What more insulting is instead of cutting ties with the surrogate D, the women instead involve him with their lives with their husbands.
@johncalhoun916
Ай бұрын
This is what is so crazy to me. Talk about a slap in the face.
@davidramirez1021
Ай бұрын
it's like a trophy for a serial killer, keeping him is a reminder of their wilder, test-driving days with their husbands none the wiser. An inside joke to them, the ultimate disrespect to the men.
@mannydcbianco
Ай бұрын
Yup, this. It makes me think that they did not in fact stop using Ian's "services" once they went official with their to-be husbands. I bet that at least a few of them kept having their fun with Ian even after marriage. A woman who can go through the mental gymnastics to justify sleeping with Ian throughout the dating phase with their to-be husband would not have any issues justifying sleeping with him while married either. They're morally corrupt. Possibly with the exception of Sarah who was transparent about the FWB thing during her and Sean's early dating. The rest of the women kept it a secret.
@charleskuhns6042
Ай бұрын
They were probably effing him on the side. Women know not to keep exboyfriends, fwb, or one night stands around when they’re married or even in a committed relationship. Had the same thing happen to me (was in a relationship of a year) and now know it’s a huge red flag. Happily married now though and she isn’t anything like these women.
@urchbsmirch22
Ай бұрын
Modern dating for women Treat dating as if it was a game
@benfogarty535
Ай бұрын
So so glad he divorced her. Man what a slap in the face
@grandmasterestrada1592
Ай бұрын
I laughed at Ian trying to shame OP into silence, only to get his world blown to hell once he overplayed his hand.
@JB-bb4su
Ай бұрын
That's why Ian was hanging around the social circle. He was secretly getting his jollys knowing that he had gotten to enjoy all the other guys' women before any of them did. That he could privately lord over all the other guys that they were getting his leftovers. Ian was probably actually disappointed to learn that Sarah didn't keep him secret from her fella, too.
@JohnSmith-bs9ym
Ай бұрын
If Ian has social media, this needs to explode on all his pages.
@GrymeJr
Ай бұрын
Ladies please listen to me, if your husband finds out you were more sexually adventurous with a dude that "doesnt matter". We take that as being less than a dude that doesnt matter to you
@agm5424
Ай бұрын
If someone over 18 doesn't understand this simple fact then there's clearly something psychologically wrong with them.
@namelessbrat7197
Ай бұрын
You don't need to explain this. The words of a cheater trying to minimize her sh!!t does not constitute proper logic. She would have said any nonsense in the hopes of gaslighting her husband into staying... All cheaters do.
@GrymeJr
Ай бұрын
@@namelessbrat7197 you try to get them before doing irreparable damage, or be the slooot she was with everyone else at least ensuring her husband gets the same treatment, that’s the least she can do 😂 but usually by that time she’s settling and being mother Teresa to get a wedding giving him the bare minimum
@JB-bb4su
Ай бұрын
@@GrymeJr saw a story related to this the other day. BF found out his "vanilla Jane" GF had a wild-child past. He asked her about having some of those adventurous activities with him, and she flat-out shut him down. She blatantly told him that such adventures were only for random hookups, FWBs, and one-night-stands, because she didn't care how those randoms "saw her" afterwards. BFs were never allowed to experience such things because she didn't want to risk them "seeing her different". Needless to say, he dumped her to go find someone that wanted to actually share all of herself with a BF instead of random strangers.
@kilamkam
Ай бұрын
@@JB-bb4suFkn women logic LOL.. Give your best to the dudes who don't gaf about you.. Literally bend over backwards for the guys that don't matter.. That making sense to them is wild af....
@ramonhenderson7484
Ай бұрын
Any of them dudes who had kids really should have DNA tests done and every last one of them involved should get an STD test done! Far as any of the husbands know, it could all still be going on considering how all the wives went about taking turns sharing the same dude! 🎯💯
@Ando1428
Ай бұрын
That's what I was thinking.
@JB-bb4su
Ай бұрын
Guys should get paternity test done. Then they should sit down with their wife and tell them that they got it done, and ask the wife if she wants to explain what he found (without telling her what the results are). Only reveal the actual results at the end of the conversation. Will find out more with the FUD than just the test.
@Luxan-yf4rv
28 күн бұрын
@@JB-bb4suif you have to do that do you really love your wife?
@Luxan-yf4rv
28 күн бұрын
@@JB-bb4suif you have to do that do you really love your wife?
@JB-bb4su
27 күн бұрын
@@Luxan-yf4rv If you're at a point where you're suspicious of your wife, love is irrelevant. You can trust someone, but if there's ever a doubt, then there's no reason to not verify that trust.
@lordrambo7898
Ай бұрын
Maybe staying single may not be so bad. Also the comment about the shots 😂
@GRUUUUUVY
Ай бұрын
I was thinking the same thing.
@GRUUUUUVY
Ай бұрын
This is why you need to vet your potential partner. Ask questions early on, like: - Are you seeing anyone else besides me? Dating anyone else? Is there anyone who thinks you are seeing them? - Are you currently sexually active with anyone else? Do you have any current FWBs? Have you had any in the past? One night stands? Or do you save intimacy for relationships? And if so, has this always been the case? - Have you ever done any threesomes or group sex? Are there any intimate photos or intimate videos of you online that I should be aware of? You should know who someone is, or who they've been, before you commit to them.
@lordrambo7898
Ай бұрын
@@GRUUUUUVY I agree. But even then , they could lie & we’d never know it but might find out the hard way.
@GRUUUUUVY
Ай бұрын
@@lordrambo7898 True. They could lie. But at least you asked. So you know that if you catch them on the lie later on, you can drop her and not look back. In these situations, they use the fact that the questions were never asked as a shield. Don't let them.
@lordrambo7898
Ай бұрын
@@GRUUUUUVY right. I just hope that a girl I get in a relationship with in the future will be 100% honest bout questions like this. Even if we don’t end up together I could at least respect the face that she was honest
@michaeljames7857
27 күн бұрын
10-12 years ago people used to be afraid of being Forever Alone because of the meme at the time. Little did we realize, Forever Alone was the GOOD ending.
@thisismyelement
15 күн бұрын
Man, I can’t believe it’s been that long. I feel so old.
@Random_guy749
Ай бұрын
I feel like vomiting all 4 women are disgusting. 🤢
@JB-bb4su
Ай бұрын
I'll give a pass to the one gal that was up-front and honest with her guy about the FWB situation from the beginning. While I personally wouldn't be OK with the situation, I can respect the effort to not start off a new relationship with deception out of the gate. The guy who eventually wifed her was able to enter that relationship fully informed about who he was getting with, and it was his informed choice to do so. The other guys unknowingly entered relationships that were deceptive and dishonest from the start. Those guys I feel for. To find out that the person you thought you've been married to all this time is a fiction, and you're actually with a stranger you don't really know.
@acephas3
Ай бұрын
@@Random_guy749 Sarah was a real one. She told Sean BEFORE they got married, made sure that Sean knew to keep sleeping around, and told Sean EVERYTHING once they were together.
@chrispurdie9799
Ай бұрын
@@acephas3 im sorry but her and sean both trash to me they new there friends were sleeping around and said nothing let them think all was good whilst being with them and never said anything in my eyes just coz they were honest with each other dont mean there not trash they lied to there supposed friends.
@mshake7056
Ай бұрын
I recently had this happen to me 😢 my mom convinced me to start dating again. Was going great till I found out she was cheating and her 2 other friends were all sharing the same guy. It was her manager from work they all took turns with him
@sguizzooo
Ай бұрын
@@acephas3 she also was told to wait at least 3 months but together with sean decided to ignore that and get together early, so she was the only respectful person that wasn't being essentially pimped out by ian
@MegaMarvelMashup
Ай бұрын
She had every intention on cheating on him again. It doesn’t matter if they have a past for her to act so nonchalant when Ian walks up when herself uncovered she was basically testing her husbands manhood and she believed he wouldn’t have said a thing. So he was totally in the right.
@Alexdad84
Ай бұрын
Wow I never thought of that. Ian was bisexual not just the gay friend. I think they were having sex off and on and that hadn't come to light
@acephas3
Ай бұрын
Ian was testing his manhood also.
@JB-bb4su
Ай бұрын
No, They were still having an ongoing affair. Being that casually comfortable by both of them for her to be naked in front of someone, that's recently reinforced desensitization, not something lingering from years prior. She's comfortable being casually naked in front of him because she's still getting naked in front of him on a regular basis. If the last time he'd seen her naked was years ago, her modesty around him would've resurfaced naturally. And his response to seeing her naked would've been less blasé also.
@estebanslavidastic4382
Ай бұрын
@@JB-bb4su 10000%. Ian is still fucking all of them. Why else are they so intent on keeping a previous F buddy around in their friend group?
@DisIzDaName
Ай бұрын
Ian's kneecaps are going to spontaneously shatter some fine evening.
@EricMcgill-iu8uv
Ай бұрын
Five different times in his life
@Tony.Dreamer
Ай бұрын
It would have been that evening, boy would have crawled off the trail
Never simp for any woman. These women went to their Chad to get their fill up. And left their future husband in the dirt.
@mshake7056
Ай бұрын
This recently happened to me. I guess it's more common now. I was talked into dating again by my mom and met a girl I thought was really nice. Dated 6 months, thinking everything was going great and she might be the one. Sex life was amazing too! But then, out of nowhere, she told me about how her friend was sleeping with their manager and how they invited her to join them. I was stunned lol she was asking me for permission to basically have a threesome with someone else. We got into an argument and through it, she confessed that on weekends when she wasn't with me, it was because it was "her turn" with the guy. Her and her 2 friends were sharing him, taking turns on weekends. That weekend, it was her friends turn, but she wasn't feeling up to it, so thats when they planned the threesome to make it up to him. She couldn't find an excuse and she was feeling guilty because she was "in love with me" so she just decided to tell me and see if I'd be okay with it. I asked if she would let me sleep with her friends or have a threesome with them and she had the nerve to get upset with me! lol F that I am done with dating in modern times it is not worth it! Stay single and enjoy your life boys
@AlexiosLair
14 күн бұрын
Make sure to let your mom know eventually so she would stop poking you with this.
@tsuyufroppy3373
6 күн бұрын
@@AlexiosLair This is the ultimate trump card whenever your mom tries to get you to date someone 😂
@Lefty248
2 күн бұрын
Go overseas brother! Plenty of real women still out there!
@doctormonoloco263
Ай бұрын
Billy "I can't believe i was so dumb" also Billy "Miranda why does the children look like your gay friend?"
@BrianLiamson
Ай бұрын
This is why you don't ever date anyone who's having FWB or believes in FWB. These men's lessons are for us to learn to put a principle in dating.
@gregall1448
Ай бұрын
It has never worked out when I dated a woman who had an fwb first. The d is always their main focus. I’m glad I’m not a dummy in my 20s anymore.
@BrianLiamson
Ай бұрын
@@gregall1448 That's exactly the problem. They want sex before relationship.
@DCD762
Ай бұрын
Lol so only AFTER he asks divorce, she's willing? Well dear, to little to late 😂😂😂😂 Go be with Ian and live the life you so much loved as his 304
@urchbsmirch22
Ай бұрын
304 is a ruining modern dating nowadays
@treevenewson
Ай бұрын
All 4 of these 304s found their nice guy.
@crazyadam9281
Ай бұрын
A knife through the heart is an understatement, the fact she gave her all sexually to a man that doesn't matter is more like standing on a landmine.
@bud5084
Ай бұрын
What do you call a pack of 304s?
@crazyadam9281
Ай бұрын
@@bud5084 I don't know, tell me.
@enriqueperezarce5485
Ай бұрын
@@crazyadam9281Hoenas
@wingblade9759
Ай бұрын
😂@@enriqueperezarce5485
@goneloko1368
21 күн бұрын
@@bud5084a minefield.
@swgraphics9059
Ай бұрын
They are all probably still laying with that guy too...They have no passion for real husbands...How they easily separate the two is amazingly evil...SMH
@JohnSmith-bs9ym
Ай бұрын
Well obviously. Why else would they keep Ian around way past the point that they each said they "stopped"?
@joshuacummings3178
Ай бұрын
Imagine your girlfriend cheating on you.... Only to find out SHE MADE YOU WAIT while she was GIVING EVERYTHING to this one guy/Exchanging Bodily Fluids only to find out he's also Bisexual/GAY!? I' applaud this guy for demonstrating a level of stoicism and patience because there would be a crime scene....... ⚰
@bud5084
Ай бұрын
And most of the women out their are like that, get one guy and are constantly looking for what they think is a better deal, but using the one for financial security.
@bennyfugazzi1054
Ай бұрын
This woman is gross 🤮
@chrismccloskey2502
Ай бұрын
"These"...the whole group was in on it
@mikef2811
Ай бұрын
I don't not like to sleep with other friend's partners or sidepiece. I find it over the top gross as F. Where my friends went, I want nothing to do with it. I find these women sharing one guy is gross as F.
@RyukinJakka
Ай бұрын
Women plural lol
@vlugovsky
Ай бұрын
Except for the one who was completely open, they all were cheaters
@Gachmara
7 күн бұрын
@@vlugovsky She was the only one worth keeping, honesty and being upfront.
@BrianLiamson
Ай бұрын
These ladies cheated. Everything is just them trying to make excuses to justify their affairs.
@TheRealParanaue
Ай бұрын
Ian was the partner that Liv and Cate had the most sexual compatibility with, which was why she was willing to experiment with him more than her own husband, and they kept OP (Eli) and Dom in limbo so long before becoming exclusive. Paternity and STD tests should've been automatic measures after arriving home. Cate used sex to emotionally manipulate Dom into staying with her once he started to pull away after 9 months of "blue balls" while her favorite f-buddy was just a call away. She holds the greatest blame for creating the surrogate partner system, as well as only going all in on the relationship once her "dream guy" wisely started to check out. Their 10 year old child has the highest probability of being Ian's because of her lingering hesitation to fully commit to Dom prior to a possible break-up.
@JB-bb4su
Ай бұрын
Oh, other than Sarah, who was honest and up-front with her guy the entire time, I've got my doubts that Ian was completely cut off by the other women. Especially if they do things with him that they forbid their husbands. There's a reason those women kept a shared previous lover within their social circle. It's to provide cover for continued/renewed access.
@anthonymark2516
Ай бұрын
@@JB-bb4su No way. The fact that they were lying and keeping him around meant that it was still going on. Thats the part that does not make this realistic. I saw a similar, I think another version of this story on a reddit post a little while ago. But they were in a lodge and the guy walk into his guest room to find his usually shy wife casually sitting in just a towel and the 'friend' on the other side of the room. I think this story even lifted from that word for word. The OP in that story didnt just suspect something from the past but also during that trip. Unlike this story, like a good nice guy he was talking about not wanting to make a scene until people in the comments pointed out that his wife is probably getting her cheeks clapped when he has his back turned and that the reason they are all there on the holiday was so the 'friend' can cuck them all at the same time. There was no actual update.. But considering where they were.. The chances that not all of them came back out of that bush alive was not 0%.
@jjureidini7530
18 күн бұрын
@@JB-bb4suI agree with being upfront, although that only goes so far considering the background that this was an organized harem working against their significant others changes all that. Narrator said it best, "all 4 of them know it's wrong to start a relationship like this"
@user-nh4zm6xj5d
Ай бұрын
That’s how kids find a body in the woods
@BMP-2M
Ай бұрын
That’s a wild ass comment but your not wrong
@adrianmacias3521
27 күн бұрын
@@BMP-2MI mean it's true people can snap and kill you out there if they got the insanity anger
@terrelldowns6432
Ай бұрын
Ian is such a great guy for accepting free psy. Such a saint.
@BlueFish-kq9fh
Ай бұрын
🤣
@warrenmason1582
9 күн бұрын
It's just about finding love guys 😂
@jasoncarter4343
Ай бұрын
It must hurt to find you’re nothing more than the beta provider backup plan after being such an honorable and good husband. She’ll run back to Ian. I wonder what story she’ll spin for the next unsuspecting simp she tries to lock down.
@shenanigansone8172
Ай бұрын
I don't think this makes him a beta. Pathetic if he stayed
@adnanorochi3761
Ай бұрын
I think Sarah's boyfriend is beta he accept his date blown by stranger if he didn't married her it's something but marrying her makes him look like a loser about others they were manipulated not betas
@SZUSEast1
21 күн бұрын
@@shenanigansone8172dude he's beta
@noahnewcomer5180
Ай бұрын
Never be the “2nd option” all of those husbands should be consulting a lawyer…
@DKJonez
Ай бұрын
I knew this shit would make me mad.... but im actually shaking right now ... this shit is sickening
@wingblade9759
Ай бұрын
@@DKJonez Believe me, This enraged me too to no end. It took a while to cool down mate.
@darklinkforever506
22 күн бұрын
Man, I got so mad that I searched it up and it turns out to be a fucking fictional story, it's fake
@evanmurphy4632
Ай бұрын
his wife and her whole friend group make a valid reason for why the trials happened in salem all those years ago
@Alucard-yb6fq
Ай бұрын
Dude tell the other spouse's
@ramonhenderson7484
Ай бұрын
I listened to the end and he did. He put it out there in front of the whole hiking group
@Juggtacula
Ай бұрын
@@ramonhenderson7484 I think he meant the guy who knew the entire time.
@acephas3
Ай бұрын
@@JuggtaculaThat was their wives’ job. Shout-out to Sarah. She’s a real one.
@BlueFish-kq9fh
Ай бұрын
@Alucard-yy6fq Did you not watch the whole video? He *did* tell the other guys. On the very same camping trip, within a couple of days of discovering the truth.
@Juggtacula
Ай бұрын
@acephas3 So if you have a group of friends who are all married and all the wives k ow they did this and 1 husband knew the entire time, you don't think he should tell the other husbands?
@aaronbrightware
Ай бұрын
Lucky all those guys were so soft. I’m not sure Ian would have made it home if it had been me, or any of my friends.
@officerfoxtrot3633
Ай бұрын
Husbands: Officer, this bear just came out of the woods and attacked him. Idk what happened after that. Officer: bears aren’t native to these parts. Husbands: it happened after a fight where all of us learned the truth (explains situation). Officer: so what did this bear look like? Which way did it go? We’ll start searching immediately in the direction it must have dragged Ian off towards.
@HeliosX28
Ай бұрын
@@officerfoxtrot3633It was a Black Bear and it was night 😂
@jacobsmith1997
Ай бұрын
Just an fyi, the chick or dude isn't worth the jail time. In fact, the woman would probably get off on 2 guys fighting over them. The best way is to just ignore them and ghost out.
@officerfoxtrot3633
Ай бұрын
@@HeliosX28 why does the bear have to be black? Cant it be a polar bear (white)? Internalized racism… 😂😂😂😂😂 j/k
@opussum9813
Ай бұрын
Pushed down the montain ouups
@blazilfrazil2
19 күн бұрын
It's a great lesson to never let a girl make you wait. Most girls are NOT celebate, if it's not coming from you, it's coming from an "Ian" type
@DavesNotHere
Ай бұрын
My ex fiancée cheated on my with a guy who had a wife and two kids and when I found and asked her why, she told me “I was afraid of marrying you without seeing what else was out there”. We were highschool sweethearts. And I’m not entirely sure I’ve fully recovered from that, even though I’m sure I never will. It’s been alittle over 8 years since then. Y’all be safe out there.
@HypocritesExposd
25 күн бұрын
That’s such a BS excuse “seeing what else was out there.” Good luck to you and hope you’re doing well though. There are good women out there and you’re still young.
@DavesNotHere
25 күн бұрын
@@HypocritesExposd thanks, I really appreciate it. I am doing much better than I was years ago but it’s still bumpy, but that’s to be expected. I mainly write this comment down to help others know that it’s always good to keep fighting because if my dumbass can make it this far after having to deal with something like that, then other people can as well. I hope you have a good rest of your week 😁
@Vic-pg4rg
19 күн бұрын
Dude, I'm sorry for what you have been through. I hope that you ended things with her and having a better time without her.
@AlexiosLair
14 күн бұрын
@@DavesNotHere you are better and stronger than you realize, my guy, good on you to stand up for yourself!
@scribble9431
Ай бұрын
Guy here, am I the only man who refuses to sleep with married and already taken women because it's gross?
@mrgrooveytwoshoes
Ай бұрын
No you're not the only one brother shits foul
@noragami4268
Ай бұрын
"Don't do unto others what you don't want done unto you." I live by this code so I agree with you
@gamemaster9461
Ай бұрын
Exodus 20:14 states one of them, the 7th commandment, as, “You shall not commit adultery," I say unto you, That whosoever looketh on a woman to lust after her hath committed adultery with her already in his heart
@Vic-pg4rg
19 күн бұрын
You're not. It's just them giving excuses for doing something so disgusting and vile. I would be utterly disgusted with my wife if I found out and immediately divorced her.
@ThyCozy
Ай бұрын
Ian was helping himself 😂
@rahul0898
Ай бұрын
Bro is living a life😂😂
@joshuacummings3178
Ай бұрын
LYFEEEEE LMFAO BRUH IS GETTING ALL HIS 🤦🏿♂️ 😂 @@rahul0898
@davidherbst
Ай бұрын
The writer was doing great right up until the end where the OP found a mutual divorce lawyer who who would represent them both. That's not a thing. The attorney/client relationship is fiduciary. An attorney cannot represent opposing parties in a lawsuit, which is what a divorce is. Remember that for your future stories.
@RunawayYe
Ай бұрын
Yeah anyone who has done a bit of writing would notice this is fiction due to the way the story is told. But thanks for the legal advice, good to know in case it's needed.
@proapocalypse1448
24 күн бұрын
What country does that apply?
@Toblerones
23 күн бұрын
In Spain that's possible. Only one lawyer representing both but only if it's what we called "friendly divorce" because there is no opposition and both partners have an agreement about goods and money
@lucdrouin4653
3 күн бұрын
In Canada, that is not a problem at all.
@andrewroyle2847
Ай бұрын
What a s*ut. Holy shit, glad OP had his spine from the get go. :D
@LVE2103
Ай бұрын
I have a sneaky suspicion Ian could be a stand in for just about any holier-than-thou person out here. Right beneath that pretentious condescending veneer is often a profoundly unethical core. Worst part is they usually believe their own bs.
@Alexdad84
Ай бұрын
I said the same thing in my comment. Ian thinks he's better than most people. While being a vile mischievous dude
@harisparwaiz735
Ай бұрын
Never trust them childhood, especially College the friends. You'll always be lied to about the truth. To much history. Also having morals helps too 😅 they're all 304's
@Suaru
11 күн бұрын
So many women start off relationships with lies. It's astonishing.
@donovanhoward7015
Ай бұрын
Reverse train💀
@Cr4v1nDys
Ай бұрын
And they still keep him around so when things get difficult or even a divorce they can jump right back on his joystick. I would be not surprised if Liv slept with Ian all the time during the 4 weeks of not being with her husband Eli. And god knows what she is doing with him now that she is divorced... it is just disgusting. Keeping that a**hole a close friend tells you all about these women. Absolutely disgusting. It makes me sick. I am quite sure... I will never marry. This generation is so messed up beyond repair. It is too terryfying to find out these kind of hidden secrets about the woman you love and trusted wholeheartedly with your all self by marrying her and entering this so personal contract with her... while for her it is just a game to satisfy her needs and pleasure.
@RunawayYe
Ай бұрын
I mean this story is fiction, but marriage as a custom is certainly a relic. Be careful though, in some countries cohabitation laws are similar to marriage laws. As for dropping relationships alltogether just because of doomer chances, well I mean... you gotta take chances somewhere, sometimes.
@renimusprime
Ай бұрын
The insects when the op said that: 👁️👁️)👄(👁️👁️
@John_3-16_God_loves_you
Ай бұрын
Bugs life was on pause
@axlejohnson9156
Ай бұрын
The rules that women use don't ever go both ways. These women don't feel they need to be accountable. All four of these guys ended up being the BETA male. The best long term provider. Not the intimate partner. Not the guy that rang their bell. Just the best long term solution to their economical happiness. Checked all the boxes with three or four stars. The proof is the fact that all four had no trouble putting off the man they married. Not being attracted enough to break off this set up. Not their five star guy in making them happy.
@VitorHugoOliveiraSousa
Ай бұрын
Yep, if they were really attracted to them they themselves would have broken their rules for them.
@TheTimeFlyzShow
Ай бұрын
Crap like this is why I cant trust again. Being single hurts, but its better than going through this. Id seriously unalive myself.
@fyoutube9410
Ай бұрын
Goddamn, that 5 hour drove, oh to be a fly on that wall.
@CraigMcCauley-x1o
Ай бұрын
What is funny is i bet if he turned around and said "that's ok. I was sleeping with such and such the week before we were intimate." They would lose their minds. Calling them pigs and all matter of things.
@Alexdad84
Ай бұрын
Am i the only one that feels Ian was still sleeping with some of the ladies? They were comfortable enough to go topless around him. If he hasn't had sex with them in years, they should've been more apprehensive around him.
@wingblade9759
Ай бұрын
I had the same thought too.
@chickensandwich8808
Ай бұрын
You're not the only one, but it's irrelevant. STD testing should be done anyway, as well as paternity tests, but whether they were still cheating or not doesn't matter. The damage had already been done.
@BlueFish-kq9fh
Ай бұрын
You're not the only one.
@conscientunit1157
Ай бұрын
nah they probably stopped but some might have relapsed throughout the years.
@Manhwa-recapped
Ай бұрын
19:16 😮 Wow, this is crazy 😂😂😂 men actually wait months to get into bed, an this guy really waited more than a month, I'd pretty much wait two weeks longest, but 9 months and 5 months of dating 😢
@officerfoxtrot3633
Ай бұрын
I waited a year or so for my first fiance and 2 years for my now wife. 🤷🏻♂️
@Manhwa-recapped
Ай бұрын
@@officerfoxtrot3633 Exactly can't believe you waited a year, in my experience if she really likes you, you'll get it within a week, if she testing your security months or a year, but 2 years, honestly she doesn't sound like she wanted to settle, well not my problem, gl 🤷🏿♂️
@officerfoxtrot3633
Ай бұрын
@@Manhwa-recapped my wife and I have been together since 2011 now, and married since 2022. My fiance and wife, I was their first, so I understand their hesitancy. The two of them are my only two as well, so I wasn’t really in a rush. I was adopted as a baby so I always had the “not until I’m sure I want to be involved to some capacity with you for life” mentality. I wasn’t gonna give a kid up like I was given up, but a kid doesn’t mean you should stay in an unhappy relationship. So I wanted to wait long enough to make sure someone could be a coparent with me and they were at least somewhat reasonable
@BlueFish-kq9fh
Ай бұрын
@@officerfoxtrot3633 I'm a little confused here. If you were willing to wait, fine. But while you were waiting, what was *she* doing -- waiting just like you or riding her local "Ian"?
@officerfoxtrot3633
Ай бұрын
@@BlueFish-kq9fh considering I said I was both’s first, I doubt the local “Ian” had anything to do with my case. To me, waiting in a relationship isn’t a red flag. Even open relationships (to a degree) aren’t red flags. I believe when you get to the point of performing sexual activity (beyond making out and light groping) is where it either has to be exclusive. I’ve only dated three women in my life. 1 was less than 4 months, the second was 4.5 years, and my current wife is nearing 13 year mark together and 2 year mark married.
@StewBrewer84
Ай бұрын
Cake eaters are spreading like weeds
@Abby_Normal_1969
Ай бұрын
Lesson to why honesty and transparency is so important early in a relationship. Lying is easy early on, but the truth hurts more the longer that it is denied. Early in the relationship with my wife, she asked me the dreaded body count question. I knew she would be upset, but I was honest with her. And she was upset. But she would have been much more upset if I waited 15 years to answer that question.
@MrlspPrt
11 күн бұрын
Ian: * shames on OP * OP: so you want the nuclear option...
@chrischavez6780
3 күн бұрын
I swear every OP is the biggest doormat 😂😂😂
@puresyclone5163
28 күн бұрын
Man it's almost like the Bible was right about sexual relationships.
@ThinkAboutIt186
Ай бұрын
Listen ladies and gents, If you’re one to cheat then you’re not worth anything. Same goes both ways. Remember that. If you’re incapable of staying loyal and keeping your shit together then I truly feel bad for you. Because in my eyes you’re pathetic and anyone who cheats is pathetic.
@RaidenEdits
26 күн бұрын
Idk why I keep watching these. It makes me want to stay single forever .
@AlexiosLair
14 күн бұрын
This has become my guilty pleasure as of late as well
@whimsicalwanderer1393
8 күн бұрын
To me these kind of stories gives me a constant reminder to not pursue a relationship.
@unclelink
Ай бұрын
Imagine if Ian was a "carrier?!" Everybody need to get tested.
@denimchicken887
11 күн бұрын
If this is real every single person involved is disgusting
@tommysmith3494
Ай бұрын
All these guys are weak guys they act like they didn't know when to walk away early on, there were a lot of red flags. Especially when the wife said I was free to date other people and take it slow, he should have left her to date whomever she wanted and move on.
@sonixctaser3302
Ай бұрын
Dude idk about that calling them weak doesn’t dispute the fact that they were probably manipulated lied to and played by their early on wives. Some ppl swear they can pick up on any and every ounce of cheating however it’s hard to do that if you don’t know the person or their habits. This happens in the beginning stages of knowing each other. How are they weak for not knowing this was happening? One even knew it happened forgave his wife but then found out it was multiple men. Most ppl would call that weak but that’s actually pretty fucking impressive since most men can’t do that (he forgave her cuz it was early in the relationship) forgiving someone is insanely difficult especially if you feel they duped u
@tyroneoliver4934
Ай бұрын
If you remember it was because the OP recognized the red flags on the trip. He now knows his wife and caught on. He didn't have that knowledge in the beginning.
@davidfloyd9134
Ай бұрын
He needs to move on
@user-ch9kc7km6y
29 күн бұрын
Props to OP for Being so calm. Ian wouldn’t have left that trail nor would’ve any of the wives.
@iamtriston666
Ай бұрын
I hate to be the if the roles were reversed guy but... yeah of the roles were reversed. If it turned out that all the husbands had a bisexual lady friend they passed out while they were waiting to go steady.
@Vic-pg4rg
19 күн бұрын
Don't be, it's perfectly logical to point that out. I'm pretty sure that they would truly hate it and crucify their husbands for it. They have a "We can do it but not you" mentality.
@Bloom_HD
13 күн бұрын
If the roles were reversed it would be equally repulsive and you won't find a man with a shred of integrity who would disagree
@iamtriston666
13 күн бұрын
@@Bloom_HD Ooookayy
@Munthegun
Ай бұрын
Man o man stories like this make me want to absolutely never date again.
@kaijumage5379
16 күн бұрын
OP should cut contact with Sean and Sara. They are not his friends. After the whole fiasco, their only concern was whether or not they should have gotten involved in the big reveal? Not "Why are we such awful people to keep a secret that ruined 4 relationships?" Garbage people.
@TheTokyomatt
Ай бұрын
Eon been in every woman on the camping trip.
@BlueFish-kq9fh
Ай бұрын
Yes. And probably not just in the past either.
@redmcshamous760
Ай бұрын
He needs to find a hot adventurous woman and show her off when that divorce is final let that nasty trap go find Ian after all gentleman he should make her a cake that says for the streets. He needs to cheer he dodged a bullet become better than everyone else why be depressed you make her depressed rise above everything become the best ever the best version of you and have her crawling back just to say the beautiful best answer, NO.
@iseaflames
Ай бұрын
All those dudes were weak minded that's why those women thought it was okay
@chickensandwich8808
Ай бұрын
No, they just wanted to trust the women they loved but when OP noticed something off he acted. I don't see how that makes them weak minded.
@harpreetsinghdhillon8577
Ай бұрын
Men who trust women blindly are at fault here
@conscientunit1157
Ай бұрын
being cheated on is not being weak.
@iseaflames
Ай бұрын
They are weak minded for even thinking about forgiving them and working it out.
@YouMama1777
18 сағат бұрын
If they start off with "can we take things slow". Thats a huge red flag. Kind of like if you went out drinking and she told you. "I dont drink anymore".
@marekknieshtschav6391
29 күн бұрын
tearful apologies - because she got caught, not because she regretted doing it.
@aidanpia5458
14 сағат бұрын
Its crazy how the girls were being safe in case the guys they were "seeing" were red flags when their entire relationship is a red flag, kudos to Ian for getting a harem though
@fabianhoffmann7931
Ай бұрын
Free Spirit almost always Mr buck araound
@icarussisyphus5201
Ай бұрын
OP is a boss. Won't take nonsense or women's entitled self serving logic.
@Garthorium
5 күн бұрын
Dude, the "You can date others until we are official" was the first major red flag. That alone should have had you jumping ship. If she enabled that for you, it's because she was doing it herself. I found this out the hard way at the end my time with my ex. She encouraged me to date others while we were having a 'break', I said "No, I'm not doing that, I'm not interested, I am loyal and faithful to you." She actually rebuked this. That was all I needed to know that she had been doing something behind the scenes, and I was right. The 'break' was simply to push me away to be with her AP, of whom it's suspected to have been happening for most of the time I was with her. Either you're both equally and solely committed to each other, or you dip. No inbetweens.
@TheSpongebob1919
Ай бұрын
Wow, I am not even concerned and I need to take a shower from the disgust I feel from that shit
@Ram-yx2fo
27 күн бұрын
I need to watch it twice to understand the story because I was so distracted with the background view 😂
@wamai_god2128
Ай бұрын
Lol so this is the real version of the movie. " Good luck, Chuck "
@jasoneastman7817
14 күн бұрын
The one woman that was completely honest about it upfront, good on her. I can't say I approve of the situation, but the honesty is crucial. At least her husband knew from jump and could make an informed decision, which ultimately he decided to move forward with her. The other ones who had no clue were essentially cucked for 6+ months. I could never move past that after hearing it.
@markmessina7895
Күн бұрын
Him staying. Is totally unrealistic.
@skyrimisforthenords8312
19 күн бұрын
This is one of the most disgusting things i ever heard and these chics are pretending like they did a good thing
@adnanorochi3761
Ай бұрын
I don't wanna have casuall... With my date.. then going to a friend who doesn't put a single effort to have all the prize lol
@ACNordstrom
18 сағат бұрын
What an unsatisfying ending.
@markmessina7895
28 күн бұрын
you have no reason to believe nothing happens ??? Really ???
@driskull4249
4 күн бұрын
Man, theses stories don't usually get me to feel anything. More or less just intrigued. But this one made me feel sick in the stomach. I don't know what I would have done in that situation. Absolutely disgusting and every single one of those women deserve to be divorced and be ashamed of themselves . (lets not forget Ian's spouse as well)
@theophilus1981
28 күн бұрын
Surrogate joystick is wild😂😂😂
@chrischavez6780
3 күн бұрын
The sad part about this, is that this situation happens to alot more women than you might think. They say they arent ready for sex, then getting pounded raw from tyron when shes done with you. Honestly being single is the way to go.
@christianquinones8529
9 күн бұрын
This made me more livid than i thought 😂 wow
@bleedingroze
27 күн бұрын
I don’t understand the FWB and one-night-stand culture personally, I have no issue with people doing it above board without involving others (UNLIKE most of the wives in this story - props to the one decent woman who told him she planned to continue with her FWB until they were serious) but it doesn’t make sense to me to have wild, crazy s*x with strangers or acquaintances. I need to feel a strong trust and connection before I could even consider vanilla s*x, let alone kinky stuff.
@jamretro1336
Ай бұрын
This story is clearly fake lmao. This reads like a scene of a movie.
@balachap9848
13 күн бұрын
Lmaooo what I learned “Let’s take things slow” 🚩
@Jojokicksass2
6 күн бұрын
The ability of women to rationalize and. Manipulate others is epic
@abbyjohnson1702
Ай бұрын
Good Luck Chuck
@BourneIdentity45
Күн бұрын
Imagine dating a girl and after most dates you drop them off and they call their fwb to have him do all the stuff you want to do with them and more and then have the audacity to stay in touch with them after you become exclusive and do friend trips and stuff as if nothing happened, then when you find out they try to gaslight you as if it wasn’t a big deal as you weren’t “official” lol, as soon as a date is set up I feel like sure it’s not exclusive but it’s common courtesy to not entertain other people
@CoachMT4000
29 күн бұрын
My ex-wife did this to me. Cheated. Got pregnant. Had *bortion. Then blamed me for her actions. Not once did she ever ask how I felt. Not once. 🤷🏾♂️
@Tinfoiltomcat
Ай бұрын
Lmfaaaaooo this was the funniest story of all time 😂 omfg 😂😂😂😂
@oussamachahidi9201
2 күн бұрын
The first cause of failing marriages is women sleeping around too much, so even if she gets married she will never be satisfied
@drifter139
29 күн бұрын
this is what we mean when we say "they make rules for the betas but break them for the alphas". she put this guy on on the backburner while she had her fun and when she was finally ready to be serious, she hid everything she did with her "friend". ladies, when we ask if you had a relationship with a friend in the past, be honest. don't just omit the truth and say things like this woman did
@shootingbricks8554
3 күн бұрын
She apologized because she got caught 😂. If she respected you, she wouldn't cheat in the first place.
@bentonrector2641
17 күн бұрын
And you never will find a "good guy" when your passing your body around every time you meet somebody
@markellriley2162
Ай бұрын
Bro was crashing out, bad 😂
@KENNETHREAGAN
Ай бұрын
This really messed with me. I can’t imagine women thinking this is OK. It blows my mind.
@user-wm1oo4os7e
20 күн бұрын
Luckily it's probably fake. Great story though
@oskarjakobsson6538
16 күн бұрын
M2 I am sitting here and cant move on haha. This story turned my world up side down. There is "some" logic from the womens prespective and thats whats fucking my mind up. Like her point of view is. "I want my husband to want me for me. And not only for sex. So i "use" other guys for sex and orgasms. But the guy i like i test if he can give me and want me for me and emotions and love." Like there is som logic to it. But there is SOOOO many counter arguments to it aswell.
@tumtumsr7517
Күн бұрын
Always have the hard conversation with the kids cause they sure in the hell won't tell them what your so angry
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