I🙋🏽♀️. I didn't give him a chance. I blocked him.on everything and moved on. Our last time was just that. After letting him go, all my blessings came flowing into my life. Now I'm living happily ever after with my husband.
@1010QUEEN7
2 жыл бұрын
He is blocking all my blessings
@tonytonyk
2 жыл бұрын
Still .. why you here?! Doesn.t make sense
@hopewilliams7081
2 жыл бұрын
@@1010QUEEN7 Sweetheart he's not blocking anything, you're still holding on to a memory, you're blocking yourself. You have to let go of what you thought you had, allow yourself to heal and forgive him and yourself. Many wonderful things are waiting on the sidelines for you. Proceed ahead and don't look back.
@mrs.camillewarrenempress3115
Жыл бұрын
Similar to mines boom
@lynnwann443
Жыл бұрын
We are together
@sandramirekuayim1161
Жыл бұрын
When a woman is psychologically and emotionally done with you, just know there's no turning point!
@monaj4079
7 ай бұрын
When a women's fed up, there's nothing that men can do about it❣
@ranawinfield5110
6 ай бұрын
Were done done🤷
@d.c.9854
16 күн бұрын
Facts
@samanthacash893
2 жыл бұрын
I don't take men back...I definitely know my worth and values....I don't bargain ...
@patriciagraham6926
Жыл бұрын
No one should have to walk on eggshells in their own home. Home is where peace should be waiting on you not turmoil and toxicity!! It takes a strong person to walk away!
@sherrycollins209
2 жыл бұрын
I ….I had to let go. You hit all points. Tired of living in a negative situation and not being a priority or having peace.
@tnlovegal
11 ай бұрын
"Not being a Priority" is a deal breaker, when they kept giving to others and don't have time to visit and spend time with you
@ashm676
2 жыл бұрын
Aware woke people, male and female, know that nasty abusive people exist on both sides. They are also aware that anyone who abused them crawls back saying they feel guilty, without showing true remorse AND making amends, showing growth and improvements, is just lying. The problem is nobody makes the abuser responsible for their actions etc so they keep doing and get worse.
@nataliatorkhova8793
2 жыл бұрын
this is true absolutely. later the facts are overlooked, and victim is even blamed.
@Realness4sho
Жыл бұрын
💯💯💯💜
@sabrinadove3544
Жыл бұрын
Yes, nasty mess.
@blessedapplez864
Жыл бұрын
I and I did let go......just yesterday. I finally see the pattern with him. I'm tired of the hot and cold crap. I know my worth and I deserve to be loved because I was made by God who loves me.
@hazelinelees7222
Жыл бұрын
Amen to that!... God's work... healed yesterday too😅...First time having watched Derrick...(yesterday)
@etcwhatever
11 ай бұрын
Mine was hot and cold too
@Crystal-jp4xz
2 ай бұрын
I have been in this type of relationship I walked away and now I'm free from that stress .
@LL-pv2ci
2 жыл бұрын
I'm in the process right now of losing him. today he sounded like his reputations was at risk than recognizing his disrespectful towards me. Your videos had been helping me to get through the day. He block me on everything like I'm going to contact him. I told him to leave and left in silence
@lillyvgutierrez9685
2 жыл бұрын
All we lose after a relationship with a bum yes it haunts us because we never want to do it again
@LadySHAMM
2 жыл бұрын
He fumbled!!! Left me for someone 13yrs older than him now the grass not greener.. she can have all of him!! I am trying to heal my soul. I choose me. No coming back.
@nandi8412
2 жыл бұрын
So true I remember I used to text him even though he left me I used to reach out seeking an apology and maybe a possibility to fix things.But things have changed all of sudden I fee so I’m control.I feel so much better He sends me pictures of us and he was around my school and he texted me telling me that he’s around so he thought I was around (what a joke)and he went to a party and he bumped into my friend and he asked where I was imagine and he showed up with his girlfriend he left me for .I decided to block him forever now!
@meeksmiinkboutique1681
2 жыл бұрын
WOWWW feel like he’s speaking directly to me
@alyssamaze5812
Жыл бұрын
I loved him but he will never have another chance with me. He ruined what we had with his insecurities.
@Marie-vz2qp
Жыл бұрын
Treated like a door mat.
@starseed1014
5 ай бұрын
Yup.
@aleshiathompson6213
Жыл бұрын
Your like the Big Brother that I never had. Thank you for looking out 🙏🏽
@vashtikelly6837
Жыл бұрын
This applies to my ex husband....we married young stayed married one year...I left and thirty years later when I ran into him I can tell he wants me to regret it and disgusted that I don't..😊
@MelissaleeCummings
8 ай бұрын
Still going forward never look back
@Msruthi91
2 жыл бұрын
I'm just gonna said that after my experience, men who are go away and came back. They not came back because they appreciate you. They came back only bc he need attention. Only bc those hot dates or babes on dating sites doesn't give then the attention that their want it. I don't blame men who behave like this. It is the time we are living in. Instant gratification. And ego. All of those. But one things is for sure. People who disappear and suddenly reapers their doesn't care about you. When their other hot babe or date reapers, their disappear again So don't fall for dudes who disappear or not reciprocates. Chances are theres other women in their life too
@marythecommutegirl284
2 жыл бұрын
Why all the fumbling? Why not just appreciate what you have and do right by it?
@EbonyHaven
2 жыл бұрын
Dudes demons are haunting him because he's a player and he's getting older. Not a good look at all... Wasted days and wasted nights.
@erich8265
2 жыл бұрын
All true. Yep. And I'm older and I am tryna fix myself...by myself
@pinolerak72
11 ай бұрын
I have been in that situation before. I let go and now I’m in peace.
@renzenker2526
2 жыл бұрын
I wish I had heard this before my marriage lasted 16 years!?!?!
@mineandmine4528
2 жыл бұрын
Me too !
@janaywilliams2238
Жыл бұрын
This just happened recently to me I'm glad I walked away he fumbled me bad really bad
@fely631
11 ай бұрын
I have made a decision to let go and move on with my life. this is my prayer.
@ginabartlett7038
2 жыл бұрын
Yes been in this situation.. he would get i upset with me.. he ended up not listening and while I was away, he had his ex sit at the dinner table and enjoy a meal with him and his sons.. I have turned my back, he has sent messages but seems to blame me.. but I don’t care.. I am pushing forward and finding my happiness within me xx love your videos ❤️🙏
@the1andonly77
2 жыл бұрын
💯 peace restored! 🙌🏻
@anissawilkins9601
11 ай бұрын
I had to let go he was trying to do evil to me and all i did was love him truly but ill let God deal with him because my love was real and im sooo hurt only God can deal with this type of evil
@silenceshae7121
2 жыл бұрын
I refuse to watch this gentlemen ; HOWEVER ..your videos are hitting ! You are better than before …THANK YOU for all this insight because it’s all TRUE S****
@seraphimspeaks4658
2 жыл бұрын
I...! That definitely happened with me. This information is very helpful. Thank you for this insight.
@n.j.williams2190
Жыл бұрын
Some will just try and say it was your fault.
@Taywill1989
Жыл бұрын
Favorite line and excuse when it’s not and they’re absolutely 100% the problem and causes them
@shaynabennett2014
2 жыл бұрын
I , restoring myself is key 🗝️ 👸👑
@makeupbycynthia1556
Жыл бұрын
Blocked him and moved 1500 miles He called and l told him l had nothing to hear and talk to him
@1RUTHGroup
Жыл бұрын
Peace, sweet peace. Full stop.
@lauradeskin3903
2 жыл бұрын
Great video, Derrick. Thanks!
@TC-yx3bs
Жыл бұрын
this is one of the best videos i’ve watched on this subject - thank you 🙏🏼💖
@AmyGomez-b3t
7 ай бұрын
He left me I didn’t leave him. I felt it in my soul he was doing something
@Blssd2bme15
9 ай бұрын
Amen…sure was
@rowenanelson1737
Жыл бұрын
JAXN you know about the covering too? You are woke brother! Much covering and blessings in the presence of a good woman. We leave with it when pushed to the edge.
@barbarajones7491
2 жыл бұрын
Yep. Resonates with me. I moved on. Now he’s coming back. But why?
@Nodanger649
Жыл бұрын
You’re brilliant thank you x
@NK-ek3kt
5 ай бұрын
Told me he was getting married to what I thought was his new rebound. And I finally gave up moved away and moved on and he came back to me
@cherrymceachin48
7 ай бұрын
I had been in that relationship for 40 years and that bastard will never ever cross my door again.
@vickygonzalez8876
7 күн бұрын
Thank you so much for this video ❤
@EstelleCreativeDesigns
11 ай бұрын
Peace be Still don't look back!!
@evelisisdavis7242
2 жыл бұрын
Thank you.
@Emily-ed6ed
11 ай бұрын
Great message
@cherrymceachin48
7 ай бұрын
I will never ever allow that bastard into my life again
@jillcabler2186
2 жыл бұрын
Sure have Many Times, EYE! Have learned from my mistakes have been celibate for the last 8 years and counting,Love ME some ME, This EMPRESS, ain't even bothered when they try to come back, just block em take back my Energy
@bibabeader5932
2 жыл бұрын
Yep on point …he came back 5 times. Done now !
@iiyoniezeHill
8 ай бұрын
Thank You
@JanneJohansen-p5w
11 ай бұрын
I get you i wont be back there
@marishaking8201
7 ай бұрын
Oh how I relate too well 💔
@stephanied.sanders7980
2 жыл бұрын
Good word...
@mcm6563
7 ай бұрын
Tkank you very much.
@paulettalove
Жыл бұрын
Thanks Derrick!!!
@maryomahony5648
Жыл бұрын
You are right ✅
@jackidezell3401
2 жыл бұрын
Yes mine too all my emotional energy. I was exhausted but please answer my question below Derrick. Thanks!
@davidjmackii4119
2 жыл бұрын
This what I’m dealing with right now
@petcal2004
10 ай бұрын
Too much pain
@mariaansola6649
11 ай бұрын
I was his blessing 🙌 🙏 ✨️ he did successfully well ...
@queenbell-moor1055
2 жыл бұрын
I'm in this position right now
@marshaclay8284
Жыл бұрын
I never go back
@tlbb8199
2 жыл бұрын
Aye ! Yep it makes sense.
@robynwilliams4594
2 жыл бұрын
Facts - nevaaaaaah!
@sabrinakirlew9444
Жыл бұрын
Don't wait please get out
@elizabethclarke2005
6 ай бұрын
Your EX is an EX for a reason.
@JaxnVideos
6 ай бұрын
Hi Elizabeth, I can sense your pain and frustration through your message. It's completely normal to feel lost and unsure in relationships, especially when you've been hurt in the past. Remember that you are deserving of love and respect, and it's important to set boundaries that protect your heart. It might be helpful to take some time to focus on self-love and personal growth before diving back into dating. If you're looking for more guidance and support, I would love for you to check out my new master class. You can find the link in the description of this video. Take care and remember that you are worthy of a healthy and fulfilling relationship.
@jenuwineblu450
Жыл бұрын
I just left
@feenixblayz77
10 ай бұрын
He fumbled like an armless quarterback. We can’t even kick no more cause I took those shoes back. She can have that. I’m attracting better while chasing down a heart attack 🎯💯💪🏾🔥✅❤️🔥
@1heidij
Жыл бұрын
Yup. Thanks 🙏
@DejaJenkins523
2 жыл бұрын
I... I have had 2 different guys come back to me tons of times.
@Blssd2bme15
9 ай бұрын
This is exactly what is going on …I
@taniellebrownBossMOMCEO
Жыл бұрын
I...18 years of waste
@lizabethmariematthews6546
11 ай бұрын
I dismissed him already..
@moniquedaundra
2 жыл бұрын
True.
@msreneeholmes3218
2 жыл бұрын
I just left my relationship he fumble me. Can u send me the link?
@lillyk2178
8 ай бұрын
🙏🏾
@lotusmccary9365
10 ай бұрын
Yes !
@valeriewilliams9028
Жыл бұрын
ME TO, I TOTALLYYYYYYYYY (AGREE)...
@poochiesquires1460
2 жыл бұрын
Oh he came back in his 50's trying to prove how good life was. He'd gained about 80 lbs, had had a heart attack, high blood pressure and diabetes, etc. He was a hot mess. But I wasn't having it. I was and still am happily married and had moved on. When he left me for another woman in the car I bought him I was devastated. It was the best thing he ever did for me. No one ever got me there ever again. I picked myself up and with God I made a good life for myself. Success is truly the best revenge.
@missdowntoearth6968
2 жыл бұрын
Good for you ❤️💪🏾
@ILoveUs_AmericanBWandGirls
2 жыл бұрын
I'm happy for you and it is a learning lesson for all BW. Coddling BM will get us no where.
@KA-yz2ld
2 жыл бұрын
Well done you 👏🏿👌🏿🌹
@stephaniecollins8904
2 жыл бұрын
❤️❤️❤️
@1010QUEEN7
2 жыл бұрын
@@ILoveUs_AmericanBWandGirls AMEN 🎯
@dogblues4829
2 жыл бұрын
Thank you
@pockahantiss
2 жыл бұрын
….A woman’s silence, speaks volumes-.✌🏾
@annettefaleye34
2 жыл бұрын
IIIIIII
@1010QUEEN7
2 жыл бұрын
🎯🎯🎯
@TheTouchofklass
2 жыл бұрын
YES!
@sueziezimmerman9218
2 жыл бұрын
I again
@joycesmith7108
Жыл бұрын
IIIIII
@TheTouchofklass
2 жыл бұрын
I got tired of being disrespected and devalued, so I cut off access to him. I knew that the best thing to do was to walk away.
@heathermetz6576
Жыл бұрын
I bet it was hard to do at first? I’m in the same boat. Every day gets a little better.
@shalalala868
Жыл бұрын
God will bless you with better!! Shalom, sister!!
@mariaaustria4435
11 ай бұрын
We are in the same situation here and yes walking away from him is one of the best decision I had made for myself. " The one that got away"
@alexandra7192
2 жыл бұрын
Don't worry if she mad. Worry if she tired
@ashm676
2 жыл бұрын
She shouldn't be worried or tired.
@akuasalaam490
2 жыл бұрын
Mmmph...
@shalalala868
2 жыл бұрын
@@ashm676 You're missing the point. Being "mad" is temporary; being "tired" or "fed up" means she's out the door and not returning!
@1010QUEEN7
2 жыл бұрын
I'm both mad and tired
@Sound7heWarCry
2 жыл бұрын
Very well said!
@GTUFHUFF1
2 жыл бұрын
I walked away! I'm at peace. I realized he was wasting my time
@freshmanjeans
2 жыл бұрын
Wasting ya time and be so envious of you
@mrs.camillewarrenempress3115
Жыл бұрын
Similar to mines
@shalandaclarke2303
6 ай бұрын
Same
@leebeex8
4 ай бұрын
I just did this tonight… no more
@bernitapennick5930
3 ай бұрын
Thank you
@veramaxey7899
2 жыл бұрын
I……Learned that I LOVE ME enough, to not SETTLE for less than I deserve. I DESERVE THE BEST, because I AM THE BEST asset to ANY man’s life.
@lzumm
2 жыл бұрын
Okay!
@applepie6559
2 жыл бұрын
Oh WOW, Very Well Said Sista!!👍🏾
@nataliatorkhova8793
2 жыл бұрын
oh no. best asset to my own life.
@1010QUEEN7
2 жыл бұрын
Yes yes and yes
@SamanthaBrookesTV
2 жыл бұрын
That PART!!!!!! 👆🏾👆🏾
@lavoungh1865
11 ай бұрын
You can't put a price tag on peace of mind. It's priceless.
@ka8155
8 ай бұрын
You can say that again.
@karlabernal15
2 жыл бұрын
When you get to a point where you get tired of trying it's time to walk away and never look back. If they can't see your worth he isn't worth your time. Let go for self love.
@Realness4sho
Жыл бұрын
💯💯💯💯💯✅💜
@funnygirlever
Жыл бұрын
Amen 💯
@etcwhatever
11 ай бұрын
For real...my first bf could have married me. We could have had kids by now. But he messed up badly...was immature and unreliable. I did love him. But i closed the chapter. I prefer my sanity.
@dyra5621
2 жыл бұрын
I let it go and let God...🙏🏽It hurt but I moved on...Silence is the silent killer. No contact was the best way for me to heal.
@shirleywillis9473
2 жыл бұрын
Yessssss Hunti
@Crystalnicole500
2 жыл бұрын
Same 🥰🥰🥰
@angelagray736
2 жыл бұрын
True
@tinaschultz1976
Жыл бұрын
Me too
@mariannecarter
Жыл бұрын
Going through this now
@kyamitchell7620
2 жыл бұрын
Once I peeped the game, I went no contact. This decision encouraged me to be in a period of solitude. The absolute best moment of my life.
@Realness4sho
Жыл бұрын
Amen💜
@Black.Unicorn05
9 ай бұрын
Amen
@antoinettecroker6384
9 ай бұрын
Amen!!!!!!!!!
@ka8155
8 ай бұрын
Same here
@ScaryToRemarry
2 жыл бұрын
You can do bad by yourself. Find someone who adds value to your life. If you decide to get in a committed relationship, you should benefit
@josieh4384
2 жыл бұрын
👏
@1010QUEEN7
2 жыл бұрын
Yes indeed because he never added to my life he tore it down
@michelejohnson2468
2 жыл бұрын
Real Talk 💯🙌🏼
@kaceekacee6572
Жыл бұрын
You can do Good by yourself. 😉
@kialaniwalker1064
Жыл бұрын
My nana tells me this all the time
@latoyamartin1434
2 жыл бұрын
This is funny! I just got a call from my ex doing exactly this. "I've changed", "there is nothing/no one else out her for me". Told him No. I have no energy, inclination, want/desire to go back to that mess... thanx Derick, you always on time.
@ashm676
2 жыл бұрын
All words no actions, you're better off without the stress and drama. Bad for your health, literally.
@esthero1994
2 жыл бұрын
7million fish out in the sea...you don't need that mess.🥂
@freshmanjeans
2 жыл бұрын
@@ashm676 this they love using words
@ericabelcher8760
2 жыл бұрын
@@ashm676 💯💯💯💯
@lillyvgutierrez9685
2 жыл бұрын
&)(
@PurpleYoda77
2 жыл бұрын
YESSSS!!!!! And I'm STILL living my best life without him...like my granny says peace is PRICELESS!😎
@j_u_ss_y
2 жыл бұрын
Amen
@stewartforeal1079
2 жыл бұрын
Yeap
@1010QUEEN7
2 жыл бұрын
Yes indeed 🎯
@ladyjinla1725
2 жыл бұрын
💯 % agree my peace is priceless
@Realness4sho
Жыл бұрын
💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💜
@alieshahill8937
2 жыл бұрын
I🙋🏻♀️ But I refused to take them back, despite all their tears and attempts. I give WAY too many chances so when I'm done, I'm done.
@ashm676
2 жыл бұрын
Exactly
@annstewart8506
2 жыл бұрын
Stay strong on your life journey 🌹. Make yourself number one if no one else will.
@ashm676
2 жыл бұрын
@@annstewart8506 ladies should stay strong together too
@sg5720
2 жыл бұрын
Yep- when a woman fed up. That is it.
@Arizona_lilly
2 жыл бұрын
The tears never stop
@JKNat9004
11 ай бұрын
"The hardest relationships teach us the best lessons.". That's got to be the best sentence I've heard in a long time.
@BabyDee61999
2 жыл бұрын
I was in that situation, but never again. I moved on 3 years ago. I have been single since, but at peace with myself.
@ashm676
2 жыл бұрын
The stress and drama they create would kill a person. Not worth it.
@tisaligon-roman6353
2 жыл бұрын
It is very hard in the beginning because you’re walking away from a part of yourself. And it does hurt because it needs healing. Let it heal in your time, space and single reality and all the love, time, and attention you gave him or her should now be given to yourself. Peace and blessings to all ♥️🙏🏼🕊
@healingthrulaughter9063
2 жыл бұрын
The best response
@1010QUEEN7
2 жыл бұрын
Peace like a river
@JMthdjhgbnjk
Жыл бұрын
True
@DandyDuh
11 ай бұрын
🙏🥹❣️
@jessim4154
10 ай бұрын
I…
@idearing
2 жыл бұрын
Yep!! When a women fed up. Nothing you can do about it. When the respect is gone I'm through.
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