I'm similar, my wife had an affair 18 years ago. She begged and pleaded and being young and dumb I agreed under the rules that I know everything. Found a ut recently she's been misleading what happened and trickle truthed me. About a month ago I found out that she took my 1 year old son (at the time, he's 19 now) to meet him, whilst my son was there she had seggs with him for the first time whilst my son was sat watching TV. I feel lost, I pieced together everything and she's fallen apart, I feel I was denied that information and told her I know why you didn't tell me, as that's a whole new level of betrayal and we wouldn't have had our three more kids. I'm just lost, I can't see her the same way. But I've invested 24 years of my life with her, been with her since I was 18. She has fought through to keep me, and back then afterwards she was diagnosed with Bi-polar and Emotionally Unstable Personality Disorder. So I'm back into therapy now. Seriously, f*** this life.
@marthajackson1388
Ай бұрын
Your problem is you think you lose those previous years when in reality she tossed those years. Also, it's never just a on time thing. The only decision that you need to make is if you want to toss away your later years. Out her and divorce or make her into a side chick if you don't want to deal with the financial consequences. Let people know what she did and enjoy dating. On top of all of that you need to fix whatever inside you that can't be happy without her and also grow up. Feel joy for whatever you enjoyed with her and disgusted by her actions. You were genuine so those interactions where good for you but not her. But if your priorities is how she felt about you then that's not healthy. That's something you need to work on. Your self worth is based on your image inside your head not how other people feel about you. Focus on your child and family and end it. That's my advice. Because after all these years she still put her self first. Her own guilt was too much for her to handle. You neither got the option to stay and forgive or to live another life. Hit the gym or get healthy and reach out to families and friends that will support or create new relationships.
@Vipershadow1
Ай бұрын
Story 2: For the love of Christ can idiots stop forgiving these damn cheaters🤦🏾
@justinstone4633
Ай бұрын
S1. Yeah your mom is on team cheaters aren't scum because she has to be. Her well is poisoned when it comes to this type of situation. She obviously doesn't care about how cheating makes their relationship partner feels as she cheated on your Dad.
@delmarhi
Ай бұрын
2….. that woman and relationship is dead…. Drop her
@delmarhi
Ай бұрын
Tell them of course you would seem shall to that blowed out pink sock. Talk about a neutered dad…. They did that to try to secure their scholarship. She gets denied? It’s because of this. They file a complaint.
@anglintim
Ай бұрын
Story 2 he should have dumped her as soon as he found out that she cheated. Don’t give her the forgiveness that she wanted.
@sugarbeef
25 күн бұрын
He feels guilty for hurting her, but she didn't feel guilty for hurting him until she was caught. She says she loves him and always has, but did she love him while she was banging another guy? OP is a doormat and his hopefully ex is a liar. Sometimes I hope the story is fake since the OP is such a simp that lets the cheater walk all over them and then apologizes to them after being stepped on.
@elsaflood6393
Ай бұрын
S1. 7 months relationship is nothing OP . It's not the end of the world. Move on.
@DanielGuerra92
Ай бұрын
Story 1: Look I get it, finding out being cheated sucks but OP was way too dramatic and vindictive for a short term relationship. He should of just spent the energy into therapy or healing rather making getting revenge. A failed relationship should doesn't give you the right to interfere with someone's professional life.
@keithburris8226
Ай бұрын
Just say youre a cheater scumbag 🎉🎉🎉
@kinfegebrielindewunet141
Ай бұрын
Telling everyone his insecurity and using him. She needs to learn.
@DanielGuerra92
Ай бұрын
@@kinfegebrielindewunet141and then what? Will that make his insecurities go away? Will that make his issues trusting people go away. Will that make the trauma of his parents' divorce go away?
@kinfegebrielindewunet141
Ай бұрын
@@DanielGuerra92 its not about him. Justice make us feel little better but it wont change what happened to him. But for people like her, she probably mature or think twice before to do something like that.
@DanielGuerra92
Ай бұрын
@@kinfegebrielindewunet141that's just a bs excuse justifying of being hurt and hurting back. Instead of actually doing the work so you're no longer hurt inside.
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