if they have a shared bank account it doesnt make sense to me to pay your wife. tbh I think it could be handy to have a house wife who can cook and prepare your meals depending on the job you work. say working 12-14 hours a day for much of the week in intense physical labor you might be dead tired afterwards and so your wife becomes your rock and support to keep you alive and functional and in turn she then can enjoy the income from your combined effort.
@massimo4307
8 ай бұрын
@@aliannarodriguez1581Because it is his money. No, if you volunteer to stay at home you don't deserve "a living wage." Get over yourself lmao. As always, a "strong, independent woman" will get divorce and then demand her ex-husband still take care of her. 😂
@ketameanii
8 ай бұрын
UBI would be a dream
@elizabethshuford1466
3 ай бұрын
The quaaludes stare was on point
@januarybaby
8 ай бұрын
True privelage is having a choice. I have to hold three jobs and play both mom and dad. Cooking and cleaning and fixing things around the house. The neighbor dads get salty when im out cleaning my garage and it turns out better than theirs. My one neighbor Nick pays me to change his oil too. Having small skill in many avenues is helpful.
@mcvenne8935
8 ай бұрын
Why is this so accurate? Feminists fought so we could CHOOSE. Do they not realize this is included in that? 😅
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