You’re not doing as bad as you think. Most people aren’t brave enough to upload to KZitem or approach a livestreamer on the street. Remember to keep a positive mindset and don’t talk yourself down. There’s some videos on KZitem about positive self-talk that might help.
@Statto9
2 ай бұрын
Pretty hard to just go up to random people and start talking. Thats going straight to high difficulty mode. My advice, for what its worth, is to first work on your self esteem - exercise regularly and make yourself feel good. Then try clubs like meetup etc where the other people are also hoping to meet new people. But its hard no doubt! Dont give up!
@jennysue5520
2 ай бұрын
I don't think you're giving yourself enough credit. Both traveling to another country (especially if you are traveling solo - are you?) and making youtube videos are things that a lot of people aren't brave enough to do. True, you've still got a ways to go, but you're doing better than you think. I know you said talking to cashiers isn't enough, but I think it might be a good place to start. As well as talking to the staff at cafes, and also maybe old people at the bus stop. Old people tend to be a lot more conversational, and some of them can be pretty lonely too, so they might appreciate someone to talk to. Although they'll likely just be one-off interactions, it might help to build your confidence in talking to people in general. And considering you'll probably never see them again, you could also look at it from the perspective of that it doesn't matter if they think you're weird or you stumble over your words, so you can just count it towards experience without the pressure of needing to make a lasting impression. Its a long road, but you can do it. Just be patient and kind to yourself and you'll get there :)
@markwillow2979
2 ай бұрын
First of all congrats on overcoming your fears and for sniping Daniel! Even if he was not that friendly I think you are the perfect new character he was looking for. ❤
@121dan121
2 ай бұрын
Keep trying new things and never give up 👍
@brianoconnor4642
2 ай бұрын
In the past i was like you and was really introverted. I took a chance and met the girl of my teams. I know you can do it too mate!
@BABYSTARZ
2 ай бұрын
meet daniel again :D maybe at his guest house, im sure he will be happy
@MeaninglessRubbish
2 ай бұрын
It's not worth it I didn't come on holiday just for him.
@Canyouseeanypartofme
2 ай бұрын
@@MeaninglessRubbishmeet just James instead
@gunnarlarsson3070
2 ай бұрын
of course its worth it! its the only opportunity you will have to see him again and possibly grow and your channel!
@brianoconnor4642
2 ай бұрын
I agree with gunnar larson you should definately meet daniel again maybe you could livestream it. Also set up TTS so we can donate to you livestream with superchats
@oledawnson4048
2 ай бұрын
Hey! Just wanted to say how Ive enjoyed you sniping Daniel. It was so cool! Looking forward to see you in one of his streams again.
@moonbaby919
2 ай бұрын
Hi cutie 🥰 just passing by after Daniel’s stream. 🫶 I’ve subbed!
@leryeo
2 ай бұрын
Please meet up with Daniel again because the reason he was shy and wasn't talking much is because he only enjoys talking 1 v1. Today he was obviously with bloodbucket so he found it awkward but next time go find him when he is alone and he would be more than happy to hang out with you for a day :)
@manuel0578
2 ай бұрын
No he wouldn’t 😂 Danny boy only hangs out with women he wants to f
@MeaninglessRubbish
2 ай бұрын
He seemed too defensive I would have talked to him more but obviously he wanted me gone I need to help myself since no one else will.
@leryeo
2 ай бұрын
@@MeaninglessRubbish please make a KZitem video about the experience and your feelings because I would like to understand you better mate. Because in the stream it was hard to tell how you felt afterwards or when you was speaking to him
@MeaninglessRubbish
2 ай бұрын
@@leryeo I will probably after tomorrow I will be going to the shopping centre I said about to see if I can find women to approach.
@leryeo
2 ай бұрын
@MeaninglessRubbish you should try approaching at night like after 12 near the nightclubs and bars because Japanese girls are way easier to talk to and approach if they are drunk. If they are sober they are very cold and rude and have no time due to work etc. best time to catch them when I went is night time when they let their hair down and enjoy themselves more
@bloodbucket6230
2 ай бұрын
Subscribed! Keep it up :) maybe go for a coffee next time?
@MikeHunt20
2 ай бұрын
Why are you so Lovely 💋💋💋
@bloodbucket6230
2 ай бұрын
@@MikeHunt20 I kinda regret not asking if he wanted to come along :(
@MikeHunt20
2 ай бұрын
@@bloodbucket6230 You kinda Did 👍👍 but for now he has a support network of people that have some kind of Experience in these situations and are able to help. He will Crack out of his shell soon enough and start living and even enjoying a more confident life 😎😎😎
@popcorngirl1196
2 ай бұрын
You are an angel
@brianoconnor4642
2 ай бұрын
Mommy Blood Bucket you should definitely take him out for a coffee it would mean the world to him!
@vx-iidu
2 ай бұрын
You should do a live stream in japan
@blaxter101
2 ай бұрын
Good on you for getting out of your comfort zone! Keep at it @Meaningless Rubbish. It will get better. Don't give up.
@manuel0578
2 ай бұрын
Get a haircut and you’ll instantly look more sane. Get rid of all that hair on your forehead or at least move it to the side.
@boosed264
2 ай бұрын
I can't wait for your next video!
@MikeHunt20
2 ай бұрын
He is on his Way to Discover Life 😎😎😎
@myhome772
2 ай бұрын
It helps if you can learn something that project confidence. Have you any interests in Karate?
@John-nb6ep
2 ай бұрын
Did you travel alone there?
@boosed264
2 ай бұрын
Who paid for the trip?
@MeaninglessRubbish
2 ай бұрын
Myself with the stocks that I sold, its my last chance for a long time.
@John-nb6ep
2 ай бұрын
@@MeaninglessRubbish Seems you're better with stocks than Daniel.
@John-nb6ep
2 ай бұрын
@@MeaninglessRubbish Your sister or mother took you there I'm guessing?
@John-nb6ep
2 ай бұрын
@@MeaninglessRubbish You went with your sister or mother? I'm guessing.
@leryeo
2 ай бұрын
mate are you from Newcastle or the surrounding areas because I can hear a bit of a north east accent? Keep making videos everyday I enjoy listening to you talk
@MeaninglessRubbish
2 ай бұрын
No my parents are that's where I probably get the accent from.
@leryeo
2 ай бұрын
@MeaninglessRubbish where bouts In uk u from if u don’t mind me asking? I might be from near you
@MeaninglessRubbish
2 ай бұрын
@@leryeo Harrogate.
@nts_nathaniel
2 ай бұрын
Keep on posting!
@TheEdK
2 ай бұрын
Post your discord server so we can all join and support you.
@popcorngirl1196
2 ай бұрын
Go meet Daniel.
@integratedzero
2 ай бұрын
you should try ketamine treatment it has a way of changing your entire mindset socially
@Nihaomanibba
2 ай бұрын
Bro keep the beard, get a better haircut and Thailandmaxx 😂 also stop dressing like a teenage kid 😭😭😭
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